Do you know that feeling when you have lots of friends but you feel lonely? When you want everyone to leave you alone, but you just want someone to care. When you feel like you've finally lost hope.
Everybody’s like “I am so lonely oh such misery, I have no friends” But honestly I don’t think it’s about being lonely in the sense of actually not having anyone. The line that hit me the most is “I’m the shadow of the girl I want to be most “. Because there’s nothing worse than losing yourself, your dreams and hopes and desires, your will. Only then you are truly lonely. There’s always other people. But there’s never another “me”
Can relate , got what ur talking about. But as human beings we're differentl and each one of us has his or her way to label suffering and pain . It doesn't matter cause at the end of the day it is suffering and we all been haunted by the same ghost.
my cousin who was my best friend / older sister figure to me was the only one in my family who right through my fake smiles and the mask of fakeness i wore everyday and saw through the unhappiness of being at family occasions and gatherings cause she knew i always felt like the black sheep of the family , i still do but i am more stone cold , cold hearted and emotionally unavailable towards them cause i've had enough of their bullshit , lies and snootiness and fakeness . lies and emotional pain changes people and reshapes how we are , this song is hauntingly beautiful and soothing
anyone feel like the friend that's always "just there" like you are always just a little bit off from your friends. the one that sits at the end of the lunch table, the one that sometimes gets forgotten, the one that always walks a few steps behind the rest....yeah, me too.
SociallyAwkwardSarah this is exactly me :( but nobody notices and PART of me doesn't want to reach out . Honestly the amount of times my friend left me or forgot about me and I'm always pushed behind them when they are walking and even when they're talking I can't relate because I just don't connect with them anymore ... :(
Finally someone that understands and wants to help, not someone that tells me to deal with it or someone who wants to compete. It’s not a competition, it’s supposed to be a call for help
I think that's because they can't see you, so they don't judge you on your looks. People judge you based on what you look like, because they only want to care about the pretty people.
"I am the shell of the girl that I used to know well" I resonate so much with this line. My friends and family know me as the happy go lucky girl that jokes about everything and that will catch you when you fall. Now I am just an anxious mess who is great at hiding behind the mask of the girl I used to be because I can't bring myself to destroy the picture of the oh so happy and strong girl.
sums me up in a nutshell perfectly except ... , i am no longer smiling , not happy , not happy with having to be around most of my cousins or family events , occasions or whatever . etc . now i am just a girl who focuses on herself her needs and her cat and her direct fam . i used to be lonely in different senses of the word . now i just don't care , can't be bothered and honestly don't care what anyone says or thinks or even does about it cause they don't get that they caused me to be this way and caused that alienated and lonely feeling and reason for me being so cold and distance . i despise their fakeness and bullshit with a fiery passion and every fiber of my soul and my personal being . simply put my opinion is this -----> IDGAF & DON'T WASTE MY TIME WITH ANY OF THAT NONSENSE AND LIES. i am not a girl who has the time nor the patience nor the care for anyone's lies and bull crap . either be honest and real with me or piss off
Do you ever have one of those days, where nothing goes wrong, but you feel like you hate the world, and you just feel like breaking down and crying?...
Deep down nobody is scared of dying. We’re only scared of what comes after. R.i.p to those who lost their lives because this world was so fucked up they were willing to deal with what ever was waiting for them on the other side rather than live their life.
depression will slowly kill me im thinking of taking my own life because nobody care my friends leave me my family dont care of me so why do I have to live?
I think this is my favourite Christina Perri song. The tune is hauntingly beautiful. I love the piano in it. It's been years and I just keep coming back to it. Well done Christina.
when I was depressed in high school this song (along with her other songs) was my comfort, because it described how I was feeling so clearly. now I'm in college, it's been around 2 years since I last heard this song. I'm no longer depressed but this song will always have a place in my heart. I can gladly say "I'm okay" and mean it. I'm okay. thank you Christina
“Do not be afraid. I will save you. I have called you by name-you are mine. When you pass through deep waters, I will be with you; your troubles will not overwhelm you. When you pass through fire, you will not be burned; the hard trials that come will not hurt you. For I am the Lord, your God. … because you are precious to me and because I love you and give you honor, do not be afraid-I am with you!” Isaiah 43:1-5
Christina Perri is so talented.the song truely represents a wounded soul with a bizarre beauty of sadness and loneliness.her voice can stirr up the emotions
Audry Red19 sometimes its a good idea to let atleast someone in, now not everyone as i made that mistake but if you let the right person close than you are rewarded well
This song speaks to me on so many levels. Like the empty room is my mind. The loneliness can be overbearing sometimes. It can get to be too much so I "dance". I've shed so many tears that I can no longer cry but in my mind I cry rivers. I'm no longer the same as I used to be. I wear a mask everyday so that no one can know or see my pain. I also sing everyday to keep all thoughts of 'him' at bay
2 yrs ago i was alone crying in an empty class this song made me takeaway all the bad feelings that I kept for half a year my life was messy and unbearable back then listening to this song again made me grateful and aware of how powerful i am for getting through the hard times🙏🤗
anyone just feel alone but you have "frends" and family around you that you know they love you and you want to talk to them but you just cant get the right words out.....or is it just me....?
lilly trust me ur not alone when u only have like three real friends but only have one to talk about stuff and who will listen to u.....then u try ur family they make fun of u Bc u "like" someone and get to scared to talk to them any more......then have one real friend at school but doesn't understand anything u say.......the only friend without a phone....the only girl who is diffrent from EVEY other girl in the school Bc u didn't grow up with sisters so ur not a girly girl ugh I hate it.....they make fun of me when I'm not listening then there is a guy who likes u and u don't like him and can't think of a way to let him down easily 😔 Sometimes I feel like I have depression....but I really don't I fight with my brothers all the time then when I get upset I say things I don't mean and then go in my room sit infront of the door and cry ur heart out 😭😭😭 Bc nobody NOBODY understands u then ur too shy to stand up for ur self or ur friends........it bothers me.....so Lilly trust me when I say this.....you are NOT alone u don't have to go through it alone I'll be here for u if u need to talk I promis I listen I'm not like other people....so if u need me just talk to me
Just found this song again. I used to hear it when I cutted my arms bleeding...so many memories right now...to all the people hurting themselfs: It's getting better. I promise. People will come and people will go. The ones who are important will stay. Believe me. Stay strong and try not to drown in your own tears. Love you all.
I remember a year ago I would listen to this while I cried myself to sleep wishing for death now I want to go back to that old me and say "Hey, things will get better. It may be harder at times but it will get better." I feel very proud of myself. I went to listening to this while crying and cutting to now. Listening to it while I think to myself that I am strong. I did it.
When I was younger I would listen to this song and also sing it because I thought it sounded beautiful. But now I listen to it and I feel the lyrics. Somehow. Oh, how I didn't get the meaning in the past. I think there's many who feel like that. Here are so many suffering, lost people with deep wounded souls. It could break a person's heart.
Yeah, I was fine before I knew that song... It made me thinking about my life. I hate myself now and started cutting. Believe me... don't think too much. That'll crash your mind forever. You'll never feel fine again. So please just enjoy what you have. Later you won't be able to do it. Don't end like me. Just be fine and enjoy life.
I can tell you that I hated myself too. Sometimes Im in front of the mirror and become angry. But I learned and still know it doesn't matter. It just does not matter as long as you have people liking you the way you are. And if someone judges you based off your look, that person doesn't deserve you. You're great the way you are. But if you wanna loose some weight or whatever, do it. As long as you do it for yourself. Don't ever change yourself for someone else. Keep that in mind. I've not had it easy in life, but I never ended cutting myself, cause it's a waste and I knew I'll regret it. A waste of time and pain. Cutting may make yourself feel better for that moment, but later on you'll look at them and hate yourself even more. And also, it's not the end for you. It is NEVER TOO LATE to get help. You can still stop. It is like an addiction, I know. A cry for help, but just open your mouth and ask for it. Even if you don't know people in real life who help, you can call Hotlines or seek for help in forums. You can do it. Youre strong. Good luck
First off, this is a mesmerizing hypnotic melody that traps my mind somewhere between a Tim Burton and James Bond film. I can feel the struggle between excitement and pain. The lyrics are powerful, cutting straight to the point. This is a true work of art, all around. Thank You. P.S. You have to listen to this in surround sound, close your eyes, clear your mind, elevate the volume, and you achieve perfection.
"The Lonely" 2am; where do I begin, Crying off my face again. The silent sound of loneliness Wants to follow me to bed. I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most. I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well. Dancing slowly in an empty room, Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby. Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again. Too afraid to go inside For the pain of one more loveless night. Cause the loneliness will stay with me And hold me till I fall asleep. I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most. I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well. Dancing slowly in an empty room, Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby. Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again. Broken pieces of A barely breathing story Where there once was love Now there's only me and the lonely. Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again.
He helped me for my lyrics ^^' I'm gonna upload a nightcore version with lyrics of this song and I only need to copy past the phrase, also, thanks Random Ideas ^^
i know there are people out there that say, if you need me just talk to me, sometimes, its not better to TALK about something, its better to tell about something, so... if you need someone to BE there with you, not judge you, not encourage you, just listen to you, and be there with you.... im here? Sorry... i dont help alot of people, and i hate talking, i just like listening and being there for someone
The Lonely" 2am; where do I begin Crying off my face again The silent sound of loneliness Wants to follow me to bed I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Too afraid to go inside For the pain of one more loveless night Cause the loneliness will stay with me And hold me till I fall asleep I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Broken pieces of A barely breathing story Where there once was love Now there's only me And the lonely Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you? I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again
Loneliness a poem I wrote.. No one around~ It's pitch black And there's not a sound Except the heaving breathing coming from someone Trying to hold in her feelings get away from them. Just run Tears streaming down her face~ She thought she had at least one person left, But she discovered they chose a different place. No one understands her, And teary eyes are making her vision blur. Nothing is clear, but it doesn't matter there's nothing to see, Because in this darkness there's only one thing that there can be. With her is only this It's the cold bitter loneliness
I remember this being one of the first songs that made me realize I had depression. I contemplated about showing this to my parents to make them understand I needed help, this song just made perfect sense as to how I was feeling about my life as a whole. I was depressed for five years. Now I can almost find the courage to say that I'm not ill anymore, after making it through the first winter without being depressed. Listening to this song feels very nostalgic and sad but it also reminds me of how far I've come. I just wanted to take the time to tell the people who are depressed and listening to this right now that things will get better. No matter how many times you've heard that sentence and how hollow it seems, I promise you that it is true. Have faith in yourself and the strength that is inside of you. ❤️
When I see comments like this, my tears turn partly to ones of joy and love. I hope one day I'll be able to find my way back to the light. I healed once, but depression dragged me back into its clutches.
I dont know why Christina is so underrated her songs are full of meaning and people cant see that.I have had depression since 3rd grade and it really sucks.Sometimes i self harm and even tho i want to stop i just cant.Sometimes i listen to Cristinas songs and it helps a lot because in her song she talks about her expirences and that way i know im not alone.
I almost feel guilty when this song brings tears to my eyes cause I didn't even cry at my grandma's funeral. This song just hits me in the tear ducts and reminds me of the girl who left.
Depression is such a dark, unforgiving misfortune. I would wish many things upon my enemies, but not in any way depression. Society today has turned self mutilation, anorexia, depression into some sort of competition.. for those who really are trying to navigate through the dark while deaf, including myself, don't pay any mind to those people who in a way mock you. If anything, embrace that you know how it REALLY is like.
That is so true..maybe bcoz u jus get tuk for granted..u dont seem t matter..until a stranger actually reminds u of wat u r and wat a descent person u r..as if uve bin lost..strangers dont no u and cannot judge u..which makes it so much easier t let them in and confined in them..and again thy see you for you..can be a very big eye opener..can make u re evaluate wats goin on with ur life xx
I've always related to this song, but it has a whole new meaning for me. My boyfriend died in an awful car accident a month ago, and this song hurts so much to listen to yet it makes me feel something on the days I feel nothing. I miss you so much babe, every part of my body hurts and I feel so overwhelmingly lonely the only thing I want is to tell you I love you again and hug you and kiss you. You didn't deserve what happened, not at all. You were the best man I've ever met. You taught me to love life again when I was at my lowest point, and you loved me unconditionally and thank you so much for showing me what real love is and always sticking by my side. I miss you so so much, not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. RIP Andrew😇💔 07/23/1994-10/27/17
+the gaming fire if you ever find that little voice trying to say that you're not beautiful, just imagine that that's Donald trump talking, then you'll realize how wrong that little voice is
This song is so hauntingly beautiful and it really hits close to home. The opening line "2 a.m., where do I begin?" perfectly captures the feeling of being lost and alone, crying off your face in the middle of the night. The imagery of the "silent sounds of loneliness" following you to bed is so powerful and relatable. The pre-chorus "I'm a ghost of a girl that I want to be most, I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well" is a heartbreaking admission of feeling broken and flawed. It's like we're trying to hold on to the person we used to be, but we're just a shadow of our former selves. The chorus is so poignant and asks the question "can the lonely take the place of you?" It's like we're trying to fill the void left by someone we loved with loneliness, but it's just not the same. The line "let you go and let the lonely in to take my heart again" is so heartbreaking because it's like we're resigning ourselves to the fact that we're alone. The second verse is just as powerful, with the line "too afraid to go inside for the pain of one more loveless night." It's like we're so scared of being alone that we're willing to endure the pain of being in a loveless relationship. The bridge "broken pieces of a barely breathing story, where there once was love now there's only me and the lonely" is so raw and emotional. It's like we're looking back on a relationship that was once full of love and now we're left with nothing but broken pieces and loneliness. Overall, this song is a beautiful and poignant reflection on loneliness and heartbreak. It's a reminder that it's okay to feel broken and flawed, and that we're not alone in our struggles. Thank you, Christina Perri, for this powerful and relatable song. #ChristinaPerri #TheLonely #Heartbreak #Loneliness #Brokenness #Flawed #Love #Relationships #Sad #Haunting #Beautiful #Poignant #Raw #Emotional #Powerful #Real #Authentic #Reflection #Music #Song #Lyrics
"Depression" Depression is not a joke Depression is when you're crying inside but you're smiling outside Depression can Kill Depression is hard to fight Depression can make a real one, fake Depression Can make a good one, bad "I am suffering from depression" she said No one listen, No one believe No one cares " Why? why does the world hates me?! "she said crying Her family ignore her Her friends Leave her She was there sitting in the middle of her room with a rope hanging above A blood on her wrist A knife on her heart A gunshot on her back A tears on her eyes ",Thank You. " The last word she said before She hang herself on the rope She died. But still no one cares.
True...I'm crying inside and smiling outside. I wish everything was alright but it's not I want it to stop but it can't it will stay inside of me forever...😭💔 It's really hard to fight depression and I know that everyone hate's me And they make me hate myself (I'm Here For Nothing I'm Only Here To Feel Pain I'm Here To Feel Sadness I'm Here Just To Be Afraid) (I Was Supposed To Be Loved Cared Safe Good Kind) But now i can't be happy..💔
Alexis, I care... I want you to keep fighting. I OVERCAME depression, it is possible. Put your trust in JESUS. Read the book of Matthew in the bible when you have time. If you need a friend just reply, and let me know. My name is Ruth by the way. JESUS LOVES YOU, and So Do I. Please keep fighting, you are a survivor, not a victim. You have made it this far for a reason, so don't give up now. I will pray for you.
@@stutichoudhary3575 Please don't let go, keep fighting. I know it is easier said than done, but we all have purpose here, so don't just give up. Be the change you want to see. Nobody's is perfect; everyone has a struggle, but we all have to choice to keep pushing and not giving up. Sometimes we have to be by ourselves for a while, and that is time we should get to know more about ourselves by asking ourselves questions, or simply just taking a moment to breathe. There is no perfect answer for our struggle at times, but I know for fact that there is hope in JESUS. Just relax, forgive yourself and others who hurt you. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up on yourself or God. I will pray for you. Just take it one day at a time, and think of all the good stuff in your life. Change your outlook on life, think positive, love yourself for who you are. You are survivor, so keep fighting .. I will pray for you. Stay blessed in the name of Jesus.
This perfectly matches the pain of having to be alone in order to accomplish something God asks of you, and despite the agony of it it must now be your friend in order to help others and yourself and you’re comforted knowing it won’t last forever and God is always there
I always feel sad for some reason and just put on a mask and act happy but in the end it makes me feel worse that people don't understand how I feel and after a while the sadness ebbs away becomes no feeling and I feel nothing at all
Trust me it will go away I had these feelings last year if you don't already have a therapist or a guidence consuler trust me it will help if you aren't able to obtain a therapist or guidence consuler maybe talk to your parents or,a teacher it will get better I remember always. having to be happy for everyone else but,eventually you'll be able (hopefully) to realize that you have to be happy for you and,don't be afraid of expressing your other emotions. I hope you're doing better❤
I would really appreciate if you had the time to read this and possible change your life. When I was 16 I met this girl. And I had feelings for her. We were best friends so it would be weird if we dated. She unfortunately did have a condition which could possibly kill her (cancer) which she was diagnosed with after a few years after we met. She didn’t have a good chance of living but I kept my hopes high. She fortunately did beat the battle and we threw a huge party for her. We had a couple of drinks but unfortunately... some girls put drugs in her drink. I went home thinking everyone was ok and I woke up to hear that she unfortunately passed away. I never got the chance to tell her how I felt. And this party was only a month after she was given the good news. It’s been 7 years now amy. 7 years. Happy anniversary. 😭 this is the reason why I suffer from depression and still to this day have suicidal thoughts 😭
I am so sorry for your loss. Amy will always remain in your heart and I am sure that she is watching over you now and is very proud of you. You are so strong, keep fighting. x
I am here again after 10 years. First time, I listened I cried. I was such a very lonely, frail boy back then but now even as an adult I am here again. Loneliness really knocks on my door hard today. Hello old friend...
It's actually sad how this song speaks to me on how I'm feeling lately I'm only 15 years old and I'm already stressing on what to be in life.... I wear this same mask everyday to keep everyone happy but really inside I'm just hurt.... I'm a nice person to everyone and give everyone something so they can smile but never gave back when I'm feeling down... I'm always isolated from my family and doesn't really bother trying to talk to them and create a bond with them. And when I try to tell them how I feel they just push me around and tell me to man up.... But that doesn't really help....
And no I'm not doing this for attention or trying to get likes yes I get it seeing comments like these can be annoying but at times people just want to share their story online because for some people for them feel like they can actually express their feelings
The only way to beat social anxiety is to fight it directly. You need to find some small microgoals that challenge your comfort zone. The more you stay nestled in your comfortable comfort zone, the more you will reinforce your social anxiety. Time to break out of that shell. There are lots of channels to help you with this. Elliot Hulse worked for me. You need to break that shell because if you don't, *nothing* else will get you out of it.
Yeah, the funny thing about problems is that you actually need to solve the problem with actions that have the potential to work. And then persist and work hard at it. There are actually many actors who started acting because they wanted to face their social anxiety. Guess what? It worked. They still have to struggle with it (Samuel L Jackson still fights with his social anxiety, James Earl Jones too) in spite of having found great success by working hard on the problem. When you have a problem like this, you need to find the right solution for the problem and then persist, keep going at it. Check out some motivation videos by Elliot Hulse. He talks about this specifically in some of his videos like "How not to give a fuck" or "how not to be a pussy" or "how to make other men respect you". Note that he does not advocate tackling insurmountable issues. He talks about building a pattern, starting small and working with attainable goals. I couldn't go to the mall and start singing. But I could go to a mall and say hello to people. I could go to the mall, buy some candy and share it. I might be able to go to the mall with a friend and do a "free hugs" thing - although that's probably my limit. However, after I had tried it a few times, I am sure that it would get easier. And that's the correct solution for the problem: find small goals that challenge your fears and do them one at a time until you have the strength for the next one.
Dj Snivy I was always pretty quiet but that changed in 7th grade for me too. I began to be quiet and extremely uncomfortable around classmates and people in the hall. It was so unbearable that me and a few others began to eat lunch in the library. I wouldn't eat in the lunchroom because I was just that uncomfortable.
If you guys had parents worth their salt, they would have told you that this is a normal part of growing up. Things change as you grow up and you need to work hard to assert your personality. Youth is a time of experimenting to find the edges of your personality and the points that define who you are. This process is falling apart as we put too much weight on how we *feel* vs what we *are*. Everything worth accomplishing requires facing uncomfortable feelings and difficult challenges. At some point, you're going to need to learn how to push through them. Or like many other young people, you too will become a useless consumer sheep of no real value to anyone. Learn to stand on your own two feet! The time for that is *now*.
I don't know if many people will see this comment. But, I just hope that you're doing okay. I know it's really painful to be said that you're not good enough, but it's way more worse if you, yourself, insult yourself. No voices are as mean as your own voice to yourself.
You're an amazing person, thank you for that. It took a long time, but I eventually learned to love myself. The only problem is that I still get hatred from others and now it hurts me double. When I hated myself, it felt like my spirit vs my body. Now it's just me and I feel more alone than ever.
This song means more to me now than it ever did before. This song, aside from the obvious themes of loss, is based on the feeling of being utterly alone after losing one's self. That "Lonely" feeling doesn't just come from having nobody around, it can also come from the feeling of not being able to talk to anyone even if surrounded by loved ones. The main point of the story within this song is that someone was heartbroken by loss, and now they've sunk deeper into the Lonely than they ever did before.
I didn't dislike the video but I see why someone might want to. I think it's mainly because it's hard to read the lyrics. To the people that came here for a lyric video it's not much of one. I do appreciate the art behind the video but for others it might be hard to do so when you want to read the lyrics as she's singing them.
I feel like this song means so much to everyone, but in a different way. We all know the cold, the emptiness, the lonliness she talks about. 98% of the people in this comment section would get along.
Loneliness is even worse when you used to have those friends who you imagined you'll be together for a really long time, and now everyone has another group, but you the only one who stays alone.
Strength is when you finally begin to find comfort and love in your OWN presence. We come into life alone and we also leave alone. Learn to truly love and enjoy your own company. You will be Ok trust me ❤️😊
All the people out there: Look. I know we are all lonely. This song describes our emotions. If we all work together, we can make it out of this dark deep pit. *dont give up* (I sent this to my best friend. Still going today)
yes we can make it out of this dark deep pit, but people like me, would rather help the others get out, and stay in it, just because they dont trust someone pulling them up.
It's so heartbreaking to see all those people in the comments that relate to the song so much. Please, please, if you're reading this, remember that you matter and that you are important. I know that it can be so hard sometimes to exist and sometimes you want it all to just stop, believe me, I've been at that point too. But you are stronger than that, I believe in you ♥ Trust me, someday it will get better!
>coming from a female Men kill themselvss 4x more than females stop trying to understand something you don’t experience, your life is easy, sadly that’s not the way it is for most men in this day and age
What the hell, I NEVER said that men don't kill themselves?! It's not a gender thing, you know, women and men of all ages can suffer from depression. And don't you dare talking to me like you know me, how are you supposed to judge if my life is easy or not if you know NOTHING about my life?! There was a time when I was struggling and it made me sad to see all these comments filled with statements that sounds like something I would think years ago, so I just wanted to spread some hope and tell people that things can change even if they don't believe in it yet. Do you have a problem with that?! Let's just all spread kindness.
godsandmonsters what I’m trying to say if you’re attempting to come from an understanding “I’ve been there” point, when really you haven’t, as a female can never experience depression like a man, females always have someone there for them, they cannot be lonely, but there are A LOT of isolated men today. So you don’t understand. You just went through your teenage emo “depression” phase like every teen girl. You were not depressed, your life is indescribably easy, so stop virtue signalling about something you know nothing of, that’s all I’m trying to say
Are you joking?! That's just wrong on so many fucking levels! As I said, depression doesn't have a gender and - surprise, surprise - I'm not doubting that there are several men that feel isolated, but there are also a lot of females that don't have someone there for them and therefore they can be just as lonely as men. What are you even trying to say, would my comment be alright if I was male?? Am I automatically a "teenager emo depression girlie" just because I'm female? You do realize that's a bit sexist, right? God, why are you even listening to this song about LONELINESS by a FEMALE artist, if we're apparently incapable of feeling lonely? :D You know what, maybe I don't understand depression, maybe I never will. Maybe what I felt was just a phase when I was unhappy with my teenage self. Did I feel like I wanted to die? Several times. And I meant it. So do millions of other "emo teenage girls" and you know what, some of them actually kill themselves every single year. So I'm sorry when I'm trying to help those people. Because, now I'm talking from experience, sometimes you just need someone to tell you that they care about you and that you matter, even if it's just a stranger from the internet. Now with all dear respect, leave me the fuck alone.
My ex girlfriend just got married................all my childhood friends are married................Im still single and too afraid of hurt to try another relationship. i can relate to the blank feeling. Just nothingness. No pain. No happiness. Just an empty hole realizing everything you had is no more.
I listened to this song when my bestfriend died, he was like my brother, my other half. It helped me in away realize that I was letting the loneliness take over me but when ever I listen to it, it brings back those painful memories although that shows me what I've survived and how I've done him proud by being strong. Rest in peace Jay, beautiful song
This song is so powerful and once you start listening to her songs you start to gain a repreciation for her. Her lyrics do have a story behind them and I think an artist who can write songs like this is a true artist. She is someone who can relate true feelings to her music which people love most.
Is it just me that goes from being depressed and overthinking and crying to suddenly just empty and numb and it's like you can't cry or do or feel anything and it's just this cycle that keeps happening and I want to snap out of it but I can't
I remember being depressed and crying to this song, cutting myself. Went through a lot, but I'm finally happy and slowly starting a family. It gets better
I used to be a social butterfly, but that was in first grade, and now that i'm in seventh grade i'm to afraid to get up from my seat to get a pair of scissors
This song is so beautiful, I mean, look at the lyrics. It describes so many people's lives, and how they're having to deal with so much everyday. All of you out there, don't lose hope, things will get better soon.
This is truly the saddest song I've ever heard in my life. But at the same time, the most beautiful song; as if softly whispered to me by a radiant angel crying tears from heaven.
Recently lost all my friends. I feel like I'm always being judged. With social anxiety and depression, I ain't doing to well right now. This resonates with me a lot.
+sabrina No, it's completely natural to want to be alone, usually for the peace of mind. I also need my alone time and I think a lot of people do. One thing I've realized is you have to be completely respectful to yourself. Don't doubt your abilities and behaviors, or just don't be too hard on yourself. Respect your mind and body while alone. That's from my personal experiences. :)
Listening to this as midnight is approaching. Never felt this hurt before. Tears flow non-stop as the lyrics is tearing my heart apart through so many realizations. I can't help it.
I know probably one person will read this but did this pull anyone's family strings? Because this pulled mine. During the entire song all I could remember was when my mom called me a "mistake" when she thought I was out of range...
We are doing a talent show at my school and this girl named Chihiro Bringman is singing this song and she's really good at singing at it but I'm worried that this is how she actually feels and it makes me feel worried for her now she's a wonderful girl has many friends but I'm still hoping that this isn't how she's :(
If christina ever sees this, I just want you to know how close this song has touched me. I hope you are doing well now wherever you are in life, and that you created a piece of art that resonates with a lot of people. ❤
Is it weird how this song really understands my view of loneliness?? There will be times when I seriously don’t think people will view me as a “real” friend. Heck, sometimes they don’t really care one way or another because I just hang out with them so I don’t feel like such a loser. Why did the universe made me who I am? Why am I so different from everyone? How come I can’t find love? And why is whenever I try, I always get rejected, but when everyone else does, they get someone? If life’s goal is to find love, what happens when we don’t? Should just keep playing a game of endless limbo, or kill my self to avoid the hurt....I hate being alone. I hate no one really caring for me. No one remembering my birthday. No real people who actually try to be friends with me instead of vice versa. No one to judge my interests, my sense of humor, and my voice. Fuck these people. I want love....
Hello there, It's has been the same for me, but in this case it's my fault, when I was 10 I cut off all of my friendships, I don't even know why, I am currently 19 and I wasted all of those years trying to convince my self that friends are useless, but when I was 17 I saw 2 friends walking on the sidewalk and having fun (laughing) and it struck me, that friends aren't irrelevant, I just had gotten used to not having any, I realised that friendships give us happiness, a person to talk with and much more,that I couldn't have if I stayed alone. As for being diffrent, I totally understand you, I am quit differnt too, I lost my mother at a young age, perhaps that's the reason that I couldn't connect, as I said, even though 9 years have passed, I haven't found the reason yet. I should note that when though I came to this realisation, I haven't be successful at making a good friend yet, it's hard when you have spended 9 alone. P.S: When I say friendship, I mean friends not lovers. I wish you luck kind sir.
I was the same before moving schools, I dont feel so bad anymore but now I have a constant feeling of being empty. Keep in mind it's been almost the whole school year, just... it gets better
Energy goes where attention flows. If you focus on what you lack, that emptiness is all you'll ever feel. If you focus on what you have and feel gratitude for that.. you'll find yourself heal. But if you ever need someone to show you how to see things the way you've never seen it before, I'm here. I'm not trying to be cheesy here, words on a screen don't do justice. But trust me when I say that you're never alone. You got this. And if you don't, you don't have to bottle it up alone.
I know it’s been two years I hope you’re fine and everything is good, I just want to let you know that you are not alone and love isn’t always about finding someone to love you back love is when you love yourself first and then the world with expecting anything from them, and believe me one day you will find what you look for just be patient
I have an amazing life, my family is happy, I go to a private school, I'm doing ok in dance... but sometimes I just feel unwanted and sad for no reason. I know I can be annoying sometimes and I can tell when my friends just want me to shut up (there amazing people I swear) and sometimes I question why I even talk, if all I do is annoy people. Life has got pretty stressful for me. I'm dancing more and trying to get into the highest level and replace the seniors that are leaving this year, and I'm debating weather or not to come out to my parents that I'm bi, plus things with my girlfriend aren't going so well and I don't know what to do. My problems are so small that I know people have been through so much more and handled it better. I'm sorry for taking up your time
Many people don't believe people with 'good' lives can feel like this. Everyone lives a different life and that doesn't make anything small or meaningless. When people say they have big problems, they have big problems. Huge, if they're brave enough to say it. You must NEVER apologise for your strength! Feeling is hard, saying it is so much harder.
that akward grl honey you sound just like me. The best thing you can do is tell people you trust about it. That was the best decision I have ever made. Getting better is a process, but you can do it!
I was a “depressed” Emo when this came out, I cut my wrists and made sad edits while listening to this and MCR” got through that. Now I’m finally super happy, the wounds have completely healed, and my word is filled with positivity and colors!
My 'friends' are fake friends. I treat them so nice, but they use me. I look happy because I act like it, but inside, I'm sad crying. No one gets me. They say thats not the case, but they don't get me, even my parents. I had true friends once, and I had to move away from them. I am so stressed out, and I'm only 12. I lose my true friends a lot. My true friends were younger than me, but so sweet and gentle. They protected me from the dark side. Since I am so sick of life, I almost killed myself, and became evil. My innocence is wearing off, my dark side is starting to show, I knew it was going to happen. I am not so understandable, and I'm very lonely. :'( No one gets me, no one ever has :'(
look i am be a bitch (jk I'm a character from Lifewithnyaa101 channel) but I will tell you this hurting other people cause that's what I'm assuming by your dark side coming means doesn't help... you will find a true friend and if we get to know each other i am will be the greatest ever promise...
Things may suck right now, but they will be okay. Everyone's always left me or I pushed them away before they could, but the impossible happened and someone finally stayed. Someone will see through your darkness and at least try to understand. Just gotta hang in there and try to do things that make you feel happy in the meantime. And sometimes the darkness isn't so bad if you handle it in a certain way. Innocence will not last forever and being difficult to understand may mean only people worth your time will come around. Things will get better, they always do. Unless you die before your time, that is, and miss out on those things. But if you hold on, eventually you'll find your happiness.
IzzyLizzy 1457 I know u are sad and feel lonely but even tho i dont know u I will help u Just try to find better friends even its hard try it i swear u might feel for a bit alone but one day ull see ull be happy bc everybody needs true friends and there are milions ppl maybe those "friends*of urs ignore them u will find better friends than those trust me ;D
Being in an abusive marriage for nearly two decades was the DEEPEST loneliness I have ever lived. It only took 6 months for him to quit “trying” (if he ever was) and filed the divorce after I finally started setting firm boundaries even while still committed to making it work... just not the parts that were no longer going to work for me. It took 14 months of grieving that loss - the loss of the illusion that there was ever hope - but even during those 14 sobbing months, I felt more love from within than I had in those 19 years together. Now I’ve met someone new, someone real, someone who respects me, believes in me, admired me and is worthy of admiration himself. A man of character and integrity. (Yes, they do exist!) You can walk away. You can live through the Lonely. Life is meant to be lived, not just survived through.
@@LovesMike33 That new guy didn’t last more than a few months. It takes a lot of time alone to heal and to learn how to trust yourself. And love yourself. Just remember you can’t give a gift to anyone if you don’t first possess that gift as your own. Learn to feel fulfilled and loved from within and from God. Then you’ll possess true love to give to someone new. Authentic self love is very attractive to others.
2am, where do I begin Crying off my face again The silent sound of loneliness Wants to follow me to bed! I'm the ghost of a girl That I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl That I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Too afraid, to go inside For the pain of one more loveless night Cause the loneliness will stay with me And hold me till I fall asleep I'm the ghost of a girl That I want to be most I'm the shell of a girl That I used to know well Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again Broken pieces of A barely breathing story Where there once was love Now there's only me And the lonely... Dancing slowly in an empty room Can the lonely take the place of you I sing myself a quiet lullaby Let you go and let the lonely in To take my heart again...
To the people who are hating on this comment, I hope you do realise that not everybody can actually see what the lyrics on the video actually say. And I'm sure the person who put this comment down, probably already knew this was a lyric video, and to be honest, I was also having a hard time reading what was said in the video. So, I really appreciate this comment. No one likes haters.
I remember 2 years ago.. i was listening to this song , crying my heart out , thinking what have i done to myself , feeling cold and ashamed . But i truly understand pain is universal but temporary as well. It went away , i am doing so much better i am so grateful for everything for who i am , for how i am raised . This song means alot to me because it bring alot of cold memories in order to make myself realize how warm i am right now.
@@gixxeraddict4836 i hope you bear with it a little more because there is so many good things that will happen to you , sit tight and be patient about it. It will soon be over.❤
@@falak1662 idk.. im starting to be reckless. Nobodies waiting for me man. Theres probably nobody thinking about me... ever... So now what i do is take my motorcycle out and ride like a lost soul waiting for something to pull infront of me and end it all. Iknow tbat sounds selfish i dont have enough balls to end it by myself all alone. Thanks for the reply. You got to get a small smile on my sad face. Peace
@@gixxeraddict4836 you know you just need to channel all the negativity into something , find something that makes you wanna get up every morning. Basically i am across the globe from you i am no one to hand you a motivational speech but i know emotions for sure overpower us. If there is no one waiting for you then don't bother you'll grow weary holding onto things that are gone . I know its okay to crumble some days but just take care of yourself never be too heartbroken that you lose hope of mending yourself.
@@falak1662 iknow maybe i shouldnt bother with it maybe.. but its all i ever wanted in my life. Now im getting older and older i really fear that all my hope may fly away
Tiara Trotter I only have two friends that I've kept (TRUE friends) and I've had them for five years. All the others... They leave after they get bored with my friendship. So... I have to get new friends every year in different classes, but I do have two really good ones...
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Do you know that feeling when you have lots of friends but you feel lonely? When you want everyone to leave you alone, but you just want someone to care. When you feel like you've finally lost hope.
Mira Heslin I feel that every day of my life. it goes great with my social anxiety.
Mira Heslin yes I always feel like that
Me 24/7 anymore
Mira Heslin i feel like this all the time...it's strange and scary tho
me everyday and i dont know what to do to escape the loneliness i feel in my heart for next year
This song will NEVER fail to make me emotional 🤧
BRoO it reminds me of my dreams me too crying
Same!
I haven't listened to it yet so lets see if i cry
@@gajalaimaaa2004 how’d it go
Same
Everybody’s like “I am so lonely oh such misery, I have no friends”
But honestly I don’t think it’s about being lonely in the sense of actually not having anyone. The line that hit me the most is “I’m the shadow of the girl I want to be most “. Because there’s nothing worse than losing yourself, your dreams and hopes and desires, your will. Only then you are truly lonely. There’s always other people. But there’s never another “me”
there is not always other people... trust me
@@stn6408 We Finns want to be alone, but it is not allways loveless lonelynes. Sometimes it is..... when heart has been broken. (Sorry bad english)
Can relate , got what ur talking about. But as human beings we're differentl and each one of us has his or her way to label suffering and pain . It doesn't matter cause at the end of the day it is suffering and we all been haunted by the same ghost.
@@yassinelmarzoqi1911 so true 🌻
I had to take a screenshot that’s some big words 🖤
In the words of my grandmother
“I see right through you.. I see how alone you feel in a room full of people”
And yet..
I still do..
It's good that you have someone who cares.
You're lucky you have a grandmother like that. Not even one can see right thru me.
That what she said me toooooooooooooo
my cousin who was my best friend / older sister figure to me was the only one in my family who right through my fake smiles and the mask of fakeness i wore everyday and saw through the unhappiness of being at family occasions and gatherings cause she knew i always felt like the black sheep of the family , i still do but i am more stone cold , cold hearted and emotionally unavailable towards them cause i've had enough of their bullshit , lies and snootiness and fakeness . lies and emotional pain changes people and reshapes how we are , this song is hauntingly beautiful and soothing
anyone feel like the friend that's always "just there" like you are always just a little bit off from your friends. the one that sits at the end of the lunch table, the one that sometimes gets forgotten, the one that always walks a few steps behind the rest....yeah, me too.
SociallyAwkwardSarah this is exactly me :( but nobody notices and PART of me doesn't want to reach out . Honestly the amount of times my friend left me or forgot about me and I'm always pushed behind them when they are walking and even when they're talking I can't relate because I just don't connect with them anymore ... :(
YEAH..SAD BUT YUP THAT'S ME,😢
Me, except I never see them anymore thanks to our scheduald so I have no where to sit at lunch
Me
SociallyAwkwardSarah
depression is when you don't really care about anything
anxiety is when you care too much about everything
and having both is just like hell :-(
It's worse when it's the type of depression that makes you care so much that you burst into tears doing anything. Then add anxiety to that.
I hate that both go hand it hand, like evil twins.
I’ve had anxiety my whole life and I’ve had depression for almost 4 years
Joshua Sherman i got anxiety and depression almost 6 years and still counting.. i cannot sleep peacefully because my brain always thinking something..
Finally someone that understands and wants to help, not someone that tells me to deal with it or someone who wants to compete. It’s not a competition, it’s supposed to be a call for help
It's weird how stranger care about you more than your actual human being family, friend and other
That's what most people don't understand about the internet.
I think that's because they can't see you, so they don't judge you on your looks. People judge you based on what you look like, because they only want to care about the pretty people.
it is not weird
Nah
yes I understand people judge because we are different. then you have to be the one to reach out to others.
"I am the shell of the girl that I used to know well" I resonate so much with this line. My friends and family know me as the happy go lucky girl that jokes about everything and that will catch you when you fall. Now I am just an anxious mess who is great at hiding behind the mask of the girl I used to be because I can't bring myself to destroy the picture of the oh so happy and strong girl.
I feel you. Thats basically my whole life 😓
I can relate 😞
sums me up in a nutshell perfectly except ... , i am no longer smiling , not happy , not happy with having to be around most of my cousins or family events , occasions or whatever . etc . now i am just a girl who focuses on herself her needs and her cat and her direct fam . i used to be lonely in different senses of the word . now i just don't care , can't be bothered and honestly don't care what anyone says or thinks or even does about it cause they don't get that they caused me to be this way and caused that alienated and lonely feeling and reason for me being so cold and distance . i despise their fakeness and bullshit with a fiery passion and every fiber of my soul and my personal being . simply put my opinion is this -----> IDGAF & DON'T WASTE MY TIME WITH ANY OF THAT NONSENSE AND LIES. i am not a girl who has the time nor the patience nor the care for anyone's lies and bull crap . either be honest and real with me or piss off
I feel you 😢 may your heart find peace ❤️
Do you ever have one of those days, where nothing goes wrong, but you feel like you hate the world, and you just feel like breaking down and crying?...
Jennie slays me Rapmon kills me hearteu I think you have depression
Aisha Osman i do?
I HAVE FELT LIKE THAT A lot
YES!
I always feel bleack!
ALWAYS
Yes. All the time.
Deep down nobody is scared of dying. We’re only scared of what comes after. R.i.p to those who lost their lives because this world was so fucked up they were willing to deal with what ever was waiting for them on the other side rather than live their life.
ana v nah I’m scared of dying my guy
Im scared of dying im scare to live too
depression will slowly kill me im thinking of taking my own life because nobody care my friends leave me my family dont care of me so why do I have to live?
Carone ცატჰყ please don’t hope your I know I don’t know you but we all feel like that sometimes always here to talk x
I’ve already accepted whatever happens next, what I’m terrified is how will I die and how painful will it be that could come with it.
This song makes me so sad but I can't stop replaying it
cathy cat same..
REHAAAAAB!!!!
Me toooo
Samw
I think this is my favourite Christina Perri song. The tune is hauntingly beautiful. I love the piano in it. It's been years and I just keep coming back to it. Well done Christina.
The lonely and The words🔥❤️
Same @@puneethnk2287
It's amazing how a song can come into your life when you need it
"Happiness can be found in the darkest of places, if only one remembers to turn on the light"
What if I'm a Slytherin? XD Then Dumbledore doesn't like me.
Samantha Griffin harry potterrrrrr
💎❤
That quote helped me so much
@Anna Jones the switch is what makes u happy
3 am... can't sleep. I have this empty feeling and I can't sleep. I wish i had somebody to hug to tell all my secrets to and feel safe being myself.
I wish I had one too
feel hugged 😌
I will hug u and listen to ur secrets and rants ^.^
Wish I had one too
Sweetie that's depression, I had a empty feeling when I had it
when I was depressed in high school this song (along with her other songs) was my comfort, because it described how I was feeling so clearly. now I'm in college, it's been around 2 years since I last heard this song. I'm no longer depressed but this song will always have a place in my heart.
I can gladly say "I'm okay" and mean it.
I'm okay.
thank you Christina
been there
“Do not be afraid. I will save you. I have called you by name-you are mine. When you pass through deep waters, I will be with you; your troubles will not overwhelm you. When you pass through fire, you will not be burned; the hard trials that come will not hurt you. For I am the Lord, your God. … because you are precious to me and because I love you and give you honor, do not be afraid-I am with you!”
Isaiah 43:1-5
"you can't see that I'm hurting you don't notice the pain it feels like everyone else is sitting in the sunshine while I drown in the rain"
... Plz don't xD
omfg god isn't real..
+Emma Sachs omfg would u shut up.
+Alex S omfg right back at you
It's one of those days again when music is my only friend :'(
For me that's everyday...
+Sabrina Hernandez im the same way .-.
+sleeping with emo finally somebody who actually gets me!!
+Youyoun Y same
same):
Christina Perri is so talented.the song truely represents a wounded soul with a bizarre beauty of sadness and loneliness.her voice can stirr up the emotions
Am I the only one who gets goosebumps when sings "dancing slowly in an empty room... "?
me too
my bro could jump when he starts to hear this lyric...
no
I keep pushing people away so can't even complain that I am lonely. Fear of letting someone close to my heart so I am hurting myself slowly.
+Faye Kennedy don't people who are lonely have a mom or dad to take care of them?
+Lillian Jenkins sometimes yes and sometimes no it depends but if anything it normally reaches deeper than that
I do that all the time to and I don't know what's wrong with me.
Audry Red19 sometimes its a good idea to let atleast someone in, now not everyone as i made that mistake but if you let the right person close than you are rewarded well
People can be lonely, even with parents. Sometimes parents just make it worse.
This song speaks to me on so many levels. Like the empty room is my mind. The loneliness can be overbearing sometimes. It can get to be too much so I "dance". I've shed so many tears that I can no longer cry but in my mind I cry rivers. I'm no longer the same as I used to be. I wear a mask everyday so that no one can know or see my pain. I also sing everyday to keep all thoughts of 'him' at bay
2 yrs ago i was alone crying in an empty class this song made me takeaway all the bad feelings that I kept for half a year my life was messy and unbearable back then listening to this song again made me grateful and aware of how powerful i am for getting through the hard times🙏🤗
me too.stay strong dear .u worth a lot . bless u
The worst thing about this song is when you can relate to every line...
Ikr!
This is me
Christina Marriott I don't feel like I do, yet ik i do...
Well- I don't, since I'm a guy and all.
Common Ogre I totally agree. This is why I like Christina Perri's songs so much. So relatable.
anyone just feel alone but you have "frends" and family around you that you know they love you and you want to talk to them but you just cant get the right words out.....or is it just me....?
lilly trust me ur not alone when u only have like three real friends but only have one to talk about stuff and who will listen to u.....then u try ur family they make fun of u Bc u "like" someone and get to scared to talk to them any more......then have one real friend at school but doesn't understand anything u say.......the only friend without a phone....the only girl who is diffrent from EVEY other girl in the school Bc u didn't grow up with sisters so ur not a girly girl ugh I hate it.....they make fun of me when I'm not listening then there is a guy who likes u and u don't like him and can't think of a way to let him down easily 😔 Sometimes I feel like I have depression....but I really don't I fight with my brothers all the time then when I get upset I say things I don't mean and then go in my room sit infront of the door and cry ur heart out 😭😭😭 Bc nobody NOBODY understands u then ur too shy to stand up for ur self or ur friends........it bothers me.....so Lilly trust me when I say this.....you are NOT alone u don't have to go through it alone I'll be here for u if u need to talk I promis I listen I'm not like other people....so if u need me just talk to me
Just remember your okay itll take time to heal
No it isnt. I left my old school and my friends this year and I miss them a lot. I want to speak to them but nothing comes out of my mouth
@@daniq9280 Practise in the mirror?
Speak it out to someone whom you know will understand.. you'll feel lighter then. :) Don't lose hope.. just fight it.. don't give up yet.
Just found this song again. I used to hear it when I cutted my arms bleeding...so many memories right now...to all the people hurting themselfs: It's getting better. I promise. People will come and people will go. The ones who are important will stay. Believe me. Stay strong and try not to drown in your own tears. Love you all.
The worst part is when those who make it worse won't leave while you're forced away from the ones who love, cherish and heal you.
This songs deserves more recognition.
Yeah, I think so too
No. Let it be like this forever. This song is only for the fainthearted broken and lonely like me and maybe some of you
I remember a year ago I would listen to this while I cried myself to sleep wishing for death now I want to go back to that old me and say "Hey, things will get better. It may be harder at times but it will get better." I feel very proud of myself. I went to listening to this while crying and cutting to now. Listening to it while I think to myself that I am strong. I did it.
congratulations ♡♡♡
you dont know me Thank you :)
I'm proud of you 💖
I hope I can overcome this too, like you :/
Lilly 112 i hope to do it too..stay strong
This song makes me cry... This song describes my life...
same ♡♡♡
This is so me.
+Rainbow Art me right now beacause my bff is a bitch!!!!!!
I was jumped at skool i was crying this song means alot
BlareBlueDragon ShadowBlackDragon aww i feel sad for u
When I was younger I would listen to this song and also sing it because I thought it sounded beautiful. But now I listen to it and I feel the lyrics. Somehow. Oh, how I didn't get the meaning in the past. I think there's many who feel like that. Here are so many suffering, lost people with deep wounded souls. It could break a person's heart.
Yeah, I was fine before I knew that song... It made me thinking about my life. I hate myself now and started cutting.
Believe me... don't think too much. That'll crash your mind forever. You'll never feel fine again. So please just enjoy what you have. Later you won't be able to do it.
Don't end like me. Just be fine and enjoy life.
I can tell you that I hated myself too. Sometimes Im in front of the mirror and become angry. But I learned and still know it doesn't matter. It just does not matter as long as you have people liking you the way you are. And if someone judges you based off your look, that person doesn't deserve you. You're great the way you are. But if you wanna loose some weight or whatever, do it. As long as you do it for yourself. Don't ever change yourself for someone else. Keep that in mind. I've not had it easy in life, but I never ended cutting myself, cause it's a waste and I knew I'll regret it. A waste of time and pain. Cutting may make yourself feel better for that moment, but later on you'll look at them and hate yourself even more. And also, it's not the end for you. It is NEVER TOO LATE to get help. You can still stop. It is like an addiction, I know. A cry for help, but just open your mouth and ask for it. Even if you don't know people in real life who help, you can call Hotlines or seek for help in forums. You can do it. Youre strong. Good luck
When l was youger l would
Same here! I didn’t understand it when I was younger
First off, this is a mesmerizing hypnotic melody that traps my mind somewhere between a Tim Burton and James Bond film. I can feel the struggle between excitement and pain. The lyrics are powerful, cutting straight to the point. This is a true work of art, all around. Thank You. P.S. You have to listen to this in surround sound, close your eyes, clear your mind, elevate the volume, and you achieve perfection.
"The Lonely"
2am; where do I begin,
Crying off my face again.
The silent sound of loneliness
Wants to follow me to bed.
I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most.
I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well.
Dancing slowly in an empty room,
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby.
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again.
Too afraid to go inside
For the pain of one more loveless night.
Cause the loneliness will stay with me
And hold me till I fall asleep.
I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most.
I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well.
Dancing slowly in an empty room,
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby.
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again.
Broken pieces of
A barely breathing story
Where there once was love
Now there's only me and the lonely.
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again.
+Zesa Sat You realize this is a lyric video right? lol...some people's kids.
He helped me for my lyrics ^^' I'm gonna upload a nightcore version with lyrics of this song and I only need to copy past the phrase, also, thanks Random Ideas ^^
Christina perri is someone I can listen to thousand times but would never be bored
akruti Mishra I will love her for a thousand years 💕
akruti Mishra same
Sailingaway yt I'll love har for a thousand more
This song doesn't make me feel alone when I'm lonely. ❤️
Thank you, Christina.
so true .stay strong dear .u worth a lot . bless u
You hit rock bottom and just need someone to be there.
Not to speak false words of “encouragement”
Not to discuss the pain
Just to be there
i know there are people out there that say, if you need me just talk to me, sometimes, its not better to TALK about something, its better to tell about something, so... if you need someone to BE there with you, not judge you, not encourage you, just listen to you, and be there with you.... im here?
Sorry... i dont help alot of people, and i hate talking, i just like listening and being there for someone
The Lonely"
2am; where do I begin
Crying off my face again
The silent sound of loneliness
Wants to follow me to bed
I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Too afraid to go inside
For the pain of one more loveless night
Cause the loneliness will stay with me
And hold me till I fall asleep
I'm the ghost of a girl that I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Broken pieces of
A barely breathing story
Where there once was love
Now there's only me
And the lonely
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you?
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Loneliness a poem I wrote..
No one around~
It's pitch black
And there's not a sound
Except the heaving breathing coming from someone
Trying to hold in her feelings get away from them.
Just run
Tears streaming down her face~
She thought she had at least one person left,
But she discovered they chose a different place.
No one understands her,
And teary eyes are making her vision blur.
Nothing is clear, but it doesn't matter there's nothing to see,
Because in this darkness there's only one thing that there can be.
With her is only this
It's the cold bitter loneliness
beautiful! great job!
Damn thats good
hey, this is really good. can I put it in a story I'm writing?
Wow
Thank you for sharing.....
Anyone cried when they singing this song? 😢 This song kinda represents me.
Same here :(
Me to :'(
yes I cried everytime
Same😭😢
im criyng right now
The worse sense of loneliness is having people who are physically there but don’t get wat your going through. It creates a bubble of isolation.
Omg you wrote exactly what I was feeling but couldn't put words to it myself thank you
Wow. I'm speechless. With tear in my eyes.
I remember this being one of the first songs that made me realize I had depression. I contemplated about showing this to my parents to make them understand I needed help, this song just made perfect sense as to how I was feeling about my life as a whole. I was depressed for five years. Now I can almost find the courage to say that I'm not ill anymore, after making it through the first winter without being depressed. Listening to this song feels very nostalgic and sad but it also reminds me of how far I've come. I just wanted to take the time to tell the people who are depressed and listening to this right now that things will get better. No matter how many times you've heard that sentence and how hollow it seems, I promise you that it is true. Have faith in yourself and the strength that is inside of you. ❤️
When I see comments like this, my tears turn partly to ones of joy and love. I hope one day I'll be able to find my way back to the light. I healed once, but depression dragged me back into its clutches.
When I first heard this song I fell in love with it! It's so hauntingly beautiful
I dont know why Christina is so underrated her songs are full of meaning and people cant see that.I have had depression since 3rd grade and it really sucks.Sometimes i self harm and even tho i want to stop i just cant.Sometimes i listen to Cristinas songs and it helps a lot because in her song she talks about her expirences and that way i know im not alone.
the piano is beautiful and then her voice is just complimenting it even more! love this song!
OMG.. tears fall whenever i hear it ..
same
+Victoria l Like EVERY single time.. LOL me tho
same
+Victoria l omg me too!
I almost feel guilty when this song brings tears to my eyes cause I didn't even cry at my grandma's funeral. This song just hits me in the tear ducts and reminds me of the girl who left.
Depression is such a dark, unforgiving misfortune. I would wish many things upon my enemies, but not in any way depression. Society today has turned self mutilation, anorexia, depression into some sort of competition.. for those who really are trying to navigate through the dark while deaf, including myself, don't pay any mind to those people who in a way mock you. If anything, embrace that you know how it REALLY is like.
That is so true..maybe bcoz u jus get tuk for granted..u dont seem t matter..until a stranger actually reminds u of wat u r and wat a descent person u r..as if uve bin lost..strangers dont no u and cannot judge u..which makes it so much easier t let them in and confined in them..and again thy see you for you..can be a very big eye opener..can make u re evaluate wats goin on with ur life xx
I've always related to this song, but it has a whole new meaning for me. My boyfriend died in an awful car accident a month ago, and this song hurts so much to listen to yet it makes me feel something on the days I feel nothing. I miss you so much babe, every part of my body hurts and I feel so overwhelmingly lonely the only thing I want is to tell you I love you again and hug you and kiss you. You didn't deserve what happened, not at all. You were the best man I've ever met. You taught me to love life again when I was at my lowest point, and you loved me unconditionally and thank you so much for showing me what real love is and always sticking by my side. I miss you so so much, not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. RIP Andrew😇💔 07/23/1994-10/27/17
I'm so sorry for your loss ! My grandma died a couple of years ago in a car accident so i kinda feel your pain. Be strong!
I'm sorry
I’m really sorry! Wishing the best for you! My mom was disabled in a car crash, so I definitely feel your pain.
:') may Allah stregthen you
I hope your okay😔😔I’m so so sorry😞
Everyone who reads this is beautiful and something special ❤️
not me
+the gaming fire don't say that
+Melody Smith but im not beautiful
+the gaming fire if you ever find that little voice trying to say that you're not beautiful, just imagine that that's Donald trump talking, then you'll realize how wrong that little voice is
Ikr! :3
Does anyone feel extremely lonely? Or is it just me?
Me
Jackie Miller *Cough* 😔
Everybody does sometimes. 😊
🎶👌🏿🎶
Jackie Miller same
Well i have a best friend but i just cant talk to her about my mental illnesses
This song is so hauntingly beautiful and it really hits close to home. The opening line "2 a.m., where do I begin?" perfectly captures the feeling of being lost and alone, crying off your face in the middle of the night. The imagery of the "silent sounds of loneliness" following you to bed is so powerful and relatable.
The pre-chorus "I'm a ghost of a girl that I want to be most, I'm the shell of a girl that I used to know well" is a heartbreaking admission of feeling broken and flawed. It's like we're trying to hold on to the person we used to be, but we're just a shadow of our former selves.
The chorus is so poignant and asks the question "can the lonely take the place of you?" It's like we're trying to fill the void left by someone we loved with loneliness, but it's just not the same. The line "let you go and let the lonely in to take my heart again" is so heartbreaking because it's like we're resigning ourselves to the fact that we're alone.
The second verse is just as powerful, with the line "too afraid to go inside for the pain of one more loveless night." It's like we're so scared of being alone that we're willing to endure the pain of being in a loveless relationship.
The bridge "broken pieces of a barely breathing story, where there once was love now there's only me and the lonely" is so raw and emotional. It's like we're looking back on a relationship that was once full of love and now we're left with nothing but broken pieces and loneliness.
Overall, this song is a beautiful and poignant reflection on loneliness and heartbreak. It's a reminder that it's okay to feel broken and flawed, and that we're not alone in our struggles. Thank you, Christina Perri, for this powerful and relatable song.
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"Depression"
Depression is not a joke
Depression is when you're crying inside but you're smiling outside
Depression can Kill
Depression is hard to fight
Depression can make a real one, fake
Depression Can make a good one, bad
"I am suffering from depression" she said
No one listen, No one believe
No one cares
" Why? why does the world hates me?! "she said crying
Her family ignore her
Her friends Leave her
She was there
sitting in the middle of her room
with a rope hanging above
A blood on her wrist
A knife on her heart
A gunshot on her back
A tears on her eyes
",Thank You. "
The last word she said before She hang herself on the rope She died.
But still no one cares.
True...I'm crying inside and smiling outside. I wish everything was alright but it's not
I want it to stop but it can't it will stay inside of me forever...😭💔
It's really hard to fight depression and I know that everyone hate's me
And they make me hate myself
(I'm Here For Nothing I'm Only Here To Feel Pain I'm Here To Feel Sadness I'm Here Just To Be Afraid)
(I Was Supposed To Be Loved Cared Safe Good Kind)
But now i can't be happy..💔
♡
Alexis, I care... I want you to keep fighting. I OVERCAME depression, it is possible. Put your trust in JESUS. Read the book of Matthew in the bible when you have time. If you need a friend just reply, and let me know. My name is Ruth by the way. JESUS LOVES YOU, and So Do I. Please keep fighting, you are a survivor, not a victim. You have made it this far for a reason, so don't give up now. I will pray for you.
😢
@@stutichoudhary3575 Please don't let go, keep fighting. I know it is easier said than done, but we all have purpose here, so don't just give up. Be the change you want to see. Nobody's is perfect; everyone has a struggle, but we all have to choice to keep pushing and not giving up. Sometimes we have to be by ourselves for a while, and that is time we should get to know more about ourselves by asking ourselves questions, or simply just taking a moment to breathe. There is no perfect answer for our struggle at times, but I know for fact that there is hope in JESUS. Just relax, forgive yourself and others who hurt you. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up on yourself or God. I will pray for you. Just take it one day at a time, and think of all the good stuff in your life. Change your outlook on life, think positive, love yourself for who you are. You are survivor, so keep fighting .. I will pray for you. Stay blessed in the name of Jesus.
I don't come to seek attention, or to ask for help or to even share my story. All I wanna say is it's rough all over.
yep...
★Ziggy Stardust★ I SWEAR IF THAT WAS A OUTSIDERS REFERENCE YOU ARE MY NEW FRIEND
YES
This time of the year is so hard....
★Ziggy Stardust★ mantap
This is such a powerfull song and such a beautiful lyric video.
That's exactly what I have to say about it
This perfectly matches the pain of having to be alone in order to accomplish something God asks of you, and despite the agony of it it must now be your friend in order to help others and yourself and you’re comforted knowing it won’t last forever and God is always there
I always feel sad for some reason and just put on a mask and act happy but in the end
it makes me feel worse that people don't understand how I feel
and after a while the sadness ebbs away becomes no feeling
and I feel nothing at all
I hope things get better for you
Same. I thought it was only me who felt that way.
Trust me it will go away I had these feelings last year if you don't already have a therapist or a guidence consuler trust me it will help if you aren't able to obtain a therapist or guidence consuler maybe talk to your parents or,a teacher it will get better I remember always. having to be happy for everyone else but,eventually you'll be able (hopefully) to realize that you have to be happy for you and,don't be afraid of expressing your other emotions. I hope you're doing better❤
+Mystie the wolf artist you should write a song
Jasmine Ly I have literally thought of so many songs just off the top of my head and that comment made me think of illuminati
I don't have any friends...
Music is my only one friend...
SilentKiller AF sadly me
Then u do have a friend dummy
I can be your friend 🙂
Same :(
@@neelamkankane9887 hey...i can be your friend!!!😊😊
I would really appreciate if you had the time to read this and possible change your life.
When I was 16 I met this girl. And I had feelings for her. We were best friends so it would be weird if we dated. She unfortunately did have a condition which could possibly kill her (cancer) which she was diagnosed with after a few years after we met. She didn’t have a good chance of living but I kept my hopes high. She fortunately did beat the battle and we threw a huge party for her. We had a couple of drinks but unfortunately... some girls put drugs in her drink. I went home thinking everyone was ok and I woke up to hear that she unfortunately passed away. I never got the chance to tell her how I felt. And this party was only a month after she was given the good news. It’s been 7 years now amy. 7 years. Happy anniversary. 😭 this is the reason why I suffer from depression and still to this day have suicidal thoughts 😭
that's horrible. I hope you feel better soon.. stay strong. It will get better.
Amy would be proud you're staying strong
No dont die😢
That's so bad.. I'm so sorry you had to go through all this!
I am so sorry for your loss. Amy will always remain in your heart and I am sure that she is watching over you now and is very proud of you. You are so strong, keep fighting. x
I am here again after 10 years. First time, I listened I cried. I was such a very lonely, frail boy back then but now even as an adult I am here again. Loneliness really knocks on my door hard today. Hello old friend...
It's actually sad how this song speaks to me on how I'm feeling lately I'm only 15 years old and I'm already stressing on what to be in life.... I wear this same mask everyday to keep everyone happy but really inside I'm just hurt.... I'm a nice person to everyone and give everyone something so they can smile but never gave back when I'm feeling down... I'm always isolated from my family and doesn't really bother trying to talk to them and create a bond with them. And when I try to tell them how I feel they just push me around and tell me to man up.... But that doesn't really help....
And no I'm not doing this for attention or trying to get likes yes I get it seeing comments like these can be annoying but at times people just want to share their story online because for some people for them feel like they can actually express their feelings
I totally feel like I can share with people online because they don't see you in real life... I hope things get better for you xx
You don't need advice. Just ...learn from it. You'll end up so much stronger.
You and me are the same
Sometimes I stress out about life, too. Remember, you just have to live in the present, and cross that bridge when you come to it.
Does this describe social anxiety or is it just me? Hell i can't even be myself. Too scared to even try.
The only way to beat social anxiety is to fight it directly. You need to find some small microgoals that challenge your comfort zone. The more you stay nestled in your comfortable comfort zone, the more you will reinforce your social anxiety.
Time to break out of that shell. There are lots of channels to help you with this. Elliot Hulse worked for me.
You need to break that shell because if you don't, *nothing* else will get you out of it.
+CosmicVelociuKimty That must have been horrible! I don't really know how to help but I hope things get better
Yeah, the funny thing about problems is that you actually need to solve the problem with actions that have the potential to work. And then persist and work hard at it.
There are actually many actors who started acting because they wanted to face their social anxiety. Guess what? It worked.
They still have to struggle with it (Samuel L Jackson still fights with his social anxiety, James Earl Jones too) in spite of having found great success by working hard on the problem.
When you have a problem like this, you need to find the right solution for the problem and then persist, keep going at it. Check out some motivation videos by Elliot Hulse. He talks about this specifically in some of his videos like "How not to give a fuck" or "how not to be a pussy" or "how to make other men respect you".
Note that he does not advocate tackling insurmountable issues. He talks about building a pattern, starting small and working with attainable goals.
I couldn't go to the mall and start singing. But I could go to a mall and say hello to people. I could go to the mall, buy some candy and share it. I might be able to go to the mall with a friend and do a "free hugs" thing - although that's probably my limit. However, after I had tried it a few times, I am sure that it would get easier.
And that's the correct solution for the problem: find small goals that challenge your fears and do them one at a time until you have the strength for the next one.
Dj Snivy I was always pretty quiet but that changed in 7th grade for me too. I began to be quiet and extremely uncomfortable around classmates and people in the hall. It was so unbearable that me and a few others began to eat lunch in the library. I wouldn't eat in the lunchroom because I was just that uncomfortable.
If you guys had parents worth their salt, they would have told you that this is a normal part of growing up. Things change as you grow up and you need to work hard to assert your personality.
Youth is a time of experimenting to find the edges of your personality and the points that define who you are. This process is falling apart as we put too much weight on how we *feel* vs what we *are*.
Everything worth accomplishing requires facing uncomfortable feelings and difficult challenges. At some point, you're going to need to learn how to push through them.
Or like many other young people, you too will become a useless consumer sheep of no real value to anyone.
Learn to stand on your own two feet! The time for that is *now*.
I don't know if many people will see this comment. But, I just hope that you're doing okay. I know it's really painful to be said that you're not good enough, but it's way more worse if you, yourself, insult yourself. No voices are as mean as your own voice to yourself.
Thank you so much for that, it really cheered me up.
You're an amazing person, thank you for that. It took a long time, but I eventually learned to love myself. The only problem is that I still get hatred from others and now it hurts me double. When I hated myself, it felt like my spirit vs my body. Now it's just me and I feel more alone than ever.
Thankyou this helped a lot i wish there were more people like you💜
It is true...nothing hurts more then your own voices in your head start to insult you...
This song means more to me now than it ever did before. This song, aside from the obvious themes of loss, is based on the feeling of being utterly alone after losing one's self. That "Lonely" feeling doesn't just come from having nobody around, it can also come from the feeling of not being able to talk to anyone even if surrounded by loved ones. The main point of the story within this song is that someone was heartbroken by loss, and now they've sunk deeper into the Lonely than they ever did before.
This song has such a powerful and compelling meaning............and it is impossible to describe it exactly in words...
Dear the 2k who disliked:
Clearly you have never experienced what we have.
The cloak of loneliness
😭😖😭😟😟 crying seriously 😞😞😭
This should be pinned :/
I didn't dislike the video but I see why someone might want to. I think it's mainly because it's hard to read the lyrics. To the people that came here for a lyric video it's not much of one. I do appreciate the art behind the video but for others it might be hard to do so when you want to read the lyrics as she's singing them.
I don't think the people who disliked the video would even scroll down the comment section.
@@bamboozledan facts
I feel like this song means so much to everyone, but in a different way. We all know the cold, the emptiness, the lonliness she talks about. 98% of the people in this comment section would get along.
Loneliness is even worse when you used to have those friends who you imagined you'll be together for a really long time, and now everyone has another group, but you the only one who stays alone.
Strength is when you finally begin to find comfort and love in your OWN presence. We come into life alone and we also leave alone. Learn to truly love and enjoy your own company. You will be Ok trust me ❤️😊
All the people out there:
Look. I know we are all lonely. This song describes our emotions. If we all work together, we can make it out of this dark deep pit. *dont give up* (I sent this to my best friend. Still going today)
I agree with you it's nice to know that someone cares! Your comment just made my day! :3
yes we can make it out of this dark deep pit, but people like me, would rather help the others get out, and stay in it, just because they dont trust someone pulling them up.
It's so heartbreaking to see all those people in the comments that relate to the song so much. Please, please, if you're reading this, remember that you matter and that you are important. I know that it can be so hard sometimes to exist and sometimes you want it all to just stop, believe me, I've been at that point too. But you are stronger than that, I believe in you ♥ Trust me, someday it will get better!
>coming from a female
Men kill themselvss 4x more than females stop trying to understand something you don’t experience, your life is easy, sadly that’s not the way it is for most men in this day and age
What the hell, I NEVER said that men don't kill themselves?! It's not a gender thing, you know, women and men of all ages can suffer from depression. And don't you dare talking to me like you know me, how are you supposed to judge if my life is easy or not if you know NOTHING about my life?! There was a time when I was struggling and it made me sad to see all these comments filled with statements that sounds like something I would think years ago, so I just wanted to spread some hope and tell people that things can change even if they don't believe in it yet. Do you have a problem with that?! Let's just all spread kindness.
godsandmonsters what I’m trying to say if you’re attempting to come from an understanding “I’ve been there” point, when really you haven’t, as a female can never experience depression like a man, females always have someone there for them, they cannot be lonely, but there are A LOT of isolated men today. So you don’t understand. You just went through your teenage emo “depression” phase like every teen girl. You were not depressed, your life is indescribably easy, so stop virtue signalling about something you know nothing of, that’s all I’m trying to say
Are you joking?! That's just wrong on so many fucking levels! As I said, depression doesn't have a gender and - surprise, surprise - I'm not doubting that there are several men that feel isolated, but there are also a lot of females that don't have someone there for them and therefore they can be just as lonely as men. What are you even trying to say, would my comment be alright if I was male?? Am I automatically a "teenager emo depression girlie" just because I'm female? You do realize that's a bit sexist, right? God, why are you even listening to this song about LONELINESS by a FEMALE artist, if we're apparently incapable of feeling lonely? :D
You know what, maybe I don't understand depression, maybe I never will. Maybe what I felt was just a phase when I was unhappy with my teenage self. Did I feel like I wanted to die? Several times. And I meant it. So do millions of other "emo teenage girls" and you know what, some of them actually kill themselves every single year. So I'm sorry when I'm trying to help those people. Because, now I'm talking from experience, sometimes you just need someone to tell you that they care about you and that you matter, even if it's just a stranger from the internet.
Now with all dear respect, leave me the fuck alone.
I'm not Happy
I'm not Sad
I just feel Blank
The most absolute relate EVER
yeah the best i can feel is happy for a moment then nothing ust a split second but most of the time ifeel empty sad and worthless
And that’s what scares me the most because I know I should feel something but I don’t.
My ex girlfriend just got married................all my childhood friends are married................Im still single and too afraid of hurt to try another relationship. i can relate to the blank feeling. Just nothingness. No pain. No happiness. Just an empty hole realizing everything you had is no more.
Holy shit
I listened to this song when my bestfriend died, he was like my brother, my other half. It helped me in away realize that I was letting the loneliness take over me but when ever I listen to it, it brings back those painful memories although that shows me what I've survived and how I've done him proud by being strong. Rest in peace Jay, beautiful song
This song is so powerful and once you start listening to her songs you start to gain a repreciation for her. Her lyrics do have a story behind them and I think an artist who can write songs like this is a true artist. She is someone who can relate true feelings to her music which people love most.
Is it just me that goes from being depressed and overthinking and crying to suddenly just empty and numb and it's like you can't cry or do or feel anything and it's just this cycle that keeps happening and I want to snap out of it but I can't
2 or 3 years of depresoon then a month of being numb then back to depression again
My life
😢
I remember being depressed and crying to this song, cutting myself. Went through a lot, but I'm finally happy and slowly starting a family. It gets better
I hope you get all the love you deserve.
i dont know u. but im very proud of u
i'm happy that u are finally happy. stay strong.bless u
Awwww you made it!! 🥺... I'm so fucking proud of you 😘🥰
I am 18 years old and mother died last year. this songs means so much to me. ❤
i'm sorry, i hope the pain gets better soon xx
how u doing now sweety?
I like how loneliness is personified it gives an edge to the song and an atmosphere of unpredictability
Aisha Ahmad always here if you have Sc add me I'll be there for u
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Aisha Ahmad I'm sorry for you, STAY STRONG❤
I used to be a social butterfly, but that was in first grade, and now that i'm in seventh grade i'm to afraid to get up from my seat to get a pair of scissors
oopsitsjordan I’m in 8th grade now
I feel the same
oopsitsjordan that is completely me
oopsitsjordan that is so damn me
I feel you. I will literally wait an hour to use the washroom because I don't want to get up in the middle of class
When you no longer feel anything and everything is paralyzing...then an only then you'll know you've gone numb.
This song is so beautiful, I mean, look at the lyrics. It describes so many people's lives, and how they're having to deal with so much everyday.
All of you out there, don't lose hope, things will get better soon.
This is truly the saddest song I've ever heard in my life. But at the same time, the most beautiful song; as if softly whispered to me by a radiant angel crying tears from heaven.
Recently lost all my friends. I feel like I'm always being judged. With social anxiety and depression, I ain't doing to well right now. This resonates with me a lot.
You okay now?
Hope you are okay
Am I the only one who prefer to be alone?
+sabrina Judging by the comment section, yes. I know what you mean, though.
+sabrina No, it's completely natural to want to be alone, usually for the peace of mind. I also need my alone time and I think a lot of people do. One thing I've realized is you have to be completely respectful to yourself. Don't doubt your abilities and behaviors, or just don't be too hard on yourself. Respect your mind and body while alone. That's from my personal experiences. :)
no
no..
No.
Listening to this as midnight is approaching. Never felt this hurt before. Tears flow non-stop as the lyrics is tearing my heart apart through so many realizations. I can't help it.
wasting your life all alone and when you go out to the public you feel everyones looking at you angry and then you go into anxiety
I know probably one person will read this but did this pull anyone's family strings? Because this pulled mine. During the entire song all I could remember was when my mom called me a "mistake" when she thought I was out of range...
Spotted Star I'm so sorry. You're definitely not a mistake ❤️
I feel you..I feel that I was adopted and hated by everyone in my family and my mom also hits me
When I lived with my mom she used to be very aggressive and abusive and would constantly tell me how worthless I am so yah
BeTheRoseToMyDagger what? she Hits you omg i am so sorry did u try to Talk to someone about it?
+raquel leal no,im scared that my mom would actually kill me
We are doing a talent show at my school and this girl named Chihiro Bringman is singing this song and she's really good at singing at it but I'm worried that this is how she actually feels and it makes me feel worried for her now she's a wonderful girl has many friends but I'm still hoping that this isn't how she's :(
If christina ever sees this, I just want you to know how close this song has touched me. I hope you are doing well now wherever you are in life, and that you created a piece of art that resonates with a lot of people. ❤
Is it weird how this song really understands my view of loneliness?? There will be times when I seriously don’t think people will view me as a “real” friend. Heck, sometimes they don’t really care one way or another because I just hang out with them so I don’t feel like such a loser. Why did the universe made me who I am? Why am I so different from everyone? How come I can’t find love? And why is whenever I try, I always get rejected, but when everyone else does, they get someone? If life’s goal is to find love, what happens when we don’t? Should just keep playing a game of endless limbo, or kill my self to avoid the hurt....I hate being alone. I hate no one really caring for me. No one remembering my birthday. No real people who actually try to be friends with me instead of vice versa. No one to judge my interests, my sense of humor, and my voice. Fuck these people. I want love....
Hello there,
It's has been the same for me, but in this case it's my fault, when I was 10 I cut off all of my friendships, I don't even know why, I am currently 19 and I wasted all of those years trying to convince my self that friends are useless, but when I was 17 I saw 2 friends walking on the sidewalk and having fun (laughing) and it struck me, that friends aren't irrelevant, I just had gotten used to not having any, I realised that friendships give us happiness, a person to talk with and much more,that I couldn't have if I stayed alone.
As for being diffrent, I totally understand you, I am quit differnt too, I lost my mother at a young age, perhaps that's the reason that I couldn't connect, as I said, even though 9 years have passed, I haven't found the reason yet.
I should note that when though I came to this realisation, I haven't be successful at making a good friend yet, it's hard when you have spended 9 alone.
P.S: When I say friendship, I mean friends not lovers.
I wish you luck kind sir.
I was the same before moving schools, I dont feel so bad anymore but now I have a constant feeling of being empty. Keep in mind it's been almost the whole school year, just... it gets better
Hey, I want to be your friend.♡
Energy goes where attention flows. If you focus on what you lack, that emptiness is all you'll ever feel. If you focus on what you have and feel gratitude for that.. you'll find yourself heal.
But if you ever need someone to show you how to see things the way you've never seen it before, I'm here. I'm not trying to be cheesy here, words on a screen don't do justice. But trust me when I say that you're never alone. You got this. And if you don't, you don't have to bottle it up alone.
I know it’s been two years I hope you’re fine and everything is good, I just want to let you know that you are not alone and love isn’t always about finding someone to love you back love is when you love yourself first and then the world with expecting anything from them, and believe me one day you will find what you look for just be patient
I have an amazing life, my family is happy, I go to a private school, I'm doing ok in dance... but sometimes I just feel unwanted and sad for no reason. I know I can be annoying sometimes and I can tell when my friends just want me to shut up (there amazing people I swear) and sometimes I question why I even talk, if all I do is annoy people. Life has got pretty stressful for me. I'm dancing more and trying to get into the highest level and replace the seniors that are leaving this year, and I'm debating weather or not to come out to my parents that I'm bi, plus things with my girlfriend aren't going so well and I don't know what to do. My problems are so small that I know people have been through so much more and handled it better. I'm sorry for taking up your time
Many people don't believe people with 'good' lives can feel like this. Everyone lives a different life and that doesn't make anything small or meaningless. When people say they have big problems, they have big problems. Huge, if they're brave enough to say it. You must NEVER apologise for your strength! Feeling is hard, saying it is so much harder.
You didn't take up any time. I chose to read it. Stay strong, honey
that akward grl honey you sound just like me. The best thing you can do is tell people you trust about it. That was the best decision I have ever made. Getting better is a process, but you can do it!
To feel lonely or said its normal. Than you said Your battery recharge
that akward grl :[
This is gorgeous, especially when the paper gets lit on fire...
Paper is lit like me
I was a “depressed” Emo when this came out, I cut my wrists and made sad edits while listening to this and MCR” got through that. Now I’m finally super happy, the wounds have completely healed, and my word is filled with positivity and colors!
So happy for you 🙂
awww i'm so proud of you!! you nice keep going 🥰🥰
Mcr is the best
My girlfriend was singing this song at the talent show her voice was beautiful ever since Ive been in love with this song
great!
Twisted Minds Hope she won if there was a prize.
This is my go-to song when I'm struggling with my depression anxiety and my low self-esteem
My 'friends' are fake friends. I treat them so nice, but they use me. I look happy because I act like it, but inside, I'm sad crying. No one gets me. They say thats not the case, but they don't get me, even my parents. I had true friends once, and I had to move away from them. I am so stressed out, and I'm only 12. I lose my true friends a lot. My true friends were younger than me, but so sweet and gentle. They protected me from the dark side. Since I am so sick of life, I almost killed myself, and became evil. My innocence is wearing off, my dark side is starting to show, I knew it was going to happen. I am not so understandable, and I'm very lonely. :'( No one gets me, no one ever has :'(
I feel ya.
+Cielle Noel Its a bad feeling :(
look i am be a bitch (jk I'm a character from Lifewithnyaa101 channel) but I will tell you this hurting other people cause that's what I'm assuming by your dark side coming means doesn't help... you will find a true friend and if we get to know each other i am will be the greatest ever promise...
Things may suck right now, but they will be okay. Everyone's always left me or I pushed them away before they could, but the impossible happened and someone finally stayed. Someone will see through your darkness and at least try to understand. Just gotta hang in there and try to do things that make you feel happy in the meantime. And sometimes the darkness isn't so bad if you handle it in a certain way. Innocence will not last forever and being difficult to understand may mean only people worth your time will come around. Things will get better, they always do. Unless you die before your time, that is, and miss out on those things. But if you hold on, eventually you'll find your happiness.
IzzyLizzy 1457 I know u are sad and feel lonely but even tho i dont know u I will help u Just try to find better friends even its hard try it i swear u might feel for a bit alone but one day ull see ull be happy bc everybody needs true friends and there are milions ppl maybe those "friends*of urs ignore them u will find better friends than those trust me ;D
Being in an abusive marriage for nearly two decades was the DEEPEST loneliness I have ever lived.
It only took 6 months for him to quit “trying” (if he ever was) and filed the divorce after I finally started setting firm boundaries even while still committed to making it work... just not the parts that were no longer going to work for me.
It took 14 months of grieving that loss - the loss of the illusion that there was ever hope - but even during those 14 sobbing months, I felt more love from within than I had in those 19 years together.
Now I’ve met someone new, someone real, someone who respects me, believes in me, admired me and is worthy of admiration himself. A man of character and integrity. (Yes, they do exist!)
You can walk away. You can live through the Lonely. Life is meant to be lived, not just survived through.
You're Blessed. Been through the same. No Guy seems interested in me. And I don't want to be alone. 😢
@@LovesMike33
That new guy didn’t last more than a few months.
It takes a lot of time alone to heal and to learn how to trust yourself. And love yourself.
Just remember you can’t give a gift to anyone if you don’t first possess that gift as your own. Learn to feel fulfilled and loved from within and from God. Then you’ll possess true love to give to someone new.
Authentic self love is very attractive to others.
Song actually starts at 0:33
bless u
Project FYERBIRD thank you soo much ♡
Yes Bless your soul young child
Project FYERBIRD
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2am, where do I begin
Crying off my face again
The silent sound of loneliness
Wants to follow me to bed!
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Too afraid, to go inside
For the pain of one more loveless night
Cause the loneliness will stay with me
And hold me till I fall asleep
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Broken pieces of
A barely breathing story
Where there once was love
Now there's only me
And the lonely...
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again...
You do realise this is a lyric video...
Fast thanks😊
It's a lyric video you fucking idiot
To the people who are hating on this comment, I hope you do realise that not everybody can actually see what the lyrics on the video actually say. And I'm sure the person who put this comment down, probably already knew this was a lyric video, and to be honest, I was also having a hard time reading what was said in the video. So, I really appreciate this comment. No one likes haters.
Thanks, I needed uwu
I remember 2 years ago.. i was listening to this song , crying my heart out , thinking what have i done to myself , feeling cold and ashamed . But i truly understand pain is universal but temporary as well. It went away , i am doing so much better i am so grateful for everything for who i am , for how i am raised . This song means alot to me because it bring alot of cold memories in order to make myself realize how warm i am right now.
Depends my friend. Im in pain for over 10 years now. But its comming to an end i cant handle it anymore
@@gixxeraddict4836 i hope you bear with it a little more because there is so many good things that will happen to you , sit tight and be patient about it. It will soon be over.❤
@@falak1662 idk.. im starting to be reckless. Nobodies waiting for me man. Theres probably nobody thinking about me... ever... So now what i do is take my motorcycle out and ride like a lost soul waiting for something to pull infront of me and end it all. Iknow tbat sounds selfish i dont have enough balls to end it by myself all alone.
Thanks for the reply. You got to get a small smile on my sad face. Peace
@@gixxeraddict4836 you know you just need to channel all the negativity into something , find something that makes you wanna get up every morning. Basically i am across the globe from you i am no one to hand you a motivational speech but i know emotions for sure overpower us. If there is no one waiting for you then don't bother you'll grow weary holding onto things that are gone . I know its okay to crumble some days but just take care of yourself never be too heartbroken that you lose hope of mending yourself.
@@falak1662 iknow maybe i shouldnt bother with it maybe.. but its all i ever wanted in my life. Now im getting older and older i really fear that all my hope may fly away
Always coming back to this song💔
Does anyone else have to change friends every year because none of them are real friends?
+Adelli well I hope you make one soon, and I hope i make one that lasts
Tiara Trotter I only have two friends that I've kept (TRUE friends) and I've had them for five years. All the others... They leave after they get bored with my friendship. So... I have to get new friends every year in different classes, but I do have two really good ones...
Tiara Trotter me
Tiara Trotter same here buddy
Tiara Trotter ya but the only real friends I have are my animals
I will never understand why the critics hated this album