I left my fiancé a week ago today. It took me three and a half years, but I'm finally letting go of him. He's undeserving of me and I'm finally choosing myself. Learning to love myself a little more every day. With that said, can't wait to unpause this video and take in your knowledge, Liane 💕.
“I am too great to settle for less”. That really hit hard. Not kissing nobody’s ass that doesn’t deserve me. If you’re not being treated the way you deserve, ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼byyyye. Not waiting til my life turns into complete hell. Love you Liane!❤️
THIS is the definition of turning your pain into something powerful. As a woman, she couldve gone about this breakup in so many negative ways (as so many women do). But THIS is a true description of a real genuine woman. Women like THIS deserve subscribers & followers, THIS is an example of a role model & a soul that needs to be shared. I feel so proud when i see powerful women like this, doing good & spreading good. Love you & what you are doing. Thank you for sharing ❤️🙏🏼
I wish I had this video when I was going through my first break up 2 years ago. It was a 3 1/2 year relationship and I thought my world was ending. But let me tell you, you will get through it and you will come out stronger. I had gained 20 pounds from being stressed and unhappy/not working out. After we broke up, I put all my energy into the gym and went almost every day! I lost 30 pounds and gained so much self confidence back. I think when you’re going through a break up, you have to redirect all your hurt, anger, and sadness into a hobby. Working out is great cause it’s benefiting yourself physically and mentally. Keep yourself distracted and 6 months or so later (however long it takes you) you will notice you don’t feel the need to see what he/she is doing and you realized you haven’t thought about him/her and you will smile.
Amber Sanchez im going through the exact same thing you went through. Everything is so depressing and uncomfortable but im hopeful to know that its possible to move on💗
Thxs amber Sanchez I really needed this bc I been checking how he doing and stuff see he is living his best life but I need to stop and control and do something to keep my mind busy I might not have alot of friends but I have to learn how to keep my head up and pray to God tell him all my problems it goings to be hard for me but am not gonna give up on my self gonna push my self harder and learn new things about me and what am good at🙏💯 anyone who is going through a hard breakup and think they can't live without that person you have to learn to keep your head up and question yourself why I think this and that but remember stay strong and that we amazing people and learn how to accept things also move on with life💯❤
I’ve been going through a heartbreak recently. It is extremely hard to train your brain to not think negatively during this quarantine. I’ve been in such a low place. So I thank you so much for sharing your journey to wellness with us. This too shall pass 🦋
The way you have grown and become you’re own foundation is epic. You have used your platform to heal others , motivate and inspire. I have never been one to watch these videos, however , in such a dire time I my life . I’m grateful I have watched this . Thank you lianne
I needed this video! My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because he was “uncertain”. I gave all I had and supported him with anything. This video is just an amazing reminder that I am too great to settle for us!! I don’t want to be with someone that’s “uncertain” about me. Thank you so much for this video ❤️❤️
You’ve helped me so much going through my breakup Liane ❤️ 9 years of a relationship is so hard to mentally overcome & your videos make me feel I’m not alone
I’m here after ending my 6 year relationship ... this video def made me feel better and assured me that I’ll def get over it 💕💕💕 it’s hard right now but I know I will survive this.. thanks Li🥰
Mahalo!! I really needed this so much. Going through a breakup and Each day goes by feels like an eternity. 8 1/2 yrs and its over. What has held me together is God.
breaking the habit of being yourself by Dr. Dispenza, is a really good book where you learn how to connect with your inner spiritual you and how to change yourself to the version you would like to be. I recommend this book to everyone who wants to understand what power our thoughts have! It's life changing! And sorry for my english ☀️
I’m so impressed with Liane! It’s amazing how far she came even though her relationship looked amazing you never know where can lead to! I’m glad she’s healing in a healthy way!! She’s smart and self made and I’ve been watching her for years even when she said she worked at a car dealership
You’re such an inspiration. I admire your independence, your positivity, and your courage to speak out about this. You give tons of great advice. You have such a heart of gold. Love you Liane ❤️ can’t wait for your next video.
I've been thru it girl. It fn hurts like no other but it does get better. It takes time tho. When you cried in the first video, I felt that in my heart. I broke down crying in the club numerous times in the 2 years following. I'm rooting for you. Pray and meditate is what has helped me thru it. 10 years of trust down the drain 😔
You’re amazingly strong I’m going through a divorce after 11 years of marriage for his addiction to heroin and cheating starting over at 50 is horrible you’re a positive role model but I deserve better stay strong it only gets better
I’ve been going through a breakup for 5 months now and it’s been ups and down. He was the one who broke up with me and we kept talking on and off up until a few weeks ago where I decided to talk to him in person and clear things up because I was confused and felt like I was being led on. The hardest part is directing my thoughts because I’m a natural over thinker I constantly think of what was, what could’ve been, what went wrong and what is happening now. Through this time I have been praying more often and reading motivational messages and listening to sermons on RUclips. I find it at times difficult to let go because I wasn’t the one who made the choice to leave the relationship he was and it left me with no choice but to force myself to stop trying to pursue him. I know I deserve unconditional love someone who’s never going to make me feel like I’m not worth it. Deep down I know I’m worth it and deserve so much more love but my thoughts tell me otherwise. On another not I also love collecting mugs but never thought of collecting from places I visit.
Jay 253 keep moving forward and never look back! Your future husband will never lead you on like that. He will love you , respect you, and protect you. You have to pray and get close to God. Once when you get close to God and you want to ask him questions. He will answer your prayers. He will never confuse you. God is love and wants to bless you. Why? Because he loves you very much. you were created by him. Your precious to his own eyes. Please don’t go back to this man that your longing for. Read the book of Hosea, genesis (jacob worked 14 years for Rachel to marry her. 14 years seemed short for him because of the love that he had for Rachel) , book of Ruth. There’s more love stories in the Bible. But you will see how these men loved and respected their woman. Hang in there and don’t lose faith ❤️ best wishes ❤️
My boyfriend & I broke up almost 2 months ago & we were together for 2 years. And he is my best friend. The break up was mutual & we still keep in contact because we are very close & regardless we love/care about each other. I watched your video talking about your break up and one of the things you said was that you care about others first before yourself. And that stood out to me because I’m like that too. It’s been a process for me to learn self-love because I always care about others first, I have low self-esteem & high insecurities about myself. I’ve always prayed, meditated and even started a reflection journal to write down about my day. You have been one of my inspirations to get through my own break up and I know you, myself and many others who are still healing from a break up will get through this. Philippians 4:13 💛
Tracy Tan It has it’s pros and cons. The cons are we don’t say bf/gf references like calling each other “babe”, “my love”, etc. We don’t hold hands, kiss and cuddle. The pros are we are talking to each other like we used to when we bestfriends before the relationship. We would always make jokes, we still motivate each other & we always check up on each other. I guess this quarantine is also helping us take advantage of finding ourselves too. Cause when we were together, we were both kinda lost about who we are as individuals. But yeah, we were both best friends for 2 years before our relationship. And we both told each other that no matter what happens, the love we have for each other will always be there. We’re still adjusting to the break up but so far, things between us have slowly been getting better. There was never hard feelings.
jojosam it’s gonna be rough when u both start new relationships because it’ll have to stop if ur partners are uncomfortable keeping in touch wit my ur ex
DiaSal S well one of the reasons why we broke up is because we want to better our relationship in the future. We feel that right now, it’s best for us to not be together because we want to first better ourselves as individuals and focus on training for our career. If one of us ends up being with someone else in the future, then that’s God plan.
I just got out of a toxic relationship about three days ago. I came across this video and all I have to say is that I really needed to hear this, thank you! can't wait to see more of these!!!
I completely agree! Two halves do NOT make a whole. No matter how strong of a person you are, if there’s someone constantly being negative in your life it will bring you down. It hurts because you many want to help the other person but they have to help themselves by themselves in order to not cause any damage to the two of you. I really enjoyed this video, Thank You Liane ❤️😊
Thank you Liane 🥰 I broke up with my boyfriend last December, it was a long distance relationship and we were together for almost 5 years. Thank you for sharing you journey and advice. I love reading other comments as well. Since the breakup we have been going back and forth contacting each other which now I realize isnt healthy and a emotional roller coaster. I wont be able to heal if I keep looking back 😖😵😵 Its difficult because I can't imagine being with anyone else. 😭😭
I’m not even going through a break up ... more like a heart ache ... and it feels the same. I started crying in the middle of your video and all I have to say is thank you. Thank you so much. ❤️ it feels like this video pushed me ... and I feel like I need to fight harder for my happiness. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ✨❤️
I love that you'll be making these videos now. It shows a different side of you that you haven't shown yet. We are able to connect with you on a deeper level. I can't wait for more videos. 🖤
thank you for posting this. my ex and I broke up in December and I am so tempted to contact him with everything going on. I work as an ER nurse and my mom is hospitalized for COVID so the past couple weeks have been so hard. Really appreciating your video 😊
Liane, you’re such an inspiration and I admire you for being so independent. I usually don’t comment on RUclips videos, but I have been going through a lot myself lately and watching this video has made me feel like everything is going to be okay. Stay strong girl and keep pushing through. ❤️
wow Liane. can i just say thank you SO much for making this video. the past couple days have been the BEST for me mentally since my breakup. it may seem weird to some (or not) but i feel like i had an awakening. with that awakening i felt peace, i finally feel content with how things are. in the beginning walking away is the most difficult thing you can do & i always thought about the “shoulda/coulda/wouldas” but i surrendered. i let go & let God handle everything. everything you touched on in this video was something i could relate to. i practice each and every tip you mentioned! CRAZY! it literally feels like you one of my girlfriends & we are experiencing this together. you have an amazing soul. so genuine & pure. with a heart like yours, greatness & eternal love is what you will end up with. i’m so glad i watched this video in it’s entirety & took allll the notes that i did, i am forever grateful for you & how you have touched my soul! sending my love, light, & energy your way from NYC 💛✨ keep shining!
I’m a lover of ginger tea & rooibos ♥️🙌🏽. + grateful that you’re sharing this with your community. Not only for the support we get receive but for your own mental health and healing. It definitely does wonders to speak out about what you’re experiencing. 2 Cor 12:10 (MSG version) : “My grace is enough, it’s all you need. My strength comes into its own in your weakness”.
"We must direct our thoughts, we cant always control our thoughts but when we think negative we can direct it to positive" its such a simple thing but its probably the most important. Keep up the great content💙🖤
YASSS QUEEN Thank you for making this video and for simply sharing your story and experiences with us. I later learned after my breakup, the importance of sharing and opening up your story and experiences to other people, especially your friends and family. When we spill our guts out to people we trust, we find a sense of clarity, peace, and space. Hence, you being a great role model for us during tough times like this really encourages and inspires other people. Lastly, for those Liane V fans who are going through a heartbreak, I want to share my own ways of getting over a breakup -- what I found that helped lift off weight from my chest are the following: - Block your ex from EVERYTHING; as in emails, phone numbers, social media, financial accounts, professional network, etc. - Block EVERYTHING that links to your ex; his best friends, family, relatives, colleagues, etc. - Delete EVERYTHING that has his identity on all of your devices, home, work, school, etc.; like pictures, works, gifts, etc. - Express all your emotions into art work; blog, journal, letters, origami, painting, music, videos, drawings, etc. - List and focus on all the bright, positive, and beneficial aspects of your breakup; freedom, stress free, save more money, etc. - Make music playlists for breakup/simping, party/turnup, empowering, happy vibes, throwback, meditation, etc. - Sleepover or have a quick vacation/break with your [best] friends - Roadtrip/travel - Go to the gym/workout; occupy your vacant time with bettering your health - Go to church/begin praying - Begin learning a new hobby, language, or lifestyle - Seek therapy or counseling; rant, vent, and spill everything here - Start cooking, baking, and prepping your own food; it takes up time which will help you use your vacant time - Checkup on good old friendships - Do a full social media cleanse - Watch the appropriate RUclips videos; "How to get over a breakup," TED talks, "How to move on," etc. - Begin rearranging, organizing, and cleaning your home, apartment, work space, etc. - Get rid of all the physical things you got from and share with your ex; throw them away, burn them, give them away, donate them, bury them, etc. - Lastly, DO NOT be afraid to cry and let all of your feelings and emotions out when you are alone [here and there]
Came across your channel recently, began watching most of your videos! Your character speaks for itself, I admire your genuineness and uplifting spirit! You're beauty shines throughout ❤️
Oh My ! I am a very emotional person & take it so hard into my heart & creates unhealthy feelings. Watching this video helps me understand to turn things in a healthy path . You are such an inspiration !!! Love you so much ❤️
Girl manifestation is powerful. You will get through this. Feel it, go through it, and keep moving forward. God doesn’t, leave his child behind. You are strong and will continue to rock it!
Thank you so much for this! You don't know how much this helped. The person I was supposed to marry has given up on our relationship and I can't describe the agony I feel in my heart. Feels like it is never going to get better, but deep down I know it will. Please continue to share your progress with us and all your tips, it's helping more than you. I pray & hope for our broken hearts to be healed with the help of one another. May we all find true love and happiness inshallah!
God has someone MUCH better for you love! I’m so proud of you. You’re so strong. I was in a situationship for over 3 years and eventually I found the strength to let go and cut him off. Time heals the deepest scars. Time and prayer. Time and self care. 🙏🏽
Your videos are now very relatable. Honestly before I was so excited to find your RUclips but it did not come across very authentic. I’m excited to see your new journey.
You’re right about everything you have mentioned in this video! I’m still healing and those are all the steps I’m taking. Once you practice Self love, self care, pray/meditate and manifest. You’ll start seeing everything falling in place! Sending you all the light and love you need to get through this! Greater things will happen soon!! 💕
I’m glad I’m going through my break up with you because your words help me soooo much! Watching your videos help me get stronger and don’t make me feel ashamed for feeling the way that I do
Great idea of starting Coffee & Tea with Liane V. You have a great perspective on what you are going through and moving on in one’s life. You deserve the best! My favorite tea is rose tea. I love collecting coffee/tea mugs from my travels also. Keep on being YOU!
I'm going through this as well. Thank you so much for being open, this video has helped me and I don't feel alone. I've been with my bf for 8 years. It hurts so bad and to make it worst we have a dog that is my child. Trust is the biggest thing. Break ups suck but we will get through this.
Thank you ate Liane, came out from a breakup last October. Watching your videos helped me to be strong. I am now more focused on Revamping, Completing and loving myself First. God Bless, ate Liane! ☺️✨
I needed to be reminded of this, going through a tough time and it’s been 10 months since our break up. We were together for six years and it didn’t workout. I’m so glad you got the right mind set and support you need. You got this girl!
Honestly don’t know what to say other than the fact that a lot of people are going through this including me rn is crazy to me. Deeply appreciate the positive vibes coming from you and amazed at how strong you are to keep going. Loving the motivation coming from you and I hope someone or something is motivating you because I know we can’t see how you are off camera. Stay strong 🦾, stay safe 🧼, keep moving forward 💋.
Rose or lavender with sage tea, with honey are my fav💓💓💓 You are such an inspiration. I have been through some toxic relationships and even experienced being cheated on and it’s so easy to get so caught up with the the nostalgia. It’s sooo important to know your worth, manifest, appreciate yourself and what you have, family time, and friends time! Allow yourself to feel, but always remind yourself that you are strong and you deserve the positive future you strive for. Everything happens for a reason and you are put into situations in order to grow. Thanks so much for the talk boo, stay fabulous!
Thank you so much for making this video. I am currently going through a breakup after getting cheated on. You are so inspiring and have such a kind heart. I know this video will touch many, just like it touched me ❤️
God Bless you Liane V🙏 I know all too well how hard it can be going through a breakup. My husband and I separated back in September 2019 and I was a total mess for 6 months and cried almost every day. I can only thank God for helping me build myself back up and getting my focus back and getting my life back on track and taking better care of myself.
I love your positivity Liane, you really motivate me to want to be better for myself. Heartbreak is so rough, I feel like we’ve all been there, I’m currently there right now and I feel like these videos are personally speaking to me so thank you for sharing, it means a lot
Just came from a breakup too ate, its hard, but I really hope u make more videos like this thats relatable like God, and sit down chit chat GRWM, even vlogs, much Love from London❤️
I first came across you on IG and saw the quotes you post on your IG story from one of your books and it really helped me. I’m currently suffering from anxiety and depression due to also a break up. This video and the idea of training your brain to positive thoughts has really helped my anxiety. I think it’s great that you’re doing these types of videos and I’m grateful that I came across you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you and God Bless You 🙏🏽
Haven’t even gotten through the entire video and I must say.. before you two got engaged, I thought to myself “Idk if they’re going to work, he’s too immature for her” then when the engagement happened, I thought to myself “wow! I was wrong” and was SO happy for you both❤️ then when the breakup happened, I immediately came back to that thought I had those couple of years back. God definitely has a funny sense of humor, and a plan for you! His blocking was definitely your blessing. Can’t wait to see you grow effortlessly 💋✨
🤍🤍🤍 going through a breakup during quarantine is terrible. We were long distance for 11 years and 8 months. Almost 12. We broke up like middle of January 2020, so its still pretty fresh. But totally agree with surrounding yourself with people that love you. Everything you said actually i agree on. But that one hit home the hardest. 😘😘😘
“The wisdom of a broken heart” - Susan Piver is the BEST book I have ever read. it has helped me get through my breakup and really helped me heal the right way. I’ve literally cried my eyes out while reading this book, it’s really worth the read (and I am not much of a reader) ❤️
Read that book, "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren, Definitely, an inspiring book girl. Love you Lianne! Stay Strong. Glad you are doing okay. Take Care!
Appreciate you for knowing your worth and realizing you deserve better. Need stronger women in the world who don't tolerate being mistreated. When the trust is broken it definitely never comes back the same
Even the pretty ones get hurt. It’s unfair. But guess we all gotta go through some shit. We will get through it! One day find true happiness! Real love! Bless you girl!!
You're amazing and very grounded. Keep the content coming. It's very confusing sometimes going through break ups. My relationship with God usually helps me deal with break ups.
Girl, one thing that helped me, was using a calendar and marking off the days that had passed without talking. It helped me not reach out to him and it made me feel like I was progressing. So everytime I was on the verge of sending that text, I looked at that calendar and asked myself "I've already done so much progress, do I really want to do this?" I got this idea by a girl on RUclips. Her words and her advice helped me a lot!!! I will copy and paste that link shortly. It's not sugar coated. God bless and please continue to be strong. God will bless that broken road, you've already achieved so much ❤
Her name is Nur. She's has more recent content on IG, but this video was everything to me when I had my heart in pieces. Hope it helps! ruclips.net/video/LnFNqP66U6E/видео.html
I am not going through a breakup but her thoughts and speaking were very helpful to think about myself and add positivity into myself. Thank you Liane! And I am happy for you to get healing from a breakup.
Thank you Liane. I always put work, relationships before me and I never want to lose myself, EVER. I don’t know anyone who is positive in my life right now and I have trust issues and I really want to be the best version of myself.
wow. I really needed this video. I'm not dealing with a breakup or anything but your belief in God and words are so inspirational. Reminding us how to start our day - Prayer. Love it
I agreed with tip number 1 it helps so much to pray and mediate to find inner peace also help you to open your mind. Since I have be listening to Buddhism songs a lot it helps me to realise people come and go out of your life so it’s normal and don’t question why it’s like this or why it’s like that. Always think positive, strong and especially always love yourself cause GOD are watching us and protecting us. It’s CHAPTER OF OUR LIFE...Lots of love x
Thank you Liane😌 Just went thru a break-up right before we were supposed to make 5 years and it was a mutual understanding one. Though it was mutual going thru the post break-up emotions, heartache and thoughts are not easy. After watching your vid, it helped encourage me a lot more! Loving yourself and knowing what you deserve is so important. “Pray on it, pray over it, but most of all pray through it.” Remain strong in the mind, body and soul. We just gotta remain take it day by day and at the end of it all, we will be thankful. This too shall pass. Thank you Liane❤️🌻🌈☀️ love from your favorite, Hawaii🌴🌊🤙🏼
Your strength girl is so aspiring + your energy/words are so genuine. You’ve been so classy the way you’ve been handling your situation & are an incredible role model. Sending love + good vibes , thank you for this ❤️🙏
I am here for this! I am personally going through a heartbreak and your videos are definitely helping me through it along with working on self love. Prayer is so important!! Keep shining Liane were here for it❤️🙏🏽
You are so strong.💙 I have been a big fan of you for a long time and I’ve always admired how real and raw you are with us. How positive and goal oriented you are. It’s as if I’m talking to a bigger sister. Thank you V.
Stumbled across this randomly just as I am going through a breakup. This has helped SOO MUCH I can’t thank you enough for your energy advice and thoughts! ❤️ hope you’re feeling better now than when you posted this but even if you back tracked that’s ok too! you don’t always have to be strong remember that it’s ok to feel the rawness of it❤️ lots of love
Thank you for this post!!! You are such an inspiration❤️ It’s soo uplifting to see how positive you are on dealing with this break up. I went through almost the exact situation & timeline. After watching you’re video it made me felt soo much better that we all are going through the same, it’s just how we choose to change our mindset, learn & grow from it. I just want to tell you soo amazing you are!! ❤️❤️
Ever since my bf & I broke up I’ve been drinking tea a lot my favourite is green tea and honey or earl grey and honey. Yesterday I had green tea and lemon. Your a strong woman we all know you’ll get through it no matter what!! I love you Liane!! ❤️ I pray every night before I sleep 🙏 it helps me a lot!!
I was experienced a hard heartbreak last year and I learned that right now is not your forever and trust me, now I’m happy, now I have my life out together, now I have attract positive things. It was hard, I work hard, I heale my self first, I learned so much things! And donc forget, if you don’t love yourself, you’ll never feel like anyone else does either.
Another thing that helped me is social media distancing. Out of sight out of mind allowed me to not dwell on what could’ve been. All of your tips hit the head on what I’ve been doing lately. Im taking it one day at a time. I know you’re in a hard time of your life rn, but knowing that your going through the exact same thing, & seeing you still going about your business and taking care of yourself truly inspires me💓 I’m aware there won’t always be days you’re happy and content, but the days that you are just remind me that I can do the same thing. One of my quotes is “if Liane can do it, I can do it too” 😂 I really appreciated this video and all future vids on your healing 💓 stay positive!
Your such an Amazing Spirit, you are doing what your meant to do, we are here to teach others and learn from others, with out gaining experience there is no Wisdom, and wisdom is true knowledge, healing takes time, be gentle with your heart, mind, body and soul❤️ Blessings sweetie!
Avoiding certain people to protect ur emotional health is not a weakness. It’s wisdom.
Amen !
Amen too 👍👍👍👍
Amen
Facts
You could tell that chicken leg bastard, Don, is a cheater by the way he dresses.
When the road ahead scares you, the road behind hurts you, look up God will guide you. ❤️
Petrina Chin Amen 🙏
Love this!
Thank you for this
I left my fiancé a week ago today. It took me three and a half years, but I'm finally letting go of him. He's undeserving of me and I'm finally choosing myself. Learning to love myself a little more every day. With that said, can't wait to unpause this video and take in your knowledge, Liane 💕.
@A1 Sauce Thank you so much 💕
my BF cheated in a multiple relationship (It took me a while to know if it was a threesome)
“I am too great to settle for less”. That really hit hard. Not kissing nobody’s ass that doesn’t deserve me. If you’re not being treated the way you deserve, ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼byyyye. Not waiting til my life turns into complete hell. Love you Liane!❤️
Please don’t get back with him. You deserve a man
Looks like it’s too late
They got married 2 days ago sis
Thank god he showed his true colors before you guys got actually married. Everything happens for a reason!
Exactly. Before they got financial thighs and kids
Liane is such a beautiful, genuine soul. She will always be the one that got away because she is the definition of wifey material.
I’m going through a breakup right now and I’ve been praying more than ever !!
THIS is the definition of turning your pain into something powerful. As a woman, she couldve gone about this breakup in so many negative ways (as so many women do). But THIS is a true description of a real genuine woman. Women like THIS deserve subscribers & followers, THIS is an example of a role model & a soul that needs to be shared. I feel so proud when i see powerful women like this, doing good & spreading good. Love you & what you are doing. Thank you for sharing ❤️🙏🏼
Chantel I totally agree !
Chantel MY EXACT THOUGHTS! 🤍
Yes! She is so inspiring.
God has someone better for you also that persons Rejection is god protection
I needed this comment 💕
BBY BEE honestly I have to tell myself this all the time because I’m going through this thing with a ex and a girlfriend
I also like rejection is God's redirection!
Amen
I wish I had this video when I was going through my first break up 2 years ago. It was a 3 1/2 year relationship and I thought my world was ending. But let me tell you, you will get through it and you will come out stronger. I had gained 20 pounds from being stressed and unhappy/not working out. After we broke up, I put all my energy into the gym and went almost every day! I lost 30 pounds and gained so much self confidence back. I think when you’re going through a break up, you have to redirect all your hurt, anger, and sadness into a hobby. Working out is great cause it’s benefiting yourself physically and mentally. Keep yourself distracted and 6 months or so later (however long it takes you) you will notice you don’t feel the need to see what he/she is doing and you realized you haven’t thought about him/her and you will smile.
Amber Sanchez thanks! I needed this 💜
Amber Sanchez im going through the exact same thing you went through. Everything is so depressing and uncomfortable but im hopeful to know that its possible to move on💗
Samantha Nicole things will get better with time. I wish you the best, stay strong 💖
Valeria Mosqueda 💖
Thxs amber Sanchez I really needed this bc I been checking how he doing and stuff see he is living his best life but I need to stop and control and do something to keep my mind busy I might not have alot of friends but I have to learn how to keep my head up and pray to God tell him all my problems it goings to be hard for me but am not gonna give up on my self gonna push my self harder and learn new things about me and what am good at🙏💯 anyone who is going through a hard breakup and think they can't live without that person you have to learn to keep your head up and question yourself why I think this and that but remember stay strong and that we amazing people and learn how to accept things also move on with life💯❤
I’ve been going through a heartbreak recently. It is extremely hard to train your brain to not think negatively during this quarantine. I’ve been in such a low place. So I thank you so much for sharing your journey to wellness with us. This too shall pass 🦋
The way you have grown and become you’re own foundation is epic. You have used your platform to heal others , motivate and inspire. I have never been one to watch these videos, however , in such a dire time I my life . I’m grateful I have watched this .
Thank you lianne
You could start a podcast ❤️I would listen to you every single day
Whitney Xoxo 💯 agree! She’s so smart and strong!
I needed this video! My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because he was “uncertain”. I gave all I had and supported him with anything. This video is just an amazing reminder that I am too great to settle for us!! I don’t want to be with someone that’s “uncertain” about me. Thank you so much for this video ❤️❤️
Melissa Recarte girl I’m dealing with the same thing and I feel so heartbroken
You’ve helped me so much going through my breakup Liane ❤️ 9 years of a relationship is so hard to mentally overcome & your videos make me feel I’m not alone
I’m here after ending my 6 year relationship ... this video def made me feel better and assured me that I’ll def get over it 💕💕💕 it’s hard right now but I know I will survive this.. thanks Li🥰
Mahalo!! I really needed this so much. Going through a breakup and Each day goes by feels like an eternity. 8 1/2 yrs and its over. What has held me together is God.
“When you wake up and thank god, you’re thankful”. So 🔑
Going through a breakup, day 2, surrounding yourself with family and listening to uplifting music helps wonders 💕✨
Your mind/thoughts can either drive your crazy or keep you sane. The mind is most powerful thing! I’m so huge in this
breaking the habit of being yourself by Dr. Dispenza, is a really good book where you learn how to connect with your inner spiritual you and how to change yourself to the version you would like to be. I recommend this book to everyone who wants to understand what power our thoughts have! It's life changing! And sorry for my english ☀️
I’m so impressed with Liane! It’s amazing how far she came even though her relationship looked amazing you never know where can lead to! I’m glad she’s healing in a healthy way!! She’s smart and self made and I’ve been watching her for years even when she said she worked at a car dealership
You’re such an inspiration. I admire your independence, your positivity, and your courage to speak out about this. You give tons of great advice. You have such a heart of gold. Love you Liane ❤️ can’t wait for your next video.
I've been thru it girl. It fn hurts like no other but it does get better. It takes time tho. When you cried in the first video, I felt that in my heart. I broke down crying in the club numerous times in the 2 years following. I'm rooting for you. Pray and meditate is what has helped me thru it. 10 years of trust down the drain 😔
You’re amazingly strong I’m going through a divorce after 11 years of marriage for his addiction to heroin and cheating starting over at 50 is horrible you’re a positive role model but I deserve better stay strong it only gets better
I’ve been going through a breakup for 5 months now and it’s been ups and down. He was the one who broke up with me and we kept talking on and off up until a few weeks ago where I decided to talk to him in person and clear things up because I was confused and felt like I was being led on. The hardest part is directing my thoughts because I’m a natural over thinker I constantly think of what was, what could’ve been, what went wrong and what is happening now. Through this time I have been praying more often and reading motivational messages and listening to sermons on RUclips. I find it at times difficult to let go because I wasn’t the one who made the choice to leave the relationship he was and it left me with no choice but to force myself to stop trying to pursue him. I know I deserve unconditional love someone who’s never going to make me feel like I’m not worth it. Deep down I know I’m worth it and deserve so much more love but my thoughts tell me otherwise. On another not I also love collecting mugs but never thought of collecting from places I visit.
Jay 253 keep moving forward and never look back! Your future husband will never lead you on like that. He will love you , respect you, and protect you. You have to pray and get close to God. Once when you get close to God and you want to ask him questions. He will answer your prayers. He will never confuse you. God is love and wants to bless you. Why? Because he loves you very much. you were created by him. Your precious to his own eyes. Please don’t go back to this man that your longing for. Read the book of Hosea, genesis (jacob worked 14 years for Rachel to marry her. 14 years seemed short for him because of the love that he had for Rachel) , book of Ruth. There’s more love stories in the Bible. But you will see how these men loved and respected their woman. Hang in there and don’t lose faith ❤️ best wishes ❤️
Mary thank you so much really appreciate it ❤️
Mary who’s the author of the book, bc there are so many books of Hosea, thanks!
@@mocosacarajo Its a book from the Bible...Hosea
When you take notes even if you’ve been single since forever
My boyfriend & I broke up almost 2 months ago & we were together for 2 years. And he is my best friend. The break up was mutual & we still keep in contact because we are very close & regardless we love/care about each other. I watched your video talking about your break up and one of the things you said was that you care about others first before yourself. And that stood out to me because I’m like that too. It’s been a process for me to learn self-love because I always care about others first, I have low self-esteem & high insecurities about myself. I’ve always prayed, meditated and even started a reflection journal to write down about my day. You have been one of my inspirations to get through my own break up and I know you, myself and many others who are still healing from a break up will get through this.
Philippians 4:13 💛
jojosam care to share how it has been to maintain a friendship without the relationship?
Tracy Tan It has it’s pros and cons. The cons are we don’t say bf/gf references like calling each other “babe”, “my love”, etc. We don’t hold hands, kiss and cuddle. The pros are we are talking to each other like we used to when we bestfriends before the relationship. We would always make jokes, we still motivate each other & we always check up on each other. I guess this quarantine is also helping us take advantage of finding ourselves too. Cause when we were together, we were both kinda lost about who we are as individuals. But yeah, we were both best friends for 2 years before our relationship. And we both told each other that no matter what happens, the love we have for each other will always be there. We’re still adjusting to the break up but so far, things between us have slowly been getting better. There was never hard feelings.
jojosam it’s gonna be rough when u both start new relationships because it’ll have to stop if ur partners are uncomfortable keeping in touch wit my ur ex
DiaSal S well one of the reasons why we broke up is because we want to better our relationship in the future. We feel that right now, it’s best for us to not be together because we want to first better ourselves as individuals and focus on training for our career. If one of us ends up being with someone else in the future, then that’s God plan.
I just got out of a toxic relationship about three days ago. I came across this video and all I have to say is that I really needed to hear this, thank you! can't wait to see more of these!!!
Daniela Zuniga meeeeee >.< literally a few hours ago :/
Daniela Zuniga same here, we broke up on saturday😭
I completely agree! Two halves do NOT make a whole. No matter how strong of a person you are, if there’s someone constantly being negative in your life it will bring you down. It hurts because you many want to help the other person but they have to help themselves by themselves in order to not cause any damage to the two of you. I really enjoyed this video, Thank You Liane ❤️😊
Thank you Liane 🥰
I broke up with my boyfriend last December, it was a long distance relationship and we were together for almost 5 years. Thank you for sharing you journey and advice. I love reading other comments as well. Since the breakup we have been going back and forth contacting each other which now I realize isnt healthy and a emotional roller coaster. I wont be able to heal if I keep looking back 😖😵😵
Its difficult because I can't imagine being with anyone else. 😭😭
I’m not even going through a break up ... more like a heart ache ... and it feels the same. I started crying in the middle of your video and all I have to say is thank you. Thank you so much. ❤️ it feels like this video pushed me ... and I feel like I need to fight harder for my happiness. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ✨❤️
I love that you'll be making these videos now. It shows a different side of you that you haven't shown yet. We are able to connect with you on a deeper level. I can't wait for more videos. 🖤
thank you for posting this. my ex and I broke up in December and I am so tempted to contact him with everything going on. I work as an ER nurse and my mom is hospitalized for COVID so the past couple weeks have been so hard. Really appreciating your video 😊
19SeJ Thank you for all you do!!!! #frontlineworkersrock ❤️
19SeJ it’s okay to miss him, don’t message him tho
Nooo don’t message him
Liane, you’re such an inspiration and I admire you for being so independent. I usually don’t comment on RUclips videos, but I have been going through a lot myself lately and watching this video has made me feel like everything is going to be okay. Stay strong girl and keep pushing through. ❤️
wow Liane. can i just say thank you SO much for making this video. the past couple days have been the BEST for me mentally since my breakup. it may seem weird to some (or not) but i feel like i had an awakening. with that awakening i felt peace, i finally feel content with how things are. in the beginning walking away is the most difficult thing you can do & i always thought about the “shoulda/coulda/wouldas” but i surrendered. i let go & let God handle everything. everything you touched on in this video was something i could relate to. i practice each and every tip you mentioned! CRAZY! it literally feels like you one of my girlfriends & we are experiencing this together. you have an amazing soul. so genuine & pure. with a heart like yours, greatness & eternal love is what you will end up with. i’m so glad i watched this video in it’s entirety & took allll the notes that i did, i am forever grateful for you & how you have touched my soul! sending my love, light, & energy your way from NYC 💛✨ keep shining!
I’m a lover of ginger tea & rooibos ♥️🙌🏽. + grateful that you’re sharing this with your community. Not only for the support we get receive but for your own mental health and healing. It definitely does wonders to speak out about what you’re experiencing. 2 Cor 12:10 (MSG version) : “My grace is enough, it’s all you need. My strength comes into its own in your weakness”.
Bonolo Manoto girl, wa ntlhaloganya ka Rooibos tea, it’s so delicious ka honey or sukiri ♥️😃
Keabetswe Motene baaabe! I’m convinced I’m addicted 😄
Bonolo Manoto plus it’s a bit chilly in Johannesburg so it goes well with the weather. Winter is here ijoo 🌬🥶☕️
YOU ARE GLOWING QUEEN!!!
"We must direct our thoughts, we cant always control our thoughts but when we think negative we can direct it to positive" its such a simple thing but its probably the most important. Keep up the great content💙🖤
YASSS QUEEN Thank you for making this video and for simply sharing your story and experiences with us. I later learned after my breakup, the importance of sharing and opening up your story and experiences to other people, especially your friends and family. When we spill our guts out to people we trust, we find a sense of clarity, peace, and space. Hence, you being a great role model for us during tough times like this really encourages and inspires other people. Lastly, for those Liane V fans who are going through a heartbreak, I want to share my own ways of getting over a breakup -- what I found that helped lift off weight from my chest are the following:
- Block your ex from EVERYTHING; as in emails, phone numbers, social media, financial accounts, professional network, etc.
- Block EVERYTHING that links to your ex; his best friends, family, relatives, colleagues, etc.
- Delete EVERYTHING that has his identity on all of your devices, home, work, school, etc.; like pictures, works, gifts, etc.
- Express all your emotions into art work; blog, journal, letters, origami, painting, music, videos, drawings, etc.
- List and focus on all the bright, positive, and beneficial aspects of your breakup; freedom, stress free, save more money, etc.
- Make music playlists for breakup/simping, party/turnup, empowering, happy vibes, throwback, meditation, etc.
- Sleepover or have a quick vacation/break with your [best] friends
- Roadtrip/travel
- Go to the gym/workout; occupy your vacant time with bettering your health
- Go to church/begin praying
- Begin learning a new hobby, language, or lifestyle
- Seek therapy or counseling; rant, vent, and spill everything here
- Start cooking, baking, and prepping your own food; it takes up time which will help you use your vacant time
- Checkup on good old friendships
- Do a full social media cleanse
- Watch the appropriate RUclips videos; "How to get over a breakup," TED talks, "How to move on," etc.
- Begin rearranging, organizing, and cleaning your home, apartment, work space, etc.
- Get rid of all the physical things you got from and share with your ex; throw them away, burn them, give them away, donate them, bury them, etc.
- Lastly, DO NOT be afraid to cry and let all of your feelings and emotions out when you are alone [here and there]
Came across your channel recently, began watching most of your videos! Your character speaks for itself, I admire your genuineness and uplifting spirit! You're beauty shines throughout ❤️
Oh My !
I am a very emotional person & take it so hard into my heart & creates unhealthy feelings. Watching this video helps me understand to turn things in a healthy path . You are such an inspiration !!! Love you so much ❤️
Girl manifestation is powerful. You will get through this. Feel it, go through it, and keep moving forward. God doesn’t, leave his child behind. You are strong and will continue to rock it!
Thank you so much for this! You don't know how much this helped.
The person I was supposed to marry has given up on our relationship and I can't describe the agony I feel in my heart.
Feels like it is never going to get better, but deep down I know it will.
Please continue to share your progress with us and all your tips, it's helping more than you.
I pray & hope for our broken hearts to be healed with the help of one another.
May we all find true love and happiness inshallah!
I love how your focusing on yourself and just taking the negatives and turning it into positive and more self love ! You go girl we love you Liane !
God has someone MUCH better for you love! I’m so proud of you. You’re so strong. I was in a situationship for over 3 years and eventually I found the strength to let go and cut him off. Time heals the deepest scars. Time and prayer. Time and self care. 🙏🏽
You are such an inspiration....your future kids are going to be so blessed to have a mommy like you! Stay blessed Liane. God loves you!
Your videos are now very relatable. Honestly before I was so excited to find your RUclips but it did not come across very authentic. I’m excited to see your new journey.
LOOK AT U LIANE U GO GIRL💃🏽 GIRL POWER KNOW UR WORTH LADIES NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!! PREACH ITTTTT🗣🗣 LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST LADIES!
You’re right about everything you have mentioned in this video! I’m still healing and those are all the steps I’m taking. Once you practice Self love, self care, pray/meditate and manifest. You’ll start seeing everything falling in place! Sending you all the light and love you need to get through this! Greater things will happen soon!! 💕
I’m glad I’m going through my break up with you because your words help me soooo much! Watching your videos help me get stronger and don’t make me feel ashamed for feeling the way that I do
Great idea of starting Coffee & Tea with Liane V. You have a great perspective on what you are going through and moving on in one’s life. You deserve the best! My favorite tea is rose tea. I love collecting coffee/tea mugs from my travels also. Keep on being YOU!
I want to say thank you for giving me the opportunity to accept the position of healing me. It's time to accept my reality and heal.
Thank you liane for bein real 🖤
I'm going through this as well. Thank you so much for being open, this video has helped me and I don't feel alone. I've been with my bf for 8 years. It hurts so bad and to make it worst we have a dog that is my child. Trust is the biggest thing. Break ups suck but we will get through this.
Thank you ate Liane, came out from a breakup last October. Watching your videos helped me to be strong. I am now more focused on Revamping, Completing and loving myself First. God Bless, ate Liane! ☺️✨
Yasss sis. 🙌🏼
“feel it. go through it. & move on.” #directyourthoughts
I needed to be reminded of this, going through a tough time and it’s been 10 months since our break up. We were together for six years and it didn’t workout. I’m so glad you got the right mind set and support you need. You got this girl!
Honestly don’t know what to say other than the fact that a lot of people are going through this including me rn is crazy to me. Deeply appreciate the positive vibes coming from you and amazed at how strong you are to keep going. Loving the motivation coming from you and I hope someone or something is motivating you because I know we can’t see how you are off camera. Stay strong 🦾, stay safe 🧼, keep moving forward 💋.
Rose or lavender with sage tea, with honey are my fav💓💓💓 You are such an inspiration. I have been through some toxic relationships and even experienced being cheated on and it’s so easy to get so caught up with the the nostalgia. It’s sooo important to know your worth, manifest, appreciate yourself and what you have, family time, and friends time! Allow yourself to feel, but always remind yourself that you are strong and you deserve the positive future you strive for. Everything happens for a reason and you are put into situations in order to grow. Thanks so much for the talk boo, stay fabulous!
Thank you so much for making this video. I am currently going through a breakup after getting cheated on. You are so inspiring and have such a kind heart. I know this video will touch many, just like it touched me ❤️
God Bless you Liane V🙏 I know all too well how hard it can be going through a breakup. My husband and I separated back in September 2019 and I was a total mess for 6 months and cried almost every day. I can only thank God for helping me build myself back up and getting my focus back and getting my life back on track and taking better care of myself.
I love your positivity Liane, you really motivate me to want to be better for myself. Heartbreak is so rough, I feel like we’ve all been there, I’m currently there right now and I feel like these videos are personally speaking to me so thank you for sharing, it means a lot
Just came from a breakup too ate, its hard, but I really hope u make more videos like this thats relatable like God, and sit down chit chat GRWM, even vlogs, much Love from London❤️
Exactly Liane! You know your worth and that is pure Greatness! Real man would never cheat on someone they love ❤️
I first came across you on IG and saw the quotes you post on your IG story from one of your books and it really helped me. I’m currently suffering from anxiety and depression due to also a break up. This video and the idea of training your brain to positive thoughts has really helped my anxiety. I think it’s great that you’re doing these types of videos and I’m grateful that I came across you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you and God Bless You 🙏🏽
Remember rejection is just redirection. New subscriber here, love your videos!!!
God will guide you, keep being the strong woman you're !!!! :)
Haven’t even gotten through the entire video and I must say.. before you two got engaged, I thought to myself “Idk if they’re going to work, he’s too immature for her” then when the engagement happened, I thought to myself “wow! I was wrong” and was SO happy for you both❤️ then when the breakup happened, I immediately came back to that thought I had those couple of years back. God definitely has a funny sense of humor, and a plan for you! His blocking was definitely your blessing. Can’t wait to see you grow effortlessly 💋✨
🤍🤍🤍 going through a breakup during quarantine is terrible. We were long distance for 11 years and 8 months. Almost 12. We broke up like middle of January 2020, so its still pretty fresh. But totally agree with surrounding yourself with people that love you. Everything you said actually i agree on. But that one hit home the hardest. 😘😘😘
“The wisdom of a broken heart” - Susan Piver is the BEST book I have ever read. it has helped me get through my breakup and really helped me heal the right way. I’ve literally cried my eyes out while reading this book, it’s really worth the read (and I am not much of a reader) ❤️
Read that book, "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren, Definitely, an inspiring book girl.
Love you Lianne! Stay Strong. Glad you are doing okay. Take Care!
Liane, I say this from the bottom of my heart. The inspiration you've brought to my life is immeasurable. You are such a big blessing♥️
Appreciate you for knowing your worth and realizing you deserve better. Need stronger women in the world who don't tolerate being mistreated. When the trust is broken it definitely never comes back the same
Even the pretty ones get hurt. It’s unfair. But guess we all gotta go through some shit. We will get through it! One day find true happiness! Real love! Bless you girl!!
You're amazing and very grounded. Keep the content coming. It's very confusing sometimes going through break ups. My relationship with God usually helps me deal with break ups.
Girl, one thing that helped me, was using a calendar and marking off the days that had passed without talking. It helped me not reach out to him and it made me feel like I was progressing. So everytime I was on the verge of sending that text, I looked at that calendar and asked myself "I've already done so much progress, do I really want to do this?" I got this idea by a girl on RUclips. Her words and her advice helped me a lot!!! I will copy and paste that link shortly. It's not sugar coated. God bless and please continue to be strong. God will bless that broken road, you've already achieved so much ❤
Her name is Nur. She's has more recent content on IG, but this video was everything to me when I had my heart in pieces. Hope it helps!
ruclips.net/video/LnFNqP66U6E/видео.html
I am not going through a breakup but her thoughts and speaking were very helpful to think about myself and add positivity into myself. Thank you Liane! And I am happy for you to get healing from a breakup.
Thank you Liane. I always put work, relationships before me and I never want to lose myself, EVER. I don’t know anyone who is positive in my life right now and I have trust issues and I really want to be the best version of myself.
wow. I really needed this video. I'm not dealing with a breakup or anything but your belief in God and words are so inspirational. Reminding us how to start our day - Prayer. Love it
Your videos brought me through some of my darkest times and I'm happy you're getting through this!!
I agreed with tip number 1 it helps so much to pray and mediate to find inner peace also help you to open your mind. Since I have be listening to Buddhism songs a lot it helps me to realise people come and go out of your life so it’s normal and don’t question why it’s like this or why it’s like that. Always think positive, strong and especially always love yourself cause GOD are watching us and protecting us. It’s CHAPTER OF OUR LIFE...Lots of love x
Thank you Liane😌 Just went thru a break-up right before we were supposed to make 5 years and it was a mutual understanding one. Though it was mutual going thru the post break-up emotions, heartache and thoughts are not easy.
After watching your vid, it helped encourage me a lot more! Loving yourself and knowing what you deserve is so important. “Pray on it, pray over it, but most of all pray through it.” Remain strong in the mind, body and soul. We just gotta remain take it day by day and at the end of it all, we will be thankful. This too shall pass.
Thank you Liane❤️🌻🌈☀️ love from your favorite, Hawaii🌴🌊🤙🏼
Your strength girl is so aspiring + your energy/words are so genuine. You’ve been so classy the way you’ve been handling your situation & are an incredible role model. Sending love + good vibes , thank you for this ❤️🙏
I am here for this! I am personally going through a heartbreak and your videos are definitely helping me through it along with working on self love. Prayer is so important!! Keep shining Liane were here for it❤️🙏🏽
Funny one of my friends said that 2020 is the year of breakups but really, it's the year of changes and wanting more and knowing your worth !!
You are so strong.💙 I have been a big fan of you for a long time and I’ve always admired how real and raw you are with us. How positive and goal oriented you are. It’s as if I’m talking to a bigger sister. Thank you V.
Stumbled across this randomly just as I am going through a breakup. This has helped SOO MUCH I can’t thank you enough for your energy advice and thoughts! ❤️ hope you’re feeling better now than when you posted this but even if you back tracked that’s ok too! you don’t always have to be strong remember that it’s ok to feel the rawness of it❤️ lots of love
Ive been going through this now actually
thank you so much for the positive outlook on this its so hard sometimes
Thank you for this post!!! You are such an inspiration❤️ It’s soo uplifting to see how positive you are on dealing with this break up. I went through almost the exact situation & timeline. After watching you’re video it made me felt soo much better that we all are going through the same, it’s just how we choose to change our mindset, learn & grow from it. I just want to tell you soo amazing you are!! ❤️❤️
Ever since my bf & I broke up I’ve been drinking tea a lot my favourite is green tea and honey or earl grey and honey. Yesterday I had green tea and lemon. Your a strong woman we all know you’ll get through it no matter what!! I love you Liane!! ❤️ I pray every night before I sleep 🙏 it helps me a lot!!
You’re so beautiful inside and out 😍 keep hanging in there , love you 😘
Know your worth and never settle for anything less than you deserve.
Sending you lots of love, Liane! ❤️
Appreciated this ❤️ thank you. May we all heal and better better than we were ever before 🥰
Girl you are such strong girl. So much positivity. Thank you for everything. Keep going and be the best version of yourself ❤️
I was experienced a hard heartbreak last year and I learned that right now is not your forever and trust me, now I’m happy, now I have my life out together, now I have attract positive things. It was hard, I work hard, I heale my self first, I learned so much things! And donc forget, if you don’t love yourself, you’ll never feel like anyone else does either.
Omg sis, can you please drop a podcast already! I'm loving this vibe, definitely needed it during this quarantine time!!!
Another thing that helped me is social media distancing. Out of sight out of mind allowed me to not dwell on what could’ve been. All of your tips hit the head on what I’ve been doing lately. Im taking it one day at a time. I know you’re in a hard time of your life rn, but knowing that your going through the exact same thing, & seeing you still going about your business and taking care of yourself truly inspires me💓 I’m aware there won’t always be days you’re happy and content, but the days that you are just remind me that I can do the same thing. One of my quotes is “if Liane can do it, I can do it too” 😂 I really appreciated this video and all future vids on your healing 💓 stay positive!
Your such an Amazing Spirit, you are doing what your meant to do, we are here to teach others and learn from others, with out gaining experience there is no Wisdom, and wisdom is true knowledge, healing takes time, be gentle with your heart, mind, body and soul❤️ Blessings sweetie!