You are only partially correct. Modern education is far more about behaving in class and following orders. They don't hold kids back for not knowing the schoolwork, they hold them back for bad behavior. And it has been like this for 25-30 years now.
My dumb ass went on a date last month with an “educated woman”. All she talked about was her job and degree. I mentioned that I have a Masters Degree and she looked dumbfounded. I asked her simple questions such as “ what are your favorite hobbies?” and “what meals do you enjoy cooking?” and she would revert back to her degree. I told her the next day that I’m no longer interested. Worst date ever
That's like my grandparents. She had the degree and financial savvy, he had the work ethic and business savvy. Together they built several homes, including their mansion they enjoy today.
Like why when we can get a woman in her twenties with a nicer body low miles and more compliant. Woman are aging like milk now because they do too much ,trying to be independent your whole life takes a toll on top of caking on makeup and glue every day.
This was my ex she had a college degree and a good job let me tell you something that woman could not be taught anything! It was as if she knew every damn thing, and in her mind a degree was EVERYTHING! got back my peace once we called it quits!
@jacobsdescendant4240 I'm not a feminist. Calling every woman a feminist including strangers on the internet is juvenile. This is why I stated she got back her peace. Real women want men who don't resort to name calling anytime someone has a dissenting opinion. Brother, you get out of a relationship what you put in it. No woman will respect you if you don't respect her. Yes, even the submissive woman.
@@lmj6825 you have no clue, absolutely no idea about the type of individual I was with and the incidents that transpired but you seem to think you’re right! That’s the problem with modern day wmn they will cape for the other wmn simply for the need to be right! It’s sickening! And that’s why I say dating in western society is finished, because no one wants to take accountability especially wmn like you, the audacity to come in the comments on the internet and act as if you know what transpired between two people is crazy!
I am a formally educated older black man and i dont understand what this young lady is saying. My grandfather had a 3rd grade education and had his own brick laying business. Not to mention he was one of the wisest people I have ever known. Degrees don't make the individual.
but you see, it sounds like your grandfather had tons of "informal" education related to having a stable family. this is something american women are not getting. 'formal' education is only one type of education that can only accomplish certain things.
Thank you! I keep reading ignorant comments complaining about women being educated not finding a man, when in actuality it’s the attitude they don’t like. Which I understand but they have a hard time using the correct term.
That’s an ignorant statement. There are some whose jobs offer tuition assistance. You also have scholarships, Fed grants, work study etc... For myself, I have benefits from the VA to pay for my schooling, as do a lot of other female veterans. So, to assume all are drowning in debt is ignorant.
@@usmokndopeordogfood7542 You’re right, he wasn’t wrong. The attitude is actually the issue not because a woman is educated. Common sense would’ve caught that, but I digress.
@@denisedixon1579but one thing that is not talked about: These females benefited from Bill Clinton’s welfare to workfare. The resources reached black females and passed over the brothas. The school districts got rid of their metal and shop classes. I remember when the bill passed. I was in favor of it. But when I tried to advance my career, I was laughed at. HR SUCKS!!
3:15 women literally did that in like iceland and productivity went up 😭😭😭 companies were reporting record profits and there were no hr complaints 😂😂😂😂
A co-worker once told me, there's a difference between Highly Educated and Common Sense. A group of HIGHLY EDUCATED engineers maybe able to create an explosive using only gum and toothpicks, yet don't have COMMON SENSE enough to come in out of the rain.
Our women in the black community in the pass did all that and they knew how to keep that man too! Ask your grandma and your momma, they didn't down play the uneducated working hard brothers in the black community...... modernized women today you can keep your high up education all by your self.....
Yea but those same men discouraged women from going to school, learning a skill, or doing anything outside of cook, clean, open their legs and pop out babies
Our grandmothers also didn’t have the same choices or opportunities that women do today. You cannot compare the two. With that logic I can claim grandad didn’t complain about taking care of his family either i.e. a provider, like modern men do today. But that’ll be a problem. But how are educated women are downplaying uneducated men? Can you elaborate?
What she meant to say when she said "Educated women start challenging THINGS" is that Educated women start challenging their MAN. And no man wants to constantly deal with such BS.
The thing is educated men dont go around bragging about it and disrespecting others because we are educated. Some of these so called educated black women dont regard any other human!
Again, their making their career and degrees their personality. How much men brag to women about degrees and paying their own bills, with men your expected to be an adult, women think being a responsible adult is an accomplishment.
I'm a black man with a MBA from Detroit. That was a hard accomplishment, but it certainly does not define me as a man. My character does! Most men get that.
If she really dissected everything, she would understood that everything she was told was taught to her by the school system. 🤔Who told you that a degree meant something?
Education might be useful for qualifying for decent paying jobs, but wisdom will sustain your relationships. A lot of these women lack emotional intelligence and wisdom.
OmG Lord, WHY can't WOMEN just LOVE & RESPECT MEN for who GOD CREATED them TO BE & vice versa?? WOMEN are supposed to be nurturer's & MEN are providers & protectors!! WHY ALL THIS BACK & FORTH?? It's so EXHAUSTING 😩 & we have BIGGER problems to worry about in this country rt now!! Praying for this WORLD 🌎 🙏🏽
Her: When you’re educated you become a life long student. Me: That’s the problem you’re staying a student, at what point do you become the teacher? That’s like staying a life long child & not becoming an adult, this is what men deal with educated women. You think you know everything but know nothing at all at the same time.
It completely went over your head. This is why education is needed to understand simple concepts. Only fools think they have reached a point where they know everything.
@@lmj6825 Nothing went over my head lil man, you don’t need education to understand concepts. Who said anything about knowing everything? Is this the education you were referring to cuz apparently it’s not teaching you how to read what someone said.
My brothers you have too many options in 2024 place yourselves in spaces where you're appreciated not just tolerated. All blk women do not think like this it's just those who have been misinformed by media, television, and propaganda.
@@sherene7 Oh they do you obviously do not study history when has white men truly meant black women any good? The white men that want black women treat you all as exotic animals.
College equals DEBT if you're only go for the symbol of the degree. A plan no matter the level of being thought out is better than just "going to school". You go to school to learn a skill, not to rack up debt on the tax payer dime.
The problem with a lot of black women who get degrees they let that define them. A degree, job title or status doesn't define a person. Its how you conduct yourself and how you treat others that define you. I met quite a few women with degrees but no common sense whatsoever. That you need more of to survive in this world. I'm a black man with a degree and I don't wear it in my arm.
If you gave a degree, you are smart enough to pay off your student loan if you are in debt. Men with sense are not gonna be having a dialog with a lady about topics or issues of substance and all the lady has for is a rebuttal is "I have a degree." It gets old.
What does her husband think? Whether he's White, Asian, Hispanic, Arabic, Black or otherwise, what are his thoughts? Oh, yeah, she ain't got no husband...
Lady, I AM college educated and what you taking comes from both educated and uneducated women......and I did date both. Tell you what, try prayer, cuz education seem to be throwing you off. Keep growing though, We still ❤ you. And PLEASE remember the wall while you're still cute. Salute to all women who get it.
And college degrees doesn't equate to common sense 😐 🙄 for some people 🙏👎
Exactly!!
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Facts
Amen.
I been saying that for years. Education without common sense leads to stupidity.
Someone forgot to tell her that education doesn't equate to intelligence.
Best comment on this video!
@@kareem.10I always say it’s a difference between being educated & indoctrinated 😂
@usmokndopeordogfood7542 Yeah, most don't know the difference.
word is bond.
Right on!
A degree doesn’t make you desirable. Idk why they won’t understand that
Facts
I know being, a hoe makes you desirable...
Because without femininity to present, and no virginity, degrees are all they have. 🤯
It’s bc they desire men with degrees, and they think attraction is symmetrical…it’s not
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Being educated by a school is simply about hard work and memorization. Having an high IQ is completely different. They confuse the two.
Correct, but there is also a strong correlation between high IQ and the ability to memorize and recall.
they definitely confuse the 2.
No there isn't @@johngreg12
In some cases it does require intelligence. A person can have both. You don't need to make a choice between the two unless you want to limit yourself.
You are only partially correct. Modern education is far more about behaving in class and following orders. They don't hold kids back for not knowing the schoolwork, they hold them back for bad behavior. And it has been like this for 25-30 years now.
All it shows is that she is in a lot of debt and she is indoctrinated.
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Actually... she claims that she is debt free... however, she is indoctrinated nonetheless 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Excellent
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You can become educated without incurring debt...
the only “degree” that matters is “degree” under your arms! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💯
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That’s a good one 😂
MANE 💯 💯 💯
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Only Black women start thinking this way. What happens is that once they get an education they feel we, as Black men, can't tell them anything.
@1DNR-01 Facts!!
So true
@1DNR-01The ego is one hell of a drug mfs don’t even know they be high off it😂😂😂
@1DNR-01I can tell them I don’t want them, and that their degree don’t mean shh
Even the BW without degrees are the same way.
My dumb ass went on a date last month with an “educated woman”. All she talked about was her job and degree. I mentioned that I have a Masters Degree and she looked dumbfounded. I asked her simple questions such as “ what are your favorite hobbies?” and “what meals do you enjoy cooking?” and she would revert back to her degree. I told her the next day that I’m no longer interested. Worst date ever
lol, who paid for the date though ?
@@jondo3817 I asked her out so I paid the bill.
@@jimdeez8871 wow 😮 your so nice looking her loss
Lol, my mom was a PhD, and my dad was a carpenter. They were equally intelligent in different ways. Neither said they didn't need the other.
That's like my grandparents. She had the degree and financial savvy, he had the work ethic and business savvy. Together they built several homes, including their mansion they enjoy today.
They were not caught up with nonsense gender wars
Who was she cheating with? Because with hypergamy it doesn't add up.
Female is 40+ and trying to rationalize why solid men don't want her. 🤦🏾♂️
lol 😂!!!
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@@Archangel_21 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Like why when we can get a woman in her twenties with a nicer body low miles and more compliant. Woman are aging like milk now because they do too much ,trying to be independent your whole life takes a toll on top of caking on makeup and glue every day.
She got those baby teeth
This was my ex she had a college degree and a good job let me tell you something that woman could not be taught anything! It was as if she knew every damn thing, and in her mind a degree was EVERYTHING! got back my peace once we called it quits!
She also got back her peace!
@@lmj6825 ok Ms.Feminist, one thing about you modern day wmn you do sick together.
@jacobsdescendant4240 I'm not a feminist. Calling every woman a feminist including strangers on the internet is juvenile. This is why I stated she got back her peace. Real women want men who don't resort to name calling anytime someone has a dissenting opinion. Brother, you get out of a relationship what you put in it. No woman will respect you if you don't respect her. Yes, even the submissive woman.
@@lmj6825 you have no clue, absolutely no idea about the type of individual I was with and the incidents that transpired but you seem to think you’re right! That’s the problem with modern day wmn they will cape for the other wmn simply for the need to be right! It’s sickening! And that’s why I say dating in western society is finished, because no one wants to take accountability especially wmn like you, the audacity to come in the comments on the internet and act as if you know what transpired between two people is crazy!
I am living with an a h like that right now .
I remember my elders always use to call certain people educated dummies
Or educated fool!
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Yup. Educated fools is how it was explained to me.
@@Sinncere06 yeah I remember that one two I forgot about it lol
I am a formally educated older black man and i dont understand what this young lady is saying. My grandfather had a 3rd grade education and had his own brick laying business. Not to mention he was one of the wisest people I have ever known. Degrees don't make the individual.
but you see, it sounds like your grandfather had tons of "informal" education related to having a stable family. this is something american women are not getting. 'formal' education is only one type of education that can only accomplish certain things.
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If the degrees are being used to better the family unit or the community then cool.
They’re NOT!
Seems like it's being used to pit us against each other & I don't like it!!!😮💨 We r supposed to be building TOGETHER!!!❤️.
@@justthinking4421you ain’t kno? Daughters of the trade been this way. We been at each others throats
@@justthinking4421May you elaborate? How are they used to pit us against each other?
Women, us men are simple creatures 😂. We expect minimal effort of appreciation like brother Phil said
Being an ( Educated Woman) ..Has nothing with finding a ( Good Man).. It's the ( Attitude) .. Thinking that ( Their) , Better than men. 💃😤💃😤💃😤
Thank you! I keep reading ignorant comments complaining about women being educated not finding a man, when in actuality it’s the attitude they don’t like. Which I understand but they have a hard time using the correct term.
How come your wonderful education didn't give you a better attitude?
When i hear 'educated woman" I hear a mountain of student loan and consumer debt with an attitude to match
When I hear “Educated woman” I hear don’t go towards the light😂
That’s an ignorant statement. There are some whose jobs offer tuition assistance. You also have scholarships, Fed grants, work study etc... For myself, I have benefits from the VA to pay for my schooling, as do a lot of other female veterans. So, to assume all are drowning in debt is ignorant.
Too funny
@@miaq392 Well he wasn’t wrong about the attitude to match apparently 😂.
@@usmokndopeordogfood7542 You’re right, he wasn’t wrong. The attitude is actually the issue not because a woman is educated. Common sense would’ve caught that, but I digress.
Sometimes being smart and educated means knowing when to speak and knowing when to remain silent and listen.
I love educated women. However….if you are a college educated black man like myself, black women and other women will UNDERMINED your progress.
Yep
@@oldclip70 I love intelligent ppl period. I've met some of the most educated intelligent ppl with no degree both sexes.
@@denisedixon1579but one thing that is not talked about: These females benefited from Bill Clinton’s welfare to workfare. The resources reached black females and passed over the brothas. The school districts got rid of their metal and shop classes. I remember when the bill passed. I was in favor of it. But when I tried to advance my career, I was laughed at. HR SUCKS!!
Agree
Yeap… and to be honest, it’s not just black women trying to keep black at the bottom. This is a consorted effort.
3:15 women literally did that in like iceland and productivity went up 😭😭😭 companies were reporting record profits and there were no hr complaints 😂😂😂😂
A co-worker once told me, there's a difference between Highly Educated and Common Sense. A group of HIGHLY EDUCATED engineers maybe able to create an explosive using only gum and toothpicks, yet don't have COMMON SENSE enough to come in out of the rain.
She so smart and educated and can't figure out how to keep a man...
The problem with most college educated women is that they don’t care what men want. They want to tell the customer what he wants.
Moral of the story: Don't be an educated fool.
Good luck with these women out here fellas 🤷🏾♂️
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The only thing that degree does for those toxic types is mask their insecurities. You take that degree away, and they're vulnerable.
and their weaves
They really believe this bs. It ain’t that deep lady.
All fun & games until the lights go out
A degree is only a degree of learning or a measure of learning, but some people act as if a degree makes them superior to others.
Relationships are supposed to be enjoyable. When you're so educated that you can't relax and enjoy yourself. Your education is all you'll have.
A man will do anything for his women that shows him that she loves him. It’s called Reciprocation. You don’t need a degree to understand that🤦🏾
The men created the world you live in and protect it Missy
So when you see men say thank you.
Our women in the black community in the pass did all that and they knew how to keep that man too! Ask your grandma and your momma, they didn't down play the uneducated working hard brothers in the black community...... modernized women today you can keep your high up education all by your self.....
Yea but those same men discouraged women from going to school, learning a skill, or doing anything outside of cook, clean, open their legs and pop out babies
Our grandmothers also didn’t have the same choices or opportunities that women do today. You cannot compare the two. With that logic I can claim grandad didn’t complain about taking care of his family either i.e. a provider, like modern men do today. But that’ll be a problem.
But how are educated women are downplaying uneducated men? Can you elaborate?
Bitter, outa shape and old...No thanks...
lol
That old part, isn't necessary, hope you get old, but the bitter part 100 percent
that lady should go get a refund from whatever college she went to.
Ever hear of the term " "educated fool". I went to college with lots of them,of all races.
Phil I think you should start debating these women. It’s time to start pushing this mess back in to the underworld
What she meant to say when she said "Educated women start challenging THINGS" is that Educated women start challenging their MAN. And no man wants to constantly deal with such BS.
Ironically, any Woman that proves she is more of a Man than the Man she is pursuing will most likely fail at that relationship.
I’m so tired of having these conversations .. they not going to change.. let them go ✌🏼
I have multiple degrees and I can say that the stupidest people I have ever met had PhDs.
These W are clueless...I don't bother to explain anymore..
The thing is educated men dont go around bragging about it and disrespecting others because we are educated. Some of these so called educated black women dont regard any other human!
Education is knowing HOW to think not just memorizing information.
That degree can’t fix broken stuff around the house and when the car breaks down, common sense and general mechanical knowledge does.
Not to be mean but clearly being " Educated " has little to do with intelligence nor wisdom.
She's confused as heck, sad
Again, their making their career and degrees their personality.
How much men brag to women about degrees and paying their own bills, with men your expected to be an adult, women think being a responsible adult is an accomplishment.
This woman has no clue about what she is talking about.
Guys you don't have to deal with these educated western women ,leave them alone . Get your passport .
When will they hear us tell them WE DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT !!!!!!!
As a WOMAN, I'm SO SICK & TIRED OF THIS CONVERSATION HAVING TO BE HAD🥱🙄
lol 😂
I'm a black man with a MBA from Detroit. That was a hard accomplishment, but it certainly does not define me as a man. My character does! Most men get that.
If she really dissected everything, she would understood that everything she was told was taught to her by the school system. 🤔Who told you that a degree meant something?
Loot at the wors they use. Stand up for yourself. Who was obressing you. Keep your education. I hope it keeps you warm at night.
White feminism is their go too talking points. Don’t you forget it
It's not the education that's her problem, it's the attitude.
Poor woman smh
Them sellout women are done
And what have we been telling you. Most women are single because of other women and feminist not men.
If being "educated" was all it was cracked up to be you wouldn't still be wasting your time talking about men.
Education might be useful for qualifying for decent paying jobs, but wisdom will sustain your relationships. A lot of these women lack emotional intelligence and wisdom.
"You start to decenter men...". But she's still worrying about men? Just go on bout your business, ma'am and don't worry about men. If a free country
Them decentering men is getting on social media platforms and talking about men every day.
OmG Lord, WHY can't WOMEN just LOVE & RESPECT MEN for who GOD CREATED them TO BE & vice versa?? WOMEN are supposed to be nurturer's & MEN are providers & protectors!! WHY ALL THIS BACK & FORTH?? It's so EXHAUSTING 😩 & we have BIGGER problems to worry about in this country rt now!! Praying for this WORLD 🌎 🙏🏽
why are you here telling us ? we already know, so you are preaching to the choir. go find some of those women and try to talk them out of it.
These kind of women are going to get humbled badly with the way this economy is headed.
THANK YOU!!
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Beyond ridiculous
Women need to stop being selfish!!! Period!!
THANK YOU HARD WORKING MEN FOR ALL YOU DO!!!YAH BLESS!!!❤❤❤
I've had a couple of females tell me that they were better than me because they had a degree and I didn't. But they were broke as a joke.
Her: When you’re educated you become a life long student.
Me: That’s the problem you’re staying a student, at what point do you become the teacher? That’s like staying a life long child & not becoming an adult, this is what men deal with educated women. You think you know everything but know nothing at all at the same time.
You should always be a student in life. Even teachers are students. There is always something new to learn.
It completely went over your head. This is why education is needed to understand simple concepts. Only fools think they have reached a point where they know everything.
@@DievestorsNeverLearn Wtf does learning something new with have to with “Staying a student for life?
@@lmj6825 Nothing went over my head lil man, you don’t need education to understand concepts. Who said anything about knowing everything? Is this the education you were referring to cuz apparently it’s not teaching you how to read what someone said.
You can have all the education you want but if you ain't got no COMMON SENSE you lost !
I see no ring, no ring, no ring. Degrees means you know how to take test.
My brothers you have too many options in 2024 place yourselves in spaces where you're appreciated not just tolerated. All blk women do not think like this it's just those who have been misinformed by media, television, and propaganda.
Say less boss
Let them chase Zaddy.
What they dont realize is Zaddy dont want them either 🫠😂
Let them keep lying to themselves.
@@freestateofgrizzy1937 ya'll need to quit with that lie.WM love black women and always have.
@@sherene7 Oh they do you obviously do not study history when has white men truly meant black women any good? The white men that want black women treat you all as exotic animals.
@@sherene7
Lol, if that is the case why are wm not marrying bw in the masses? There’s a difference between life and using you as a toy in the bedroom…
Men run from women like this
College equals DEBT if you're only go for the symbol of the degree. A plan no matter the level of being thought out is better than just "going to school". You go to school to learn a skill, not to rack up debt on the tax payer dime.
Wrong. I'm college educated and no debt. Stop these lies. Only fools discourage others.
Being well educated is NOT a substitute for being well informed.
She needs to educate herself on a new hairstyle, attitude and fitness plan.
Zaddy got them thinking their powerful
Anyone with an educated or confident they don't have to talk about the education they have.
I wouldn't mind having a sista that's highly educated, hell she can teach me some things and visa versa.
Phill is A THOUSAND PERCENT right!! Most guys would be happy with just a little!!
She doesn't sound very educated to me.
The old ones are so educated until they sleep with their degree in bed.
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 facts 💯
It's not the education it's the attitude women put themselves higher than a man and stop treating him like the man in the house
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The problem with a lot of black women who get degrees they let that define them. A degree, job title or status doesn't define a person. Its how you conduct yourself and how you treat others that define you. I met quite a few women with degrees but no common sense whatsoever. That you need more of to survive in this world. I'm a black man with a degree and I don't wear it in my arm.
She was so vague, I don't even know what she's talking about. The worst people are those that aren't saying anything as they are talking down to you.
Nothing but the truth...
If you gave a degree, you are smart enough to pay off your student loan if you are in debt. Men with sense are not gonna be having a dialog with a lady about topics or issues of substance and all the lady has for is a rebuttal is "I have a degree." It gets old.
0:35) Seriously 😳, what of Your Attitude?
What does her husband think? Whether he's White, Asian, Hispanic, Arabic, Black or otherwise, what are his thoughts? Oh, yeah, she ain't got no husband...
Sounds like this lady hooked up with that Diamond the Body chick. Her talking points are similar.
Wit' her Nell Carter lookin' self.
(Gimme a break! l🤣l)
So education makes you think of de-centering men?
You can't make this ish up!
Education is a tool. not a personality prothese.
I bet they never challenge their boss!!!!
College education is a means to an end. It's not the end all be all
Lady, I AM college educated and what you taking comes from both educated and uneducated women......and I did date both. Tell you what, try prayer, cuz education seem to be throwing you off. Keep growing though, We still ❤ you. And PLEASE remember the wall while you're still cute.
Salute to all women who get it.
When I am ready to take my retirement, I will take it in family-centered Ghana. Decentering men will have grave consequences in the U.S.