Hi Gawu, thanks for watchingh and for the encouraging comment! I'm glad you found it encouraging! Please let me know if you ahve any suggestions for videos. Thanks & God bless
I married quite early in my life and the marriage lasted 8 years, we went our separate ways due to us morphing into extremely different individuals and having different expectations from life and the marriage. I was a non practising Christian at the start of that marriage but as time progressed I became born again and started taking my Christianity more seriously, however he was an atheist who progressed to believing in God but questioned every religion. Needless to say, amongst other serious issues. This was the major bone of contention in that union, so we naturally parted. So in my now single season having experienced marriage and I'm only 30. I'm not in a hurry at all, I am more interested in my walk and fellowship with God. I stumbled across this channel and believe this came in at the right time as your ministry is right up my street for my current season. I bless God for raising you at such a time as this and may he continue to use you to his glory. I have been binge watching your videos and it is heartily edifying to my spirit. Sending you love and blessings ✨✨✨.
Hi St Clare, thank you for watching and for your honest and wonderful comment. I appreciate it. I'm glad that you've found the videos helpful. God bless & take care
Hey everyone, hope you enjoyed the video and found it helpful. Dating can be full of questions but with God's wisdom we can make the right decisions. If you have questions i didn't answer then please leave them in the comments and i will answer or do another video. If you are going back to (or are already back at) work, school, college, University then i pray for all God's blessings and protection for you! Thanks again for all your support, I really appreciate it🙂! God Bless & Take care ❤
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted. Lord bless me a good man for my dreams in 2021. AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Very helpfull! I thank God for finding your channel today, and have already watched 5 videos. It’s a blessing to have these advices that help us to consacrate our lives and singleness to God while we wait.
Your so on point with this subject with dating a unbeliever! As a Christian woman, i have date a unbeliever. In i will not date a unbeliever again. This guy didn't believe in God but i find out later. Its better to ask first there beliefs. My love for God i was open and my feelings of walking the way God wanted me too. The guy didn't even want me to say God name around him. I try to explain who God is but the more talk about God he hated me more. The guy talk bad about God and try to push me more away from God. Be very careful dating unbeliever! Before this guy find out about my beliefs in God. He was so sweet to me after he find out i was Christian he changed fast on me and not in a Good way. He wanted me to pick him our God. God is first! In i have chosen God and let go the guy. Dating a believer will never tell you to choose. In you will have peace in the relationship. Remember! If you choose a unbeliever it long term headache, pain, crying and a lot of ungodly problems. I am very Happy right now, am dating a great guy who is a Christian and all i can say is its peace, love and happiness. We not perfect but we are happy dating.
Hey Levinia! Thanks for your wonderful comment. Its always a blessing to everyone when someone shares their personal experience or testimony, Thanks for sharing this. God bless and take care
Lol yes, I first thought asking about beliefs were disrespectful but now that I'm older, that's the first thing, I will ask a man, because I don't care about any else a man have to offer me, more than building a relationship with Jesus christ together
What about Christian born again brothers,who meet Christian born again sisters and still require sex before marriage? It actually has the sisters,questioning their christianity. Please help
Hi Kareen, thanks for watching. If a Christian man is expecting sex before marriage, that is a sign that he is not God's best for you. God bless & take care
Hi Miriam, thank you for watching and for your question. I personally did not do christian online dating as a single. I don't think that there is anything wrong with it i.e it is not a sin. I would say that the normal percautions have to be taken even on christian sites. Not everyone that professes to be a christian is one, not every christian is mature or has established boundaries. Not everyone who is looking for marriage will be compatible with you. So, pray and seek God's guidance throughout the process. Also be open to other ways of meeting christian singles e.g through christian friends or through the church community. Because you never know how you will meet your future spouse. I hope this helps. God bless & take care
Hi there! Thank you for sharing the answer to these questions 🙏🏽 I do have a question, I’m divorced and want to get married again, but sometimes I wander if that’s ok with God. We were both Christians when got married, but it only lasted about 10 years. Infidelity was not the cause of our divorce. So, should I be able to remarry or not? Thanks
The perfect man as the Church commands in accordance with God's will or doesn't exist or he has been taken. If you follow this rules you should be very very lucky to meet someone like that or you will be alone. I think that all these things create people more frustration
Hi again, Funke! What are your thoughts on online dating? Is running to the Internet a sign that I am not trusting enough to God/God's timing to meet someone in person, or do you know of anyone who has accurately discerned that online dating was how God wanted her to meet her spouse? Thank you, as always! :)
Hi GoldenJoy, thank you for watching and for your question. God’s perfect will is marriage (for those who desire it) and then children. God wants children to be born into marriage and brought up in a family. That does not mean he rejects children born outside of marriage, they are still his creation and God still has a plan for them. I have close family members that were born outside of marriage and I know that it can be extremely hard for the parent and also for the child, this can last into adulthood. I would not advice anyone to willingly have and bring up a child outside of marriage. Many children born outside of wedlock experience a sense of rejection and a sense of loss. I know that for many Christian women this may seem like an option as they get older if they are not yet married but it is an option that would create more problems than solutions. I have been asked similar questions before and I always encourage women to trust in God, God is well able to provide them with marriage and children, nothing is too hard for God. I hope this answers the question. God bless & take care♥
Hi Kudzai, thanks for watching and for your question. There is nothing wrong with this eve if you're in your teens. The most important way to prepare for marriage is to build a really deep and intimate relationsghip with God. He is the one that knows you better than you know yourself and he knows the plans he has for your life and he can lead you to the spouse he has chosen for you. A relationship with God also helps you to get to know who you are in Christ and all the things you are able to do as a child of God. All this will help youu in life and marriage. God bless & take care
I thank God for discovering this channel at this phase of my life. Am really encouraged. God bless you so much sis
Hi Gawu, thanks for watchingh and for the encouraging comment! I'm glad you found it encouraging! Please let me know if you ahve any suggestions for videos. Thanks & God bless
I’m almost 32 and single and starting to lose hope ...thank you for these videos, they’re really encouraging 🙏🏾💕
Hi Linda, thank you for watching and for your lovely comment. I'm glad you've found the videos encouraging. God bless & take care
And me too pray for me this year
Hi am 29 been single almost 4 years now,a Christian and sometimes I asked myself these questions
Thank you so much. God bless you.
I married quite early in my life and the marriage lasted 8 years, we went our separate ways due to us morphing into extremely different individuals and having different expectations from life and the marriage. I was a non practising Christian at the start of that marriage but as time progressed I became born again and started taking my Christianity more seriously, however he was an atheist who progressed to believing in God but questioned every religion. Needless to say, amongst other serious issues. This was the major bone of contention in that union, so we naturally parted. So in my now single season having experienced marriage and I'm only 30. I'm not in a hurry at all, I am more interested in my walk and fellowship with God. I stumbled across this channel and believe this came in at the right time as your ministry is right up my street for my current season. I bless God for raising you at such a time as this and may he continue to use you to his glory. I have been binge watching your videos and it is heartily edifying to my spirit. Sending you love and blessings ✨✨✨.
Hi St Clare, thank you for watching and for your honest and wonderful comment. I appreciate it. I'm glad that you've found the videos helpful. God bless & take care
You are a ray of sunshine in a hurting world.
Hey everyone, hope you enjoyed the video and found it helpful. Dating can be full of questions but with God's wisdom we can make the right decisions. If you have questions i didn't answer then please leave them in the comments and i will answer or do another video. If you are going back to (or are already back at) work, school, college, University then i pray for all God's blessings and protection for you! Thanks again for all your support, I really appreciate it🙂! God Bless & Take care ❤
What do you do during dating period.
Is sex ok during dating period?
Help me,
Am new born again christian.
Thanks.
@@bakundalevi3615 No, the Bible says it's not ok.
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted. Lord bless me a good man for my dreams in 2021. AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Am enjoying every bit.Am thirty one and still single, so this platform is helping me a lot.
Hi Emma, thank you for watching and for your lovely comment . I'm glad you found the video helpful. God bless & take care
Great sound biblically based advice for the modern Christian man or woman navigating the dating scene. Thanks Funke!
Hey Tola, thank you for watching and for your encouraging comment. God bless & take care
I really needed to find this channel
Very helpfull! I thank God for finding your channel today, and have already watched 5 videos. It’s a blessing to have these advices that help us to consacrate our lives and singleness to God while we wait.
Hi Marcia, i.m glad you found the videos helpful. God bless & take care
Love this, you really teach with so much wisdom, integrity and best of all you refer to scripture. Learning a lot & l appreciate you dearly💖🙏😘
Thank you Shylyn! I really appreciate your comment, its really encouraging! Thanks for the support! Have a great week & God Bless
Your so on point with this subject with dating a unbeliever! As a Christian woman, i have date a unbeliever. In i will not date a unbeliever again. This guy didn't believe in God but i find out later. Its better to ask first there beliefs. My love for God i was open and my feelings of walking the way God wanted me too. The guy didn't even want me to say God name around him. I try to explain who God is but the more talk about God he hated me more. The guy talk bad about God and try to push me more away from God. Be very careful dating unbeliever! Before this guy find out about my beliefs in God. He was so sweet to me after he find out i was Christian he changed fast on me and not in a Good way. He wanted me to pick him our God. God is first! In i have chosen God and let go the guy. Dating a believer will never tell you to choose. In you will have peace in the relationship. Remember! If you choose a unbeliever it long term headache, pain, crying and a lot of ungodly problems. I am very Happy right now, am dating a great guy who is a Christian and all i can say is its peace, love and happiness. We not perfect but we are happy dating.
Hey Levinia! Thanks for your wonderful comment. Its always a blessing to everyone when someone shares their personal experience or testimony, Thanks for sharing this. God bless and take care
Lol yes, I first thought asking about beliefs were disrespectful but now that I'm older, that's the first thing, I will ask a man, because I don't care about any else a man have to offer me, more than building a relationship with Jesus christ together
Very helpful. These are questions I have asked severally and I love how you respond in reference to God's word.
Thanks for being obedience to Holyspirit.
Thanks 👍 for spiritual guidance.
God bless you sister and your family.
Amen.
I admire you a lot cause u say the truth my God bless ur home fr blessing us the single with ur words of encouragement
Thank you Naomi & Amen. God bless & take care
38 and single.
In the Bible there were a lot of singles... :)
And the biggest are Jesus and Paul. ;)
Indeed. As long as you have peace with that idea, it's all good.
You are really an anointed woman of God!!! Be blessed and continue to allow God to bless us through you, in Jesus' name! 🙌🙏🏻
Hi Api, Thank you for watching and for yourcomment. I really appreciate it. Merry Xmas. God bless & take care
The answer to the last question was golden. Thank you for this video. I sent you an email with a question already, i'd love to hear your opinion pls.
Would be lovely to hear you speak in churches and women's retreats. Your words are so soothing and healthy.
Thank you Ngum! I appreciate it. God bless & take care
You are an awesome lady Funke. May the good lord continue to bless you with knowledge and wisdom. I truly love your teachings.
Be blessed.
What about Christian born again brothers,who meet Christian born again sisters and still require sex before marriage?
It actually has the sisters,questioning their christianity.
Please help
Hello Kareen, I would honestly say those brothers are not born again.
@@simplyena8832 that's what I thought. Smh. Thanks for the response😊🙏
Requesting sex before marriage???
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Jesus help what is going on in the world.
Hi Kareen, thanks for watching. If a Christian man is expecting sex before marriage, that is a sign that he is not God's best for you. God bless & take care
What's your opinion on online dating?
Hi Miriam, thank you for watching and for your question. I personally did not do christian online dating as a single. I don't think that there is anything wrong with it i.e it is not a sin. I would say that the normal percautions have to be taken even on christian sites. Not everyone that professes to be a christian is one, not every christian is mature or has established boundaries. Not everyone who is looking for marriage will be compatible with you. So, pray and seek God's guidance throughout the process. Also be open to other ways of meeting christian singles e.g through christian friends or through the church community. Because you never know how you will meet your future spouse. I hope this helps. God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 thanks
Do you have advised for inexperienced Christian singles for long distance relationships?
Hi there! Thank you for sharing the answer to these questions 🙏🏽 I do have a question, I’m divorced and want to get married again, but sometimes I wander if that’s ok with God. We were both Christians when got married, but it only lasted about 10 years. Infidelity was not the cause of our divorce. So, should I be able to remarry or not? Thanks
I like how you research the Bible and speak/make decisions based on it!
The perfect man as the Church commands in accordance with God's will or doesn't exist or he has been taken. If you follow this rules you should be very very lucky to meet someone like that or you will be alone. I think that all these things create people more frustration
Great job ma'am. More blessing
Dear Emem. thanks for watching and for your comment. i'm glad you found it helpful. Take care & God bless
Thanks for sharing, it was very useful💜🙌🏽
Hey Laetitia! Thank you for watching and for the encouraging comment! I really appreciate the support! Take care & God bless
UGH I can't believe I just saw this. Thank you Funke 💕
God bless you so much
Hi Nana, thank you for watching and for the comment! I'm really glad you found it useful. God bless & take care
Hi again, Funke! What are your thoughts on online dating? Is running to the Internet a sign that I am not trusting enough to God/God's timing to meet someone in person, or do you know of anyone who has accurately discerned that online dating was how God wanted her to meet her spouse? Thank you, as always! :)
What about IVF, if you are a single Christian woman?
Hi GoldenJoy, thank you for watching and for your question. God’s perfect will is marriage (for those who desire it) and then children. God wants children to be born into marriage and brought up in a family. That does not mean he rejects children born outside of marriage, they are still his creation and God still has a plan for them. I have close family members that were born outside of marriage and I know that it can be extremely hard for the parent and also for the child, this can last into adulthood. I would not advice anyone to willingly have and bring up a child outside of marriage. Many children born outside of wedlock experience a sense of rejection and a sense of loss. I know that for many Christian women this may seem like an option as they get older if they are not yet married but it is an option that would create more problems than solutions. I have been asked similar questions before and I always encourage women to trust in God, God is well able to provide them with marriage and children, nothing is too hard for God. I hope this answers the question. God bless & take care♥
Maybe this is petty ..but do u think its ok for teens to watch marriage experience n skills n all that at this young age(17)
Hi Kudzai, thanks for watching and for your question. There is nothing wrong with this eve if you're in your teens. The most important way to prepare for marriage is to build a really deep and intimate relationsghip with God. He is the one that knows you better than you know yourself and he knows the plans he has for your life and he can lead you to the spouse he has chosen for you. A relationship with God also helps you to get to know who you are in Christ and all the things you are able to do as a child of God. All this will help youu in life and marriage. God bless & take care
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