As I said in my comment to that one, the girl should have said she was 15 and make the guy feel like a pedo, or honestly, shouted at him that she was 15 and to stop being a pedo.
Third story: I would have called the police and tell them that there’s an older gentleman here trying to pickup a known 16 y/o. And he’s acting violent.
I never understand stories where a guy is harassing someone for a phone number. Like, what do you think is gonna happen? Having the phone number magically means they'll go out with you?
@@kyleoppenheim8711Right? I only ask for numbers if we've been talking for a while and I think there's something there. If someone pestered me for my number I would tell them to get lost. Why would I expect others to do any different?
Story 6: Fluff, you didn't finish reading. Romanian Witch updated that her husband admitted to her that he was in an on-off affair with Mary. So she got a divorce.
@@maryjoyspohrer256 Mary is a name, anyone can have that name, it’s not referring to the biblical Mary, which is what I’m assuming you’re talking about, you can chill out a bit
Story 3 - There is a "dating coach" on the internet that says this crap. That men NEVER have to take "NO" for an answer. Extremely disgusting behavior. I don't care who you are, if a person tells you NO, that means NO. Period. As my mom used to tell people, "I said NO. What part don't you understand? The N or the O?"
Yuck, if this isn't supporting rape culture, idk how to call it. No is a complete sentence, it doesn't require an explanation, especially in such cases!
Story 3 - What a disgusting creep. Hitting on a 16 year old girl and harassing her to get her information. I would’ve called the police immediately when he refused to leave. I hope Barbie and the manager filed a report against that creep.
Yeah that one was unhinged i dont get how the worker even let it get that far that would habe NEVER passed at any fast food place i ever worked we would have had him trespassed the second the guy got mouthy the first time
If I were OP, I would've said "Oh, I know who you are. You're the creep who'll be leaving in handcuffs very soon if you don't get the hell out of here right now. That girl's a minor and she was very clear in letting you know, she's not interested. Now, you've got about 10 seconds before we call security..."
5th story. Why didn't you read all of it? It ends even better. The dad's company turns out to be the mom's, bought by her father. After the divorce he got nothing and his mistress disappeared when he was no longer rich.
I remember the story too.. It's satisfying at the courts case because it turns out that it was the mistress who suggests the open marriage thing in hope for the mom to divorcing the husband first so he could avoid alimony money.. But the plan backfired on himself..
Whenever someone says “I want an open marriage” what they really mean is “I want to cheat on you but I’ll get angry if you find someone other than me” and I’ve noticed whenever someone asks to open a marriage they are always the one to suggest closing it
Because they believe their spouse won't find someone else and when they do and the person doesn't have much luck. They get mad and try to act like it was a bad decision.
Story 6: Why should OP apologize for being mad that someone is being racist to her, calling OP witch over spilled wine? The wine was an accident, nobody's out to get her
There's an update actually. OP found her ex husband was cheating with Mary. That's why he was so insistant on defending her blaitant racism. They got divorced and if I recall well it did not end well for OP's ex husband.
For the last story, OP’s husband is definitely cheating on OP with Mary hence why he keeps inviting her around. OP needs to dump him as well, because it does sound like he is unfaithful.
Agreed, because there is no situation I can think of that would make the husband not an a-hole for siding with Mary. Like, she insulted OP in front of him and she's the one being sensitive? Hope she finds someone better
Story #3: When the EWM calls "Barbie" a whore, at that point all pleasantry should have been lost and told him to leave or get security/police. I hope that someone took her to her car / made sure she got home safely that day because holy hell that type of mentality is terrible.
He wasn't calling barbie a whore he was saying that if you're trying to buy a hooker & she says no you keep offering more money till she says yes & was claiming that if you're trying to get a girl's number the principle is the same if she says no keep pushing & demanding until she says yes
Story 2: Wow, that was a really disgusting mentality. He saw a random woman with a child and immediately thought "Single mother that gets f**ked by everyone." Where did he get this mentality from? Story 3: This one is even worse because even when the age is given, this guy refuses to stop, and even calls her a w***e (like that would do him any favors). Good on OP to defend the employee
The answer to the first question is the corner of the internet known as the "manosphere" which is basically an incel echo chamber filled with people like that calling themselves alphas, discussing how they are "owed" a woman and loving people like Andrew Tate. The misogyny is genuinely terrifying.
The statistics on single motherhood its 76% for African Americans 59% for Hispanic Americans 39% for white Americans and 31% for Asian Americans And single motherhood is the key indicator for SIGNIFICANTLY increased rates of drug use, criminality, and teen pregnancy This is all extremely well established statistical facts there are exceptions but we are rare and few and far between (im the son of a single mother) The way he assumed and said it is crass and rude as hell but he wasnt strictly wrong On story 3 yeesh yikes and gross jsut no the workers are WAAAAYYY too lenient i would have called the cops and have them trespassed long before it got any further
@@christophercombs7561Statistics isn't an excuse to profile and stereotype someone. This is just racism and sexism. Especially, since it just came out of godfuck nowhere. The lady just walked in, just vibing and this guy just loses it.
The grandson must be really, really bad for the granny to think that a person who would break their marriage would make him a better person. Unreal. Sounds like the whole family is nuts.
Story 6: I don't understand at all where OP's husband is coming from. If anyone, man or woman, made my wife uncomfortable in our home, their invitation would be rescinded immediately with no questions asked. It's super weird to me that the husband didn't step in to defend her during the drunken rant, and it's even weirder that he's taking the drunken co-worker's side. I'm sure that OP could find a better husband than that.
There's an update. I've copied it below: "Hey Reddit, it’s me, the witch! I thought I’d update you because some interesting stuff happened since my post. Me and my husband - we have talked, a LOT, but the subject of Mary always seems to be a danger zone. He told me he isn’t prepared to truly talk to me about Mary. We have tried to mend the relationship but after a few therapy sessions, I realised I carry way too much resentment towards my ex for any kind of relationship to work. Since my ex was shutting me out, I decided to speak to Mary, as I found out through the grapevine that she wanted to tell her part of the story. Mary admitted she went through some ‘situationships’ (by her description) with my ex and a couple of his other friends. The issue runs deeper though; when confronted as to why exactly she wanted me out so badly, Mary confessed that she actually got pregnant in high school but she either doesn’t know who the father is or didn’t want to say it outright, I can’t know for sure BUT it’s supposedly one of the guys in my ex’s group of friends. I guess the most likely option is that the father is my ex and she didn’t deny it. The child in question was put up for adoption and apparently found Mary as his/her biological mother a few months prior to the wine incident which caused her to ‘mourn’ the family she had to give up on in high school and sent her on a downright spiral of depression and anxiety and made me the sole recipient of her hate, because I was ‘the only obstacle in her way of her happy ending’. By my ex’s account, he had no idea Mary was pregnant in high school because she told everyone she’s doing some studying abroad for a few months and no one saw her or knew what was happening. Onto the witch part of the issue, Mary said she went through a phase where she was hanging out with self proclaimed ‘witches’ during high school to recover from the pain caused by having to give up her child, the PPD etc. The ‘witches’ gave her all sorts of ointments and and all kinds of readings about the child/the child’s future etc; turns out, the witches were a fraud, which sort of gave her the fire power to hate me even more and possibly fuelled her fantasy. I’m honestly not sure how much of it is true but here we are. In light of everything I discovered, I have to admit I do feel sorry for Mary. After seeing her perspective and talking with her, I can understand where she’s coming from but ultimately I am not her friend and the situation is none of my business, at least not after it’s been hidden from me all this time. Plus, her being dealt a bad hand does not mean she has to take everyone down with her. I haven’t been in contact with Mary and my ex since the divorce finalised in February 2021. I also did not keep in contact with my ex friends’ wives longer term, I appreciated the support but it seems like my situation triggered quite a few arguments and relationship problems and everyone sort of agreed to keep to themselves. Thank you again everyone! Much love! "
Story 1 - Ooookaaay, that was insane. I’ve heard of moms, aunts, and grannies playing matchmaker for their kids but this was next level insane and creepy. And despite seeing that OP is clearly married the granny had the balls to ask OP to leave her husband for her grandson as though she was asking her for the time?!
Bar is real low for her grandson! Any girl with a job and a pulse! (That he can mooch off of and move out of her place!) LOL I assume he lives with her because she probably wouldn't be so invested in his issues if he wasn't currently her problem but you never know people are crazy!
So basically the grandma knows her grandson is not fit to find a person to be in a relationship with on his own but doesn't consider it a problem inflicting him on someone she doesn't even know!!
She could have also been a nanny to the kid. My bestie is a nanny and she's got a super baby-face and in her mid-30s, she looks like she's maybe 19. She often takes her charges to the park and has to deal with morons like Cletus
@@LilBluSky0417 Please, don't insult morons!!! Cletus is the crap stain on the bottom of the gene pool. Toxic doesn't really cover that POSs mindset. I feel sorry for whoever has to work with him, and I hope whoever would hire him isn't just like him.
Story 2: Classic Incel logic. They can't get a partner so they blame everything on the woman and are extremely nitpicky to mask the fear of actually making an attempt at hooking up and being rejected.
Not just incel, although this guy definitely visits those forums. But also Tradwife stuff. And Andrew Tate and his alpha male nonsense. This guy drank all the conservative Koolaid.
3 major thing incels competely miss out on, and why they are single losers 1. Be comfortable being single. Be happy with your position. Being desperate for any type of love leads either you into an abusive relationship, or people to ignore you. I want a partner that wants me cause they like me, not cause they dont wanna be alone. 2. Be happy with yourself. Its not your partners job to fix you, its your job to fix you. Therapists get paid to help, spouses dont. 3. No is a full sentence, and no one owes you anything. Thats it, no more to add. All 3 add up to an undesirable partner. It had nothing to do with looks, and entirely their viewpoint
@@maryjoyspohrer256 involuntary celibate is what it stands for. people that want a partner and to have sex, but have decided that they are unlovable by societies standards, and are angry sbout it, even though it is their own view of themselves that makes them unlovable
OP & husband's female friend: If someone you care about tells you that comments made by another hurt their feelings or make them uncomfortable, do not ever tell them they are being too sensitive. That would garner my response of, "Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split ya."
@@star-boltlover9609 No because "You rule" is demoralizing and makes people like that even worse, it's actually so bad that I think BK should be shut the fuck down for it.
My best friend was raised by single mom. His dad died in the gulf war. Guess what he became a soldier like his dad. Later became a lawyer, that helps single parents. So no. That man is wrong!
I know where this whole thing comes from, and it's bad. It's this terminally online ultraconservative pipeline. It consists of a few groups. There is the alpha/sigma/omega male black-pilled part of the internet that worships people like Andrew Tate. But that's already going deep down the rabbit hole. Further up in the rabbit hole you have anti-woke RUclipsrs like The Quartering, Clownfish TV, Geeks+Gamers and many others. You also have a lot of incel forums where people blame women and feminism for their inability to find a sexual partner. And there's also the whole Tradwife stuff now with people like Ben and Abbey Shapiro. And not to forget people like Jordan Peterson who also plays into the Tradwife, anti-woke, and to some extent the alpha male thing.
That guy in the second story made me angry. She could be with a man but he's busy or at home. She could be divorced or widowed. The way he just jumped to conclusion in infuriating
The husband could've been *deployed* in a war zone (Iraq, Korea,, etc.) or as a peacekeeper (several other countries.) Or he could be deployed as a civil engineer, rebuilding some place after a tragic earthquake somewhere or another...
Story 2-what a disgusting attitude that dude has. No wonder he has no friends. Just assuming any woman alone with a child is automatically a single mother who will sleep with anyone is just gross. She could have been there alone for any number of reasons. Like if her husband was in the military/navy/whatever and serving overseas but she couldn't go. Her husband could be in the hospital fighting for his life, or working a job that day. She could be a widow for all that dude knows and he's dismissing her as a loose, disgusting, used up person for daring to have a kid at a "young age". Just gross
I'm terminally online enough to know where this thing comes from. It's a whole online ultraconservative pipeline. There this whole alpha-male black-pilled thing with figures like Andrew Tate. But that's already deep into the rabbit hole. Closer to the surface, you get your Tradwife shit with people like Ben and Abbey Shapiro. Then you have anti-woke "nerd" RUclipsrs like The Quartering, Clownfish TV, Geeks+Gamers, and others. And of course all the incel forums. It's a huge disgusting cesspool of terminally online insane people.
Story 1: I already hate when people try to play Cupid, but granny's got some nerve trying _that_ stunt. Story 2: I'd guess that Cletus is steeped in purity culture. If not that, then he's probably extremely bitter that he can't measure up enough that anyone would want to date him. Story 3: PREDATOR ALERT! That creep needs a boatload of restraining orders against him, if not locked up outright. Story 4-5: Either dad has no idea what an open relationship actually means, he thought his wife would be "too good" to try it out herself, and/or he's jealous at how much better at it she is than him. Serves him right. Story 6: OP's not being "too sensitive" about her heritage, Mary was making overtly racist remarks and accusations and had been for a while, and a _half-hearted_ apology suggests she's still stands by at least part of that tirade.
Story 5 - It is funny how quick they are to want an open marriage when they have someone in the wings ready and waiting but they never stop to think about how opening that door could be a better deal for their SO then them! I truly believe this is because in their minds they think so little of their partner they don't think they could/would use it so only they will benefit from it!
Story 3: I would have called the guy a pedophile for sexually harassing a 16 year old, and not taking no for an answer. Then I would have called the police no f or warnings given. I would have also had the security tapes ready for the police and asked that he be trespassed.
@@erinmalone2669I actually did that to a guy who was creeping on me at a club once! I was a volunteer with the local police department at the time, so when this idiot (who was old enough to be my father-YUK!) kept pestering me for my number, I gave him the number for the duty officer’s desk! 😈
"I'm way too sensitive about my heritage". Sounds like he doesn't care much about it either. She needs to re-evaluate some things. Heritage is everything.
Story 1: if I were OP I'd say to granny "Why do you keep asking if I'm single? Do you want to date me or something?" Story 6: NTA. OP's husband dismissing her as "too sensitive about her culture"... my guy she was blatantly racist to OP and has been before. Her being "drunk" is no excuse.
Story 1: I'd bet dollars to donuts that grandson is living with the old lady right now, causing all sorts of problems because of his partying ways. And old lady is so desperate to get him out of her house (even for a couple of hours at a time to date someone) that she is trying anything in her power to do so.
Story 3. Pro tip to anyone and everyone especially the ones working at a place like BK and thst happens. Memorize a police stations number three or four towns over. If that happens. Give them that number saying "Fine. Here is their number. Now order and leave." Dollars to donuts dude will harass the cops and learn them a lesson.
I’ll never forget the last time I went clubbing when I was 23! I spent 3 hours in this place, and the only guy to hit on me was a.) Old enough to be my father, and b.) He looked like a reject from _Saturday Night Fever,_ and this was in the late 90’s, so that look was _definitely_ long over! He had the pompadour hair, shirt opened halfway down the front, gold chains like crazy, tight polyester pants, and probably a sock in his crotch for all I know! And this guy was human flypaper, who just would _not_ take a hint-his only positive point was he could keep up with me on the dance floor. I got even, though-I was a volunteer with the local police department, so when he asked for my phone number, instead of giving him mine, I gave him the number of the duty officer’s desk! Oh, to be a fly on the wall when he tried calling it! 😈
@@dragondancer1814 Disco Stew is going over her to stew over this. ...... sorry had to try and make a Disco Stew reference (Disco Stew being from The Simpsons)
Story 4 - Truthfully I don’t like the idea of an open marriage myself but I do think it’s funny how OP’s dad was the one who wanted an Open Marriage so that he could sleep with other women only to turn into a petulant man child when he wasn’t getting the desired attention he wanted but OP’s mom was. Hopefully things are better for OP and her mom.
reminds me of sneako I think the reason why he turned "muslim" was not only becuz of his idol, but also the perks of polygamy he convinced his 'gf' to have an open relationship so he can cheat on her unfortunately for him, it was the other around, and now everyone is calling him a cuck
I grew up being told I'm being rude if I don't answer/listen to people. Hate that we have placate being nice. It mostly my elders telling me off. Also my mom was a single mom after her divorced to my father. At least both of my parents raise me with good morals.
Story 2 - What a disgusting way of thinking. A young woman goes to a restaurant with a baby stroller and he automatically assumes the worst of her? If he keeps up with that mentality he’ll never get a girlfriend/wife or have any friends.
@@christophercombs7561 Yes, there is many single mothers. However it is not always because of what Cletus claimed. Yes, some are from irresponsible young women (and the irresponsible men who slept with the women without protection, and refusing to stick around after a baby shows up). But some are from a bad husband/ boyfriend running off. Some are from being widowed. And sadly, some from rape/date rape.
Sixth story: I know there's more of that story. To simplify, OP's ex husband defended Mary's racism because he was cheating with her. So OP and that douche got divorced and if I remember right it did not ended well for OP's ex husband.
First story: The moment she insist on knowing about me that's the second either I tell her to mind her own business, leave me away from them and if not I'll kick her out of the seat in fear.
Story 3: I really hope the young lady was escorted home after work. Creeps like that would likely wait around for her to get off shift and follow her home. The police should have been called. That guy is a stalker.
Story 1: So Karen thinks OP needs a "good man" but had just got finished telling her that he wasn't one? OP should have said "Marriage is forever in the eyes of God!" Then ignored her. Story 3: At the end I would have LOUDLY announced "Leave immediately or I will call the police to have you arrested for attempting to solicit a child for sexual purposes" Then do it. Story 6: OP is NTA. Mary has insulted OP way too many times and should never be allowed the chance to do it again. I think that Mary wants OP's husband and doing this to get him.
When I was in college I dated a guy for a few weeks who worked in sales at a mall, was overweight, and thought he was the best looking man on earth. On our second date he said if I gained even ten pounds we were through and there was no way he was going to support me so I better get a good degree so I can get a job as good as his.
Cleetus also needs to change his Attitude and thinking because if he keeps thinking the way he showed OP, he's eventually going to say the wrong thing to the wrong person and at best, get the Unholy Howling HELL kicked out of him...at worst, he'll get himself killed...
Story #3 is on another level of creepy. The dude's hitting on a minor and is so unbelievably clueless (or more like doesn't care) about why it's not ok.
Also Cletus continues to wonder why he does not have any friends and cannot find a date. In seriousness though, what is with trashing the parent that remains with the children (assuming it is a single parent vs a widow or someone like this woman who was just waiting for her husband).
I was 18 and pregnant, looking all of 12 years old working at Jack in the Box. I take this guy's order a few times and I guess he notices I'm a brand new cashier. He asks for my number and I chuckle a lil bit out of sheer discomfort and he just finished his food without another word and left.
Story 2: me: What legitimately makes you think that a young woman with a kid means that she has opened her legs for every guy she's come across? For all you know, the father of that kid is the only time that Mother has ever opened them legs.
Without going into much detail Story 3 SERIOUSLY hits close for me because this happened to a co-worker of mine. We both work part time retail and a few months ago this guy comes in looking to do a refund, she was more than confident in doing it while I was working in the back room. So about idk maybe 10-15 minutes go by she comes back and wants to tell me something, I assumed she had a question so I said shoot, that's when she told me that guy hit on her and here's the kicker she's 19 and that guy looked about as old as my BIL. So I told her to tell our manager and supervisors that way we know that if he comes back, he ain't going near her. So if that guy comes back and tries anything he won't get far.
Hey Cletus! I was raised by a single mother. I have eight brothers and sisters. Our father died at a work accident. None of us are prostitutes, none of us are criminals. OP is right.0, you are going to wind up alone if you keep up that attitude!
Hitting on a woman in a relationship? My wife and I had been married for YEARS. A teenage kid already kind of years. And a few not quite teenage. But, she looked fantastic, (still does, 40 years later.) Got a job in a factory working afternoon shift, offsetting my day shift, as the need for money set in. Her supervisor ends up was quite the lady's man. Hit on everybody, and kept a score card type. He started after my wife, she held no secrets from me, she was actually flattered. Can't blame her. He started getting a little more touchy feely, she got scared. She asked me what to do. i told her, just introduce him to me. She did. I shook his hand once. He cold stopped hitting on her, and a few others I heard. I'm not tall, or handsome, but, I am a stocky farmer, who's hands are scarred from working both in a factory, and a life of farming. I don't need to go to a gym and work out, I go out to a field, and work. Last we heard pretty boy was in court, paternity issues.
That fourth story sounds like the dad was putting her up against a double edged sword. He is the one who instigated the open marriage idea with intentions to go after the secretary, hoping to provoke and entrap the mom into a "gotcha" moment but it all backfired.
Story 2: CLETUS, YOU SICK BEING!! >:( I AGREE WITH OP!!!! THAT IS AN INSULT TO WOMEN EVERYWHERE CLETUS!!!! AND A ONE OFF?!! HECK NAW!! YOU PRACTICALLY INSULTED EVERY WOMAN (TRANS OR BIOLOGY BORN) OUT THERE!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡
@@countingraz Agree. Cletus needs to stop visiting whatever web pages he checks. Also, If he doesn't change his attitude, I have a feeling he's not going to keep that job OP's wife found for him.
It's an Andrew Tate follower. Probably also active on incel forums, a fan of Jordan Peterson, part of the whole Tradwife thing with Ben and Abbey Shapiro. It's a whole pipeline.
I had a coworker one night who when I showed her a picture of my great niece say "Eww" because she didn't like babies. I almost said "Sorry you had a messed up childhood" but I didn't. But what that guy said in the story with the woman and her baby was way worse
Gotta love when the pedos just full on announce themselves. With his attitude I have a very strong suspicion that there are multiple women, and girls, he did not accept a no from and they just haven't pressed charges yet.
Story 5: There are some relationships that can succeed with being open, but it has to be an actual part of the relationship and not a way of avoiding it. And like all parts of relationships there needs to be some symmetry, where everyone involved is getting something they want or need out of it. Which is a large part of why a lot of people who find the idea of an open relationship appealing could never actually maintain one. They treat it selfishly, as something they are getting, and not considering what their partner is getting.
Matchmaker Story: If I were OP, I'd have bluntly told Granny that Where I live, where I work and my Relationship Status are quite frankly none of her Business and are NOT an acceptable topic of conversation, then (as OP did) put my earbud in and resumed listening to music...
Here's a tip for service industry peeps: look up rejection or joke phone numbers and memorize one or two, when I worked fast food I'd always put up sticky notes and such with the fake numbers so the girls I worked with knew about them
If a creep asks for your number, give them the non-emergency number of the police station it'll be flipping hilarious just knowing that he's gonna call the cops and be like "heeeey girrrrl"
Story 3: Whenever someone in such a situation asks if you know who they are, the correct answer is: "Yes, sir. You are the one who will be escorted out by security if you don't leave the shop on your own initiative."
I hope the employees keep an eye on Barbie, like walking her to her car, never working alone, etc. It’s sad to say that, but in this world, that’s the type of guy who might accost her when she’s alone or follow her home. Seriously they should have called the cops when he wouldn’t leave, because then at least they would have a record of the harassment.
I was married and went everywhere with my two children without their father. He was usually at work when I went food shopping, clothes shopping out for lunch with my kids, to the laundromat and anywhere else needed. He was a boilermaker and I have traveled as far as central Mexico to where he was working with 2 toddlers. Talk about being judgmental.
I've seen a lot of things (paramedic) and I was still utterly disgusted by some of the people in these stories. OP in the title story (Barbie's supervisor) should have called the cops for blatant sexual harassment of a minor.
There's a saying, "16 will get you 30." as in years. That guy's a pedo and he's a danger. He should have been arrested for sexual harassment and stalking. I hope they walked her to her car for a couple weeks, just in case. ALL the alarm bells were going off in my head. As for Mary's situation about OP, she's wanting the husband. She's looking for some way to break them off.
Wow, "Cletus" seems like a real prize. He must have gotten the basement apartment because it reminds him of the setup he had at his mom's place. The guy at Burger King sounds like a sexual predator, or just plain a psycho. "No" means "no" - NOT "I want you to harass and demean me until you get what you want". In the last story, "Mary" is totally trying to replace OP by turning her husband against her.
Many years ago I worked in restaurants and other places where creeps would hit on me. I always gave them “my” number which was exactly the same as the sheriff’s office. 😂
Soooo, the guy sexually harassed a cashier at a fast food restaurant. She tells him she's 16. He continues to harass her and doesn't walk out in handcuffs?!!??!!
Story #5: it was so obvious thst this would backfire!! I love it! Props to OP and her mum! Especially to OP's mum! She served this entitled cheater husband some of his own medicine! Well played! 😏
I remember years ago my dad and I did a job for a family and the woman's father was living with them. He's actually from Transylvania, Romania. He had a Very Strong Romanian accent from the Transylvania area and he looked like Peter Lorre. The man loved talking about his homeland and area. He got on the topic of Vlad Tepes (Vlad the Impaler) and told us the history of how the whole thing turned into Dracula. I knew a bit of the history of it but this man being from the area told me things I didn't even know about.
"My husband said she was just drunk" "In vino veritas" as the ancient sayin goes. Drunk people lose their inhibitions and often say what they are thinking without filters. So yeah, trust that she meant all of that.
Story 6: NTA. You don't have to be friends with Mary, but she does need to be respectful of you when in your house. My partner and I BOTH have vetoed certain people from visiting our house (ending one friendship, and massively limiting another). If someone can't be respectful in your own home, they don't get to be in your home.
Story 6: OP is not the Ahole and being drunk is not an excuse. Being drunk just removes inhibitions, it doesn't magically transform you into another person.
Story 3: "Do you know who I am?" You're the guy who belongs on a sex offender registry for solicitation of a minor, that's all we need to know.
Forget a SO registry, he'd look better in an obituary.
As I said in my comment to that one, the girl should have said she was 15 and make the guy feel like a pedo, or honestly, shouted at him that she was 15 and to stop being a pedo.
"Do you know who I am!?"... (reply) "Aren't you the guy who just got out of jail for soliciting minors?"
@@RyanthusarIsn’t 16 still a minor outside of Japan?
@@thelonemask nz is 16 too
Third story: I would have called the police and tell them that there’s an older gentleman here trying to pickup a known 16 y/o. And he’s acting violent.
He's no gentleman!
You're too old to believe all these stories my man. You can tell that one was written by a female although it claims to be a male
@@nannettepolcastro4799but you cannot insult them to the police. That would only make you suspicious.
I never understand stories where a guy is harassing someone for a phone number. Like, what do you think is gonna happen? Having the phone number magically means they'll go out with you?
@@kyleoppenheim8711Right? I only ask for numbers if we've been talking for a while and I think there's something there. If someone pestered me for my number I would tell them to get lost. Why would I expect others to do any different?
Story 6: Fluff, you didn't finish reading. Romanian Witch updated that her husband admitted to her that he was in an on-off affair with Mary. So she got a divorce.
I'm shocked. SHOCKED!
Well not that shocked
And I saw your post after I've posted my comment about ripping into the moron. Glad she got away from the spineless sap.
WHAT????? That jerk! (and stop calling these evil women 'Mary"! It hurts my heart!)
@@maryjoyspohrer256 Mary is a name, anyone can have that name, it’s not referring to the biblical Mary, which is what I’m assuming you’re talking about, you can chill out a bit
@@froggy8714 My money's on "bloody Mary" since it's impossible for the mother of Christ to be a sinner
Story 3 - There is a "dating coach" on the internet that says this crap. That men NEVER have to take "NO" for an answer. Extremely disgusting behavior. I don't care who you are, if a person tells you NO, that means NO. Period. As my mom used to tell people, "I said NO. What part don't you understand? The N or the O?"
My favorite was "I'm sorry, do you think you're in a brothel? Hey everyone! Seems we're in the s*x industry now!"
So that idiot is the reason there are too many Nice Guys™️ and incels running wild?
Yuck, if this isn't supporting rape culture, idk how to call it. No is a complete sentence, it doesn't require an explanation, especially in such cases!
Story 3 - What a disgusting creep. Hitting on a 16 year old girl and harassing her to get her information. I would’ve called the police immediately when he refused to leave. I hope Barbie and the manager filed a report against that creep.
Yeah report his ass! That is a very dangerous situation
Yeah that one was unhinged i dont get how the worker even let it get that far that would habe NEVER passed at any fast food place i ever worked we would have had him trespassed the second the guy got mouthy the first time
@@motheroftears25 i would have pulled my phone out and called the cops myself i would never allow a customer to behave that way to a coworker
If I were OP, I would've said "Oh, I know who you are. You're the creep who'll be leaving in handcuffs very soon if you don't get the hell out of here right now. That girl's a minor and she was very clear in letting you know, she's not interested. Now, you've got about 10 seconds before we call security..."
@@lacko623 right
5th story. Why didn't you read all of it? It ends even better. The dad's company turns out to be the mom's, bought by her father. After the divorce he got nothing and his mistress disappeared when he was no longer rich.
Maybe he got an incomplete/abridged version that left that out.
@@DarkEinherjar Could be. Didn't think of that.
lmfao serves him right 🤣👌🏽
I remember the story too.. It's satisfying at the courts case because it turns out that it was the mistress who suggests the open marriage thing in hope for the mom to divorcing the husband first so he could avoid alimony money.. But the plan backfired on himself..
Whenever someone says “I want an open marriage” what they really mean is “I want to cheat on you but I’ll get angry if you find someone other than me” and I’ve noticed whenever someone asks to open a marriage they are always the one to suggest closing it
Because they believe their spouse won't find someone else and when they do and the person doesn't have much luck. They get mad and try to act like it was a bad decision.
Gotta love the stories where a husband wants an open marriage, and GREATLY overestimates his own market value.
Yep! Happens every time!
🎶Tale as old as time🎶
So nice the wife realized her own market value!
😂😂😂😂😂
Story 6: Why should OP apologize for being mad that someone is being racist to her, calling OP witch over spilled wine? The wine was an accident, nobody's out to get her
I also hate how the husband DID NOT DEFEND HER AT ALL
And remember that alcohol does effect the brain so while she was drunk that was most likely her true self and feelings she had towards OP
That story had an update; turns out the husband was having an affair with Mary.
@@barbarapearson5896 Yup, was waiting for someone to mention this
There's an update actually. OP found her ex husband was cheating with Mary. That's why he was so insistant on defending her blaitant racism. They got divorced and if I recall well it did not end well for OP's ex husband.
For the last story, OP’s husband is definitely cheating on OP with Mary hence why he keeps inviting her around. OP needs to dump him as well, because it does sound like he is unfaithful.
Agreed, because there is no situation I can think of that would make the husband not an a-hole for siding with Mary. Like, she insulted OP in front of him and she's the one being sensitive? Hope she finds someone better
This is how single women destroy married women's relationships. You both need to just mind your own and stay the eff out of other people's.
@@wstavis3135There's an update. Husband WAS cheating with Mary.
Apparently, the story had an update where it's revealed the husband was having an affair with Mary.
@@wstavis3135 look at the comment below yours, enough said 🙄
Story #3: When the EWM calls "Barbie" a whore, at that point all pleasantry should have been lost and told him to leave or get security/police. I hope that someone took her to her car / made sure she got home safely that day because holy hell that type of mentality is terrible.
EWM? What's that?
I was thinking the same thing.
He wasn't calling barbie a whore he was saying that if you're trying to buy a hooker & she says no you keep offering more money till she says yes & was claiming that if you're trying to get a girl's number the principle is the same if she says no keep pushing & demanding until she says yes
@@rpgqueen8737 entitled white male maybe
Story 2: Wow, that was a really disgusting mentality. He saw a random woman with a child and immediately thought "Single mother that gets f**ked by everyone." Where did he get this mentality from?
Story 3: This one is even worse because even when the age is given, this guy refuses to stop, and even calls her a w***e (like that would do him any favors). Good on OP to defend the employee
The answer to the first question is the corner of the internet known as the "manosphere" which is basically an incel echo chamber filled with people like that calling themselves alphas, discussing how they are "owed" a woman and loving people like Andrew Tate. The misogyny is genuinely terrifying.
The statistics on single motherhood its 76% for African Americans 59% for Hispanic Americans 39% for white Americans and 31% for Asian Americans
And single motherhood is the key indicator for SIGNIFICANTLY increased rates of drug use, criminality, and teen pregnancy
This is all extremely well established statistical facts there are exceptions but we are rare and few and far between (im the son of a single mother)
The way he assumed and said it is crass and rude as hell but he wasnt strictly wrong
On story 3 yeesh yikes and gross jsut no the workers are WAAAAYYY too lenient i would have called the cops and have them trespassed long before it got any further
@@christophercombs7561 There's statistics and there's being rude
Don't defend the rude no matter their level of "right"
@@christophercombs7561Statistics isn't an excuse to profile and stereotype someone. This is just racism and sexism. Especially, since it just came out of godfuck nowhere. The lady just walked in, just vibing and this guy just loses it.
@@countingraz oh i know his comments on that young mother were very gross but the fundamental information in his little rant isnt strictly wrong
Story 1: No means no. Got a feeling that the grandma is desperate to find anyone to fix his problem grandchild.
That’s definitely what it sounds like.
So the grandma is trans? I am so confused.😂
The grandson must be really, really bad for the granny to think that a person who would break their marriage would make him a better person. Unreal. Sounds like the whole family is nuts.
Or the grandson is gay and the old lady wants to "fix" him by getting him a girlfriend...
@@goldaer9582 Ohhh i didn’t even think of that possibility
Story 3; with regards to the "do you know who I am" line, the term "paedophiliac sexual predator" springs to mind.
I was thinking the same thing!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Story 6: I don't understand at all where OP's husband is coming from. If anyone, man or woman, made my wife uncomfortable in our home, their invitation would be rescinded immediately with no questions asked. It's super weird to me that the husband didn't step in to defend her during the drunken rant, and it's even weirder that he's taking the drunken co-worker's side. I'm sure that OP could find a better husband than that.
He's probably boning Mary
The story had an update, where it's revealed the husband was having an affair with Mary
There's an update. I've copied it below:
"Hey Reddit, it’s me, the witch!
I thought I’d update you because some interesting stuff happened since my post.
Me and my husband - we have talked, a LOT, but the subject of Mary always seems to be a danger zone. He told me he isn’t prepared to truly talk to me about Mary. We have tried to mend the relationship but after a few therapy sessions, I realised I carry way too much resentment towards my ex for any kind of relationship to work.
Since my ex was shutting me out, I decided to speak to Mary, as I found out through the grapevine that she wanted to tell her part of the story. Mary admitted she went through some ‘situationships’ (by her description) with my ex and a couple of his other friends. The issue runs deeper though; when confronted as to why exactly she wanted me out so badly, Mary confessed that she actually got pregnant in high school but she either doesn’t know who the father is or didn’t want to say it outright, I can’t know for sure BUT it’s supposedly one of the guys in my ex’s group of friends. I guess the most likely option is that the father is my ex and she didn’t deny it. The child in question was put up for adoption and apparently found Mary as his/her biological mother a few months prior to the wine incident which caused her to ‘mourn’ the family she had to give up on in high school and sent her on a downright spiral of depression and anxiety and made me the sole recipient of her hate, because I was ‘the only obstacle in her way of her happy ending’. By my ex’s account, he had no idea Mary was pregnant in high school because she told everyone she’s doing some studying abroad for a few months and no one saw her or knew what was happening.
Onto the witch part of the issue, Mary said she went through a phase where she was hanging out with self proclaimed ‘witches’ during high school to recover from the pain caused by having to give up her child, the PPD etc. The ‘witches’ gave her all sorts of ointments and and all kinds of readings about the child/the child’s future etc; turns out, the witches were a fraud, which sort of gave her the fire power to hate me even more and possibly fuelled her fantasy. I’m honestly not sure how much of it is true but here we are.
In light of everything I discovered, I have to admit I do feel sorry for Mary. After seeing her perspective and talking with her, I can understand where she’s coming from but ultimately I am not her friend and the situation is none of my business, at least not after it’s been hidden from me all this time. Plus, her being dealt a bad hand does not mean she has to take everyone down with her.
I haven’t been in contact with Mary and my ex since the divorce finalised in February 2021.
I also did not keep in contact with my ex friends’ wives longer term, I appreciated the support but it seems like my situation triggered quite a few arguments and relationship problems and everyone sort of agreed to keep to themselves.
Thank you again everyone! Much love! "
Story 1 - Ooookaaay, that was insane. I’ve heard of moms, aunts, and grannies playing matchmaker for their kids but this was next level insane and creepy. And despite seeing that OP is clearly married the granny had the balls to ask OP to leave her husband for her grandson as though she was asking her for the time?!
Boyfriend but you’re right.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 oh whoops, my bad
Bar is real low for her grandson! Any girl with a job and a pulse! (That he can mooch off of and move out of her place!) LOL I assume he lives with her because she probably wouldn't be so invested in his issues if he wasn't currently her problem but you never know people are crazy!
@LoveOnTheInsidex3 The lady thought it was her husband, so you're both right.
@tmntfangirl4700 The lady thought it was her husband, so you were both right.
The story about the 16 year old? I hope she had a safe way home because that creep might have followed her!
So basically the grandma knows her grandson is not fit to find a person to be in a relationship with on his own but doesn't consider it a problem inflicting him on someone she doesn't even know!!
Maybe she is desperate to get him out of her basement
@@JuntosXlaLibertadMileyBuIIrichMy thought exactly! 😅
Maybe he got all of his charms from his grandmother.
Story 3: even actual brothels don't have the kind of customer service that guy wanted.
Eventually he'll either get his butt kicked by her pimp, or she'll rufie him and rob him and leave. 😅
The stroller mom could have been a widow, why did Cletus "assume the worst"?
Because that's how people/men like him think of a mother alone
Anything to justify putting a woman down to make themselves look better in comparison
If I had to guess? I'd say lead paint or fetal alcohol syndrome.
He was most likely raised with that toxic mentality
EDIT: Fixed typos
She could have also been a nanny to the kid. My bestie is a nanny and she's got a super baby-face and in her mid-30s, she looks like she's maybe 19. She often takes her charges to the park and has to deal with morons like Cletus
@@LilBluSky0417 Please, don't insult morons!!! Cletus is the crap stain on the bottom of the gene pool. Toxic doesn't really cover that POSs mindset. I feel sorry for whoever has to work with him, and I hope whoever would hire him isn't just like him.
Last story - You're still responsible for what you do while you're drunk.
Try using "I was drunk" as an excuse when you run over a family.
Story 2: Classic Incel logic. They can't get a partner so they blame everything on the woman and are extremely nitpicky to mask the fear of actually making an attempt at hooking up and being rejected.
Not just incel, although this guy definitely visits those forums. But also Tradwife stuff. And Andrew Tate and his alpha male nonsense. This guy drank all the conservative Koolaid.
3 major thing incels competely miss out on, and why they are single losers
1. Be comfortable being single. Be happy with your position. Being desperate for any type of love leads either you into an abusive relationship, or people to ignore you. I want a partner that wants me cause they like me, not cause they dont wanna be alone.
2. Be happy with yourself. Its not your partners job to fix you, its your job to fix you. Therapists get paid to help, spouses dont.
3. No is a full sentence, and no one owes you anything. Thats it, no more to add.
All 3 add up to an undesirable partner. It had nothing to do with looks, and entirely their viewpoint
Can someone help granny out? What in thunder is an 'Incel'?
@@maryjoyspohrer256 involuntary celibate is what it stands for.
people that want a partner and to have sex, but have decided that they are unlovable by societies standards, and are angry sbout it, even though it is their own view of themselves that makes them unlovable
@Flarflenugen Oh, my goodness! Thank you so much for the education luv! 😄
OP & husband's female friend:
If someone you care about tells you that comments made by another hurt their feelings or make them uncomfortable, do not ever tell them they are being too sensitive. That would garner my response of, "Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split ya."
Story 3: Pretty sure "Have it your way" doesn't mean hitting on the staff when they're several years younger than the customer.
Good thing the slogan has changed, right?
@@star-boltlover9609 No because "You rule" is demoralizing and makes people like that even worse, it's actually so bad that I think BK should be shut the fuck down for it.
My best friend was raised by single mom. His dad died in the gulf war. Guess what he became a soldier like his dad. Later became a lawyer, that helps single parents. So no. That man is wrong!
I know where this whole thing comes from, and it's bad. It's this terminally online ultraconservative pipeline.
It consists of a few groups. There is the alpha/sigma/omega male black-pilled part of the internet that worships people like Andrew Tate. But that's already going deep down the rabbit hole.
Further up in the rabbit hole you have anti-woke RUclipsrs like The Quartering, Clownfish TV, Geeks+Gamers and many others. You also have a lot of incel forums where people blame women and feminism for their inability to find a sexual partner. And there's also the whole Tradwife stuff now with people like Ben and Abbey Shapiro. And not to forget people like Jordan Peterson who also plays into the Tradwife, anti-woke, and to some extent the alpha male thing.
That guy in the second story made me angry. She could be with a man but he's busy or at home. She could be divorced or widowed. The way he just jumped to conclusion in infuriating
Yep. I kept thinking "OP....punch Cletus's lights out"
Cletus is definitely a sexist pig
The husband could've been *deployed* in a war zone (Iraq, Korea,, etc.) or as a peacekeeper (several other countries.) Or he could be deployed as a civil engineer, rebuilding some place after a tragic earthquake somewhere or another...
@@Rylosalex You're not the only one. I think I would have paid for the food and walked out. Cletus can take the bus home or call a cab.
Story 2-what a disgusting attitude that dude has. No wonder he has no friends. Just assuming any woman alone with a child is automatically a single mother who will sleep with anyone is just gross. She could have been there alone for any number of reasons. Like if her husband was in the military/navy/whatever and serving overseas but she couldn't go. Her husband could be in the hospital fighting for his life, or working a job that day. She could be a widow for all that dude knows and he's dismissing her as a loose, disgusting, used up person for daring to have a kid at a "young age". Just gross
I'm terminally online enough to know where this thing comes from. It's a whole online ultraconservative pipeline.
There this whole alpha-male black-pilled thing with figures like Andrew Tate. But that's already deep into the rabbit hole. Closer to the surface, you get your Tradwife shit with people like Ben and Abbey Shapiro. Then you have anti-woke "nerd" RUclipsrs like The Quartering, Clownfish TV, Geeks+Gamers, and others. And of course all the incel forums. It's a huge disgusting cesspool of terminally online insane people.
Story 3: should have skipped security, and instead called the cops.
Story 1: I already hate when people try to play Cupid, but granny's got some nerve trying _that_ stunt.
Story 2: I'd guess that Cletus is steeped in purity culture. If not that, then he's probably extremely bitter that he can't measure up enough that anyone would want to date him.
Story 3: PREDATOR ALERT! That creep needs a boatload of restraining orders against him, if not locked up outright.
Story 4-5: Either dad has no idea what an open relationship actually means, he thought his wife would be "too good" to try it out herself, and/or he's jealous at how much better at it she is than him. Serves him right.
Story 6: OP's not being "too sensitive" about her heritage, Mary was making overtly racist remarks and accusations and had been for a while, and a _half-hearted_ apology suggests she's still stands by at least part of that tirade.
Story 5 - It is funny how quick they are to want an open marriage when they have someone in the wings ready and waiting but they never stop to think about how opening that door could be a better deal for their SO then them! I truly believe this is because in their minds they think so little of their partner they don't think they could/would use it so only they will benefit from it!
Story 3: I would have called the guy a pedophile for sexually harassing a 16 year old, and not taking no for an answer. Then I would have called the police no f or warnings given. I would have also had the security tapes ready for the police and asked that he be trespassed.
Story 3: Situations like that, the girl should just give him her dad's number
1-800-YOU-CREEP hotline 😁
since she must run into this more often than not, "Barbie" needs to memorize the phone number for the local police department and hand that out.
The non emergency police number
@@erinmalone2669I actually did that to a guy who was creeping on me at a club once! I was a volunteer with the local police department at the time, so when this idiot (who was old enough to be my father-YUK!) kept pestering me for my number, I gave him the number for the duty officer’s desk! 😈
Nope tell him her phone number is 911
"I'm way too sensitive about my heritage".
Sounds like he doesn't care much about it either. She needs to re-evaluate some things. Heritage is everything.
My best friend is a single mother and her son is amazing and we both become friends as well he is trying to become a professional bowler.
Story 1: if I were OP I'd say to granny "Why do you keep asking if I'm single? Do you want to date me or something?"
Story 6: NTA. OP's husband dismissing her as "too sensitive about her culture"... my guy she was blatantly racist to OP and has been before. Her being "drunk" is no excuse.
Story 6: here in Ukraine we have a saying "what is on the mind of a sober person is on the tongue of a drunk
Story 1: I'd bet dollars to donuts that grandson is living with the old lady right now, causing all sorts of problems because of his partying ways. And old lady is so desperate to get him out of her house (even for a couple of hours at a time to date someone) that she is trying anything in her power to do so.
Story 1: She should have said "I won't leave my husband but your grandson is welcome to join the both of us"
Story 3. Pro tip to anyone and everyone especially the ones working at a place like BK and thst happens. Memorize a police stations number three or four towns over. If that happens. Give them that number saying "Fine. Here is their number. Now order and leave." Dollars to donuts dude will harass the cops and learn them a lesson.
This disgusting perv thinks this behavior is okay for a customer!? He's an arsehat. Is he a "pdf-file" in training? 😡
I’ll never forget the last time I went clubbing when I was 23! I spent 3 hours in this place, and the only guy to hit on me was a.) Old enough to be my father, and b.) He looked like a reject from _Saturday Night Fever,_ and this was in the late 90’s, so that look was _definitely_ long over! He had the pompadour hair, shirt opened halfway down the front, gold chains like crazy, tight polyester pants, and probably a sock in his crotch for all I know! And this guy was human flypaper, who just would _not_ take a hint-his only positive point was he could keep up with me on the dance floor.
I got even, though-I was a volunteer with the local police department, so when he asked for my phone number, instead of giving him mine, I gave him the number of the duty officer’s desk! Oh, to be a fly on the wall when he tried calling it! 😈
@@dragondancer1814 Disco Stew is going over her to stew over this.
...... sorry had to try and make a Disco Stew reference (Disco Stew being from The Simpsons)
@@dragondancer1814 but yeah I agree. Would've enjoyed hearing what happened.
At least he finally got the hint and left before it got worse, that was creepy as heck...
Story 4 - Truthfully I don’t like the idea of an open marriage myself but I do think it’s funny how OP’s dad was the one who wanted an Open Marriage so that he could sleep with other women only to turn into a petulant man child when he wasn’t getting the desired attention he wanted but OP’s mom was.
Hopefully things are better for OP and her mom.
reminds me of sneako
I think the reason why he turned "muslim" was not only becuz of his idol, but also the perks of polygamy
he convinced his 'gf' to have an open relationship so he can cheat on her
unfortunately for him, it was the other around, and now everyone is calling him a cuck
I grew up being told I'm being rude if I don't answer/listen to people. Hate that we have placate being nice. It mostly my elders telling me off.
Also my mom was a single mom after her divorced to my father. At least both of my parents raise me with good morals.
Story 2 - What a disgusting way of thinking. A young woman goes to a restaurant with a baby stroller and he automatically assumes the worst of her?
If he keeps up with that mentality he’ll never get a girlfriend/wife or have any friends.
That guy is an incel
That assumption was really gross i agree hes not however strictly wrong but thats a difficult topic and to male that kind of assumption is just gross
@@christophercombs7561 Yes, there is many single mothers. However it is not always because of what Cletus claimed. Yes, some are from irresponsible young women (and the irresponsible men who slept with the women without protection, and refusing to stick around after a baby shows up). But some are from a bad husband/ boyfriend running off. Some are from being widowed. And sadly, some from rape/date rape.
@@tsubakiofmelancholy6297 sure that happens never said it didnt
@@christophercombs7561 I know, I was agreeing with you, and also pointing out the various reasons a woman may be a single mother.
Story 2 its no wonder he's single
And hopefully remains so. 😅
Sixth story: I know there's more of that story. To simplify, OP's ex husband defended Mary's racism because he was cheating with her. So OP and that douche got divorced and if I remember right it did not ended well for OP's ex husband.
First story: The moment she insist on knowing about me that's the second either I tell her to mind her own business, leave me away from them and if not I'll kick her out of the seat in fear.
Tell her, "Of good! My last BF dumped me when I tried to poison him. What's your son's name?" 😅
Story 3: I really hope the young lady was escorted home after work. Creeps like that would likely wait around for her to get off shift and follow her home. The police should have been called. That guy is a stalker.
Story 1: So Karen thinks OP needs a "good man" but had just got finished telling her that he wasn't one? OP should have said "Marriage is forever in the eyes of God!" Then ignored her.
Story 3: At the end I would have LOUDLY announced "Leave immediately or I will call the police to have you arrested for attempting to solicit a child for sexual purposes" Then do it.
Story 6: OP is NTA. Mary has insulted OP way too many times and should never be allowed the chance to do it again. I think that Mary wants OP's husband and doing this to get him.
There is an update: The husband was having an affair with his "friend".
@@star-boltlover9609
Yup...kind of figured...thank you for the information :)
Andrew Taint and Fake & Phony got these dudes out here delusional as hell.. 😂😂
They REALLY do and it would be hilarious if it weren't so sad.
As soon as he said "high value man" I figured he had to be a Tate disciple!
It's actually Andrew Tate, but I think Andrew Taint is an excellent nickname.
When I was in college I dated a guy for a few weeks who worked in sales at a mall, was overweight, and thought he was the best looking man on earth. On our second date he said if I gained even ten pounds we were through and there was no way he was going to support me so I better get a good degree so I can get a job as good as his.
I'm guessing he didn't make it to a third date.
If that was his usual tact, I doubt he was good at sales.
@meh2510 No. I don't think he was, we always paid our own way and he always got the cheapest thing on the menu and asked if the water was free.
First story: I hate matchmakers, Disney's Mulan ruined it for me.
"Pour the tea"
Story 1: Lady, if you can't spot the crazy person on the bus, it's YOU.
The Buger KingStory- I hope somebody walks her to her car when shift ended. The creep probably came and waited other to get off work
Cleetus also needs to change his Attitude and thinking because if he keeps thinking the way he showed OP, he's eventually going to say the wrong thing to the wrong person and at best, get the Unholy Howling HELL kicked out of him...at worst, he'll get himself killed...
Story #3 is on another level of creepy. The dude's hitting on a minor and is so unbelievably clueless (or more like doesn't care) about why it's not ok.
Story 3: she should give him the number to the rejection hotline. Yes, that s the real thing
Also Cletus continues to wonder why he does not have any friends and cannot find a date. In seriousness though, what is with trashing the parent that remains with the children (assuming it is a single parent vs a widow or someone like this woman who was just waiting for her husband).
First story - What she should have said is, "Well, I don't think my WIFE would like that."
I was 18 and pregnant, looking all of 12 years old working at Jack in the Box. I take this guy's order a few times and I guess he notices I'm a brand new cashier. He asks for my number and I chuckle a lil bit out of sheer discomfort and he just finished his food without another word and left.
Story 2: me: What legitimately makes you think that a young woman with a kid means that she has opened her legs for every guy she's come across? For all you know, the father of that kid is the only time that Mother has ever opened them legs.
Without going into much detail Story 3 SERIOUSLY hits close for me because this happened to a co-worker of mine. We both work part time retail and a few months ago this guy comes in looking to do a refund, she was more than confident in doing it while I was working in the back room. So about idk maybe 10-15 minutes go by she comes back and wants to tell me something, I assumed she had a question so I said shoot, that's when she told me that guy hit on her and here's the kicker she's 19 and that guy looked about as old as my BIL. So I told her to tell our manager and supervisors that way we know that if he comes back, he ain't going near her. So if that guy comes back and tries anything he won't get far.
Hey Cletus! I was raised by a single mother. I have eight brothers and sisters. Our father died at a work accident. None of us are prostitutes, none of us are criminals. OP is right.0, you are going to wind up alone if you keep up that attitude!
Hitting on a woman in a relationship? My wife and I had been married for YEARS. A teenage kid already kind of years. And a few not quite teenage. But, she looked fantastic, (still does, 40 years later.) Got a job in a factory working afternoon shift, offsetting my day shift, as the need for money set in. Her supervisor ends up was quite the lady's man. Hit on everybody, and kept a score card type. He started after my wife, she held no secrets from me, she was actually flattered. Can't blame her. He started getting a little more touchy feely, she got scared. She asked me what to do. i told her, just introduce him to me. She did. I shook his hand once. He cold stopped hitting on her, and a few others I heard. I'm not tall, or handsome, but, I am a stocky farmer, who's hands are scarred from working both in a factory, and a life of farming. I don't need to go to a gym and work out, I go out to a field, and work. Last we heard pretty boy was in court, paternity issues.
That fourth story sounds like the dad was putting her up against a double edged sword. He is the one who instigated the open marriage idea with intentions to go after the secretary, hoping to provoke and entrap the mom into a "gotcha" moment but it all backfired.
Yeah, OP didn't need to add the comment about Cletus seeing himself as a high value man. I knew from the get go. Tate brainrot strikes again.
Story 2: CLETUS, YOU SICK BEING!! >:( I AGREE WITH OP!!!! THAT IS AN INSULT TO WOMEN EVERYWHERE CLETUS!!!! AND A ONE OFF?!! HECK NAW!! YOU PRACTICALLY INSULTED EVERY WOMAN (TRANS OR BIOLOGY BORN) OUT THERE!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡
@thalinororcbreaker2840 as a biological woman who supports trans right. We're never going to be replaced, youre delusional. 🥱
That's what "nice guy incels" do
he's a weirdo that's for certain
@@countingraz Agree. Cletus needs to stop visiting whatever web pages he checks. Also, If he doesn't change his attitude, I have a feeling he's not going to keep that job OP's wife found for him.
It's an Andrew Tate follower. Probably also active on incel forums, a fan of Jordan Peterson, part of the whole Tradwife thing with Ben and Abbey Shapiro. It's a whole pipeline.
If the lady's grandson was her type, she just went and ruined any chance he may ever have had.
I had a coworker one night who when I showed her a picture of my great niece say "Eww" because she didn't like babies. I almost said "Sorry you had a messed up childhood" but I didn't. But what that guy said in the story with the woman and her baby was way worse
Gotta love when the pedos just full on announce themselves. With his attitude I have a very strong suspicion that there are multiple women, and girls, he did not accept a no from and they just haven't pressed charges yet.
Story 3. Just give him a phony number and let him go bye-bye.
Story 5: There are some relationships that can succeed with being open, but it has to be an actual part of the relationship and not a way of avoiding it. And like all parts of relationships there needs to be some symmetry, where everyone involved is getting something they want or need out of it.
Which is a large part of why a lot of people who find the idea of an open relationship appealing could never actually maintain one. They treat it selfishly, as something they are getting, and not considering what their partner is getting.
Mary in the last story is definitely a racist pick-me girl who wants to get with OP's husband.
There was an update. Turns out she WAS seeing OP's husband
Ugh. Gross. Sadly, I'm not surprised.
Story 3… cops choice have been sent the tape of the interaction along with the guys car tags
Matchmaker Story: If I were OP, I'd have bluntly told Granny that Where I live, where I work and my Relationship Status are quite frankly none of her Business and are NOT an acceptable topic of conversation, then (as OP did) put my earbud in and resumed listening to music...
Here's a tip for service industry peeps: look up rejection or joke phone numbers and memorize one or two, when I worked fast food I'd always put up sticky notes and such with the fake numbers so the girls I worked with knew about them
If a creep asks for your number, give them the non-emergency number of the police station
it'll be flipping hilarious just knowing that he's gonna call the cops and be like "heeeey girrrrl"
Story 3: Whenever someone in such a situation asks if you know who they are, the correct answer is: "Yes, sir. You are the one who will be escorted out by security if you don't leave the shop on your own initiative."
story 3: I would have him leave in handcuffs, or a body bag
story 6 : No one should suffer abuse in their own house
Drunk people don't speak nonsense. They speak their hearts with slurred speech. Alcohol is the best truth serum.
I hope the employees keep an eye on Barbie, like walking her to her car, never working alone, etc. It’s sad to say that, but in this world, that’s the type of guy who might accost her when she’s alone or follow her home. Seriously they should have called the cops when he wouldn’t leave, because then at least they would have a record of the harassment.
They should have called the cops in Story 3. The guy was knowingly hitting on a minor😊
9:09 ahhhahaha, red pill! I knew it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was married and went everywhere with my two children without their father. He was usually at work when I went food shopping, clothes shopping out for lunch with my kids, to the laundromat and anywhere else needed. He was a boilermaker and I have traveled as far as central Mexico to where he was working with 2 toddlers. Talk about being judgmental.
I've seen a lot of things (paramedic) and I was still utterly disgusted by some of the people in these stories.
OP in the title story (Barbie's supervisor) should have called the cops for blatant sexual harassment of a minor.
There's a saying, "16 will get you 30." as in years. That guy's a pedo and he's a danger. He should have been arrested for sexual harassment and stalking. I hope they walked her to her car for a couple weeks, just in case. ALL the alarm bells were going off in my head. As for Mary's situation about OP, she's wanting the husband. She's looking for some way to break them off.
Burger King creep: I hope 'Barbie' was able to have escort out after work and text/call from parking lot for escort in.
Wow, "Cletus" seems like a real prize. He must have gotten the basement apartment because it reminds him of the setup he had at his mom's place. The guy at Burger King sounds like a sexual predator, or just plain a psycho. "No" means "no" - NOT "I want you to harass and demean me until you get what you want". In the last story, "Mary" is totally trying to replace OP by turning her husband against her.
Many years ago I worked in restaurants and other places where creeps would hit on me. I always gave them “my” number which was exactly the same as the sheriff’s office. 😂
When D-Bag at burger King said do you know who I am ? OP should have replied Yes you are Bill Cosby, now leave.
Soooo, the guy sexually harassed a cashier at a fast food restaurant. She tells him she's 16. He continues to harass her and doesn't walk out in handcuffs?!!??!!
Story #5: it was so obvious thst this would backfire!! I love it! Props to OP and her mum! Especially to OP's mum! She served this entitled cheater husband some of his own medicine! Well played! 😏
I was alone with my kid like 90% of the time. I am not single, he just works and I don’t.
Story 3. Op is a hero there for stepping in and protecting the college as that guy is a total creeper
I remember years ago my dad and I did a job for a family and the woman's father was living with them. He's actually from Transylvania, Romania. He had a Very Strong Romanian accent from the Transylvania area and he looked like Peter Lorre. The man loved talking about his homeland and area. He got on the topic of Vlad Tepes (Vlad the Impaler) and told us the history of how the whole thing turned into Dracula. I knew a bit of the history of it but this man being from the area told me things I didn't even know about.
S3: Police should've been called. He's hitting on a minor. Discusting.
"My husband said she was just drunk"
"In vino veritas" as the ancient sayin goes.
Drunk people lose their inhibitions and often say what they are thinking without filters.
So yeah, trust that she meant all of that.
In story 2: every time Cletus says Ruined, I like to picture him sounding like Stewie Griffin
The way the old lady said about "straightening" her grandson out I think "partier" might be her way of saying "gay".
Story 6: NTA. You don't have to be friends with Mary, but she does need to be respectful of you when in your house. My partner and I BOTH have vetoed certain people from visiting our house (ending one friendship, and massively limiting another). If someone can't be respectful in your own home, they don't get to be in your home.
I am only 20 seconds into this video and already mentally screaming "WHAAAAAAT?"
Story 6: OP is not the Ahole and being drunk is not an excuse. Being drunk just removes inhibitions, it doesn't magically transform you into another person.