I appreciate how Xavier explained his perception of Lande's beauty as a constant of reality, "a fact that we all know" and acknowledge like the sky is blue. It's a poignant reminder that because someone doesn't, perhaps, acknowledge our beauty as much as we'd like, it doesn't mean that they don't see us. Then again, it's also good that he's self-aware, realizing that he could make a practice of affirming her beauty with his words because that could be a desire of hers not just to be seen, but noticed.
Keilah I’m only 30 seconds into this video, reading your comments.. and I already agree with you just because you expressed yourself so beautifully. Now I actually want to watch the whole thing to know what you were talking about.
@@ernestcooper6523 I hate to be the bearer of bad news he doesn't need any help at all he has a pure soul People think black people are aggressive but in real they're so sensitive inside , Xavier proudly represents me
tobi ajayi Dude I said “One of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” I’m not sure what’s confusing about this comment, I didn’t say she the most beautiful woman. Also this is a personal opinion and if yours differs from mine that’s cool too, furthermore beauty is a very subjective matter.
WHY can't people get the basic difference between "breath" and "breathe"..? breath is a thing you have and contain, and breathe is something you do. such basic words.
Exactly! I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.
Ever seen a girl so beautiful that when she smiles, she absorbs even more of your attention completely, when you already thought youre paying attention... and has you giggling just watching her smile. Her smile is intensely gorgeous. This guy is so lucky.
As soon as he said “when I look at you I just see More”, I smiled. He had previously talked about not feeling like everything in his life was enough, and yet here she is being exactly more than that
@@thenjiwemeyiwa167 it's so confusing. Normally it would show a clip of what's coming up in the episode. Not some random couple. I don't think it's a good idea.
@SuperPunch76 ok but a trailer makes sense. It's clear it's a different movie. It shows the title, the date. This is just one clip and no links. Nothing about it. It seems out of place. Confusing.
@@jeremysmith9694 oops I respectfully disagree. It demands high level analysis and creating connections. I'm glad they do it, thus calling for beyond-the-mundane interaction. I appreciate challenging presentations because they make us think, debate and in turn raise our cognitive capacities. Kudo to the team for not subscribing to mediocrity and spoon feeding viewers. Personally, anything that doesn't call for my critique and deeper analysis, I regard it as an insult.
I love their measured pace with answering the questions, they allow so much room for each other and answer as consciously as they can. That they give each other room for authenticity, even as they may hold different perspectives, that right there is so beautiful.
I’m 44, twice divorced and survivor of an abusive relationship with my sons father, I refuse to be with someone I cannot have these conversations with. In my mind, this is the only level I can be on with a partner.
First off can we acknowledge how STUNNING SHE IS ! This ‘skin deep’ moment for their relationship is groundbreaking because for the first time they’re acknowledging the deep feelings they have for one another which is also important. It’s what going to take them to the next level, very mature. They’re gonna do great 👍🏽
Why do these types of videos not have like 10 million views? Like they are TOO wholesome. No background music or noise, honest beautiful people, deep questions that gets the individuals to think critically and wholeheartedly like FUKKK these are wholesome 😭😭
Usually, watching episodes that feature new(ish) couples fills me with anxiety because there is still an earnest and heightened awkwardness around getting to know each other and building a love map... But these two seem really invested and open despite their vulnerability, which is what taking a true chance at love needs!
The moment where u know that u putted the video on a full screen to just only focus on that and not reading some comments at the same time = the content is fire 🔥
Max and Lucas from stranger Things have really grown up :o Edit: this is really unrelated but if you happen to come by this comment, I would be so honored if u checked out my channel- I make music and original songs. Have a lovely day💕💕💕
Bro, his discription of feeling 'not enough' and 'not having enough' and being bad with money because of that deep seeded emotion, ALL THAT. My head literally exploded. Samesies, man, samesies.
It's amazing the male female relationship and how much we really need each other. Yet we fight as if we don't. I think when you find that one person that makes you just wanna love then and them you. You need to fight to hold on to that. Because who knows if that will ever come around again.
@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I don't have to know them it wouldn't matter if they talked for 2 weeks just be happy for them. You clearly are lonely & have nothing better to do dog.
@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I know a guy from my hometown who did this show with his woman dude. All they did was answer some questions, why is that such an issue for you sir? Why did you feel obligated to let the world know that you don't care about this show? Just let them have a moment lol
Jeremy Smith I think he’s lagging a lot behind her. She seems to have more of a centralized focus towards what their relationship does and means for her.
Jai Sullivan or maybe he’s shy and expresses his love in other ways besides being direct. He obviously makes her laugh and laughter is one of the best medicines for the soul.
Y’all are literally so annoying with this I don’t see their chemistry nonsense. They chose to be together for a reason, leave these beautiful people be and worry about your own chemistry/connections, gee golly
@@theduke6174 and sometimes it does not. Sometimes shit happens when you don't expect them and you are really in your dating life, and at these moments you can see people's true color. Sometimes you spend years with someone and you have a major life event and they're just not there for you.
@@theduke6174 i know that. i specifically said that I admit some relationships are not always like that. i know that's my experience. i never said it was anyone else's
Yeah. That was great. It made me think deeply about my own marriage. I pray that that couple makes it to the next level and beyond. They have so much potential: they don't even know about yet.
He might not be ready for the level of depth and emotion she brings and will demand from him. I truly hope he rises to the occasion sooner rather than later. Together, they could be very strong for a very very long time.
NaDean Bowles I have no idea lol. Just based on what I saw in the video, he seems to care deeply for her and her for him. I *think* that men regret losing women who they believe loved THEM and for whom they could not care properly or with deep commitment. Ime, people can love and want someone while also slowly driving that same person away. 🤷♀️
Xavier won a lotto draw! She should have been an actress. Her smiling/laughing Would make me want to do the same. I can tell they are both good humans. Glad they crossed one another's paths in life. They add to one another.
Loren Cooper yeah and I read a sociology article that most people’s soulmate will look like them also the more you spend time with someone the more similar you become even with facial features.
Looking for someone on a schedule... maybe one day someone will be into me to say something like that . That actually hit to me to alone I am socially , I gotta make a change in myself
I love people that see people as being people before they bring in the manutiae and nonsense. Two beautiful people discovering the beauty in each other and how to love in the space they are in...
Also I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.
I just wanted to make the number of comments even and say I loved this interview, great way to end it off. Whenever I thought it was the climax they had “more” to give.
I feel like these videos really expose how some people don't really love one another and barely know each other. I've heard some really uninspired answers to qestions about love.
I appreciate how Xavier explained his perception of Lande's beauty as a constant of reality, "a fact that we all know" and acknowledge like the sky is blue. It's a poignant reminder that because someone doesn't, perhaps, acknowledge our beauty as much as we'd like, it doesn't mean that they don't see us. Then again, it's also good that he's self-aware, realizing that he could make a practice of affirming her beauty with his words because that could be a desire of hers not just to be seen, but noticed.
Facts, I connected with him on a spiritual level on that but try to practice it often with my wife as words of affirmation is a love language of hers.
Keilah I’m only 30 seconds into this video, reading your comments.. and I already agree with you just because you expressed yourself so beautifully. Now I actually want to watch the whole thing to know what you were talking about.
That was poetic what you said
@@jonathancineus6424 Thank you, Jonathan.
@@boomboom6577 Thank you, LC.
"I think you're pretty like I know the sky is blue.... it is just a constant fact that people should know" My heart just melted!
@sonja Ortiz he's smooth but real tho so i see why you've melted :)
Im gonna steal that
She is so stunningly beautiful
Acina Matata is she?
I thought the same. She's beautiful
@@sandyg.8318 Without a doubt
She really is
And so are you
"When I look at you, I can see more."
So profound.
That's means he sees a future with her, she's the one
lol He needs some help
@@ernestcooper6523
I hate to be the bearer of bad news
he doesn't need any help at all
he has a pure soul
People think black people
are aggressive but in real
they're so sensitive inside ,
Xavier proudly represents me
Indeed , and so touchy
@@ernestcooper6523 why do you think he needs some help? Any specific reason?
Felt some of the emotion there during some questions. Great to take time and to communicate like this. He's cute. She's pretty. I'm lonely.
Nigggas are taking your women lol 🤣
Joy Hasan : you’re immature, grow up 😏
@@joyh4 Your woman? Do woman woman to someone!
@@omyhaby1912 They are white
Benny4😂😂
I couldn’t decide on who to look at - they’re both so stunning!
True.
the way you can tell he is listening more intently and slows down for her when she discusses her emotions - gorgeous
Rare to see a couple that is both so cerebral and emotional. Strong spirit connection between them.
Agreed.
Lande is cute? What are you talking about? She’s legit one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen, she’s effortlessly beautiful.
Dave Chapelle Mr Chapelle you need to chill, and read my comment again, this time pay close attention.
@Dave Chapelle Relax... He said "One of the most beautiful woman". Make-up or not, her facial features alone... is beyond stunning.
Asanda Mbali Dave is right she’s beautiful looking but you need to relax & get out more
tobi ajayi Dude I said “One of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” I’m not sure what’s confusing about this comment, I didn’t say she the most beautiful woman. Also this is a personal opinion and if yours differs from mine that’s cool too, furthermore beauty is a very subjective matter.
WHY can't people get the basic difference between "breath" and "breathe"..? breath is a thing you have and contain, and breathe is something you do. such basic words.
Just the way that look at each other pierces my soul! Brought me to tears! Perfect connection!
Exactly! I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.
Ever seen a girl so beautiful that when she smiles, she absorbs even more of your attention completely, when you already thought youre paying attention... and has you giggling just watching her smile.
Her smile is intensely gorgeous.
This guy is so lucky.
Their kids are going to be so freaking beautiful
Generic comment
That's what i was literally thinking
I agree Bro.. gonna be gorgeous!!
That's exactly what i was thinking
@@dmcarden what if they look like Blake Griffin?
As soon as he said “when I look at you I just see More”, I smiled. He had previously talked about not feeling like everything in his life was enough, and yet here she is being exactly more than that
Very astute observation
He is a beautiful man. So pretty eyes.
She is gorgeous as well, gives me 70's vibes.
That 70s Show.
That rhymed
Awww she made him blush 🤗. They're so cute!
incase anyones wondering its 5 years later and they just got married
I'm always confused why they show a couple at the beginning and then the rest of the episode is a different couple.
It's called marketing Jeremy
@@thenjiwemeyiwa167 it's so confusing. Normally it would show a clip of what's coming up in the episode. Not some random couple. I don't think it's a good idea.
@@jeremysmith9694 that's the same ploy used by movie theatres
@SuperPunch76 ok but a trailer makes sense. It's clear it's a different movie. It shows the title, the date. This is just one clip and no links. Nothing about it. It seems out of place. Confusing.
@@jeremysmith9694 oops I respectfully disagree. It demands high level analysis and creating connections. I'm glad they do it, thus calling for beyond-the-mundane interaction. I appreciate challenging presentations because they make us think, debate and in turn raise our cognitive capacities. Kudo to the team for not subscribing to mediocrity and spoon feeding viewers. Personally, anything that doesn't call for my critique and deeper analysis, I regard it as an insult.
This man's smile is heartwarming and can melt the hardest of hearts.
She's beautiful and her boyfriend is so.. soft and wonderful..
He is sensitive, she's emotional, both knows and understands that about themselves
Hi Madiki how are you? Your very beautiful too
I love their measured pace with answering the questions, they allow so much room for each other and answer as consciously as they can.
That they give each other room for authenticity, even as they may hold different perspectives, that right there is so beautiful.
I hope my future boyfriend sees such videos. I love them and I wish to have such nice conversations. Good for the soul 💫
sasha 94 I’m seeing it and I’m from 94 too
Then initiate these conversations, why you waiting?
I’m 44, twice divorced and survivor of an abusive relationship with my sons father, I refuse to be with someone I cannot have these conversations with. In my mind, this is the only level I can be on with a partner.
@Beverly All the best to you, May you find someone who treats you the way you deserve 💕
@@bev_ovchic76 twice divorce? maybe you should look in the mirror
I’m actually so lonely
Dr. Smiley Face 🤗
Bro same
Am here 4 u if you wanna talk ❤️
Dewi Lew 🙈
Neveen Ebrahim thank you!🙏🏾
"What I am is enough .. who I am around is enough" .. this is an amazing feeling
She reminds me of Botticelli's Venus.
Omg now i just see that
OMG YESSSS!
Totally
Wooow yes I see that
First off can we acknowledge how STUNNING SHE IS ! This ‘skin deep’ moment for their relationship is groundbreaking because for the first time they’re acknowledging the deep feelings they have for one another which is also important. It’s what going to take them to the next level, very mature. They’re gonna do great 👍🏽
They're so soft speaking. I love that
There needs to be an update video on this couple in a year or two. They are inspirational.
Xavier looks like a Lion, man i love your dreads 💪
reve lion lion LION LION
More like a mop
@@ozymandius8804 🤣🤣😂😂 that’s more accurate
Lande is so beautiful she really protrudes an angelic energy
True. And so is Xavier, he's more beautiful than handsome. They're both GORGEOUSLY BEAUTIFUL
I swear!
I love the vulnerability of this conversation. Nicely done!
Why do these types of videos not have like 10 million views? Like they are TOO wholesome. No background music or noise, honest beautiful people, deep questions that gets the individuals to think critically and wholeheartedly like FUKKK these are wholesome 😭😭
Usually, watching episodes that feature new(ish) couples fills me with anxiety because there is still an earnest and heightened awkwardness around getting to know each other and building a love map... But these two seem really invested and open despite their vulnerability, which is what taking a true chance at love needs!
The moment where u know that u putted the video on a full screen to just only focus on that and not reading some comments at the same time = the content is fire 🔥
Max and Lucas from stranger Things have really grown up :o
Edit: this is really unrelated but if you happen to come by this comment, I would be so honored if u checked out my channel- I make music and original songs. Have a lovely day💕💕💕
This comment wins this comment section in my opinion!
Omg yes 😭
Lmaooo
Definitely top comment
Lol
Thank you too @The Skin Deep for Creating this amazing content!
thank you for following us!!
@@TheSkinDeep What is their instagram?
She’s so beautiful
I’d be so uncomfortable talking to her in person hahah
TRUE. And so is Xavier, he's more beautiful than handsome. BOTH are gorgeous
I want to no you @Rowan lafontaine are u on facebook?
Hi Rowan your beautiful. How are you?
Can we just appreciate her complextion for a minute..i mean WOW...flawless and glowing
shes so pretty :) they fit well together!
These two should start a youtube channel. They are so adorable together and honest 🤩
Beautiful girl.... these shows need follow ups to see where these relationships went and if they lasted..
Beautiful couple. I hope they stayed together and are making a wonderful life together
Bro, his discription of feeling 'not enough' and 'not having enough' and being bad with money because of that deep seeded emotion, ALL THAT. My head literally exploded. Samesies, man, samesies.
It's amazing the male female relationship and how much we really need each other. Yet we fight as if we don't. I think when you find that one person that makes you just wanna love then and them you. You need to fight to hold on to that. Because who knows if that will ever come around again.
Wow, they are really connected and cherish one another how they are within. That's love.
Such a wonderful conversation and their connection.
Woah, I knew this guy in high school! He's changed so much!
I know there love one another. The crowd may not like this but he bores me to tears. It’s like watching grass grow
They are so beautifully honest with one another
"When I look at you, I can see you holding a kid." That was direct.
that shit was weird😭😭😭im sorry
@@hiiipoweralumni6425 we're saying the same thing, but you're being more direct.🙄
I think he meant her having their child
"When I look at you I actually see more"
I love them.
Xavier is deep...his answers were charged with honesty & multi layered understanding. They actually seem like a good couple.
Is the audio on this video quiet for anyone else? I can still hear it, but even full volume sounds kind of quiet
I've noticed a few videos, there is a soft spoken person who needs more microphone. I understand making it raw, but we gotta be able to hear!
I think they are just low talkers. Which I personally appreciate.
Hi grace b, how are you? Your beautiful
I found it low too
He understood the importance of appreciation ..
The Skin Deep...I appreciate you guys consistency and passion for what you do. You are such an inspiration!
Take notes people, this is a prime example of love has no color. These two have bonafide love for each other and its dope as hell. 💯👌👌
Do you know them? They are 2gether for only 5 months.
You guys are too emotional...
@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I don't have to know them it wouldn't matter if they talked for 2 weeks just be happy for them. You clearly are lonely & have nothing better to do dog.
@@crazyboy585 happy for them... This a show, man. Dont you know this isnt a "natural" conversation? Leave the bubble.
@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I know a guy from my hometown who did this show with his woman dude. All they did was answer some questions, why is that such an issue for you sir? Why did you feel obligated to let the world know that you don't care about this show? Just let them have a moment lol
@@crazyboy585 "bonafide love" says a boy who has no clue about these guys...
Ok, believe in fairy tales...
I feel like they weren't really on the same page with anything they said haha. But they seem cool. I like em. She's pretty.
Jeremy Smith I think he’s lagging a lot behind her. She seems to have more of a centralized focus towards what their relationship does and means for her.
Jai Sullivan or maybe he’s shy and expresses his love in other ways besides being direct. He obviously makes her laugh and laughter is one of the best medicines for the soul.
of course they had only been together for 5 months lol
Y’all are literally so annoying with this I don’t see their chemistry nonsense. They chose to be together for a reason, leave these beautiful people be and worry about your own chemistry/connections, gee golly
Evalay J-L preach.
Oh so I wasn't the only one that feels he doesn't fit her?! 😝
yes and they are both beautiful she is so raw and beautiful she truly loves him
@Evalay J-L
U had me at gee golly
@@ebcutiepie I didn't at first, but from seeing them interact, I changed my mind, but who knows?
"When I look at you I just see...more" ✨✨✨💛
He has the sweetest heart I have ever seen
That ending is deep asf
What I understood is that my man is thinking of proposing to her
This is the cutest couple i have ever seen! i like to see mixte couples.
The relationship still sounds early, like they need more years to realise they're the right fit or not.
I don't think time matters actually in relationships, I believe in experiences, life events.
@@warpzoneable well experiences naturally comes with time
@@theduke6174 and sometimes it does not. Sometimes shit happens when you don't expect them and you are really in your dating life, and at these moments you can see people's true color. Sometimes you spend years with someone and you have a major life event and they're just not there for you.
@@sydneycraig8600 thats YOUR experience, im talking about the chemistry we've just witnessed from these two.
@@theduke6174 i know that. i specifically said that I admit some relationships are not always like that. i know that's my experience. i never said it was anyone else's
I believe alot of things were not said out of privacy and still getting to know each other, and I respect that.
He's a beautiful man.
Yeah. That was great. It made me think deeply about my own marriage. I pray that that couple makes it to the next level and beyond. They have so much potential: they don't even know about yet.
Oh god, Lande is one of the most beautiful women I've seen!
He might not be ready for the level of depth and emotion she brings and will demand from him. I truly hope he rises to the occasion sooner rather than later. Together, they could be very strong for a very very long time.
Right. Despite the last comment, she is in love with him and he seems surprised and dodging it.
Yes, it is subtle, but it’s there. If he doesn’t stop it, he will lose her. And he will regret it.
@@boomboom6577 I don't know. Do men regret losing a woman who isn't the one for them?
NaDean Bowles I have no idea lol. Just based on what I saw in the video, he seems to care deeply for her and her for him. I *think* that men regret losing women who they believe loved THEM and for whom they could not care properly or with deep commitment.
Ime, people can love and want someone while also slowly driving that same person away. 🤷♀️
Xavier won a lotto draw! She should have been an actress. Her smiling/laughing Would make me want to do the same. I can tell they are both good humans. Glad they crossed one another's paths in life. They add to one another.
The guy is so cute, I can't stop looking at him
I love when it's an interracial couple & they actually look alike lol
So it's not just me who thinks they look alike 😂
They are both so beautiful
Elle Luna they have the same facial structure
@@Luna7-v1p no for real. Their eyebrows, lips, eye shape. It's crazy but...cool. it gives you the sense that sometimes you are made for a person.
Loren Cooper yeah and I read a sociology article that most people’s soulmate will look like them also the more you spend time with someone the more similar you become even with facial features.
I Think She’s More In Head With Him & He’s More In Heart With Her. I Think She’ll Get Better, Grow, & Leave When She’s Stronger.
Guy is so cool and gal is so beautiful. Can see real love when they laugh.
I've seen a ton of women in my life. And see is amazingly pretty. I hope these two have the best future ever. They seem like good humans.
For the curious like me, they got married!
This girl is so beautiful, it's ridiculous.
Seeing this gives hope and really makes me miss things like they have together. It Looks so simple but ist so deeply beatiful.
GEEZUS their eyebrows are stunning
I have not noticed until i saw your comment, and Girrrrrrrrrrl you are right
Are really in love. Nice seeing interracial love
Her hair literally feels like it's gold in hair form
Shout out to Him!!
Wow what a gorgeous COUPLE !! 💚💚💚 I love them 💓 would love to see another episode of them together!
I could watch these two all day. All damn day.
Her hairrr, the way that she looks at him, her smile, give me his phone number I wanna tell him to take care of her.
❤️
Looking for someone on a schedule... maybe one day someone will be into me to say something like that . That actually hit to me to alone I am socially , I gotta make a change in myself
I love people that see people as being people before they bring in the manutiae and nonsense. Two beautiful people discovering the beauty in each other and how to love in the space they are in...
Wow, she is so naturally stunning!
She's gorgeous without even trying!
I love love 😍
His words are so beautiful
Have you ever dated a black guy before ma'am?
Those people they are really in love. I really believe that no doubt about that at all.
That last part 😢😢❤️
This two seem so low profile at first and then they have such interesting inner dialogue, it's fascinating...
Also I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.
This is so intimate in the simplest way that I feel like an intruder watching this...
I just wanted to make the number of comments even and say I loved this interview, great way to end it off. Whenever I thought it was the climax they had “more” to give.
Must have watched this 5 times. They seem so good for each other. They are both so pwetty🥰
She gives me this Carrie vibe from the movie that came out in the 70s. "They're going to laugh at you." That's a great movie by the way.
7:35 The lady is giving a good speech here
I absolutely LOVED this!!! Beautiful couple!!!🙏🏽🤍🤍🤍
I hope they're still together..... this made me smile💓👍
I feel like these videos really expose how some people don't really love one another and barely know each other. I've heard some really uninspired answers to qestions about love.