There's nothing wrong with women wanting to be loved, men couldn't own them like they do if they didn't want this love so much. There are critisizms, but this isn't one of them.
CCP want us deluded, ..... unable to train soldier's to march in time, operate weaponry and fail to attract the best candidates to a military career because standard's are so low and D E I has tied up half the defense budget in nonsense.
All these women like to feel attractive, powerful and independent and feeling elevated, yet the currency of their 'power' is male desire. This simple truth eludes them.
I have three. It really gives you a headstart on understanding women when you grow up alongside three of them and watch the evolution of female development. They're quite sweet and pleasant... before they get that first dump of estrogen, it's downhill from there lol. Once they discover that the world will dote on them for their beauty, then you REALLY see the ugly side of female nature take hold. And whats even more interesting, if you are part of my generation that bridged the advent of the internet, I saw my older sister grow up WITHOUT internet access (she started messing around with MySpace at like 16-17 I think?), but my little sisters grew up with internet before they even hit puberty. And let me tell you... the difference is horrifyingly dramatic. It absolutely damaged my youngest, she even ended up getting lured out of the house by a predator at 15, which is a whole other reason why internet is terrible for youth, But that aside, just having that portal into a world where women are worshipped for being women, It corrupts them VERY quickly.
I have a little sister, she had the hugest celeb crush on Keaneau Reeves for years. Know what broke it? She met him at the airport, while he was touring with his band. He was super nice to her, and took time to take pics with her at her request, even though he looked exhasted. BUT he was a real man, unkempt and smelly.
When I was a boy, I always found it funny how the boys exalted my sisters, considered them to be sublime, Goddesses, angels, etc. I knew that they were simple as a log.
I realize in hindsight how much of an advantage my friends with sisters (specially older ones) had compared to the rest of us. They did much better with the ladies while treating them like sh1t. Back then I never connected those 3 things... pretty much the opposite, I thought "how's it possible that the girls like him while he's being such an a-h0le to them".
Many of these women would rather be a single mom from the "hot guy" than lower their standards a little bit for a normal guy that will stick around. This is the problem.
Maybe this is a reaction by nature. By this, a new species is bread. All but the top 10% are removed from the gene pool and all but the top 25% of the women, too.
it’s not a problem, this is your ego talking. We’re all animals and the method you’re describing is what gives offsprings the greatest chance to survive and thrive. A man with good genes who is resourceful will always be better than an average man. Women are the gatekeepers of the next generation. They decide who’s genes should be passed one and who’s shouldn’t. This is their duty. They innately know that a powerful man is worth sharing. Men don’t have this ability because they don’t know for a fact that an offspring is theirs. Raising another man’s offspring is a hindrance to the passing of his genes. Don’t be upset with biology/nature, use it to your advantage. Understand that your value as a man is measured by how resourceful and dominant you are. If you are a resourceful and dominant man, you would make a better father as you will give your children the greatest chance of survival. Women innately pick up on this. Women MUST attract a man which is why their sole focus is looking desirable. The more desirable they are, the higher caliber of man she can attract. This is why they’re more social as well, higher probability of attracting a man in a pack of women than alone (think about this one). Whereas men’s focus is internal growth to become a resourceful and dominant man, a woman’s is external. This is by design to give the human species the greatest chance of survival. Why do you think women are of average intelligence, average really at most things. They don’t need to be exceptional, only men do.
By the age of 18, a young woman has probably seen several million ads telling her that she is special and amazing. The repetition alone would be enough to make her believe it but it's also the one message young women crave the most. It's like a key to a lock.
@@kelseybelle2732 ...and don't forget...they all wanted to be cheerleaders...walking around doing their little fake routines while within their girl-clique....hilarious!
In my experience, the noisier they are the more basic they are. The quieter ones are more interesting. Its like inversely proportional. I think women often use talking to compensate for a lack of being interesting. Lol
Yeah. True . If you are a confident person you don't need to talk all the time to prove to people you are . The Quiet ones are often quietly confident.
I have hung out with females before just in a platonic way. And here and there a couple of them have got mad at me bc " I was too quiet ". But they were being very dramatic and loud . I told them I'm secure in myself I don't feel the need to partake in drama just for the sake of it. So that made them classify me as "boring". Yikes
Judging from all these videos right now, managing dating life as a man is really hard nowadays. My piece of advice is to just be yourself, and stay on your path. Chasing women didn't bring any good to anyone, it can just put you in misery. But when they start chasing you, you need to have some tricks u your sleeve: 1. I suggest reading 'First Date Playbook: A Step By Step Guide To A Great Start'
Tbh reading a book called "First Date Playbook" already sounds like you're chasing women. I mean you care so much about getting women that you're literally studying like it's a phD. Something that should be organic and instinctive social interaction, you're studying as if you don't understand your own species like you're some alien from another planet. Don't you think it's women's job to stop being so obnoxiously unreasonable and hard to understand and to interact with that reading a whole book shouldn't be required. Women put 0 effort into first dates while men read books. Ridiculous.
@@mrkiky If you want to know how to deal with women, it does help to understand them. But you can also accept that they are needlessly and intentionally complicated and programmed, and just ignore their bullshit. So youre right, but if you want a relationship with a woman, you will have to communicate and interact with her.
Most of those women on the Whatever podcast are so delusional, shooting for a fraction of a percent of men, ignoring all the other men, and they themselves are average at best.
Big mistake to call them women when they are childish, entitled, and delusional 304 females. Women are completely different than females and most females can’t define a woman.
I am convinced that these modern women understand they gatekeep P, but don't understand men gatekeep the relationship, so they don't understand that male attention doesn't equate the ability to marry the men they want to trap - those top few % who tick most of their boxes or fractional % who check them all.
I'm one of your female listeners. Thank you for your comment on the quiet females. I'm an introvert past reproductive age. The young females are out of control and want so much attention. I'm glad the internet wasn't around when I was growing up. I can't imagine how I would have been as a young female with the internet. Hopefully, we'll get through a bad generation who realizes their mistakes sooner than later. I'm not saying the entire generation is bad. Raised on the internet isn't good.
The only social media I had was Facebook over 10 years ago. After months of seeing people I knew being fake happy on there, I cancelled it. Even this woman in the video who is expressing happiness, is showing us the sad state of her life. I used to be one of those people who drove a nice car to impress people I don't know, so yes, I understand her
I work at a college in Los Angeles as a technician… I drive my work cart around the school and I see nothing but people of various ages with their face’s all buried in their device even while walking around. I sometimes have to wait for them to finally realize that I am driving past them so they don’t walk into me. It’s kind of sad really. I think people genuinely can’t bear not to be connected to that device and whatever social media they’re using. I think it would mean them having to admit that they’re an empty shell of a person. I know it’s not everyone but I suspect it’s most. No real social skills to speak of.
@@jai2776 There are studies that also show that women speak more than men but only by about 15-20%. So it seems there are studies that show men talk less, men talk more, and men talk the same as women. Social science studies are known for being very much crap. Even biological sciences are facetious in that 30%+ of the claims in the ABSTRACT are not factual according to the BODY OF THE STUDY. There is a lot of corruption and bribery and a lot of academics just referencing their peers and reviewing each other to get by. Look it up, read on how corrupt it is. Also, regarding speech. ...it's not the duration of talking that is annoying. It's the CONTENT of the speech and how it DELIVERED and whether the other party is in the mood for conversation.
I used to play a game whenever I caught myself checking a girl out. Its called "beautiful or just half naked" ...they're usually just half naked. I'm not actually attracted to them, they're not actually beautiful, I'm picking up a sexual queue from them just...being more naked than other women. Same thing with conversation: "smart or cleavage"
Luckily, most girls don't play "love or money?" It's, like, a really really smart cleavage. Per quantum uncertainty principle, depending on the observation it can be one or the other and you're unable to tell which per fundamental laws of physics.
What's worst is when a very boring and basic woman can't stand the same in a man. Of course she will demand that her man be the most interesting person she ever met ...
The problem is guys justify enabling, encouraging and even rewarding women's behavior because desire outweighs common sense. When bots truly are affordable women will find out their true worth when they find out they're so toxic guys will start preferring a piece of plastic that'll be close enough. That's not even considering advancements. I'll get my own tifa from ff7 just to start. Then think about having a romantic dinner with her. She'll be more real than most actual women many of us will ever meet. Yeah....
The AI will end up knowing more about yourself than you do. They will be able to read your emotions and act accordingly unlike any modern woman can ever do. Its over for humanity
You have really taught me something here. The women in my family have always been very attractive. my grandmother always told them "pretty is as pretty does". I have a clinical masters in social work and I've always thought that that message was somehow degrading to them. But it's true. My grandmother was wise beyond her years.
Anyone who wants to dispute that men and women are not equal and are different, just listen to this woman's approach to getting a boyfriend - walking around the shopping centre hoping some man will approach her.
i would never approach her, i can't stand that aesthetic. They say not to judge a book by its cover but i can't help it. My gf is smart an culturally independent but shes slipping into this style more each year an i dunno how to tell her i'm not into it.
just use your word bro, its simple open your mouth and talk, you can use communication as the tool for success in any relationship, if this fail she wasn't for you and you dodge a bullet, its that simple. Delaying will only make it worse tbh
@@CBonduMiel i'm hoping shes grows out of it. she knows i don't like it but she dresses for her,, i don't understand why you would throw away a 10yr relationship with someone for a dress code
@@x-LINX-x I've walked past her in my hometown and looked one second too long, as our paths crossed she said "Dont just stare say something!" By the time I thought too high maintenance even tho hot what an fukin brat, I realised I had walked past her and that really I'd dodged a bullet...
I already realized at a very young age (I must have been 15 or 16) that girls don't seem to possess something like a set personality. They're able to morph their personality into everything that resonates with the personality of the guy they desire.
Ding ding ding, My gf had a different hobbies and kinda different personality. She definitely inherited my hobbies (which are good but basic for the most part) but personality not really for the most part. I guess my gf is better then those type of girls
None of us are born special. We become special and valued only to ourselves. You are your greatest cheer squad, your biggest supporter, your deepest love, your longest friend.
He is spot on with this video, ...80% of people are average in looks, and intelligence. 10% are blessed with high IQ's or looks, the last 10% are sadly physically or mentally challenged.
Wow! Just imagine telling everyone out there that they're amazing drivers when they're not, making them think they can drive with their eyes closed. I wouldn't feel comfortable getting on a highway knowing that.
You touched on a really genius point about the EMO kids. They wanted so badly to be special and get special attention that they walked around sad and depressed all day for sympathy attention. When THAT DIDN'T WORK they took it a GIGANTIC STEP FURTHER and became "WOKE" with all this Trans stuff. I saw an interview where a lady said let's ask her opinion on this subject (can't remember exactly the wording) and the person being interviewed the first words to come out of her mouth were "um my pronouns are they them" and the interviewer then argued that she was not going to use "incorrect grammar" and she wouldn't be bullied into making inaccurate statements by anyone else's feelings. She then asked "how can you expect me to sound like a fool by addressing you with pronouns that apply to a group when you are just one person? I won't do it". The wokie being interviewed then responded that "I am not a she I am a very SPECIAL PERSON and I just want to make that clear to people who might want to address me "respectfully". You hit the nail on the head bro it's just a need to be important and special and stand out and be different. Why are people so damn ADDICTED TO ATTENTION????? I don't get it!!! I HATE ATTENTION. I am a private person and if by some miracle i became famous I would likely leave the country and live in the mountains somewhere. IT TRULY BAFFLES MY MIND HOW PEOPLE HAVE THIS NEED FOR ATTENTION....WHY THE HELL IS THAT?
4:27 - the lack of this structure is what led to higher mortality among human beings. Her ditzy deconstructionism is a consequence of living in the safety of modernity. She probably never has to worry about from where her next meal comes.
My sisters been in abusive realtionship for 20 years with Chad , she has 4 kids by him, he beats her, he made her homless when she was pregnant with his 2nd daughter , he calls her ugly. Yet she sticks with him and says she loves him. My parents couple years ago tried to her my sister out they even said they would help her with her rent for couple months just to get away from 'Chad' Nope still went back to him. Long story now, she is single living in his house while he brings younger women back home each night, he keeps her around to 'look after the kids' and 'clean his house'. My sister couple years ago had been asked out by a nice ( decent man) who had a simular expeince as my sister... No not intrested. We and i have given up on women.
This is called the "Marylin Monroe Syndrome". Marylin Monroe, as a Sex Symbol, was the most wanted Women in the World. But at the same time her Self Esteem was so low that she had to take Barbiturics to cope with that. She was never a Happy Women. And she died of an Overdose of Barbiturics. I wonder what is going to happen with these women in the future, when their Market Value starts to low? When they reach 40 yo, they will have nothing to do. The higher they climb the highest the Fall will be.
Marylin was a different situation, she was a victim of the monarch program where they created hypnotized/drugged sex robots for the political elite. She was a slave.
@@paulvandersluys7412 , if don't want to understand my statement is up to you. If she really was a clever person, she would have overcome her problems. Too much pressure. This not about IQ Levels. Several people with high IQ commit suicide every year.
Okay I have to write this because it hits me hard. I'm over 40s and never ever understood how human relations actually work. I can explain them, I can pretend that I know what I'm talking about but I've never understood it. But this week I finally got it. Before, my sense of self was what I think about myself, in my own head, through my own sensations. Then this "thing" exerts actions in the world, expanding their identity through social relations and the impact I have in the world. That's DEFINITELY not how the average person thinks, that's why I've felt different my entire life. What I've discovered is that for the world there's no "me" outside social relations. Everything about myself inside my own head is just an illusion I created to keep me in one single piece. It's a different entity from what I am to the world. I don't exist out there. The lack of self awareness of that woman is the opposite of me and it's completely valid. She actually exists in the world more than myself. She has her place and she knows it. I wish I knew this before.
I've been saying for half my life, 16 years "NO I am not special, neither are you or anyone else!" There are thousands if not hundreds of thousands of people who are like me in every way other than my DNA which might or might not be unique, 8 billion is a high number. No one is special were all just basic and fit in groups of people whom are like us.
Same here, and people always thought I was putting myself AND them down instead of simply pointing out an obvious mathematical fact. I ain't a war hero or the guy who discovered penicillin and I'm fine with that lmao.
"Everyone is just like the rest. That is why they are the rest." It is a quote from The Invisible Man in the TV show Heroes. He was talking about a woman, that the protagonist was convinced was his special, loyal girlfriend. He was proven wrong.
@@Guildofarcanelore Yes Just because the "Mask" 😷 isn't physically there anymore doesn't mean that behaviour went away Majority of society still have exact same Herd Mentality, Hive-mind drilled into them
Sadly she's beautiful under the make up, that's why shes this way,this isn't lipstick on a pig, she seemed less lost than a lot of women, but she's Australian so she's 50% man straight away.
I wasted so much time with these women when I was younger. I could have invested all that time into making myself a better man and more wealthy man.. How stupid I was... no more.
George also said "Never cosign a loan for a man who's bleeding from both ears". And that man is, of course, somebody's child. As are the women we see in this video; except that their BRAINS appear to have leaked out of their ears...
The irony of all this is that people thinking they're special when they're not, but if you have ever met truly special people, they always have this attitude that they're not special. I find that so mind-blowing.
5:19 she actually does have a point that most people don't have the mental machinery to understand: the world is. Things like "value" , language, mathematics, reason, logic, all of it is figments of human consciousness. If every human being were wiped out today, the universe would continue as it is, but the things mentioned would cease to "exist" (they already don't exist). If a thing depends on a mind existing in order for it to exist, that thing does not exist. Consider that the only reason Egyptian hieroglyphics can be deciphered is ONE stone tablet which had the same text in multiple languages. Had that stone not existed or been destroyed or buried, it would have been impossible to understand Ancient Egyptian thoughts, yet those very same symbols had the same level of meaning to Ancient Egyptians as this text does to you.
The absolute worst is the young college girl that thinks she's passed into enlightenment and figured out everything and so much more aware than anyone else but in reality she's just regurgitating French post modernist social construction theory but is completely oblivious and believes she arrived to those ideas herself, they are not even her ideas
this video was refreshing to me. I know I am basic and boring most of the time, this society makes us feel terrible for being normal average. Always trying to stand out. " If you're not unique you'll be a loser" while also forcing you to be one way so you have people who are the same but think they are unique and they are suffering themselves. I want options and freedom to do something different. Society also pressures you to be the same which just makes me feel like it's not worth trying. But that's nature, nature is cruel so you have to go by the rules unless the consequences of not going by the rules is nothing to you.
I am a man, a husband, a father, and a grandfather. I am 74, and I've been married to the same woman for over 50 years. The women I have seen on this channel, and others might as well be a different species. The only thing they have in common with the women of my wife's generation is that they are both female. I am sad that young men have to deal with, I don't know how to say it, this. I don't have any advise because I have no idea what you have to contend with. The only thing I have for you is to press on, regardless. Thank you, Mr. Grace, for all the work you do.
It will take at least another 10 - 15 years for the proper ones to be released to the market. Until such time, men will have to deal with these female BS.
The behavior seems a bit narcissistic. Thinking people love looking at you. Is your worth so linked to your appearance? When you hit 45 you won't be worth sh1t using that logic.
I heard a quote once I’ve never forgotten that your point around 4:00 and especially the woman at 4:15 exemplifies: “There is nothing worse than a late-budding philosopher”
My recent Ex. She sounded very entitled. There were a handful of times she said " oh happy wife is happy life ". And i continously explained to her that she's taking that phrase to the extreme . That phrase is not saying don't care about the guy at all. But she told me " it doesn't really matter what the guy wants , the girl needs to be waited and pampered to get all she needs "
Bahaha that's nuts. For most of human history the vast majority of people were farmers and women worked. Men did the more physically strenuous tasks like plowing the fields but women were doing productive things like weaving, preserving food, etc. in addition to child care. And before that we were hunter gatherers. Women were the ones gathering plants. They weren't just being waited on and "pampered" by the men. That's not only ridiculous but historically ignorant.
Happy wife happy life is supposed to be a thing husbands say jokingly, as if to say "my wife's so uptight that keeping her happy is paramount to my own drama-free existence". The thought that any woman would say it unironically as if it were a social expectation is truly baffling to me, totally braindead.
@AgencyIsGoodForUsAll yeah its supposed to be in a fun way . Which I tried to explain to her. She thought she knew more than me . Which is 1 one the reasons we broke up. She actually said once " I don't know why I'm cooking for you . I don't do that with anyone else ". And I was confused. I told her that's what you should do. You treat someone you love more sweetly than you do others. Not sure how she had gotten that far in life without learning that
At 59, I count myself lucky that I am no longer the raging 'T' monster I was when I was a young fella. As a result of this and because of my life experiences, I am looking for a woman with depth, but most women havent graduated from the kiddie pool.
Disney had a villain that said then everyone can be super and when everyone's super . .... NO ONE WILL BE. "I'm Syndrome your Nemesis at hand! . . . Dangit."
Yep. She wants only Chads to look at her. Dont mistake it that she thinks every man should look at her. Keep that in minds if you are not Chad. You dont want the police called for creeping out baddies.😅
Growing up means learning to adjust your expectations. Especially while in relationship you need to learn how to compromise and that leads you to overthink your expectations. It's very helpful as it copes with frustration. Sometimes you can even diffuse the most heated arguments with your partner by stopping for a moment and starting to consciously negotiating. And if you cannot compromise in one aspect, make concessions elsewhere. Basically both sides feel positive progression though it's more like a zero sum thing objectively. I think it's also why the saying goes like, in a healthy relationship 1+1 can equal to more than 2^^
Umm... dude. That first girl u got wrong. She was saying she was super h0rny so she was going out and hoping some dude would come up n thered be so much chemistry theyd be absolutely inseparable for the next few weeks. She was passively saying she was h0rny. She wanted to be seen in that way. Not just looked at in general. Like spotted by a dude on the prowel for passion. When a woman days "i dunno maybe its because im ovulating" that means "omg im so fvcking h0rny i cant see straight and im doing stupid stuff because i absolutely need a good romp or im gonna lose my mind" Duh. Men are good at this. Learn what they're saying. Evolve. Take the hint. Watch the body language. Most women do this. If a chick goes out looking super nice to a store and are walking like they're feeling themselves a bit too much... step up and ask for her number. Flirt a little. Tell her she looks amazing and so confodent... use alot of playful eye contact and smiles. Bam. Usually in the bag. You might be wrong a handful of times at the start but geez... you'll learn pretty quick which ones are deep in desire and which ones aren't and what to look for. You got this. But yeah... that's what she meant and where to find chicks.
Thats why I like so much of the music "My Way - Limp Bizkit". "Do you think you are special? You do, I ca see your eyes... It's my way, my way or the highway..."
Try living without acknowledgement of the days of the week, or pretend $$ doesn't exist and see how well that goes. Ofc we have created structure, or else we'd be simply animals
If you think she has a point you're too UNAWARE 😂 Yes those things are made up, but for good reason. That good reason is for the sake of organization, which is a must for us to progress and have convenience and easier lives and nice things which are not made up, but real and palpable. Money does mean something because we give them meaning, rules mean something because we give them meaning. Sorry to break it to you but if you don't understand abstract concepts, you're not "too aware" you're simply not aware enough.
As a guy, even I had to unlearn this notion that I was “special.” I expected to be homecoming king and didn’t get it. The big wake up call came when I was at a bar and this lady at one end of the bar gave her number to the bartender to give to a guy at the other end of the bar and I was baffled that it wasn’t me she wanted to give her number to.
@rjmamula bro you wanna be humbled and grateful? then start watching bp. You know nothing about what the normie and sub5 have to deal with. Absolutely nothing. All men think they're better looking than they really are. I'm sure your mommy and grandmother always used to say to you "ohh you're such a handsome young man, you're going to have all the girls chasing you" which boosted your ego. I had the same thing happen to me, but life taught me that they're just full of it and it's all a big gaslight. Never looked at women the same after watching blkpill. You can't un-take the pill. You just can't.
I kind of wish the insights you share on your channel were available to me when I was a young man, then again, maybe women were a bit different in my day, who knows.
basically we may have over did it when we were trying to be nice to women. And the onkly way women can be different is by being the victim of some random crime. that never occurred. This is why they rush to being pissed off.
I think it's a simple as their emotions overwhelm and cloud their mind to the point of stupidity. 0 logic, all reaction to what's going on around them.
Mr Grace makes a great point about the halo effect....making a man feel a woman is much more interesting that she really is. I was one who really fell for that. But the bigger point is that both men and women do that...but as a guy, we're blinded by her attractiveness, making us feel that she's more in depth than the reality. This is a great revelation for a young man to realize. That we are attracted to them, but need to understand clearly what we're dealing with...no rose colored glasses.
This is what we all should be saying to ourselves (both men and women): "For I am lonely and afflicted. The distresses of my heart have enlarged. Oh, bring me out of my distresses! Look on my affliction and my toil, and forgive all my sins" Psalms (Tehillim) 25: 16-18
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watched first 1 min you are good for eachother pickerup (psych consult) ask me if doubtful.
stop teaching idiots how to breed...
There's nothing wrong with women wanting to be loved, men couldn't own them like they do if they didn't want this love so much.
There are critisizms, but this isn't one of them.
CCP want us deluded, .....
unable to train soldier's to march in time, operate weaponry and fail to attract the best candidates to a military career because standard's are so low and D E I has tied up half the defense budget in nonsense.
The only thing a woman cares a out is IMAGE.
she will use image to contr and manipulate everyone
All these women like to feel attractive, powerful and independent and feeling elevated, yet the currency of their 'power' is male desire. This simple truth eludes them.
And so many of these women are likely to say things like: "I don't wear make up for men, I don't dress for men, I do these things for myself".
@@Calembunial yes. I've heard that from eveyt girl I've ever been out with.
@@CalembunialIt’s true… they do those things for themselves… in order to attract men!! 🫣😉
Women think male libido is their enemy but it's their alley.
The whole "seks strike" shtick after Trumps election just proved it once again. Sexuality is their only agency
I have a sister so i know how simple and gross women realy are.
I have three. It really gives you a headstart on understanding women when you grow up alongside three of them and watch the evolution of female development.
They're quite sweet and pleasant... before they get that first dump of estrogen, it's downhill from there lol.
Once they discover that the world will dote on them for their beauty, then you REALLY see the ugly side of female nature take hold.
And whats even more interesting, if you are part of my generation that bridged the advent of the internet,
I saw my older sister grow up WITHOUT internet access (she started messing around with MySpace at like 16-17 I think?),
but my little sisters grew up with internet before they even hit puberty.
And let me tell you... the difference is horrifyingly dramatic. It absolutely damaged my youngest, she even ended up getting lured out of the house by a predator at 15, which is a whole other reason why internet is terrible for youth,
But that aside, just having that portal into a world where women are worshipped for being women,
It corrupts them VERY quickly.
I have a little sister, she had the hugest celeb crush on Keaneau Reeves for years.
Know what broke it? She met him at the airport, while he was touring with his band. He was super nice to her, and took time to take pics with her at her request, even though he looked exhasted. BUT he was a real man, unkempt and smelly.
Having a sister is so blackpilling
My sister is tomboish so I have no clue.
I have a grown ass sister of 43 and a niece of 12, they are the same: children.
High maintenance, high drama, superficial, nothing more than a headache .
tc she is more than perfect bwahhahahahaha 😈😈🫦
Exactly.
migraine.
thats why you get her an Uber after😁
Nothing, but a 100% timewaste, and count-less red flags, these entitled, attitude chica-holics nowadays...freak show par excellence.
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When I was a boy, I always found it funny how the boys exalted my sisters, considered them to be sublime, Goddesses, angels, etc. I knew that they were simple as a log.
I hear being a woman is easier, how’s it going for you? 😢
@@superiorSam9718 for the non woke being a boy means being under 18
@@DavidNotSolomon aha i'm too into the wars. I thought man had switched teams
Oh hello there
I realize in hindsight how much of an advantage my friends with sisters (specially older ones) had compared to the rest of us. They did much better with the ladies while treating them like sh1t. Back then I never connected those 3 things... pretty much the opposite, I thought "how's it possible that the girls like him while he's being such an a-h0le to them".
Many of these women would rather be a single mom from the "hot guy" than lower their standards a little bit for a normal guy that will stick around. This is the problem.
Maybe this is a reaction by nature. By this, a new species is bread. All but the top 10% are removed from the gene pool and all but the top 25% of the women, too.
Because they can not raise their standards above being a victim.
its only a problem if you are NOT that 'hot guy' they want.
I don't see it as a problem, don't concern yourself with people who aren't willing to improve
it’s not a problem, this is your ego talking. We’re all animals and the method you’re describing is what gives offsprings the greatest chance to survive and thrive. A man with good genes who is resourceful will always be better than an average man. Women are the gatekeepers of the next generation. They decide who’s genes should be passed one and who’s shouldn’t. This is their duty. They innately know that a powerful man is worth sharing. Men don’t have this ability because they don’t know for a fact that an offspring is theirs. Raising another man’s offspring is a hindrance to the passing of his genes.
Don’t be upset with biology/nature, use it to your advantage. Understand that your value as a man is measured by how resourceful and dominant you are. If you are a resourceful and dominant man, you would make a better father as you will give your children the greatest chance of survival. Women innately pick up on this. Women MUST attract a man which is why their sole focus is looking desirable. The more desirable they are, the higher caliber of man she can attract. This is why they’re more social as well, higher probability of attracting a man in a pack of women than alone (think about this one). Whereas men’s focus is internal growth to become a resourceful and dominant man, a woman’s is external. This is by design to give the human species the greatest chance of survival. Why do you think women are of average intelligence, average really at most things. They don’t need to be exceptional, only men do.
By the age of 18, a young woman has probably seen several million ads telling her that she is special and amazing. The repetition alone would be enough to make her believe it but it's also the one message young women crave the most. It's like a key to a lock.
Yeah it starts at like age 12 on average
@@kelseybelle2732 ...and don't forget...they all wanted to be cheerleaders...walking around doing their little fake routines while within their girl-clique....hilarious!
@@kelseybelle2732 my sister got 17 and all the poster boy magazines when we were growing up, interesting material to say the least
OP is based.
Let alone the lenient parents, teachers, simps etc
In my experience, the noisier they are the more basic they are. The quieter ones are more interesting. Its like inversely proportional. I think women often use talking to compensate for a lack of being interesting. Lol
“An empty vessel produces the most noise” is literally a proverb.
You are correct. Same goes for men with some exceptions
Yeah. True . If you are a confident person you don't need to talk all the time to prove to people you are . The Quiet ones are often quietly confident.
I have hung out with females before just in a platonic way. And here and there a couple of them have got mad at me bc " I was too quiet ". But they were being very dramatic and loud . I told them I'm secure in myself I don't feel the need to partake in drama just for the sake of it. So that made them classify me as "boring". Yikes
this is a human phenomenon
Yeah, narcissism. The False Self.
Literally 99% of humans
Yep, the only self for the vast majority
Deep. Love it.
If EVERY Women is special - there is no special women.
Too much abstract extrapolation and too little solipsistic point of origin for any woman to compute.
That's why they all get pumped and dumped.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 yikes you are my brother where are you ? ⧊
*Syndrome was right.*
There still are decent women, but much more rare now and they are not in the picture much.
Its all the crazies the focus is on.
Some girls that I've known used to avoid the conversation once the small talk stops and I start taking about something more deep
ALL girls ive known.......
That's like 90% of the modern women. Most of them have street mentality and love trashy stuff.
bwahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahaaaaa 😈😈🫦
brooo every damn girl i known
Judging from all these videos right now, managing dating life as a man is really hard nowadays. My piece of advice is to just be yourself, and stay on your path. Chasing women didn't bring any good to anyone, it can just put you in misery. But when they start chasing you, you need to have some tricks u your sleeve:
1. I suggest reading 'First Date Playbook: A Step By Step Guide To A Great Start'
It really is that simple...Stop wasting time and money chasing women.
Focus on growing as a man.
Your life will improve, I guarantee it.
Tbh reading a book called "First Date Playbook" already sounds like you're chasing women. I mean you care so much about getting women that you're literally studying like it's a phD. Something that should be organic and instinctive social interaction, you're studying as if you don't understand your own species like you're some alien from another planet. Don't you think it's women's job to stop being so obnoxiously unreasonable and hard to understand and to interact with that reading a whole book shouldn't be required. Women put 0 effort into first dates while men read books. Ridiculous.
@@mrkiky If you want to know how to deal with women, it does help to understand them. But you can also accept that they are needlessly and intentionally complicated and programmed, and just ignore their bullshit.
So youre right, but if you want a relationship with a woman, you will have to communicate and interact with her.
Most of those women on the Whatever podcast are so delusional, shooting for a fraction of a percent of men, ignoring all the other men, and they themselves are average at best.
… or worse, much worse.
Big mistake to call them women when they are childish, entitled, and delusional 304 females. Women are completely different than females and most females can’t define a woman.
Most of em ain't even average smh.
@@highlanderknight they are not women, they are females and 304s…
I am convinced that these modern women understand they gatekeep P, but don't understand men gatekeep the relationship, so they don't understand that male attention doesn't equate the ability to marry the men they want to trap - those top few % who tick most of their boxes or fractional % who check them all.
If everyone is special then no one is special anymore.
I aspire to someday reaching the dizzying height of being almost average. I won't get there obviously.
Its over. Chad wins
3:57 I just discovered the sky is blue and grass is green. Where is my Nobel Prize?
where's the prize? your next wife is holding it.
bwhahahahahahahhahaha 😈😈 much much much to learn
She deserves this week's simpleton award 🥇
This is not new. Look at their dating profiles : Interests are coffee, travel, wine
Make me laugh is their mantra.. if Jerry Seinfeld had to be funny for all his waking hours, he'd go insane.
Not mine 😂 I put go karting, video games, food & music
Dont forget: I want a gentleman and princess treatment, but my kids (from three different chads) will always come first.
@@Mariesrares of course food!.. I bet you are a good cook too..
And most havent traveled.
I'm one of your female listeners. Thank you for your comment on the quiet females. I'm an introvert past reproductive age. The young females are out of control and want so much attention. I'm glad the internet wasn't around when I was growing up. I can't imagine how I would have been as a young female with the internet. Hopefully, we'll get through a bad generation who realizes their mistakes sooner than later. I'm not saying the entire generation is bad. Raised on the internet isn't good.
The only social media I had was Facebook over 10 years ago. After months of seeing people I knew being fake happy on there, I cancelled it. Even this woman in the video who is expressing happiness, is showing us the sad state of her life. I used to be one of those people who drove a nice car to impress people I don't know, so yes, I understand her
We're already way passed "later". There's no going back now sadly, it's only downhill from here.
My social network was CB Radio.
I work at a college in Los Angeles as a technician… I drive my work cart around the school and I see nothing but people of various ages with their face’s all buried in their device even while walking around. I sometimes have to wait for them to finally realize that I am driving past them so they don’t walk into me. It’s kind of sad really. I think people genuinely can’t bear not to be connected to that device and whatever social media they’re using. I think it would mean them having to admit that they’re an empty shell of a person. I know it’s not everyone but I suspect it’s most. No real social skills to speak of.
Shu t up, female!
“Too aware”? Dunning-Kruger would like a word 😂
They are all annoying… Every one of them. They never shut up…
Factual studies shows men typically talk more or the same amount compared to women. I think we all have a capacity to be pretty annoying.
@ I guess you think I give a 💩 about your ridiculous studies. Or what you have to say. By the way Genius, I didn’t ask for your opinion…
@@jai2776 There are studies that also show that women speak more than men but only by about 15-20%. So it seems there are studies that show men talk less, men talk more, and men talk the same as women.
Social science studies are known for being very much crap. Even biological sciences are facetious in that 30%+ of the claims in the ABSTRACT are not factual according to the BODY OF THE STUDY.
There is a lot of corruption and bribery and a lot of academics just referencing their peers and reviewing each other to get by.
Look it up, read on how corrupt it is.
Also, regarding speech.
...it's not the duration of talking that is annoying. It's the CONTENT of the speech and how it DELIVERED and whether the other party is in the mood for conversation.
@@jai2776 you're "factually"wrong, women speak waaay more than men, on average
Men, not GenZ limp-wristed Prius-driving Cosmo-sipping soyboys
Take the blkpill
this explains a lot actually.
I used to play a game whenever I caught myself checking a girl out. Its called "beautiful or just half naked"
...they're usually just half naked. I'm not actually attracted to them, they're not actually beautiful, I'm picking up a sexual queue from them just...being more naked than other women.
Same thing with conversation: "smart or cleavage"
THIS!
That's a good mental game to be aware of
Bring out a board game that involves this and drinking 😂
Solid
Luckily, most girls don't play "love or money?" It's, like, a really really smart cleavage. Per quantum uncertainty principle, depending on the observation it can be one or the other and you're unable to tell which per fundamental laws of physics.
On the prowl for baby-trapping.
100%
While having BLACK hair bleached blonde to try to deceive everyone.
bwahahhahahahah 😈😈
“I’m ovulating…“
What's worst is when a very boring and basic woman can't stand the same in a man. Of course she will demand that her man be the most interesting person she ever met ...
You have to be their clown 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@zaq1337🎉Congrats, You're the whole circus.🎉
It's like somehow below average women think they can inherit the amazing qualities of above average guy just by being with him
This discussion reminds me of the line form the Incredibles, "When everyone is special, no body is."
When everybody gets a medal for participation, It means getting a medal has no meaning at all.
"I'm all made up, what am I supposed to do?"
Mmm, get a job, maybe? Repeat after me, "Can I take your order?"
or "would you like to 'super-size that for an extra 50 cents'?
bro literally said "put the fries in the bag" lmao
Okay, that one made me laugh far more than it should 😂
Entitlement and social media filters are the ultimate dating app experience.
You're bang on here Alexander and thank you for saying it I definitely needed it because it feels like a weight off my shoulders.
The problem is guys justify enabling, encouraging and even rewarding women's behavior because desire outweighs common sense. When bots truly are affordable women will find out their true worth when they find out they're so toxic guys will start preferring a piece of plastic that'll be close enough. That's not even considering advancements.
I'll get my own tifa from ff7 just to start. Then think about having a romantic dinner with her. She'll be more real than most actual women many of us will ever meet.
Yeah....
Ahh yes I can’t wait for the woman or AI debate, and It will be easier to justify than the man vs bear debate
The AI will end up knowing more about yourself than you do. They will be able to read your emotions and act accordingly unlike any modern woman can ever do. Its over for humanity
If I was debating for it I'd tell the woman in the debate. I'd rather tell my feelings to a tree than most women@@davidbai3543
If bots can have kids via artificial wombs we'll be fine @@Brandanmayhew
You have really taught me something here. The women in my family have always been very attractive. my grandmother always told them "pretty is as pretty does". I have a clinical masters in social work and I've always thought that that message was somehow degrading to them. But it's true. My grandmother was wise beyond her years.
Anyone who wants to dispute that men and women are not equal and are different, just listen to this woman's approach to getting a boyfriend - walking around the shopping centre hoping some man will approach her.
i would never approach her, i can't stand that aesthetic. They say not to judge a book by its cover but i can't help it. My gf is smart an culturally independent but shes slipping into this style more each year an i dunno how to tell her i'm not into it.
just use your word bro, its simple open your mouth and talk, you can use communication as the tool for success in any relationship, if this fail she wasn't for you and you dodge a bullet, its that simple. Delaying will only make it worse tbh
@@CBonduMiel i'm hoping shes grows out of it. she knows i don't like it but she dresses for her,, i don't understand why you would throw away a 10yr relationship with someone for a dress code
@@x-LINX-x I've walked past her in my hometown and looked one second too long, as our paths crossed she said "Dont just stare say something!" By the time I thought too high maintenance even tho hot what an fukin brat, I realised I had walked past her and that really I'd dodged a bullet...
@@x-LINX-x Leave... she'll get the message
I already realized at a very young age (I must have been 15 or 16) that girls don't seem to possess something like a set personality.
They're able to morph their personality into everything that resonates with the personality of the guy they desire.
Indeed
Until their true selves come out in marriage and divorce court
Ding ding ding, My gf had a different hobbies and kinda different personality. She definitely inherited my hobbies (which are good but basic for the most part) but personality not really for the most part. I guess my gf is better then those type of girls
None of us are born special. We become special and valued only to ourselves.
You are your greatest cheer squad, your biggest supporter, your deepest love, your longest friend.
A small bit of research will show you the rise of the “self esteem” movement started conspicuously after the feminist movements of the 70’s.
Too many rabbit holes
That statement, everyone’s unique and special only applies to your family
He is spot on with this video, ...80% of people are average in looks, and intelligence. 10% are blessed with high IQ's or looks, the last 10% are sadly physically or mentally challenged.
Wow! Just imagine telling everyone out there that they're amazing drivers when they're not, making them think they can drive with their eyes closed. I wouldn't feel comfortable getting on a highway knowing that.
You touched on a really genius point about the EMO kids. They wanted so badly to be special and get special attention that they walked around sad and depressed all day for sympathy attention. When THAT DIDN'T WORK they took it a GIGANTIC STEP FURTHER and became "WOKE" with all this Trans stuff. I saw an interview where a lady said let's ask her opinion on this subject (can't remember exactly the wording) and the person being interviewed the first words to come out of her mouth were "um my pronouns are they them" and the interviewer then argued that she was not going to use "incorrect grammar" and she wouldn't be bullied into making inaccurate statements by anyone else's feelings. She then asked "how can you expect me to sound like a fool by addressing you with pronouns that apply to a group when you are just one person? I won't do it". The wokie being interviewed then responded that "I am not a she I am a very SPECIAL PERSON and I just want to make that clear to people who might want to address me "respectfully".
You hit the nail on the head bro it's just a need to be important and special and stand out and be different. Why are people so damn ADDICTED TO ATTENTION????? I don't get it!!! I HATE ATTENTION. I am a private person and if by some miracle i became famous I would likely leave the country and live in the mountains somewhere. IT TRULY BAFFLES MY MIND HOW PEOPLE HAVE THIS NEED FOR ATTENTION....WHY THE HELL IS THAT?
There was a guy from mythology that fell in love with his own reflection…
4:27 - the lack of this structure is what led to higher mortality among human beings. Her ditzy deconstructionism is a consequence of living in the safety of modernity. She probably never has to worry about from where her next meal comes.
That's it, in a nut shell.
They get free meals everyday. They call them "foodie" calls
There's women like this at my gym - I hate it and wish they'd find somewhere else to train.
I'm there to work on myself not feed their ego.
“Look at meee, pay attention to meeee” - females 🤳🏻🤸♂🤸♂🤸♂🤸♀🤸♀🤸♀🤸🤸🤸
She her
My sisters been in abusive realtionship for 20 years with Chad , she has 4 kids by him, he beats her, he made her homless when she was pregnant with his 2nd daughter , he calls her ugly. Yet she sticks with him and says she loves him. My parents couple years ago tried to her my sister out they even said they would help her with her rent for couple months just to get away from 'Chad' Nope still went back to him. Long story now, she is single living in his house while he brings younger women back home each night, he keeps her around to 'look after the kids' and 'clean his house'. My sister couple years ago had been asked out by a nice ( decent man) who had a simular expeince as my sister... No not intrested. We and i have given up on women.
video starts at 00:00
thank you
@@Hodor95 what a mvp eh
😅you’ve saved me from a lot of trouble
That’s funny! 😂
Thanks I needed that
This is called the "Marylin Monroe Syndrome". Marylin Monroe, as a Sex Symbol, was the most wanted Women in the World. But at the same time her Self Esteem was so low that she had to take Barbiturics to cope with that. She was never a Happy Women. And she died of an Overdose of Barbiturics.
I wonder what is going to happen with these women in the future, when their Market Value starts to low? When they reach 40 yo, they will have nothing to do. The higher they climb the highest the Fall will be.
Marylin was a different situation, she was a victim of the monarch program where they created hypnotized/drugged sex robots for the political elite. She was a slave.
But Marilyn at least was a reader and actually an interesting person. She just couldn’t escape the persona.
Marylin Monroe actually had a very very high IQ- fact.
@@paulvandersluys7412 , if don't want to understand my statement is up to you. If she really was a clever person, she would have overcome her problems. Too much pressure.
This not about IQ Levels. Several people with high IQ commit suicide every year.
They say to be yourself, but social media keeps telling us to be like 87 different versions of “unique.”
"Annoyingly complicated on the surface!" PERFECTLY SAID! 🤣
Okay I have to write this because it hits me hard. I'm over 40s and never ever understood how human relations actually work. I can explain them, I can pretend that I know what I'm talking about but I've never understood it.
But this week I finally got it. Before, my sense of self was what I think about myself, in my own head, through my own sensations. Then this "thing" exerts actions in the world, expanding their identity through social relations and the impact I have in the world. That's DEFINITELY not how the average person thinks, that's why I've felt different my entire life.
What I've discovered is that for the world there's no "me" outside social relations. Everything about myself inside my own head is just an illusion I created to keep me in one single piece. It's a different entity from what I am to the world. I don't exist out there.
The lack of self awareness of that woman is the opposite of me and it's completely valid. She actually exists in the world more than myself. She has her place and she knows it. I wish I knew this before.
I've been saying for half my life, 16 years "NO I am not special, neither are you or anyone else!"
There are thousands if not hundreds of thousands of people who are like me in every way other than my DNA which might or might not be unique, 8 billion is a high number.
No one is special were all just basic and fit in groups of people whom are like us.
Same here, and people always thought I was putting myself AND them down instead of simply pointing out an obvious mathematical fact. I ain't a war hero or the guy who discovered penicillin and I'm fine with that lmao.
"Everyone is just like the rest. That is why they are the rest."
It is a quote from The Invisible Man in the TV show Heroes. He was talking about a woman, that the protagonist was convinced was his special, loyal girlfriend. He was proven wrong.
"Yeah, we're having a great time"
Said by the most tired, bored, migraine patient
These women are still act like children,treat them as such ..
She got her hair done but not her roots?
For real. I noticed that too.
It was when i understood a woman with low self esteem usually means, "i feel incapable of getting the man i feel i deserve"
Women are more prone to fear based movements, and mass hysteria. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
I saw a lot of "Men" wearing Face Diapers 😷 in 2020
@@Attiuesdo you still see them?
@@Guildofarcanelore Yes
Just because the "Mask" 😷 isn't physically there anymore doesn't mean that behaviour went away
Majority of society still have exact same Herd Mentality, Hive-mind drilled into them
@@Attiuesthere are many women playing dead in 2020. Go visit their memorial.
@@KobaltKai5215 Baa 💉💉💉💉
The first girl comes from my hometown Adelaide and it appears that she’s at Westfield Marion in the car park filming her vlog
I wonder what the first woman actually looks like😅
she looked very fluffy mrrr 🫦💓💓
100% fake
Without all the spackling on her face? Probably just a 6/10
Sadly she's beautiful under the make up, that's why shes this way,this isn't lipstick on a pig, she seemed less lost than a lot of women, but she's Australian so she's 50% man straight away.
@Ricardofromage " 50% man straight away"-thats rich. American women are men...or just as good...no, they are-ah f it, they don't even know.
I wasted so much time with these women when I was younger. I could have invested all that time into making myself a better man and more wealthy man.. How stupid I was... no more.
If this was not a joke then I'm glad that tiktok has become a platform where people expose themselves. Saves us the hastle 😂
George Carlin and Bill Hicks both told us that our children aren't special.
George also said "Never cosign a loan for a man who's bleeding from both ears". And that man is, of course, somebody's child. As are the women we see in this video; except that their BRAINS appear to have leaked out of their ears...
They weren’t special either. Just funny people.
My ex wife was so special that I set her free. I am much happier now😊😊
The irony of all this is that people thinking they're special when they're not, but if you have ever met truly special people, they always have this attitude that they're not special. I find that so mind-blowing.
5:19 she actually does have a point that most people don't have the mental machinery to understand: the world is.
Things like "value" , language, mathematics, reason, logic, all of it is figments of human consciousness. If every human being were wiped out today, the universe would continue as it is, but the things mentioned would cease to "exist" (they already don't exist). If a thing depends on a mind existing in order for it to exist, that thing does not exist.
Consider that the only reason Egyptian hieroglyphics can be deciphered is ONE stone tablet which had the same text in multiple languages. Had that stone not existed or been destroyed or buried, it would have been impossible to understand Ancient Egyptian thoughts, yet those very same symbols had the same level of meaning to Ancient Egyptians as this text does to you.
The absolute worst is the young college girl that thinks she's passed into enlightenment and figured out everything and so much more aware than anyone else but in reality she's just regurgitating French post modernist social construction theory but is completely oblivious and believes she arrived to those ideas herself, they are not even her ideas
Another gem Alexander.
this video was refreshing to me. I know I am basic and boring most of the time, this society makes us feel terrible for being normal average. Always trying to stand out. " If you're not unique you'll be a loser" while also forcing you to be one way so you have people who are the same but think they are unique and they are suffering themselves. I want options and freedom to do something different. Society also pressures you to be the same which just makes me feel like it's not worth trying.
But that's nature, nature is cruel so you have to go by the rules unless the consequences of not going by the rules is nothing to you.
It's like they have to be insufferable if more than a 5
I am a man, a husband, a father, and a grandfather. I am 74, and I've been married to the same woman for over 50 years. The women I have seen on this channel, and others might as well be a different species. The only thing they have in common with the women of my wife's generation is that they are both female. I am sad that young men have to deal with, I don't know how to say it, this. I don't have any advise because I have no idea what you have to contend with. The only thing I have for you is to press on, regardless. Thank you, Mr. Grace, for all the work you do.
You are telling me normal woman existed!?! 😢😢 they weren't a dream....😱
@@accurategamer7085 Yes, and it was delightful.
So, true Alex. Everyone believes they are "above average" yet fail to see how that is a statistical impossibility. (The egocentric nature of man)
How is being above average a statistical impossibility?
"Who do others see me as?" Is a very important introspective question
So in a nutshell... Dunning-Kruger effect.
Can't wait for sex robots to replace them,then lets see how special they are
Nah I prefer the real thing
It will also replace proper women, which will doom humanity
@@cslearn3044 Sounds good to ME!
Same here, and all i ever wanted from them was something as simple as genuine affection. Even thats asking too much.
It will take at least another 10 - 15 years for the proper ones to be released to the market. Until such time, men will have to deal with these female BS.
The behavior seems a bit narcissistic. Thinking people love looking at you. Is your worth so linked to your appearance? When you hit 45 you won't be worth sh1t using that logic.
I heard a quote once I’ve never forgotten that your point around 4:00 and especially the woman at 4:15 exemplifies:
“There is nothing worse than a late-budding philosopher”
My recent Ex. She sounded very entitled. There were a handful of times she said " oh happy wife is happy life ". And i continously explained to her that she's taking that phrase to the extreme . That phrase is not saying don't care about the guy at all. But she told me " it doesn't really matter what the guy wants , the girl needs to be waited and pampered to get all she needs "
Bahaha that's nuts. For most of human history the vast majority of people were farmers and women worked. Men did the more physically strenuous tasks like plowing the fields but women were doing productive things like weaving, preserving food, etc. in addition to child care. And before that we were hunter gatherers. Women were the ones gathering plants. They weren't just being waited on and "pampered" by the men. That's not only ridiculous but historically ignorant.
Happy wife happy life is supposed to be a thing husbands say jokingly, as if to say "my wife's so uptight that keeping her happy is paramount to my own drama-free existence". The thought that any woman would say it unironically as if it were a social expectation is truly baffling to me, totally braindead.
@AgencyIsGoodForUsAll yeah its supposed to be in a fun way . Which I tried to explain to her. She thought she knew more than me . Which is 1 one the reasons we broke up. She actually said once " I don't know why I'm cooking for you . I don't do that with anyone else ". And I was confused. I told her that's what you should do. You treat someone you love more sweetly than you do others. Not sure how she had gotten that far in life without learning that
Damn, how did you end up with such a nightmare person?
@@mrkiky she wasn't always that way. It wasn't till we had been together for a year that she started showing her real colors .
The "too aware" one is really a reminder - most of us went through this phase, but left it at latest with leaving puberty.
At 59, I count myself lucky that I am no longer the raging 'T' monster I was when I was a young fella. As a result of this and because of my life experiences, I am looking for a woman with depth, but most women havent graduated from the kiddie pool.
I grew up in Orange County, California in the late 70’s and 80’s. Even back then I referred to this as the Disney Effect.
Disney had a villain that said then everyone can be super and when everyone's super . ....
NO ONE WILL BE.
"I'm Syndrome your Nemesis at hand! . . . Dangit."
14:32 absolutely understand this. Don’t get bitter, get better!
Yep. She wants only Chads to look at her.
Dont mistake it that she thinks every man should look at her. Keep that in minds if you are not Chad. You dont want the police called for creeping out baddies.😅
Na they want to be looked at and admired by everyone, but only Chad to act on it.
Growing up means learning to adjust your expectations. Especially while in relationship you need to learn how to compromise and that leads you to overthink your expectations. It's very helpful as it copes with frustration.
Sometimes you can even diffuse the most heated arguments with your partner by stopping for a moment and starting to consciously negotiating. And if you cannot compromise in one aspect, make concessions elsewhere. Basically both sides feel positive progression though it's more like a zero sum thing objectively.
I think it's also why the saying goes like, in a healthy relationship 1+1 can equal to more than 2^^
Umm... dude. That first girl u got wrong. She was saying she was super h0rny so she was going out and hoping some dude would come up n thered be so much chemistry theyd be absolutely inseparable for the next few weeks.
She was passively saying she was h0rny. She wanted to be seen in that way. Not just looked at in general. Like spotted by a dude on the prowel for passion.
When a woman days "i dunno maybe its because im ovulating" that means "omg im so fvcking h0rny i cant see straight and im doing stupid stuff because i absolutely need a good romp or im gonna lose my mind"
Duh. Men are good at this. Learn what they're saying. Evolve. Take the hint. Watch the body language. Most women do this.
If a chick goes out looking super nice to a store and are walking like they're feeling themselves a bit too much... step up and ask for her number. Flirt a little. Tell her she looks amazing and so confodent... use alot of playful eye contact and smiles. Bam. Usually in the bag. You might be wrong a handful of times at the start but geez... you'll learn pretty quick which ones are deep in desire and which ones aren't and what to look for. You got this.
But yeah... that's what she meant and where to find chicks.
How does she wanna get touched without all the paint rubbing off though? 🤔
Wipe out the make up 😂
Thats why I like so much of the music "My Way - Limp Bizkit".
"Do you think you are special? You do, I ca see your eyes...
It's my way, my way or the highway..."
Mr Bennet's situation (it took him some time to realize what his wife was like, already after the marriage and there was no way back)
And then five daughters... Ouch! 😮
N. B. Though Elizabeth was my dream girl 🤷🏼♂️
Aware girl reminds me of my daughter but she was talking like that at 7😂
5:03 i think she has a point here dude
Yea bad take on that one. She’s right.
Try living without acknowledgement of the days of the week, or pretend $$ doesn't exist and see how well that goes. Ofc we have created structure, or else we'd be simply animals
She is a potential.
It's a term I give to people that are ready to pull back the veil and go further spiritually and metaphysically.
Oh God. She's in a place where she's very vulnerable and a prime target for cults.
If you think she has a point you're too UNAWARE 😂
Yes those things are made up, but for good reason. That good reason is for the sake of organization, which is a must for us to progress and have convenience and easier lives and nice things which are not made up, but real and palpable. Money does mean something because we give them meaning, rules mean something because we give them meaning. Sorry to break it to you but if you don't understand abstract concepts, you're not "too aware" you're simply not aware enough.
AG, this is excellent. Really enjoy your insight and frankness.
you only spit truths.. I think social media is the main cause of all these issues
As do I, mate.
You did your thinking, and you did it right!!!!
social media is 100% the cause of all our issues. Its so sad how far its been pushed and will continue to be
at last we start hearing these things, because this is the reality of society around us
As a guy, even I had to unlearn this notion that I was “special.” I expected to be homecoming king and didn’t get it. The big wake up call came when I was at a bar and this lady at one end of the bar gave her number to the bartender to give to a guy at the other end of the bar and I was baffled that it wasn’t me she wanted to give her number to.
Its over for barcels
WTF is a Barcel?
@rjmamula bro you wanna be humbled and grateful? then start watching bp. You know nothing about what the normie and sub5 have to deal with. Absolutely nothing. All men think they're better looking than they really are. I'm sure your mommy and grandmother always used to say to you "ohh you're such a handsome young man, you're going to have all the girls chasing you" which boosted your ego. I had the same thing happen to me, but life taught me that they're just full of it and it's all a big gaslight. Never looked at women the same after watching blkpill. You can't un-take the pill. You just can't.
@@BrandanmayhewOn God, y'all just be cooking any random word at this point
I think the young lady at 5 minutes was having a moment of deep philosophical musing. Quite positive.
I kind of wish the insights you share on your channel were available to me when I was a young man, then again, maybe women were a bit different in my day, who knows.
basically we may have over did it when we were trying to be nice to women.
And the onkly way women can be different is by being the victim of some random crime. that never occurred. This is why they rush to being pissed off.
We are unique like fingerprints, the thing is, everyone has fingerprints.
I think it's a simple as their emotions overwhelm and cloud their mind to the point of stupidity. 0 logic, all reaction to what's going on around them.
7:20 dude in blue looks like he's walking around with a sex doll robot
He is, thats all she is useful for
Not much of a difference, just more expensive.
It’s just his turn 🎠
Mr Grace makes a great point about the halo effect....making a man feel a woman is much more interesting that she really is. I was one who really fell for that.
But the bigger point is that both men and women do that...but as a guy, we're blinded by her attractiveness, making us feel that she's more in depth than the reality. This is a great revelation for a young man to realize. That we are attracted to them, but need to understand clearly what we're dealing with...no rose colored glasses.
Unique and special? Like Gollum?
This is what we all should be saying to ourselves (both men and women): "For I am lonely and afflicted. The distresses of my heart have enlarged. Oh, bring me out of my distresses! Look on my affliction and my toil, and forgive all my sins" Psalms (Tehillim) 25: 16-18