I couldn’t agree more, it’s really upsetting to see that kind of mind set... because at home no one can help her, at least in public there is somewhere for her to go if she need, she can run or go to the police, yet at home she is even more defenceless
@@Sunshine-bt2wx girlfriend was being abused. I feel like that if they are not asking for help, then now I will let them be, because most people in those relationships are too attached to thier abuser. They also will lie for them, so when the police come and you try to explain the situation, you'll get arrested because of thier lies, I would be hesitant to stop if im the only person around. Because its your word against the both if thiers.
The thing that kinda ticked me about this video is some people told him to stop because people were watching. Not because it was wrong but because they didn’t want to watch. Like I’m glad they made him stop but the reason for it was kinda wrong and shallow.
Also keep in mind these are translations and not always accurate. I know some mandarin and it isn’t a perfect translation so what they are saying isn’t necessarily what we are reading. Similar; but not the same.
The crazy thing was everybody was basically saying beat her at home not out in the open, and still said he seemed like a good man, what? Is beating a woman normal there!?!?
I thought the same thing, the women were saying to him "I can see that you're a good man." Ummm, no you're not a good man if you mistreat your wife that way. Then to top it off suggesting that they go home and settle it. You just know that if he treats her that way in public, it's only worse when they are home alone.
You see, there's really a cultural difference. When we say he seem like a good man it was kind of like reminding him that he should act like a good man since he was said to be one.
like ppl in the video confuse me, I mean would you tell your friend, daughter, etc. to go home with their abusive partner and fix it at home??? this really, idk?? recommending she be alone with him like he's totally just going to talk and not be able to beat her at home.
No, it's a cultural thing. By saying that many people are watching is like "you are bringing shame to yourself, you should be ashamed for doing that" etc.
I saw a lot of comments pointing that it could be much harmful by asking them to solve it at home, but actually there is a saying in China which is not to show your family business especially ugly things in public. That is why elder people do that to interfere. I think younger generation will take it more seriously as a domestic violence in the future.
@@namikat6068 I feel sorry to you.. You don't even know me, who are you to judge, where on earth do you live. If you don't like my comment. Ignore it simple.
it’s sad how so many people were saying “you seem like a good man” after they watched him beat on her and drag her around smh and one man even said to “go home and settle it” as in don’t hit her in public just do it at your house
Meliesa what’s the perception? What kind of perception would allow domestic violence to continue, whether in public or at home? You cannot use the excuse “because I’m asian or it’s part of the asian culture.” It only means this asian culture is not addressing this issue of domestic violence. Saying it’s part of the asian culture is only an excuse for domestic violence that shouldn’t appear anywhere!!
My mom was abused by my dad when they were still together, around 16 years ago. He’d slap her in front of her family, friends and in public. I’m thankful that people tried making my dad stop abusing her. My mom divorced him and he kept stalking her but now he stopped abusing and he’s in jail now.
ughnili I’m sorry if I offends you in anyway with this comment but they probably might be very anxious and not haven right words to put together or I was looking thourgh comments some said it’s a culture thing for saying something belong the lines of you should be ashamed of yourself.
The amount of ppl who said “ go home” or “ don’t do this here” is so disappointing. U never know how much that guy could be holding back in public, he could do so much worse in his home. Like so sad, like call the police omg.
give a big applause 👏 to 1:08 he’s the first person to ever approach them and thanks to the rest that helped them afterwards! I understand the people that didn’t lend a hand, that’s because of they are scared cos the man is so good at acting omG I am scared of violence 😶
It's not just they are scared. This is in Asia and most Asians grew up with sense of shame and saving face. Most people won't jump to domestic tiffs unless they see something major that would need reporting. Not their fault for staying away, it really is just the way they are raised. But I'm glad people did step up
Dear women of the world Repent you for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Repent of your sin of sleeping with a man without marriage. Repent of your sin of lying to yourself and others and God. Repent of your sin of stealing from others and yourself by not being wise in the things of heaven. Type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments read them become wise in them and do them. Dear women of the world repent of killing others and yourself by hating. Repent of disobedient to your husband. Don't fear him leading you astry instead have faith and pray with a headcovering to Jesus for help ever time a problem comes up. Dear women of the Repent of disobedient to your parents. Do not fear them leading you astry simply pray to Jesus if you notice any trouble from them. Dear loving women of the world repent of your sin of hard heartedness and don't divorce your husbands. Instead take it to Jesus in your pray closet. Dear women of the world repent of abortion of killing your babies of killing another life. Be a hero and save another. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of immodest and dressing in a manner that lead others to the sin of wrath and lust. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of always agruing with others. Be as peaceful as possible. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of gossiping and putting down others. For you hurt yourself as well for no one trust a gossiper or like a mean person. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of unforgiveness and forgive those who wrong you. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of teaching men and practicing authority over one. Dear women of the world who are mom's repent of your sin of working and focus on your family. Dear women of the world repent of your sin for the kingdom of heaven is near and be baptized. Then pick up a Bible study it and find the commandments in it found in the new testament and do then exactly as instructed. If you do not have time to read type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments. Thanks and love y'all
thing l exactly! He was being really rough (well, all acted, of course), was really (apparently) hurting her very bad and still no one took him to the police station, or called them there..
This happened here in Philippines where a Korean guy beat his Filipina Girlfriend , the people beat him instantly and didn't wait to call the police and I feel bad for laughing and cheering for the people to beat him more
Ok, but can we congratulate this guy on his acting abilities? Like, damn, he IS really good! And not just here, in many other videos I’ve seen of him acting on this channel, he is over the top good! Congrats to you, whatever is your name, I don’t know, I’m really sorry 😅 . Congrats 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I feel this is one instance where the public fell short of what they should have done. No one checked on how the woman was, whether she was hurt or in need of police help. All they said was people are watching you, and sort this out at home. They even called him a nice looking guy! What he was doing wasn't just unseemly or unnecessary, it was abuse, dangerous and downright illegal. Everyone downplayed how serious it clearly was.
Honestly, if I saw someone getting hurt, I wouldn't go right up to them and tell them to stop, but get my phone and call 911. I honestly am a shy person, and don't have the guts to stand up, but the best I can do is call the police. God bless those people who helped her. ^w^
There was a case of domestic violence across the street from my house once. I watched for a moment to be able to understand what was happening. Then it started escalating. So I yelled at them twice that I was going to call the cops on them. At one point the man tackled her into a large bush, was saying things like "do you like me doing this to you?" They were both screaming. I was terrified, being a teenager, home alone. Never witnessing something like that before. I did call 911, but the scene de-escilated as I was talking to the operator. I had to give descriptions of both people, and they sent a patrol car. Because the couple ending up walking off. One of the scariest moments of my life. My entire body was shaking. Whew, I still get freaked out talking about it. But its a huge issue.
Pretty sure that when they say "people are watching" they don't mean "hey do that in private" but more like "you're not being honorable rn and shame on you"
I'm shocked at how muted their reactions are. The few who intervened just said, don't do that outside. So at home it's okay? So messed up. I expected people to call the police or tackle the man as a group. And NO ONE comforted the abused woman???? Instead people told the man he was probably good deep down? I don't understand
In America we don’t get down like that. If we see a girl getting hit by her husband, no questions asked he’s getting beat up🤦🏾♀️ I grateful to the bystanders that stopped and helped
I personally can understand why they didn't got involved in this fight! But what they should have done is calling the police instead!! Here in Germany a couple got into a fight A passanger wanted to stop the man hitting his wife. But the man stabbed the passanger with a knife in his stomach. It's not always good to get involved in a fight especially when a man looks so aggresive. But there are other ways of helping this poor woman, For examble calling the police.
I live in Germany, too, and once saw a case like this. I yelled at the guy and people started to chime in. A group of guys tackled the "boyfriend" to the ground and held him there until the police arrived. You have to speak up and gather people - then he would have no chance with a knife or without.
I bring a taser out everywhere I go (being a woman, yknow). I don’t know how people can just walk by like nothing is happening, this is a situation where I would pull it out and use it.
There was some domestic violence between my parents, so this really hits home for me. It’s upsetting to see people just walk by or say “not here.” The least you could do is call police. There’s nothing ok about this. For all we know, she could be killed when they get home.
Its really depends on some people who can't see bad for anyone ....and they are the one who can take stand even for strangers ...we need more people like this and I really appreciate their kindness...☺️ As in the case of domestic violence there is no chance to forgive... There is no chance to settle any domestic violence at home... A quick action is needed.. that's it🤨
we have this kind of social experiments in Turkey and people start beating up the man immediately. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or a bad thing but in this experiment i liked that people trying to have a conversation with him and lecture him.
Leah Sauceda me too. It’s something really horrible that shouldn’t be glamorised like these folks seem to be trying to do while telling him not to do it in there, telling him HE’S A GOOD MAN, when, for all they knew, he was beating the crap out of his partner. These people really need to wake up and start reporting these situations
Gray Sauceda and want to know the worst part. It happens to boys all the time when girls abuse them and no one does anything. That’s worse.. in the other hand girls at least have the public to protect them.
I agree,here in Tennessee he would have a man beat his ass in the street or a large group of women would have jumped him and beat his ass in a football huddle pile of pissed off women while a couple of other women put her in a car and drive off with her
To be honest the way they were telling him was like as if they were saying " If you were going to hit her , do it at home, but if I saw that I would not want her to go anywhere with him
it made me cry how so many people just walked by and, even if they interfered, how others said to go home and solve it like no??? if that were me, i would get her away from him asap!! i would be left feeling so uneasy if i told them to do it at home and not in public
my mother wouldn’t tolerate any of this, my aunt went through this (her little sister) and my mom one time saw this happening when she went to Vegas. She wanted to beat the shit out of him. She just helped her and kept distance between them until he left.
It's very sad and pathetic that a lot people doesn't even help her or even stop the guy from hurting her, if people keep being like this I'm scared of what the world will become in the future..
Vıvıđ Møøn no, they were saying he’s a good man, and, worse, telling him to settle it at home.. In my country, it’s a public matter, domestic violence is a public issue, and anyone can report AND should. What we see them doing, their reaction to this HORRIBLE (tho fake) scenario, isn’t right, it’s not correct, it is the result of the conformism based in their mentalities with these kinda situations and a cultural belief that DV is a private matter. Of course, it all depends on the circumstances, but in this case, he looked, apparently, ready to give her some broken bones and bruised face and even make her bleed! Hell, he could’ve killed her for all they knew! Yet, no one did anything major. No one gave him a lesson. Even those three guys; they were THREE; yet they simply told him not to embarrass himself, even when the guy said “I’ll hit you when we get back home”. They didn’t drag him, they didn’t call the police, they didn’t protect her and took her with them to the police station, they didn’t take him to the legitimate authorities. They simply separated him from her in that moment and asked “how can you do this?” etc etc etc.. when, again, for all they knew, once they left, he could keep tormenting and beating her up. What they did wouldn’t change anything. But it’s in their mentalities. That they don’t do more than that. If it’s true like some people said here in the comments that the police also don’t do anything in China to protect these victims, then these guys already know this; they could’ve done something different upon their own means to stop this situation, to help HER, who seemed clearly defenceless and helpless. The guy was going to keep beating her up once they had left, if this was a real scenario. They knew this and didn’t do anything else. This breaks my heart, honestly 😔
A random woman started filming the incident instead of helping the girl. Is that what you do when something serious like domestic violence is witnessed by you
I’ve had a situation like this happen before. It was scary because I wasn’t sure if I could stop it, the girl looked so scared and I wanted to help, but, I knew that if I interfered they both might go against me, so before I got myself involved I took a quick video of him abusing her then I called the police and then went to stop it. I do boxing sessions and I have stamina and a strong core so I used that to my advantage to fight the man, but the women turned on me as well and helped her husband (which I did kind of expect) but, I didn’t hit her at all instead I gave her pushes so she would move out of the way. When the police did arrive which took about 3-4 minutes, by that time I was bruised and worn out, we all got questioned and taken in, the girl went against me and took her husbands side accusing me of abusing them both but I had video evidence that she was being abused my her husband. I had to file a report and then I took my leave, they assured me they would look further into the case and look into the video. I’m scared that if he doesn’t get sentenced he would continue to hurt her. Please help other people who need it! Be smart with your actions and do not put yourself at risk straight away, also make sure to have called the police beforehand and take video evidence of the situation, it will help a ton!
interesting how so many people said "go home and settle this". This is a common thing in a lot of asian cultures I think. Its as if they're more concerned with how they're acting in public and to go and sort it out in their own home.
I'm not really inported to be uploaded 10 months, I'm really glad you love this kind of content not because of violence, but because I see people who really help with my heart that I really like it thanks to the people who record this content because this kind of content teaches you that not everyone is bad really appeared a lot to those kind of people who roast it possible to save someone who really needs him thank you very much for teaching that not all They are really bad thank you very much and because I am not English I am using the translator... Thank you from the heart to the people who are a real good thing thank you
How could those people be so calm ? If I were them , seeing a guy publicly hitting a woman like that , i would have punched the sh1t outta him. No question asked.
No caso de alguém bater em mulher...MANO CHAMA A POLÍCIA, NÃO FICA CONVERSANDO PORQUE NÃO VAI ADIANTAR DAR FLORZINHA PRA ESSAS PESSOAS QUE MALTRATAM MULHER
Less people intervene than other videos in this social experiment - this is a sad reality that in China DV is still considered an internal family matter and intervention rarely happened unless reported and/or serious bodily harm have already occured. One day I hope this will change.
Eu não consigo ver esse tipo de situação acontecendo e as pessoas só passando, não dizendo nada, não interferindo, e por causa disso muitas mulheres morrem por dia por violência doméstica e ninguém se importa.
People might say they got disappointed by this but I wonder how would they act when this happens in front of them because I’m not sure of myself. This is so troubling but not everyone has the urge and bravery to speak up.
Very sad what we are witnessing: most people didn’t stop, most of those who stopped asked him to do it at home. That’s why feminism is still necessary as it is fighting for women equality, opportunities, freedom of choices and well being in a mostly very patriarchal world.
Feminist fight for women's rights. Women already have rights(Well, Shit. For the most part). Anyway, my point is, the fact that people don't respect women's rights have nothing to do with feminist. Something else has got to be done then
Dear women of the world Repent you for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Repent of your sin of sleeping with a man without marriage. Repent of your sin of lying to yourself and others and God. Repent of your sin of stealing from others and yourself by not being wise in the things of heaven. Type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments read them become wise in them and do them. Dear women of the world repent of killing others and yourself by hating. Repent of disobedient to your husband. Don't fear him leading you astry instead have faith and pray with a headcovering to Jesus for help ever time a problem comes up. Dear women of the Repent of disobedient to your parents. Do not fear them leading you astry simply pray to Jesus if you notice any trouble from them. Dear loving women of the world repent of your sin of hard heartedness and don't divorce your husbands. Instead take it to Jesus in your pray closet. Dear women of the world repent of abortion of killing your babies of killing another life. Be a hero and save another. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of immodest and dressing in a manner that lead others to the sin of wrath and lust. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of always agruing with others. Be as peaceful as possible. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of gossiping and putting down others. For you hurt yourself as well for no one trust a gossiper or like a mean person. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of unforgiveness and forgive those who wrong you. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of teaching men and practicing authority over one. Dear women of the world who are mom's repent of your sin of working and focus on your family. Dear women of the world repent of your sin for the kingdom of heaven is near and be baptized. Then pick up a Bible study it and find the commandments in it found in the new testament and do then exactly as instructed. If you do not have time to read type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments. Thanks and love y'all
oh in chinese it's like a roundabout way of saying "You should be a good man since you say you are/should be. You should be ashamed for not being a good man."
This reminds me about my deceased Mama, she also died because of this. The worst thing is I got a step mother 40 days after Mama died, and no one of both family member matter this or stand for me back then, coz they think that it was his right ... I miss my Mama 😭
People who told him “you seem like a nice man” or “ I’m not criticizing you” are extra soft. No he doesn’t seem nice at all. I’ll legit lose it and engage in a physical fight. Not saying it’s the right thing to do, it’s what I’ll do. Because I am sick of it.
Something very wise that my parents told my sister and I was “If we never ONCE laid a hand on *you* , why would you let anyone else do so? Whether he’s your husband, cousin or boss, if you get beat then you beat them back twice” If he was doing this in Colombia my dude would’ve had to run away not only from men but many angered women that are ready to show that strength is given to both genders equally... though there are still cases of domestic violence, I can actually say that women in Colombia are no longer subjected to let themselves get beat up... we are actually ready to beat back and worse. Guess we have some nerve and real bad temper when it comes to abuse 😂😂
This is actually the first video I've seen on the channel that didn't make me feel better about humanity 😕. So many people just walking by, and even those who intervened seemed to suggest that the problem wasn't with what he was doing but that he was doing it where other people could see.....
I had a friend step up for a girl in this situation and the guy shot and killed him, so it's hard to step into this situation for me, I probably would have said something but kept my distance
Bu Türkiye'de olsa o herif iyi bir dayak yemişti. (Bu dayağı etraftaki erkekler onu döver diye algılamayın. İlk önce kadınlar girişir.) Ayrıca kadın da bağırır ve yardım isterdi zaten. Çin için üzüldüm. Neredeyse kimsenin umrunda değildi durumun ciddiyeti. Yok efendim "Gidin evinizde çözün" yok efendim "Siz güzel bir çiftsiniz, kavga etmeyin" Hee teyze hee
I'm so disappointed for some people like dude what if the girl is your mom? Your Sister? Huh? I hope we can go back in the time when men treated a women as a queen or princess not a slave sorry for my grammatical mistake.
jimin's Wifue um women were treated worse in the past. Domestic violence was the norm but is now illegal in many parts. Please don’t look at the past through rose coloured lenses.
Domestic violence is trivialized in different ways from around the world. In the West, when people victim-blame domestic abuse victims, they go “WHY ARE YOU STAYING WITH HIM/HER IF HE/SHE BEATS YOU?!” Not realizing the abuser threatened the victim if they dare leave and the victim is scared that the abuser would kill them or hurt their family and friends. Also, I noticed most of the victim-blamers are simps and incels. In Asian countries, people are too scared to help domestic violence victims because they’re scared they will make the problem worse or get hurt too, it’s a huge issue. This is coming from an actual Asian person. Domestic violence is often treated as an issue that the abusers and victims should solve on their own. Too many bystanders.
I’m more worried about how some of them said “go home and solve it there don’t be doing it around in public” that to me is unsettling...
I couldn’t agree more, it’s really upsetting to see that kind of mind set... because at home no one can help her, at least in public there is somewhere for her to go if she need, she can run or go to the police, yet at home she is even more defenceless
I understand that actually, because one time I interfered and both the man and girlfriend tried to beat me up.
Dana Pink what for through? Was the girlfriend gettinng abused or was the boyfriend?
@@Sunshine-bt2wx girlfriend was being abused. I feel like that if they are not asking for help, then now I will let them be, because most people in those relationships are too attached to thier abuser. They also will lie for them, so when the police come and you try to explain the situation, you'll get arrested because of thier lies,
I would be hesitant to stop if im the only person around. Because its your word against the both if thiers.
Dana Pink oh yeah thats very true ...Hope you are okay though.
My father in law is American, when he saw a girl being hit by a dude, he wrapped his arm around the dude's neck and made him stop. No question asked.
merica... women give us men children
Wow 😯 I’m more of a pacifist but good for your father since he stepped in like that
Much respect to your Father In-Law. 👍
Ur should be grateful for having him on your side
Dear Myself, I am.
The thing that kinda ticked me about this video is some people told him to stop because people were watching. Not because it was wrong but because they didn’t want to watch. Like I’m glad they made him stop but the reason for it was kinda wrong and shallow.
Queen Of Thine Bitchery ikr, it’s seriously upsetting people can be so disgusting
Also keep in mind these are translations and not always accurate. I know some mandarin and it isn’t a perfect translation so what they are saying isn’t necessarily what we are reading. Similar; but not the same.
Dom Wolf oh yeah definitely! I’ll make sure to keep that in mind!
The Final Rumbling completely agree! Thank you for educating me on it! I will remember that for the future!
@The Final Rumbling Is that true?
"You seem like a good guy"
Actor: *trying hard to not smile but ended up smile a lil bit*
hahaha i thought only me think like this.
He cute
Hahaha true 💜
That was sweet of the bystander
@@andrewalmada ikr
Catch someone doing this in North America, or the UK. They would get beat.
Viridi facts 😂😂I can just see him getting his ass beat by about 10 guys in the uk we don’t play with that shit
Also in Philippines they will hit you with a wood
Not where I live 🥴😪
Facts 👏🏻
No Ye man you got me there
The crazy thing was everybody was basically saying beat her at home not out in the open, and still said he seemed like a good man, what? Is beating a woman normal there!?!?
I thought the same thing, the women were saying to him "I can see that you're a good man." Ummm, no you're not a good man if you mistreat your wife that way. Then to top it off suggesting that they go home and settle it. You just know that if he treats her that way in public, it's only worse when they are home alone.
Jamia Murphy sadly in asia a lot of people don’t want to get involved
You see, there's really a cultural difference. When we say he seem like a good man it was kind of like reminding him that he should act like a good man since he was said to be one.
like ppl in the video confuse me, I mean would you tell your friend, daughter, etc. to go home with their abusive partner and fix it at home??? this really, idk?? recommending she be alone with him like he's totally just going to talk and not be able to beat her at home.
No, it's a cultural thing. By saying that many people are watching is like "you are bringing shame to yourself, you should be ashamed for doing that" etc.
Woman: You can’t bully her here, go home.
Me: What? He shouldn’t bully her at all!
Aries actually the man standing next to her said that while the woman was talking
I saw a lot of comments pointing that it could be much harmful by asking them to solve it at home, but actually there is a saying in China which is not to show your family business especially ugly things in public. That is why elder people do that to interfere. I think younger generation will take it more seriously as a domestic violence in the future.
Okay.... why didn't anyone call the police?
@@dianachin4849 wait...
@@minecraftweeeweeweeb8695 Someone should call the police. In the US, we don't accept domestic violence of any kind
This is so heartbreaking knowing this actually happens to many "couples" out there..m
Passers-by : Take their phone.
Man: Are you adult!?!?
Human now a days.
Mc Gam not humans. But rude people. Stop saying “human now a days” cuz it ain’t making you look better
@@namikat6068 That's why I said Human, We're part of it. It's the same thing. Don't be feel offended. Cause that's true.
Mc Gam not it ain’t. I hate hopeless and rude people like you
@@namikat6068 I feel sorry to you.. You don't even know me, who are you to judge, where on earth do you live. If you don't like my comment. Ignore it simple.
You two are fighting over small thing look at you this is human now days
it’s sad how so many people were saying “you seem like a good man” after they watched him beat on her and drag her around smh and one man even said to “go home and settle it” as in don’t hit her in public just do it at your house
Exactly. 🙄
You miss perception. You are not from Asia atr you?
Meliesa what’s the perception? What kind of perception would allow domestic violence to continue, whether in public or at home? You cannot use the excuse “because I’m asian or it’s part of the asian culture.” It only means this asian culture is not addressing this issue of domestic violence. Saying it’s part of the asian culture is only an excuse for domestic violence that shouldn’t appear anywhere!!
Welcome to Asia. Nobody wants to see this kind of crap in public and nobody wants to get involved so you're alone
I was like 😐😐
My mom was abused by my dad when they were still together, around 16 years ago. He’d slap her in front of her family, friends and in public. I’m thankful that people tried making my dad stop abusing her. My mom divorced him and he kept stalking her but now he stopped abusing and he’s in jail now.
I'm so glad she's living a way better life now🙏
My dad did the same with mom😭 they divorcied but sometimes he try to start a fight with me or my mom
... Sorry for my english.
even the people who do speak up dont say the right things just embarassed because they dont want people to see
Kinda agree
Exactly... some of them said u cant do this in public.. like wtf you cant do this ANYWHERE
jjang flo exactly. they’re literally telling him to beat her up at home smh
ughnili I’m sorry if I offends you in anyway with this comment but they probably might be very anxious and not haven right words to put together or I was looking thourgh comments some said it’s a culture thing for saying something belong the lines of you should be ashamed of yourself.
The amount of ppl who said “ go home” or “ don’t do this here” is so disappointing. U never know how much that guy could be holding back in public, he could do so much worse in his home. Like so sad, like call the police omg.
People wanted to help but I’m sure they were scared to interfere..
I think for these
The guy will just say its none of your business and u domt know what happened etc
give a big applause 👏 to 1:08 he’s the first person to ever approach them and thanks to the rest that helped them afterwards! I understand the people that didn’t lend a hand, that’s because of they are scared cos the man is so good at acting omG I am scared of violence 😶
It's not just they are scared. This is in Asia and most Asians grew up with sense of shame and saving face. Most people won't jump to domestic tiffs unless they see something major that would need reporting. Not their fault for staying away, it really is just the way they are raised.
But I'm glad people did step up
@Johnston Steiner lmao I live in singapore bruh
ainul zulkifli
*Hell yah lmao*
Apa khabar...
Dear women of the world Repent you for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Repent of your sin of sleeping with a man without marriage. Repent of your sin of lying to yourself and others and God. Repent of your sin of stealing from others and yourself by not being wise in the things of heaven. Type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments read them become wise in them and do them. Dear women of the world repent of killing others and yourself by hating. Repent of disobedient to your husband. Don't fear him leading you astry instead have faith and pray with a headcovering to Jesus for help ever time a problem comes up. Dear women of the Repent of disobedient to your parents. Do not fear them leading you astry simply pray to Jesus if you notice any trouble from them. Dear loving women of the world repent of your sin of hard heartedness and don't divorce your husbands. Instead take it to Jesus in your pray closet. Dear women of the world repent of abortion of killing your babies of killing another life. Be a hero and save another. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of immodest and dressing in a manner that lead others to the sin of wrath and lust. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of always agruing with others. Be as peaceful as possible. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of gossiping and putting down others. For you hurt yourself as well for no one trust a gossiper or like a mean person. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of unforgiveness and forgive those who wrong you. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of teaching men and practicing authority over one. Dear women of the world who are mom's repent of your sin of working and focus on your family. Dear women of the world repent of your sin for the kingdom of heaven is near and be baptized. Then pick up a Bible study it and find the commandments in it found in the new testament and do then exactly as instructed. If you do not have time to read type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments. Thanks and love y'all
This makes me feel as though if someone was bleeding to death they'd tell them to go home and die
thing l exactly! He was being really rough (well, all acted, of course), was really (apparently) hurting her very bad and still no one took him to the police station, or called them there..
i am SHOCKED by the amount of people who walked by even when the girl was literally thrown on the ground😢
This happened here in Philippines where a Korean guy beat his Filipina Girlfriend ,
the people beat him instantly and didn't wait to call the police and I feel bad for laughing and cheering for the people to beat him more
Dont feel bad its karma
Hahaha 😂
Good, cheer harder 😂😂
Lol 😆
Lul peyk
news
i was hoping someone would stop her from going home with him
Nicole Penny me too 😔
Ok, but can we congratulate this guy on his acting abilities? Like, damn, he IS really good! And not just here, in many other videos I’ve seen of him acting on this channel, he is over the top good! Congrats to you, whatever is your name, I don’t know, I’m really sorry 😅 . Congrats 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I feel this is one instance where the public fell short of what they should have done. No one checked on how the woman was, whether she was hurt or in need of police help. All they said was people are watching you, and sort this out at home. They even called him a nice looking guy! What he was doing wasn't just unseemly or unnecessary, it was abuse, dangerous and downright illegal. Everyone downplayed how serious it clearly was.
PenJinSoul exactly
Honestly, if I saw someone getting hurt, I wouldn't go right up to them and tell them to stop, but get my phone and call 911. I honestly am a shy person, and don't have the guts to stand up, but the best I can do is call the police. God bless those people who helped her. ^w^
There was a case of domestic violence across the street from my house once. I watched for a moment to be able to understand what was happening. Then it started escalating. So I yelled at them twice that I was going to call the cops on them. At one point the man tackled her into a large bush, was saying things like "do you like me doing this to you?" They were both screaming. I was terrified, being a teenager, home alone. Never witnessing something like that before. I did call 911, but the scene de-escilated as I was talking to the operator. I had to give descriptions of both people, and they sent a patrol car. Because the couple ending up walking off. One of the scariest moments of my life. My entire body was shaking. Whew, I still get freaked out talking about it. But its a huge issue.
"She is with u because she think you are a good guy so stop hitting her".. omg man i stan your words
Pretty sure that when they say "people are watching" they don't mean "hey do that in private" but more like "you're not being honorable rn and shame on you"
"Wife is someone you should love and care about, you shouldn't her."
Jesus christ most people didnt even do anything and some of the people who said something still didnt care....this is heart warming at all ):
This channel deserves a lot of subscribers
My heart just shattered when that woman recorded instead of helping her
皆こんなやつと別れろとか言わずにちゃんと話し合えば心が通じるってことを伝えてくれていて、本当に好きだなあ
The fact that people just walked passed baffles me
its heartbreaking to see people not caring but its heartwarming to see people helping the girl. im not crying, you are :”)
I'm shocked at how muted their reactions are. The few who intervened just said, don't do that outside. So at home it's okay? So messed up. I expected people to call the police or tackle the man as a group.
And NO ONE comforted the abused woman???? Instead people told the man he was probably good deep down? I don't understand
"What u said, what u do, there's no turning back" THAT IS SO INSPIRING MAAM
"What u said what u do, there is no turning back"
OMG😭😭😭😭
Wow, I found that concerning that they kept telling him "you seem like a good person sort this out at home"
"No puedes golpearla aqui" espero que la traducción este mal, porque realmente no le puede golpear ni en privado ni en publico
Soy brasileña y estoy aprendiendo español. Y en el Portugués la traducción es diferente ,dys ''no puedes golpearla'' ; sí la traducción esta mal 🙂👋 .
In America we don’t get down like that. If we see a girl getting hit by her husband, no questions asked he’s getting beat up🤦🏾♀️ I grateful to the bystanders that stopped and helped
the group of men who helped her tho. bless their hearts
The lack of help is embarrassing. Is this normal for them? Smh
I personally can understand why they didn't got involved in this fight!
But what they should have done is calling the police instead!!
Here in Germany a couple got into a fight
A passanger wanted to stop the man hitting his wife.
But the man stabbed the passanger with a knife in his stomach.
It's not always good to get involved in a fight especially when a man looks so aggresive.
But there are other ways of helping this poor woman,
For examble calling the police.
I live in Germany, too, and once saw a case like this. I yelled at the guy and people started to chime in. A group of guys tackled the "boyfriend" to the ground and held him there until the police arrived.
You have to speak up and gather people - then he would have no chance with a knife or without.
That won't help much, even the cops don't want to get involved in a family issue
@@gaojerry7430 Depends on the country. If it's the USA or Canada, the husbund will be immediately arrested.
@@gaojerry7430 if you do that thing in usa or Canada you will get arrested (im neither American neither canadian)
I bring a taser out everywhere I go (being a woman, yknow). I don’t know how people can just walk by like nothing is happening, this is a situation where I would pull it out and use it.
There was some domestic violence between my parents, so this really hits home for me. It’s upsetting to see people just walk by or say “not here.” The least you could do is call police. There’s nothing ok about this. For all we know, she could be killed when they get home.
This channel doesn't deserve 161000 subscribers. This deserves 161mil subscribers
Its really depends on some people who can't see bad for anyone ....and they are the one who can take stand even for strangers ...we need more people like this and I really appreciate their kindness...☺️
As in the case of domestic violence there is no chance to forgive... There is no chance to settle any domestic violence at home... A quick action is needed.. that's it🤨
we have this kind of social experiments in Turkey and people start beating up the man immediately. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or a bad thing but in this experiment i liked that people trying to have a conversation with him and lecture him.
It pisses me off because some of them didn’t care that the dude was beating the girl, they just didn’t want to have to see it
Damn it, I almost cry with the kindness of few people who responded to the guy.
En latinoamerica, los pendejos no se atreven a hacer eso en la calle porque si los atrapan los agarran a madrazos
Sii aca es combo seguro mas si viste comp le tiraba el pelo.
Que rabia
i legit almost cried bc it’s so horrible that sh*t like this happens every day, in public or not
Leah Sauceda me too. It’s something really horrible that shouldn’t be glamorised like these folks seem to be trying to do while telling him not to do it in there, telling him HE’S A GOOD MAN, when, for all they knew, he was beating the crap out of his partner. These people really need to wake up and start reporting these situations
Gray Sauceda and want to know the worst part. It happens to boys all the time when girls abuse them and no one does anything. That’s worse.. in the other hand girls at least have the public to protect them.
I'm happy to see there are still humanity in this world..
Love from India..
Thank you for reaction!
I am surprised that so many ppl just left it as it wouldn't be their business. We have to react in such cases.
yeah in america someone would’ve beaten him up or called the cops lmao. this is a nice approach tho
I agree,here in Tennessee he would have a man beat his ass in the street or a large group of women would have jumped him and beat his ass in a football huddle pile of pissed off women while a couple of other women put her in a car and drive off with her
The elderly women who stood up for her are and put him in his place are QUEENS
The girl's acting is top class!!!!
To be honest the way they were telling him was like as if they were saying " If you were going to hit her , do it at home, but if I saw that I would not want her to go anywhere with him
Cry baby same 😭
Their thoughts: *"The others will help"*
thats exactly what i think
Totally agree 😞
it made me cry how so many people just walked by and, even if they interfered, how others said to go home and solve it like no??? if that were me, i would get her away from him asap!! i would be left feeling so uneasy if i told them to do it at home and not in public
I’m so angry at the fact that SO MANY people just walked past and did nothing 😔
my mother wouldn’t tolerate any of this, my aunt went through this (her little sister) and my mom one time saw this happening when she went to Vegas. She wanted to beat the shit out of him. She just helped her and kept distance between them until he left.
If I saw a situation like this, I would not let him take her.
It's very sad and pathetic that a lot people doesn't even help her or even stop the guy from hurting her, if people keep being like this I'm scared of what the world will become in the future..
Just the fact that the older people are the ones properly scolding him
Vıvıđ Møøn no, they were saying he’s a good man, and, worse, telling him to settle it at home.. In my country, it’s a public matter, domestic violence is a public issue, and anyone can report AND should. What we see them doing, their reaction to this HORRIBLE (tho fake) scenario, isn’t right, it’s not correct, it is the result of the conformism based in their mentalities with these kinda situations and a cultural belief that DV is a private matter. Of course, it all depends on the circumstances, but in this case, he looked, apparently, ready to give her some broken bones and bruised face and even make her bleed! Hell, he could’ve killed her for all they knew! Yet, no one did anything major. No one gave him a lesson. Even those three guys; they were THREE; yet they simply told him not to embarrass himself, even when the guy said “I’ll hit you when we get back home”. They didn’t drag him, they didn’t call the police, they didn’t protect her and took her with them to the police station, they didn’t take him to the legitimate authorities. They simply separated him from her in that moment and asked “how can you do this?” etc etc etc.. when, again, for all they knew, once they left, he could keep tormenting and beating her up. What they did wouldn’t change anything. But it’s in their mentalities. That they don’t do more than that. If it’s true like some people said here in the comments that the police also don’t do anything in China to protect these victims, then these guys already know this; they could’ve done something different upon their own means to stop this situation, to help HER, who seemed clearly defenceless and helpless. The guy was going to keep beating her up once they had left, if this was a real scenario. They knew this and didn’t do anything else. This breaks my heart, honestly 😔
A random woman started filming the incident instead of helping the girl. Is that what you do when something serious like domestic violence is witnessed by you
Yo riéndome acá de cómo actúan 😂😂😂✌🏻
I’ve had a situation like this happen before. It was scary because I wasn’t sure if I could stop it, the girl looked so scared and I wanted to help, but, I knew that if I interfered they both might go against me, so before I got myself involved I took a quick video of him abusing her then I called the police and then went to stop it. I do boxing sessions and I have stamina and a strong core so I used that to my advantage to fight the man, but the women turned on me as well and helped her husband (which I did kind of expect) but, I didn’t hit her at all instead I gave her pushes so she would move out of the way. When the police did arrive which took about 3-4 minutes, by that time I was bruised and worn out, we all got questioned and taken in, the girl went against me and took her husbands side accusing me of abusing them both but I had video evidence that she was being abused my her husband. I had to file a report and then I took my leave, they assured me they would look further into the case and look into the video. I’m scared that if he doesn’t get sentenced he would continue to hurt her. Please help other people who need it! Be smart with your actions and do not put yourself at risk straight away, also make sure to have called the police beforehand and take video evidence of the situation, it will help a ton!
interesting how so many people said "go home and settle this". This is a common thing in a lot of asian cultures I think. Its as if they're more concerned with how they're acting in public and to go and sort it out in their own home.
I'm not really inported to be uploaded 10 months, I'm really glad you love this kind of content not because of violence, but because I see people who really help with my heart that I really like it thanks to the people who record this content because this kind of content teaches you that not everyone is bad really appeared a lot to those kind of people who roast it possible to save someone who really needs him thank you very much for teaching that not all They are really bad thank you very much and because I am not English I am using the translator... Thank you from the heart to the people who are a real good thing thank you
How can you as an adult just walk by a helpless woman thats being hit on! That part got me so angry!
That was so sad. I hurt so much when see someone hurting another person. I would rather put myself between someones pain than to ignore it.
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X2 andaba en eso XD
How could those people be so calm ? If I were them , seeing a guy publicly hitting a woman like that , i would have punched the sh1t outta him. No question asked.
No caso de alguém bater em mulher...MANO CHAMA A POLÍCIA, NÃO FICA CONVERSANDO PORQUE NÃO VAI ADIANTAR DAR FLORZINHA PRA ESSAS PESSOAS QUE MALTRATAM MULHER
It's sick that some of them just passed by like it's a normal thing. No one deserves this kind of treatment.
Less people intervene than other videos in this social experiment - this is a sad reality that in China DV is still considered an internal family matter and intervention rarely happened unless reported and/or serious bodily harm have already occured. One day I hope this will change.
Thx for the subtitles!!
Eu não consigo ver esse tipo de situação acontecendo e as pessoas só passando, não dizendo nada, não interferindo, e por causa disso muitas mulheres morrem por dia por violência doméstica e ninguém se importa.
sim,todo mundo passando e não falando nada...
People might say they got disappointed by this but I wonder how would they act when this happens in front of them because I’m not sure of myself. This is so troubling but not everyone has the urge and bravery to speak up.
Very sad what we are witnessing: most people didn’t stop, most of those who stopped asked him to do it at home. That’s why feminism is still necessary as it is fighting for women equality, opportunities, freedom of choices and well being in a mostly very patriarchal world.
Feminist fight for women's rights. Women already have rights(Well, Shit. For the most part). Anyway, my point is, the fact that people don't respect women's rights have nothing to do with feminist. Something else has got to be done then
@@jiminplsletmehit7620 feminists fight for equal treatment of every gender.
Dear women of the world Repent you for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Repent of your sin of sleeping with a man without marriage. Repent of your sin of lying to yourself and others and God. Repent of your sin of stealing from others and yourself by not being wise in the things of heaven. Type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments read them become wise in them and do them. Dear women of the world repent of killing others and yourself by hating. Repent of disobedient to your husband. Don't fear him leading you astry instead have faith and pray with a headcovering to Jesus for help ever time a problem comes up. Dear women of the Repent of disobedient to your parents. Do not fear them leading you astry simply pray to Jesus if you notice any trouble from them. Dear loving women of the world repent of your sin of hard heartedness and don't divorce your husbands. Instead take it to Jesus in your pray closet. Dear women of the world repent of abortion of killing your babies of killing another life. Be a hero and save another. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of immodest and dressing in a manner that lead others to the sin of wrath and lust. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of always agruing with others. Be as peaceful as possible. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of gossiping and putting down others. For you hurt yourself as well for no one trust a gossiper or like a mean person. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of unforgiveness and forgive those who wrong you. Dear women of the world repent of your sin of teaching men and practicing authority over one. Dear women of the world who are mom's repent of your sin of working and focus on your family. Dear women of the world repent of your sin for the kingdom of heaven is near and be baptized. Then pick up a Bible study it and find the commandments in it found in the new testament and do then exactly as instructed. If you do not have time to read type into Google the 1050 new testament commandments. Thanks and love y'all
Salome P , you are that psycho : ruclips.net/video/SrDSqODtEFM/видео.html
It's disgusting to see how many people just walked away like nothing happens.
*abuses woman* “you seem like a good man”
uhhhhhhh who’s gonna tell them
oh in chinese it's like a roundabout way of saying "You should be a good man since you say you are/should be. You should be ashamed for not being a good man."
@@awesomeblossom5214 okay I see. thanks for telling me
i like how the people spoke up about it, but saying settle it at home? that's more dangerous.
I literally hate some people who instead of helping others in trouble take videos in their stupid phone...
This reminds me about my deceased Mama, she also died because of this. The worst thing is I got a step mother 40 days after Mama died, and no one of both family member matter this or stand for me back then, coz they think that it was his right ... I miss my Mama 😭
People who told him “you seem like a nice man” or “ I’m not criticizing you” are extra soft. No he doesn’t seem nice at all.
I’ll legit lose it and engage in a physical fight. Not saying it’s the right thing to do, it’s what I’ll do. Because I am sick of it.
yeah they are much kinder and softer than people like you who are hard and violent.
"wife is someone you should love and care about,you shouldn't hit her." YAASS LOUDERR
I literally see this on the street and I get in full, how can you allow this and say "you're a good person" to who hits someone?
Akko exactly. It’s so sad their reactions 😔
Something very wise that my parents told my sister and I was “If we never ONCE laid a hand on *you* , why would you let anyone else do so? Whether he’s your husband, cousin or boss, if you get beat then you beat them back twice”
If he was doing this in Colombia my dude would’ve had to run away not only from men but many angered women that are ready to show that strength is given to both genders equally... though there are still cases of domestic violence, I can actually say that women in Colombia are no longer subjected to let themselves get beat up... we are actually ready to beat back and worse. Guess we have some nerve and real bad temper when it comes to abuse 😂😂
Be kind.... it's that simple
*Army * then get some help!
This is actually the first video I've seen on the channel that didn't make me feel better about humanity 😕. So many people just walking by, and even those who intervened seemed to suggest that the problem wasn't with what he was doing but that he was doing it where other people could see.....
Meu deus se fosse aqui no Brasil o pessoa ia chegar já um tapa dps uns murros, até a pessoa que bateu cair no chão
It is horrible to know that there are still people who just look and leave as if it were normal
I had a friend step up for a girl in this situation and the guy shot and killed him, so it's hard to step into this situation for me, I probably would have said something but kept my distance
Instead of saying go home and settle it i would've said go to jail and the police will settle it there and help the girl reach home safely 😤😤😤😤😤
I’m so disappointed in the woman who took a photo
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Bu Türkiye'de olsa o herif iyi bir dayak yemişti. (Bu dayağı etraftaki erkekler onu döver diye algılamayın. İlk önce kadınlar girişir.) Ayrıca kadın da bağırır ve yardım isterdi zaten. Çin için üzüldüm. Neredeyse kimsenin umrunda değildi durumun ciddiyeti. Yok efendim "Gidin evinizde çözün" yok efendim "Siz güzel bir çiftsiniz, kavga etmeyin" Hee teyze hee
😔😔🇮🇶😡😡والله لو اني غير اكله بسناني بعلي🗡⚔⚔
There are so many people who just walked by. I can’t stop myself from stopping the fight when I see one
I'm so disappointed for some people like dude what if the girl is your mom? Your Sister? Huh?
I hope we can go back in the time when men treated a women as a queen or princess not a slave
sorry for my grammatical mistake.
jimin's Wifue um women were treated worse in the past. Domestic violence was the norm but is now illegal in many parts. Please don’t look at the past through rose coloured lenses.
Domestic violence is trivialized in different ways from around the world.
In the West, when people victim-blame domestic abuse victims, they go “WHY ARE YOU STAYING WITH HIM/HER IF HE/SHE BEATS YOU?!” Not realizing the abuser threatened the victim if they dare leave and the victim is scared that the abuser would kill them or hurt their family and friends.
Also, I noticed most of the victim-blamers are simps and incels.
In Asian countries, people are too scared to help domestic violence victims because they’re scared they will make the problem worse or get hurt too, it’s a huge issue. This is coming from an actual Asian person. Domestic violence is often treated as an issue that the abusers and victims should solve on their own. Too many bystanders.