That was my mindset at the beginning. We seek validation from them. However, when more time passes, and you finally have a clearer head to process things, as you are assembling the puzzle pieces you start understanding that they knew how much they hurt you. They know what they did and how bad it was. They just DON'T CARE. As long as you don't talk about it, ohh because then they'll show their claws. Then you finally stop needing that validation from them and you give it to yourself through all this knowledge.
Well said. Thank you. Do not become a hurting person because you were hurt; instead, go forward (and away from idiots) and be a decent person to yourself and others.
If they are the your closest people, think 10 times before giving them a taste of their own medicine because they might not have hurt you intentionally, (you might have taken them wrong way or misunderstood it), but you hurting them would be intentional. This will lower their love and respect for you and forever.
Interestingly.None of the people who I gave a taste of their own medicine needed compassion,love but needed my judgement.Don't care about their knowledge.Its a two way street give and take.If they treat you bad give them back the same behaviour.If they treat you well then only treat them back well.And I didn't hurt them in the process.Some toxic people need a taste of their own medicine.
I tried to out silent treatment my mother, but it didn't work because I never used to give her the silent treatment so she instantly labels my silent treatment as a silent treatment but her own silent treatment (s)??? she sees those as her having to withdraw from me because I'm hurting her. I give up.
they don't care, they'll just get new supply some behaviors you can simply separate yourself from, other types of lawlessness have Biblical mandates on how to deal with them
Excellent truth! Thank you wise beauty! As always deep bow & big hug!🗽💙
That was my mindset at the beginning. We seek validation from them. However, when more time passes, and you finally have a clearer head to process things, as you are assembling the puzzle pieces you start understanding that they knew how much they hurt you. They know what they did and how bad it was. They just DON'T CARE. As long as you don't talk about it, ohh because then they'll show their claws. Then you finally stop needing that validation from them and you give it to yourself through all this knowledge.
Well said. Thank you. Do not become a hurting person because you were hurt; instead, go forward (and away from idiots) and be a decent person to yourself and others.
Thank you. Using that superpower all the time. Will be like that till my death. None can manipulate me to become like them.
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You are such a blessing 🙏🏽
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If they are the your closest people, think 10 times before giving them a taste of their own medicine because they might not have hurt you intentionally, (you might have taken them wrong way or misunderstood it), but you hurting them would be intentional. This will lower their love and respect for you and forever.
Causing them pain means you've pain inside of you it's increasing damaging yourself
Interestingly.None of the people who I gave a taste of their own medicine needed compassion,love but needed my judgement.Don't care about their knowledge.Its a two way street give and take.If they treat you bad give them back the same behaviour.If they treat you well then only treat them back well.And I didn't hurt them in the process.Some toxic people need a taste of their own medicine.
Thank you
No lady.Have done it to several different people.Karma happens or not don't know but they will think twice before doing the same thing to someone else
I tried to out silent treatment my mother, but it didn't work because I never used to give her the silent treatment so she instantly labels my silent treatment as a silent treatment but her own silent treatment (s)??? she sees those as her having to withdraw from me because I'm hurting her. I give up.
they don't care, they'll just get new supply
some behaviors you can simply separate yourself from, other types of lawlessness have Biblical mandates on how to deal with them
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