I know heaps of women in their late 30's and 40's who are like that. They all ask where the good men went. Weeeelllll the good men invested their time in people who didn't ignore them.
And a lot of good men have no idea where to find good women for a lifetime commitment. Widowers have no idea where to find a quality lady instead of a temporary friend. Most that have had a divorce come with issues and likely to come with lots of baggage. Many older ladies that are single are single for a reason and should remain single.
Any girl who shows luke warm interest doesn’t deserve the effort. I’m not going to spend time trying to figure out what she’s thinking. A positive reaction is the only signal I care about.
Nathan Crowther - Exactly, there’s plenty of women I’m enthusiastic about that don’t like me and lots of women who’s ego is in tact that end up alone. A woman, of course, wants to feel special and she wants to be desired by as many men as possible, but she’s still going to go for the guy that she is enthusiastic about and the guy she desires. The rest are known as her Facebook friends.
Fabfour - there’s no harm in going after what you want, but it’s also good to cut your losses quickly if it’s just not happening. Sometimes, giving her attention then withdrawing it can end up sparking her interest in you. I wouldn’t count on it, but it definitely does happen sometimes.
I agree and get what you give I mean why give more if your not getting the same. If someone is interested in you it will definitely be mutual. Women will pursue something or someone they like. It doesn't always have the be the guy taking initiative everytime. The chase is bull and gets old
If she is being cold or aloof, she doesn't respect you and is actively looking for another man that she perceives to be of higher value than you. The solution? Ghost her and on to the next.
Are you kidding me? This is far too complicated 😂😂😂 Men are beginning to realize women aren’t worth this much effort. No wonder more and more of us are leaving the plantation. 🙋♂️
*REAL* men prefer women with long hair because after knocking them unconscious with a club, it becomes a rope to drag them home with. *REAL* men know that a woman "not" texting back means she's finally learned to shut her trap temporarily. *REAL* men know the 3 things to text to a woman: 1) Phone sux. 2) I got beer. 3) On my way.
Listen to Todd V. If you want the know how to catch a fish, you don't ask a fish, you ask a fisherman. She's giving bits of good advice which sound very similar to pua concepts, but just listen to the fishermen.
With all due respect, this is by far the worst advice I've ever heard. The actual advice is NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES get into any kind of texting routine with any woman prior to actually dating in person. Maybe do a little bit to establish rapport, and then set up a low-risk low-pressure meet-up. If she doesn't respond to this, immediately drop her and move onto the next. Period, no exceptions, end of story, that's it.
This girl has the worst advice I've ever heard. If you're putting that much thought and effort into a woman that "May" like you. There's no hope for you.
Guys if she doesn't text a lot. And you can't get her to any def meet up date. and she doesn't send you any sexy pics of herself. Delete Her. Go find another one. There are many more women than men. There's a lot of selection out there.
Lycanthropy7.62 - What country are you from where "there are many more women than men"?! Where I live it seems about equal, and the problem is the women are almost all out of shape and still can get much better men than they deserve. A chubby woman here pretty much demands a guy who is decent looking and has a great job and still thinks she deserves to be treated like a queen.
If she is not texting you back then text: "I know I know, you are shy and nervous to start talking to such an attractive and sexy guy like." Dont text her again and move on to the next girl because you should have options. David D.
Justin Ragan, I like your logic. Not every chick likes texting. I will text to say I am on my way or I am running late. But I prefer a phone call. I prefer Human interaction.
@@leeturner8023 you clearly dont get it. Raising someone's kid it only beta if you are a beta in the first place. Secondly, constant phone interaction is feminine. It's for women. An alpha male does not do this. He has too much shit to do.
Justin Ragan, if you're ugly, they don't give two fucks about your 'alpha' roleplaying, they'll just fuck a guy who is handsome and has his shit together. That's all women want (pretty much the same as what guys want), except guys dont give a fuck if she's rich per se, they just want a hot woman to fuck. If Corey Wayne's shit worked so well, he wouldn't have ended up with a single mother. This clearly shows the guy has severely limited dating options, in spite of him bullshitting about all of these 9's and 10's he sexed then blew off.
she will text you back if you text her your bank account and you have a lotto win in it . Its all about money in 2018 no love anymore you have an amazing job , car , boat you will get so many texts that you will have to change your battery every 5 mins
@@josepalacios2819 i don't think 100k is enough considering depending where you live you will end up with about 25k after all your expenses. there are lots of expensive woman out there. i say save your money not worth it
Women have a lot of options. Especially these days with social media. Strangers are complimenting them and talking to them every day so guys need a way to stand out. Only issue is that what works for some women won't work for others. With dating sites, the biggest issue I see over and over is guys messaging with a basic greeting or something that looks like they probably copy and pasted the same message to everyone. I don't know about the voice thing, I might be weirded out a bit if I was sent that if I had only messaged them once or twice. If I'm already not looking at someone favourably, a voice message wouldn't help. The second point is definitely high risk. Not something I'd really recommend, especially if the woman is someone who likes to plan things in advance because that will lead to a straight up no. Need to get to know her before doing anything risky. I agree with the third point. Genuine interest serves everyone well.
Sending a voice can only hurt, not help. If she doesn't like the sound of your voice or you say something she is not interested in or doesn't like or you sound nervous or unsure it's over. Let's face it it's awkward leaving a voice messgae before ever speaking first with a girl.
Step one. Sit down close your eyes and meditate... Step two. Ignore all of these smarty as bitches that think they can judge a person before they know them, and think about something satisfying. Step three. Open your eyes and be in perfect balance with who your are... Do what makes you happy and laugh back at those who don't appreciate.
This video did help. Helped me learn more on who not to persue. The kind of women your advising us to get a date with are not the kind of women we are interested in. These are the kind of women we wish would not get on dating sites. We are not interested in narsasisticth, broken, lost, jaded, wastes of time.
LMFAO :))) hey, 92k. only 60 dislikes of 18k veiws. i bet 99% of her subscribers just realized how fucked up they are. but are trying to swallow her BS. holding their tongues for what they really think of this video. aww how cute lol.. also 92k lmao.. you'd think out of all them subs, that the vid would be at least at 1k thumbs up. im thinking just like you'd exspect out her....92k of FAKE
This is the type of advice that women give each other in a group chat.... it involves many intricate steps that rarely hold up in real world applications. Bottom line, if you have to strategize this much, the other person is not into you. An unfortunate side effect of this mentality is that many womanizers use these type of strategies to get themselves in "situationships" with women... they get all the benefits of a relationship without the responsibilities. And I know this from first had knowledge... for many years, I went from situationship to situationship, and who gets left out in the cold? The "nice guys." If somebody isn't taking your seriously, it doesn't necessarily make them bad people, it just means that they don't value you in the way that you are looking for. Simply cut your losses and move on.
I actually listened to what she said and it makes sense. Like the part about her thinking you don’t care about her and you have to indicate that you do.
Nope women don't think like that. They can get all the attention they want online now they don't NEED attention from you. If they don't show interest in you it is because they aren't interested.
I locked eyes with my girl in a dark night club and approached her... that was almost 5 years ago, we are now married and have a 2 year old and neither of us has ever been happier. I didn’t have to deal with none of this BS texting or her or I playing the field. Avoid the dating apps because women just use it like a f’n game. Real women play by the old rules....
Sometimes this does work to keep trying havent ever tried these exact txts tho. Build trust/connection without being needy its a pain in the neck I only ever ask out women in person so dont know if that makes a difference. Space in between txting as in weeks seems to work. It's best when they just straight up into you just because for whatever reason youre her type.
I learned that I text way better when I'm drunk! Because when I'm drunk, I don't overthink about what I'm going to say and I just say it! Most of the time, I end up waking up the next morning reading the messages I sent and they actually turn out pretty good. As in, I get dates, I get laid, or I just get to developed a better relationship with a woman.
I think the issue is value. Simply put they don’t see the value in the guy. Celebrities don’t have this issue. Basketball players don’t have this issue. Women practically chase them. The key is to increase your value. Now most of us chatting on here are average an ordinary so we won’t have the value that a celebrity has but at least increase your value enough that a girl would want to meet you. If a girl is not responding, leave her alone. She’s not worth it. Either she didn’t value you for whatever reason or she’s not serious and a big waste of time. Find a woman that values you and you’ll be much more happy.
Algorithms killed relationships by increasing expectations. "Instagram worthy" This is part of the problem. People want an Instagram life but as most of my female friends have said life doesn't live up to their dreams . They want reality to be like an Instagram story. Unless you are dating Christian Grey this is not going to happen. People wake up life has great moments but also a lot of drudgery.
seeeesh... why must I build value, when My value is already high? its a two way street If she is not interested well she just is not.. I can demonstrate as much value as I like, but what about her demonstrating value back.. Its really not worth the effort.. 2 ways street..
reciprocity and honesty are everything. if she doesnt demonstrate that REAL quick, dont waste your time, maybe she is just not interested, which is fair OR (and most likely) she is an immature and narcissist child running towards the WALL. LET GO and dont worry about it. there´s always another bus on the way. value yourself and dedicate your time on someone who is worth it.
This advice is extremely helpful. I’m talking to someone overseas and I broke the double text rule. How she reacts will show me whether to continue pursuing her or cut my losses. Thanks Hayley.
Follow up question: if she doesn’t respond to the first text, and We apply your “stating our intent” suggestion. How many days/weeks should we wait after the no response to text her again?
It’s why so many women are single to much drama for dating! Don’t ever fall on herTrap Games,, she’s not texting you” Ignore Her as well No big deal. Next- trust me you will find someone way more Beautiful!!
Right off the bat, you just literally proved a pointed out behavior that all heterosexual women do to heterosexual men. They may like you and think you're cute; it's always something they want out of you and they expect, being a woman, all she has to offer is intimate pair bond? Yep, That's why I'm Mgtow. I still love women; however, in my life time, they're just not worth it anymore. I don't want to go-to prison for saying hello to someone who I think is cute; I don't want to lose what little freedom I already have in this stupid country, America, Because a Woman's lie in a Court room, is more believable than a Man Actually showing true evidence right at the judge's face. That man will still go to prison. Don't Fucking tell me I'm wrong either. I was there and wittinessed it happen.
Most of the time if a woman like you she will text you back the next day after the first text. But if she doesn’t text you back she has other options or more interested in her career. Women who are interested in their careers are harder to please, and would leave in an instance if someone better come along. It’s better to cut your loses and get someone who interested in you. It better to be celebrated rather than tolerated.
If a woman starts a relationship by playing games with texting move on, don't play the game its a sign of things to come. Why is it with equality that men are expected to go to even greater lengths to impress women who in "2018 have higher expectations when it comes to dates".
This is what happens to a lot of men woman show interest to get men to help them out in some way for whatever, then when you just want to spend time with her because you thought that you were friends or she was at least somewhat cool with you she ignores your texts and then gives you the normal excuses. oh sorry I was asleep. oh sorry I was out with friends. oh sorry I was at work. oh sorry I'm too tired. oh sorry I had my phone off. Men you you already have this feeling that she's ignoring you. your gut feeling is never wrong our instincts are sharp when it comes to this. when this happens block and delete her number. That way when she decides she needs you to move the couch or help set up a couple of tables for some project or whatever she won't be able to contact you and you can continue to ignore her. delete her from your life.
You can play the role of the guy who waits until she's finally available. But just remember that's similar to picking up a used car with heavy mileage; just be ready to have a lot of problems to fix.
I haven't even watched the video, I just came to read the comments that's it! (CBF wasting my data!) - a few things to say: 1. You don't ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask the fishermen! (Authors continuously pin-point this on RUclips and in their books!) 2. Texting is not for chit chatting dummies, it's only meant for setting up dates nothing more! (Well unless you're like me, who enjoys random shit when they're bored!). 3. One text, and a follow up in 3 days if she doesn't respond! - if you're texting her like crazy anything more than that, you fucked up! If she doesn't respond to either, on to the next one! 4. Girls aren't your primary focus in life: they're just the cherry on the cake. If you focus too much on them, you're only hurting yourself! - the longer, the deeper the cut! 5. Girls, unlike us men, are emotional creatures: logic never works with them!
Listen guys. The hotter she is and the younger she is expect B.S. games from her UNLESS you are an alpha. Example of an Alpha is 6ft, good looking, six pack abs, muscular body, she knows your rich or have a lot of money, nice cars, financial successful man, famous or any combination of the above. Bottom line is that if she ghosts you or puts you in the friends zone put her in the goodbye zone. Move on to the next.
When girls start putting an iota of effort into dating, start having realistic expectations, stop fooling around and can show value and loyalty, then perhaps dating can be restored. Till then, eh. Is it worth pursuing a girl who can't be bothered to even make low effort text messages? On principal it's bleh. But girls are different. Better to just message those who show interesr and actually invest back, ignore the rest. Though tbf it seems like men can orbit too often and not be straightforward with their intentions. I do hear it's better if you have romantic intentions to just make that known, so she can start seeing you as a romantic potential rather than just everyone else.
Hey Hayley, this isn't in response to this video exactly (I forget which one), but I remember you mentioned in one of them that men should have enough self esteem to not just become pen pals. During one of the online dating chats, I did exactly what you said after she made two excuses for being too busy (by the way, this is the last time I'll ask ;D) and it worked! About ten minutes later, she scheduled a time for us to hang out and we'll be going out and seeing a movie in a few days after some drinks. Thanks so much! :D
I kind of resent the whole marketing angle to how one is supposed to present them self. Take a picture that's "instagram worthy", in a "hip spot". It's the opposite of authenticity, and my whole game pivots on authenticity. And it works (for me). But then again I don't do social media, and I suppose marketing oneself is the point of social media... so I guess I'm the outlier here.
I am amazed how easily you can shock people today just by not texting them! Any meaningful relationship needs two things. Personal presence and face to face communication. If you try to live on your electronic gadget you got nothing baby. But what de heck, at least you got shocked :) :) :)
I LOVE her NATURAL hair by the way... no frills, no nonsense... just NATURAL... wish more women could realize how beautiful Natural looks are... like I said in the past: "Stop listening to fashion advice from Gay men, they are not the ones who are seeking after you! " 🤣🤣🤣
over the years I started noticing the powerful influence Gay Men make over women's lives, they persuade and influence them a lot... but I notice the dark side of Gay Men that they often Do Not Live according to what they Preach... if that makes sense... they persuade you to do all these things (that ultimately pulls you away from Men's attraction) meanwhile they're all there partying and having their secret fun
If you have a dating "strategy" you're already set up to lose. Dating should be organic, not some play book. If you want to see the person again after a first date, plan a second date at the end of the first. It always helps if you have an event like a concert or sporting event to invite them to. If they aren't sure by the end of date one if they want a second date, the chances are they don't feel the same connection as you.
Don't hate the messenger. Hayley Quinn is a fine lass and she knows what she's talking about. She never says she agrees with the bullshit that women do, she actually made videos encouraging women to be more spontanious and that they shouldn't have too clear a picture of a potiential guy lover
Perhaps, though with all the wonders of 3rd wave feminism one can only wonder, not that I have a vested interest in this, I just enjoy watching from the sideline!
I don't think this really has anything to do with feminism. But are you asking about what will happen when sex robots are involved in conjunction with dating? I can see women being turned off by the idea, same thing the other way around if women had male sex robots. Depending on how far tech goes and how interactive it is, it could replace dating in general. Probably not in any of our lifetimes but who knows, there might be a break through
That´s what I´m saying. what happens when robots are indistinguishable from people? technology can be a scary thing if no one knows what we´re doing to ourselves in the long run.
What if I legitimately don't want to? I can't be the only guy here who thinks there is something inherently shameful about texting some girl and giving her more attention and energy than you have been given.It's not so much a shame to the people around me, but more of its a shame to me. . . .
If she can't be an adult and answer your text. Leave her. She's a headache already and she'd spending your money not the other way around. Men need to protect their mental health. Moving forward these type of women should get no further attention from any of us. They don't deserve us.
I think what she got right is that women in 2018 expect the perfect situation for that guy but then will get drunk at a club and go home with a guy after five mins of meeting him and wonder why that the guy that could see dating has moved onto another chick. I talk to five or six chicks too get one date. Also ladies if you at last second cancel that date and then when he asks when you're free and keep saying youre busy, he will take the hint and move onto the next chick. It works well cause it weeds out the chicks who just want to keep you as back up guy when shit goes wrong with the other guy their seeing. Also if you keep doing the shit test to see if he interested. It most of the times will attract that desperate guy who will keep going after you, I will go after the chick but if she cancels on me twice then i delete her number and move onto the next one. It simple ladies if you play games then the guy will lose interest. I have asked a chick out for a drink then she said no i dont drink. I tried messaging her and she didn't respond. Do you ladies expect a guy to try harder or go she isn't inst rested? . I think most people would be totally confused by mixed signals
If she doesn't text back realize that a slightly above average woman takes nearly 16 minutes to say what 3 texts could, self service and realized you just saved a lot of time and money and dint even at best later get cheated on until eventually, after investing hundreds of thousands of dollars and trust and love and maybe children, left for some reason or another or if no real reason is given "I'm not happy" and then you are on the hook for keeping up her lifestyle.
When she goes wishy washy response give her the ultimate gift of missing you out. Period. “Saying you are busy is the biggest lie you can say to yourself or someone else“ not my quote, google it
Message to all my fellow bros; if she's not showing interest in you, drop her and move on. There's plenty of incredible women out there who would be excited if you approached them, and if she's not as excited about you as you are about her, she's not worth your time. Know your self worth, don't let them wrap you around their fingers with their dumb games. You're not just some other shmuck that she can "keep open as an option," if she doesn't want you enough to forget about other "options" then why waste your time? The right woman is still out there. Stop chasing girls and start projecting the confidence that makes them chase you.
This comment section is so woke and redpilled-approaching-blackpilled, that I am surprised Harley Quinn hasn't shut it down. To Harley's credit, she did touch upon how social norms (e.g. sexual liberation), technology (e.g Tinder), and feminism (she can earn her own money) have changed how women treat men, but she implicitly suggests that men need to up their game in order to circumnavigate it. Basically, Harley says: "It has gotten harder so just try harder!".
1.Rule is treat people how you want to be treated. 2.Rule is if she doesn't text back don't text her back.infact throw her number in garbage so that u are not tempted to text back but she still has your number so it's up to her to make that 1st move. 3.Rule is stay busy and keep your mind on money and God and the gym. 4.book proverb or Psalm say somewhere do not chase after woman. Please stay busy in your work and devotion to God . JW.org
I know heaps of women in their late 30's and 40's who are like that. They all ask where the good men went. Weeeelllll the good men invested their time in people who didn't ignore them.
And a lot of good men have no idea where to find good women for a lifetime commitment. Widowers have no idea where to find a quality lady instead of a temporary friend. Most that have had a divorce come with issues and likely to come with lots of baggage. Many older ladies that are single are single for a reason and should remain single.
listen to Tate on this hahaha
Any girl who shows luke warm interest doesn’t deserve the effort. I’m not going to spend time trying to figure out what she’s thinking. A positive reaction is the only signal I care about.
At the end its not about giving up tho, its self-worth. Im not gonna run after her if she shows no reaction. As you said, find someone that does.
Nathan Crowther - Exactly, there’s plenty of women I’m enthusiastic about that don’t like me and lots of women who’s ego is in tact that end up alone. A woman, of course, wants to feel special and she wants to be desired by as many men as possible, but she’s still going to go for the guy that she is enthusiastic about and the guy she desires. The rest are known as her Facebook friends.
Fabfour - there’s no harm in going after what you want, but it’s also good to cut your losses quickly if it’s just not happening. Sometimes, giving her attention then withdrawing it can end up sparking her interest in you. I wouldn’t count on it, but it definitely does happen sometimes.
SO true, thanks for writing this, I've been chasing a lot lately but I want to adopt the same philosophy.
I agree and get what you give I mean why give more if your not getting the same. If someone is interested in you it will definitely be mutual. Women will pursue something or someone they like. It doesn't always have the be the guy taking initiative everytime. The chase is bull and gets old
Shes not texting you back? leave her alone.
I'd say trying twice is ok, both in trying to get a response via text or asking her out. After that, forget her.
More like she's not worth the effort if she can't like an adult.
@Black Wait, WUT!?
fabricetraub thanks for the good advice.
The Prurient Interest YES! U get best RUclips comment award 2018
If she is not responding, she is not worth the effort. Hope she enjoys her time with her cats
Well said.
@Skipping Stones stop projecting
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i find that if you send a txt telling a girl to go fuck off, youll feel better. Whether she responds or not, LIGAF lol. i recommend it.
Its all fine and dandy if they just say what they want instead of being aftaid to just say hey i dont want another date with you and carry on
If she is being cold or aloof, she doesn't respect you and is actively looking for another man that she perceives to be of higher value than you.
The solution? Ghost her and on to the next.
It seems like feminisms entitlement has ruined dating not just for men but for women too.
absolutely,it looks weird but it is true!!
Exactly as planned
This Tony Ferguson eared bitch telling you to be a doormat for a girl who brings NOTHING to the table.
Sad triggered man
If she’s not texting you back consider your self lucky and just MoveOn
I stopped listening @ 2:00 to read the comments.
I stopped at 1:32.
Are you kidding me? This is far too complicated 😂😂😂 Men are beginning to realize women aren’t worth this much effort. No wonder more and more of us are leaving the plantation. 🙋♂️
Nastassia no problem! Enjoy your cats 🐱🐱🐱
@Nastassia when you are older and messed up by bad men you will look back at all the good men you played games with and realize whose the looser.
🤣🤣🤣 I never call women its a stupid game, stay mysterious and elusive, she will respect you more. Women should entertain men and not vice versa
amen to that brother
Wise words brother...wise words
*REAL* men prefer women with long hair because after knocking them unconscious with a club, it becomes a rope to drag them home with. *REAL* men know that a woman "not" texting back means she's finally learned to shut her trap temporarily. *REAL* men know the 3 things to text to a woman: 1) Phone sux. 2) I got beer. 3) On my way.
Listen to Todd V. If you want the know how to catch a fish, you don't ask a fish, you ask a fisherman. She's giving bits of good advice which sound very similar to pua concepts, but just listen to the fishermen.
Todd v is the 🐐
She sounds like a lawyer reading terms and conditions
Relationships are built on equal respect and friendship, if you don't get texted back then don't bother! She or He is not worth your time.
too much trouble. not worth it. save your time and money, and stay single
Life is short don't save your money or stay single . Fuck as many good looking bitches as possible !
@@raygarcia4468 you can do that when your single
With all due respect, this is by far the worst advice I've ever heard. The actual advice is NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES get into any kind of texting routine with any woman prior to actually dating in person. Maybe do a little bit to establish rapport, and then set up a low-risk low-pressure meet-up. If she doesn't respond to this, immediately drop her and move onto the next. Period, no exceptions, end of story, that's it.
If she's not texting you back she's more interested in Chad and Tyrone than you.
Dear lord...
Lol
That’s true. She’s more interested in guys like myself 😉
Fuck yeah!
Kkkkkk
You can either love women or understand them..but you can't do both! #MGTOW
Women understand women, and they hate each other.
Cant do either baha ha
Women arent hard to understand at all. Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
I so agree with this comment. Sad reality 😢
Rule #1 Never take dating advice from a chick.
Bingo. This shit she's spewing is just laughable.
Rule #2 Never take dating advice from a chick.
Exactly lol
Rule #3 Never take dating advice from a chick.
Bingo. Was his name-o
If she doesn’t text back, she’s looking elsewhere.
Getting it by Chad and Tyrone.
5:05 cool pic 8:37 be spontaneous 11:36 be straight forward, typical woman 90% listening to her self talk
This girl has the worst advice I've ever heard. If you're putting that much thought and effort into a woman that "May" like you. There's no hope for you.
Guys if she doesn't text a lot. And you can't get her to any def meet up date. and she doesn't send you any sexy pics of herself. Delete Her. Go find another one. There are many more women than men. There's a lot of selection out there.
Very True. The man is the real catch, not the woman. She seems to be pandering to that BS Idea that women are the center of the universe. lol
Lycanthropy7.62 - What country are you from where "there are many more women than men"?! Where I live it seems about equal, and the problem is the women are almost all out of shape and still can get much better men than they deserve. A chubby woman here pretty much demands a guy who is decent looking and has a great job and still thinks she deserves to be treated like a queen.
shes right, but theres a disclaimer.. this is for casting out a net, not a fishing line, if you know what i mean
do we really need a 16 min video when most youtubers can get straight to the point in not even 1/2 that time?
If she is not texting you back then text:
"I know I know, you are shy and nervous to start talking to such an attractive and sexy guy like."
Dont text her again and move on to the next girl because you should have options.
David D.
She's not texting you back...1 - Grow over 6 feet tall. 2 - Get a six pack 3 - Make 6 figures. 4 - Text her back
@john murphy ...and...
@ETB ...yep! Even Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp were taken to the cleaners...still not good enough.
#1s not possible. not everyones meant to be 6 ft tall
@@pyramidhead138 ...wear 4 inch stilettos ...problem solved.
@@alex-p wtf? those are for women
The phone is for setting dates. Period. Every other guy is texting her. Be the one to call, set a date and don't talk again until in person.
Justin Ragan, I like your logic. Not every chick likes texting. I will text to say I am on my way or I am running late. But I prefer a phone call. I prefer Human interaction.
@@leeturner8023 you clearly dont get it. Raising someone's kid it only beta if you are a beta in the first place. Secondly, constant phone interaction is feminine. It's for women. An alpha male does not do this. He has too much shit to do.
Justin Ragan, if you're ugly, they don't give two fucks about your 'alpha' roleplaying, they'll just fuck a guy who is handsome and has his shit together. That's all women want (pretty much the same as what guys want), except guys dont give a fuck if she's rich per se, they just want a hot woman to fuck. If Corey Wayne's shit worked so well, he wouldn't have ended up with a single mother. This clearly shows the guy has severely limited dating options, in spite of him bullshitting about all of these 9's and 10's he sexed then blew off.
Don't use dating apps, don't text.
Get to know ppl. Be fun and have a lot of friends. Enjoy your life. Women will come around
She not texting back!
No worries move on to the next chick.
She's not Texting you back because she found a Better man with more money! True facts...
Never double text. Ever. If you're not important enough to respond to, then she is not important enough to matter.
she will text you back if you text her your bank account and you have a lotto win in it . Its all about money in 2018 no love anymore you have an amazing job , car , boat you will get so many texts that you will have to change your battery every 5 mins
Wha is an amazing job? Example.
Example @@josepalacios2819ny job where you make a ton of money
@@Tdrums8 is 100,000 thousand dollars every year a ton of money to impress these women? I am curious
quick answer a shit load of $ or more then you get the beauties
@@josepalacios2819 i don't think 100k is enough considering depending where you live you will end up with about 25k after all your expenses. there are lots of expensive woman out there. i say save your money not worth it
#MGTOW - Learn it. Know it. Live it.
It's a sign o the times... narcissism on all levels.
This is terrible advice. The best (and overwhelmingly consistent) advice I've heard is to leave her alone. Scarcity creates attraction.
U mean abundance
Yeah I'd rather die single, I'm tired of doing all this work with no pay back.
Maybe I'll be appreciated in my afterlife.
Women have a lot of options. Especially these days with social media. Strangers are complimenting them and talking to them every day so guys need a way to stand out. Only issue is that what works for some women won't work for others. With dating sites, the biggest issue I see over and over is guys messaging with a basic greeting or something that looks like they probably copy and pasted the same message to everyone. I don't know about the voice thing, I might be weirded out a bit if I was sent that if I had only messaged them once or twice. If I'm already not looking at someone favourably, a voice message wouldn't help. The second point is definitely high risk. Not something I'd really recommend, especially if the woman is someone who likes to plan things in advance because that will lead to a straight up no. Need to get to know her before doing anything risky. I agree with the third point. Genuine interest serves everyone well.
Sending a voice can only hurt, not help. If she doesn't like the sound of your voice or you say something she is not interested in or doesn't like or you sound nervous or unsure it's over. Let's face it it's awkward leaving a voice messgae before ever speaking first with a girl.
Step one.
Sit down close your eyes and meditate...
Step two.
Ignore all of these smarty as bitches that think they can judge a person before they know them, and think about something satisfying.
Step three.
Open your eyes and be in perfect balance with who your are... Do what makes you happy and laugh back at those who don't appreciate.
Damn! The fishes love to teach the fisherman
This video did help. Helped me learn more on who not to persue. The kind of women your advising us to get a date with are not the kind of women we are interested in. These are the kind of women we wish would not get on dating sites. We are not interested in narsasisticth, broken, lost, jaded, wastes of time.
"She needs to experience much more excitement before she starts texting you." Does she moan with pleasure when I actually call on the phone?
Who sends pictures to someone you're just breaking the ice with? Maybe I'm broken or old-fashioned, I've never done that once.
In other words, in 3 short years, women's standards have went from astronomical to outright impossible?
Why is modern dating so very tough
I 'll shorten that video for you guys, the important synthesis is at 14:03. "Cut your losses! Piss off!" Thanks for the attention!
Best dating advice I ever received? Don't take dating advice from women. 10/10 can verify.
Easy it’s called options with social media etc.... women get hit on so much than ever ......
Then they get hundreds of likes and it gives them the big head and then they think they are the shit but usually it's just thirsty dudes more then not
And what are women going to do to get my interest in seeing them as relationship material? I know my worth.
instead of investing time and money into a narcissist ,invest it into thing you really enjoy.
Your video exhausts me. Why would I put myself in that situation?
if she stops texting you send one to her sister
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hey, 92k. only 60 dislikes of 18k veiws. i bet 99% of her subscribers just realized how fucked up they are. but are trying to swallow her BS. holding their tongues for what they really think of this video. aww how cute lol.. also 92k lmao.. you'd think out of all them subs, that the vid would be at least at 1k thumbs up. im thinking just like you'd exspect out her....92k of FAKE
This is the type of advice that women give each other in a group chat.... it involves many intricate steps that rarely hold up in real world applications. Bottom line, if you have to strategize this much, the other person is not into you.
An unfortunate side effect of this mentality is that many womanizers use these type of strategies to get themselves in "situationships" with women... they get all the benefits of a relationship without the responsibilities. And I know this from first had knowledge... for many years, I went from situationship to situationship, and who gets left out in the cold? The "nice guys."
If somebody isn't taking your seriously, it doesn't necessarily make them bad people, it just means that they don't value you in the way that you are looking for. Simply cut your losses and move on.
People should not be doing research and taking lessons on dating, people should learn from experience...
I actually listened to what she said and it makes sense. Like the part about her thinking you don’t care about her and you have to indicate that you do.
Nope women don't think like that. They can get all the attention they want online now they don't NEED attention from you. If they don't show interest in you it is because they aren't interested.
If she's on IG or Snapchat all the time then do yourself a favor and move on from that headache.
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I locked eyes with my girl in a dark night club and approached her... that was almost 5 years ago, we are now married and have a 2 year old and neither of us has ever been happier. I didn’t have to deal with none of this BS texting or her or I playing the field. Avoid the dating apps because women just use it like a f’n game. Real women play by the old rules....
You got lucky, that doesn't happen with all men so easily.
Sometimes this does work to keep trying havent ever tried these exact txts tho. Build trust/connection without being needy its a pain in the neck I only ever ask out women in person so dont know if that makes a difference. Space in between txting as in weeks seems to work. It's best when they just straight up into you just because for whatever reason youre her type.
way too much info, if a women goes through all that much in her head if she wants to be around you or date you then she is not worth the time.
How about all the pretentious girls out there, who play on guys emotions?
I learned that I text way better when I'm drunk! Because when I'm drunk, I don't overthink about what I'm going to say and I just say it! Most of the time, I end up waking up the next morning reading the messages I sent and they actually turn out pretty good. As in, I get dates, I get laid, or I just get to developed a better relationship with a woman.
I see AA in your future...🥂
I think the issue is value. Simply put they don’t see the value in the guy. Celebrities don’t have this issue. Basketball players don’t have this issue. Women practically chase them. The key is to increase your value. Now most of us chatting on here are average an ordinary so we won’t have the value that a celebrity has but at least increase your value enough that a girl would want to meet you. If a girl is not responding, leave her alone. She’s not worth it. Either she didn’t value you for whatever reason or she’s not serious and a big waste of time. Find a woman that values you and you’ll be much more happy.
no ones schedule extends past 2 weeks, except for travel or family commitments...
Algorithms killed relationships by increasing expectations. "Instagram worthy" This is part of the problem. People want an Instagram life but as most of my female friends have said life doesn't live up to their dreams . They want reality to be like an Instagram story. Unless you are dating Christian Grey this is not going to happen. People wake up life has great moments but also a lot of drudgery.
seeeesh... why must I build value, when My value is already high? its a two way street If she is not interested well she just is not.. I can demonstrate as much value as I like, but what about her demonstrating value back.. Its really not worth the effort.. 2 ways street..
antony raison Exactly what will she do for the man with all these hoops to jump thru and it’s like what will they do for us?
reciprocity and honesty are everything. if she doesnt demonstrate that REAL quick, dont waste your time, maybe she is just not interested, which is fair OR (and most likely) she is an immature and narcissist child running towards the WALL. LET GO and dont worry about it. there´s always another bus on the way. value yourself and dedicate your time on someone who is worth it.
If you let an entitled chick make you run through a landmine laced maze like you're a lab rat just so she'll text you... you deserve what you get.
This advice is extremely helpful. I’m talking to someone overseas and I broke the double text rule. How she reacts will show me whether to continue pursuing her or cut my losses. Thanks Hayley.
If she’s overseas, cut your losses now.
so, whats the goal with that girl? seriously. Whats the next step?
Cut your losses.
No reply yet? Obviously it didn't go well.
Follow up question: if she doesn’t respond to the first text, and We apply your “stating our intent” suggestion. How many days/weeks should we wait after the no response to text her again?
It’s why so many women are single to much drama for dating! Don’t ever fall on herTrap Games,, she’s not texting you” Ignore Her as well No big deal. Next- trust me you will find someone way more Beautiful!!
Really like the plants in your place. The skull on top right of the shelf matches your outfit.
Right off the bat, you just literally proved a pointed out behavior that all heterosexual women do to heterosexual men. They may like you and think you're cute; it's always something they want out of you and they expect, being a woman, all she has to offer is intimate pair bond? Yep, That's why I'm Mgtow. I still love women; however, in my life time, they're just not worth it anymore. I don't want to go-to prison for saying hello to someone who I think is cute; I don't want to lose what little freedom I already have in this stupid country, America, Because a Woman's lie in a Court room, is more believable than a Man Actually showing true evidence right at the judge's face. That man will still go to prison. Don't Fucking tell me I'm wrong either. I was there and wittinessed it happen.
I think you may need some dating advice Hayley...😀
Most of the time if a woman like you she will text you back the next day after the first text. But if she doesn’t text you back she has other options or more interested in her career. Women who are interested in their careers are harder to please, and would leave in an instance if someone better come along. It’s better to cut your loses and get someone who interested in you. It better to be celebrated rather than tolerated.
If a woman starts a relationship by playing games with texting move on, don't play the game its a sign of things to come. Why is it with equality that men are expected to go to even greater lengths to impress women who in "2018 have higher expectations when it comes to dates".
This is what happens to a lot of men woman show interest to get men to help them out in some way for whatever, then when you just want to spend time with her because you thought that you were friends or she was at least somewhat cool with you she ignores your texts and then gives you the normal excuses. oh sorry I was asleep. oh sorry I was out with friends. oh sorry I was at work. oh sorry I'm too tired. oh sorry I had my phone off. Men you you already have this feeling that she's ignoring you. your gut feeling is never wrong our instincts are sharp when it comes to this. when this happens block and delete her number. That way when she decides she needs you to move the couch or help set up a couple of tables for some project or whatever she won't be able to contact you and you can continue to ignore her. delete her from your life.
You can play the role of the guy who waits until she's finally available. But just remember that's similar to picking up a used car with heavy mileage; just be ready to have a lot of problems to fix.
I haven't even watched the video, I just came to read the comments that's it! (CBF wasting my data!) - a few things to say:
1. You don't ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask the fishermen! (Authors continuously pin-point this on RUclips and in their books!)
2. Texting is not for chit chatting dummies, it's only meant for setting up dates nothing more! (Well unless you're like me, who enjoys random shit when they're bored!).
3. One text, and a follow up in 3 days if she doesn't respond! - if you're texting her like crazy anything more than that, you fucked up! If she doesn't respond to either, on to the next one!
4. Girls aren't your primary focus in life: they're just the cherry on the cake. If you focus too much on them, you're only hurting yourself! - the longer, the deeper the cut!
5. Girls, unlike us men, are emotional creatures: logic never works with them!
Listen guys. The hotter she is and the younger she is expect B.S. games from her UNLESS you are an alpha. Example of an Alpha is 6ft, good looking, six pack abs, muscular body, she knows your rich or have a lot of money, nice cars, financial successful man, famous or any combination of the above. Bottom line is that if she ghosts you or puts you in the friends zone put her in the goodbye zone. Move on to the next.
This video should say this is for betas.
When girls start putting an iota of effort into dating, start having realistic expectations, stop fooling around and can show value and loyalty, then perhaps dating can be restored. Till then, eh. Is it worth pursuing a girl who can't be bothered to even make low effort text messages? On principal it's bleh. But girls are different. Better to just message those who show interesr and actually invest back, ignore the rest.
Though tbf it seems like men can orbit too often and not be straightforward with their intentions. I do hear it's better if you have romantic intentions to just make that known, so she can start seeing you as a romantic potential rather than just everyone else.
Hey Hayley, this isn't in response to this video exactly (I forget which one), but I remember you mentioned in one of them that men should have enough self esteem to not just become pen pals. During one of the online dating chats, I did exactly what you said after she made two excuses for being too busy (by the way, this is the last time I'll ask ;D) and it worked! About ten minutes later, she scheduled a time for us to hang out and we'll be going out and seeing a movie in a few days after some drinks. Thanks so much! :D
I've pasted these over and over and she's still not responding....
I kind of resent the whole marketing angle to how one is supposed to present them self. Take a picture that's "instagram worthy", in a "hip spot". It's the opposite of authenticity, and my whole game pivots on authenticity. And it works (for me). But then again I don't do social media, and I suppose marketing oneself is the point of social media... so I guess I'm the outlier here.
I am amazed how easily you can shock people today just by not texting them! Any meaningful relationship needs two things. Personal presence and face to face communication. If you try to live on your electronic gadget you got nothing baby. But what de heck, at least you got shocked :) :) :)
I LOVE her NATURAL hair by the way... no frills, no nonsense... just NATURAL... wish more women could realize how beautiful Natural looks are... like I said in the past: "Stop listening to fashion advice from Gay men, they are not the ones who are seeking after you! " 🤣🤣🤣
over the years I started noticing the powerful influence Gay Men make over women's lives, they persuade and influence them a lot... but I notice the dark side of Gay Men that they often Do Not Live according to what they Preach... if that makes sense... they persuade you to do all these things (that ultimately pulls you away from Men's attraction) meanwhile they're all there partying and having their secret fun
If you have a dating "strategy" you're already set up to lose. Dating should be organic, not some play book. If you want to see the person again after a first date, plan a second date at the end of the first. It always helps if you have an event like a concert or sporting event to invite them to. If they aren't sure by the end of date one if they want a second date, the chances are they don't feel the same connection as you.
Don't hate the messenger. Hayley Quinn is a fine lass and she knows what she's talking about. She never says she agrees with the bullshit that women do, she actually made videos encouraging women to be more spontanious and that they shouldn't have too clear a picture of a potiential guy lover
This video reminds me of the "its always sunny" scene when De is an ostrich in thr bathroom
How about finding a woman that has much higher interest in you! You will enjoy this connection much more.
With all The confusion ( as you said ) regarding dating I can´t wait to see what happens when you throw sex robots into this chaos!
pmsingkatyperrylistener 1 - I doubt the hundred guys who buy one were getting much attention on Match in the first place.
Perhaps, though with all the wonders of 3rd wave feminism one can only wonder, not that I have a vested interest in this, I just enjoy watching from the sideline!
I don't think this really has anything to do with feminism. But are you asking about what will happen when sex robots are involved in conjunction with dating? I can see women being turned off by the idea, same thing the other way around if women had male sex robots. Depending on how far tech goes and how interactive it is, it could replace dating in general. Probably not in any of our lifetimes but who knows, there might be a break through
That´s what I´m saying. what happens when robots are indistinguishable from people? technology can be a scary thing if no one knows what we´re doing to ourselves in the long run.
She never text me back. They say dont text twice. So I messaged her 379 times . Really dont know why she ain't got back,, but I'll keep trying
If she’s hard to communicate with..she’s not WORTH communicating with
What if I legitimately don't want to? I can't be the only guy here who thinks there is something inherently shameful about texting some girl and giving her more attention and energy than you have been given.It's not so much a shame to the people around me, but more of its a shame to me. . . .
If she can't be an adult and answer your text. Leave her. She's a headache already and she'd spending your money not the other way around. Men need to protect their mental health. Moving forward these type of women should get no further attention from any of us. They don't deserve us.
I think what she got right is that women in 2018 expect the perfect situation for that guy but then will get drunk at a club and go home with a guy after five mins of meeting him and wonder why that the guy that could see dating has moved onto another chick. I talk to five or six chicks too get one date. Also ladies if you at last second cancel that date and then when he asks when you're free and keep saying youre busy, he will take the hint and move onto the next chick. It works well cause it weeds out the chicks who just want to keep you as back up guy when shit goes wrong with the other guy their seeing. Also if you keep doing the shit test to see if he interested. It most of the times will attract that desperate guy who will keep going after you, I will go after the chick but if she cancels on me twice then i delete her number and move onto the next one. It simple ladies if you play games then the guy will lose interest. I have asked a chick out for a drink then she said no i dont drink. I tried messaging her and she didn't respond. Do you ladies expect a guy to try harder or go she isn't inst rested? . I think most people would be totally confused by mixed signals
If she doesn't text back realize that a slightly above average woman takes nearly 16 minutes to say what 3 texts could, self service and realized you just saved a lot of time and money and dint even at best later get cheated on until eventually, after investing hundreds of thousands of dollars and trust and love and maybe children, left for some reason or another or if no real reason is given "I'm not happy" and then you are on the hook for keeping up her lifestyle.
When she goes wishy washy response give her the ultimate gift of missing you out. Period.
“Saying you are busy is the biggest lie you can say to yourself or someone else“ not my quote, google it
Message to all my fellow bros; if she's not showing interest in you, drop her and move on. There's plenty of incredible women out there who would be excited if you approached them, and if she's not as excited about you as you are about her, she's not worth your time. Know your self worth, don't let them wrap you around their fingers with their dumb games. You're not just some other shmuck that she can "keep open as an option," if she doesn't want you enough to forget about other "options" then why waste your time? The right woman is still out there. Stop chasing girls and start projecting the confidence that makes them chase you.
She's not texting back subtext it's over
I was accused of Text Rape, now I have to go to court, nice!
This is brilliant.... thank you. Great vid, you might of solved my problem.
This comment section is so woke and redpilled-approaching-blackpilled, that I am surprised Harley Quinn hasn't shut it down. To Harley's credit, she did touch upon how social norms (e.g. sexual liberation), technology (e.g Tinder), and feminism (she can earn her own money) have changed how women treat men, but she implicitly suggests that men need to up their game in order to circumnavigate it. Basically, Harley says: "It has gotten harder so just try harder!".
1.Rule is treat people how you want to be treated.
2.Rule is if she doesn't text back don't text her back.infact throw her number in garbage so that u are not tempted to text back but she still has your number so it's up to her to make that 1st move.
3.Rule is stay busy and keep your mind on money and God and the gym.
4.book proverb or Psalm say somewhere do not chase after woman. Please stay busy in your work and devotion to God . JW.org