very helpful. in my faith, we hv a holding cross...this helps me see how it is helpful. just wonder if Rita can stabilise her video? maybe get a gyro stand. :D Thanks so much!
I have this schema, no maternal bond, or affection, emotions ignored etc. but I’m more avoidant in intimate relationships. Like I’m mirroring what I didn’t see or experience as a child. Is this a normal one too?
isnt this a huge difference between what a partner can give you and emotional deprivation from childhood? I dont care my perter is lovely if my parents failed....
I am working on this right now in therapy
I had trouble understanding it until I watched these videos thank you !!!
glad it was helpful for you!
This describes my relationship right now. It's so frustrating. I'm the attached she's the avoidant. I feel helpless sometimes
damn the thing about I need space really resonated with me, I do this a lot. bullseye and ballpark is a good way of outlining it
Glad it's helpful!
Very interesting thank you!
very helpful. in my faith, we hv a holding cross...this helps me see how it is helpful. just wonder if Rita can stabilise her video? maybe get a gyro stand. :D Thanks so much!
So glad it is helpful for you!
I have this schema, no maternal bond, or affection, emotions ignored etc. but I’m more avoidant in intimate relationships. Like I’m mirroring what I didn’t see or experience as a child. Is this a normal one too?
yes there are different ways of coping with the schema - have a look at the avoidant coping modes.
Thank you 🙏! I will have a look and bring it to my psychologist xx
isnt this a huge difference between what a partner can give you and emotional deprivation from childhood? I dont care my perter is lovely if my parents failed....
Hurt that happens in relationships can be also healed in relationship but it's long road 55linka and therapy is often needed in that situation.