Must ask questions to identify the narcissist | The Book Show ft. RJ Ananthi

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  • Опубликовано: 9 окт 2024
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    Should I Stay or Should I Go" by David A. W. Jones follows a protagonist grappling with a pivotal relationship decision. The story explores themes of love, commitment, and self-discovery, prompting readers to reflect on their own choices in the face of uncertainty.
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Комментарии • 119

  • @SwethaJ-re9zh
    @SwethaJ-re9zh 11 дней назад +56

    Main Content starts from 3:33

  • @hanaj9735
    @hanaj9735 12 дней назад +34

    Born to a narcissistic dad, grown watching my mother suffering and then I was married to a total narcissistic person and his family is also the same. Now I chose to divorce him because they are injurious to our peace and even our life. Father can't tolerate his child suffering but his wife?
    For those who are struggling with a narsissist, please speak up. They will play with your emotions, so be strong. Don't think you can make them understand. It never happens. Seek help. One life and live in peace.

    • @savageonce
      @savageonce 10 дней назад +3

      My husband is also narcissistic and playboy. Now I'm getting divorce

    • @divyavarshiniv.k4882
      @divyavarshiniv.k4882 9 дней назад +1

      Hey! Much love and healing to you! ❤

    • @SangeethaS2023
      @SangeethaS2023 9 дней назад

      What if a pyschologist also a narcissist?😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂

    • @hanaj9735
      @hanaj9735 9 дней назад +1

      @@SangeethaS2023 He is a narcissistic advocate.

    • @keerthidhinakarsingaravel7347
      @keerthidhinakarsingaravel7347 4 дня назад

      Father can't tolerate their children suffering but wife??
      It's absolutely true

  • @saikamala9328
    @saikamala9328 12 дней назад +14

    Expect the last one ...all questions fit my mother...I was a very sensitive child whose emotions were made fun of by my own mother and I was put under a rollercoaster of emotional trauma... I will never put my children's into the same and will never forgive my mother this life time..

    • @ikigai999
      @ikigai999 8 дней назад

      I think my mother is also a narcissist. I have a lot of trauma because of her and other toxic people I attracted into my life. Very recently I realized almost everyone I thought was my friend were actually never my friends and that they never liked me genuinely. They were toxic to me at times and nice to me at times so I didn’t realize it. The day I came to realize that my mom is a narcissist is the same day I realized no one I was with never genuinely liked me. They were just nice to my face because I was nice to them. Now I have serious trust issues, I keep thinking that everyone is lying to me and have ulterior motives. I don’t know how to get out of this. And I’m scared I’ll become a narcissist like my mom too. My grandmother is a narcissist too. What if I become a narcissist? I don’t want to hurt anyone but I am scared I will without knowing. I already don’t have any friends or relationships no because of my trust issues I m not even able to get close to people now. I’m scared they’ll hurt me or manipulate me and throw me away like I never existed in their life.

    • @birundhabi2146
      @birundhabi2146 5 дней назад

      Mine too😢

    • @Amirtha.s.h.e.
      @Amirtha.s.h.e. 4 дня назад

      Why you sound so much like me...😢

  • @aashisboutique1748
    @aashisboutique1748 13 дней назад +11

    Ramani mam oda ela books um videos um paathu thaan life la oru good decision ye eduthu iruken naan... Must read book📕

    • @pavithrasrinivasan6693
      @pavithrasrinivasan6693 8 дней назад

      What is that book ? Could you pls share it so that it can help many a people who are suffering like me

  • @lydiav107
    @lydiav107 13 дней назад +20

    Damma! Pls break all the truths.. Honestly need these info, pls make part 2.. I was thinking reg this, Ty for sharing this one!

  • @gowtham6822
    @gowtham6822 13 дней назад +9

    As a narcissist, I can confirm that all these points are correct.

    • @sabeshwaran6794
      @sabeshwaran6794 12 дней назад +2

      Please go to therapy

    • @limboslim4296
      @limboslim4296 9 дней назад

      Same bro. They've found us.

    • @sabeshwaran6794
      @sabeshwaran6794 9 дней назад

      @@limboslim4296 😡you people are destroying others ... Accept yourself and go therapy 💦

  • @karthikahhh
    @karthikahhh 13 дней назад +2

    I have met a person with 11/12 characteristics you mentioned. I would say it is better to leave than to expect a closure from that person. That pain he gave is still killing me

  • @gokulakrishnan130
    @gokulakrishnan130 10 дней назад +8

    all ur 12 points match
    my sister's husband is a narcissist. Even a psychologist failed analysing him. During temperary ceperation ,early marriage period with after first baby , we had councelling . after 10 years we only identified him with his character.. 1 more point. they are clever in prejecting them to the outside world.....

  • @RM-kv6mj
    @RM-kv6mj 6 дней назад +1

    Narcissistic parents and brother.. He is their golden child.. I am their scapegoat.. Broken💔

  • @gurukarthika6348
    @gurukarthika6348 7 дней назад

    All points you are telling is totally applicable to a narcissist

  • @Papu1205-c5k
    @Papu1205-c5k 12 дней назад +1

    My mother has full traits full time except the last point unfaithfulness . and my dad has 2-3 of these traits like dominance over the helpless people and validation etc ! I’m just stuck and super depressed ! I can’t speak and make these narcissist understand what I’m going through ! My parents won’t allow me to talk to my realtives ! My friends have their own problems in their lives and I asked my parents to take me to a counsellor mental well being practitioner ! My mother says if I take you there the society will start talking your mental and u don’t get married ! She is educated and don’t know the difference between mental health practitioners & psychiatrists ! Wow how good can my life can get more than this ! Nice world nice society nice parents 🙂

  • @karthik_j
    @karthik_j 9 дней назад

    Oh my goodness. This video has given me a big clarity. Thank you so much sis !!

  • @PraminaMadhu
    @PraminaMadhu 13 дней назад +23

    Ennada tharai la nadanthathu ellam thirai la poguthu👀

  • @nirmalk4597
    @nirmalk4597 12 дней назад +9

    I am not toxic. I am Whole Poison🤣

  • @SambharavaUpma
    @SambharavaUpma 13 дней назад +50

    Ayoo akka nee ipo sonna yellamey enaku set aavudhu, and I feel shame abt that, plz edhula irundhu yepdi veliya varanonu solunga😕😕😕😕😑

    • @sugunadharmalingam5960
      @sugunadharmalingam5960 13 дней назад +7

      Even Im feeling the same...🥺🥺

    • @manimaranm4563
      @manimaranm4563 13 дней назад +12

      அதெல்லாம் தப்புன்னு தோணுதோ அதையெல்லாம் மாத்திக்கடா பைத்தியம்😅

    • @BhuvaneshwariK-wr6hd
      @BhuvaneshwariK-wr6hd 13 дней назад

      😂​@@manimaranm4563

    • @-_.0O
      @-_.0O 12 дней назад +1

      ஒரே வழி- அதெல்லாம் வெள்ளக்காரனுகளோட வார்த்தைகள் னு நினைச்சு கடந்துரணும்😂

    • @Hermit090
      @Hermit090 11 дней назад +26

      Then you are NOT a narcissit. Real narcissists don't have self realisation and self awareness.

  • @gurukarthika6348
    @gurukarthika6348 7 дней назад +1

    I am living with my narcissistic husband,it is purely a torture like living with a devil,liar,cheater with totally no feelings at all but pretends to be a gentleman to the outside world and projects his wife as a bad person to others with lot of lies and drama...u never get anything from him but lose ur own health,money,time,energy and everything bcos of that devil

  • @alexamstong6793
    @alexamstong6793 13 дней назад

    Where the book is expressed in a layman sync, it's easy for the beginners

  • @litesoul3577
    @litesoul3577 13 дней назад +9

    Combination of my mom and dad🙂

    • @agentromanoff5141
      @agentromanoff5141 13 дней назад +3

      more than 50% of the parents in 80’s and 90’s were partly narcissists including mine, mostly because they were brought up in a toxic narcissistic environment, hope the next generations learn to have the balance

  • @jaya-jp5zl
    @jaya-jp5zl 13 дней назад +4

    Sis unga show pakkarsa ethana per book vangi padikka poranga...nowadays ninga book summary fulla cover panrathu ille...ana other channelsla niraya take-aways kidaikkuthu...
    anyway my husbanadkku. 12/12 pottachu 😊

  • @emptyglaas5224
    @emptyglaas5224 13 дней назад +1

    Please continue this video part 2

  • @ArutPerunJothiThaniPeruKarunai
    @ArutPerunJothiThaniPeruKarunai 13 дней назад

    nandri akka, great book, great making akka. god bless🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @Yamini-yp8oe
    @Yamini-yp8oe 13 дней назад

    Kindly explain about the "THE SURRENDER EXPERIMENT"

  • @nammajollyairupom
    @nammajollyairupom 7 дней назад

    Good And needed video🎉

  • @priyadharshand
    @priyadharshand 13 дней назад +15

    Anu can you please remove that dig screen beside you , that's so annoying and distracting us from listening to what you are saying

  • @sharanyadayabaran7234
    @sharanyadayabaran7234 13 дней назад

    Waiting for the review

  • @PrahalaA
    @PrahalaA 8 дней назад

    Yaraga erundhalum namakku pidikalena no solle kadhukkanum....😊😊😊

  • @tnpsc-contents
    @tnpsc-contents 3 дня назад +1

    Nala vela nama ithula entha points laum varala😅😅😅

  • @Renuka-k4e
    @Renuka-k4e 8 дней назад +1

    20years Achu my hasband narcissistic personality 😢😢😢 mentaly affitad.pls kide me sis😢😢thanku sis 😊😊

    • @Umasdiary29
      @Umasdiary29 6 дней назад

      Meet psychologist divorce if you are financially independent

  • @Hermit090
    @Hermit090 11 дней назад +2

    Sounds like my parents.. 😅

  • @PERIYASAMYP-to4bf
    @PERIYASAMYP-to4bf 6 дней назад +1

    U Speaking in Tamil
    but Not mentioned in Tamil in THUMBNAIL even in TITLE :[ , just seeing your channel, pls Update

  • @MANIRAJ-vq5hi
    @MANIRAJ-vq5hi 6 дней назад

    Na enaku intha character iruka'nu check pana intha video paatha, ena suthi irukuravanunga kita irukura character'ah iruku😅😅... Eppudi chikki iruken paathiya pa🥲

  • @kishorekishore-pn5bl
    @kishorekishore-pn5bl 12 дней назад +1

    3:32 1st q

  • @KRISHNASV-q2v
    @KRISHNASV-q2v 7 дней назад +1

    Skip till 3.35

  • @haarunrasith6910
    @haarunrasith6910 13 дней назад +3

    Covert.narsisam.podunga.mam

  • @haarunrasith6910
    @haarunrasith6910 13 дней назад

    super.

  • @Travelwiththennarasu
    @Travelwiththennarasu 10 дней назад

    i am not a narcissistic person

  • @manjupraveen8070
    @manjupraveen8070 13 дней назад

    Any books for men mind their understanding, character like please suggest someone?

  • @mohammedallauddin6237
    @mohammedallauddin6237 13 дней назад +5

    Mudichu vittinga ponga 😊

  • @PerumPalli
    @PerumPalli 6 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @danielnaveen3283
    @danielnaveen3283 12 дней назад +1

    Yes I am a narcissist😊

  • @jeevithajeevitha1960
    @jeevithajeevitha1960 13 дней назад +3

    Edula onumae na ile😂😂😂

  • @lakshmisudhas4808
    @lakshmisudhas4808 7 дней назад

    6.16 100%%%%

  • @BilalBilal-yj1fj
    @BilalBilal-yj1fj 8 дней назад

    Nala vela idhula onu kuda namba kittta ila 😅

  • @karthik9944
    @karthik9944 13 дней назад

    Any book on Airports !

    • @books_and_lits
      @books_and_lits 13 дней назад

      @karthik9944 if you are interested in fiction especially in Tamil,there is a book by the name பயணிகள் கவனிக்கவும் by பாலகுமாரன்(Payanigal Gavanikkavum by Balakumaran).This book,though being fiction,gives a great deal of information regarding the activities at an airport.Please check out if you are interested.

  • @mohamedsafa5428
    @mohamedsafa5428 13 дней назад +3

    Seems சின்ன பிரச்சனைய.. Lime light ல கொண்டு வரா மாதிரி தோணுது.. At some point everybody has this charactersitics.. So should we stay or move லா பெரிய வார்த்தை

    • @ShrihariSivakumar
      @ShrihariSivakumar 11 дней назад +5

      Neenga anubavikkala, adhunala ipdi solringa

    • @CharukesiArunraj
      @CharukesiArunraj 9 дней назад

      Exaaaactly 😂😂😂😂

    • @CharukesiArunraj
      @CharukesiArunraj 9 дней назад +1

      Definitely ur a narc then.. They look these things as small.. No emotions 😂

  • @VigneshWaran-yr6cp
    @VigneshWaran-yr6cp 13 дней назад +6

    Sounds likey mom

  • @SabeerAyyas
    @SabeerAyyas 12 дней назад

    Akka is there any other book suggestions for like getting back from the narcissistic behaviours being a better human ?

    • @ikigai999
      @ikigai999 8 дней назад +1

      Books can help but therapist is a better option. Because u will get more actionable steps in a manner and pace that suits you and also a 3rd person perspective that will help you understand yourself better.

  • @WATER_FLAMING_WINGS
    @WATER_FLAMING_WINGS 13 дней назад +2

    Neenga solra ellamey en appan katiitu vandha pondaattikku irukku.

  • @manjulaloganathan2581
    @manjulaloganathan2581 13 дней назад +1

    Managers😂

  • @raamthamizh5886
    @raamthamizh5886 13 дней назад +1

    Madam❤

  • @meandminetamil
    @meandminetamil 8 дней назад

    Ennoda Ex ku 12 poruthamum pakkava iruku 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tamil_writeups
    @tamil_writeups 9 дней назад +1

    Proud narcissist 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @ry-hw2fj
      @ry-hw2fj 8 дней назад

      Proud ?🤮worst personality

  • @paari5405
    @paari5405 10 дней назад

    Ellame no thaan.

  • @flowermedicineintamil6418
    @flowermedicineintamil6418 3 дня назад

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @rajeswarynarasimman3728
    @rajeswarynarasimman3728 13 дней назад

    Sounds like aparna from Indian matchmaking

  • @thiyagarajanalagirisamy4504
    @thiyagarajanalagirisamy4504 9 дней назад

    Im the narcissistic person
    Like here

  • @aditipapa948
    @aditipapa948 7 дней назад

    99%

  • @sivakamisundari6686
    @sivakamisundari6686 13 дней назад

    Yaru athu

  • @subhachinnathai830
    @subhachinnathai830 13 дней назад +2

    Ananthi in big boss?

  • @yogaprakasharumugam
    @yogaprakasharumugam 3 дня назад

    ayyaayo narcissist ah naanu

  • @suryaselvaselva9507
    @suryaselvaselva9507 13 дней назад

    Narcesist and narcesism about all tamil book review podunga ka and narcesism about series many books review podunga akka please

  • @msdcsk2754
    @msdcsk2754 3 дня назад

    Psychology
    Cant be accurate.

  • @hariharansembunmoorthy
    @hariharansembunmoorthy 13 дней назад

    You are so obsessed with Narcissistic.

  • @skaviationcrush3463
    @skaviationcrush3463 11 дней назад

    😂

  • @imthemass6431
    @imthemass6431 13 дней назад

    So, in simple words, genZ girls and boys is what this book explains.

  • @arunslog
    @arunslog 13 дней назад

    Please avoid this type of book already zen z are finding living together even for a year.

  • @vigneshmoorthy6047
    @vigneshmoorthy6047 9 дней назад +1

    Seekarama matter ku va ma. Illuthutu irruka