Sociopath vs Narcissist: What's the Difference?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  2 года назад +218

    How's everyone doing today? Any plans for the weekends?

    • @michelleejane
      @michelleejane 2 года назад +15

      I’m staying home lol

    • @Ev4nnnnn
      @Ev4nnnnn 2 года назад +7

      Im good! 😁

    • @oceanbluee_
      @oceanbluee_ 2 года назад +7

      @@michelleejane I'm also....

    • @AliveTeen14
      @AliveTeen14 2 года назад +6

      Nope....but pls upload a video on psychopath serial killers tomorrow.plssssssssss

    • @-N-O-V-A-
      @-N-O-V-A- 2 года назад +5

      I’m gonna go to a winter wonderland (a snowy theme park)

  • @Lovefromali
    @Lovefromali 2 года назад +302

    Omg Psych2go!! Not only have you been helping me with my psychology but you have helped me understand why I am the person I am today. You are one of the only channels here on RUclips that I truly cherish. You’re all doing absolutely remarkable things :) and you have allowed me to come up with ways to help me with healing and I cannot thank you so much xx I wish I found you sooner

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад +2

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together🇺🇲🇺🇲

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      H.E .W.I.L.L H.E.L.P Y.O.U

    • @vengkat1044
      @vengkat1044 2 года назад +1

      Lucky u

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      @viktorpettersson9975 2 года назад

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      @Josh-kt9qh 2 года назад

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  • @kuychi
    @kuychi 2 года назад +233

    1) 0:16 What is sociopathy ?
    2) 1:12 What is narcissism ?
    3) 1:55 How are they similar ?
    4) 2:26 How are they different ?
    5) 2:57 How are they treated ?

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад +1

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together🇺🇲🇺🇲

    • @SunIsLost
      @SunIsLost 2 года назад +1

      Thanks

    • @SunIsLost
      @SunIsLost 2 года назад +5

      @@joywilliams8345 *STOP*

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад

      Thank you.
      Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
      European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
      The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying (e.g. sex/bribe) others to attack [or at times kill] someone for her/HIM. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
      ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). This is why they end up in narcissitic relationship and breed with narcissits - risking producing more. All of these personality types are emotionally-disturbed; combined with relatively low intelligence (limited to reciting government academics, and manipulation in the case of ESFJ) this is the source of their problem causing behaviour, psychology, impact on society, as well as misguided mobs/flash mobs, controlled by ESFJ/narcissits. 'ISFP' and ESFP are typical morons who are recruited into cults. ISFP are also secretly hedonistic and literally have the inner mind of a child, hence their secrecy behaviour. They are more evil than they realise.
      FYI, Judas-Iscariot is a classic ISFP. His 'oblivious-codependant' psychology/madness, is what lead him to betray Jesus. He just ignored the reality of what he was doing, and continued to fixate on the "reward" / carrot being dangled in front of him. ISFP factually have little humanity (ESFJ; the evil leader and worst, and ESFP are the secondary grunt).
      All these evil, unsustainable personality types are among the most common. So you should know why humanity is in the case it is in, and why history reflects these cancerous personality types legacy! I bet Hitler's hate for Jews was triggered by a ESFJ-Jew. ESFJ are notorious for trying to make others jealous and creating drama via cheating, and starting smear campaign. They are true sadist. ISFP/ESFP gunts empower and support them.
      Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
      [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts: ISFP, ESFP.
      Spread the word! Thank you.
      ___________
      #Save_Soil

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits (ESFJ/ESTJ are synonymous with cluster-b). These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity, and they are delusional and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

  • @witchypoo7353
    @witchypoo7353 2 года назад +62

    I’m glad y’all are teaching others that everyone deserves help & compassion.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2

    • @Zookeeper.
      @Zookeeper. Год назад +5

      People expressing ASPD deserve everything. And will have it. Your help, your compassion, sometimes your pain and misery. I tried to give a hand. Now I'm missing a hand 🤕

    • @rest1585
      @rest1585 Год назад +2

      @@Psych2go If your ever making another video based off Narcicisst could you maybe write it so people understand that Narcs are rare and not everyone with an ego or lack or remorse is a Narc. And that’s Narcicissts can be good people too?

    • @forrest4142
      @forrest4142 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@rest1585 narrasist will crush u even fake own death to get u they are evil

  • @deb_rina
    @deb_rina 2 года назад +226

    Now imagine these people (abusive narcissists or sociopaths) in relationships or as an important family member in your life. I feel sorry for the people who are stuck in a relationship with abusive narcissists.
    Ps. It's never a good idea to stay with someone who is abusive altogether it's just going to take a toll on your mental health.
    Edit: Sorry I meant people who are stuck in narcissistic toxic relationships. I lived with someone who was a narcissist for years and I'm grateful me, my mom and my siblings got out of that toxic relationship before it was too late. I'm just speaking from my experience though. I've had bad experiences with all narcissists I've met.
    People with Aspd and Npd are humans too and they deserve the love and support any other person does.

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      H.E .W.I.L.L H.E.L.P Y.O.U

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      O.N . W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P

    • @mutantpoptart8060
      @mutantpoptart8060 2 года назад +9

      I was married 14 years, happily. Everyone has their problems and no one is "stuck". Try again.

    • @LunaticLuni
      @LunaticLuni 2 года назад +13

      “Stuck” get a grip lol. Yeah some sociopaths are horrible. But alot control there stuff and can be good partners. Nobody’s stuck unless the sociopaths bad. Do your research lol

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      H.E .W.I.L.L H.E.L.P Y.O.U

  • @thebonustage
    @thebonustage 6 месяцев назад +5

    I honestly couldnt think of anyone better to do mental health videos. Your voice has a sort of calm and soothing feel to it, really helping me to digest some of these serious concepts.

  • @SilentNinjaaa
    @SilentNinjaaa 2 года назад +24

    The scary thing is you see a lot of these personalities in healthcare. They are very self-serving, manipualtive, driven, and their morals are very flexibile depending on the circumstance. I used to wonder why then I went into healthcare and realized its because their training is devoid of any real empathy towards them. They are taught to be empathizing of patients needs but they are personally pushed to their limits. So they never truly learn empathy because its not a luxury afforded to them.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Very true..

    • @user-wt7dz6wh5p
      @user-wt7dz6wh5p Год назад +1

      im professional recognized NPD and going to studying for therapy and psychology.
      Empathy is not always needed, its a good trait but empathy only means: "understanding and feeling other people's emotions." Cognitive empathy can be learnt but emotional empathy most likely cant. You are getting terms: compassion, sympathy, morality and empathy mixed up they are not the same thing.
      In therapy you need to let go your biases, you cant stigmatize disorders or non-romanticized mental health because that itself is being a bad therapist.
      The issue that you dealing with therapy is lack of educated therapist when it comes to psychology. The mental health system is outdated not because the therapist is NPD or ASPD most of the time.

  • @mutantpoptart8060
    @mutantpoptart8060 2 года назад +176

    Multiple times diagnosed sociopath here.
    It isn't something that needs treatment. We are not broken or bad people. We just have to find how to fit into society. It isn't like we are psychopaths who seek to cause harm.
    I think you should do a longer video doing a deeper dive into this. People like me struggle every day to work ourselves into "normal" parts of society and videos like this just makes it seem like we should be avoided because we inherently seek to use and abuse people. When generally we are in a constant fight with the instinct to do so. There is a difference. Understanding comes as much from the outside as from the inside.

    • @silverash896
      @silverash896 2 года назад +17

      i agree with you

    • @gooberboi1237
      @gooberboi1237 2 года назад +8

      I agree

    • @ivyom4392
      @ivyom4392 2 года назад +6

      I highly agree, we need more info.

    • @rasmuslarsen77
      @rasmuslarsen77 2 года назад +27

      I think psych2go describes a unregulated sociopath, one who just follow their tendencies and therefor setting themselves first always. The one you describe is regulated, in your case, by yourself. You have decided to not trust your own tendencies and regulate your behaviour based on what you think would be better. I agree, that at this stage, you don’t necessarily need treatment because you already are aware and willing to constantly learn how to handle situations better. Whereas a textbook sociopath don’t care about their behaviour because they are convinced their current selves is the best possible self, so the behaviour is unregulated. They need treatment to understand that there are behaviour that can lead to a better life for themselves, in other words, they need to be convinced that they can’t always trust their tendencies and need to think more critically on themselves. They also need to be convinced that they actually can change themselves and there tendencies.
      The point I am trying to make is not just about sociopaths. If one has the ability to look at one self, see the consequences and benefits of past actions, and do the same for people one observes around themselves, and make sense of it, they may never need treatment. Treatment are for the sick, who can’t make sense of their condition or daily life itself. Back to the point on sociopaths, I think a sociopath that can’t make sense of who they are and therefore just do what they have a tendency to do, needs treatment to get to the point you are.
      I am not educated in psychology. I am born in a family with numerous psychological problems, and just as you say, we don’t need to be avoided as people. But when it comes to ourselves, each of us fights the urge to “just do what we feel like” because we have experienced again and again how bad that can end.
      Edit: wow, I made a long comment. To be honest, I primarily wrote this comment to think deeper about the matter. It is not my intention to argue or say you are wrong. Just wanted to figure out what I myself thought about the topic.
      Edit2: rereading my comment, I make some statements about you, even though I don’t know you at all. Sorry if I miss represent you and your situation. Please correct me if needed. Other readers, don’t take my description of OP as facts.

    • @0230309
      @0230309 2 года назад

      You have a cluster b personality disorder You are deranged and delusional. Saying "you are all fine and dont act violent like psychopaths hihi" cluster b's switch between all the b personality disorders depending on the self state they need at the moment. Which ch anges with mortification/humiliating experiences which shatter your grandiosity(when your brain realises the cope is not working.)
      You are emotionally insane if you have a cluster b personality disorder

  • @jaynejones5735
    @jaynejones5735 Год назад +11

    My sister and mother are sociopath/narcissistic and neither would ever recognise that any fault or blame lies with them. There surely must be so many people with these traits that never get diagnosed because you have to know them well as family members to recognise what they are. They have both been for therapy but they are superficially charming and can easily manage to fool people that it is everyone around them that is the problem. They have both had a fair amount of trauma so their problems could easily be blamed on that by any therapist. They both however, are exactly as described in this video and extremely toxic as family members.

  • @pandacrush419
    @pandacrush419 Год назад +10

    I am a 22 year old with ASPD. I have been unmedicated since 2018. ASPD people are missing 11% of our prefrontal cortex. Meaning we have to input logic into how to react. Yes it is hard to do this without meds but I am a Father and a devoted husband. Impulse will slip but always remember don't use it as a crutch

    • @bunnybird9342
      @bunnybird9342 4 месяца назад

      Those poor kids. Don't come crying to me when they end up traumatized and go NC with you when they are older.

    • @SupervillainsPenthouse-jg2ej
      @SupervillainsPenthouse-jg2ej 2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for contribution to society

    • @pandacrush419
      @pandacrush419 2 месяца назад +1

      @@bunnybird9342 friend ASPD can diminish in age. You don't know me and the things I have been through. I rely on logic then I do emotion. You clearly do not understand what antisocial personality disorder is. That definitely makes you sound more ignorant than I can be. Get the bitterness out of your heart so you can end up spreading life to people instead of hate.

  • @sailordarty9032
    @sailordarty9032 2 года назад +18

    I recently took an "Intro to Criminal Justice" college course, and it explained a little bit about ASPD.
    For example, a range of 0.02% - 3.3% of individuals are diagnosed of the USA population, but 35% of that population is in prison.
    They are also difficult to rehabilitate due to their manipulative behavior, leading to them pretending to be rehabilitated to be released early, as well as their sense of superiority in believing they're too intelligent to be caught if they commit another crime.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2

      Interesting!

    • @laitarianplayz8080
      @laitarianplayz8080 Год назад +1

      That gives me hope. That 35% number is relieving. But the problem is I'm not in the US so the number is much higher everywhere else without the prison industrial complex. Sorry for overexplaining.

    • @bunnybird9342
      @bunnybird9342 5 месяцев назад +1

      It would be even better if the government stripped them of all of their human rights

    • @bunnybird9342
      @bunnybird9342 4 месяца назад +1

      "People" with ASPD: If you associate ASPD with serial killers then you're ableist
      Also "people" with ASPD: ASPD culture is feeling sorry for serial killers because you get them
      And no I'm not making any of this up I've actually seen these "people" saying this on Tumblr.

    • @sailordarty9032
      @sailordarty9032 4 месяца назад

      @@bunnybird9342 Well, there's your first problem: TUMBLR

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin 2 года назад +33

    0:00 Intro
    0:16 What is sociopathy ?
    1:12 What is narcissism ?
    1:55 How are they similar ?
    2:26 How are they different ?
    2:57 How are they treated ?
    3:43 Outro

  • @idfc2505
    @idfc2505 2 года назад +16

    Although both ASPD and NPD are Cluster B disorders, they're pretty different in many perspectives. Yeah, they both have a lot in common but also very very different... I'm saying this based on my own experience as someone who was diagnosed with ASPD.
    -Narcissists have fragile egos whereas sociopaths have big egos.
    Narcissists lack true confidence and self-worth, that's why they act arrogant. Sociopaths on the other hand, we aren't necessarily insecure individuals. We tend to come across as arrogant people due to our over confidence. But as I said, unlike narcissists, sociopaths are not arrogant as a self-defense mechanism.
    -Narcissists are often vindictive whereas sociopaths are careless.
    People often act like sociopaths and psychopaths are creepy stalkers who are obsessed with getting revenge on their ex's. This is because of the inaccurate portrayal of Hollywood. Sociopaths are not vindictive, we simply don't give 2 sh*ts about people (of course it also depends on the individual, everyone has a different story with their "condition"). But like I said, narcissists are more likely to be people centric individuals, so they tend to come across as vindictive people.
    -Sociopaths are more likely to get inclined to crime than narcissists.
    Narcissists have a tend spot for getting humiliated and feeling shameful, so they highly care about their status. That's why they prefer to not get inclined to crime. But sociopaths do not feel shame deeply, and most of us have no qualms about committing crime. But of course, those are generalizations. Sociopaths do not necessarily need to be inclined to crime, I can give myself for an example. It totally depends on how high we are on the antisocial spectrum. High functioning Cluster B individuals avoid illegal activities.
    There are many more things that separate the narcissists and sociopaths. But I have to note that, as long as we're high functioning people, we are not harmful.

    • @specialtwice4975
      @specialtwice4975 2 года назад +2

      "High functioning cluster b avoid illegal activities."
      I've met HIGH functioning cluster b and I'd say MOST do commit crimes but they are just better at hiding it. (They don't get caught)

    • @staymad2075
      @staymad2075 2 года назад +2

      “We are not harmful” absolute cringe

    • @idfc2505
      @idfc2505 2 года назад

      @@specialtwice4975 Like I said, those are generalizations. But it's known for a fact that low functioning cluster b people are much more likely to get inclined to crime than high functioning ones

    • @idfc2505
      @idfc2505 2 года назад +1

      @@staymad2075 Lmao who hurt you?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing this!

  • @natashaevsimon1441
    @natashaevsimon1441 2 года назад +7

    They are both so damn destructive to others.
    I have learnt that these disorders overlap, creating a bigger monster

  • @kittenmimi5326
    @kittenmimi5326 Год назад +4

    I hope everyone realize that if you are in a relationship with one of these people and they are becoming toxic to you etc, you should leave. Do not play hero, do not try to put up with it. It's not within your responsibility to do so, it will only be detrimental to yourself. Not like the condition can be treated either. I mean this only for the ones who decide to act toxic / affect people negatively. If they have these conditions yet never really act toxic to you, if they take the effort to be a decent person then that would be fine... you won't even notice perhaps

  • @qurangreen7041
    @qurangreen7041 2 года назад +8

    Whether ASPD or NPD, the person is still a person. They are struggling with their symptoms just as much or even more than someone else would while being around them. They still deserve to be treated like people no matter what. But in the end, they should not be devoid of accountability. Being a person and better yet an adult, comes with responsibility and accountability. It is very much an individuals responsibility to take accountability for their actions and seek help. People just have to be compassionate enough to understand what may be simple for one person may be a challenge for another. At the end of the day, the health, welfare, and safety of a person should never be put in jeopardy. Boundaries should be set and almost never crossed. If someone who has ASPD or NPD is jeopardizing your health, welfare, or safety and disregarding your boundaries, seek external help IMMEDIATELY.
    My story is I tried to resolve what I believed were minor issues with my ex in our relationship myself but I let my ex put us both in very unhealthy and unstable conditions. I've since then sought more information and assistance regarding her diagnosis and realized I could have avoided so much way sooner if I just asked for help. The key is to understand you are not alone and you don't have to deal with things on your own. It is not embarrassing or a sign of weakness to ask for help when you need it, it is actually a sign of strength and courage. Please help spread awareness and take care of yourselves. The first step and few steps after that are the hardest and their maybe days you feel less successful than others, but any progress is progress and so long as you are doing your best, the other parts will fall in place. Stay strong and stay safe 💪🏽

  • @MM-qg5xh
    @MM-qg5xh 2 года назад +9

    You didn't do this topic justice.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)_. These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

  • @iiantixsocial
    @iiantixsocial 2 года назад +15

    My ex-best friend has a lot of symptoms of sociopathy. She's impulsive and reckless. She's manipulated her other friends, and especially her childhood friend that she's known since kindergarten. She has no respect for anyone and always wanted to gain info to use against other people or to turn us against each other. She's unpredictable as one can be. She's been in mental hospitals multiple times and abused her animals to some degree. She triggered my anxiety as a joke, and tried to kill herself, but then say that I'm overreacting over something so serious (she was also there for me many times when no one else could, not that it excuses her behaviour.) She has a lot of other mental issues as well, but this one thing she did still stuck with me. I don't think this is sociopathy, but I'll still share. She made an alt account and pretended to be a guy from Australia (she's American).
    I got in a really toxic relationship with the alt account, (I didn't know it was her at the time) which screwed me up mentally. He emotionally abused me, threatened suicide countless times, made me feel bad for venting, sleeping, eating, going outside, hanging out with friends, and wanting a healthy relationship. He lashed out on me for not being on his side all the time, and constantly put himself down. He placed his emotional and mental baggage onto me, knowing I would try and help. He always talked about harming himself and ways to end his life. I was severely sleep deprived for weeks on end cuz he made me feel bad for wanting to take care of myself. He wanted me to wake up at 6-7am every morning to hang out with him and blew up my phone if I didn't respond in a certain amount of time (mind you, he had me stay up until 3-4am almost every night). I couldn't even take a nap, or help my mom with chores without him wanting my attention. He was clingy as hell, possessive, and played the victim card every chance he could. I would wake up every morning to 60+ messages of him spamming my name, saying he was sad or lonely cuz I wasn't there to talk to him. He would complain about his mental issues, but whenever I would try and help him, he'd knock down the conversation right as I was about to get somewhere. He was never honest with me, claimed I was never honest with him, and made it seem like I was the one with the problem. Whenever I would hang out with one of my guy friends (one of which I previously had a crush on) he'd get really jealous, put himself down, and complain that I wasn't hanging out with him instead, so I stopped hanging out with my guy friend. Whenever I wanted to do anything on my own or for myself, he'd put me down and get mad at me for it. Whenever I would talk to him about his behaviour, he'd be like "oh, you really know how to make me feel like a piece of sh!t, huh?" then go offline. He "attempted" suicide like 10 times throughout the year of dealing with him. Whenever I tried to vent about his abuse in a groupchat, he'd make me feel bad and say things like "I guess I'm just a sh!tty person, aren't I?? I should just kms! You don't love me if you're saying those things about me!". To everyone else, our relationship was the most cutest, perfect thing. I was so low mentally, it got to the point of me having to put on this mask of happiness, otherwise I'd get yelled at. If I made him seem like a terrible person in front of others he'd put himself down, say he wasn't good enough, and then attempt to kill himself to make me apologize. I remember venting to him about how I miss my guy friend (he wasn't online much) and he made it seem like I liked him instead. He'd accuse me of liking him even though I was past that. He thought I liked him just because I like spending time with him (I've known my guy friend for 6 years). The only time he treated me nicely was on my birthday, any other day, he'd treat me like total garbage. He made me feel bad for every little thing I did. I'd ask him for the bare minimum, he'd give it to me (like honesty, communication, etc) for like a day and then never give it to me again, and then act like he was always honest with me or always communicated with me, and that I was just looking for reasons to get mad at him. He'd rarely say "I love you" to me and reassure me of things (due to my anxiety, I need reassurance). After countless ups and downs, he killed himself by shooting himself with a gun. At that point, I had the worst mental breakdown of my entire life. I had a severe headache, I felt like throwing up, I was in complete tears, I couldn't breathe, and I cried myself to sleep that night he "died." Even though he was abusive as hell, I loved him, somehow. It was a trauma bond, but I wanted a future with him. After a few weeks, I was feeling better but still upset, and then my ex-best friend suddenly admits (right as I was about to go to sleep) that the person I was in a relationship with, wasn't real in the first place, and that it was all her. I forgot to mention that she made up an entire storyline just for this character she played. She played like 5 other characters and made 2 more accounts just for the act. A reason as to why she did all this was because me and her dated for 2 months and then agreed to break up. She wanted to be with me again, and wanted to "prove" that she was better than the guy she played as (which isn't a good excuse). I pretty much fell in "love" with someone who didn't exist for an entire year.
    Throughout the abuse, she'd switch between the alt account and her main account. She would also cause arguments and havoc in the groupchat over the most stupidest things and then play victim when people got rightfully mad at her. She had her alt account always back her up, as if she was some innocent girl who did no wrong (she was 13 when she did all this).
    I'm still recovering from all that, thanks to my new bf and everyone else in the group, but it still affects me sometimes. Everyone cut her off since that happened.

    • @hyunjungsocks
      @hyunjungsocks 2 года назад +3

      I just read through your story, and I'm so sorry for everything you have suffered. Glad that you have gone through all of this and having a healthy relationship now

    • @k-onenthusiast5234
      @k-onenthusiast5234 2 года назад +1

      Someone who is 13 cannot be diagnosed with NPD or ASPD as far as I'm aware of, because the brain during adolescence can fluctuate a lot. I am sorry this has happened to you though.

    • @joyorebanjo2354
      @joyorebanjo2354 2 года назад

      I really hope for your full recovery dear… I’m sorry for what happened to you 🥺

    • @iiantixsocial
      @iiantixsocial 2 года назад +3

      @@k-onenthusiast5234 I've looked into it, and while yes, a 13 year old can't be diagnosed since the brain goes thru changes, it is known that trauma, the environment, upbringing issues, and other mental problems can affect the childs brain and cause NPD and other issues to develop overtime if left untreated. Not only that, but certain behaviours in a child are linked to ASPD; like lashing out, breaking things, anger issues, harming animals, etc. From my research, ASPD is mainly due to child neglect and abuse.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

  • @ohno8398
    @ohno8398 2 года назад +98

    Thank you for including the small but important line that people with NPD and ASPD are people. It should be obvious but there is so much stigma, especially on social media. People with any cluster B disorder are not inherently evil or going to be abusive or anything like that, just like non cluster B people are all different. Everyone deserves love and support ❤

    • @caroann
      @caroann 2 года назад +34

      There is a stigma, for good reason. The hurt and chaos they cause their loved ones is debilitating! Their actions cause reactions. After a while, it’s hard to give them “love and support”.

    • @kambuityehimba140
      @kambuityehimba140 2 года назад +25

      Everyone says that until they have to deal with one of them

    • @cotovantre
      @cotovantre 2 года назад +11

      the only way in my opinion to love and support a narcissist is at the expense of your own well being. not to mention, it is also enabling their behavior, making them even less prone to seek professional help (though i have a hard time believing they will ever end up seeking professional help, because they are so obsessed with bringing others down to stabilize their own pain.)

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      THEY ARE EVIL! S[T]F[U] I HATE YOU SO MUCH!!! YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY A NARCISSIST, OR CODEPENDENT!!! OR ESFP/ISFP, ESFJ!!!

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      BE QUIET! THE UNINTELLIGENT SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED TO OPEN THEIR MOUTHS! YOU ESFP (PERSONALITY TYPE) ARE EVIL, MANIPULATIVE, FILLED WITH HATE, AND ARE ENABLING HELL SPAWN!!!
      THERE IS NO HEAVEN FOR YOU! YOU KNOW IT AS YOU ARE POSSESSED AND YOU KNOW THAT YOUR SPIRIT IS DAMNED!
      YOU DESERVE TO BE EMOTIONALLY-DISTURBED FOREVER!!! FRICKEN CANNIBALISTIC, MISCHIEVOUS SNAKE IN HUMAN CLOTHING!

  • @specialtwice4975
    @specialtwice4975 2 года назад +4

    Sociopathy is more than just emotions, it is a personality mind frame. It is a PERMANENT thing.
    Life long.
    I saw some sociopaths down in the comments say "We are not bad people, we just need help and support. :)"
    The truth? Their real selves ARE evil. Evil is practically in their DNA.
    Yes, they can get support and yes they can learn to be better people but to be a better person is not their automatic default mode.
    I'm not trying to bash and say it's hopeless when it comes to being friends, family, etc with these people BUT majority of sociopaths, narcissists and the like ARE BEST TO BE AVOIDED, period.
    No contact.
    No talking.
    No texting.
    Nothing.
    I've met countless sociopaths and narcissists and not 1. Not 1 has thought to themselves "Dang, maybe I am the problem? Maybe I'm the one that needs to change? Maybe I should get therapy?"
    They always turn it around back onto you, because they are perfect, and you are not.
    "Sucks to be you I guess." and "Nobody wants you around" and "Why are you bothering me??" is like their life motto.
    Nobody likes a negative Nancy but that's who they are.

    • @LentilSoupGirl
      @LentilSoupGirl 10 месяцев назад +1

      I stand by this. I'm so sick of ppl invalidating their abuse, really stings. But also, there have to be some diagnosed people who are educated on it and if they show conscience and empathy, i think we should really try to help, because they didn't choose to be who they are. SOME, only some. :)

    • @DumDumb-uq5be
      @DumDumb-uq5be 5 месяцев назад +1

      "evil is practically in their DNA" Sociopathy is developed usually from environmental factors like Child Abuse
      They can still feel love and have relationships and sociopaths dont really see themselves as perfect
      You have described Narcissists and psychopaths for the most part with your comment
      Sean Strickland is a perfect example of a Sociopath with a history of child abuse but if you have listened to podcasts hes extremely self aware and knows hes crazy but he purposely avoids going into settings that isnt good for him. i wouldnt say hes a guy who wants to go around abusing innocent people. He just enjoys fighting people who he thinks deserves it or is a bad person
      Psychopaths and Narcissists are far more dangerous imo because they blend into society where as sociopaths are actually quite raw and unfiltered when they speak which is exactly why they are rarely successful and psychopaths are Extremely successful. So basically you can be fooled by Psychopaths where is you would know if someone is a sociopath

  • @ajkoots258
    @ajkoots258 Год назад +5

    in my experience,sociopaths and narissists think they dont need help,but everyone else does

  • @inkystarz
    @inkystarz 2 года назад +13

    The description of npd here is of a Grandiose style, but there are other sub-types such as Vulnerable, Communal, Benign and more. These subtypes can overlap as well. A malignant narcissists characteristics are an almost exact overlay of the sociopathic characteristics.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +3

      Thank you for adding this!

  • @sleepingalongtherazorsedge9361
    @sleepingalongtherazorsedge9361 Год назад +20

    I got diagnosed as a sociopath/aspd a few months ago. Watching psych channels just makes me realize that these channels have information people definitely wouldn't want people like me to have access to.

    • @LiftYagami
      @LiftYagami Год назад

      @@babsbun you are corny as hell bruh

    • @girth_goblin
      @girth_goblin Год назад +9

      @@babsbun spoken like a cringy 16 year old who isn’t a sociopath

    • @A_Good_Boy.
      @A_Good_Boy. 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@girth_goblinAgreed 💯 watch "Kanika Batra" she's a diagnosed sociopath.

  • @thewritingmechanic
    @thewritingmechanic Год назад +2

    "It's important to remember they are stilI people. They are living with a condition."
    This is my favourite part.

  • @MonkyDollqueen
    @MonkyDollqueen 2 года назад +5

    The more you let go, the more you will be ready to receive😍😍😍

  • @belethblake
    @belethblake 2 года назад +5

    NPD is NOT just seeking admiration and loving yourself.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  19 дней назад

      It definitely goes beyond that like most disorders.

  • @henrycoolen4628
    @henrycoolen4628 Месяц назад +1

    Saw the eyes of a narcissist turned black just before the discard
    Wasn't very afraid since i have two dark sides myself (very scary) this was a covert narcissist, their face was heavily distorted too.

  • @markseyfried
    @markseyfried Год назад +4

    They may be people, but they can also be toxic monsters who destroy other people's lives.

    • @greytuesday28
      @greytuesday28 6 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly, and this video's cute cartoons and attempts to portray them as victims doesn't change that. Attending therapy will not change their behavior, because narcissism and sociopathy are hermetically-sealed defense mechanisms which prevent the person from thinking there's anything wrong with them, if it threatens their sense of control. If anything, therapy would only make the narcissist or sociopath more effective at abusing and manipulating others, because it would give them the tools to become more self-aware and capable of blending in.
      This kind of video is the sort of misleading information that gets the actual victims of abuse in deeper trouble.

    • @bunnybird9342
      @bunnybird9342 5 месяцев назад

      I don't even consider them people at all. Just toxic monsters.

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +3

      The key word is *can.* But the thing is, literally everyone can be evil.

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@@greytuesday28 Attending therapy is proven to help at least with sociopaths. It doesn't cure them, just like any other personality disorder, but it definitely reduces harm.

    • @Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF
      @Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF 24 дня назад

      @@bunnybird9342I’m sorry but they don’t chose to have this disorder
      You can’t be born evil and not every narcissistic and sociopath person are bad people

  • @Willchannel90
    @Willchannel90 2 года назад +24

    Most victims from bullying already knew this.

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    • @Willchannel90
      @Willchannel90 2 года назад +1

      @The Wandering M It's true, but doctors only ones can repair social and health problems.

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      hello 👋 do you need help to get your relationship back?

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together🇺🇲🇺🇲

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

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  • @___--.859
    @___--.859 2 года назад +4

    Woww im kinda early? I rlly love your vids, thanks for the info❤❤

  • @apidas
    @apidas Год назад +2

    I hate that people use the term interchangeably when they refer to sociopath as narcissism. and frankly it's used to manipulate others so you're sociopath by default.

  • @k-onenthusiast5234
    @k-onenthusiast5234 2 года назад +5

    This comment section and the misinformation in it makes me want to quit living

  • @kekedoyouluvme5885
    @kekedoyouluvme5885 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this. People these days are miss diagnosing others with narcissistic personality disorder, but they are sociopaths. They’re very similar but not the same.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  19 дней назад

      Thanks for sharing!

  • @chopsticck6486
    @chopsticck6486 2 года назад +24

    Thank you for saying "suffers" in regards to people with NPD and ASPD, I see too often people degrading and minimizing people with them as evil when they literally have very little control of thejr personalty disorder

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      BE QUIET! THE UNINTELLIGENT SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED TO OPEN THEIR MOUTHS! YOU ESFP/ESFJ (PERSONALITY TYPE) ARE EVIL, MANIPULATIVE, FILLED WITH HATE, AND ARE ENABLING HELL SPAWN!!!
      THERE IS NO HEAVEN FOR YOU! YOU KNOW IT AS YOU ARE POSSESSED AND YOU KNOW THAT YOUR SPIRIT IS DAMNED!
      YOU DESERVE TO BE EMOTIONALLY-DISTURBED FOREVER!!! FRICKEN CANNIBALISTIC, MISCHIEVOUS SNAKE IN HUMAN CLOTHING!

    • @mxparanoia7434
      @mxparanoia7434 2 года назад

      They're technically not even abnormal pathology narcissism and sociopathy is normal everyone else are the ones who are abnormal

    • @erin9243
      @erin9243 2 года назад +3

      They are evil

    • @mxparanoia7434
      @mxparanoia7434 2 года назад +8

      @@erin9243 good and evil are subjective social constructs there's a time and place for morals and ethics

    • @Alex-bl8uh
      @Alex-bl8uh 2 года назад +4

      they suffer, because they are evil. So having much compassion for them could lead into thinking that they arent so dangerous. They are.

  • @trinitybug
    @trinitybug 2 года назад +75

    narcissist here, if anyone sees this i hope you understand that not every narcissist wants to be narcissistic or is exactly content with it (with obvious exceptions.) my bestfriend is also a narcissist and they are in no way a bad person. im not a bad person either, i don't seek to hurt or put others down. a common belief is that narcissists don't care about anyone else but themselves, this isn't always true, especially in my case. i do care deeply for my loved ones and so does my bestfriend.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +7

    • @cotovantre
      @cotovantre 2 года назад +32

      Just want to say.. there is a difference between being an actual narcissist and someone who just has narcissistic tendencies.
      Actual disordered narcissists will ALWAYS hurt and bring others down because they are incapable of looking within themselves and have to do something, everything, to keep up their unstable false narrative of being superior and special.
      its.. even worse when they are covert narcissists. they look like the most harmless, and sometimes nicest people -- who were just wounded somehow from a bad childhood. only to having the biggest patience in completely destroying you and making you think you were the cause of it.
      if you can care about other people sometimes, more than you can care about yourself, you might just have some of the attributes of one. though i don't want to assume
      it.. just upsets me when there are others (not speaking of you specifically) who so largely undermine just how much trauma a narcissist can cause to someone.. and take their side, when thats the very thing they want people to do while continuing their agendas of harming even more people and thinking there is nothing wrong with it. 😔

    • @trinitybug
      @trinitybug 2 года назад +15

      i should have mentioned that ive been professionally diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, so i don't just have tendencies. i think you should be careful how you use the term "always" because it's a generalization. i don't think you can put all narcissists in the same box. i do care about people, but i care about myself more. yes that's selfish and not a good thing, but it's my mindset and ill never be able to change it. a lot of narcissists don't want to hurt people, but when push comes to shove we put ourselves first. if someone is in the way and gets stepped on that's just how it is. i know how that sounds. im sorry if you've been hurt by a narcissist in the past, i can imagine it wasn't easy. narcissists can cause a lot of trauma and im trying to undermine that, but it's false to assume it's always that way.

    • @cotovantre
      @cotovantre 2 года назад +6

      @@trinitybug you're right, im sorry for generalizing like that. it was my fault at the time to not realize what was happening, and i could have prevented it. i thought i learned enough and was over it, but i guess not, and ended up giving you a polarizing response

    • @trinitybug
      @trinitybug 2 года назад +5

      @@cotovantre its all good, no hard feelings. im glad we can be civil about it

  • @avidhossanmansur9830
    @avidhossanmansur9830 2 года назад +12

    Both Narcissism and psychopathy are part of that dark triad of traits. These 3 are similar and people who show one usually also show the other two either blatantly or mildly.
    Sociopathy is more or less learned psychopathy. So understanding one is important to understanding the other.
    In simple terms,
    Narcissism is an abnormally high sense of self-worth and the willingness to prioritize self-satisfaction before all else.
    Psychopathy is a plane absence of empathy. True psychopaths don't even have a sense of empathy for themselves so they tend to do things regardless of the consequences, however dire they may be!
    And for my fellow psychology nerds here are the details,
    What Is the Dark Triad?
    It refers to three distinct but related personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy.
    Narcissism: narcissism comes from the Greek myth of Narcissus, a hunter who fell in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, and drowned. Narcissistic people can be selfish, boastful, arrogant, lacking in empathy, and hypersensitive to criticism.
    Machiavellianism: the word comes from the renowned 16th-century Italian politician and diplomat Niccolo Machiavelli. He earned notoriety when his 1513 book, "The Prince," was interpreted as an endorsement of the dark arts of cunning and deceit in diplomacy. Traits associated with Machiavellianism include duplicity, manipulation, self-interest, and a lack of both emotion and morality.
    Psychopathy: personality traits associated with psychopathy include a lack of empathy or remorse, antisocial behaviour, and being manipulative and volatile. It's important to note that there is a distinction between psychopathic traits and being a psychopath, with its commonly held association with criminal violence.
    How to Identify Dark Triad Traits
    Traditionally, psychologists have identified Dark Triad traits by measuring different personality types separately.
    However, in 2010, Dr Peter Jonason, then assistant professor of psychology at the University of Western Florida, and his co-author, Gregory Webster, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Florida, developed the "Dirty Dozen" rating scale, or a 12-item methodology, to measure Dark Triad traits.
    Jonason and Webster's measure asks people to rate themselves against these questions:
    1. They tend to manipulate others to get my way.
    2. They have used deceit or lied to get my way.
    3. They have used flattery to get my way.
    4. They tend to exploit others towards my own end.
    5. They tend to lack remorse.
    6. They tend to not be too concerned with morality or the morality of my actions.
    7., They tend to be callous or insensitive.
    8. They tend to be cynical.
    9. They tend to want others to admire me.
    10 They tend to want others to pay attention to me.
    11. They tend to seek prestige or status.
    12. They tend to expect special favours from others.

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    • @mutantpoptart8060
      @mutantpoptart8060 2 года назад +1

      Yet another fine example of reading books doesn't mean you are knowledgeable.
      You're an educated idiot, get some life experience and go actually meet people diagnosed by real professionals with these issues.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)._ These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      Sounds like classic 'ESFJ', ESFP/ISFP (yes, all ISFP, behind the mask are full of pathological HATE; they are sociopaths).

  • @mbuszka5295
    @mbuszka5295 2 года назад +13

    1:02 It is funny, that sociopathy is considered *emotional* , where that is root of ASPD person problem. I get it, but still is funny. 😉

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)_. These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @imiqar2607
      @imiqar2607 2 года назад

      In this case, it's cluster B as a whole. You can spot overly emotional and dramatic behaviors most likely in HPD and NPD people. ASPD people are cold and calculated most of the time.

    • @mbuszka5295
      @mbuszka5295 2 года назад

      @@imiqar2607 Yeah, I know, but this is funny. 😉

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад

      Can you please elaborate?

    • @mbuszka5295
      @mbuszka5295 2 года назад

      @@Psych2go I ment, with psychopath amygdala deformation, malformation of the frontotemporal lobe, theta waves influencing brain drive to inability of comprehending emotions on that 'emotional' level, focusing rather on pure 'intelectual filter', that let them get basics, but not FEELING behind it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Summing up, EMOTIONS and inability to their comprehending is what makes psychopaths forming their own 'law code'. As starting from, fe. BONDS, they get definition, but words including that definition is for them ALREADY something else. 🤷🏻‍♀️ As if trying to explain someone who never felt, or saw it, what fire is. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Cortisol lacks also drive, as much as amygdala deformation, to inability of stress control and easy rage fits, especially with men, where testosterone is since start, of course, higher. With cortisol, however, it is also proven, sociopaths, or long-term-substance-users(especially alcoholics) has problem. So, level of cortisol is low in their body, making them unable to 'rebuild it' for some reason... Which makes them also less resistant to stress. And so, easier falling to rage. Which, again, makes EMOTION CONTROL INABILITY as true root of their problems.
      You can think, why I mention 'long substance users' - funny fact. Adrian Raine in Psychopathy: An Introduction to Biological Findings and Their Implications shows, that frontal lobe of psychopath and long-substance-user is similar. Like frontaltemporal dementia, that involve behavioural problems, similar in effects to psychopathy. Also there are illnesses, that can make person 'pseudopsychopathic'(ICD10 F07.0 - characteropathy), too, for example epilepsy, involving brain waves instability, especially when leasions appear in frontal lobe it leads to bigger and bigger character influence. But to focuse on meritum.
      Narcissist are also slaves of their emotions. You can say 'like everyone', but narcissist, or histrionic person makes desperate TRIES to bond with others, paradoxally, at first stage of their problem, looking - through not voicing it - for help in others. WE see them as deeply selfish, but THEY see themselves as victims of their inability to be understood, as their ability to UNDERSTAND OTHERS EMOTIONS(and very much their own) leads them to look for radical ways of making people STAYING with them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Narcissists lacks trill, which makes me question their 'theta waves influence of brain'. However BPD and histrionics are still unable to understand others emotions, they go into desperate way of clinging to subject of THEIR affection. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      As longing to bond, but unable to, they DESPERATELY cling to THEIR side of bond. Focussing on themselves, histrionics and BPDs gets many narcissistic traits, as it help them to cope with being NOT understood, in their narration. THEY did nothing wrong. Which, again, makes me curious of 'waves influence', as it makes psychopath in state of constant dull state and 'trill need'. If we think over possibility of Cluster B as 'level of staying human', one can lead to another. But no one who was not BORN IT, can be on level of psychopath dehumanization. Even if NOT many of them ends commiting flashy crimes, they end blending in, using society to their pleasure, but NOT falling into troubles, or learning to bypass them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Psychopaths, since start are 'sentenced' to this because of their anatomy 'differences'. But sociopaths, narcissists and histrionics, BPD, people... Are born 'like everyone'. Substance overuse can be easy explanation to SOME effects, as if stress level comparing to cortisol was problem, stress leading to looking for WAYS of SOLVING problems and some chosing SUBSTANCE for it, that leads to pseudopsychopathy deformations in part of brain responsible for emotions, which leads to inability of controlling them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      So, I think brain becomming DULL to emotions is root if Cluster B personality... And as sociopathy is last, unreachable step of non-neurologically-ill person, from psychopathy, I think it is making emotionally dull person, often looking for trill in 'substances', 'crimes', stress influenced, narcissistic, probably theta waves involved, no longer able to fully COMPREHEND what emotions are...
      Considered emotional. 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Which makes it funny for me. 😉

  • @keops4841
    @keops4841 2 года назад +48

    Honestly I’ve always wondered if I’m a sociopath , looking at the symptoms I guess I’m not but I’m close I am extremely manipulative but I do feel empathy for others , I have extreme difficulty to build a trust based relationship ( that goes bothways , because my lies are so well made that nobody ever finds out and trusts me ). On the other hand I do know my actions are wrong but I ignore the fact that they are . I’m also feeling a lot of hate towards a lot of people including me . I promess you it is very tiring to feel hate for the world all the time , anger produces cortisol and the brain takes hours to recycle it even if it’s produced it a few minutes , and I’m constantly angry and sad even if I act happy with people because I know that is what they want/ need to see . I use to be a violent kid whenever I saw something unjust I went directly to the fists even if me doing so was worse than the actual injustice but past the age of around 10 I grew smarter and I internalized the violence and the hate . I recognized it was essential to live in society but I feel like it only grew destroying me from the inside . Like for many people, seeing the modern World evolve is depressing but I don’t even feel depressed , I feel numb like I’m already dead and empty inside . Sometimes I think or dream of extremely radical things but I don’t know if I am to smart or to much of a coward to act. I wish I didn’t hate so much things and I had more love to give to the world but I don’t , I’m exhausted of pretending and seeing that me and other people will get rewarded for doing the wrong things and get away with it , I wish every one could suffer equally . Or maybe I just wish I would suffer more. I saw a therapist that told me one time that I had a tendency to hyperprojection in my thinking and he is definitely right . People go by their daily life ignoring all of the absolutely insane and twisted things about their existence or the world that surround themselves I’ve read somewhere that the ability to ignore is vital to humans like we ignore they ignore criminals in their families , the dying people in the streets the suffering of others around them or across the globe , the injustice anchored in our socio-economical systems and the global lack of sense of our existence that leads to a constant struggle to find your own way of life . Most people just ignore all of that and realize again when they’re 45 having their midlife crisis . How is it that I can’t ignore , how is it possible that thinking about the fact that I will die and diseapear and stop feeling and thinking forever makes me hyperanxious to the point my body physically reacts with a rush of adrenaline ? I feel like my mind is built in the wrong way and sometimes I’m afraid of what I could do with if I had no morals , and my sense of morality is fading slowly day after day . I feel stuck between the hammer and the anvil , between my anger for others and my fear and disgust of myself and the world . I have been working on my physical shape because I believe it impacts mental health but I don’t know if I am beyond help . Maybe one day I will wake up with no filters . In a way I kind of wish I will and I don’t know if I am already beyond help.

    • @heliak4042
      @heliak4042 2 года назад +11

      I wanted to say thank you for your honesty in your comment
      And I want you to know It's okay
      It's okay if you are angry
      And even though I'm not an expert
      I do know how destructive and harmful it is to hold into anger and hate towards yourself and others for so long... I know when you're numb and empty you feel like you're missing something important
      like you're floating and there's nothing to help you or nothing to reach out to...
      I just hope you find the right people to help you and more importantly, understand you
      And even if you don't
      Just remember it's okay not to be okay

    • @Such.is.life.of.an.adventurer
      @Such.is.life.of.an.adventurer 2 года назад +6

      Idk you might just be an Infj 😅
      🦋🕸🦋🕸🦋🕸🦋🕸🦋🕸🦋🕸🦋
      But if for reals though… if you’re actually manipulative and all that negative stuff then you’re doing more than enough firstly recognising your mistakes. Your negativity towards society is valid, it’s ok to feel the way you feel, just like the storm in the sea it will pass. Maybe you’re surrounded with people who expect from you perfection all the time or people who provoke you to internalise their negative feelings and you end up externalising those feelings as yours and that tires you out, makes you feel numb. It’s really good to go seek therapy, it benefits your mental health. It’s hard to not see the negative aspects of life and not yo project and he negativity onto others but it’s possible, recognising all that is a first step towards mental health, soon you will feel better. Remember that you’re not alone and there are other people who will be there for you, either a stranger or someone you know. There is equally good and the bad in the world, a constant battle between then two.
      You’re not perfect, no one is perfect, and that’s ok, that’s just how life is, life is a rainbow of colours and shaders.
      I wish you all the best in fighting off all your daemons, one day you’ll look back at what you once were and what you’re now and see for yourself what a long path of recovery you walked, you will see how strong you are now and how strong you will get in the future.
      You’re not broken beyond repair, your feelings are valid.
      You chose to fight so do not stop now in fighting your daemons.
      Consider your negative side as a mountain, and your true self as the one who’s climbing that mountain, on top of that mountain are your goals, your inner peace, you already climbed a half way trough it, don’t stop there, the goal is half way there.
      🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺
      I hope you’ll find your happiness in this world.
      Since the negative aspects of society makes you negative, you should maybe spend more time in nature, nature does wonders to ones mind, it releases you from societal pressures, anxiety and the negativity of it all.
      🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾
      You’re not your past, you’re your future.
      Live your life to the fullest. Find ways to heal and then help others.
      By the way, we ignore certain negative aspects of the world because we know it’s out of our control. We can’t fix something that’s out of our control. So we just take care of things that we can control, and most of the time it’s us, we can fix our behaviour, we can fix other peoples behaviour, but both requires a lot of effort. We can’t help someone if they don’t want to be helped. 🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁
      (Sorry for the long rant, it was much longer than intended to be) 😅
      🤘(Hope my rant helped just a little bit)🤘

    • @Spookfishspecter
      @Spookfishspecter 2 года назад +8

      Hi, someone diagnosed with anxiety and depression speaking.
      This is just my experience, but depression isn't really just constant sadness like it's often thought to be or portrayed as. Aside from just lingering around with me, after a build up of lots and lots of anxiety, I eventually break and have bad depressive episodes, once so bad I didn't feel the energy to get out of the bathtub.
      Depression is often, aside from sadness, feeling nothing, feeling numb and/or angry, lashing out and such.
      I don't think that that's all that's going on though. Please seek mental help, I know it can be scary and frustrating sometimes, but even just writing in a journal or talking about your day with a therapist can be helpful. :)

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae 2 года назад

      @@Spookfishspecter, it appeared to be a blatantly obvious joke to me.

    • @Spookfishspecter
      @Spookfishspecter 2 года назад +1

      @@LaciRae oh, jeez, sorry. I have no clue how I didn't pick up on that at first lol

  • @arroyobaby38
    @arroyobaby38 2 года назад +1

    My mother and brother are Narcissistic. My sisters are Socipaths. I broke up with my family 2 weeks ago and feel GREAT!!

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +1

      Woah. Hope you're ok, and watch out for your own mental health and behavior, seems like your biological family is cluster b genetically so it might affect you as well

  • @jordancarrillo5744
    @jordancarrillo5744 2 года назад +1

    Shame without guilt vs without Shame or guilt

  • @WonderlandAdventure
    @WonderlandAdventure 3 месяца назад

    I really appreciate and like your videos. My partner is physically and mentally abusive, I don’t know whether he is a narcissist or sociopath and it’s not my place to diagnose anyone but he is not well and he’s very cruel and explosive. I feel like there is not much that can be done to help, I have made him go to therapy and agression support but it hasn’t changed anything, ultimately some people are so unwell that they believe deep down that the person deserves it. I wish it was so easy that just getting professional help could change someone but that just isn’t the case with certain things. If your partner is displaying any of these traits do not try to change them or get them help, just remove yourself from the situation. I wish I had done that the first moment they displayed manipulative and aggressive behaviour, rather than believe they could change.

  • @phillipjakediaz9783
    @phillipjakediaz9783 2 года назад +2

    Both NPD and ASPD has Cluster B personality disorder.

  • @YoutuberGrudge
    @YoutuberGrudge 2 года назад +10

    My husband had severe PTSD but also killed a lot of people, both in war and not. He was never diagnosed with anything other than PTSD, he would do everything to manipulate people. He admitted to this quite often to me, but he loved his kids with intensity of 1000 suns.
    But he made all of his spouses depressed to the point of suicide while at the same time telling them they were Gods amongst humans. I guess he was just toxic. I miss him though. But I also had to make a very hard choice after seeing his brain scans.
    I hope never to make that choice ever again.
    I consulted doctors, nurses, his surgeon, everyone I could think of to tell me what they thought. If there was a way to save his life, they had no idea how to do it.
    Severe swelling had happened and I had only 20mins of sleep over 48hours. I couldn't have made my decision on my own. But his family agreed: I made the right choice. Most of them were there, with only 2 exceptions. They were delayed because of snow. But most of them were there.
    I miss him and still love him to this day.
    I've always made hard decisions with enough information to do so. It doesn't make it any easier but at least I was informed.

    • @imiqar2607
      @imiqar2607 2 года назад

      PTSD is post traumatic stress disorder, wrong address

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +3

      If you're implying what I think you are... Well done! 😐👍🏾 You're a model human being with genuine HUMANITY for the well-being of other [real] humans. Your intelligence and emotional-empathy is a rarity these days. Good job and God bless. 🙏🏾

    • @YoutuberGrudge
      @YoutuberGrudge 2 года назад

      @@Human_01 thank you

    • @YoutuberGrudge
      @YoutuberGrudge 2 года назад

      @@Human_01 I wouldn't say that about myself but, knowing you know little about things is a sign of intelligence. I can swear like a sailor but when pressed, I spoke in a fashion that had a lot of big words. They got pretty sick of me doing that so I was then allowed to swear 😆

  • @SuperBlessedKing
    @SuperBlessedKing 2 года назад +18

    This is my favorite RUclips channel, because the videos are always very informative and insightful. The intellectual content is excellent.
    ❤️

    • @joywilliams8345
      @joywilliams8345 2 года назад

      @✛2348110501742❤️≧﹏≦适合香港,香港很好

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад

      Appreciate that

  • @thatskyhalo
    @thatskyhalo 2 года назад +8

    I’m sorry but some people in this comment section are frustrating me,,,, everyone wants to act like they’re so “pro mental health🥰🥺” until it’s not depression or anxiety. and no, being a bad/abusive person is not the same as having aspd or npd. not all “bad people” have cluster B disorders and most ppl with said disorders aren’t bad.
    I’m so sorry if you have experienced abuse by someone with one of these disorders, but it’s not an excuse to deem everyone struggling with it as inherently evil (which is a stereotype that has been inflated and exploited by the media).
    other traits of aspd in particular are alexithymia (difficulty identifying and expressing emotions), chronic boredom (anhedonia), feeling trapped when following rules, being scared to accidentally hurt someone, having a hard time understanding others, and lack of awareness of their own safety (recklessness, masochism, etc.)
    PLEASE stop demonizing mental health issues, I promise you what thriller movies have been feeding you isn’t correct.
    edit: and before anyone says I “just haven’t met one” you should know that one of my closest friends has both npd and aspd,,, and she is decidedly less toxic than all the self proclaimed empaths I’ve met :)
    another edit: most ‘narcissists’ and ‘sociopaths’ couldn’t seek help even if they wanted to, as a diagnosis creates a lot of bias and prejudice against them which results in doctors and therapists refusing to take them on, being fired + ppl refusing to hire them, and even being kicked out of their living spaces.

    • @NotALotOfColonial_SpaghettiToG
      @NotALotOfColonial_SpaghettiToG Год назад +3

      BOOSTING THIS. NPD can come off so similarly to C-PTSD it's not even funny. Both B-clusters in this video start as a child's coping mechanisms in response to severe abuse. Yes, people with unmanaged personality disorders are dangerous. The same can be said for people with unmanaged C-PTSD. It's insane how armchair diagnoses for B-clusters are so common. They're used almost exclusively to dehumanize. It's much easier to tell someone that the person who abused them is some sick bogeyman with NPD or ASPD than it is to tell them it was a human being an asshole due to trauma. Being abusive in any situation is awful, but diagnoses become meaningless when everyone who ever hurt you is now a narcissist.

    • @thatskyhalo
      @thatskyhalo Год назад

      @@NotALotOfColonial_SpaghettiToG yes!! exactly this

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +1

      ​​@@LentilSoupGirl nope, those aren't exceptions. Cluster B people who are normal is a fairly common thing. Seriously, your and some other comments are perfect examples of demonizing disorders/illnesses.

    • @LentilSoupGirl
      @LentilSoupGirl 4 месяца назад

      @@ekaterinaobraztsova4631 sorry, i was quite mentally unwell at that time. I'll delete that comment. My intention is never to demonise anyone genuinely struggling.
      I haven't met many people w cluster b pds so I can't agree or deny. :> tho I'd say that just looking at the symptoms, these PDs are highly dysfunctional and thus the prejudice. Again, i haven't met a lot of them so i can't ssy anything for sure.
      But as someone who often feels like they have undiagnosed BPD, i am indeed a very messed up person, but so are the "normal" people who made me this way so 🤷 disorder ≠ abusive.

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 Месяц назад

      ​@@LentilSoupGirlIt's ok, I'm very glad that you understood! Polite people on the internet are quite rare...
      I'm trying to get into psychology/psychiatry, so I'm against bias and prejudice towards any disorders/illness, and it's nice to see someone understand that conditions do not necessarily define who you are.
      Btw, I suspect myself to have borderline pd too (that's one of the main reasons I got here, I'm trying to understand how other cluster Bs feel) so I definitely get where you're coming from. I have a feeling I also got an anger episode when I wrote that reply, so again it's ok. Wish you all the best ^^

  • @MortusSweet
    @MortusSweet Год назад +5

    Sociopath here. I kind of revel in being infamous, lmao. Ugh, horrible.
    Yes, I have had substance abuse issues in my past, I feel no remorse in hurting those I deem less than me, I follow rules and laws that I consider logical but will skirt those if they seem stupid (rules more than laws because I understand the ramifications of law breaking), I’m extremely impulsive, and in the past was abusive to my partners (mentally) to get what I want. The last one is the most horrible to me, and one I actively don’t do. I’ve taken up blunt honesty because it’s easier to me and easier to navigate.
    The thought of hurting my loved one (I only have 1 close person to me and keep others away for fear of being hurt) sickens me, so I try hard to be as emotionally receptive and caring as possible.
    I used to not understand myself and the way my brain works and get angry all of the time. But now I understand more, and while it’s an undesirable trait I have peace with the fact I do know what I wrong with me.
    Funny thing is, I work with a narcissist and I can see the clear differences between him and me. He craves attention, no matter how. He will actually create chaos to be in the center of it. Of course he wants positive attention but will take anything. His ego is bigger than mine (which is impressive in a way), so he believes he knows everything and is better than most people. He feels no empathy, and manipulates people he can control. He only makes his own rules, and rises to anger quickly when he feels slighted against.
    I feel like the biggest difference between him and me is the way he controls people and just NEEDS that spotlight. It’s much too messy in my opinion. I find attention from others annoying if I don’t feel like it’s authentic, or I don’t want it at that time.
    All that being said, I mostly like myself. And I revel in the chaos he brings, lol. It’s enjoyable to watch.

    • @st4yclutch391
      @st4yclutch391 Год назад

      Your not a sociopath 💀

    • @MortusSweet
      @MortusSweet Год назад +4

      @@st4yclutch391 why thank you doctor, I’ll make sure to tell my doctor and therapist the update!

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +1

      Reading the last bit... You guys basically found each other X)
      Being serious tho, I really appreciate the fact that you're so honest about this stuff. Gives more insight into the disorder. I hope you will live a normal life and won't let your illness hurt you and people around you

    • @DixonCider-lx3cq
      @DixonCider-lx3cq 4 месяца назад

      I’m a narcissist, nice to meet you

  • @zackury
    @zackury Месяц назад

    I was so confused because my father hits both disorders and I think I just realized he is most likely "Narcissistic Sociopath" which is rare but still exists.... I don't think he can be helped

  • @deegeraghty9426
    @deegeraghty9426 2 года назад

    Here in UK, we call sociopaths 'psychopaths', hence Alfred Hitchcock's film 'Psycho'.
    We call narcissists, narcissists, or 'self-centred' people. Thanks for video.

  • @user-dc6wz4dv3l
    @user-dc6wz4dv3l 4 месяца назад

    The biggest mistake a narcissist makes us thinking they have the upper hand with a sociopath because the sociopath is blatantly a sociopath with pride even. Look at me I'm a sociopath. So narcissist who plays hide and seek like a boss thinks Mr sociopath is stupid.They let down their guard and sociopath bit by bit exposes the narcissist which is their worst nightmare and the sociopath's only wish all along. Meanwhile the sociopath deconstructs everything they enjoyed about the narcissist making them feel abandoned again in return.

  • @AllenM.Ponsen
    @AllenM.Ponsen 2 года назад +4

    This girl at work kept flirting with me until I asked her out. Turns out shes a sociopath. We dated a few weeks then I had to dump her when I found out she was cheating on me with multiple other guys.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)._ These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @kambuityehimba140
      @kambuityehimba140 2 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear that dude stay strong

    • @k-onenthusiast5234
      @k-onenthusiast5234 2 года назад +4

      Was she diagnosed?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear...

  • @Minneolaos
    @Minneolaos 7 месяцев назад

    It's almost impossible for a layperson to differentiate them. Narcissists are sociopathic and sociopaths are narcissistic. A person doing the differential diagnosis needs a lot of experience.

  • @PaulTheSkeptic
    @PaulTheSkeptic 11 месяцев назад +1

    So, would it be fair to say it's a matter of severity? Narcissism is named after the myth so it's only natural for us to emphasize the self aggrandizement but I really think all of that come down to a lack of empathy. People who empathize don't think they're better than everyone else. When I Googled this, Google said narcissists are probably not dangerous, implying that sociopaths are generally going to be criminals. But that could be upbringing, environment or other personal factors. I'm not expert but I have had some experience with narcissism, unfortunately. And it really all seems to come down to that one thing. A lack of empathy. Dr. Ramini calls it a rigid behavioral pattern. Which seems to me when you don't want to say "incurable" but that's the gist of it. It can be treated and perhaps mitigated but never ended. And that implies that it might be a malfunction. As one researcher put it, all these mental disorders come down to mechanisms in the brain. For example, a brain scan of someone suffering from anxiety reveals an overactive fear center. And all these centers of the brain can be overactive or underactive and that's what leads to all these mental disorders. It seems to make sense but I rarely hear people talking about it.

    • @LentilSoupGirl
      @LentilSoupGirl 10 месяцев назад

      I agree. Also, conscience. No matter how messed up a person is, if they have conscience and empathy and are trying to change and not hurt people, i can totally understand that.

  • @kuitaranheatmorus9932
    @kuitaranheatmorus9932 2 года назад +2

    This video was another pretty interesting and helpful one

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Glad you think so!

  • @happycamper6298
    @happycamper6298 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this good work!
    I wish that this video had been available to me when I learned that my wasband was diagnosed with ASPD. I did not know what ASPD meant and assumed that the more common, non clinical definition of antisocial applied. I could have made better choices for my son and I if I had been better informed. While that is certainly on me, I just wanted to say thank you for this, for people in a similar boat now and in the future.

  • @heyu123
    @heyu123 2 года назад +2

    I met this person who’s a therapist but I can’t help but feel she has NPD.

  • @gigia5904
    @gigia5904 2 года назад +3

    Please make more videos on NPD. Thank you! 💝🌷

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  19 дней назад

      We have made many more. Did you get a chance to watch it since 2 years?

  • @danNo_nin0
    @danNo_nin0 2 года назад +3

    As someone who suffered from narcissistic abuse, I struggle a lot viewing these vampires as actual human beings and I´m pretty sure people who have been through this know what I mean. There´s absolutely nothing human in these predators. I know my comment comes from my own subjectivity, but still, I strongly believe they´re pure EVIL and don´t deserve nothing good from others.

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 4 месяца назад +1

      ​​@@LentilSoupGirl No, they're not exceptions. Being a decent person is a requirement to live in our society and people with high functioning cluster B disorders fit into it quite well. What you two wrote here is demonizing mental illnes.

    • @LentilSoupGirl
      @LentilSoupGirl 4 месяца назад

      @@ekaterinaobraztsova4631 again, I'll delete the comment!
      What i mean is "narcissists" and not "a person with NPD. " have a nice day. :)

    • @ekaterinaobraztsova4631
      @ekaterinaobraztsova4631 Месяц назад

      Yeah, I came here again and noticed​ that. You too! @@LentilSoupGirl

  • @DrDre-nj9cq
    @DrDre-nj9cq Год назад +1

    I would say fairly accurate. Neither would really go to therapy.
    I know someone that could classify as ASPD, and his issue is anxiety.

    • @tsst2848
      @tsst2848 Год назад +1

      I saw one of your comments in a psychopath Subliminal.

  • @MM-qg5xh
    @MM-qg5xh 2 года назад +12

    Every psychopath is a narcissist, but not every narcissist is a psychopath.

    • @TheManOfTomorrow
      @TheManOfTomorrow 2 года назад

      No. It's a delusion that Psychopaths have narcissist behaviour. They have a huge amount of nihilism. And nihilists can't be narcissists.
      You should say Sociopath instead of Psychopath.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      Narcissits are more covert with their psychopathy!
      Sure, not every spy is an assassin but when the spy eliminates its target, they become an assassin!
      Point is, psychopath is a VERB! Narcissists and psychopaths are same thing! Never listen to their venomous lies!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Really?

    • @MM-qg5xh
      @MM-qg5xh 2 года назад

      @@Psych2go yes I heared that from Dr. Ramani but from my experience the part of narcissism in psychopath is different cause they really don't care how people view them they only care about that to be able to fool them but they don't need any validation and they don't have fragile egos, and of course above that there is the psychopathy layer of absolute lack of empathy or remorse and love to hurt others that's what makes them absolutely evil, but yes they are entitled, they gaslight, they future fake, they abuse, they manipulate they use all narcissists tactics but for different purpose, it's not for their fragile ego, it's for their profit and interest and love of power and control and hurting people.

    • @mr.makedonija2627
      @mr.makedonija2627 Год назад +1

      WRONG!

  • @Twinkie989
    @Twinkie989 9 месяцев назад

    I think professionals shouldn't give up on these people, but the rest of us do not have to remember they are people. Yes, they are humans, but they are humans whose diagnostic criteria specifies they must be interpersonally exploitative. Their rights end where other's rights begin.

  • @curiositykilledthecat5118
    @curiositykilledthecat5118 2 года назад +3

    This actually helped. I have a friend who admits to being diagnosed with sociopathy and behaves like someone with NPD. It makes more sense now since many of the symptoms overlap.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      Stop being friends with them. 😐

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)._ These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @curiositykilledthecat5118
      @curiositykilledthecat5118 2 года назад +3

      @@Human_01 I have set my own boundaries as to how much I engage. I don't think.its fair to just unfriend them, rather it makes more sense for me to know when not to play into the b.s.

    • @Alex-bl8uh
      @Alex-bl8uh 2 года назад +1

      @@curiositykilledthecat5118 they are only your friend to gain from you. do you really want to be used as a tool?

    • @mutantpoptart8060
      @mutantpoptart8060 2 года назад

      @@Human_01 I say this with all sincerity... you, yourself are either a sociopath, or human garbage.

  • @julianlahoy263
    @julianlahoy263 2 года назад +1

    I should probably go to a psychiatrist to see if I’m diagnosed with ASPD

  • @thereddemon4117
    @thereddemon4117 2 года назад +2

    What makes narcissistic sociopaths different from other narcissists and other sociopaths?

  • @redwardranger7034
    @redwardranger7034 2 года назад +13

    This videos are really helpful. It helped me differentiate what a psychopath, sociopath and narcissist is. It also helped me in correcting people close to me about how they associate those terms, as they do tend to just call someone psychopath just because they can. And yes, that sentence may sound narcissistic, but I am more of a sociopath.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      Glad we helped!

    • @redwardranger7034
      @redwardranger7034 2 года назад

      @@Psych2go I guess I didn't said it above, bit thank you.

  • @dawntrottman1421
    @dawntrottman1421 2 года назад +5

    First, I LOVE this channel. I hated psychology in high school, partly because I had to take it. It made no sense to me back then (1985.)
    Secondly, can a person have both NPS & ASPD? A friend of mine has nearly every trait of both, along with PTSD. He even admits he's a mental wreck. If he has either disorder, it would explain why he says that.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2

      Thank you Dawn! That's a really good question actually. This article might be of interest: www.verywellmind.com/understanding-the-narcissistic-sociopath-4587611
      Did you want to check it out?

  • @choclatesaltyballz
    @choclatesaltyballz 2 года назад +2

    Older brother. 3 years older. Aggressive narcissist. Ruined every aspect of my life. If we were the same age and size he would have shut his mouth and left me alone. End of the day. Aggressive narcissist bully

  • @lindaspiess3545
    @lindaspiess3545 2 года назад +7

    There is 0% success rate for therapy helping people with narcissistic personality disorder. May feel sorry for them, but you are wasting your time if you are staying in the relationship because they have promised to go to therapy. Never, ever heard of that making one bit of difference, but you will be scapegoated during their therapy session, !00% sure of that! And, since health care professionals knows so little about the disorder, they may not even realize they are dealing with someone who has this disorder. NEVER, EVER go to couple's therapy with a person like this. They are just looking for more buttons to push, more ways to manipulate, and listening to you talk in therapy gives them so much information to torture you with! PSYCH2GO, usually you are pretty good with helpful advice, but saying these people are humans too really misses the point. If you think the person is a narcissist or psychopath, RUN! You cannot help them, no one can help them, and you are in great danger!

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 Год назад +1

      Yeah, agreed. I hope no victim attempts to put up with this, or try to play hero thinking everything will be better soon....

  • @andrewa2646
    @andrewa2646 2 года назад +3

    Are the comparisons the same for both grandiose and vulnerable narcissistic personality disorder?

  • @CenteredCircles
    @CenteredCircles 11 месяцев назад

    100. Your videos has helped me alot. Thank you.🙏🏻

  • @BowbOw344
    @BowbOw344 2 года назад +1

    Its 2 am and I'm awake so here I am

  • @PsychToLight
    @PsychToLight 2 года назад +9

    If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist or sociopath, it may be a dangerous situation for you. Getting these people to seek treatment is challenging because they won’t admit anything is wrong with them. Getting treatment for yourself can be beneficial in helping you learn how to cope with these difficult personalities or how to walk away before it’s too late.

    • @entpsshadow4455
      @entpsshadow4455 2 года назад

      "these people" lol whatever that means

    • @mrpandasian8871
      @mrpandasian8871 2 года назад +3

      What happens when a sociopath meets a narcisist?

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)._ These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      Agreed.
      Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
      European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
      The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
      ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
      SUMMARY:
      Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
      [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP.
      ☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
      Spread the word! Thank you.
      ___________
      #Save_Soil

    • @entpsshadow4455
      @entpsshadow4455 2 года назад

      @@Human_01 lol

  • @joltheosas9565
    @joltheosas9565 Год назад +1

    Why is your voice so good

  • @lodgewolf1732
    @lodgewolf1732 2 года назад +1

    I love this Chanel it has helped me a lot thank you !!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад

      Happy to hear that!

  • @pt_cruiser5131
    @pt_cruiser5131 2 года назад +3

    First
    Great video, keep it up!

  • @iamjohn9533
    @iamjohn9533 2 года назад +2

    Yeeeeey. please Psychopath next ❤️❤️❤️🥳

  • @victoriadaoana3055
    @victoriadaoana3055 11 месяцев назад +1

    What happened if the two person who have personality Disorder? The one has NPD and the other one 🕐 s SOCIOPATH.

  • @-N-O-V-A-
    @-N-O-V-A- 2 года назад +1

    I love it when I’m early

  • @faithwhite3175
    @faithwhite3175 3 месяца назад

    Still does not address Malignant Narcissist... A combo of both.

  • @neyushan
    @neyushan 2 года назад

    Well in the thumbnail there is no differences at any points, they both are lovelies, fantastics and wonderful cuties characters, love ur design

  • @LunarVixen
    @LunarVixen 2 года назад +2

    what if some one shows traits of Both. can they be both? there are plenty of of other disorders that coexist as co-morbidities ...

    • @NotALotOfColonial_SpaghettiToG
      @NotALotOfColonial_SpaghettiToG Год назад +1

      B-clusters often overlap. Someone diagnosed with one B-cluster often has traits of another, or they can have multiple at once.

  • @Bit-while_going
    @Bit-while_going Год назад +1

    Both are irrational. Hence why they are within the domain of psychology. One is oriented to other people, the other to himself.

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for the video, it's not as simple as saying one shows emotion while the other one lacks it.
    ~Tucker

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 2 года назад +1

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  • @sambamnoham9946
    @sambamnoham9946 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for the psychology lesson
    Psych to Go rules 👍🏼🧠👈🏼
    ShaloM 📜 ShaloM ✨

  • @musicalgal1992
    @musicalgal1992 4 месяца назад

    They're BOTH Dangerous! The ONLY Difference: Sociopaths make Narcissists look like the "Good Guys."

  • @helenpalonpon610
    @helenpalonpon610 2 года назад +1

    How About Machiavellianism

  • @SAM-dm5qg
    @SAM-dm5qg 8 месяцев назад

    Thank You For Sharing ❤

  • @gooberboi1237
    @gooberboi1237 2 года назад

    this was released at 1am for me

  • @DrDre-nj9cq
    @DrDre-nj9cq Год назад

    No praise seeking, no inferiority complex, no entitlement.

  • @MM-qg5xh
    @MM-qg5xh 2 года назад +8

    Psychopathy SHOULD be number one PRIORITY in scientific research, and scientific research funding, but alas that's not the case and I am livid that it is not the case. It is good to search for a cure for cancer and every other disease and do researches in order for people to live longer BUT what about making life worth living in the first place, happy life, good life, safe life a life without evil aka a life without psychopaths.

    • @Brxwn9
      @Brxwn9 2 года назад +3

      Just making sure you know that this video is about Sociopaths, not Psychopaths.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      Agreed.
      Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
      European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
      The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
      ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
      SUMMARY:
      Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
      [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP.
      ☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
      Spread the word! Thank you.
      ___________
      #Save_Soil

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)_. These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

    • @mxparanoia7434
      @mxparanoia7434 2 года назад +1

      You're wrong there actually psychopathy and sociopathy are normal human pathologies both are characterized by lack of empathy and dislike for rules well think back to the early humans where there were no rules and empathy for your prey got you hurt

    • @Scruffed
      @Scruffed 2 года назад +3

      There's plenty of people in the world who are neither sociopaths nor psychopaths nor narcissists and can still make your life hell, and no amount of psychological treatment or research will rid the world of people who are mean to you and others. Learning how to cope with that fact is a sign of maturity.

  • @georgcantor7172
    @georgcantor7172 2 года назад +3

    Neurologically, there is no difference between a psychopath and narcissist who lacks empathy, remorse, conscience and who is primed to get his/her emotional reward at all cost despite the social mores prohibiting this reward. The wiring defect in the brain is the same in both cases: a defect in the prefrontal lobe and its connection to the limbic system of the brain.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 2 года назад +1

      *COMPLICIT TO EVIL; HIGHLY CORRUPTIBLE PERSONALITY TYPES*
      ISFP and 'ESFP' (+ESFJ; Amber Heard) personality types are just as evil as narcissits! They are narcissit-friendly and have little control over their pointless mind - especially at the worst possible time! ESFP tend to be unapologetically stubborn-anything to avoid getting "upset" despite ALWAYS being 'emotionally-disturbed' (secretly; malicious-emotions is hidden just beneath the surface). They both unconsciously believe that other people exist to serve and be consumed by them-like a drug. All to balance the unstable chemicals in their brain responsible for emotions.
      The [ISFP] 'secrecy'/suspicious, introverted behaviour makes them try to remain convert - this manifests as a hidden [unintelligent] threat for other people later on (as when spotted and contacted by a narcissit, they will quickly comply as they have little emotional-resiliency and humanity).
      ISFP/ESFP embody what it means to be 'diabolically-unintelligent'! "Better you than me". A typical closet belief of the former. Worsened by ESFJ psychological-rape.
      Sad fact, Judas-Iscariot was definitely one of them (ISFP). His little humanity and small intelligence, resulted in the diabolical imbecile intentionally 'throwing Jesus under the bus' in a "moment of emotional vulnerability" (typical, whiney ISFP excuse) - only to end up regretting what he's done by the time he comes back to what little sanity he initially had. When I psychoanalyse this overgrown-fetus, I realize that he had a covert, malicious-jealousy complex, and was secretly emotionally-disturbed, and highly prone to 'oblivious-codependency' (look it up, that is classic ISFP psychology, which explains how r-tarded they really are. Education only helps them hide how intellectually-immature they really are).
      If your life was in danger, the more dire the situation is, you'd be better off making sure that the nearby ISFP/ESFP in the group is dead! This will maximize the likelihood of the group success/escape, as the ISFP cannot be trusted! They will likely do something r-tarded at the worst possible moment-getting themselves and everyone else killed (or the ISFP might panic and push a teammate under the bus as the ISFP feared getting sacrificed first- inexcusable, particularly since they ARE the threat, them and other narcissits _(ESFJ/ESFP are synonymous with cluster-b)_. These r-tards actually empower narcissits, especially during elections and for typically r-tarded reasons/motives).
      Anyway, ISFP/ESFP have little to no humanity (as an 'instinct'), and they are delusional [oblivious-codependent] and have difficulty understanding themselves (which says a lot about their intelligence), i.e. they have difficulty even recognizing their own emotions! Plus they often suppress it (too narcissitic to bother processing it). They really are walking, overgrown-fetuses- failed human beings! I bet Adam and especially Eve in the Bible were ISFP!
      They also typically have difficulty recognising evil and are often in relationships with narcissits! And then the ISFP will breed more victims into the toxic, tortuous relationship!

  • @BentleyBohemian_96
    @BentleyBohemian_96 2 года назад +1

    Ive been watching the channel and sharing my story
    Its only now that i see that im realising that i can be described as aspd for sure damn...
    I need to speak to my guy

  • @Grace-wo7mq
    @Grace-wo7mq 3 месяца назад

    hello I noticed that Wellness Lenses used your animation/video scene for a video 'difference between psychopaths sociopaths and narcissists' without giving any credits

  • @phillipjakediaz9783
    @phillipjakediaz9783 2 года назад +2

    Sociopath: BLUE
    Narcissist: PINK

  • @shellbell3356
    @shellbell3356 2 года назад +3

    This video helped quite a lot! I have a sociopathic friend and I often would refer to her as a narcissist ... I now know she is a sociopath, so that kinda helps. I'm never disappointed by your videos :D

  • @DrummerSwagger
    @DrummerSwagger 2 года назад +1

    Great animation

  • @whiteeye00__54
    @whiteeye00__54 2 года назад +2

    Patrick Bateman is shaking

  • @OmenAkumaru20223
    @OmenAkumaru20223 2 года назад

    The clearest example of both can be found in Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug & Cat Noir...
    Because Chloé Bourgeois, & her mother Audrey Bourgeois, are both examples of Narcissists.... While Gabriel Agreste, and his nephew, Félix Graham de Vanily are both examples of Sociopaths
    Also worth noting is that Lila Rossi is a prime example of a Psychopath, while Sabrina Raincomprix, because of her long exposure to Chloé's narcissism, is a prime example of a Co-dependant.

  • @latemporis5430
    @latemporis5430 2 года назад +3

    Luckily, I never met anyone like this. While they are still humans, no one is obligated to bear with them.

  • @JSp4wN
    @JSp4wN 2 года назад +1

    My ex wife is both. Dealt with her "flaws" for years and then when I got sick I was no longer "useful". 14 years down the drain and now she tries to leverage my disability/ illness against me.