This is my first time seeing your channel. This is so heartbreaking to hear what I think is a lot of mixed emotions at the surface as you share your experience. And I am here to say that you are doing a wonderful job protecting your energy hence why I assume negative ppl might to be around you. You just had to make a few adjustments which is still a great ways to protect your energy. This being open to seeing who is around you and how you pivoted beautifully, as it sounds. Painful but beautiful. To be honest, I have experience a lot of hatred especially in the work place in America. I think misery loves company but not just from miserable people. They find satisfaction in converting or controlling others' energies to match theirs or become even worst. To find a messed up sort of comfort in that type of sick emotional abuse. I thought I would teach for a little bit but I changed my mind after becoming a yoga instructor for a short duration of time and I could imagine that amount of growth your students have experienced with you as their instructor! I wish you truly the best in finding a place that brings calming contentment or if not pure joy!
Enlightenment of the Minority I was told here in the US by a black Christian that I was going to hell! My crime? Not being Christian! He went from being a minority black to a majority Christian and happily embraced all the hate & division that his religion preaches But then he will face discrimination because of his skin color and back will come the Enlightenment - "We must not judge people by skin color, we must treat all people equally" etc etc But as a Majority Christian it is fine and dandy to judge people by religion & hate and abuse them! Funny morals we have
EVERY single teacher friend of mine that went to Korea, eventually leaves after 2 years or less. The reasons why, are usually the same. I can only think of ONE friend that kinda stayed long term. Eventually, she had to split her time between the states and Korea to stay sane. I've been listening to my friends experiences about teaching in Korea for almost 20 years now. Nothing seems to change.
Its funny to me people are now talking about how bad things can really get over there. Its not surprising, imo, simply due to how dramatically different the nation is. I never saw what the hype was for going over there, i've never met anyone except 1 person in my whole entire life who went over to Asia to teach english and when i wanted to speak to her about it her face and not going into the experience there let me know to leave that conversation alone. I believe a lot of it has to do with soooooo many people going over there like its a cure or like it's going to make their lives better and happy quickly. Oh and be able to get a relationship too.
@@marlak4203 It's important to note how very internal a lot of these conflicts are. I'm an American living in China for going on six years now and "how bad things can really get" aren't actually much worse than native people experience, but the difference is that foreigners (read: westerners) assess how bad "bad" really is. We westerners have a much lower threshold than do Asians and Africans when it comes to pain and suffering due to social discomfort.
Leaving before becoming bitter is a really big reason why I left after two years as well. I left in December 2021 and feel soooo much better about leaving when I did and will gladly visit again. I really felt better know I wasn't alone with your videos! So keep your head up and keep those positive vibes
I also am leaving Korea after 2 years for my mental health and well-being. I hate to say it but the beauty standards really got to me here and I have done some very unhealthy decisions to my body to stick to those standards and I knew it was time for me to go. I’ll be finishing my last contract and heading home ^^ I wish you the best back home
@@ThoughXperiment Thank you! I do feel a bit disappointed though like I failed in some way... I don't really have a set plan on what I am going to do next after this...
Ohhh my gosh babes, I just stumbled upon this video and I’m so glad you’ve made the decision that you know is best for you. I only taught in Korea for 6ish months and I was exhausted after only half a year, so you’re a true saint for sticking it out this long. I think a lot of ppl have a false fantasy about what teaching in Korea is like and I’m glad you showed up with the real facts about the reality of it! Best of luck with what’s ahead 💛
I went to China first where they honestly treated us good. The only problem I had was people forcefully taking pictures. However I went to South Korea for 4 days vacation. As I got off the coach from the airport. The first Korean interaction I had was a man who spoke English. He said you look weird can I take you out for drink. I was so shocked iam an East African women how dare you? I was like you look weird and creepy. I never gave them any chance to speak with me again.
As a Korean American who has lived in Korea for most of my adult life, I can definitely understand why you're leaving Korea. Heck, many KOREANS wanna get out, too.
Oh...I feel terrible. I wish you had a better time here. Koreans are great one on one...but we were so enclosed for very long...please give us another chance. I'm so heartbroken.
I was told by an African-American Christian here in the US that I was going to hell! My crime? Not being Christian. From a minority black he went to being a majority Christian and happily embraced the same hate that his religion imbibed him with And as a black man in white America, he is a minority and as soon as he realizes that back comes the "We should treat all people equally, we should not discriminate" Phony morals we have
@@annapaik100 i'm from the usa .. 11,000 miles from SK, i have only visited SK once in a different world (1978). SK even from that distance has enriched my life so much. I am awed by the changes i have seen From: (when i went all i remember was dirt roads, and the view of a school+yard from (then) buson tower). TO: SK music (Blackpink), TV drama, history (anything Joseon), culture (manners familial ties), food and even Running Man! I even taught a (tech) class of SK students from some chip company in the 90's. But sadly I've concluded SK would be a nice place to visit with a tourist visa.. but it's almost impossible otherwise. Unless your bill gates etc, warren buffet etc. Korea is a pressure cooker of tensions, TOO competitive. I feel sorry for and admire at the same time the children who have to grow up in that system (or any foreigner trying to penetrate and survive there). all that said.. keep up the good work SK! I have a smile on my face and a heavy interest in anything Korean that reaches here in the usa! I hope to visit someday.. on that tourist visa!
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I’ve never lived in east Asia long term, but I’d still like to one day. I spent 6 months there once and I’d say, as you said, a lot of it is just the same as the UK. The only difference is that the good and bad are both amplified. You’ll get treated absolutely atrociously and you know it’s because you’re a black foreigner. At the same time you’ll get treated surprisingly well, also for that reason. I think it’s often just the luck of the draw whether or not those things balance out for you. When I was there I was lucky to mostly experience the latter.
Perfectly said, and I’m glad your experience was mainly positive! Even within East/ South East Asia, experiences vary so much because cultures are SO different. I hope you get a chance to experience it fully in the way you’d like to!
GO TO THE PHILIPPINES. THEIR IS THIS ONE GUY ONE OF YOUR KIND WHO TRAVELED SOUTHERN MINDANAO PHILIPPINES AND THEN HE GOES TO NORTHERN PART OF LUZON HE MET OUR NATIVE PEOPLE NEGRO COLOR HERE. THEY ARE CALLED “AETA’S”. WE CALL THEME NEGRO IN SPANISH BLACK PEOPLE. BUT WE DON’T DISCRIMINATE THEME BECAUSE THEY ARE OUR ANCESTORS AND THEIR PART OF THE FILIPINO CULTURE. THEY LIVE NEAR IN THE MOUNT PINATUBO IT’S A VOLCANO MOUNTAIN IT IS LOCATED IN ZAMBALES. THEY LIVE THEIR FOR A THOUSANDS OF YEARS.
Enlightenment of the Minority Here in the US I was told by an African-American that I was going to Hell! My crime? Not being Christian. From a black minority he changed sides to being a majority Christian and happily embraced all the hate that his religion preached Same guy will face discrimination as a minority black and back will come his enlightenment - "We must treat everyone equally, we should not discriminate" etc etc What phony morals we have
I feel the same with all of these.Like I literally had to leave Korea before I started to fully hate it. I’m traumatized by my experience living and working there. I was there for 2 years. I stayed one month into my last contract and did a midnight run. I really want people to research before going to Korea. I always tell people. Nice place to visit , but would not recommend living there.
But don't forget to say that's it's your personal opinion. I love Korea with all my heart and I recommend everyone to live there but it of personal experience. Korea has never disappointed me once and I'm a black girl. So sad to see people crumbling and leaving but not every country is for everyone
@@andrewelam1612 It’s when you suddenly leave Korea without any notice at all. Just plan your departure secretly and don’t show up to work one day. I used to think people who did that were irresponsible until I actually experienced Korean academy work culture. There is so much psychological abuse. I worked for 3 different companies including two of the biggest in the country.
I'm on my 3rd contract here but Korea is definitely not a long term choice. Even if you're fluent in Korean, they will never accept you 100% and you're not really going to progress in your career which really sucks to find out. Many people don't realize it
Well to be fair, I am korean myself, but never accepted by koreans Its honestly not a racial thing but more of a social thing Korea has this 'unison conformity' culture where everyone must think the same and do the same Individual uniqueness is not looked at positively
I was just about to say, I am full Korean born in America. They have never viewed me as their kind either - even at first glance of my overall appearance they know I’m not from there because of my style of dress, makeup preference and mannerisms. They are also very nationalistic and homogenous because of the number of times they were colonized. It’s good to see them getting more interactions with foreigners of different backgrounds but i can foresee it taking several generations for them to reach what we have in America. And even what we have here needs work ~
You will always be an outsider. That is to be expected in any homogeneous society. Long term stay should be in the country where you are a citizen or in a multicultural society where it is easier to blend in .
You are a pretty girl with a positive personality. Its good idea to leave Korea before it becomes too damaging to your psyche. From videos I've seen of other's experiences it doesn't seem like a place for black people to stay long. I'm a Nigerian Yoruba woman who has lived in USA for years. There is more diversity here, and because of past civil right movements people know how to be tactful about things that could be racially offensive, and there are guidelines and laws to keep it in check too. Move back to UK to your next phase in life. I've watched quite a bit of your videos -- I like them for your vibe, and things you are doing, and not just for Korea.
Omg! You are the one of very few Africans that I have seen, actually bring to light the fact that our civil rights movement is why some racism isn’t overtly expressed (things are more tact, as you say). Most people don’t pay homage to that fact! So thank you for highlighting that, bc it’s nothing but facts.
I'm one of the few foreigners who learned how to flourish in Korea. I found out about the Business Visa and hopped straight on it from the Working Holiday Visa. Now my business just celebrated it's 1 year anniversary and I'm working doing exactly what I love. Let me know if you have any questions and I'd be happy to help!
Very glad you got to expand there because that is something I also noticed with many folks in these videos. They ONLY talked about working as a teacher and a couple I have come across who got to work there as models. But i can tell it is VERY limited over there. Maybe it is if you go over there in a certain occupation vs if you start in one maybe like yours, i guess. Plus most of the folks doing the videos don't speak the language well so i'm sure that goes into it too.
She is absolutely right about foreigners employment. Hell even NK have faced employment limits and discrimination. Recently 900 Afghan refugees were accepted in SK. They are facing fierce hurdles. It’s a serious adjustment. You seem to be excellent person. I love when people expose themselves or challenge themselves to discomfort to grow. It is all about the individual’s ability to absorb and adapt to a homogenous society
First Princess and now you! I’m not even sure I want to visit at this point. 😂 I’m glad I was able to see the good and the bad through your videos. This was a good experience for you, but you should definitely continue to see more of the world through different opportunities you have!
Nah dont just base your judgement about a country off of someone else's view. She left but Korea is still a beautiful country and great to visit. Just bc she had enough doesn't make this country not worth visiting
Visit the country and experience it yourself. The problem with travelers who visit or decide to stay for a while is they have these false fantasies about a certain country then become disappointed. As someone who has been traveling since a child and lived in over a dozen county, believe me I've heard this so many times especially from folks who don't travel often. If you talk to an expat they will have a completely different experience. So, I hope you do your own research. Learn about the culture and how it works never base it on someone else's experience because you'll miss out when you bring others biases.
@@andrewelam1612 And I bet there are hundreds of others flourishing in the country and not complaining about it on youtube. Just try it and judge it for yourself.
I absolutely love how you described the fact that you started with your kids arguing with each other in Korean, and it ended with them arguing with each other in English. What an awesome impact to have (sans arguing) on your students that they can do this and feel comfortable trying. Best of luck to you wherever you go from here 💜
lol if they argue in English the adults won't know what they are saying. like those English kids living in Korea that are famous (in Korea), the two brothers.. they speak in Korean if their parents aren't supposed to hear what they are saying.
I lived there for 6 months and now that I am back I feel so free and good. in Korea (even tho I like the country) I was so stressed all the time and with too much pressure and difficulties and it also has a lot of generalazing, racism and conservative people
Awww!! Babe I’m going to follow you wherever and I’m hoping the best for you. First Princess now you. I love and support the two of you ❤️❤️. Im going to miss all of you leaving Korea this year! Honestly a lot of my favourite “Living in Korea” RUclipsrs are leaving this year. God bless and protect all of you ❤️!
As a Black woman who also came to teach in Japan, I can understand where you're coming from- even though we are in totally different Asian countries. I stumbled upon your channel and have enjoyed "travelling" through you, during this pandemic. Thank you for allowing me to following your journey and I'm looking forward to the next place you are willing to take us!
I think it's very similar in Japan. I taught English for 3 years and it was a similar situation; there was no chance for promotion and that's across the board. If you learn the language and try really hard and find that niche for you to shine, then it can be quite profitable. The system certainly doesn't set foreigners up to 'succeed', but that's obviously not their aim... They just want you in and out without taking any responsibility to take care of you. Your foreignness is your selling point and that's about it. It's sad for those who genuinely want to go up the ranks and create a proper life for themselves in a country they love but it's perfect for quick, cheap labour that they can throw to the kerb when they're done with you. That's a bit extreme, but I think you know what I mean xD
I lived in Japan for 3 yrs. I never taught in schools, but for me it was a great experience and I suffered no racism whatsoever. I taught in Korea for 4yrs and it was pretty bad. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. I don’t think teaching abroad is a good idea unless you’re going to a proper international school.
@@effygram8159 Of course you didn't suffer any racism look at your beautiful skin tone but let's say if you was of a darker tone you would be considered as second class
@@effygram8159 "In spite" of your skintone??🤨🤨 sounds like you went there expecting to be praised. And here you just were detailing the so called CLEARLY unexpected rAcIsM you experienced, lmao For all we know you're racist yourself
A friend of mine visited a few years ago. Hoping to connect with her Korean roots. Upon returning and a few drinks later she made a pronouncement. Declaring herself no longer Korean but instead Asian American. America has problems for sure, but out of 300 something countries in the world. America is definitely in the top 5 of culturally accepting places. Maybe one day she'll make the next jump considering herself just "American". In casual conversations I'm getting the feeling she's starting to drift in that direction. Like the way me & my family don't think of ourselves as Latin Americans or Hispanic Americans... we are Americans 🗽
all the people the us govt has killed for corporate profit you might consider calling yourself "canadian" instead. regardless of what your passport says.
@@jeremybeau8334 doesn’t matter. Majority of uneducated gringos always wants to feel they’re superior because that’s their only resort. It’s different to be around educated people regardless of race.
Oh, I'm so sorry. You're beautiful, I wish you had a better experience here. But please don't give up on S. Korea. It will change. You're lovely...and I hope you give our country another chance.
I had to book a capsule hotel at the airport because my flight got delayed by a day. The receptionist told me twice that ALL the rooms were booked out. I was near tears with exhaustion and out of 40 rooms, I could see that only about 10 were taken because large luggage has mandatory storage at reception. You cant take it in unless everyone was just travelling hand luggage. She eventually caved and said shed check again. There was only ONE overnight pod available she said she "didnt see" and a day pod. I took over night. A Korean guy came up behind me without a prebooking and proceded to book an overnight room no problem. Girl I am done. So paranoid about people's intentions...is it bigotry or an honest mistake game, spin the wheel is where Im at. I always think how black people were treated in the US in like the 70s and even later...things werent magically available for them if they werent white. The whole thing was so sketch. How do you go from no rooms to 2 rooms and have an extra night room for a Korean?
I love Korea soo much but there have been moments that made me want to leave too. I love the honesty in the video. There are soo many reasons why people should come but once you’re here you will experience the good and definitely the bad after your honeymoon phase. One thing I will say it that Korea is very much based on the way you look, pretty privilege is a thing here, if you look pretty or look like you have money, you will be treated well and that’s the sad truth. I myself have fallen victim to the insecurities that the standard of beauty brings, I’ve become more interested in brands etc. There is a lot of judgment and it makes you want to play by their rules so you’re treated better. This isn’t always the case btw some people are just genuinely nice and don’t care about what you look like I guess. Also there is a lot of foreign stereotypes so some people assume they know you before even getting to know you due to the media or foreigners they’ve met before you. These aren’t always good stereotypes so if you’re like me, you’ll sometimes feel the need to prove them wrong.
@@angiehale6720 everywhere! In the work place and out of it. I’ve seen people get away with a lot of things just cause they are ‘pretty’ to their standards with the blonde hair and fair skin. And it’s not just an assumption. I see the way people treat me differently when I’m all dressed up compared to when I just throw on something casual just to go to the convenient store. Sometimes subtle but most times very obvious.
Disclaimer*** this is not true about all Koreans. I’m sure There are a lot of Koreans who don’t care about looks too But naturally as people anywhere in the world. They judge you based on how u look first. THEN they get to know u.
I think many of us who enjoy kdrama and some aspects of the culture they choose to ‘sell’ to the world bury our minds in some sort of fantasy bubble🤷🏾♀️. It’s an unconscious thing that happens so not really blaming anyone, but we need to remind ourselves from time to time that there’s reality outside of that bubble.
Foreigners teaching in China seems happier than in Korea. Been following those who vlog their experiences and they're quite a handful and they seem to have a more favorable experience. Aleese Lightyear is one of those I follow and she is having a blast. Good luck on your journey!
The couple of people I know who went to China to teach were back in a few months due to issues with getting paid. I wouldn't assume that people feel free expressing their criticisms while there either.
i understand that you are trying to not downplay the country but I have watch countless videos where people leave within 2 years and they all say the same thing. "Don't let my experience hinder your experience". And at some point it's getting repetitive. I'm not saying it's not a true statement but if I had a dollar for everyone that said my experience is not the same as everyone I would have my own country
I was thinking of giving teaching in Korea a try. I hadn't heard many horror stories before. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective - will be giving it a closer consideration!
Lord I can’t take this, all my fav RUclipsrs (You, Princess, Anne) all leaving but I am so proud of you all and wish you the best on your next adventure! Always do what is best for you and your well-being 🤍
The lesson is mostly for you... People come to other countries with huge expectations that they will be treated like in their own country and it is a shock for most that it isn't happening. Learn that lesson now, because it will keep you away from disappointment in life. And it comes from much older than you traveller. It is one of those lessons Universe gives us to put our egos at bay. My advice is simple... enjoy your life through humility and gratitude rather than expectations and what should or shouldn't be in your opinion. Wishing you all the best :)
Foreign English teaching doesn't usually have career progression. It's something to do for a year or two, I did 18 months teaching, to travel and learn a language then move on to a career with more long term potential. It's probably better to start a career with long term potential in your home country and then find internships and work in that field in a country like Korea that way you're progressing in your career.
@@Unrestricted_idol_Kangrouu some people who work overseas teaching English get TESL certification to become an English as a second language teaching professional. Others get into import and export. Scientists and data scientists often have chances to work overseas or at least travel for business.
From my studies I gather that Korea is both very nationalistic and racist, though they won't admit it. I found this true in Japan as well. Thanks for sharing your experience...
I watched some other girl talk about working in Korea and she explained that getting promotion as a foreigner in Korea is almost impossible because their promoting system works in a way that kind of excludes not Korean people.
I aslo think people are blinded by kpop and kdramas sometimes, that's why most of the people go to korea and once you are there you experience real life and not what you see on tv..I'm not saying you guys should not go to korea
Because people don't see the truth:discrimination, bullying, toxic masculinity, how criticized are those who are not "beautiful" in kdramas. But people see what they want: only the appearance of the actor without seeing the messages behind some scenes. And as a fan of Kpop I hope people realize what idols go through and not to mention how many have taken their own lives due to online bullying this should raise some questions.
Your experiences are comparable to teaching as Black in China too. Mentally there is a certain freedom and boost in energy in knowing that things are short-term or temporal rather than indefinite. Knowing the end is coming and tangible us much different than indefinitely resigning contracts, extending one's stay a work year or semester at a time.
Wishing you so much happiness in your next endeavour. Life is so precious and when it is no longer functioning as well as we would like, we do have to make a change. I remember the video and it was so hard to watch but so necessary, and I am so glad others felt able to express their experiences. I believe you have always given a well balanced view of South Korea and I have loved all the beautiful places you have showed us. Keep smiling and I know you are going to achieve so much more💐
Your stories are so interesting, like I don’t even know how you managed to stay a year haha. I only stayed for like 4/5months. I was placed in small city where there weren’t a lot of foreigners around me and pretty much nothing to do. The loneliness was excruciatingly painful. I come home there’s no one to talk to, I go to school, I can barely have a full conversation. Some teachers did speak to me but it was like 1 or 2 but can’t blame them, haha I should be the one learning Korean. But I just felt like I was carrying a sack of loneliness everywhere I went. Though I did meet up with friends on some weekends but the travel was just too much. I liked my school and I liked exploring Korea but that loneliness was what dragged me back home 😔
My experience in Korea (non-teacher) has been great. Talking and listening to others, I can see how people feel this way. "This place is hell", was relayed to me by a Korean woman during a brief conversation. In all instances, do what's best for you.
I’m sad you’re going but I can’t wait to see more of your future adventures and maybe more vlogs 😅 so I can continue to live my life vicariously through you lol!!
Stunning, articulate and obviously very intelligent. I've been to Korea several times and have a family member working there the past 2 years as an English Teacher. She enjoys it. Korea is not for everyone. Korea is for Koreans. Even when you can speak their language you are still not accepted. With a population of a mere 51 million they tend to stick together. Unfortunately as a black (beautiful) girl you will never be accepted because of the stories people hear of blacks. They tolerate white people and those nationalities (Philippines, etc.) that work the labor jobs of the country. If you need a job I will pay you well just to listen to your awesome accent. Wish you well and please stay healthy during these trying times.
I am American and I own an academy in Korea. I hear all your concerns and try to make the workplace, Korean experience as great as possible. I worked as a hagwon teacher for 8 years before owning my own. From both sides, I hear what you're saying. But when it comes to the possibility of moving up and ascending into management, it is hard with teachers because just as you made a choice to leave, most of the teachers I have hired and hire are not here for the long haul. They are here for the experience and leave. Most hagwon managers know that.
Thanks for your video! In the past week I've just done an infamous 'Midnight run', away from Korea, back home to the UK. I am not proud of it, but I don't regret it as my physical and mental health was being so impacted that I couldn't go on. On my first day, I was told by my three co-workers that they were all going to hand in their notice. Talk about a positive start! Over the next month, I was subject to constant criticism: the management telling me that everything I was doing was wrong, that the parents were complaining about me, etc, etc. That, combined with a very difficult class full of spoilt kids (some no doubt with behavioral issues), a curriculum that was way too advanced, and 70's technology - proved a recipe for disaster! So many issues would have been resolved if the parents and management recognized that kids are kids and should not be forced to sit for 9 hours a day and work through text book after textbook. For teachers - especially those not super experienced like me - it is like trying to get blood out of a stone! I don't blame the kids, however. It is insanity! 'Toxic' is the go to word to describe the school I was at, and many Hagwons in general (I worked at another one for a few months previous to this).
Just search how much of indians are working in a country ,if number is too low then you shouldnt try , even a indian cant adapt then your chances are negative
I've lived past 10yrs in Canada but I left there, I wouldn't go back. I had really bad bad experiences by different races.. it's very hard even for reminding what happened with them. I love to be in South Korea now.
I think your point on the struggles for foreigners to be able to do well, grow, and flourish in S. Korea is very great one. Thank you for sharing this!
I hope you are happy no matter where you live and do whats best for you. I've been living in Tokyo for 3 years and I cant wait to leave this year. I've been super homesick since I haven't been home at all since I landed over 3 years ago.
For the first few years after I left Tokyo, I was homesick, too. It was the only home I knew...but then, I learned English, and the U.S. is the only "home" I remember. How are things for you in Tokyo?
“Foreigners can’t excel.” My gross income is $240K. Most foreigners here just don’t know where they are, and don’t want to learn either. They’re young, and just passing thru teaching or whatever. Eventually they realize it’s not the West, and never will be, and run back to their space Anglo-space (which isn’t so safe these days).
@@cjo4210 Yes I do, everyone knows that. But it’s irrelevant to my topic. The topic is Anglo-culture (which includes all people who grew up in the US/UK/AU/CA/NZ) regardless of skin color. Anglos tend to have no clue where they are, and never learn about other cultures, due to the bigotry and arrogance which IS their culture. I’ve been here a long time, and seen them fail over and over (all skin colors) because they won’t get out of their Anglo/Western “thought box.” The mere mention of it makes them angry.
Korea isn't what it used to be. The pay is worse and, at times, so is the treatment of others by people trying to survive in a toxic environment where all they look forward to is the time when they can look down on other people. Hopefully Korea will one day find happiness again.
Wow am 3wks late but I experienced exactly the same thing in China. I had run away . I booked a flight back home without saying bye and have no regrets.😅
Thank you Ro for being you and sharing your experience as a teacher in SK! We appreciate you and your honesty thank you for being real and not changing despite your circumstances, two years in a foreign homogenous country is a long time! Eevery chapter has an ending onto bigger and better things
I feel terrible. I wish I had discovered your channel a long time ago...Oh...I'm so sorry. Gosh, I feel truly awful your time here wasnt as wonderful as it should have been. But, know this...you are BEAUTIFUL!
Korea is a tough place to live, and not many can hack it. As a Korean-American myself, I know I wouldn't be able to last more than a year working there. Super competitive environment gets to you after awhile, and most tap out if they have an alternative, and this is why Koreans do well in other countries because they're mentally conditioned for competition. I totally understand why she wants out, and I'm amazed that she lasted two year.
Thanks for updating us, Ro! In case you'd consider moving to a closer country (closer to the US, hehe), don't hesitate in coming here, in El Salvador. Our economy is booming, partly thanks to the BTC adoption, and we definitely need native English teachers :-)
I live in the US with a sizeable Korean populaion in my city. Dealing with them here in the states alrdy gave me a bad impression of them and wouldnt want to visit the country. Im not alone in feeling this way either. My hispanic friends straight up dislike them. The only people i see that wanna live in that country or have a positive view of them are usually the ones that got into kpop or kdrama before actually getting to know them and their behaviours.
Glad to see your made that decision. Living in Japan and having similar experiences made me strong and cruel. I am much colder and ruthless towards people because I’m always cautious about talent suckers and losers. I’m glad u r honest, these westerners who are promoting these countries are doing injustice to all foreigners abroad. I’ll always advise against these countries. I’m glad I left these slavers behind.
I have been wishing to learn the Korean and pursue my career in Korean literature and willing to move there through scholarship programs incase. But your video has helped me out in learning a different perspective as well, definitely korean is not easy for blacks or south asians :(
Thank you for ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS!!! Your HONESTY, POSITIVITY (this is a word), BEAUTY, STRENGTH and INTELLIGENCE. I am 61, female, black and American. I have watched you make the best out of ANY situation, stay BALANCED (without wisdom you cannot keep balance), tell your truth without ATTACK, achieve your stated goals and grow. Continue to be HAPPY, FOCUSED and BLESSED. Only the BEST!!!!!!!!
If you ever get a chance to visit the U.S., Sedona, Arizona is a healing type of place worth checking out. Also, any place you have that has a military base or two you will find quite a few guys chasing you (because you're looking pretty hot), and for some you're accent may turn them on as well. If you're a big comic-book fan, come to San Diego's Comic-Con.. it's usually held around July 22. Just keep in mind that you'll have to purchase tickets a year in advance.
Your reasons are valid and honestly speaking, I don't understand why anyone leaves UK, US and Canada to go teach English in Korea under mostly poor conditions. Unless said people are abject misfits, you get better pay at home with much more protection such as sick leave etc. You might even work with people that smiles and are happy with life. stay at home folks! And no, you won't be an idol and make a fortune due to xenophobia😉 Most koreans are put upon so imagine how you'd fare as a foreigner with zero legal protection
Wow! Pretty inspiring that you dedicated the last 6 months to your joy. Yes!!! I left way to late when I was the most bitter so I’m really proud of you for making this choice and prioritising your mental health. Btw, you looks stunning!!! 🌟🌟🌟
I really enjoyed your video. I’ve learned so much through you sharing your experience and point of view these past two years. Looking forward to watching you continue to bloom wherever life takes you next.
If you are willing to keep being an english teacher, there are lots of opportunities, my cousin worked at a university, great pay, great hours and lots of time off, but there are only a few of those jobs.
Lets be real. Nobody goes over to Korea to make a career out of teaching English there. Usually it's to try out a different country with the job itself being secondary to traveling or doing other fun things. Koreans are well aware of that fact and you will be compensated accordingly. As far as the work culture, its survival of the fittest out there. Us foreigners at least have the option of going back home but to the Koreans there, its their only option and reality. So it's not fair to expect the same work life balance or whatever it is that you are used to back home. It's not extra hard because we are foreigners or whatever. Its like that for everyone there literally. If you think you cant handle that, don't do it.
I’ve so enjoyed watching your videos the past 2 years. So grateful to be a part of the audience to whom you’ve shared your experiences with. I’m so excited to see what you did next!✨💜
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So sorry to hear that you had a bad experience in Korea (same as many other people in the comments). It is actually my 3rd in Korea and I am really happy here :) For sure the visas and getting further in your job are things which are true, but I have to say that I think is not really happening that much for programmers (I study AI for medical imaging). I think that the conditions in my field are very good. But as you said, it really depends on everyone's situation, so people should seek as much information as possible before moving to any country.
Thank you so much for acknowledging the plethora of possibilities that can exist for one's discomfort in a foreign country. Many people think they can ask about how a certain race, gender, or body type is treated and then evaluate the country as a whole, but it isn't always this way.
went to a hagwon for a year. stayed on for 7 1/2 years, then the owner retired. wish i was still there. most foreigners left after a year or 2 so i can understand. most of my students were adults so i was innundated with friends. i never hung out with foreigners since my dance card was always full. had so many amazing adventures. glad you had some good times.
Affer hearing all this I feel less guilty of leaving. I used to think if I just comeback to my country I would be the loser that never could adapt. But after open my heart with my family they truly agree coming back is the best for my freedom and mental health ❤
i just bumped on to your video ... i feel you did great !!! you tried your best to find positivity in every situation and staying in a foreign land must be surely very hard. You took the right decision about leaving because mental health is very important to every human. i am very sure great things / opportunities are ahead waiting for you!!! you got this girl ;)
Ohhh so sad you find yourself uncomfortable in korea, i married a Korean boy and i love Korea... i am so sorry you find korea so bad place, because i love it so much and i love their people. Experience different and i am European so also foreigner but they threat me like a Queen and loves me so i can't talk bad about them, but experience are different i hope you find peace and happyness back to your country Cheers and Good Luck ...
This is from my vantage point of view! *It was written in your journey of life that *you will pass through Korea* but be mindful that when that journey is over, you can never stay for a second or a minute over* So Ro move forward not looking back and know that this is just the beginning. Lots of beautiful things awaits you in the future😘
I have heard from several people that Korea as a 2050 technology but socially and culturally they are still stuck in the 1920s.. I'm very happy for them that in the past decade they have pulled themselves up on a World class level, but along with that comes the responsibility of increasing socially also and not being left behind in Dark Ages!
I Love Love looovveee you!!! So please don’t stop making Videos even when you are moving back to England. I’m happy that you do the things that are good for you!!!
Astrologically, you may not have the best lines there if we’re talking about energy and energy alone. But outside of that you’re right to let go of something that isn’t in alignment with your highest good. There’s a lot of social issues that get swept under the rug or are not talked about because of their defamation laws. You gave it your best shot and stuck it out and did something very few people are brave enough to do. I hope the rest of your travels and journey goes well!
Important questions: Did you achieve your goals? Were your goals reasonable? Was it reasonable to expect that those goals could be achieved in that environment? I wish you the best in your next chapter and hope that this one gave you more tools to make that happen.
Girl, be more specific. It’s not gossip. You could really help prepare someone for what they’re about to go through. It sounds like you’re talking in codes.
My classmate had this experience in the mid 00's after we graduated college. She said S. Korea was an awful experience and she's white. It's like they are begging for foreign teachers but don't really want foreign teachers. She said the parents at the private school were so entitled and would speak to her like she was a dog and she said the black teachers were treated even worse. She then went to Japan, and then finally China. She's much happier in China. There isn't anything wrong with protecting your mental peace.
I am on the fence about which between S.Korea and Japan is the worst when it comes to foreigners and work related issues. Considering also you are a woman and black, I think it weights even more on your shoulders. Not to imply they are racist at all, but you stand out as non Asian. My understanding of Korean work environment is that is one of a kind like the japanese one, so we can't judge people for choosing rightfully to leave, for choosing their own mental and physical well being over a lifestyle that doesn't resonate with their soul purpose. I know it very well as I suffered in the past while living in Canada, where I immigrated from Italy. I had all I wanted, a great career, friends, free of any unfulfilling relationship,but after the first seven years of real growth despite some ups and downs, I became increasingly unhappy. And Canada is much easier as it is a western country. I just felt my time there was kinda up, at least for the time being ( I still have Canadian citizenship) Now I am happily married and I live in Japan, blissfully unaware of the work environment as I am just a plain housewife. So be it, take it from here to the next adventure, you are awesome.
As l speak right now l am on my way to work & the Taxi driver is taking me pictures 😭😭🚮 … Our experiences in China are bitter sweet ….sending hugs to all of the women of color.
Hey Loves,
Thank you so much for the love in the comments. I appreciate you 💗
This is my first time seeing your channel. This is so heartbreaking to hear what I think is a lot of mixed emotions at the surface as you share your experience. And I am here to say that you are doing a wonderful job protecting your energy hence why I assume negative ppl might to be around you. You just had to make a few adjustments which is still a great ways to protect your energy. This being open to seeing who is around you and how you pivoted beautifully, as it sounds. Painful but beautiful.
To be honest, I have experience a lot of hatred especially in the work place in America. I think misery loves company but not just from miserable people. They find satisfaction in converting or controlling others' energies to match theirs or become even worst. To find a messed up sort of comfort in that type of sick emotional abuse.
I thought I would teach for a little bit but I changed my mind after becoming a yoga instructor for a short duration of time and I could imagine that amount of growth your students have experienced with you as their instructor! I wish you truly the best in finding a place that brings calming contentment or if not pure joy!
Good Luck 🍀 on your new adventures
Enlightenment of the Minority
I was told here in the US by a black Christian that I was going to hell! My crime? Not being Christian!
He went from being a minority black to a majority Christian and happily embraced all the hate & division that his religion preaches
But then he will face discrimination because of his skin color and back will come the Enlightenment - "We must not judge people by skin color, we must treat all people equally" etc etc
But as a Majority Christian it is fine and dandy to judge people by religion & hate and abuse them!
Funny morals we have
Asian countries are very racist ro. I say this truthfully. I don’t like it. I don’t know why but it absolutely is
Where are you from?? I love your accent!!!
EVERY single teacher friend of mine that went to Korea, eventually leaves after 2 years or less. The reasons why, are usually the same. I can only think of ONE friend that kinda stayed long term. Eventually, she had to split her time between the states and Korea to stay sane. I've been listening to my friends experiences about teaching in Korea for almost 20 years now. Nothing seems to change.
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Wym by nothing seems to change?
@@theway6763 probably same issues, no real fix in the issues mentioned in the video
Its funny to me people are now talking about how bad things can really get over there.
Its not surprising, imo, simply due to how dramatically different the nation is. I never saw what the hype was for going over there, i've never met anyone except 1 person in my whole entire life who went over to Asia to teach english and when i wanted to speak to her about it her face and not going into the experience there let me know to leave that conversation alone. I believe a lot of it has to do with soooooo many people going over there like its a cure or like it's going to make their lives better and happy quickly. Oh and be able to get a relationship too.
@@marlak4203 It's important to note how very internal a lot of these conflicts are. I'm an American living in China for going on six years now and "how bad things can really get" aren't actually much worse than native people experience, but the difference is that foreigners (read: westerners) assess how bad "bad" really is. We westerners have a much lower threshold than do Asians and Africans when it comes to pain and suffering due to social discomfort.
I think it’s more difficult for Black women than white women.
It's hell for western women period. They got zero tolerance for your feminist ways.
But since they are white features loving, beckies get it less.
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@@balerikirmu.11 definitely bw get it worse merely because of our skin.
@@cosmiccrush22 ethnic image of being insufferable (attitude) whether deserved or not makes it easier for douche bags to do so
Just facts
Leaving before becoming bitter is a really big reason why I left after two years as well. I left in December 2021 and feel soooo much better about leaving when I did and will gladly visit again. I really felt better know I wasn't alone with your videos! So keep your head up and keep those positive vibes
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I also am leaving Korea after 2 years for my mental health and well-being. I hate to say it but the beauty standards really got to me here and I have done some very unhealthy decisions to my body to stick to those standards and I knew it was time for me to go. I’ll be finishing my last contract and heading home ^^ I wish you the best back home
You are beautiful! never forget that!
Woman living in China here l swear l relate
We need foreigners in China to stop being cowards and start talking about the problems they experience there.
Happy you now seek for mental and emotional health instead of trying to please other fitting crazy beauty canon 💙💙
@@ThoughXperiment Thank you! I do feel a bit disappointed though like I failed in some way... I don't really have a set plan on what I am going to do next after this...
Ohhh my gosh babes, I just stumbled upon this video and I’m so glad you’ve made the decision that you know is best for you. I only taught in Korea for 6ish months and I was exhausted after only half a year, so you’re a true saint for sticking it out this long. I think a lot of ppl have a false fantasy about what teaching in Korea is like and I’m glad you showed up with the real facts about the reality of it! Best of luck with what’s ahead 💛
I agree completely. There’s a huge false fantasy around it. Thank you love 🥺💕
I think there’s a massive false fantasy about Korean life in general.
Koria is a worst Asian country yet I discovered
I've heard it's tough over there , I'm glad you're choosing you.
yes thank you for leaving Korea. Adrienne Hill.
I went to China first where they honestly treated us good. The only problem I had was people forcefully taking pictures. However I went to South Korea for 4 days vacation. As I got off the coach from the airport. The first Korean interaction I had was a man who spoke English. He said you look weird can I take you out for drink. I was so shocked iam an East African women how dare you? I was like you look weird and creepy. I never gave them any chance to speak with me again.
China is nolonger nice, they're becoming more and more racist. Foreigners who lived here 5 years ago would fear the difference if they came back.
lol you thought you will be praise for your east african features just like the african amercans do?
You did well not to give that dope any more attention
@@freespirit7878 You seem like a hater go out and make friends
@@freespirit7878 Your comprehension level is horrendous. That was your takeaway from hee being insulted then asked out by some creepy rando?
As a Korean American who has lived in Korea for most of my adult life, I can definitely understand why you're leaving Korea. Heck, many KOREANS wanna get out, too.
Sad to hear I'd rather believe it than I wouldn't. I can imagin how cruel a pressure in Korean society can be.
Girl...I get it. After two years I was out. I only come for trips now. Mental Health faired much better that way and I enjoyed myself more.
Right! As long as I have my people here, I’ll be back to visit! Short trips seem like a nice idea !
Oh...I feel terrible. I wish you had a better time here. Koreans are great one on one...but we were so enclosed for very long...please give us another chance. I'm so heartbroken.
I was told by an African-American Christian here in the US that I was going to hell! My crime? Not being Christian. From a minority black he went to being a majority Christian and happily embraced the same hate that his religion imbibed him with
And as a black man in white America, he is a minority and as soon as he realizes that back comes the "We should treat all people equally, we should not discriminate"
Phony morals we have
@@annapaik100 i'm from the usa .. 11,000 miles from SK, i have only visited SK once in a different world (1978). SK even from that distance has enriched my life so much. I am awed by the changes i have seen From: (when i went all i remember was dirt roads, and the view of a school+yard from (then) buson tower). TO: SK music (Blackpink), TV drama, history (anything Joseon), culture (manners familial ties), food and even Running Man! I even taught a (tech) class of SK students from some chip company in the 90's. But sadly I've concluded SK would be a nice place to visit with a tourist visa.. but it's almost impossible otherwise. Unless your bill gates etc, warren buffet etc. Korea is a pressure cooker of tensions, TOO competitive. I feel sorry for and admire at the same time the children who have to grow up in that system (or any foreigner trying to penetrate and survive there). all that said.. keep up the good work SK! I have a smile on my face and a heavy interest in anything Korean that reaches here in the usa! I hope to visit someday.. on that tourist visa!
How's everyone getting 2 year Visa's there so easy?
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I’ve never lived in east Asia long term, but I’d still like to one day. I spent 6 months there once and I’d say, as you said, a lot of it is just the same as the UK. The only difference is that the good and bad are both amplified. You’ll get treated absolutely atrociously and you know it’s because you’re a black foreigner. At the same time you’ll get treated surprisingly well, also for that reason. I think it’s often just the luck of the draw whether or not those things balance out for you. When I was there I was lucky to mostly experience the latter.
Perfectly said, and I’m glad your experience was mainly positive! Even within East/ South East Asia, experiences vary so much because cultures are SO different. I hope you get a chance to experience it fully in the way you’d like to!
GO TO THE PHILIPPINES. THEIR IS THIS ONE GUY ONE OF YOUR KIND WHO TRAVELED SOUTHERN MINDANAO PHILIPPINES AND THEN HE GOES TO NORTHERN PART OF LUZON HE MET OUR NATIVE PEOPLE NEGRO COLOR HERE. THEY ARE CALLED “AETA’S”. WE CALL THEME NEGRO IN SPANISH BLACK PEOPLE. BUT WE DON’T DISCRIMINATE THEME BECAUSE THEY ARE OUR ANCESTORS AND THEIR PART OF THE FILIPINO CULTURE. THEY LIVE NEAR IN THE MOUNT PINATUBO IT’S A VOLCANO MOUNTAIN IT IS LOCATED IN ZAMBALES. THEY LIVE THEIR FOR A THOUSANDS OF YEARS.
Enlightenment of the Minority
Here in the US I was told by an African-American that I was going to Hell! My crime? Not being Christian. From a black minority he changed sides to being a majority Christian and happily embraced all the hate that his religion preached
Same guy will face discrimination as a minority black and back will come his enlightenment - "We must treat everyone equally, we should not discriminate" etc etc
What phony morals we have
I feel the same with all of these.Like I literally had to leave Korea before I started to fully hate it. I’m traumatized by my experience living and working there. I was there for 2 years. I stayed one month into my last contract and did a midnight run. I really want people to research before going to Korea. I always tell people. Nice place to visit , but would not recommend living there.
I would visit it but not live there. As someone who lived there, it's nice to know you agree.
But don't forget to say that's it's your personal opinion. I love Korea with all my heart and I recommend everyone to live there but it of personal experience. Korea has never disappointed me once and I'm a black girl. So sad to see people crumbling and leaving but not every country is for everyone
Couldn’t agree more.
What does a midnight run mean?
@@andrewelam1612 It’s when you suddenly leave Korea without any notice at all. Just plan your departure secretly and don’t show up to work one day. I used to think people who did that were irresponsible until I actually experienced Korean academy work culture. There is so much psychological abuse. I worked for 3 different companies including two of the biggest in the country.
I'm on my 3rd contract here but Korea is definitely not a long term choice. Even if you're fluent in Korean, they will never accept you 100% and you're not really going to progress in your career which really sucks to find out. Many people don't realize it
Well to be fair, I am korean myself, but never accepted by koreans
Its honestly not a racial thing but more of a social thing
Korea has this 'unison conformity' culture where everyone must think the same and do the same
Individual uniqueness is not looked at positively
I was just about to say, I am full Korean born in America. They have never viewed me as their kind either - even at first glance of my overall appearance they know I’m not from there because of my style of dress, makeup preference and mannerisms. They are also very nationalistic and homogenous because of the number of times they were colonized. It’s good to see them getting more interactions with foreigners of different backgrounds but i can foresee it taking several generations for them to reach what we have in America. And even what we have here needs work ~
You will always be an outsider. That is to be expected in any homogeneous society. Long term stay should be in the country where you are a citizen or in a multicultural society where it is easier to blend in .
@@Kawhisexual does it have something to do with any religion beliefs? Ty
@@chingu1425 nope absolutely nothing to do with religion
You are a pretty girl with a positive personality. Its good idea to leave Korea before it becomes too damaging to your psyche. From videos I've seen of other's experiences it doesn't seem like a place for black people to stay long. I'm a Nigerian Yoruba woman who has lived in USA for years. There is more diversity here, and because of past civil right movements people know how to be tactful about things that could be racially offensive, and there are guidelines and laws to keep it in check too. Move back to UK to your next phase in life. I've watched quite a bit of your videos -- I like them for your vibe, and things you are doing, and not just for Korea.
Omg! You are the one of very few Africans that I have seen, actually bring to light the fact that our civil rights movement is why some racism isn’t overtly expressed (things are more tact, as you say). Most people don’t pay homage to that fact! So thank you for highlighting that, bc it’s nothing but facts.
Nigeria 🇳🇬💯🏆
I'm one of the few foreigners who learned how to flourish in Korea. I found out about the Business Visa and hopped straight on it from the Working Holiday Visa. Now my business just celebrated it's 1 year anniversary and I'm working doing exactly what I love. Let me know if you have any questions and I'd be happy to help!
Big congrats to you! I hope you continue to thrive!
I wanna move in there too
Very glad you got to expand there because that is something I also noticed with many folks in these videos. They ONLY talked about working as a teacher and a couple I have come across who got to work there as models. But i can tell it is VERY limited over there. Maybe it is if you go over there in a certain occupation vs if you start in one maybe like yours, i guess. Plus most of the folks doing the videos don't speak the language well so i'm sure that goes into it too.
If you don't mind? What business are you in over there?
@@pearlm2759 I started a tech company here last year. I have a couple videos up about it
She is absolutely right about foreigners employment. Hell even NK have faced employment limits and discrimination. Recently 900 Afghan refugees were accepted in SK. They are facing fierce hurdles. It’s a serious adjustment. You seem to be excellent person. I love when people expose themselves or challenge themselves to discomfort to grow. It is all about the individual’s ability to absorb and adapt to a homogenous society
First Princess and now you! I’m not even sure I want to visit at this point. 😂 I’m glad I was able to see the good and the bad through your videos. This was a good experience for you, but you should definitely continue to see more of the world through different opportunities you have!
Nah dont just base your judgement about a country off of someone else's view. She left but Korea is still a beautiful country and great to visit. Just bc she had enough doesn't make this country not worth visiting
@@nalaa9618 She not the only one who saying this there's hundreds of videos that saying the exact same thing this RUclipsr is saying
You shouldn't visit there they are horrible if you not Korean born
Visit the country and experience it yourself. The problem with travelers who visit or decide to stay for a while is they have these false fantasies about a certain country then become disappointed. As someone who has been traveling since a child and lived in over a dozen county, believe me I've heard this so many times especially from folks who don't travel often. If you talk to an expat they will have a completely different experience. So, I hope you do your own research. Learn about the culture and how it works never base it on someone else's experience because you'll miss out when you bring others biases.
@@andrewelam1612 And I bet there are hundreds of others flourishing in the country and not complaining about it on youtube. Just try it and judge it for yourself.
Never deny who you are to fit into any culture. Proud of you 👏🏼
I absolutely love how you described the fact that you started with your kids arguing with each other in Korean, and it ended with them arguing with each other in English. What an awesome impact to have (sans arguing) on your students that they can do this and feel comfortable trying. Best of luck to you wherever you go from here 💜
😂😂😂 that was so cute
lol if they argue in English the adults won't know what they are saying. like those English kids living in Korea that are famous (in Korea), the two brothers.. they speak in Korean if their parents aren't supposed to hear what they are saying.
I lived there for 6 months and now that I am back I feel so free and good. in Korea (even tho I like the country) I was so stressed all the time and with too much pressure and difficulties
and it also has a lot of generalazing, racism and conservative people
Awww!! Babe I’m going to follow you wherever and I’m hoping the best for you. First Princess now you. I love and support the two of you ❤️❤️. Im going to miss all of you leaving Korea this year! Honestly a lot of my favourite “Living in Korea” RUclipsrs are leaving this year. God bless and protect all of you ❤️!
As a Black woman who also came to teach in Japan, I can understand where you're coming from- even though we are in totally different Asian countries. I stumbled upon your channel and have enjoyed "travelling" through you, during this pandemic. Thank you for allowing me to following your journey and I'm looking forward to the next place you are willing to take us!
"As a Black man/woman..."
I think it's very similar in Japan. I taught English for 3 years and it was a similar situation; there was no chance for promotion and that's across the board. If you learn the language and try really hard and find that niche for you to shine, then it can be quite profitable. The system certainly doesn't set foreigners up to 'succeed', but that's obviously not their aim... They just want you in and out without taking any responsibility to take care of you. Your foreignness is your selling point and that's about it. It's sad for those who genuinely want to go up the ranks and create a proper life for themselves in a country they love but it's perfect for quick, cheap labour that they can throw to the kerb when they're done with you. That's a bit extreme, but I think you know what I mean xD
I lived in Japan for 3 yrs. I never taught in schools, but for me it was a great experience and I suffered no racism whatsoever. I taught in Korea for 4yrs and it was pretty bad. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. I don’t think teaching abroad is a good idea unless you’re going to a proper international school.
@@effygram8159 Of course you didn't suffer any racism look at your beautiful skin tone but let's say if you was of a darker tone you would be considered as second class
@@andrewelam1612 I experienced plenty of racism in Korea in spite of my skin tone.
@@effygram8159 you should do a video of it people would like to hear your story
@@effygram8159 "In spite" of your skintone??🤨🤨 sounds like you went there expecting to be praised. And here you just were detailing the so called CLEARLY unexpected rAcIsM you experienced, lmao
For all we know you're racist yourself
A friend of mine visited a few years ago. Hoping to connect with her Korean roots. Upon returning and a few drinks later she made a pronouncement. Declaring herself no longer Korean but instead Asian American. America has problems for sure, but out of 300 something countries in the world. America is definitely in the top 5 of culturally accepting places. Maybe one day she'll make the next jump considering herself just "American". In casual conversations I'm getting the feeling she's starting to drift in that direction. Like the way me & my family don't think of ourselves as Latin Americans or Hispanic Americans... we are Americans 🗽
all the people the us govt has killed for corporate profit you might consider calling yourself "canadian" instead. regardless of what your passport says.
Gringos will never see you as equals.
@@jeremybeau8334 I would
@@jeremybeau8334 doesn’t matter. Majority of uneducated gringos always wants to feel they’re superior because that’s their only resort. It’s different to be around educated people regardless of race.
Oh, I'm so sorry. You're beautiful, I wish you had a better experience here. But please don't give up on S. Korea. It will change. You're lovely...and I hope you give our country another chance.
Girl Im at the airport right now watching this gettin ready to leave, lmao.
Have a safe flight!✨
I had to book a capsule hotel at the airport because my flight got delayed by a day. The receptionist told me twice that ALL the rooms were booked out. I was near tears with exhaustion and out of 40 rooms, I could see that only about 10 were taken because large luggage has mandatory storage at reception. You cant take it in unless everyone was just travelling hand luggage. She eventually caved and said shed check again. There was only ONE overnight pod available she said she "didnt see" and a day pod. I took over night. A Korean guy came up behind me without a prebooking and proceded to book an overnight room no problem. Girl I am done. So paranoid about people's intentions...is it bigotry or an honest mistake game, spin the wheel is where Im at. I always think how black people were treated in the US in like the 70s and even later...things werent magically available for them if they werent white. The whole thing was so sketch. How do you go from no rooms to 2 rooms and have an extra night room for a Korean?
Omg that sounds SO frustrating! I’m sorry you had that experience. I hope the rest of the journey is much smoother love !
I love Korea soo much but there have been moments that made me want to leave too. I love the honesty in the video. There are soo many reasons why people should come but once you’re here you will experience the good and definitely the bad after your honeymoon phase. One thing I will say it that Korea is very much based on the way you look, pretty privilege is a thing here, if you look pretty or look like you have money, you will be treated well and that’s the sad truth. I myself have fallen victim to the insecurities that the standard of beauty brings, I’ve become more interested in brands etc. There is a lot of judgment and it makes you want to play by their rules so you’re treated better. This isn’t always the case btw some people are just genuinely nice and don’t care about what you look like I guess. Also there is a lot of foreign stereotypes so some people assume they know you before even getting to know you due to the media or foreigners they’ve met before you. These aren’t always good stereotypes so if you’re like me, you’ll sometimes feel the need to prove them wrong.
When you say treated poorly and fair based on looks do you mean like in the work force, or like at social clubs, or just randomly?
So they have the fastest internet but can’t search “untrue stereotypes about foreigners in korea” im tired of the “they don’t know anything” excuse!
@@angiehale6720 everywhere! In the work place and out of it. I’ve seen people get away with a lot of things just cause they are ‘pretty’ to their standards with the blonde hair and fair skin. And it’s not just an assumption. I see the way people treat me differently when I’m all dressed up compared to when I just throw on something casual just to go to the convenient store. Sometimes subtle but most times very obvious.
Disclaimer*** this is not true about all Koreans. I’m sure There are a lot of Koreans who don’t care about looks too But naturally as people anywhere in the world. They judge you based on how u look first. THEN they get to know u.
I am Korean. I love your video. Thank you for uploading. So Honest. Also, I want to tell you, "You are so BEATIFUL!"
I think many of us who enjoy kdrama and some aspects of the culture they choose to ‘sell’ to the world bury our minds in some sort of fantasy bubble🤷🏾♀️. It’s an unconscious thing that happens so not really blaming anyone, but we need to remind ourselves from time to time that there’s reality outside of that bubble.
Something tells me you're gonna be just fine in whatever you choose to do. We're cheering for you!
Foreigners teaching in China seems happier than in Korea. Been following those who vlog their experiences and they're quite a handful and they seem to have a more favorable experience. Aleese Lightyear is one of those I follow and she is having a blast. Good luck on your journey!
Naah Sis it’s the Same we are Stressed & tired it’s tough very tough
The couple of people I know who went to China to teach were back in a few months due to issues with getting paid. I wouldn't assume that people feel free expressing their criticisms while there either.
Nah I'm in China and I'm ready to leave
I have lived in China for 2 years and I left it was just too suffocating
Agreed i love china
i understand that you are trying to not downplay the country but I have watch countless videos where people leave within 2 years and they all say the same thing. "Don't let my experience hinder your experience". And at some point it's getting repetitive. I'm not saying it's not a true statement but if I had a dollar for everyone that said my experience is not the same as everyone I would have my own country
I was thinking of giving teaching in Korea a try. I hadn't heard many horror stories before. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective - will be giving it a closer consideration!
Good for you Ro for deciding what was best for you and I'm excited to see you continue to grow .
Lord I can’t take this, all my fav RUclipsrs (You, Princess, Anne) all leaving but I am so proud of you all and wish you the best on your next adventure! Always do what is best for you and your well-being 🤍
I go to Korea in June
The lesson is mostly for you... People come to other countries with huge expectations that they will be treated like in their own country and it is a shock for most that it isn't happening. Learn that lesson now, because it will keep you away from disappointment in life. And it comes from much older than you traveller. It is one of those lessons Universe gives us to put our egos at bay. My advice is simple... enjoy your life through humility and gratitude rather than expectations and what should or shouldn't be in your opinion. Wishing you all the best :)
Foreign English teaching doesn't usually have career progression. It's something to do for a year or two, I did 18 months teaching, to travel and learn a language then move on to a career with more long term potential. It's probably better to start a career with long term potential in your home country and then find internships and work in that field in a country like Korea that way you're progressing in your career.
Would you please give me examples about long term potential jobs
@@Unrestricted_idol_Kangrouu some people who work overseas teaching English get TESL certification to become an English as a second language teaching professional. Others get into import and export. Scientists and data scientists often have chances to work overseas or at least travel for business.
From my studies I gather that Korea is both very nationalistic and racist, though they won't admit it. I found this true in Japan as well. Thanks for sharing your experience...
I just wanted to say your makeup is stunning and that colour looks so good on you - thank you for your stories as well
I watched some other girl talk about working in Korea and she explained that getting promotion as a foreigner in Korea is almost impossible because their promoting system works in a way that kind of excludes not Korean people.
I aslo think people are blinded by kpop and kdramas sometimes, that's why most of the people go to korea and once you are there you experience real life and not what you see on tv..I'm not saying you guys should not go to korea
Because people don't see the truth:discrimination, bullying, toxic masculinity, how criticized are those who are not "beautiful" in kdramas. But people see what they want: only the appearance of the actor without seeing the messages behind some scenes. And as a fan of Kpop I hope people realize what idols go through and not to mention how many have taken their own lives due to online bullying this should raise some questions.
Your experiences are comparable to teaching as Black in China too.
Mentally there is a certain freedom and boost in energy in knowing that things are short-term or temporal rather than indefinite. Knowing the end is coming and tangible us much different than indefinitely resigning contracts, extending one's stay a work year or semester at a time.
Wishing you so much happiness in your next endeavour. Life is so precious and when it is no longer functioning as well as we would like, we do have to make a change. I remember the video and it was so hard to watch but so necessary, and I am so glad others felt able to express their experiences. I believe you have always given a well balanced view of South Korea and I have loved all the beautiful places you have showed us. Keep smiling and I know you are going to achieve so much more💐
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Your stories are so interesting, like I don’t even know how you managed to stay a year haha. I only stayed for like 4/5months. I was placed in small city where there weren’t a lot of foreigners around me and pretty much nothing to do. The loneliness was excruciatingly painful. I come home there’s no one to talk to, I go to school, I can barely have a full conversation. Some teachers did speak to me but it was like 1 or 2 but can’t blame them, haha I should be the one learning Korean. But I just felt like I was carrying a sack of loneliness everywhere I went. Though I did meet up with friends on some weekends but the travel was just too much. I liked my school and I liked exploring Korea but that loneliness was what dragged me back home 😔
My experience in Korea (non-teacher) has been great. Talking and listening to others, I can see how people feel this way. "This place is hell", was relayed to me by a Korean woman during a brief conversation. In all instances, do what's best for you.
I’m sad you’re going but I can’t wait to see more of your future adventures and maybe more vlogs 😅 so I can continue to live my life vicariously through you lol!!
You're well-spoken, intelligent and absolutely beautiful. Any country that doesn't welcome you with open arms needs to take a look at themselves.
Glad to know that you picked your mental health regardless of the backlash
You spoke pure facts here. I kind of feel the same... talk about me feeling Monday blues. Sending love babe 🌷
Sending love back! I hope the rest of your week is better ✨✨
Stunning, articulate and obviously very intelligent. I've been to Korea several times and have a family member working there the past 2 years as an English Teacher. She enjoys it. Korea is not for everyone. Korea is for Koreans. Even when you can speak their language you are still not accepted. With a population of a mere 51 million they tend to stick together. Unfortunately as a black (beautiful) girl you will never be accepted because of the stories people hear of blacks. They tolerate white people and those nationalities (Philippines, etc.) that work the labor jobs of the country. If you need a job I will pay you well just to listen to your awesome accent. Wish you well and please stay healthy during these trying times.
I am American and I own an academy in Korea. I hear all your concerns and try to make the workplace, Korean experience as great as possible. I worked as a hagwon teacher for 8 years before owning my own. From both sides, I hear what you're saying. But when it comes to the possibility of moving up and ascending into management, it is hard with teachers because just as you made a choice to leave, most of the teachers I have hired and hire are not here for the long haul. They are here for the experience and leave. Most hagwon managers know that.
Thanks for your video! In the past week I've just done an infamous 'Midnight run', away from Korea, back home to the UK. I am not proud of it, but I don't regret it as my physical and mental health was being so impacted that I couldn't go on.
On my first day, I was told by my three co-workers that they were all going to hand in their notice. Talk about a positive start! Over the next month, I was subject to constant criticism: the management telling me that everything I was doing was wrong, that the parents were complaining about me, etc, etc. That, combined with a very difficult class full of spoilt kids (some no doubt with behavioral issues), a curriculum that was way too advanced, and 70's technology - proved a recipe for disaster!
So many issues would have been resolved if the parents and management recognized that kids are kids and should not be forced to sit for 9 hours a day and work through text book after textbook. For teachers - especially those not super experienced like me - it is like trying to get blood out of a stone! I don't blame the kids, however. It is insanity!
'Toxic' is the go to word to describe the school I was at, and many Hagwons in general (I worked at another one for a few months previous to this).
Just search how much of indians are working in a country ,if number is too low then you shouldnt try , even a indian cant adapt then your chances are negative
Good for you...I am amazed you lasted 2 years....my limit was 9 months, but I am thankful for the insights and lessons learned.
I've lived past 10yrs in Canada but I left there, I wouldn't go back. I had really bad bad experiences by different races.. it's very hard even for reminding what happened with them. I love to be in South Korea now.
I am in Korea as well .. As a teacher working in a hagwon it can be stressful. You are not alone.💚💚💚💚
I think your point on the struggles for foreigners to be able to do well, grow, and flourish in S. Korea is very great one. Thank you for sharing this!
I don't care where you go, I'm a follower for life!!!
I hope you are happy no matter where you live and do whats best for you. I've been living in Tokyo for 3 years and I cant wait to leave this year. I've been super homesick since I haven't been home at all since I landed over 3 years ago.
Ah the homesickness😥💔 I definitely resonate with this!
For the first few years after I left Tokyo, I was homesick, too. It was the only home I knew...but then, I learned English, and the U.S. is the only "home" I remember.
How are things for you in Tokyo?
“Foreigners can’t excel.”
My gross income is $240K. Most foreigners here just don’t know where they are, and don’t want to learn either. They’re young, and just passing thru teaching or whatever. Eventually they realize it’s not the West, and never will be, and run back to their space Anglo-space (which isn’t so safe these days).
Says the white man lol. You have no idea the different exprience people of color in Asia have
@@cjo4210 Yes I do, everyone knows that. But it’s irrelevant to my topic.
The topic is Anglo-culture (which includes all people who grew up in the US/UK/AU/CA/NZ) regardless of skin color. Anglos tend to have no clue where they are, and never learn about other cultures, due to the bigotry and arrogance which IS their culture.
I’ve been here a long time, and seen them fail over and over (all skin colors) because they won’t get out of their Anglo/Western “thought box.” The mere mention of it makes them angry.
Often times when you have good energy people want to use you like a battery and drain you of your energy. I had a lot of difficult experiences too.
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Korea isn't what it used to be. The pay is worse and, at times, so is the treatment of others by people trying to survive in a toxic environment where all they look forward to is the time when they can look down on other people. Hopefully Korea will one day find happiness again.
Awww
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Can’t wait to see what you do next sis❤️ I’m rooting for you!❤️
Wow am 3wks late but I experienced exactly the same thing in China. I had run away . I booked a flight back home without saying bye and have no regrets.😅
Thank you Ro for being you and sharing your experience as a teacher in SK! We appreciate you and your honesty thank you for being real and not changing despite your circumstances, two years in a foreign homogenous country is a long time! Eevery chapter has an ending onto bigger and better things
I feel terrible. I wish I had discovered your channel a long time ago...Oh...I'm so sorry. Gosh, I feel truly awful your time here wasnt as wonderful as it should have been. But, know this...you are BEAUTIFUL!
This is completely unrelated but just had to mention, its insane how beautiful this girl is 👸👸👸
Korea is a tough place to live, and not many can hack it. As a Korean-American myself, I know I wouldn't be able to last more than a year working there. Super competitive environment gets to you after awhile, and most tap out if they have an alternative, and this is why Koreans do well in other countries because they're mentally conditioned for competition. I totally understand why she wants out, and I'm amazed that she lasted two year.
Korean Americans are also very rude
Thanks for updating us, Ro! In case you'd consider moving to a closer country (closer to the US, hehe), don't hesitate in coming here, in El Salvador. Our economy is booming, partly thanks to the BTC adoption, and we definitely need native English teachers :-)
I live in the US with a sizeable Korean populaion in my city. Dealing with them here in the states alrdy gave me a bad impression of them and wouldnt want to visit the country. Im not alone in feeling this way either. My hispanic friends straight up dislike them. The only people i see that wanna live in that country or have a positive view of them are usually the ones that got into kpop or kdrama before actually getting to know them and their behaviours.
Glad to see your made that decision. Living in Japan and having similar experiences made me strong and cruel. I am much colder and ruthless towards people because I’m always cautious about talent suckers and losers. I’m glad u r honest, these westerners who are promoting these countries are doing injustice to all foreigners abroad. I’ll always advise against these countries. I’m glad I left these slavers behind.
I have been wishing to learn the Korean and pursue my career in Korean literature and willing to move there through scholarship programs incase. But your video has helped me out in learning a different perspective as well, definitely korean is not easy for blacks or south asians :(
Thank you for ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS!!! Your HONESTY, POSITIVITY (this is a word), BEAUTY, STRENGTH and INTELLIGENCE. I am 61, female, black and American. I have watched you make the best out of ANY situation, stay BALANCED (without wisdom you cannot keep balance), tell your truth without ATTACK, achieve your stated goals and grow. Continue to be HAPPY, FOCUSED and BLESSED. Only the BEST!!!!!!!!
If you ever get a chance to visit the U.S., Sedona, Arizona is a healing type of place worth checking out. Also, any place you have that has a military base or two you will find quite a few guys chasing you (because you're looking pretty hot), and for some you're accent may turn them on as well. If you're a big comic-book fan, come to San Diego's Comic-Con.. it's usually held around July 22. Just keep in mind that you'll have to purchase tickets a year in advance.
A very specific invite...
Your reasons are valid and honestly speaking, I don't understand why anyone leaves UK, US and Canada to go teach English in Korea under mostly poor conditions. Unless said people are abject misfits, you get better pay at home with much more protection such as sick leave etc. You might even work with people that smiles and are happy with life. stay at home folks! And no, you won't be an idol and make a fortune due to xenophobia😉 Most koreans are put upon so imagine how you'd fare as a foreigner with zero legal protection
They buy into the the culture that South Korean media sells
Wow! Pretty inspiring that you dedicated the last 6 months to your joy. Yes!!! I left way to late when I was the most bitter so I’m really proud of you for making this choice and prioritising your mental health. Btw, you looks stunning!!! 🌟🌟🌟
I really enjoyed your video. I’ve learned so much through you sharing your experience and point of view these past two years. Looking forward to watching you continue to bloom wherever life takes you next.
If you are willing to keep being an english teacher, there are lots of opportunities, my cousin worked at a university, great pay, great hours and lots of time off, but there are only a few of those jobs.
You are absolutely GORGEOUS!! Also, thank you for making this video. It was very informative. :)
Lets be real. Nobody goes over to Korea to make a career out of teaching English there. Usually it's to try out a different country with the job itself being secondary to traveling or doing other fun things. Koreans are well aware of that fact and you will be compensated accordingly. As far as the work culture, its survival of the fittest out there. Us foreigners at least have the option of going back home but to the Koreans there, its their only option and reality. So it's not fair to expect the same work life balance or whatever it is that you are used to back home. It's not extra hard because we are foreigners or whatever. Its like that for everyone there literally. If you think you cant handle that, don't do it.
I think every rant video, of any country, should read this comment.
She’s so pretty but I got distracted by something like a white/yellow cast on her face. Might be the powder not doing so well in that light.
Live your life on your own terms. Great luck.
I’ve so enjoyed watching your videos the past 2 years. So grateful to be a part of the audience to whom you’ve shared your experiences with. I’m so excited to see what you did next!✨💜
So sorry to hear that you had a bad experience in Korea (same as many other people in the comments). It is actually my 3rd in Korea and I am really happy here :) For sure the visas and getting further in your job are things which are true, but I have to say that I think is not really happening that much for programmers (I study AI for medical imaging). I think that the conditions in my field are very good. But as you said, it really depends on everyone's situation, so people should seek as much information as possible before moving to any country.
Thank you so much for acknowledging the plethora of possibilities that can exist for one's discomfort in a foreign country. Many people think they can ask about how a certain race, gender, or body type is treated and then evaluate the country as a whole, but it isn't always this way.
went to a hagwon for a year. stayed on for 7 1/2 years, then the owner retired. wish i was still there. most foreigners left after a year or 2 so i can understand. most of my students were adults so i was innundated with friends. i never hung out with foreigners since my dance card was always full. had so many amazing adventures. glad you had some good times.
irrelevant, but I clicked on this video because you're so pretty!! 🌺
Affer hearing all this I feel less guilty of leaving. I used to think if I just comeback to my country I would be the loser that never could adapt. But after open my heart with my family they truly agree coming back is the best for my freedom and mental health ❤
i just bumped on to your video ... i feel you did great !!! you tried your best to find positivity in every situation and staying in a foreign land must be surely very hard. You took the right decision about leaving because mental health is very important to every human. i am very sure great things / opportunities are ahead waiting for you!!! you got this girl ;)
Ohhh so sad you find yourself uncomfortable in korea, i married a Korean boy and i love Korea... i am so sorry you find korea so bad place, because i love it so much and i love their people. Experience different and i am European so also foreigner but they threat me like a Queen and loves me so i can't talk bad about them, but experience are different i hope you find peace and happyness back to your country Cheers and Good Luck ...
its cuz they worship white people
This is from my vantage point of view! *It was written in your journey of life that *you will pass through Korea* but be mindful that when that journey is over, you can never stay for a second or a minute over*
So Ro move forward not looking back and know that this is just the beginning. Lots of beautiful things awaits you in the future😘
Good Lord, is this woman stunningly beautiful!
I have heard from several people that Korea as a 2050 technology but socially and culturally they are still stuck in the 1920s.. I'm very happy for them that in the past decade they have pulled themselves up on a World class level, but along with that comes the responsibility of increasing socially also and not being left behind in Dark Ages!
I Love Love looovveee you!!! So please don’t stop making Videos even when you are moving back to England. I’m happy that you do the things that are good for you!!!
Astrologically, you may not have the best lines there if we’re talking about energy and energy alone. But outside of that you’re right to let go of something that isn’t in alignment with your highest good. There’s a lot of social issues that get swept under the rug or are not talked about because of their defamation laws. You gave it your best shot and stuck it out and did something very few people are brave enough to do. I hope the rest of your travels and journey goes well!
Important questions: Did you achieve your goals? Were your goals reasonable? Was it reasonable to expect that those goals could be achieved in that environment? I wish you the best in your next chapter and hope that this one gave you more tools to make that happen.
Girl, be more specific. It’s not gossip. You could really help prepare someone for what they’re about to go through. It sounds like you’re talking in codes.
Probably RACISM
My classmate had this experience in the mid 00's after we graduated college. She said S. Korea was an awful experience and she's white. It's like they are begging for foreign teachers but don't really want foreign teachers. She said the parents at the private school were so entitled and would speak to her like she was a dog and she said the black teachers were treated even worse.
She then went to Japan, and then finally China. She's much happier in China. There isn't anything wrong with protecting your mental peace.
Mental peace in china in covid lockdown?
I am on the fence about which between S.Korea and Japan is the worst when it comes to foreigners and work related issues. Considering also you are a woman and black, I think it weights even more on your shoulders. Not to imply they are racist at all, but you stand out as non Asian.
My understanding of Korean work environment is that is one of a kind like the japanese one, so we can't judge people for choosing rightfully to leave, for choosing their own mental and physical well being over a lifestyle that doesn't resonate with their soul purpose. I know it very well as I suffered in the past while living in Canada, where I immigrated from Italy. I had all I wanted, a great career, friends, free of any unfulfilling relationship,but after the first seven years of real growth despite some ups and downs, I became increasingly unhappy. And Canada is much easier as it is a western country. I just felt my time there was kinda up, at least for the time being ( I still have Canadian citizenship) Now I am happily married and I live in Japan, blissfully unaware of the work environment as I am just a plain housewife. So be it, take it from here to the next adventure, you are awesome.
you are very pleasant to look at and listen to lol
very pretty and relaxing to the ears and mind
and thats something i havent said before
As l speak right now l am on my way to work & the Taxi driver is taking me pictures 😭😭🚮 … Our experiences in China are bitter sweet ….sending hugs to all of the women of color.