GIRLFRIEND SHAMES Boyfriend's DISABLED BROTHER, What Happens Next Is Shocking | Dhar Mann

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  • @DharMann
    @DharMann  Год назад +718

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  • @KiwiAndPickle
    @KiwiAndPickle Год назад +66

    When Grace came along for Brayden, I started crying from how cute they look together.

  • @hannahhevansx
    @hannahhevansx Год назад +136

    so no ones gonna talk about how kind Karter was to his brother? I love how calmly Karter talks his brother while he’s anxious. It’s honestly so lovely to see brothers getting along so well 💗

    • @user-mq5do1zr5f
      @user-mq5do1zr5f 5 месяцев назад +6

      She was making me so mad throughout that whole video, because I'm actually a huge, avid supporter of people who have al kinds of disabilities and disorders whether it's autism, depression, or down syndrome and I've done a lot for people with disabilities and disorders. I would also choose Brayden over her.

    • @Nice_Guy_5
      @Nice_Guy_5 5 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠I totally agree with that but he was kind of rude to bring his brother to a planed date

    • @user-mq5do1zr5f
      @user-mq5do1zr5f 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Nice_Guy_5 maybe there was some kind of snafu or thing that happened and he was told to bring his brother along

    • @AnushkaDewan-i5n
      @AnushkaDewan-i5n 4 месяца назад +4

      @@user-mq5do1zr5fWell you cannot blame that woman, maybe she was a bit too rude, but it's totally logical. WHat kind of a woman would tolerate a stranger making weird noises and dropping water in your table and that too one a date???? Like seriously that guy was lucky that he ended up with a girlfriend. No disrespect to anyone in fact I do respect people with disabilities but I think Karter is the one here who is unable to think clearly with his mind. Like come on no woman like literally no woman would go on a date forget marrying with somebody who tells their girlfriend my brother(disabled or not) and I come as a package, except if she is a gold digger. Like what is he doing?????

    • @scottdecker9115
      @scottdecker9115 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Nice_Guy_5 Not only that, but he didn't even deem to inform her of his intentions, he just assumed she would be ok with it, which she obviously wasn't.

  • @flixey5107
    @flixey5107 Год назад +619

    She was obviously rude but I understand why she’s pissed because you wanna go on a romantic date with ur boyfriend, but u can’t get that one on one time if the boyfriends brother is coming a long.

    • @DEC19775
      @DEC19775 Год назад +25

      It doesn’t mean he will be there 24/7 it’s teaching us family comes first if the girlfriend/boyfriend don’t like tough

    • @holyexperience1976
      @holyexperience1976 Год назад +35

      ​@@DEC19775
      True, family comes first, but if you cannot date, then do not date. If cannot hire a sitter, accept cannot date. Yes, she was wrong for how she treated boyfriend's brother, but he was wrong for dating when he cannot have some exclusive time with her and did not let her know ahead of time he cannot go without his brother.

    • @DEC19775
      @DEC19775 Год назад +7

      @@holyexperience1976 yes at least you get the message some idiots on here are failing to see what he this video is trying to teach us

    • @KatzsGirlfriend
      @KatzsGirlfriend Год назад +6

      Exactly!! And the fact he didn't let her know she'd be expected to live with his brother before she agreed to be with him is incredibly dishonest

    • @flixey5107
      @flixey5107 Год назад +3

      @londonvlogger72 exactly

  • @kalandargandapur4820
    @kalandargandapur4820 Год назад +171

    He should have asked her for her permission if he was going to bring his brother along because what creeped her out is he brought his brother on a date without even telling her.

    • @scottdecker9115
      @scottdecker9115 5 месяцев назад +14

      Not to mention the fact that his brother single-handedly ruined the date for them because he couldn't sit still. I know people like that have anxiety issues, and I'm not trying to downplay it, but that type of behavior is specifically why they can get shamed. It's unfortunate, but it does happen.

    • @coolbeaniecreaturessqushpr4422
      @coolbeaniecreaturessqushpr4422 3 месяца назад +8

      @@scottdecker9115yep and the kid does look old enough to be home alone

    • @Prettywoah123
      @Prettywoah123 3 месяца назад

      ​@@scottdecker9115 he has a severe disability called Down Syndrome. Just because he has a disability doesn't mean that he has to be treated like trash.

  • @glojdval7431
    @glojdval7431 Год назад +103

    This made me cry I have a disabled brother and it breaks my heart to see how my “friends” treated my brother right in front of me

    • @Spiralredd
      @Spiralredd Год назад +8

      Exactly cuz they aren't really your friends if that's how they treat your family. In all honesty I wouldn't mind dating a special needs person by themselves.

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад +5

      Tbh on the first meet her behavior was justified. I mean a date is a male and female it would be weird to have another person. And he told her friend that she was going on a date with him ,which again anger is justified. Brayden also was making a scene in restraunt. So you cant really blame the girl. She wanted a good experience with her boyfriend and not his brother

    • @Spiralredd
      @Spiralredd Год назад

      @@reflexrefractor yeah but people with down syndrome can't really help it sometimes

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад +1

      @@Spiralredd I know but new people just take time to put up with them. She needed time to converse with brayden

    • @dominicchester0328
      @dominicchester0328 Год назад +3

      Those friends aren’t your friends! Sad never judge someone until your in there shoes!

  • @twentyonepilotsfantøp
    @twentyonepilotsfantøp Год назад +67

    The guy’s brother: “What’s the problem?”
    The girl: “I’m looking at it”
    Me: “We bout’ to get some beef up in here…”😂

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +5

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @twentyonepilotsfantøp
      @twentyonepilotsfantøp Год назад

      @@Zachboy007 yea

  • @jonathanadair6847
    @jonathanadair6847 6 месяцев назад +30

    I love how Brayden’s brother is fully supportive of him and always treats him well.

  • @dillonpercy1058
    @dillonpercy1058 Год назад +126

    They were both in the wrong. He should have told her that he's ringing his brother, she could have been less mean.

    • @alanhermesjr9949
      @alanhermesjr9949 7 месяцев назад +4

      Bro, she’s in the wrong, not him

    • @bambiesdoomsdayblue
      @bambiesdoomsdayblue 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@alanhermesjr9949 so thirdwheeling every single date without notifying the other person ok? Are couples not allowed to have alone time and do things by themselves? Yes she was very mean but I can’t blame her for being upset, feeling like she can’t spend proper time with her boyfriend

    • @MASTERPLANNER12
      @MASTERPLANNER12 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@bambiesdoomsdayblue ye but it’s not the brother’s fault, he can’t stay by himself which is why karter brought him, think abt it. It’s not just a regular third wheel y’all talking about

    • @bambiesdoomsdayblue
      @bambiesdoomsdayblue 5 месяцев назад

      @@MASTERPLANNER12 still I have special needs too and even I’d be pissed

    • @TheHalifornian
      @TheHalifornian 15 дней назад

      He shouldn’t have to, if you are human then it shouldn’t matter!

  • @Dprjaev
    @Dprjaev Год назад +3543

    She didn’t need to be so mean, but if my boyfriend brought his brother on a date without telling me I would be mad too 😭

    • @rudypaulapaularudy4959
      @rudypaulapaularudy4959 Год назад +419

      I know like why are you bringing your brother on our date.

    • @hiba6057
      @hiba6057 Год назад +71

      Fr

    • @candlequeen8471
      @candlequeen8471 Год назад +132

      Agreed, in this video, literally everyone sucks except Brayden and the new girlfriends.

    • @Intonite
      @Intonite Год назад +88

      I guess he couldn’t leave him at home and maybe he just wanted her to bond with him

    • @candlequeen8471
      @candlequeen8471 Год назад +151

      @@Intonite That's when you tell the girlfriend first. She has every right to back out, albeit not as rudely as she did, and not with the anger directed at Brayden. I would have been mad at Karter.

  • @JaaronBrice
    @JaaronBrice Год назад +1395

    "Sometimes in life, you don't realize what you have until it's gone." Big facts! 💯

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 Год назад +12

      Right

    • @kenji_XOXO-q2p
      @kenji_XOXO-q2p Год назад +8

      Yeah....my mom's mom died she did bad things but the week before she really tried to get better. My mom wouldn't talk to her till she better now she regret me and her bf the only one out of the whole family that would talk to her I miss her she was my bff

    • @lil_vexed7932
      @lil_vexed7932 Год назад +3

      @@meahdahlgren6537 😮
      M

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 Год назад +2

      @@lil_vexed7932 bye

    • @CJColvin
      @CJColvin Год назад +2

      Exactly mate

  • @Jinosaka89
    @Jinosaka89 3 месяца назад +16

    5:16 Braydon: Hey, don’t talk to him that way.
    Gwen: Wtf are you gonna do about it, huh?!

  • @Duckeey
    @Duckeey Год назад +255

    Understand where she's coming from completely. Even though she didn't treat the situation the best way it's extremely weird to have a brother tag along for a date. Especially when she isn't told in advance. She had every right to leave and break up.

    • @MuhammadRaffayFarhan
      @MuhammadRaffayFarhan Год назад +21

      If she was not told that his boyfriend's brother was coming, she atleast shouldn't have said "Me or your brother" WTF would you want someone to leave their DISABLE BROTHER???!!!! And by the way she also didn't treat him nicely

    • @flajer7363
      @flajer7363 Год назад +15

      Not at all she could of done so much more things then being rude and could of said just next time tell me ur bringing him for heads up.

    • @chuechang6330
      @chuechang6330 Год назад +10

      It’s weird to bring someone like that to a date with your girlfriend/boyfriend. It’s like you’re going on a date on with your brother.

    • @charlottethecat6302
      @charlottethecat6302 10 месяцев назад +6

      Why so many nasty cruel comments trolls

    • @vector3613
      @vector3613 9 месяцев назад +7

      People are becoming more and more self cantered, they care little for family

  • @nickiemickie05
    @nickiemickie05 Год назад +38

    Beuh , she tried dating one guy and she was that disappointed to try and get back to him... I'm sure he's not the only one she could find but sure twist the story just so she gets to be the bad one

  • @DanDaMan92790
    @DanDaMan92790 Год назад +1216

    Never mess with a person with a disability OR their family!

  • @EverettNightshade
    @EverettNightshade Год назад +172

    It's another example of treating others the way you want to be treated. Life's hard when someone has a disability, but treating that person unfairly makes the other person bad.

  • @Phins.Productions
    @Phins.Productions Год назад +70

    5:42 really gave me them “is it me or the PS5” vibes

    • @JulioRamirez-7745
      @JulioRamirez-7745 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@Cheezit-Games 5:35 Let's kick Gwen because that's what she gets for not waiting until Karter was done telling her what he said when she forced him to choose her or Brayden when he doesn't want to at all

    • @Real_Lizard
      @Real_Lizard 6 месяцев назад +1

      𓆌

    • @Phins.Productions
      @Phins.Productions 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Real_Lizard ???

    • @Real_Lizard
      @Real_Lizard 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Phins.Productions 𓆈

    • @xaviidk
      @xaviidk 5 месяцев назад

      I'd rather take a copy of vib ribbon and PS1 then her

  • @briannablackwood4664
    @briannablackwood4664 Год назад +32

    The ending was so cute🥺😍 and Brayden is adorable, aww❤❤

  • @adamdavis5383
    @adamdavis5383 Год назад +95

    Honestly, that girl, who is mean, is actually really pretty and a good actor, which she definitely new from the OGs. You should treat people with disabilities with respect. We're all humans and we all bleed the same blood.

    • @dantazboxing
      @dantazboxing Год назад +1

      Maybe not bring someone to a date unannounced? Another lesson I learned.

    • @JulioRamirez-7745
      @JulioRamirez-7745 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@dantazboxingYeah, it's wrong for Gwen to leave Karter because she can't do that, and she doesn't deserve to be rude to him or Brayden

  • @taurussho86
    @taurussho86 Год назад +38

    "we're not on a double date"... 😂 Damn, that was a slap in her face.... Go Brayden 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿😈

  • @safsaf4145
    @safsaf4145 Год назад +20

    I mean how are you supposed to act like a couple when someone’s bringing their sibling along all the time 😂

  • @hannahkrug1923
    @hannahkrug1923 Год назад +250

    Down syndrome or other disabilities treat others the way you want to be treated. This was the golden rule in my middle and thus repeated it to my nieces lots of times. Despite getting tired of hearing it, one should be kind to them

    • @mullaalovee
      @mullaalovee Год назад +1

      they seem nice and funny to be around ian get why people bully them

    • @Theunicorn2012
      @Theunicorn2012 Год назад +1

      Down syndrome or ofher disabilities treat others the way you want to be treated. This was the golden rule in my middle and thus repeated it to my nieces lots of times. Despite getting tired of hearing it, one should be kind to them

    • @PvzLovesMinecraft
      @PvzLovesMinecraft Год назад

      People with are just normal people with flat faces

    • @ImmortalChanger
      @ImmortalChanger Год назад +2

      I don't think that down syndrome is a disability. I have an uncle with down syndrome and he's perfectly capable like anyone else. He only has some trouble speaking, but not enough to make a conversation impossible.

    • @OnlyInCSO
      @OnlyInCSO Год назад +3

      Yep, down syndrome people are like us, they live with ups and DOWNs

  • @k12.debbiecake_
    @k12.debbiecake_ Год назад +188

    Underrated comment: I love the way the disabled brother stood up for this brother 😭 “Hey! Don’t talk to him that way!” ❤️

    • @JulioRamirez-7745
      @JulioRamirez-7745 Год назад +3

      Gwen leaving Karter is wrong

    • @JulioRamirez-7745
      @JulioRamirez-7745 9 месяцев назад +1

      @TaliahRose15 You're right about that, and it's best to make Gwen go back to dating Karter, right?

    • @Durtle.
      @Durtle. 7 месяцев назад

      You can’t call your own comment underrated it doesn’t work like that

    • @k12.debbiecake_
      @k12.debbiecake_ 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Durtle. see anyone else make the same comment? no. so it’s underrated 😐🙂

    • @Durtle.
      @Durtle. 7 месяцев назад

      @@k12.debbiecake_ yes I do

  • @JstStandingNextToYou
    @JstStandingNextToYou Год назад +265

    Ok I get it but who wouldn't be bothered when you're going on a date and suddently find out someone will be tagging along? I mean it's meant to be just the two of you

  • @ash6202
    @ash6202 Год назад +24

    That last scene was really a goosebumps. It really teaches us how we should see the people and treat people. Just be good, Happy and help others. ❤

  • @iiii12345
    @iiii12345 Год назад +268

    love how at the end she didn’t storm out or get mad like they usually do but just smiled and learnt a lesson

    • @munchomonkey3003
      @munchomonkey3003 Год назад +26

      She seems more mature than the other antagonists she didn't beg or try really hard she just sighed and moved on, even looking happy for them

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +15

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад +3

      @@Zachboy007 yeah dude

    • @Nekohime-sama
      @Nekohime-sama Год назад +2

      @@Zachboy007 I understand that yeah it is difficult to have to put up with someone who has disabilities trust I know as I have someone in my family with disabilities. But sometimes it just takes time and patience. Also group homes are not always ideal. I’ve heard that some of them do not treat the people right.

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад

      @@Nekohime-sama, it is not the responsibility of others, though.

  • @LindaChapel-zc8km
    @LindaChapel-zc8km Год назад +855

    To be honest I don't like when people think just because someone has a disability meaning they weird but to be honest they just different in their own way like everyone else is different in their own way and to be honest we should treat everyone equally no matter the religion or nationality or disability

    • @gtrain1539
      @gtrain1539 Год назад +10

      I agree

    • @AmericanRCVKAR8199
      @AmericanRCVKAR8199 Год назад +8

      Exactly!

    • @AmericanRCVKAR8199
      @AmericanRCVKAR8199 Год назад +10

      I've dyscalculia, dyspraxia, DCD/dyspraxia and others and i still get bullied.

    • @xFitzMan91x
      @xFitzMan91x Год назад +13

      I have a disability myself and personally it bums me out. In one of my old jobs I got treated unfairly and was reported just because of it, which has made it hard to accept for who I am just because I have a disability. One thing I can't stand about having a disability is being treated like a misfit towards other normal people!

    • @ЛидияВулева
      @ЛидияВулева Год назад +2

      I agree

  • @angeleyes2941
    @angeleyes2941 Год назад +129

    When the girl at the end said she felt like she hit the lottery because if he treats his brother that well imagine how he'll treat his wife. That hit hard! If they treat their mom, daughter, grandparents and other close relatives well imagine how they will treat their woman. Always check out how they treat their family, and you will know if you won a prize or not

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +4

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @TheChevyjr
      @TheChevyjr Год назад +6

      @@Zachboy007 and I’m on the guy’s side. Blood is thicker than water

    • @16shogunelitegreen
      @16shogunelitegreen Год назад +4

      ​@@Zachboy007 Simp. She was the one in the wrong

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +1

      @@16shogunelitegreen, you really think he has any right to think any girl is going to put up with him bringing his brother along on every date? Also, you honestly think the restaurant patrons are going to put up with his behavior an entire meal?

    • @16shogunelitegreen
      @16shogunelitegreen Год назад

      @@Zachboy007 That's why if the girls aren't supportive, the guys know they aren't the ones for them. So it's was a good thing the dude found a girlfriend who knows what he goes through

  • @MacsonSEA
    @MacsonSEA Год назад +14

    People talking about bringing his brother to his dates but if his brother's girlfriend is mean to him, how much more if a caretaker/stranger takes care of him. Brother loves him so much respect.

    • @Augustlove801
      @Augustlove801 8 месяцев назад +1

      She’d be dumped immediately if it were me. Mistreat my family you gotta go

  • @pokemontrainer9285
    @pokemontrainer9285 Год назад +19

    I really like how nice the brother is him and that he chose his brother instead.

  • @bbdonut1197
    @bbdonut1197 Год назад +10

    it was so sweet that Brayden said: “I helped pick them out” it was amazing! I love Brayden!❤❤❤❤

  • @Xxheadless
    @Xxheadless Год назад +21

    "Good luck finding a girl who will put up with this" *goes further into the restaurant* "she has stormed out of the restaurant"

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +2

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

  • @girllitsMia
    @girllitsMia Год назад +5

    I love how the brother wasn’t mean and was on his girlfriends side

  • @quixzfn7423
    @quixzfn7423 Год назад +213

    I’m a boy, but if I was a girl, I would be pretty upset, like you can’t even get mad at her. Going on a date and having someone tag along that I wouldn’t even know and then say that we were on a date would be terrible😂. And making a big scene in a fancy restaurant, yeah I would leave too😅

    • @Callofdutydudes
      @Callofdutydudes Год назад +5

      So true man

    • @michellelohde8683
      @michellelohde8683 Год назад +9

      @@Callofdutydudes i dont blame her she should tell her date i cant go with your brother on our date the brother should stay home with someone eles .

    • @DANimations09
      @DANimations09 Год назад +13

      To be honest, although she was in the wrong, I’m kind of with Gwen as not only did Karter bring his brother without telling her, but brayden shaking the table was clearly bothering her and Karter didn’t do anything to try to get him to stop. I get that he can’t control being anxious but you need to be firm when you need to.

    • @michellelohde8683
      @michellelohde8683 Год назад

      @@DANimations09 i dont like brother he should told his brother stop shaking the table he brayan should not taking to gwen she arsk him not talk to her and her friends .

    • @michellelohde8683
      @michellelohde8683 Год назад

      @@DANimations09 if was me i arsk my date what he doing if he bring his brother along our date go i am out or he cant go date for 2 not 3 .

  • @caseymarie1323
    @caseymarie1323 Год назад +137

    From being in a relationship unwilling to have understanding towards struggles to being with someone who loves and accepts the significant others family regardless of disability without being asked to, is just proof that that person has a heart big enough to fill any cracks.

  • @sheikhsultankhalifa6687
    @sheikhsultankhalifa6687 Год назад +91

    "Sometimes in life, you don't realize what you have until it's gone." So true! I know it's a new lesson but it's important! There are some people who are selfish because his brother had a condition, Second lesson : "Appreciate the things that you do have until it's gone."

    • @Theunicorn2012
      @Theunicorn2012 Год назад +3

      "Sometimes in life, you don't realize what you have until it's gone." So true! l know it's a new lesson but it's important! There are some people who are selfish becauasw his brother had a condition, Second lesson : "Appreciate the things that you do have until it's gone."

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад +4

      Tbh on the first meet her behavior was justified. I mean a date is a male and female it would be weird to have another person. And he told her friend that she was going on a date with him ,which again anger is justified. Brayden also was making a scene in restraunt. So you cant really blame the girl. She wanted a good experience with her boyfriend and not his brother

    • @ArabellaGirll
      @ArabellaGirll Год назад +2

      @@reflexrefractor yea the first date should’ve been more personal and not have a 3rd wheel

  • @shannelstarrbaked8369
    @shannelstarrbaked8369 8 месяцев назад +26

    He’s a sweet guy for being his brothers caregiver! But yea i agree, he should’ve told her in advance about his brother tagging along.

  • @Artuar3CRaFT
    @Artuar3CRaFT Год назад +234

    “Sometimes in life, you don’t realize what you have until it's gone.” Very true, well said. 👏🏼🙏🏼💜

  • @holyexperience1976
    @holyexperience1976 Год назад +13

    While the girl was wrong for how she acted towards her boyfriend's brother, he was wrong as well. If he cannot find a sitter for his brother, and must constantly have him around, then accept he cannot have a dating life. Just like, many single moms accept they cannot have a dating life because they are busy with work and their young kids who cannot watch themselves.

  • @classickids1015
    @classickids1015 Год назад +12

    Although she was overly rude about it, the boyfriend was being inconsiderate.

    • @TheKnoxvicious
      @TheKnoxvicious 11 месяцев назад +3

      He thought he told her and apologized. She was still a B

    • @SFAvgeek
      @SFAvgeek 6 месяцев назад +1

      He should have talked to her privately and asked her if it’s ok so that there would be no problem in the future. He could have done that before they left, but he didn’t so he had it coming.

  • @Sassysugar183-r3y
    @Sassysugar183-r3y 9 месяцев назад +5

    I mean I would be pretty upset too if my date brought his brother along. Although the other girl should've tried to be more understanding of his situation. He really should've given her a heads up, before the date.

  • @lily-rq3so
    @lily-rq3so Год назад +156

    To be honest, if I were her I would feel the same way. Not in a way that's cruel to her brother (obviously) but if I was going on a date with my boyfriend I wouldn't want his brother coming, even if it wasn't a date I would rather go places without him because I'm in a relationship with HIM not both of them.

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +16

      THANK YOU! SAME THING WITH HAVING TO LIVE WITH HIS BROTHER.

    • @Maxslife-iq2vc
      @Maxslife-iq2vc Год назад +9

      I know he shouldn’t have expected her to just agnore him like

    • @yoongiverse72
      @yoongiverse72 Год назад +12

      Exactly and he said "we are a packaged deal" like wth

    • @terrence3905
      @terrence3905 Год назад +4

      ​@@yoongiverse72 I have a disabled brother as well and I always say "We only come in a double package" as a joke while he laughs. A few months ago I brought him to my boyfriend's place because my parents weren't home and he wanted to go along. My bf treats him like family. I can tell u sometimes it's nerve wracking to date someone because u don't know whether they'll accept ur sibling

    • @saphiir
      @saphiir Год назад +1

      FRRRRRR

  • @underworldprincess
    @underworldprincess Год назад +6

    Kudos to Karter for sticking for his brother and leaving his ableist, pathetic excuse of a girlfriend.

  • @ayla9905
    @ayla9905 Год назад +17

    Sometimes in life you don't realize what you have until its gone

  • @theunknown6467
    @theunknown6467 Год назад +12

    Not gonna lie I understood why she was upset because he didn’t really tell her that his brother was special and that he would be coming along. But she was very cruel with how she treated his brother. She should have just kept her thoughts to herself and should have been nice to his brother and also tried to give him a chance because the brother wasn’t doing anything wrong in the video

  • @dominicliner1609
    @dominicliner1609 Год назад +24

    Never judge others because it will not end good for you.

  • @octopusadventures6014
    @octopusadventures6014 Год назад +7

    5:14 did anyone else not expect him to talk then? He is sweet looking after his brother ❤

  • @NadiaJ194
    @NadiaJ194 Год назад +65

    I have autism and growing up I was placed in these girls groups with other disabled peers amd tbh I was so young and immature and being seen in public with these kids made me feel just like this girl is some ppl grow our of it and some people dont but sometimes having a disability can be a total blessing amd not a burden ❤

    • @John-lw9fs
      @John-lw9fs Год назад

      nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i feel u

    • @John-lw9fs
      @John-lw9fs Год назад

      well niw really because i dont have it but i cant believe how much pain it is gang

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад +1

      Tbh on the first meet her behavior was justified. I mean a date is a male and female it would be weird to have another person. And he told her friend that she was going on a date with him ,which again anger is justified. Brayden also was making a scene in restraunt. So you cant really blame the girl. She wanted a good experience with her boyfriend and not his brother

    • @NadiaJ194
      @NadiaJ194 Год назад

      ​@@reflexrefractor in that sense I agree I wouldnt personally like to go out with my boyfriend all the time if his younger sister was always tagging along their kind of a religious family and she use to be super nice to me but now she makes me feel bad about myself so I kinda understand...

    • @phuveswaz
      @phuveswaz Год назад +2

      @CoryxKenshin ReUpload with the "disability" part meaning your saying autism isnt a disability, it actually is. From medical and legal standpoints, autism is considered a disability. This is due to the neurological, psychological, and social impacts it can have on one’s life. Not to mention since when were you the one to say whats a blessing or not?

  • @MrRubik2011
    @MrRubik2011 Год назад +6

    My little sister called gracie mae has downs syndrome and ADHD so I'm literally in tears right now because it's so sweet to watch this and people with downs syndrome often have to live with a sibling when they get older and its so sad the way she treated him and the end made me brake down because its so cute to see him on a date and being so nice to her 😢😢❤❤❤

    • @aidenbutrick6496
      @aidenbutrick6496 Год назад

      My little brother has down syndrome so it hits extra hard to see other people treat others with down syndrome so poorly makes me want to hug them and tell them it's going to be alright.

  • @NinaMalina2011
    @NinaMalina2011 Год назад +22

    5:53
    "I can buy myself flowers"

  • @dlextjmanyt1717
    @dlextjmanyt1717 Год назад +84

    My dad is a special needs teacher and seeing people with a disability being treated this way hits close to home since I know a lot of those kids very well.

    • @shiralleehaggart72
      @shiralleehaggart72 Год назад

      Well said. Also someone in this comment section referring the disable young man as 'that disabled' person. Shows how cold hearted, self centred and damn right ignorant as well.

    • @grandmastermario3695
      @grandmastermario3695 7 месяцев назад

      So you're dad goes around shaking tables then wow

  • @KoraggRules
    @KoraggRules Год назад +2

    I’m sure Gwen will find another Prince Charming like Carter soon…hope she learned a valuable lesson.

  • @roxysmom1986
    @roxysmom1986 Год назад +14

    There was so many tears shed through this video because it was extremely hard for me to watch. The way Gwen treated Brayden was extremely hard to watch. I have two brothers, older and younger and I grew up the disabled sibling. I have a developmental disability along with a developmental delay. I am so grateful that I grew up. I was just my brother sister. I am closer in age to my younger brother and I am extremely fortunate that his friends excepted me for who I am and not for my disability. I am extremely grateful that my older brothers girlfriends now his wife excepted me for who I am and not for my disability. Because I know much like this video, there are people out there who have disabled siblings, who are not excepted by their friends and or significant others. I am so glad the ending of the video turned out the way it did.

  • @Jayce_sports
    @Jayce_sports Год назад +60

    Sometimes in life, you don't realize what you have until its gone." Awesome quote dhar!

  • @curiouscanine3024
    @curiouscanine3024 Год назад +11

    8:51 omg I love Grace ❤❤❤

    • @MinecraftGamer-el4hd
      @MinecraftGamer-el4hd 6 месяцев назад +1

      Amazing grace song?

    • @curiouscanine3024
      @curiouscanine3024 6 месяцев назад

      The girl Brayden was with in the end. Her name is Grace

    • @MinecraftGamer-el4hd
      @MinecraftGamer-el4hd 6 месяцев назад

      @@curiouscanine3024 no but I’m talking about the amazing grace horror scary song

  • @Mrredunited
    @Mrredunited Год назад +5

    The Family before all. Always.

  • @emmy_corgi8809
    @emmy_corgi8809 Год назад +124

    Okay, she didn’t have to be so mean about it, but at the same time, I would also be pissed if I was dating someone and at the last minute they told me they had to bring their brother along

    • @halfknight2310
      @halfknight2310 Год назад +8

      Agreed. Should have told her before hand. But she shouldn’t be so rude about it. I get it. It’s a bit annoying. But if you love someone, you need to be understanding of their situation. Sure it can be annoying to have something like this happen. But there are ways to make the best of it.
      Also. I doubt he takes his brother with him everywhere. This was probably just a time where he needed to watch over his brother since whoever normally does it is probably away.

    • @wendydoe573
      @wendydoe573 Год назад +8

      Agreed. Especially a first date. He had plenty of time to let her know. And he still insisted on bringing him along. Obviously Brayden has been alone before, so it shouldn't of been an issue to let him stay home. The both of them were wrong in the way they handled things. He needs to learn to communicate and she could have told him in a nicer way. I would of been pissed off to. I would tell him calmly how it made me feel and not in front of Brayden

    • @RobinMaripuu
      @RobinMaripuu 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@halfknight2310 you did not have to write so much

    • @TrevorBarnhill-g9u
      @TrevorBarnhill-g9u 8 месяцев назад

      @@wendydoe573 I agree. I felt like this video was trying to paint her as THE villain. But he was wrong for not being upfront about Brayden in the beginning. It was like, "SURPRISE". Brayden, I felt, was just an innocent bystander in the situation. Gwen should have taken Karter privately and told him in a nicer way how she felt. But Karter should have told her before the date that he had a disabled brother that lives with him. Brayden seemed like he was efficient enough to stay home for a few hours by himself. But if Karter still didn't feel comfortable with that, he could have asked a friend or neighbor to stop by and keep an eye on him while he and Gwen went on their date.

    • @JulioRamirez-7745
      @JulioRamirez-7745 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@TrevorBarnhill-g9u 5:35 I'm so mad at Gwen because she forced Karter to choose her or Brayden when he doesn't want to because she can't tell him what to do

  • @kousaaa292
    @kousaaa292 Год назад +21

    6:24 karters face😂

  • @EllyCatLady
    @EllyCatLady Год назад +78

    This hits close to home. I am disabled and handicapped. Luckily, my sister’s husband is the sweetest person ever he treats me like family and he treats his wife like a queen and yeah, he treats me good as well. He’s the best father ever seen and the best husband to my sister and he doesn’t mind if I tagalong whenever they want to go somewhere

    • @CoryHotWheelz
      @CoryHotWheelz Год назад +9

      @CoryxKenshin ReUpload I am physically handicapped as well. Not all disabilities are mental. I have an associates degree in IT Networking. There is some brain damage because of my Cerebral Palsy, and I am also on the autism spectrum, but I know how to read and write, I have some mental quirks, due to being on the autism spectrum. But, other than that I live a pretty normal life. I just have to use a wheelchair to get around instead of walking.

    • @C0mpetable
      @C0mpetable Год назад +1

      Nobody reading allat

    • @EllyCatLady
      @EllyCatLady Год назад +1

      @coryxkenshinreupload4359 at least my grammar is more proper than yours. :)

    • @EllyCatLady
      @EllyCatLady Год назад +1

      @@CoryHotWheelz thank you very much for standing up for me. I appreciate that.

    • @anonymousssss4030
      @anonymousssss4030 Год назад

      @@C0mpetable and nobody cares

  • @miriabdullayev1551
    @miriabdullayev1551 Месяц назад +2

    2:16 im dying at this moment 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @stevongibbons812
    @stevongibbons812 Год назад +25

    Those videos are life lessons for people to do good in the future.

  • @TKeysLyfe
    @TKeysLyfe Год назад +71

    I can definitely relate to this video. Some people really don't understand what it's like to be a FullTime Caregiver to a disabled relative. It really is a package deal...Great video & message

    • @emmajones5470
      @emmajones5470 Год назад +5

      Me to

    • @Movietuff
      @Movietuff Год назад +8

      Good luck finding relationships if you even bring that disabled person to your dates.

    • @jashauwha6291
      @jashauwha6291 Год назад +4

      Yea I agree completely, and she was definitely rude, but at the same time I think its important to let the person you’re going to date know that you are going to have to bring your brother with you everywhere, including on romantic dates.

  • @alienprototype7978
    @alienprototype7978 Год назад +16

    I love how this channel provides people awareness and how people treat others.

  • @pjnorsworthy9327
    @pjnorsworthy9327 15 дней назад +1

    Smh poor kid really didn't deserve to be treated like that you can tell he has a huge heart

  • @Marleto123
    @Marleto123 Год назад +18

    5:10 “hey don’t talk to him that way” 😶

  • @preelee8849
    @preelee8849 Год назад +7

    Like I said to you all, there's always consequences of their shameful behaviors. That's what she gets for running her mouth like that!😅

  • @penguinarlo
    @penguinarlo Год назад +21

    people with disabilities shouldn't be treated differently just because they behave differently, they're just as normal of a human as others are. everyone has their own way of behaving, communicating, learning, and understanding, that's what makes us human.

  • @BooBearBen
    @BooBearBen Год назад +2

    They took "If she down i'm down" to a whole new level

  • @Ronaldopaul7
    @Ronaldopaul7 Год назад +18

    dhar man I am such a huge fan since I was 11 and your videos changed my whole life ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @W.montop
    @W.montop Год назад +147

    "Sometimes in life, you don't realize what you have until its gone." Awesome quote dhar!

    • @Broski-ft1ei
      @Broski-ft1ei Год назад +4

      You act like he made that quote up himself

    • @iz7hm
      @iz7hm Год назад +5

      He didnt even make the quote Lmao he literally never gives credit to quotes

    • @JustNoyNoy
      @JustNoyNoy Год назад +1

      you know he didn't invent that right?

    • @SMT_Taylor
      @SMT_Taylor Год назад +1

      Wow, this is the 10000th time He used that dang that sentence

  • @eugene6-9
    @eugene6-9 Год назад +54

    Why do people treat people with slight diferences differently. I don't get this world. People are cruel and it sucks.

    • @Theunicorn2012
      @Theunicorn2012 Год назад

      Why do people treat people with slight diferences differently. l don't get this world. People are cruel and it sucks.

    • @eugene6-9
      @eugene6-9 Год назад

      @@Theunicorn2012 What was your point, too be funny because its not funny. Its also not cute. You probably would act the same way as the lady in the video.

    • @SuperJacob2006
      @SuperJacob2006 Год назад +1

      @@Theunicorn2012 Are you copying @MaLaki? 🤨

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +4

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @bimbim37_
      @bimbim37_ Год назад +1

      @@Zachboy007 karter should have told the girlfriend that the brother has a disability and is tagging along, she's able to back out whenever

  • @shortstories2023
    @shortstories2023 8 месяцев назад +2

    GIRLFRIEND SHAMES Boyfriend's DISABLED BROTHER

  • @YunamaRitter
    @YunamaRitter Год назад +21

    Ok but taking your brother on your date in general is just extreme

  • @MerlynAndrea
    @MerlynAndrea Год назад +4

    Why was the brother so adorable 💗

  • @Taycatnews
    @Taycatnews Год назад +6

    Him: I bought you flowers 💐
    Me: oh well 😂

  • @AlvaroEspino-ky9il
    @AlvaroEspino-ky9il Год назад +2

    Brayden and grace are perfect for each other ❤

  • @taimz4233
    @taimz4233 Год назад +4

    It’s so cute how she brought her disabled sister to go on a date with his disabled brother as a double date 🤍

  • @AE-qs9ox
    @AE-qs9ox Год назад +11

    This.. was beautiful 😢😊 hit me right in the heart ❤️

  • @PochaccoDucki
    @PochaccoDucki 4 дня назад +1

    9:05 that just warmed my heart 🥹💗

  • @kaitlin4686
    @kaitlin4686 Год назад +6

    Never forget to love someone even if they have a disability you'll get loved the same way the way you love them❤❤

  • @pennyallen9488
    @pennyallen9488 Год назад +16

    Such a sweet ending. It warms my heart. I'm 53 and my brother who has down syndrome is 48. When our mom passed 3 years ago I became his guardian. I wouldn't change it for anything.

    • @hoodashivanie
      @hoodashivanie Год назад

      I’m so sorry, but your story is rlly sweet 🥲😊

    • @inbaconwetrust1739
      @inbaconwetrust1739 Год назад

      ​@@hoodashivanie don't be sorry my sister has down syndrome and she is a amazing would not trade it for anything

    • @hoodashivanie
      @hoodashivanie Год назад

      @@inbaconwetrust1739 no, sorry for his loss, cuz his mom died and my mom’s cousin’s son has Down syndrome as well

  • @ITSS.LALITO
    @ITSS.LALITO Год назад +30

    U shouldn't ever be ashamed of a disabled person bcz we are all human 💕

    • @Thatonequitekid2
      @Thatonequitekid2 Год назад +1

      Are we? Lol

    • @mullaalovee
      @mullaalovee Год назад

      @@Thatonequitekid2 are shidd what yu think we is robot df 😂

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @phuveswaz
      @phuveswaz Год назад

      whos "we"?

    • @mullaalovee
      @mullaalovee Год назад

      @@phuveswaz we yu a human duhh 😭😭

  • @Spider-Man715
    @Spider-Man715 Год назад +2

    When I saw the two disabled people I died from cutenesssss they are so cuteee

  • @TheMidnadarkness
    @TheMidnadarkness Год назад +73

    It’s not a shame for having siblings that has Down syndrome . One of my childhood friends has a older brother that has Down syndrome and he is a smart guy .

  • @nathanyiscool6062
    @nathanyiscool6062 Год назад +23

    Never shame anybody who looks disabled, Because they can be nice one day❤

    • @wandaantoine5925
      @wandaantoine5925 Год назад +1

      CAMPTH GUN WITH ME! (Im only 3 years old so DO NOT BULy me)

    • @nathanyiscool6062
      @nathanyiscool6062 Год назад

      ​@@wandaantoine5925 your problaly like 13 years old

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @nathanyiscool6062
      @nathanyiscool6062 Год назад

      @@Zachboy007 Cant you see the comment i put? Never shame a disabled person, Because they can be nice one day im not talking about sides

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад

      @@nathanyiscool6062, not shaming! I am saying no woman is going to tolerate having to have him accompany them everywhere; and no restaurant patrons are going to tolerate a person making a scene.

  • @volkangaming9392
    @volkangaming9392 Год назад +17

    2:09 ROASTED😂

  • @katiemiller657
    @katiemiller657 3 месяца назад +2

    When Braden was shaking the table, the girl could’ve just moved her water

  • @gideonkreiselman3838
    @gideonkreiselman3838 Год назад +4

    He plays it so well 😂😂😂😂

  • @JJB11
    @JJB11 Год назад +9

    Never judge everyone before you get to know them.

  • @ALX65
    @ALX65 Год назад +26

    Wooow. To think that There are actual people like this in the world,shaming others for being too fat,skinny,not as beautiful,low IQ,handicapped,disabilities etc...🥺😔🙏💙

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +1

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @Maxslife-iq2vc
      @Maxslife-iq2vc Год назад +1

      I agree he wasn’t that great u can’t expect people to deal with it I’m on ur side

    • @reflexrefractor
      @reflexrefractor Год назад

      I think only fat shaming and low iq bullying is justified

  • @brittanyshickley9628
    @brittanyshickley9628 Год назад +4

    We need to protect Brayden at all costs

  • @walter7054
    @walter7054 Год назад +7

    Man it has been a minute hasn’t it, Dhar. Still as good as two years ago

  • @diamonddd9594
    @diamonddd9594 Год назад +57

    Some people don’t deserve people . We have to learn in society that we have to appreciate what we have even if they’re not perfect 💯💯!

    • @Zachboy007
      @Zachboy007 Год назад +1

      I am actually on the girl's side. He can't expect others to put up with his brother if he acts like that; and he especially can't expect any girl to want to be with him if his brother is always going to tag along. People in a restaurant have the right no to have to sit through someone making a scene through an entire meal; and nobody should be expected to live with or always be around someone who is going to be problematic. There are always group homes.

    • @kateparent366
      @kateparent366 Год назад +1

      Diamond I so agree thank God my sister's husband loves me the way I am and would back my sister up 100% if she was to be my caregiver.

    • @phuveswaz
      @phuveswaz Год назад +1

      no one is perfect

  • @natashadurgan9795
    @natashadurgan9795 Год назад +10

    That is so sweet I love it 😍 what a great brother

    • @dustinaucoin
      @dustinaucoin Год назад +1

      Yea + 1st to reply ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

  • @ermwhatthesigma4500
    @ermwhatthesigma4500 Год назад +8

    For the people saying that he shouldn’t have brought his brother completely missed the fact that he’s also his CAREGIVER. People with down syndrome NEED a caregiver. If my boyfriend/girlfriend brought a family member, let alone a disabled one, unannounced, I would be mildly upset in the beginning, but I wouldn’t take it out on them and I would actually be appreciative that my partner would trust me enough to allow his family members to be around me. I would just accept it and be happy, because the boyfriend/girlfriend is a good person themselves and I would get to observe how they treat the family member. If they treat them good, then I can imagine how good they’ll treat me.

    • @jaiveonwatts2195
      @jaiveonwatts2195 Год назад +4

      He should have told her beforehand. That is the point people are making. Ableism is not okay, obviously, but I would be at least somewhat upset and uncomfortable considering this is an important part of his life, but he didn't even introduce them.

    • @TheKnoxvicious
      @TheKnoxvicious 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@jaiveonwatts2195
      He thought he did. And gosh, does that excuse her horrible behavior?? Her treating him subhuman?

    • @lucyhanyumbu4376
      @lucyhanyumbu4376 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@jaiveonwatts2195
      Shut up

  • @Sakyo597
    @Sakyo597 Год назад +8

    He's a really nice brother

  • @Bjl134
    @Bjl134 Год назад +7

    Going to school we had 2 kids with disabilities and I swear those 2 kids were the friendliest, sweetest and most genuine kids ever. They are so smart, kind and so hilarious! Those two friendships were two of of the GREATEST friendships I could’ve ever had in high school❤️

  • @Burnt2ashes
    @Burnt2ashes Год назад +37

    Ok but who actually brings their younger sibling on a date 😭

    • @GorillaWithACellphone
      @GorillaWithACellphone Год назад +20

      As he explained, he’s his caregiver. He has to come in case something bad happens since he’s got intellectual disabilities

    • @themoroccanball
      @themoroccanball Год назад +5

      Uhhh... People with siblings who have intellectual disabilities?

    • @eldenemerald7962
      @eldenemerald7962 Год назад +6

      ​@@themoroccanball in that case get a babysitter? A date is something personal and intimate that a younger sibling shouldn't attend

    • @themoroccanball
      @themoroccanball Год назад

      @@eldenemerald7962 okay but what if you're the caregiver of your disabled sibling who is prone to discrimination from a babysitter? And in this case the disabled brother is an adult why would he need a babysitter?
      However whenever possible they should get a nurse (especially if they're an adult)

    • @sarahroels591
      @sarahroels591 Год назад

      Agreed lol

  • @JaxonJohnson-hd6zt
    @JaxonJohnson-hd6zt 9 месяцев назад +3

    7:54 got me rolling on the floor 😂

  • @Mr.Chill14
    @Mr.Chill14 Год назад +20

    I have a cousin that is down syndrome but I still love him like I love the rest of my family ❤

    • @Serenaisback
      @Serenaisback Год назад

      Oh, so Sweet my stepsis has down syndrome