What has your child done that is technically wrong, but you were proud of them for doing it?
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It always amazes me that schools will try to punish people for acting in self defense.
It's part of their "zero tolerance" policy that they're so proud of. In practice, it's more like a "zero thought" policy. People like that think the rules are their own justification. Once someone scribbles out a Policy, whatever that policy says is morally right because it's the policy.
You'd think so-called "educators" would have covered what "circular reasoning" is at some point in their own training and education.
Same in Germany
Ninja?
@@martinkb9559yeah, they really give all to domesticate the natives here... You can bet ye Ass that I'll teach my siblings otherwise and will teach my Children the same, if I'll ever have some that is.
Two magic words: “Lawsuit” and “News”
I'll never understand why protecting yourself in school gets you the same if not worse punishment as the perpetrator or bully
Ikr? I'd do exactly the same thing as the girl if this happened to me
It’s because the school system is controlled by the government and the school system is there to train you to be a complaisant slave, do as your told, don’t fight back.
Because it's easier to manage.
If you wouldn't do that, you would need to figure out who was wrong, with teens. Most teen victims are silent, most teen perps have friends and most teen friends would lie for their friend. And everyone else does not want to upset the bully.
You are more likely to get the opposite evidence: that the perp was a victim and that the victim was the perp.
On top of that: they're not cops. Finding evidence isn't their job and they are not good at it. That's why.
because most bullies are bullies because they they know can get away with it. If you had a karen for a mom you know you can get away with anything.
i was jumped by three boys. fought back. and was gonna be suspended. and it was before or after i talked to the suicide hotline so i wasnt ok. the boys were never punished😢
People forget calling the cops also means YOUR crime gets reported too 😂
noy if its self defence
@@user-mk8yu5oo6c It can get reported even if it's self-defense.
Self-defense is an argument made in court. You can still be arrested for assault.
@@user-mk8yu5oo6cI think they’re talking about the parent of the guy threatening to call the cops
@@user-mk8yu5oo6cit’s more so retaliation in which both parties would be liable
Womp womp
“Trained by her brothers”
1. Relatable
2. He got another beating from them after the fact
oldest brother of 3 sisters can confirm
@@Rivanking2112 My man!
That's for sure...no questions asked no bars hold
Older brother of 2 sisters here can confirm too
HE SURE DID BUD!
them brothers must be proud
My sister did something similar but they still punished her. But I pulled her out of school early for a week so we could go get ice cream or anything else she wanted and to this day I not be more proud of her.
I would be
For a few years I've been teaching my autistic brother to fight he struggled a lot but after a few years of helping him I was worried when I got a call from my mom saying he got in a fight because he showed no progress in defending himself I went to his school and started laughing when I saw the kid that hit him with a bloody nose and a black eye
@@norse-huntergood for him 😂
Nah the brothers rolling up to that guys house
Girl defended herself. The boy assaulted her first and she taught him to keep his hands to himself. Boy should have been suspended and made to write sentences.
Actually the boy sexually assaulted her
Idk man. Maybe boy just want to say something but the girl didnt hear him? Or maybe there was something else? Maybe they knew each other and the boy touched her shoulder? Maybe the boy didnt have bad intentions. I dont think its right to judge a person without knowing the exact backstory
@@Esmerthe10thjojo ok girl gr*per
@@Esmerthe10thjojo that's a lot of maybes that I doubt happened. She wouldn't have had to defend herself if it was an innocent touch. Don't try to justify his actions and blame the victim.
@@orchid4356 ı am not justifiyng the victim, ı am saying we cant possibly know who victim really is. One of my friends get detention, because his team won a football match against another team, and one of the boys on the other team cried. They blamed him, and spread rumors about my friend being a bully. Rumors got so bad that whole team got detention, even thought there was camera footage showing they didnt hit, swore,threw something or harrased other kids.. After seeing this, ı doubt to say anything about someone being faulty without knowing the exactly the full picture
"Both children in trouble? How about the school, that kid, and his parents pay up in court? Or you can just stfu." 😂
i got suspended for punching a bully in the face because he threw my lunch in the trash every day for 2 weeks and i told him multiple times that i am a fighter and that i didn’t want to hurt him but he didn’t listen but the funny part is that i told the chill lunch aid to back me up in the office she said ok
Lunch aid is a real one
“The adults don’t care until the bully gets hurt”
-A Wise Person
Holly shit they’re becoming self aware
True true
WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATE
well it worked for me
@@robofalke9492 ?
Grope deserves jail
uninvited yes, anything in that situation that is between two different adults who are not just okay with it but both want it is obviously fine
uninvited yes, anything in that situation that is between two different adults who are not just okay with it but both want it is obviously fine
That’s why it can land you in prison!
@@INACTIVE12678 obviously ???
@@Strawbb111they said that when both consent it’s fine 😭 obviously
If we’re the other way around, we’ll be cooked💀
this is why having older brothers will always pay off in the long run
As if it's a choice what order your kids are born in
"And mentioned a lawsuit. Suddenly, my daughter wasn't in trouble anymore." 😂😂
Yea right all of a sudden lmao
Law will protect her and it will go against the boy and school .
The whole thing never happened. “Trained by her brothers” 🤣 who are they ninja turtles.
@@jimmywatts8219 it's called self defense? anyone can learn it, no one said they were professionally trained or anything.
she is still in trouble, just not doing anything futher
That's not even technically wrong. She defended herself.
Eta:
1. Okay, I can't help it. Holy crap this blew up.
2. Gonna put it here cause I keep getting asked...
A) If the genders were swapped, yes, a male student has the same right to punch the lights out of someone touching them innapropriatly
B) it's an internet story... 50% chance (tops) is real. My comment is based on the insinuation the story has (that the boy touched the girl in appropriately. I'm also not the only one with this opinion.
Thank you some people just don’t see that
Technically against school policy, even though it shouldn't be
The only one who was technically wrong was the school for not supporting a child's right to defend herself against sexual harassment until threatend with a lawsuit.
Banana😮
Someone tapd her on the shoulder to get her attention and she starts fighting.
You thing that's a a good thing.
You are mental.
One time my younger brother was at school, he was walking towards the far end of the playground and suddenly some kids came and started punching his stomach 20 times. He elbowed the kid hard in the gut 3 times until a teacher came out. It's crazy because the school left those kids outside unattended but only came out when my brother was defending himself. And for whatever reason my brother got suspended for a day. It amazes me how schools punish students who defend themselves.
I took my kids for a mommy and me day of playing, Ice cream and relaxing days! I had been fighting with the school system since 1985! It's gotten out of hand in the last 25 years .
I've even had to defend a child that was AT school as being absent AND in her class! They called me (Knowing where she was) telling she was skipping school.... Nooo the band teacher wanted extra hours and she said no...went to her regular class. They called me in and scared me thinking my kid was missing!!! Just to make her do as that band teacher wanted! What??? I was overly concerned about where my kid was and THIS is the outcome? Nooo I'm taking my kid to get her nails done and a steak dinner! Screw you AHs.
If it was by accident thats more understandable but straight up touching is crazy
That ain't "tEcHnIcAlLy wRoNg," that's self-defense.
So if I touch a girl it's okay for her to hurt me tf 😂
Actually it’s not under the court of law it’s not self defense because the boy wasn’t trying to hurt you it’s just sexual assault 😭
It’s not self defense though 😅
@@blackberrycloud he fucking groped her. She had all rights to defend herself.
@@blackberrycloud"it's not self defence tho" okay, you try getting groped by an older guy, see how you like the situation.
My son is disabled and got bullied at school because of it. His bully made him eat grass, smacked his had and tried to kick him in the nuts (but missed) All in front of 5 teachers present that did nothing about it.
My son had enough of it and he punched him in the nuts and karate-kicked his stomach. It actually helped. And I'm very proud that he stood up for himself and defended himself. Next week we're in school to have a conversation about it.
Please tell me how'd it go once the meeting is over
How does he karate kick while he’s not standing?
He stood up?@@Verrkami
@@Verrkamidisabled doesn't just mean wheelchair bound.
Sue the school since teachers didn't protect your son. That's abhorrent
I once got bullied by a kid 1 year older than me, i was so pissed off i threw buckets at him in the face the hardest i could, he started bleeding and he stopped bullying me, my parents got a call from the school, and they was proud of me for sticking up for myself, Mum told me to punch back if someone punches you first.
W
I got in a fight and my schools told me I’m not allowed to come back for three days. They gave me a vacation for fighting a kid. After those three days I realized they were giving you a gift for fighting people and thought that if it came to a fight I would entertain the other person because I got a vacation
Bullying is never a problem until the one being bullied stands up for themselves
Sadly that's how it goes. Good thing that some people stand up for themselves
@@funfunfun-mi9jiyh
You don't know anything that happened to the person in this video tho
Fr ☹️
Should've called the cops and gotten him on record. Touching a child means not being allowed within 500 feet of a school.
Technically it's not considered "that bad" when the assailant is also a minor, so I'm not sure if they could get that kind of charges
@@LokiLaufeydotterI think they might not be allowed near a school after they turn 18
Nowhere does it say that the other kid wasn't the same age...
They dont get registered when they are minors unless its a very severe case.
@Gloriousturtlechan because it said that a member of the football team was the one who did it, meaning he's also in high-school, and most likely a minor
@@LokiLaufeydotter hence why I responded to the original comment. This person is acting like the football player is an adult.
nahh lil girl said HELL NAHH DONT TUCH ME😂😂🤣😅
A young student in kindergarten fighting against any mean boys in her class, and being very vocal about why she didn’t like them. I should not be proud but i am glad that she defends herself well and never takes anything personal. Ive seen older students in middle school just allow the other kids to bully them, too afraid to protest. Id rather my students ADVOCATE for themselves , because sometimes teachers fail at doing it for them.
If someone touches another person without consent that is a crime. Punishable by jail. Self defense is not a crime.
Even just a bump??? Even just a tap??? And also that only applies to girls or women cuz there more protected by the law and community
@@XD_gamer35 they mean in a sexual way. And also women are not protected by the law and community. I am not denying that it’s harder for men, because it most definitely is. But most of the time women’s assaulters get away with very low time in jail, or the woman gets blamed.
@@Zoesyoutubealr fair enough
I'm sorry to say this but I spent 6 months in jail for assault 3rd specifically for defending myself with a closed fist against someone who not only threw a pocket knife at me but also attacked me with a wooden dowel. Self defense IS a crime in the state of NY.
Self defense stops when you continue to fight after they are incorporated or if it's not a reasonable force. The punch was self defense. The kick was sexual assault
Schools always make the person who defended themselves suffer for protecting themselves while the latter gets special treatment
they tried the same on my son. My son got hit first first. He defended himself and got in trouble.
I whent to school and scolded them. They where realy trying to suspenmd my son for self defence. I told them i would take the day off on the same day he gets suspended and make sure he has the best day at an amusementpark of his choosing to reward him for self defence.
Then i made sure to explain to them that in my country by law you are allowed to defend yourself with equal force or less and school policy cannot trump that.
End of story the other boy got suspended and not mine.
Idiotic
@@ronniebots9225 my freshman year three guys jumped me in the hall and because I managed to stop two and the third ran I got in trouble for assault and battery as well as a week long suspension while they got two days of in school suspension
At school for like three to four days a guy was throwing pencil at me even though i think the teacher saw what happens she did nothing i was mad of crap and throw pencil at him back he threatens to jump me i went to him and then shouted do it while being enraged
Teacher told me to go outside later the counselors asked me everything and also asked him
Guess what? He wasn’t suspended for threatening me and for assaulting me and i wasnt either because they were like i had literally no proof and stuff
That's what equality of outcome does. You have an aggressor and defender both getting the same treatment - practically meaning the aggressor is being let off easy while the defender is being punished for self defense... This sucks.
My school always punished both sides because apparently fighting back is wrong when was yonger the ingoreing it didn’t work they didn’t care about a reaction they just enjoyed knowing they cosed pain so i shoved there arm in a fence and held it there until they agreed to leave me and others alone i was a little kid so its a little fuzzy
I got in so many fights in elementary school because I can’t stand bullies.
When I was in middle school they started the “no violence policy” and my parents teased me that I would have been expelled had that policy gone into effect 3 years earlier.
Bullying is unacceptable and I still stand with my childhood self. Fortunately my kids have the same personality. I can’t wait until I get called into a principals office.
My mum told me to punch my bully in the nose if he ever tried to physically hurt me again 😂 she still stands by her advice but I’ve always gravitated towards bring them back down with cutting words and outsmarting them. So far, I’m happy with how it’s all worked out. Good on her, she did the right thing and glad her dad supported her.
Defending yourself shouldn't be labeled as wrong!
Yeah you are right defending yourself is basically hurting someone so you should get arrested
Yes you are right you should get arrested
@@oscarcahill
You seem to be a middle aged man so I won't bother explaining
@@oscarcahillwho are you saying “you are right” to because the original comment doesn’t seem to agree with your statement
@@oscarcahilland we are also right to say that you seem to be specially educated
Defending yourself isnt technically wrong, its perfectly correct behaviour.
According to a school it’s not I once had my little sister who was being shall we say “advanced” upon by her science teacher she was 17 I believe and he was in his late 30s or early 40s I can’t remember and one day he got very handsy with her she literally broke his nose and jaw within a few punches and she was expelled and slapped with a huge fine for assault and the teacher let off Scot free but 2 years later he was arrested for r****ing a 15 year old girl and my sisters record was wiped clean after that
@stellassergal5587 ok first off, that whole situation is fucked, i hope your sister is ok after having to deal with that and I'm glad your sister had the courage to fight back when she did, id be a proud brother for that alone. Secondly, if the situation with your sister was taken seriously against the teacher the poor 15 year old rape victim would not have to carry the burden of that for the rest of her life.
My statement stands as it was said from a moral standpoint, legality in relation to these situations is usually absolutely ridiculous, as your story has proven.
How do you know its defence? The video said he touched her. Maybe he brushed her shoulder while walking past? Not justified
@@Lusde Look at the context clues. OP arrives to the principle's office where their daughter, the football player and their parents are. OP listens to the story, thinks nothing needs to be done. Football player wants to call the cops on the daughter for assault, and OP laughs and goes "go ahead, let's call the cops." At what point do you think OP would be okay with, if not encouraging the calling of the cops if what their daughter did was kick the football player in the nuts when all the football player did was accidentally brush their shoulder walking past her because of a crowded space?
@@Lusde you are literally perfect for becoming a teacher, always overlooking these things
The innate action of giving detention to someone who used self-defense in his full meaning is fucking incredible.
My teacher once said that the only reason you get suspended for self defence is so you get a break after a stress full time
My son was dropped from the "smart kids" program. He was the only child in his grade and class that was a member. The school did not notify me or him that this occurred. One day they announced over the loud speaker that their trip to another school was taking place and to assemble by the busses. He got on the bus. Nobody even checked if he had a permission slip. I got a phonecall from the teacher who was yelled at me to come get my child. When I arrived at the other school my then 9 year old was left unattended outside of the other school on a picnic bench. The next day we were called into the office where my son was berated by the principle and the rest of the teachers. I wanted to intervene. But my son stopped me. He apologized to the teachers that berated him instead of blowing up at them. They wanted to suspend him for a week. That's when I interfered and told them that there was no notification that he was dropped from the program. Nobody checked his travel permission slip. He was unattended at a strange school left outside..and that they would be hearing from my attorney. Should have seen the panick that started to sink in on their faces...needless to say, no suspension.
You should have still sued if you didn’t. That is actually insane they have the nerve to do that to a child.
@@michaelmoreno1683 to be honest I was a single mom, we barely survived. I had no idea how I would hire an attorney at the time with no money to spare. And I never sued anybody at that time. My son is a young adult now. You are probably right, I should have sued.
@@jene9755depends if you sued and lost thats thousands in the toilet if you won thats probably a couple hundred grand in your pocket im sure you would have won with a good attorney
It’s crazy how the school was ready to accuse your daughter of being in the wrong until she backed them up real quick, then they decided to do the right thing. This happens way too often in schools where they try to blame the victim or the person that’s being bullied, and harassed, because they know if the bully is found out the school can get in trouble. They don’t care, they’re just trying to protect their own @$$
They ain't even trying to make these stories sound real anymore💀
If he doesn’t get punished then he’ll do it again.
As someone who has been suspended a couple of times because I was fully groped in class in front of everyone , and every time I other slapped them so hard they cried or punched them if they didn’t react to the first slap. I respect your daughter and you. The way it was dealt with left me feeling unable to fight so the next time it happened and a lot worse happened I didn’t fight back. Still dealing with that trauma today.
So my dad and his brothers taught me how to protect myself and it came in handy when a kid was terrorizing my cousins and I at a park . Kid left with a black eye and bloody nose and a messed up knee. Later, there was a knock at the door of my residence and lo and behold, that kid and his dad was outside asking for me, only using the shorter more masculine version, Chris. My dad asked the kid three times if he was sure he was beat up by Chris and not either of my brothers names. He insisted Chris. So my dad calls me over and as soon as the other kids dad sees a tiny 5’0” girl, he just dies laughing, asking his soon if he really got beat up by a girl. The dad asks why I did it. I tell him. Dad goes from laughing to enraged and drags his kid away screaming my whooping was gonna be gentle compared to his.
My son in middle school kicked 2 kids butt's that had been bullying him. They told me he was suspended...i got him new game as a reward 🎉
W dad right here 👨
I did this when I was 8 and my dad took me to McDonald’s
@@CableMan-zi8nn perfect parenting
you got room for an extra son?
W parent. Your kid will take good care of you when he's older.
Yeah that's a good way to rise your kids, defend them when something bad happened to them and then they fight back
My school had an assembly at the beginning of the year saying that “If we were to be “touched or assaulted I guess” then we would be punished for acting in self defense. They then continued saying that if we didn’t fight back we would not be punished. Basically it was them saying that if we tried to defend ourselves we would get into trouble and suspended for a week and it added up one week first offense two weeks second offense and etc. I see that as a major problem as kids will grow up to learn that defending themselves is wrong which in real life street rules are far different from school rules. 🤦♂️
Imagine getting detention for defending yourself from creeps man
Also it wasn't like she was being raped. She could've easily told the principal instead of fucking breaking a nose and kicking sexual attacking him. It's not defending if the threat isn't forcing assault onto her. She could've handled this better instead of hurting him. They both should've got suspended for like a week lmao
@@SigmaKxngbut how does she know if he's not gonna force himself onto her? Being probably stronger than her (due to being a football player) if he got on top of her she probably wouldn't be able to do much, so the only option is to defend yourself before he can get the chance to do anything else, meaning there's really nothing she did wrong
@@rikinu9180 Bro that's a sterotype.
@@rikinu9180 Also they're in schools and she only said he touched her inappropriately so you're terribly wrong. Stop trying to defend a criminal.
@@rikinu9180 Also she could've just walked into the principal's office and told the principal is he only touched her can't she?
Schools need to understand that self defence is very important, and you should not be punished for fighting back in order to defend yourself. Ive heard story’s of kids ending up in comas, or at the least very injured, because they did not want to fight back out of fear of getting suspended. If kids are too scared to fight back because they do not want to face the punishment, it may be too late for them to fight back when they realize the punishment is better than the injury. The rule in my house was always “Never strike first, but make sure you are hitting last” because the idea of not defending yourself is ridiculous.
It’s kinda a good lesson since it will teach you how unfair life is before even starting it
My youngest, who was 11 or 12 at the time, told his aunt she was a crappy parent and she deserved to have her kids taken away. She was letting my nephew smoke weed and get his friends high in a 5th wheel sitting on the street in front of her house. She was always talking shit about pot smokers but here she was, letting minors get high at her house. I was so proud of him.
Eww imagine thinking the Aunt was to blame cause kids were sneaking around doing dumb kid things. Grow up... You sound very ignorant.
Wait till the brothers find out the kid wouldn't be coming to school for days 😂
As an older brother i can confirm that
I was thinking the same thing 😂
Police would still be called and a lawsuit would follow. Also the local news station would catch wind of the attempt to cover up a S** A**ult.
The fact that you can get detention just by defending yourself is wild.
You already know them brother went to whoop his ass the next day lmao Good shit girl
When my dad was 16 he sent 3 kids to the hospital for trying to get this one shy girl to take her clothes off in the locker room. Long story short one of those kids now apparently has a dent in his head and the other 2 have permanent nerve damage
W dad
Woah! Dad has quite a punch!
DENT AND NERVE DAMAGE! DAMN THAT BOY SUPERMAN
Long story short that's fake
@@Lusde long story short, are you the dad? The son? Or are you perhaps one of the boys who got their ass whooped?
If not, you don't know yourself if its fake or true.
a woman once tried punching a guy next to me in a bus, i defended the guy by blocking all her punches, i didnt hit back or anything and we both got detention 💀💀💀
I'm sorry for you bro
Self defense is never wrong. The fact that when you fight back from bullying or something else is punishable is crazy
When my daughter was 18 months old, she knocked out a 5 year old kid for stealing her teddy bear.. 😂😂
No way 😂
Dude fr ?😂 If so you're not gonna need to worry for her over the years, miss is already a fighter UwU
@@PajamaCatWithRamen yep! She was knee high to a grasshopper and the kid was the size of a 7 year old.. her daycare called me and wouldn't tell me what happened, just that I needed to come pick her up (she'd been there for less than 2 hours) long story short, the kid kept trying to get her to let him play with her teddy bear (she wouldn't put it down long enough for me to wash it) and she kept saying no.. the kid walked up behind her and tapped her on the shoulder, when she turned to look over her shoulder, he ripped it out of her hand over the other shoulder and ran away with it. She stopped short. Closed her eyes and started counting (she could only count to 5) she stomped her foot, whispered 'fuck it ' ran up to the kid, punched him in the back, when he turned around, she jumped up, grabbed his shoulder and punched him in the face.. grabbed the teddy bear and walked away.. i was dumbfounded.. after I got her in the car, I took her to Toys R Us and McDonald's.. I've never been more proud of her..
Yo what
Damn a 1 YEAR OLD HELL NAH nobody is gonna mess with her
My youngest daughter did the same thing, except that it was another girl that was touched. My girl was protecting another child, and that made me very proud.
My son was a cashier at a pharmacy in a really, really rough and impoverished part of town. Some small kids came in once with a little money, wanting to buy some candy. They didn't have enough money. My son did a price switch so that they could buy their candy. The kids started coming in every weekend, and he'd do a price adjustment so they could each get a little treat. He'd chat with them and be kind to them. This went on for 4 years before management saw his excessive price adjustments and fired him. I know it was wrong, but for 4 years, those kids had something to look forward to, and someone who cared about them.
Blitz was STRUGGLING with that crystal
😭🤣
My daughter 5 y/o (pre k) beat up a boy for bullying her friend who was born with missing fingers her exact words were my daddy taught me to stand up for my loved ones
Schools punishing victims of assault and bullying is so common now that victims tend to either keep it secret or try to appease their assailants. It's not because they are weak but because schools actively teach kids to do it by punishing any form of self defense. I told my nephew that if he ever gets suspended for self defense, I would be prpoudu of him.
Yes, my daughter stood up to a boy who was bullying her and pushed him. She got 3 day suspension when I went to the school to get her I talked to vice principal. I said I ok and I assume rather bully also got suspended. He was like uh no. I said if my daughter got suspended he better also get suspended because he instigated the whole situation and the school supposedly had zero bullying policy but you are going to let him get away with it? He said he'd talk to him. I called my husband at work when I got home. He was livid, he called the school by time he was done that boy was suspended. His parents were passed at us.i told my daughter we'll we know where he gets his behavior.
No evidence
threatening lawsuit in a situation like this does tend to work. schools always have an odd way of punishing those who defend them selves while protecting those who harass others.
Detention! For inappropriately touching someone that didn't want it!? That's wild.
yeah they tried to give me detention for breaking up a fight. I just didn't go
why would u try too break it up if it’s none of ur business
@@nikole.luv1Might of been a friend, who knows?
@@nikole.luv1Might have been a friend, who knows?
I was a witness to a fight and got detention for it
@@ikirei_ dang that sucks
This doesn't even qualify as technically wrong because if you get SAd in school you have every right to respond with your fists.
Self defense 100%. The only assault was the boy touching her. Go ahead, call the cops.
@@eric98292It depends on WHERE he was touching her.
Not SA tho…
@@Lusde how do you know?
@@ImpoSher how do you know it is SA? Touch can mean so many different things. We can't assume that it is SA or that it isn't SA. Just annoys me when people say stuff like this with 0 evidence
Every Dad ever: "As long as you won the fight"
Exactly what good parenting looks like
She don’t do anything wrong she protected her self against something horrific
Self defence isn't wrong
Right? The only reason it's "technically" wrong is because the school likely has a bullshit zero tolerance policy.
We need more kids like that girl and parents like op. I punched a guy IN THE ARM while he was walking by and his mom called the cops on me. When he told her, he didn’t mention the fact that he told me he was going to end my life before I punched him and the fact that he used to touch me mad threaten me from 3rd grade to last school year. My mom grounded me, even when I told her about what he did. Luckily the cops were understanding, but I wish my mom was
i understand that its good that she defended herself doesn't mean both people shouldn't get in trouble
Protecting yourself is never wrong. We taught our children this and stood behind them the same way.
Screw you
Still take all 3 of them to court & still call the cops, if that boy has done this before with no hesitation then they have a big case against them & seeing how the principal was willing to punish both kids even though one is truly innocent, this isn’t the first time they let this situation slide
Amen to that
OK OK let's just calm it down here. Jesus
Hey Bud don't take videos like this to heart all of them are AI generated
@@gabriel_a06671These stories may be fake but the situations are absolutely real and constantly happen.
@@gabriel_a06671
It doesn't matter. In the real world this happens. Not everything is in your mom's basement.
If the story is AI generated, who cares? This happens WAY too often in real life.
In the actual legal system, what he did would be a crime and what she did would be self-defense
Similar case except i was the kid that got touched. Mom complained to the superintendent when i got suspended for pushing him off me. Bro wasn’t hurt. He fell back and didn’t even it the ground, he looked more like he stepped backwards 4 steps and then i walked off.
This wasn’t ever technically wrong this was technically the correct response
If you assume that the touching was inappropriate. If it happened to be that he simple brushed aside her while in a hurry, then this is not the correct response. Assume ignorance before malice.
@@deckwolf3442Obviously you have no proof it's just brushing through her if they ended up in the prinicipal's office also it was recorded and I'm sure you can distinguish when someone grabs you and when someone caresses you accidentally
Sorry, in the original story, the boy touch her ass, is the complete story. So it's not assume@@deckwolf3442
@@deckwolf3442 The girl knows what happened, that's why she reacted like that. And since people tend to say girls must have wanted, this is the correct reaction to show that she did not want him touching her.
@@deckwolf3442 You're the kind of kid to "brush" your hand across a girl's chest while just strolling by, aren't you?
I hate schools, I was never a bad kid but they ruined my life because I stood up for my self and fought back after being beaten
I hate school and i have been suspended multiple times im on my last strike but everything that goes on is bullshit and i get mad easily to because of anger issues i fucking hate people that dont listen and instantly think i can just stop when im mad
@@pet-simxplays
So what kind of help are you getting for your anger issues? You can't get off without consequences for being abusive just by claiming you have anger issues without actively seeking help for them.
@@bennylofgren3208 Who in the right fuck said im being abusive sir I take meds i have consequences im saying they dont try to help they make it worse and the only way they think will calm me down is making me sit in the front office for 2 hours where its always busy and loud im not gonna calm down there now please dont respond again because you just pissed me off with the fact you instantly thought i have been abusing people
@bennylofgren3208 oh and by the way schools dont help anger issues my parents and therapist do i have meds when i run out i get mad easily
@@pet-simxplaysYou should NOT be “running out” of medication. Either you’re abusing it, or your shitty parents arent filling it on time.
That is not a normal problem, especially with someone who needs to be chilled out with meds or they could end up hurting someone, like you.
I just can’t understand until I am given the definition of touched in this situation.
My man, do you want to hold a trial online for a Reddit story that happened last decade?
Should we get lawyers? A judge? A jury?
@@TheReal_Antreyyes
its implied she was touched inappropriately.
Happened with me as well, I am a boy who got bullied and one day this dude broke my fingernail with a plier. Just as he was going to break the nail on the other finger, (he was alone this time, I usually got bullied by him and two others) I kicked his nuts, grabbed them and twisted them. I got brought to the principals office along with my parents and they said they were going to suspend me, I had already called the cops by that point and they showed a few minutes later. I requested the security footage from the control room as I knew a very kind lady there who saw what was going on and that was already with the cops. I pressed charges and he got sent to juvie, our principal lost her job for trying to punish me for self defense. My parents were in shock seeing how I was always calm and at the whole ordeal.
Doesn't matter if she didn't get in trouble after they should still do legal action against the boy and school thats just stupid, imagine if he does it to a kid who cant do that and defend themselves
I'm glad she did the right thing. And it makes me angry that professors react like that. I would get beat as school and defend myself, but It would get detention because kids would pretend I did it without reason. I was suspended but ended up getting a number of apologies when students suddenly got expelled. Later I discovered my father had revealed to teacher how I was being treated and it was safe to say that I was never attacked again.
A true American style of fighting 😂
For everyone saying that the boy may have accidentally touched the daughter, that’s almost definitely not the case. RUclips censorship goes crazy with any mention of SA, so the word the original poster used was probably ‘groped’. It was just changed in the video to avoid getting taken down or shadowbanned.
Related to the question, my sister was bullied relentlessly by a kid for six months in elementary school. Because there wasn’t really evidence, the bully was never reprimanded.
Well my mom was pissed, and for months she tried convincing my sister to stand up for herself, but my sister just said “No mommy, we shouldn’t hit people.”
Well, after six months of relentless bullying, my sister finally fought back. A teacher saw and my sister was reprimanded, but the teacher told my mom that she had seen the bullying and was proud of my sister.
So the teacher saw the bullying and still did nothing? That's messed up!!!😡😤
Know thats 100% self defense
>broke nose
ahh the realest of the reddit stories
School management's practice of pushing everything under the rug is one of the reasons that grooms bullying among kids.
And that’s why my daughters will always defend themselves. Ain’t nobody goin to jail except me
I read that wrong the first time🤣
My oldest daughter was being stalked by an ex.
He his behind bushes and swung a knife at her face. She still has the scar.
She beat his ass, unconscious, with the knife still in his hand.
Mommy and the simp, beta male living her ass, the father, wanted her arrested.
He went to jail, and we sued them because we proved he was stalking her, and mommy encouraged it.
Saying the daughter was in the wrong for defending herself against inappropriate and unwanted touch is BAD NEWS BEARS. It's literally teaching young girls they _CAN'T_ stand up for themselves or they'll get in trouble, and speaking out against sexual assault is punishable. Fuck public schools.
Imagine he was just trying to get her attention by touching her shoulder or something
Bad Publicity are what scares these mfs, so when such opportunity arose go and share it to the media so that they'll be willing to work things out
If they know nothing will go their way… “suddenly” they are very quite and quick to try and “sweep it under the rug”
Its called "self defense '
My son stood up to the mean safety lady at his school. He told her to call me to tell me that he was cussing in the hallway. She always through into his face that I’m a teacher. What she didn’t know was that his behavior is extra reflective of mine. I waited several times, but she never called. So, right before he graduated, I professionally told her off when she stated that he might not graduate. She didn’t know that he actually had been tested and was one of two of the brightest children ever tested in the district. The other was actually my older son ten years prior!
imagine accidentally brushing past someone and suddenly seeing the pearly gates
I hate that kids get punished for self defense. School is preparing them for the "real world" and in the real world you f around and find out. Even people who have unalived others in self defense dont get punished, so why do kids in school have to?
It's because the justice system is rigged to not punish the white male. In my school victims usually got in trouble no matter the crime and maybe once In a blue moon if the bully was not a white male you and the bully would get in trouble
That's not actually true. Unfortunately, being punished for seeking justice about se×ual assault is more common than getting justice for SA. This school is sadly representative of the wider world.
I kid you not, one of my teachers who was the head of year before I transferred schools in Year 9 told me to talk to her in her office, so after I got bullied (I got punched and kicked in the balls), she went "I don't believe you, you're a pathological liar, the only way I'll ever believe you is when you come into this school with a knife in your back!"
Yea but according to the story, it's not even self defense because the boy didn't even harm her
@@tyrelclay8220 he touched her. When people say "_______ touched her." And they say it's an wrong thing. They usually mean inappropriate touch. Not touching her shoulder....
Btw, they likely used "touched" because of censorship on reddit and RUclips but based on the context its easy to assume it was inappropriate and they wanted to blame both students to probably make his parents feel better.
What do you mean that something wrong the girl did nothing wrong
@@keqing140yes she was saying the dumb football mfer did something wrong
@odilajoseph9266 I mean, the school is trying to seem neutral. She was totally justified to defend herself, but the school likely was facing pressure from his parents to punish both of them since their child was also hurt.
@@DynamicWhispers sometimes “staying neutral” is choosing a side.
@@rainanewman3006 I totally agree
It is never even technically wrong to defend yourself. Punishing kids for protecting themselves is just wrong.
Imagine the guy just brushed against her shoulder
he definitely didnt
The girl did nothing wrong, she was fighting in self defense
Shame on the adults in this. If she was truly grabbed to the authorities need to be called regardless. He does not get a pass because she punched him in his balls. She was defending herself. And it sounds like mom was saying don’t report it.
It's kinda useless too report groping. Unless there was a full on assault there won't be any jail time. You can get a law suit and a restraining order if the court decides its necessary. That's about it. At least in my area.
she still has to learn that she cant just smack people unwarranted.
The football dude probably bumped into her on accident and she really said HUYAHH
They meant inappropriate touching
Defending yourself is never wrong.
The audacity of that man 😠