Can you make a video on how much begging is ok before it’s over? I begged after the break up and then once maybe twice a week after for 4 weeks I talked about my feelings and tried to talk about the break asking if she would give us another chance in the future. Did I ruin my chances
I have a hard time letting them feel comfortable after break up! They need to feel the loss and feel the anxiety of making a poor choice! You need to give them space and miss you!
This is so different to me. I thought you bruise their ego when you don’t chase and beg after they dump you???? Wow. Now you make a dumper feels that they make it easy for the dumper
Lol my ex and I haven't spoken anything in 8 months and she hasn't missed me. Makes quite obvious that she never cared about me but rather smash more muscular guys and just used me for my wallet.
Hi long time listener... here's my situation I was on and off with my ex for about 5 years.. we split twice (once left me for someone else about 2 years in, then again at 3 years) and she rebounded with different guys each time and posted it everywhere... both lasted roughly 3 months... I went into no contact both times... This time we were on and off and arguing for a couple of months and she moved back to her mums so we could have a little bit of space... then we had a pregnancy scare 4 months ago and dealt with that but it took a tole on us... so I asked for a break... we spoke for everyday for a month but she started by begging for me back, sent me the video of our engagement and photos and all of that... I didn't take the bait and asked for time... fast forward 3 weeks of speaking 3 or 4 times a day and then i was told she was posting photos of her and new guy... so I immediately started no contact(23rd last month) ... she continues to post photos of him... on the 7th this month she made it Facebook official with him... this time my head is everywhere and I'm stressed about the rebound and whether it is or not... she hasn't reached out and I haven't reached out either, I am continuing to better myself and go see new people and go on dates and everything. I'm not reacting to any posts or anything. The weird thing is that she's made him block me yet has his initials in her bio on insta and in a relationship On fb and has him and her as her cover photo... I have her blocked on socials but not her number or email... This guy is nothing like me... they go out clubbing every weekend where as we never went clubbing... her and I went to bars and breweries... I'm brunette and he's dark hair... I'm cleanly shaven with no tatts and he is the opposite... I'm very introverted and have a close group of friends yet he has heaps of friends and heads out all the time ect... I'm not sure what to do or where I go from here... I regret not taking the bait to get backtogether when i had the chance but I feel like I might’ve missed the boat now that she's with someone else.
Hi Hugh thank you for your comment and I’m sorry to hear about what has happened between you and your ex. No one knows what the future holds, but there is weight behind the thought that you and your ex are not quite compatible enough (for long term relationships). The more breakups you have, the more it suggests something isn’t quite working. My suggestion is to fully focus on moving forward and making new connections. There might be a way back with your ex, but if prior problems aren’t understood and dealt with, the outcome will likely be the same. Stay positive and focus on living your life to the full. You will feel happiness again with or without your ex
Is there a chance I still can get my ex back and the relationship was a good one and short and I should have leave her alone after the breakup instead of pestering her
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Can you make a video on how much begging is ok before it’s over? I begged after the break up and then once maybe twice a week after for 4 weeks I talked about my feelings and tried to talk about the break asking if she would give us another chance in the future. Did I ruin my chances
I have a hard time letting them feel comfortable after break up! They need to feel the loss and feel the anxiety of making a poor choice! You need to give them space and miss you!
That’s NOT true. They wait for you to beg. Chase I know for sure. They’re chocked they feel bad ams degret when you don’t beg them
They just forget about you and move on.
My ex is a DA. I'm sure she is very happy about no contact because she feels guilty free that I might have moved on. I doubt she will regret anything.
Same here
This is so different to me. I thought you bruise their ego when you don’t chase and beg after they dump you???? Wow. Now you make a dumper feels that they make it easy for the dumper
Lol my ex and I haven't spoken anything in 8 months and she hasn't missed me. Makes quite obvious that she never cared about me but rather smash more muscular guys and just used me for my wallet.
Welcome to my world lol
Go get them muscles then, that’s the best revenge bro
What if my ex promised me that no matter how hard she’s going to miss me, she won’t reach out
Be a man who is stronger than her.
My ex is consistently liking my Facebook posts over several weeks now. She's not on my friends list.
Quite clearly, she wants to be friends now. Expect a friend request soon.
Well done man.
Block her, hit the gym, when your able meet other people. When she comes back run! 🍻
Did she unfriendly you ?
The DUMPEE !!!!!😆😆😆😆😆😂
Why did my ex tell me that by going no contact showed I wasn’t will to try and fight for her and only made her madder?
Because they are a narcissist or have a borderline personality disorder and are manipulating you.
Hi long time listener... here's my situation
I was on and off with my ex for about 5 years.. we split twice (once left me for someone else about 2 years in, then again at 3 years) and she rebounded with different guys each time and posted it everywhere... both lasted roughly 3 months... I went into no contact both times...
This time we were on and off and arguing for a couple of months and she moved back to her mums so we could have a little bit of space... then we had a pregnancy scare 4 months ago and dealt with that but it took a tole on us... so I asked for a break... we spoke for everyday for a month but she started by begging for me back, sent me the video of our engagement and photos and all of that... I didn't take the bait and asked for time... fast forward 3 weeks of speaking 3 or 4 times a day and then i was told she was posting photos of her and new guy... so I immediately started no contact(23rd last month) ... she continues to post photos of him... on the 7th this month she made it Facebook official with him... this time my head is everywhere and I'm stressed about the rebound and whether it is or not... she hasn't reached out and I haven't reached out either, I am continuing to better myself and go see new people and go on dates and everything. I'm not reacting to any posts or anything.
The weird thing is that she's made him block me yet has his initials in her bio on insta and in a relationship On fb and has him and her as her cover photo... I have her blocked on socials but not her number or email...
This guy is nothing like me... they go out clubbing every weekend where as we never went clubbing... her and I went to bars and breweries... I'm brunette and he's dark hair... I'm cleanly shaven with no tatts and he is the opposite... I'm very introverted and have a close group of friends yet he has heaps of friends and heads out all the time ect...
I'm not sure what to do or where I go from here...
I regret not taking the bait to get backtogether when i had the chance but I feel like I might’ve missed the boat now that she's with someone else.
Hi Hugh thank you for your comment and I’m sorry to hear about what has happened between you and your ex. No one knows what the future holds, but there is weight behind the thought that you and your ex are not quite compatible enough (for long term relationships). The more breakups you have, the more it suggests something isn’t quite working. My suggestion is to fully focus on moving forward and making new connections. There might be a way back with your ex, but if prior problems aren’t understood and dealt with, the outcome will likely be the same. Stay positive and focus on living your life to the full. You will feel happiness again with or without your ex
Is there a chance I still can get my ex back and the relationship was a good one and short and I should have leave her alone after the breakup instead of pestering her
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