So relatable. Eventually they cut any ties by themselves, in anger/frustration, and there is actually nothing I have to do😅. Always so satisfying when I see them reaching the breaking point.
@@ShadowamongtheKnight not really. Intent and the characteristics utilized makes all the difference. For a Sigma or INTJ such as myself we have a very strong sense of justice and are deeply satisfied when justice is served. A narcissistic person is malicious with malicious intent.
I recently did such tactic last year with a classic narcissist woman. Contacted her two years ago we had sex yes, but I already saw her coming for what she is. I pretended It was my fault it IMMEDIATELY gave her confidence. Until when I exposed her in the last min she got PISSED off and I had the last laugh. What a loser! Last year she tried to convince me the Federals had a case on me for molesting a "minor" supposedly, it turned out she make those emails herself to scare me to pay money for her. After the exposure again she went quiet then I proceed to mock that woman. Satisfied, ignored her after that. People would do desperate things behind the internet as well desperate times of drastic measures. Above all this though I messed around with a narcissist on purpose I was that bored. The chaos of the world was never even for me LOL! Talk about sigma's living on the edge yet were not arrogant.
I just love a narcissist reaction when they think they have me cornered, and I just stare them down, letting them know I see right trough them, and peek right into their empty soul. They have virtually no control lever on me. I rely solely on internal motivation. Nobody tells me what to like or to pursue, and what not.
#10 most important fellow sigmas. Establish your emotional and financial independence and always be prepared to reject toxicity and remove it from your life. It's a big world and change is constant so there's always somewhere to go to be healthier.
The sigma male's 6th sense is they can see through someone's soul. It made them the rarest and formidable among men against deception and manipulation.
My brothers, all of your comments are so accurate. We are very unique. Being a sigma is also a curse though. It’s not easy being a sigma. I really wish I could turn off my senses sometimes and be more tolerant of others weak manipulative moves, but I can’t. We let so few people into our lives because we observe so well and can see through everything. Narcissists are no big deal because they’re just walk away situations, but there’s good people out there that are not narcissist, but are terrible at hiding their motivations when dealing with us, yet we can’t forgive their attempted end game moves. One day I had an exec say out of nowhere, I know you’re a sigma…everyone hates you guys. I just stared at him and after a pause I responded with one word, why. He replied, you guys are really smart and study everyone in meetings, we have to watch what we say and I hate that you guys make us feel like we’re the dumbest guys in the room. I know that you guys experience similar things.
Observe. Learn. See patterns. Dont get involved so much. You dont like that anyway. Ok i read you got confronted for doing that. So ppl talk about sigmas in everyday life? Everyday life, Hmm, nah, im gonna get a cat.
Yep. Dishonest people get uncomfortable because they know we know. Then they convince the sheeps we are bad. The worst is that we don't even want to be in these meetings. But often we are forced to be.
Sigmas are not always businessman that wear suits and ties have clean fingernails or play on computers. A lot of sigmas are rough, cut grimy and dirty. The men that get the job done.
They do. I've encountered some in my life, and you do much as mention "God" or "religion" and they get all squirrelly. Narcissism, just to let you know, is a textbook trait of ANY demon. It doesn't matter if they're male or female, either.
Anyone who shows u narcissistic tendencies are possessed by a demon and/or evil spirt. GOD / UNIVERSE / CREATION doesn’t want you to hurt others, devalue or try to manipulate. LOVE is kind, warm, gentle, patient, naturing, understanding, inclusive, GOD! So to CHOOSE to operate outside the light (in darkness) all DEMONIC! We all capable….The power of CHOICE! Who do u choose to serve everyday….the light (GOD) or dark (DEVIL)?
Had a “best friend “ who was going prematurely bald. He looked at me one day and asked me when I was going to shave my head like he’d done. I say when I go bald. Turning 60 this year, still have a head of hair, lost the narcissist friend 10 years ago.
I will admit that I do like sometimes to play with narcissist a little before I pull the plug on them 😅 it's fun to see them lose control 😂 but most of the time I just shut em down instantly
A narcissist feels impotent when they know they are viewed as Insignificant. If no audience, narcissist has no voice. Reply to a narcissists comments with a laugh saying “whatever “ and they are powerless
Love this video and the voice narration. It is a weird thing being a person interested in others, who needs a lot of alone time and solitude to be happy. I love people, but they can be simultaneously the best thing in your life or the worst. Having an inbuilt radar to pick up on the negative energy of certain people is highly useful; but can lead to a lot of people not understanding us. Hence why we invest so much time into understanding ourselves. Still, great vid. Saved and subscribed. Cheers 🍻
This is concerning to me. I thought I was invisible in my world of observations and listening. I have listened to this video and find that someone out there are aware of my character often masked in ways that make me not being seen. Only when necessary.
Ye, you're not alone, it's just how it is! You seen the movie "Nobody" with Bob Odenkirk. What it is to be a nobody! (be advised, it's a rough movie.) All the best to you.
This is a strong analysis. "Appreciate the perspective!" Most important key takeaways were: 1:35 ...narcs booster egos to lower defences. 3:44 ...narcs use multiple avenues of control. 4:14 ...narcs use multiple "entry points" for manipulation. 4:53 ...narcs engender emotional reactions simply to exploit. 5:22 ...narcs thrive on chaos and confusion. 7:24 ...regular people value approval over authenticity! Thank you once again. All the very best.
Point number 1 is developed through the sigma's tendency to sit back and observe quietly. This enables him to determine the two-faced nature of the narcissist and be on guard for their manipulation tactics. Point number 10, walking away from toxic situations - be it an abusive employer or an argumentative, disrespectful 'frenemy' - is essential to maintaining peace of mind. For such people add no value to the quality of the sigma's life.
I've just watched several sigma male presentations. I'm quite amazed that the characteristics they all described were considered unique to a certain (minority) group, called sigma males. I found all the attributes from all the presentations applied to me, and have always considered them to be characteristic of maleness and masculinity - born in the bones so to speak. I'm 80+ and have always experienced these as normal aspects of my basic male human reality for a very long time.
It’s because they (sigmas) have no qualms about walking away from both the narcissist AND all their flying monkeys forever. It does not matter how close of friends they were at one time or another.
I once had a close friend who turned out to be a narcissist after some time 😅 At first, we spend a lot of time because I wanted to do so - we had similar hobbies and interests and I didn't know many people in the new city. But the longer it went on, I realized a change in his behavior. Basically the turning point was when he wanted to spend most of his time with me and see me more often than I wanted to see him. Also, I noticed that he talked bad about me in my back and started to weirdly compliment my performance or work while in the next day played it down like it wasn't much of a thing, especially when talking to others. Guess what, since I don't need others verification but are pretty much my own harshest critic, I didn't care at all - I guess I must have driven him crazy over time since his behavior got worse. Ultimately, our friend related relationship ended when he started to drink heavy every evening, whining about the same things every damn time and I tried to help him first by giving advice. But since he didn't take that at all and still continued to complain, I reacted quite harshly and basically told him to shut up and do sth against his issue or stop seeing me - Well, he reacted with a lot of drama about my "hurtful" behavior and blabla, which was the final nail in the coffin and made me delete his number and to this day cut off any contact.
Ending it for good 18 months ago with Narcissist... In fact I ended it 5 times and she kept coming back, each time I rolled over saying nothing but she carried on as if she'd done nothing wrong lol. The more she got her feet under the table the nastier she got. Until the finale, I let her rant with her contorted face over absolutely nothing, her head went down in realization when she stopped...she looked up ...I calmly said with a finger pointing towards the door...get your stuff and get out! Never let these manipulators in.
My boss she makes $150k I make 50k but try’s to use manipulation to get me to buy things for the office. Absolutely not. I’m the poorest in the office but I’m the ones they target and mad that I am not fooled.
My niece is a narcissist and on so many occasions she has tried to get a rise out of me 😂😅 and I never even react to her and she hates me to the point that she has my sister turning against me 😂😂😂😅
Awww, are you upset that you can't manipulate us???😂😂😂😂😂Get over it.You just love to think that you are smarter than, and can control anybody you want, and we shatter your illusions of superiority.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I find it amusing and satisfying when a narcissist can't get an emotional reaction from me and try harder. I end up just laughing at them.
So relatable. Eventually they cut any ties by themselves, in anger/frustration, and there is actually nothing I have to do😅. Always so satisfying when I see them reaching the breaking point.
Psst. That's narcissistic behavior as well.
Gaslighting
You ain't lying 😂💯
@@ShadowamongtheKnight not really. Intent and the characteristics utilized makes all the difference. For a Sigma or INTJ such as myself we have a very strong sense of justice and are deeply satisfied when justice is served. A narcissistic person is malicious with malicious intent.
I recently did such tactic last year with a classic narcissist woman. Contacted her two years ago we had sex yes, but I already saw her coming for what she is. I pretended It was my fault it IMMEDIATELY gave her confidence. Until when I exposed her in the last min she got PISSED off and I had the last laugh. What a loser! Last year she tried to convince me the Federals had a case on me for molesting a "minor" supposedly, it turned out she make those emails herself to scare me to pay money for her. After the exposure again she went quiet then I proceed to mock that woman. Satisfied, ignored her after that. People would do desperate things behind the internet as well desperate times of drastic measures. Above all this though I messed around with a narcissist on purpose I was that bored. The chaos of the world was never even for me LOL! Talk about sigma's living on the edge yet were not arrogant.
I just love a narcissist reaction when they think they have me cornered, and I just stare them down, letting them know I see right trough them, and peek right into their empty soul. They have virtually no control lever on me. I rely solely on internal motivation. Nobody tells me what to like or to pursue, and what not.
#10 most important fellow sigmas. Establish your emotional and financial independence and always be prepared to reject toxicity and remove it from your life. It's a big world and change is constant so there's always somewhere to go to be healthier.
100%
The sigma male's 6th sense is they can see through someone's soul. It made them the rarest and formidable among men against deception and manipulation.
My brothers, all of your comments are so accurate. We are very unique. Being a sigma is also a curse though. It’s not easy being a sigma. I really wish I could turn off my senses sometimes and be more tolerant of others weak manipulative moves, but I can’t. We let so few people into our lives because we observe so well and can see through everything. Narcissists are no big deal because they’re just walk away situations, but there’s good people out there that are not narcissist, but are terrible at hiding their motivations when dealing with us, yet we can’t forgive their attempted end game moves. One day I had an exec say out of nowhere, I know you’re a sigma…everyone hates you guys. I just stared at him and after a pause I responded with one word, why. He replied, you guys are really smart and study everyone in meetings, we have to watch what we say and I hate that you guys make us feel like we’re the dumbest guys in the room. I know that you guys experience similar things.
Play dumb. Wolves in sheep clothings.
Observe. Learn. See patterns. Dont get involved so much. You dont like that anyway. Ok i read you got confronted for doing that. So ppl talk about sigmas in everyday life?
Everyday life, Hmm, nah, im gonna get a cat.
Yep. Dishonest people get uncomfortable because they know we know. Then they convince the sheeps we are bad.
The worst is that we don't even want to be in these meetings. But often we are forced to be.
Crazy how this fits my personality exactly... Explains my struggles and relationships
Sigmas are not always businessman that wear suits and ties have clean fingernails or play on computers. A lot of sigmas are rough, cut grimy and dirty. The men that get the job done.
You are absolutely right. 👍🏻
I genuinely believe narcissists have demons.
Lowkey, you're not alone on this one.
They do. I've encountered some in my life, and you do much as mention "God" or "religion" and they get all squirrelly.
Narcissism, just to let you know, is a textbook trait of ANY demon. It doesn't matter if they're male or female, either.
Iv seen the eyes go black
Lucifer turned into a demon once he turned narcissistic
Anyone who shows u narcissistic tendencies are possessed by a demon and/or evil spirt. GOD / UNIVERSE / CREATION doesn’t want you to hurt others, devalue or try to manipulate. LOVE is kind, warm, gentle, patient, naturing, understanding, inclusive, GOD! So to CHOOSE to operate outside the light (in darkness) all DEMONIC! We all capable….The power of CHOICE! Who do u choose to serve everyday….the light (GOD) or dark (DEVIL)?
Had a “best friend “ who was going prematurely bald. He looked at me one day and asked me when I was going to shave my head like he’d done. I say when I go bald. Turning 60 this year, still have a head of hair, lost the narcissist friend 10 years ago.
I will admit that I do like sometimes to play with narcissist a little before I pull the plug on them 😅 it's fun to see them lose control 😂 but most of the time I just shut em down instantly
As do I. 😂
@@davidgordon9610 Sounds good!
A narcissist feels impotent when they know they are viewed as
Insignificant. If no audience, narcissist has no voice.
Reply to a narcissists comments with a laugh saying “whatever “ and they are powerless
Knows the truth,No Fear
Love this video and the voice narration. It is a weird thing being a person interested in others, who needs a lot of alone time and solitude to be happy. I love people, but they can be simultaneously the best thing in your life or the worst. Having an inbuilt radar to pick up on the negative energy of certain people is highly useful; but can lead to a lot of people not understanding us. Hence why we invest so much time into understanding ourselves. Still, great vid. Saved and subscribed. Cheers 🍻
This is concerning to me. I thought I was invisible in my world of observations and listening. I have listened to this video and find that someone out there are aware of my character often masked in ways that make me not being seen. Only when necessary.
Ye, you're not alone, it's just how it is!
You seen the movie "Nobody" with Bob Odenkirk.
What it is to be a nobody! (be advised, it's a rough movie.)
All the best to you.
Excellent analysis.
This is a strong analysis.
"Appreciate the perspective!"
Most important key takeaways were:
1:35 ...narcs booster egos to lower defences.
3:44 ...narcs use multiple avenues of control.
4:14 ...narcs use multiple "entry points" for manipulation.
4:53 ...narcs engender emotional reactions simply to exploit.
5:22 ...narcs thrive on chaos and confusion.
7:24 ...regular people value approval over authenticity!
Thank you once again. All the very best.
I have a built-in bs meter and rat sniffer. The only time it's off is when I'm around my dog. 😃
Point number 1 is developed through the sigma's tendency to sit back and observe quietly. This enables him to determine the two-faced nature of the narcissist and be on guard for their manipulation tactics. Point number 10, walking away from toxic situations - be it an abusive employer or an argumentative, disrespectful 'frenemy' - is essential to maintaining peace of mind. For such people add no value to the quality of the sigma's life.
Well said!
I've just watched several sigma male presentations. I'm quite amazed that the characteristics they all described were considered unique to a certain (minority) group, called sigma males. I found all the attributes from all the presentations applied to me, and have always considered them to be characteristic of maleness and masculinity - born in the bones so to speak. I'm 80+ and have always experienced these as normal aspects of my basic male human reality for a very long time.
Keep the circle small and neat.
It’s because they (sigmas) have no qualms about walking away from both the narcissist AND all their flying monkeys forever. It does not matter how close of friends they were at one time or another.
Yes you have talked real ❤
I use my God gift to keep me out of the BS.
I once had a close friend who turned out to be a narcissist after some time 😅 At first, we spend a lot of time because I wanted to do so - we had similar hobbies and interests and I didn't know many people in the new city. But the longer it went on, I realized a change in his behavior. Basically the turning point was when he wanted to spend most of his time with me and see me more often than I wanted to see him. Also, I noticed that he talked bad about me in my back and started to weirdly compliment my performance or work while in the next day played it down like it wasn't much of a thing, especially when talking to others. Guess what, since I don't need others verification but are pretty much my own harshest critic, I didn't care at all - I guess I must have driven him crazy over time since his behavior got worse. Ultimately, our friend related relationship ended when he started to drink heavy every evening, whining about the same things every damn time and I tried to help him first by giving advice. But since he didn't take that at all and still continued to complain, I reacted quite harshly and basically told him to shut up and do sth against his issue or stop seeing me - Well, he reacted with a lot of drama about my "hurtful" behavior and blabla, which was the final nail in the coffin and made me delete his number and to this day cut off any contact.
I wasn't always good at handling theses actions by others but now I've become a master at all angles. Spot on
Being kind is fine; It is finest at an ample distance in moderation.
Ending it for good 18 months ago with Narcissist... In fact I ended it 5 times and she kept coming back, each time I rolled over saying nothing but she carried on as if she'd done nothing wrong lol. The more she got her feet under the table the nastier she got. Until the finale, I let her rant with her contorted face over absolutely nothing, her head went down in realization when she stopped...she looked up ...I calmly said with a finger pointing towards the door...get your stuff and get out! Never let these manipulators in.
My boss she makes $150k I make 50k but try’s to use manipulation to get me to buy things for the office. Absolutely not. I’m the poorest in the office but I’m the ones they target and mad that I am not fooled.
My niece is a narcissist and on so many occasions she has tried to get a rise out of me 😂😅 and I never even react to her and she hates me to the point that she has my sister turning against me 😂😂😂😅
Yes,and expect that most follow the guidelines. be good but personal values,independence ,freedom i should never be compromised, Born free,live free
I agree
I love all 😊😊😊
Dawg this has to be irony 😭😭😭
I just wouldn't let someone manipulate me, unless it was in a good way. That turns off some people I guess. Oh well, too bad lol.
She has the right to speak...bcz she has given her gold for home expenses
sigma are stoic
dang didnt know i was a sigma
I AM AFFIRMING IT IN JESUS NAME AMEN 😇🥰🙏
And, religious fanatics.To me anyway, they're first and foremost.Both can be nearly synonymous And the terror's reciprocated-fair enough.
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Awww, are you upset that you can't manipulate us???😂😂😂😂😂Get over it.You just love to think that you are smarter than, and can control anybody you want, and we shatter your illusions of superiority.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂