I hate all cleaning - vacuuming, dusting, bathrooms, kitchens etc. etc. etc. However, I love organizing. I love to declutter. I love things to be picked up and neat and straightened out, but my furniture needs dusting, my carpets need vacuuming and cleaning, my bathroom gets cleaned every week, thoroughly, and my kitchen is maintained but the oven is disgusting, and the refrigerator could do with a sort out. I wipe up what I see and spills, of course, but all of my corners need help. I have 4 cats, so the battle is real people. Cat hair 27/7. So, I do vacuum but the cat hair still wins, and my corners are hard to get to with furniture being so heavy but I'm working on it. I do projects better than deep cleaning. I live in an old house, and I have 4 outlets in my kitchen, and you have 4 in one corner of your cupboards - jealous! I already follow Dani and love her quirkiness - besides, we are fellow Minnesotans. Fun collab. You've got this girl.🔆🔆🔆
Last night my boyfriend and I made dinner, and he did the dishes (I still live with my parents). I told him to let the casserole dish soak but he managed to scrub it all off. I hate the feeling of food floating around in the water so I'm glad he did it
I used to dislike cleaning intensely because I did not like repetition. One day I realized that cleaning my home was an act of love for my family. Not a problem since.
I like cleaning better when I break it into smaller areas and keep in mind how much I'll like it when it's done. For example, the sink and vanity in my bathroom need cleaning more often than the toilet or shower/tub, so I just do the vanity
What a great job! Approaching 80, caring for my 97 year old mother, I finally hired someone to come help with cleaning every other week. Now I have time to do cleaning jobs, gardening I simply have had no time for, let alone energy.
Good for you!! Caring for someone else is so much harder than people realize until theyre in it too. Admitting we need help is difficult and you took the steps to get help and start caring for yourself too. Im happy for you! ❤
You are so right about looking at cleaning differently. The FlyLady says to change your mindset and think of the cleaning as blessing your family. Those words have totally changed my attitude. Great job on your kitchen!
Another thing to change a mindset is to think about how nice it will be once it's clean and shiny. I hate cleaning my bathroom but like it when there's no toothpaste splatter on the faucet
@@sarahkinsey5434 my biggest best thing I overcame was being mad at my husband all the time for not helping enough. Once I decided to do it for me because I liked it better clean and let go of all That animosity and resentment it was like a weight being lifted off me.
I grew up the same way. My mom was super woman SAHM. She kept a tidy house, fed and picked up after three girls and a husband. We didn’t have any chores until my parents separated. We were 9, 11, and 13. Mom was going through an awful depression. So us girls decided we needed to help mom in our new home. The oldest did the laundry, the middle one did all the dusting and the youngest took out the garbage. As we grew up our chores changed. But again I made a mistake in raising my own the same way plus holding a job outside the home. I couldn’t do it all. I’m so thankful that my spouse took on grocery shopping and laundry and I could do the putting away and folding/hanging. He even took on occasional cooking. I do still regret not delegated some of the household chores to my sons. But I had friends that kind of shamed me for not doing all the chores during the time I was a SAHM and part time outside the home worker. The struggle is real. Letting go of all the baggage is necessary. You’re an awesome person Shannon. Thanks for the motivation!
For any viewers coming from Danni - Shannon is the most lovely soul - she's been an absolute joy to watch - and the wonderful motivation she gives me is always a huge help. It also helps when she shares her own insecurities and troubles - I think that's a blessing because there's so much shame that can be associated with not being perfect and Shannon deals with that with grace and wisdom. I adore Danni, by the way, I've loved her for years - she's a gem - both ladies have such positive energy and both ladies are learning and it's a joy to share their journey.
I love you sooo much!! You’re true and you always try to find the positive in everything. You’re a breath of fresh air. If I was living nearby, we would probably be friends. Here’s a quote I like from William James. I think it fits you right. Act like what you do makes a difference. It does !!♥️😉 Keep going and stay just like you are.
Shannon, I watch Danni as well. I am so glad you guys are doing a Collab together. It’s like having two of my friends meet at lunch. You’re both so great. 😊
I love your videos. Theyre always inspiring for me. I get tge socks thing. I hadnt worn socks in years. In winter when its cold here in jersey, i just always wore uggs without socks. If you keep your pedi up during winter, theres no dead skin to make them stinky. Suddenly this past fall, im always wearing socks. Sometimes 2 pair. Not only to keep my feet warm but for some reason, my feet hurt less with them on. Im also full of inflammation, i have lupus, fibro, sjogrens and RA. I mean, why just have one problem when you can have many, lol? Anyway, i started taking a beginner yoga class almost a month ago, once a week, and it does help with the inflammation and flexibility. I bump into things often so when i started, i had problems with some of the balancing but im keeping up with it and yesterday morning i took a 2nd begin class in a week and i didnt have to put my other foot down to rebalance myself at all!! Its definitely helping with that. Ive also noticed that when i have to go somewhere else to exercise, it makes me feel better mentally too. Its time thats just for me, ive met several women who also started bc it helps the inflammation they have from chronic pain/illness, bc im putting in that effort for myself, im naturally going more towards the healthier foods and wanting to be more active. We're all different so idk if something like that would be helpful for you, i just figured id mention it bc if anyone needs time to themselves and self care, its you. You work, you have the kids and dogs and homeschooling, plus a house and a hubby. Whatever it is, i hope you find the time for the selfcare that we all need and deserve, whether it be an exercise class, a book club or kicking the hubby and kids out for the day so you take a bubble bath and order whatever takeout food you want without having to worry about cost or picky eaters!❤😂
Shannon your doing great. I am one of those ppl who lives cleaning but not with being unable to do hrs at a time cleaning I get upset, but I love Jodi Dunn channel bc she does a small amount at a time. Now with my limitations I do that but I love all cleaning but I hate doing dishwasher bc that was my job from childhood. So keep up the great job. 1 day at a time. I just cleaned all inside of my kitchen cabinets. Until next video 😊
OK so I love to clean when I was a teenager. I used to clean my mom‘s house all the time and when I got my own home, I still love to clean my friends would say how do you keep your house so clean and have a full-time job. Now I’m 66 years old and my house is not always clean and there’s a lot of things I do that I don’t like to and I don’t know why it’s so hard I guess it’s just my age. I enjoy the video your kitchen looks beautiful. See you soon.
☀️☀️love your channel. I’m empty nested, downsized and decluttered; spring cleaning is so much less of a chore. I line the top of kitchen cabinets with wax paper, I basically just remove the old wax paper and put on new. Voila!
Hi Shannon....I love the idea of looking for a blessing in things we're not fond of doing. I'm going to try this immediately. Thank you for you. I LOVE your videos. God Bless. Fondly, Dorothy.
I, identify with you on the poor me syndrome and angry mean mom/wife. After I hear you say what you say, I need to change my mental words to myself as well, and Thank the Lord as you say with think on things that are good, pure, honoring to the Lord and Thanksgiving ❤🎉❤ yes, Satan get behind me! Amen sister ❤❤❤
I am so happy that you two collaborated! RUclips are both my favorite RUclipsrs to watch if I need inspiration on cleaning and decluttering. Your video in particular really helped me today because I too get negative when I have to clean up after others in my house, so thank you very much for the Mind switch to help get through the negative.
Thank you so much for discussing your thought process when you're frustrated with your partner. I just had a baby and struggle with distributing the new duties equally. I get so upset with him.
Shannon, love your personality and your random faces you sometimes let us see. I really appreciate you sharing your videos and I enjoy watching your channel. I do also love when you bring your faith into the videos. Thanks again and God bless.
I am so glad I found your channel...I SO DON"T LIKE TO CLEAN MY HOUSE!!! When I was your age, I was a single mom and did what I felt like I was supposed to do. My house was always clean and my friends used to tell me I was always cleaning... I think I used it all up!! I'm 60 now (can't believe that either) and I don't want to do anything :-( I have a cat so I know I need to vacuum more but I don't. My house isn't piled or anything but I just don't want to sweep, or dust, or clean..... HELP!! I love how you share scripture and your faith. Keep it up girl! I think you are amazing!! 🙂
Hummmm! My son met his wife ate 17, she was 19. Today is his 38th birthday and has 3 girls. Ages 13, 10 and 6. Almost mirror like. They are good Christian parents, but Christian school. BTW, came from Dani.
Pro 14:4 - “Where no oxen are, the crib is clean: but much increase is by the strength of the ox.” This verse greatly encouraged me when I was homeschooling my children. I kept busy daily picking up after and ministering to my children but, oh, how rich my life was (and remains today) because of my precious family.
You are spot on with mom humility. My devotional this AM was on humility. My prayers this morning were to receive more humility, to recognize what I have because my husband works, to be content and thankful. Devotional was at 5:30 this morning and Shannon was at 9:30. God sent me reinforcements, SHANNON 🎉. You have blessed my day and kicked my stinking thinking out the door. Bless you!!
Giiiirrrrl, my mother had a full-time job as a maritime clerk and customs declaring agent. She got home and the entire household fell on her. My dad? The poor lad (sheesh) vacuumed and did the dishes. At least he helped, but the laundry, ironing, rest of the cleaning tasks? It all fell on her. She barely slept 4-6H and then next day, early days, had to get to work. My dad drove to work, my mom went by train (Antwerp harbor) and then had to still walk a while. Only 2/3rds into her career did she go to work by car. My father had it easy, though she never ever complained, I never heard a peep from her. Back then (my mom is 78) it is what women did in my country. If you wanted a career, you had to pay the price so to speak. Women actually got punished for wanting a career. And my dad just shrugged and said "I don't make you have to work." but thanks to my mother we have our own home (my dad could care less if he owned a house or not). Women are so underestimated. And yes, when I was a teen, I helped my mom, I learned to do laundry, I learned so many things. My mom comes from a home of 10 children and she was the eldest girl, so all of a lot fell on her back then as well, no wonder there was never a peep out of her, she grew up like that. Her doctor once told her when she once asked about working out (because it was all the rage) "if you work full-time, if you run your own house top to bottom, you have enough exercise"... and boy ain't that the truth!
Good job deep cleaning your kitchen , Shannon !!! That's something that I really need to do and keep putting it off. Shame on me ! I'm hoping that I'll get motivated by watching you. Wish me Luck ! :)
🌞 Hi girl my name is Michelle I like watching decluttering and organizing videos and I only watch on RUclips and I live in Arkansas with my man I've been with since a week before my 26th birthday and I'm 41 now and we have 7 dog's and 2 cat's and I watch RUclips videos while I clean and do stuff that has to get done I can't work or drive and I love Mickey mouse and I color and do different crafts and I clean and I watch shows and movies on Netflix i also watch dumpster diving videos on RUclips too and I watch The Wads she dose some cooking, cleaning , shop with me and come thrifting with me stuff like that if you like watching that kind of stuff go watch her
One thing that helps me get something done, whether it's cleaning or putting something away, is being tired of having to think about doing that particular action. That spot on the bathroom floor? I'll see it when I go to use the facilities twenty times a day 😂 Doing it and getting it over with means I can IMMEDIATELY relax afterwards!!!
I wasn't taught cleaning or finances or laundry or cooking or how to work through feelings or about my body... yeah.. working to change that now as the mom.
I actually like cleaning and organizing ( certain areas) 😂. I think I get that from my parents.. I have started my spring cleaning. Im going to deep clean my bathroom my least favorite room to clean. 😝. This was a great video great job 👏
I love Danni! She's so funny 😁. Shannon, I find your personality comforting and reassuring. Was having a bad day, and knew one of your videos would make me feel better ❤
OMG. When you climb up on a chair, always have the chair back to the wall, not behind you. If you lose your balance, you can just step down. Otherwise you will for sure crash. (My dad was super safety conscious because of a childhood accident where he lost the fingers on one hand.)
Hi Shannon, I’m so happy that Danni introduced you. I have written to Danni to let her know that I have issues with cleaning and decluttering. I’m really overwhelmed; I tend to clean the same things over and over, then I’m too tired to actually start the actual decluttering stuff lol. My dream is similar to yours in that I picture a lovely, clean, decluttered home whereas the counters are cleared and I can actually make a cup of coffee without pushing things out of the way first. I dream of the beautiful aroma of clean. Actually I must be dreaming about living in someone’s home that’s not mine lmao. I’m trying though. I recently watched clutterbug and she explained to try to toss 21 items a day as a goal. I’m trying and getting there slowly, but it does make me feel good to do it.❤
🌞🌞🌝🌝 I really love your videos you encourage me and inspire me ! Thank you for being real and honest with us ! I am a lot like you in the fact of "anger cleaning" ... But I have changed that for the most part (my husband has always had a saying - " If it doesn't matter tomorrow or in a week or even a year why stress about it !!?? " It only makes it worse and can eventually creep into our relationships when we stress or make a big deal out of nothing ... And it also doesn't make a good testimony or bring Glory to God ! Anyway , i struggle with clutter in the fact that if we have any especially a kot , i dont like dealing with it , it gets really overwhelming for me so i ignore it till i have no choice but to take care of it ! Anyway thanks again for being you and being real !
Oh girl! I feel you about the quick to anger thoughts. My husband also spoils me. I was fussing about how the laundry was being done this weekend, while my wonderful hubby was having a folding party. I just had to voice it and wanted him to hear me out. :) I am very grateful for him and all he does. I just can't keep all my thoughts in my head. I know he blows it off with tons of grace. But I am doing a better job at keeping thoughts to myself but have a way to go. I too have people in my life that reinforce those negative thoughts about my motherly/wifey duties. I have a great husband that makes sure, I don't believe what I'm told. And I am better at crossing those ideas of others from my mind.
I absolutely love your channel. You and I have so much in common. Especially the anger cleaning and then being humbled by our husbands unselfish love for us. Our health struggles are similar as well. I have recently started following the carnivore diet and through that found Sally K Norton. She teaches about oxalates and their harmful effects on the body. I would suggest, If you find time, to you to look her up here on you tube and watch some of her interviews.
I can't say it enough, you're a ray of sunshine. So when I don't want to do one of the chores on my list of things to do, I try and remind myself how long will it really take and how good it will feel to be on the other side of it. I can't honestly say I 'enjoy' the chores but I've begun to love the feeling of getting it done, and walking back into the house when the bathroom is clean, or the vacuuming has been done. I wipe down the trash can, or the inside the microwave when I first notice it is dirty. But my kids are older now, and I'm sure I just had so much going on when my kids were your kids' ages, that like you, I could sit down for a second and be asleep almost immediately. Feel free to prioritize, and teach each child how to do one thing in the house they would enjoy doing as part of their responsibility. You'd be surprised- plus, know their personality. I was a social person that enjoyed doing something WITH another person. Some need to be left alone to get the job done.You're doing a great job!
You did a good job on your cabinets! I also love Murphy oil soap. They also have a spray bottle that really comes in handy for in between cleaning. Spray it on and take a wet microfiber cloth and wipe it off. Easy Peasy !
I can relate to having a pessimistic mindset. I'm not married but a "friend" is staying with me for now and he is a slob to say the least 🤷🏾♀️. He does wash the dishes and his clothes but it's at his leisure so with that the clothes will sit on the floor in front of the washer for over a month. He never cleans the stove. I work and go to school and I clean up behind myself (as I should) so I'm always doing something so with his ways I have more work to do. Just patience and give alot of grace. I don't expect a deep clean every day but if you make a sandwich put the stuff back in the fridge don't leave it on the counter and wipe up any crumbs. I don't see how married people deal with it. It's good you and your husband has worked out something that works for y'all.
Avoid using vinegar on natural stone, it becomes etched. Regular decluttering is the key-less stuff makes it easier to have a home for everything and make cleaning easier. Great job, Shannon🎉
Agree 💯 with the negative vs positive thinking, however, I don't think you're being pessimistic when you are irritated that someone leaves behind their messes for you to clean up, even someone you love, even someone who does sweet things for you. Leaving his mess with the expectation that you will clean it up is inconsiderate, and it's clear that he loves and cares for you, so it shouldn't be difficult for him to not leave messes for you. I'm really bad about leaving a mess in my bathroom in the morning, I'm working on it. But I don't expect anyone else to clean it up for me.
"Cleaning is a family responsibility in our household. We encourage our children to keep their bedrooms tidy and clean up after themselves. They are also responsible for taking their clothes upstairs and putting them away. To ensure that they have enough time for their after-school activities, we limit the number of chores they have to do."
I love how you and this channel lift us up and lift up other RUclipsrs who are trying to make it. I think people who like this channel would also like Dorman Family Circus. I just found it today and she is also a mom trying to declutter her house. I love this uplifting women who are putting in the effort ❤
Dang... that espresso machine story got me thinking. I find myself being pessimistic a lot too and will get mad at my boyfriend for not doing enough of this and that. But often times, it's just that he does other things or he didn't even know something has been an issue. Definitely got humbled like that on multiple occasions!😂 thanks for sharing :)
This video was so encouraging! I’ve been feeling that heaviness lately. Everything I try to do the devil gets in the way. Thank you for the pep talk! 😁
I am not domestic.. I readily admit it. And, I am inherently lazy. But I have always done was needed to be done. I would rather clean 5 kitchens than cook. Always enjoy your videos…
I disassociate from cleaning. I am listening to music or a favourite radio programme, talking written a friend while my hands are busy creating a comfortable environment. I choose to consider cleaning not a chore, but doing something needed to feel better, like washing my hair, doing my nails, exfoliating, brushing my teeth or clipping my toe nails, nothing enjoyable in itself but something that's part of my self care routine. And of course it's very important finding methods to be as effective as possible and to keep it clean/tidy as long as possible, to avoid feeling it's an endless battle that takes too much of my time.
Love your videos. The mystery stainless steel kitchen appliance with holes and cups is an egg poacher. You put water in pan, put desired number of eggs want to cook, heat on stove to almost boiling, break egg and put one in each steel cup and cook until desired firmness. I got one with a set of pots and pans I bought when I got engaged over 60 years ago.
I know all about the tongue sticking out...I've done it my entire life and so does my mom lol. If I hear "you're going to bite your tongue off" one more time though 😑 lol And I hate cleaning. I love a clean house and it always makes me feel so much better to have a clean house, I just find zero joy in cleaning.
Shannon! I love you and your videos! I asked previously but I’m sure my comment got lost in space, are you down to do a video about the meals you make with your ninja foodi? I have one and it is a tiny bit intimidating to me. I use it, but not as often as I should. Keep on keepin on!!! ❤
Dani is hilarious! But she gets the job done while smiling. Love making checklists. Get a little thrill checking off items. Still looking for a gloves.
Barbara O’Neil is a smart Christian woman, and she has a really good teaching on anxiety and depression and the neuropaths that are created just in our thinking. I can’t link it but you should really check it out.
🌞 I look forward to watching y'all collaborate. I love that the confessionals started in the kitchen! I feel like that's the most loved AND hated area.
Don't have to "find joy" or blessing to offset your response. Your response is data. When we can observe things and our involuntary responses and learn our values and needs. I value initiative so it bothers me when I see a lack of initiative. And then sometimes perhaps even communicating said value and need to others. Doesn't have to be positive or negative but a neutral thought observation..
You are in your crunch years with your 3 kids! I had 3 kids so I understand. But you can love each day because your family loves you. You are lovable. Take one day at a time.
I use cleaning and organizing as therapy. I put on great music and the moving of my body gets my heart pumping. It makes me feel so good. ❤ it gives me peace
You are looking so great! You seem more energetic, it looks like you're moving with ease and you just look and sound more lively. You glow inside and out! 🥰
You are HILARIOUS, girl! Our cleaning styles are SO different, but our humor is the same. I love watching you because you remind me that differences are fine! We are not meant to be the same and I just love your laid back ness(is that even a word? LOL) and positivity.
I stick my tongue out when I do stuff and I get it from my mothers side of the family. Was very difficult to not do that when I was doing martial arts but didn’t want to bite my tongue…
You are definitely my soul sister. I used to base my worth on the cleanliness of my house too. It’s exhausting, both mentally and physically. I would also blame, and feel resentful towards my family for not helping me, and letting me do all of the work. Years later my son said, Mom, it was too hard to help you because no matter what we did, it wasn’t good enough. Boy did that hit me in the gut. Thank you for being the real deal. I always look forward to your videos.
Great video, especially about the selfishness. My husband works all day and I don’t have to, so I don’t ask much of him. Everything is my job. Maybe that’s wrong, but it’s the way my mind works. He’s appreciative of his clean home. That’s enough for me.
I don’t think it’s wrong at all. I really think it’s all about balance and there isn’t a one size fits all division of household responsibilities. If I didn’t work or homeschool I would feel more responsible for the household chores.
I am a case manager for a program where we have agency’s that hire people to go in and clean for the elderly, I have been doing this since 1995 and we have reached a low , the entry level worker who are teenagers and this may be a first job ! DO NOT KNOW HOW TO CLEAN! If they don’t learn at home where are they going to learn ! It’s your responsibility to teach your children to take care of themselves! Your future daughter and son in law s will thank you!
Oh my goodness Shannon. I love Danni. I watch her all the time. Thank you so much for giving God the credit for your energy. He has helped me so many times push through the dishes. I love watching your channel. And, I am going to use your to do list for myself. Love you! May God send you blessings for sharing Him with us. 🌞 ☀️
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Shannon you are the absolute BEST! Thank you so much for doing this series with me, I luv & appreciate ya so much friend! 🥳🥰😘
You're the best! I look forward to our next project!
Love you both!!! ❤😊🐦
Great job on your introduction Danni! ☺️🐦👍
I’m here for you xx. You brighten my day when your videos pop up love ya. ❤❤❤❤
I was so happy to see she collaborated with you Dani!! I started following you a few months ago and I love your channel too ❤️
I hate all cleaning - vacuuming, dusting, bathrooms, kitchens etc. etc. etc. However, I love organizing. I love to declutter. I love things to be picked up and neat and straightened out, but my furniture needs dusting, my carpets need vacuuming and cleaning, my bathroom gets cleaned every week, thoroughly, and my kitchen is maintained but the oven is disgusting, and the refrigerator could do with a sort out. I wipe up what I see and spills, of course, but all of my corners need help. I have 4 cats, so the battle is real people. Cat hair 27/7. So, I do vacuum but the cat hair still wins, and my corners are hard to get to with furniture being so heavy but I'm working on it. I do projects better than deep cleaning. I live in an old house, and I have 4 outlets in my kitchen, and you have 4 in one corner of your cupboards - jealous! I already follow Dani and love her quirkiness - besides, we are fellow Minnesotans. Fun collab. You've got this girl.🔆🔆🔆
One day my husband randomly decided to clean the litter box. I was never more attracted to him.😊
True love 🥰
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Last night my boyfriend and I made dinner, and he did the dishes (I still live with my parents). I told him to let the casserole dish soak but he managed to scrub it all off. I hate the feeling of food floating around in the water so I'm glad he did it
I used to dislike cleaning intensely because I did not like repetition. One day I realized that cleaning my home was an act of love for my family. Not a problem since.
I like cleaning better when I break it into smaller areas and keep in mind how much I'll like it when it's done. For example, the sink and vanity in my bathroom need cleaning more often than the toilet or shower/tub, so I just do the vanity
Hi, Shannon! Danni Rae sent me! I have watching both of you for awhile. Can’t wait to see your video. Keep up the great work! Hugs.🥰👍💜🌞🌞🌞
Oh Shannon, Hearing that cleaning can be self care is something I think I really need to lean into! Wow that means a lot to me.
It really makes me feel so much better when it’s done so yes self care is a great way to look at it. Thats awesome ❤
What a great job! Approaching 80, caring for my 97 year old mother, I finally hired someone to come help with cleaning every other week. Now I have time to do cleaning jobs, gardening I simply have had no time for, let alone energy.
Good for you!! Caring for someone else is so much harder than people realize until theyre in it too. Admitting we need help is difficult and you took the steps to get help and start caring for yourself too. Im happy for you! ❤
Wow your family has great longevity genes
You are so right about looking at cleaning differently. The FlyLady says to change your mindset and think of the cleaning as blessing your family. Those words have totally changed my attitude. Great job on your kitchen!
She is probably the one that planted that seed in me. I was hyper focused on her system for a hot minute a couple years ago
Mine too. Love FlyLady
Another thing to change a mindset is to think about how nice it will be once it's clean and shiny. I hate cleaning my bathroom but like it when there's no toothpaste splatter on the faucet
@@sarahkinsey5434 my biggest best thing I overcame was being mad at my husband all the time for not helping enough. Once I decided to do it for me because I liked it better clean and let go of all
That animosity and resentment it was like a weight being lifted off me.
I grew up the same way. My mom was super woman SAHM. She kept a tidy house, fed and picked up after three girls and a husband. We didn’t have any chores until my parents separated. We were 9, 11, and 13. Mom was going through an awful depression. So us girls decided we needed to help mom in our new home. The oldest did the laundry, the middle one did all the dusting and the youngest took out the garbage. As we grew up our chores changed. But again I made a mistake in raising my own the same way plus holding a job outside the home. I couldn’t do it all. I’m so thankful that my spouse took on grocery shopping and laundry and I could do the putting away and folding/hanging. He even took on occasional cooking. I do still regret not delegated some of the household chores to my sons. But I had friends that kind of shamed me for not doing all the chores during the time I was a SAHM and part time outside the home worker. The struggle is real. Letting go of all the baggage is necessary. You’re an awesome person Shannon. Thanks for the motivation!
For any viewers coming from Danni - Shannon is the most lovely soul - she's been an absolute joy to watch - and the wonderful motivation she gives me is always a huge help. It also helps when she shares her own insecurities and troubles - I think that's a blessing because there's so much shame that can be associated with not being perfect and Shannon deals with that with grace and wisdom. I adore Danni, by the way, I've loved her for years - she's a gem - both ladies have such positive energy and both ladies are learning and it's a joy to share their journey.
I love you sooo much!! You’re true and you always try to find the positive in everything. You’re a breath of fresh air. If I was living nearby, we would probably be friends.
Here’s a quote I like from William James. I think it fits you right.
Act like what you do makes a difference. It does !!♥️😉
Keep going and stay just like you are.
So happy that my two favorite RUclipsrs are collaborating! You are both so real and I so appreciate that.
Me too!!
Shannon, I watch Danni as well. I am so glad you guys are doing a Collab together. It’s like having two of my friends meet at lunch. You’re both so great. 😊
I love your videos. Theyre always inspiring for me. I get tge socks thing. I hadnt worn socks in years. In winter when its cold here in jersey, i just always wore uggs without socks. If you keep your pedi up during winter, theres no dead skin to make them stinky. Suddenly this past fall, im always wearing socks. Sometimes 2 pair. Not only to keep my feet warm but for some reason, my feet hurt less with them on. Im also full of inflammation, i have lupus, fibro, sjogrens and RA. I mean, why just have one problem when you can have many, lol? Anyway, i started taking a beginner yoga class almost a month ago, once a week, and it does help with the inflammation and flexibility. I bump into things often so when i started, i had problems with some of the balancing but im keeping up with it and yesterday morning i took a 2nd begin class in a week and i didnt have to put my other foot down to rebalance myself at all!! Its definitely helping with that. Ive also noticed that when i have to go somewhere else to exercise, it makes me feel better mentally too. Its time thats just for me, ive met several women who also started bc it helps the inflammation they have from chronic pain/illness, bc im putting in that effort for myself, im naturally going more towards the healthier foods and wanting to be more active. We're all different so idk if something like that would be helpful for you, i just figured id mention it bc if anyone needs time to themselves and self care, its you. You work, you have the kids and dogs and homeschooling, plus a house and a hubby. Whatever it is, i hope you find the time for the selfcare that we all need and deserve, whether it be an exercise class, a book club or kicking the hubby and kids out for the day so you take a bubble bath and order whatever takeout food you want without having to worry about cost or picky eaters!❤😂
Shannon your doing great. I am one of those ppl who lives cleaning but not with being unable to do hrs at a time cleaning I get upset, but I love Jodi Dunn channel bc she does a small amount at a time. Now with my limitations I do that but I love all cleaning but I hate doing dishwasher bc that was my job from childhood. So keep up the great job. 1 day at a time. I just cleaned all inside of my kitchen cabinets. Until next video 😊
OK so I love to clean when I was a teenager. I used to clean my mom‘s house all the time and when I got my own home, I still love to clean my friends would say how do you keep your house so clean and have a full-time job. Now I’m 66 years old and my house is not always clean and there’s a lot of things I do that I don’t like to and I don’t know why it’s so hard I guess it’s just my age. I enjoy the video your kitchen looks beautiful. See you soon.
I hate wearing gloves too although I should because my hands are always pretty bad after. But I don’t like the feel of it
I’m subbed to Dani’s channel, too! 😊😊😊
🌞 Enjoy watching your videos so much ❤
Great job! Now for me I would rather clean than cook.
☀️☀️love your channel. I’m empty nested, downsized and decluttered; spring cleaning is so much less of a chore. I line the top of kitchen cabinets with wax paper, I basically just remove the old wax paper and put on new. Voila!
Hi Shannon....I love the idea of looking for a blessing in things we're not fond of doing. I'm going to try this immediately. Thank you for you. I LOVE your videos. God Bless. Fondly, Dorothy.
I’ve been subbed to danni for a looong time,,,,she’s adorable,,,,
I, identify with you on the poor me syndrome and angry mean mom/wife. After I hear you say what you say, I need to change my mental words to myself as well, and Thank the Lord as you say with think on things that are good, pure, honoring to the Lord and Thanksgiving ❤🎉❤ yes, Satan get behind me! Amen sister ❤❤❤
I am so happy that you two collaborated! RUclips are both my favorite RUclipsrs to watch if I need inspiration on cleaning and decluttering. Your video in particular really helped me today because I too get negative when I have to clean up after others in my house, so thank you very much for the Mind switch to help get through the negative.
Thank you so much for discussing your thought process when you're frustrated with your partner. I just had a baby and struggle with distributing the new duties equally. I get so upset with him.
Shannon, love your personality and your random faces you sometimes let us see. I really appreciate you sharing your videos and I enjoy watching your channel. I do also love when you bring your faith into the videos. Thanks again and God bless.
I think cleaning requires faces lol, it's gross so we make faces and hopefully will get us to keep it clean(er)
I am so glad I found your channel...I SO DON"T LIKE TO CLEAN MY HOUSE!!! When I was your age, I was a single mom and did what I felt like I was supposed to do. My house was always clean and my friends used to tell me I was always cleaning... I think I used it all up!! I'm 60 now (can't believe that either) and I don't want to do anything :-( I have a cat so I know I need to vacuum more but I don't. My house isn't piled or anything but I just don't want to sweep, or dust, or clean..... HELP!!
I love how you share scripture and your faith. Keep it up girl! I think you are amazing!! 🙂
🌞Hello Shannon. Popped over from Dani's channel. Love (and needed to hear) the message reminding us to be Grateful in all things.
Hummmm! My son met his wife ate 17, she was 19. Today is his 38th birthday and has 3 girls. Ages 13, 10 and 6. Almost mirror like. They are good Christian parents, but Christian school. BTW, came from Dani.
Pro 14:4 - “Where no oxen are, the crib is clean: but much increase is by the strength of the ox.”
This verse greatly encouraged me when I was homeschooling my children. I kept busy daily picking up after and ministering to my children but, oh, how rich my life was (and remains today) because of my precious family.
You are spot on with mom humility. My devotional this AM was on humility. My prayers this morning were to receive more humility, to recognize what I have because my husband works, to be content and thankful. Devotional was at 5:30 this morning and Shannon was at 9:30. God sent me reinforcements, SHANNON 🎉. You have blessed my day and kicked my stinking thinking out the door.
Bless you!!
Giiiirrrrl, my mother had a full-time job as a maritime clerk and customs declaring agent. She got home and the entire household fell on her. My dad? The poor lad (sheesh) vacuumed and did the dishes. At least he helped, but the laundry, ironing, rest of the cleaning tasks? It all fell on her. She barely slept 4-6H and then next day, early days, had to get to work. My dad drove to work, my mom went by train (Antwerp harbor) and then had to still walk a while. Only 2/3rds into her career did she go to work by car. My father had it easy, though she never ever complained, I never heard a peep from her. Back then (my mom is 78) it is what women did in my country. If you wanted a career, you had to pay the price so to speak. Women actually got punished for wanting a career. And my dad just shrugged and said "I don't make you have to work." but thanks to my mother we have our own home (my dad could care less if he owned a house or not). Women are so underestimated. And yes, when I was a teen, I helped my mom, I learned to do laundry, I learned so many things. My mom comes from a home of 10 children and she was the eldest girl, so all of a lot fell on her back then as well, no wonder there was never a peep out of her, she grew up like that. Her doctor once told her when she once asked about working out (because it was all the rage) "if you work full-time, if you run your own house top to bottom, you have enough exercise"... and boy ain't that the truth!
Good job deep cleaning your kitchen , Shannon !!! That's something that I really need to do and keep putting it off. Shame on me ! I'm hoping that I'll get motivated by watching you. Wish me Luck ! :)
🌞 Hi girl my name is Michelle I like watching decluttering and organizing videos and I only watch on RUclips and I live in Arkansas with my man I've been with since a week before my 26th birthday and I'm 41 now and we have 7 dog's and 2 cat's and I watch RUclips videos while I clean and do stuff that has to get done I can't work or drive and I love Mickey mouse and I color and do different crafts and I clean and I watch shows and movies on Netflix i also watch dumpster diving videos on RUclips too and I watch The Wads she dose some cooking, cleaning , shop with me and come thrifting with me stuff like that if you like watching that kind of stuff go watch her
Danni sent me over, and I'm so glad she did!!🌞 Really enjoyed your channel and your spiritual encouragement too!! God bless your channel!
One thing that helps me get something done, whether it's cleaning or putting something away, is being tired of having to think about doing that particular action. That spot on the bathroom floor? I'll see it when I go to use the facilities twenty times a day 😂 Doing it and getting it over with means I can IMMEDIATELY relax afterwards!!!
I wasn't taught cleaning or finances or laundry or cooking or how to work through feelings or about my body... yeah.. working to change that now as the mom.
I actually like cleaning and organizing ( certain areas) 😂. I think I get that from my parents.. I have started my spring cleaning. Im going to deep clean my bathroom my least favorite room to clean. 😝. This was a great video great job 👏
I love Danni! She's so funny 😁. Shannon, I find your personality comforting and reassuring. Was having a bad day, and knew one of your videos would make me feel better ❤
OMG. When you climb up on a chair, always have the chair back to the wall, not behind you. If you lose your balance, you can just step down. Otherwise you will for sure crash. (My dad was super safety conscious because of a childhood accident where he lost the fingers on one hand.)
I love watching your videos! I went to grab your printable but it wouldn't fit on my screen to print. But I'll make something work.
Hi Shannon, I’m so happy that Danni introduced you. I have written to Danni to let her know that I have issues with cleaning and decluttering. I’m really overwhelmed; I tend to clean the same things over and over, then I’m too tired to actually start the actual decluttering stuff lol. My dream is similar to yours in that I picture a lovely, clean, decluttered home whereas the counters are cleared and I can actually make a cup of coffee without pushing things out of the way first. I dream of the beautiful aroma of clean. Actually I must be dreaming about living in someone’s home that’s not mine lmao. I’m trying though. I recently watched clutterbug and she explained to try to toss 21 items a day as a goal. I’m trying and getting there slowly, but it does make me feel good to do it.❤
🌞🌞🌝🌝 I really love your videos you encourage me and inspire me ! Thank you for being real and honest with us ! I am a lot like you in the fact of "anger cleaning" ... But I have changed that for the most part (my husband has always had a saying -
" If it doesn't matter tomorrow or in a week or even a year why stress about it !!?? " It only makes it worse and can eventually creep into our relationships when we stress or make a big deal out of nothing ... And it also doesn't make a good testimony or bring Glory to God ! Anyway , i struggle with clutter in the fact that if we have any especially a kot , i dont like dealing with it , it gets really overwhelming for me so i ignore it till i have no choice but to take care of it !
Anyway thanks again for being you and being real !
Oh girl! I feel you about the quick to anger thoughts. My husband also spoils me. I was fussing about how the laundry was being done this weekend, while my wonderful hubby was having a folding party. I just had to voice it and wanted him to hear me out. :) I am very grateful for him and all he does. I just can't keep all my thoughts in my head. I know he blows it off with tons of grace. But I am doing a better job at keeping thoughts to myself but have a way to go.
I too have people in my life that reinforce those negative thoughts about my motherly/wifey duties. I have a great husband that makes sure, I don't believe what I'm told. And I am better at crossing those ideas of others from my mind.
I absolutely love your channel. You and I have so much in common. Especially the anger cleaning and then being humbled by our husbands unselfish love for us. Our health struggles are similar as well. I have recently started following the carnivore diet and through that found Sally K Norton. She teaches about oxalates and their harmful effects on the body. I would suggest, If you find time, to you to look her up here on you tube and watch some of her interviews.
I can't say it enough, you're a ray of sunshine. So when I don't want to do one of the chores on my list of things to do, I try and remind myself how long will it really take and how good it will feel to be on the other side of it. I can't honestly say I 'enjoy' the chores but I've begun to love the feeling of getting it done, and walking back into the house when the bathroom is clean, or the vacuuming has been done. I wipe down the trash can, or the inside the microwave when I first notice it is dirty. But my kids are older now, and I'm sure I just had so much going on when my kids were your kids' ages, that like you, I could sit down for a second and be asleep almost immediately. Feel free to prioritize, and teach each child how to do one thing in the house they would enjoy doing as part of their responsibility. You'd be surprised- plus, know their personality. I was a social person that enjoyed doing something WITH another person. Some need to be left alone to get the job done.You're doing a great job!
You missed a spot...just joking😂nice job😊
You are my people 😂😂😂 This totally gave me a giggle
You did a good job on your cabinets! I also love Murphy oil soap. They also have a spray bottle that really comes in handy for in between cleaning. Spray it on and take a wet microfiber cloth and wipe it off. Easy Peasy !
I can relate to having a pessimistic mindset. I'm not married but a "friend" is staying with me for now and he is a slob to say the least 🤷🏾♀️. He does wash the dishes and his clothes but it's at his leisure so with that the clothes will sit on the floor in front of the washer for over a month. He never cleans the stove. I work and go to school and I clean up behind myself (as I should) so I'm always doing something so with his ways I have more work to do. Just patience and give alot of grace. I don't expect a deep clean every day but if you make a sandwich put the stuff back in the fridge don't leave it on the counter and wipe up any crumbs. I don't see how married people deal with it. It's good you and your husband has worked out something that works for y'all.
You are so darn cute and funny!!!
I wish that I could get my husband to help with something. My kids are grown and moved out but I am constantly picking up after my husband.
Also I love how much you bring up the Lord and the Bible!❤🎉Thats what it’s all about
I have been planning on a deep clean of the outsides do my kitchen cabinets since Christmas. Spring break here I come. Thanks for the inspiration!!!😂
Avoid using vinegar on natural stone, it becomes etched. Regular decluttering is the key-less stuff makes it easier to have a home for everything and make cleaning easier. Great job, Shannon🎉
I love Danni!!! So cool seeing 2 of my favorite channels collab!
Agree 💯 with the negative vs positive thinking, however, I don't think you're being pessimistic when you are irritated that someone leaves behind their messes for you to clean up, even someone you love, even someone who does sweet things for you. Leaving his mess with the expectation that you will clean it up is inconsiderate, and it's clear that he loves and cares for you, so it shouldn't be difficult for him to not leave messes for you. I'm really bad about leaving a mess in my bathroom in the morning, I'm working on it. But I don't expect anyone else to clean it up for me.
Shannon, I love you and your videos so much! Thanks so much for this. Have a blessed week!! 🥰
"Cleaning is a family responsibility in our household. We encourage our children to keep their bedrooms tidy and clean up after themselves. They are also responsible for taking their clothes upstairs and putting them away. To ensure that they have enough time for their after-school activities, we limit the number of chores they have to do."
I love how you and this channel lift us up and lift up other RUclipsrs who are trying to make it. I think people who like this channel would also like Dorman Family Circus. I just found it today and she is also a mom trying to declutter her house. I love this uplifting women who are putting in the effort ❤
Dang... that espresso machine story got me thinking. I find myself being pessimistic a lot too and will get mad at my boyfriend for not doing enough of this and that. But often times, it's just that he does other things or he didn't even know something has been an issue. Definitely got humbled like that on multiple occasions!😂 thanks for sharing :)
This video was so encouraging!
I’ve been feeling that heaviness lately.
Everything I try to do the devil gets in the way. Thank you for the pep talk! 😁
I am not domestic.. I readily admit it. And, I am inherently lazy. But I have always done was needed to be done.
I would rather clean 5 kitchens than cook.
Always enjoy your videos…
I disassociate from cleaning. I am listening to music or a favourite radio programme, talking written a friend while my hands are busy creating a comfortable environment. I choose to consider cleaning not a chore, but doing something needed to feel better, like washing my hair, doing my nails, exfoliating, brushing my teeth or clipping my toe nails, nothing enjoyable in itself but something that's part of my self care routine. And of course it's very important finding methods to be as effective as possible and to keep it clean/tidy as long as possible, to avoid feeling it's an endless battle that takes too much of my time.
Sorry for this third comment, but it's out of love. Would you sign up for a Kofi? It's where we can tip you. Or you can have that option on here.
Love your videos. The mystery stainless steel kitchen appliance with holes and cups is an egg poacher. You put water in pan, put desired number of eggs want to cook, heat on stove to almost boiling, break egg and put one in each steel cup and cook until desired firmness. I got one with a set of pots and pans I bought when I got engaged over 60 years ago.
I know all about the tongue sticking out...I've done it my entire life and so does my mom lol. If I hear "you're going to bite your tongue off" one more time though 😑 lol And I hate cleaning. I love a clean house and it always makes me feel so much better to have a clean house, I just find zero joy in cleaning.
🌞 Thanks Shannon, You're a ray of sunshine for me in the UK England xx Love the videos, 😎
I am already suscribed to both of you! Love both of you and your very different peronnalities. Keep it going!
Shannon! I love you and your videos! I asked previously but I’m sure my comment got lost in space, are you down to do a video about the meals you make with your ninja foodi? I have one and it is a tiny bit intimidating to me. I use it, but not as often as I should. Keep on keepin on!!! ❤
Dani is hilarious! But she gets the job done while smiling. Love making checklists. Get a little thrill checking off items. Still looking for a gloves.
Barbara O’Neil is a smart Christian woman, and she has a really good teaching on anxiety and depression and the neuropaths that are created just in our thinking. I can’t link it but you should really check it out.
🌞 I look forward to watching y'all collaborate. I love that the confessionals started in the kitchen! I feel like that's the most loved AND hated area.
Don't have to "find joy" or blessing to offset your response. Your response is data. When we can observe things and our involuntary responses and learn our values and needs. I value initiative so it bothers me when I see a lack of initiative. And then sometimes perhaps even communicating said value and need to others. Doesn't have to be positive or negative but a neutral thought observation..
Housewives of the past, I think, did much of the cleaning when the kids were at school. You are the school, so you don’t have that separation.
You are in your crunch years with your 3 kids! I had 3 kids so I understand. But you can love each day because your family loves you. You are lovable. Take one day at a time.
Hey Shannon. Did you clean the pedestal on the table. I’m always amazed at how dirty it gets. ❤
Visiting your RUclips channel as recommended by Danni Raearranged
Spreading the Word of God while you work!! Awesome! 🙌🙌🙌
I wouldn't say I'm a "chore lover" but I love having a clean and organized home. I do enjoy doing laundry 🧺. 😊
I use cleaning and organizing as therapy. I put on great music and the moving of my body gets my heart pumping. It makes me feel so good. ❤ it gives me peace
You are looking so great! You seem more energetic, it looks like you're moving with ease and you just look and sound more lively. You glow inside and out! 🥰
You were certainly "worthy" of my subscription! Xox
You are HILARIOUS, girl! Our cleaning styles are SO different, but our humor is the same. I love watching you because you remind me that differences are fine! We are not meant to be the same and I just love your laid back ness(is that even a word? LOL) and positivity.
I hope you take this with love, challenging the devils stubbornness is not wise. Look what he did to Job.
Great job! Are you going to declutter the inside of all your kitchen cabinets??
I stick my tongue out when I do stuff and I get it from my mothers side of the family. Was very difficult to not do that when I was doing martial arts but didn’t want to bite my tongue…
Awesome collab! You two have a similar vibe that I love... the real deal of homemaking.
You are definitely my soul sister. I used to base my worth on the cleanliness of my house too. It’s exhausting, both mentally and physically. I would also blame, and feel resentful towards my family for not helping me, and letting me do all of the work. Years later my son said, Mom, it was too hard to help you because no matter what we did, it wasn’t good enough. Boy did that hit me in the gut.
Thank you for being the real deal. I always look forward to your videos.
💜🙏 Love Language: Acts of service, even toward yourself!
Great video, especially about the selfishness. My husband works all day and I don’t have to, so I don’t ask much of him. Everything is my job. Maybe that’s wrong, but it’s the way my mind works. He’s appreciative of his clean home. That’s enough for me.
I don’t think it’s wrong at all. I really think it’s all about balance and there isn’t a one size fits all division of household responsibilities. If I didn’t work or homeschool I would feel more responsible for the household chores.
What have you eliminated from your diet for inflammation? I am going through menopause and I'm trying to figure out what foods hurt me.
I am a case manager for a program where we have agency’s that hire people to go in and clean for the elderly, I have been doing this since 1995 and we have reached a low , the entry level worker who are teenagers and this may be a first job ! DO NOT KNOW HOW TO CLEAN! If they don’t learn at home where are they going to learn ! It’s your responsibility to teach your children to take care of themselves! Your future daughter and son in law s will thank you!
Absolutely ❤️
Oh my goodness Shannon. I love Danni. I watch her all the time.
Thank you so much for giving God the credit for your energy. He has helped me so many times push through the dishes. I love watching your channel. And, I am going to use your to do list for myself. Love you! May God send you blessings for sharing Him with us. 🌞 ☀️
I'm visiting from Danni's channel. I think I'm going to feel very much at home here 😊 🌞
I never want to use my computer for youtube for that reason. Too many things can go wrong and o don’t have the patience so I just use my phone haha
Been following Danni from the beginning, looove her style. Great collab ❤
Hi I came over from Danni’s channel- good job on today’s video
A gente há têm tantos problemas então o lugar que vc têm liberdade de ser quem vc é precisa de uma atenção e só manter organizado supervisionado não deixando ser um caos que vc vai começar a gostar de arrumar sua casa
I do the same thing,you are totally right too.Not something God wants from us either.😊