Chatty Work With Me - Uncomfortable Situation At The Thrift, Mercari Fee Update & More!
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I think his girlfriend yelled at him and got out of the car. He wanted to prove he was right by getting you to agree you should have given him the spot. Anyway you handled it well. I am old and have no sense so I would have read him the riot act.
Guy sounds like an entitled creep. Obviously used to getting his way 100% of the time and couldn’t handle you not coddling his ego. What a weird situation. Hard to believe someone would act that way.
Exactly! I would have called the cops.
You’ve encountered a real narcissist in the wild. I knew people like that. They live to do poop like this and it just always amazes me the lengths they go to intimidate other people. Even him saying to another man “ Am I being aggressive?” Is one of their tactics. Ignoring is the best way to deal with them in my experience.
My thoughts exactly - narcissist alert! 😂
Yes, this exactly. I feel so bad for his girlfriend too
I LOVED having Robert in your videos! It was so much fun seeing reselling from his eyes.
More to come!
You are Gorgeous. People are strange. Don’t allow anyone’s stupid judgements affect you. I love your videos. ! 😊
Your Robert video was so nice and you were cutely giddy and it was so sweet ❤ thank you for sharing a personal part of your life that you did not have to. You share enough of your life and you are allowed to have some parts of your life private! Sorry some people don’t think before they comment.
You are so kind
The amount of entitlement these days is sickening!!!! The guy passed the parking spot.Next in line gets it.. Common courtesy. Great video!!!
Lol! My husband is almost 4 years younger than me-you’re right it’s no big deal! My husband is bald and looks older than me and he’s certainly more mature than me! Enjoy him and ignore the thoughtless comments!
Thanks! I’m always just trying to share a variety of topics on these. Lol, 3 years is nothing to me.
I’m the same way with ThredUP boxes now. I’ve also gotten my inventory under 1000 items and changed my eBay store to reflect that. So if I keep a bunch of low dollar items that are going to sit for a year they will end up costing me money in the long run for the larger eBay store.
I do frequent BST stores often and bring acceptable things that I won’t list there first, but if they don’t take it I either donate or if thredUP takes the brand I send it back in my next clean out kit. It’s all about rotation for me now. I don’t want to hoard things, I want them moving.
I feel you on being burnt out from the instability of self employment. I just got trained in on a part time job this week for a little bit of consistent pay.
Hope that works out! I’m sure some consistency will help!
Spring was always my best sales in Real Estate.
Then Summer would come and I would have more time to work in my garden which I love.
I'm going to list more sweaters & coats this Summer and be more ready for fall.
Just save a House sale paycheck or two to live on in Summer. That's how I did real estate for 20+ years.
One time I was driving from my home in buffalo NY, to my beach house in cape may NJ(~400 miles) alone with my two kids. In the middle of PA there was an abrupt lane closure and I put my blinker on and had to merge. A dude-bro in a big pickup acted like I side swiped him-when I safely merged at a normal distance-and proceeded to then follow me off the thruway in the next rest area. He then approached my vehicle and started knocking on my windows. I immediately called the police. They came fairly quickly and got the guy to F off but it was to this day the absolutely most terrifying moment of my life. If it was a woman, would have been scared but not as scared as I was. Men should never ever ever approach a woman in a conflict situation like that bc we all think the worst, as we should. Now I have a taser and a pepper spray in my car lol
As a buyer on Mercari I have stopped buying I don’t want to pay the buyers fee.
Thanks for sharing!
Loved seeing you and Robert do a video together. Some people have no common sense.
My Mom was 6 years older than my Dad, they were married 47 years and died 87 days apart. Age doesn't matter when you find the right one ❤
Oh and the crazy parking lot guy, i once did the same thing with a psycho woman who ran a stop sign on a narrow street and expected me to back down the street so she could get through...i put it in park also and got comfy, she eventually moved. Some people 😂
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I had an elderly lady in a dance class that came up to me and said she liked my top. The top I was wearing was a bit roomy around the middle. She went on to ask me if I was pregnant. I was so shocked because I was 62 yrs old! I couldn’t help but laugh and say no that I wasn’t but I was flattered. It would be a miracle If I was because I’m 62. We both got a big laugh out of that.😂 As far as you and your honey, thank you for sharing him with us. He’s a doll! Love your channel❤
lol, thanks for sharing!
I am 5 years older then my husband. But everyone thinks I am the younger one. But as you say Whatever it does not matter. Loved seeing Robert.
Thank you! 💕
I have tried selling several times for several months on Mercari. The amount of time i spent crosslisting there does not pay off for my time. I have 1200 listings on it and would get 2 sales a month. Posh i have 10 a day same for ebay. so mercari is a no go for me, even with the less fees.
Thank you for sharing!!
You go past a spot…that’s it! Incredible!
OMG that narcissist is crazy. His girlfriend better run!
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I feel that you handled that situation perfectly. You responded in the best way possible by remaining calm and not giving into him (aka fueling his frenzy-narcissism) when he confronted you. There are people who behave badly throughout the world. This particular man that you encountered sounds very much like a malignant narcissist if not a psychopath or sociopath. First off by backing his car up and not budging and then maneuvering into YOUR parking spot! Secondly, by confronting you in order to attempt to get you to validate his narcissistic bad behavior as good. That is totally insane on his part. I have lived in So Cal my entire life and have to say that most people here are very nice. I live on the outer perimeter of LA County (Santa Clarita) and thankfully, have never encountered such a person. When my husband and I watch/watched COPS, Live PD and On Patrol Live, it never ceases to shock us how badly people in these other states behave. I am not saying that people like that are not here because I've seen some on the news. Thankfully we haven't been exposed to them. I am always uncomfortable going into Los Angeles and Hollywood, especially the garment district, so I never go without an entourage of family members as there's safety in numbers. I will say that people definitely do drive worse the more one gets closer to the heart of LA and Hollywood, as the traffic is WAY more intense. Thank goodness you got out of that situation safely. Looking forward to your future videos as it is always a pleasure to watch them. Blessings, Have a Beautiful 2024 and Stay Safe! 😃
Robert slayed on the Thread Up video. Also I never noticed any age difference. I think you are gorgeous and he’s a hunka’ hunka’ burning love! Great video! Thank you
I also went through that, being tired of reselling.. I quited Dec
I was so happy to see him in your videos 💕. You are so cute together ❤. Don’t let the negativity affect you!
Happy belated birthday! Thanks for another great Chatty Work With Me! I got 25 new listings up while listening. See ya next time! :)
I’m so annoyed FOR you. You were NOT in the wrong! And yes, cheers to La Croix! My fav flavor is Limoncello
Love that flavor, too!
He was an AH about the parking! Glad you didn’t have to deck him. 😊
Me too!!
Now you have me wanting to go back to the video of the Thred-Up boxes. Too, just ignore people's comments. I really think people say stuff just to get things going... You don't have to share your personal life ever. Your reseller content is awesome standing alone.. Keep up the good work and don't let the nonsense get to you.
I've not gotten around to watching the video but when it popped on my feed, my first thought was that you looked happy. Also, START being a big birthday person. You're an original, and that is to be celebrated .
Ughhh so sorry that happened to you. It's one of the reasons I stopped going to the Bins. There were some really sketchy people there and I had one really bad interaction that scared the heck out of me!
I have been crosslisting on Mercari for awhile now. I have noticed that I am getting significantly more sales now that they have implemented the return policy. So far I haven't had any returns. I had reservations initially, but they only have a small window to initiate the return so "renting" would be extremely difficult and I write really good item descriptions most of the time (complete with measurements) so I'm hoping returns won't become an issue. I have returns turned on for most of my ebay items with the exception of health and beauty aids/makeup since I know I don't swatch items I intend on selling but can't guarantee a buyer making a return didn't. I'd much rather have a return than an INAD or a person maliciously damage something to try to force the return.
This video was just so relatable to me it’s crazy. FYI, you handled that guy wayyyy better then me, I have a big Sicilian mouth (but I’m only 5’2”) and it probably would’ve turned into a situation. I’ve been a full time reseller for 5 years and currently looking for a permanent job again so that reselling can be on the side. And lastly, I’m exactly 3 years older than my husband and don’t think it’s a huge age difference 🤷🏻♀️ Happy Belated Birthday 🎉
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I’m sorry you had to go thru that. So glad you are ok. Thanks for doing a chatty video I really enjoy them
Your channel is very good. Remember, there are so many mentally I’ll people in Los Angeles who are ticking time bombs, just move on as you can’t rationalize with crazy. I’m glad it didn’t escalate anymore.
Thanks for the chatty, that guy was a weirdo, Your gentleman friend seemed sweet. Don't let the comments get you down.
Great that life is going so well for you! I love to hear about peoples happiness😅❤
I have decent sales on Mercari. Never had a return or bad review. Many sellers have left , but I’ll hangout until it’s a problem for my business. Word is that they are on the verge of bankruptcy.
I signed up for Mercari,
I have 1 item listed lol.
I wanted to see the difference from Posh & Ebay. I've been on ebay since 1999. Poshmark since Dec 2023.
Mercari is really pushing sellers to give free shipping now that there are no fees. But they don't have the shipping options like ebay or Posh.😊
Three years is nothing. My husband of ten years is 6 years younger than me and we are both over 55. Since women tend to outlive men, I think it was a good strategy! Lol
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Love your video's Courtney! Ignore those comments. You look great together! Agree about doing all the work on items that are not worth it. Going through all my Inventory and donating some and lowering prices as well. Take care;
Oh man I hear you about being self-employed! Been doing re-sale full-time for over 6 years no but going through all of these feelings today... browsing jobs on Indeed right now. ALSO, married to the love of my life who is 3 years younger than me and looks younger than he is too. I don't even think about it until I see photos of the 2 of us. But if he doesn't care, then I don't either :)
I’m with you that the crazy guy’s behavior was unacceptable & aggressive. He probably didn’t like that you stood your ground- he’s probably used to getting his way.
It’s so interesting how brands in demand change over time. I used to be able to sell certain denim brands that I can’t sell now to save my life.
Your work with me videos are awesome! 😊
I've noticed more entitlement in people as well as people who seem to live for escalating conflict. I hate it. That was a tough and random situation. Glad you are ok.
Thank you!! 💕
I bet he wouldn’t have pulled that with another man. He was being a bully.
I love your chatty work with me videos! I have shoes from thread up boxes that have literally been sitting for 4 years, so I get why you don't list some of them. I made a profit on all of the boxes, so not a biggie, but when I ordered the boxes I looked at it as just for fun. Everyone's business model is different. As I am approaching 50, I have noticed that some people in their 20s and 30s have a sense of entitlement. I think that's what that ass wipe's deal was. The older I get, the more I just want to stay at home and not deal with people 😂😅😅😅
Great video. Sorry about the parking spot jerk - his girlfriend needs to see the light & leave him. I liked meeting Robert - you 2 seem great together. Now I have a face to put with his name. Looking forward to your next video!
My cousin is dating someone who happens to “look” way younger than her but isn’t. When she posted photos comments were made mistakenly about her robbng the cradle.
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I use to drive in the Bay area, it was crazy and the dot comers were the worst.
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All I can think when I see those wholesale companies advertising boxes of those trendy brands is “how many people are out here buying the same ideas to resell and oversaturating these styles?” The only wholesale I like is thrifting wholesale, people who thrift specifically for resellers. I can be sure they’re not finding the a ton of the same piece for a bunch of people, you can tell the wholesaler your list of buy and don’t-buy items and some will let you pick individual items instead of mailing you a box of random junk you don’t get to vet first
A younger guy driving a Land Rover = not used to being told NO, and probably was struggling with the reality that the world doesn't revolve around them. Good life lesson. I live in a little town that was amazing prior to Covid... post covid New Yorkers and Connecticut elite have moved in and pretty much ruined this town. THEY ALL behave like this guy. He only wanted to show you why you were wrong and he was right... I bet you kept him up all night! LOL... good for you for standing your ground. I list on Mercari via my cross listing platform. I havent sold ANYTHING since the fees went away. I am sure my prices are too high now... they don't have a bulk edit, so now my new listings are going up with free shipping to help absorb the buyers fee. We will see... Poshmark hasn't been great either for me, but I must admit, I have been busy with my Appraisal business... so I have not been listing either.
Late to the party here! A couple of years ago I got the “when are you due?” comment. I was 60 at the time! I wasn’t sure if I should be flattered or furious! People are unreal!
Cloudveil is Costco
My husband and I have had that situation come up many times! Once you pass the spot it’s NOT yours. What a POS.
Sorry that happened to you. That guy was an entitled bully. I probably would have called the cops if I felt threatened.
You are brave dealing with that guy, being by yourself. I live like an hour south of LA and I won't go there alone....I used to though. {Now, I am way older than you and I like getting stuff delivered to me lol.} If anyone was confrontational with me like that, I would let them have it! If he would not leave I would pull out my phone and call the cops.
lol, I’m glad it didn’t get that far 😅
I love your videos. Thanks for sharing.
Happy Belated Birthday!
I like your Chatty work videos.
Thank you!
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Thank you!!
I think you were right but I would have driven away. There are too many people who start shooting at other people for stupider things.
A somewhat sneaky thing Mercari did is you are still being charged the seller fee if you don’t update your listing. I sold something about a week ago and got 10% fee and will have the withdrawal fee as well when I want to transfer money.
😂😂you crack me up!!
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Glad to see you back,we missed you❤
Thank you! 🤗
Sounds like Soren and Luna were definitely meant to be brother and sister. Neither likes daycare or are big social butterflies lol but hey that's ok. I still love them both 🙃 Give them some extra scratches and lovin for just being the best friends man could ask for. I have 4 boy dogs that are my world even though they drive me nuts! Lol✌️💜
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I love the no seller fees on mercari, but now there's like zero buyers. Plus the return for any reason.... it's just a mess tbh
Omg I had to comment again to say this. People can be so rude with their age assumptions. My husband went prematurely gray from having radiation for an illness, and his hair never went back. So people think he is 10+ years older than me, but we are only 4 years apart. We have had many many rude comments over the years………..
I think you should do a What brands I won’t buy anymore
He could of been of drugs. Please be careful. Still listening 👂.
The audacity of that freak. Also I would have guessed you were in your 40s. Your skin is amazing
Mecari lost me with their shipping rates. I use ebay as well as crosslist to posh. Personally i think they should just fix shipping rates. having to adjust or use a 3rd party to do my shipping annoying so i avoid. They could figure out how to do cubic rates or offer flat rate shipping options.
People should never comment on other peoples appearance, PERIOD!!!!! I lost so much weight due to medical issues, and used to hide from people because I couldn’t take the comments about my weight 😢 Thank god I started lifting weights and gained the weight back because it made me feel very depressed.
7:24 there’s give & take in all situations & it sounds like he thinks he’s entitled. I’ve met so many people that behave just like him & it’s really unfortunate. Sorry that happened to you.
You should keep pepper spray in your purse just in case because people are acting nuts these days.
That guys is a true asshole, I can't believe he thought he was right! You are right to be uncomfortable, these days people are crazy and could cause bigger problems. Once when I was waiting for my husband outside his workplace, a guy stopped his car and asked me to roll down the window, when I did (I didn't know any better) he threw water at me. You were in the right for not moving the car, people should stop giving in to his demands, I think he believes he is a king or someone really important. If someone does something like that, and you are able to record it, it would be good because if things escalate, you have evidence. I am glad you are safe, I know things could have gotten worse because people these days are very violent and things escalate very quickly.
People get shot over parking spaces in cities. Best to let them have it but I’ve never learned to do that myself.
You were being nice I would of told him off 🤣😂😂 I would of honk when he was backing up too. I am so sick of people that think that they are special and treat other people that way. Would he have done that if a dude was sitting in his car? 🤔 He has no respect. I am glad you are ok🙂I notice the cute smart wool pants you were steaming🤣😂
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That dude was crazy. He probably is a narcissis and just wanted to get his way. He passed the spot. Tough nut!
Hi. I just recently found your channel. I like that you're in LA county. I'm from there. I saw the video with Robert. You do not look older than him at all. I think it was sweet of him to want to be a part of what you do. So many men don't have that kind of interest. It was a fun video to watch. On dogs: I rescued a dog at 4.5 years old. He was basically unadoptable. He like my 2 previous dogs were returned by previous owners. All my dogs were sweet loving best buds to me. Toby my current dog never socialized with other dogs or people. He's tolerant of my relatives who visit. He hates strangers, loud noises and things with wheels. Lol. He never learned outside potty training so I have an indoor area for him. I tried teaching him too. He pooped as soon as he came back inside. He has some medical issues that I find hard to cover.
But, I would not ever give him up. He's my baby who's now 14. He's cuddly and lovable. You probably already have plenty of chew toys for your dogs. I think you have to catch him in the "bad" act then give him a chew toy to replace it . Very soon after I got Toby, I found a chewed up shoe. He never chewed anything else. No idea why. Maybe he was scared of the new environment. Anyway, sorry if I'm telling you what you already know.
Love your videos and I am subscribed.
Thanks for sharing!!
Ugh, the creepy guy🙄. I work in local government, gone are the days of common respect and decency. I am so happy that you stood your ground, I can absolutely tell you that if you were not a woman he would not have approached you. Guys like that only try to bully those that they perceive to be weak, unfortunately they see women that way😒.
Your videos are great. Yes some people can be rude. I got both comments too. Are you pregnant & how old is your husband?? I’m 8 years older & we are god willing this year be 15 years married with 4 beautiful kids. Courtney you are beautiful inside out & I think you both are cute couple. Have a great day & thanks for your videos 😊
I want both of your parking spots. You and that guy. LOL
That guy sounds like an entitled jerk! That is pretty weird that he approached you like that. The video with and Robert was fun! 😊
I'm sorry this happened to you. I had a s*xual encounter with a man in the thrift store parking lot four months ago. I was not hurt. I was traumatized and didn't want to go back. But it is my honey hole, where I get the majority of my inventory and have powered through it. But it has been hard.
"She" was jealous because your boyfriend is a hottie and he's yours, not "hers." 99% percent of women that say those off the wall things are the jealous type.
My understanding is there will be no seller LISTING fees. It still will still charge a 10% commission on sale and the $2 processing fee. Thus there are still fees for the seller. PS - The guy was a jerk! pss... I also had someone ask me when I was due just because I was in the maternity Department of a store. I immediately responded back that I was just fat like they were...lmao... Technically i wear a size 12 so..... people are just so rude. psss... 3 years age difference is nothing. Back in the day I often dated guys 13 years younger and they never suffered for it. My current long term 20 years so far is 15 years older than me. Age means nothing.
Happy Birthday 🎂
I'm between the rock and hard place too. I agree it's good to have options. We all love the flexibility but it can be so consuming mentally. When I crunch numbers and look at how much I'd make if reselling was my side job I wonder if I would enjoy making a switch. I absolutely miss paid vacations and 401k. How much is the dilemma.
Hopefully we both figure things out soon 😅
Cloudveil is either great or meh depending. It used to be an amazing brand, but then it got sold/bought and the quality took a nose dive. If it's merino wool and feels akin to smartwool its likely one of their older/nice pieces.
Good to know!
I would have probably replied, "Okay Grandma Cougar. Didn't I just see you at the Italian restaurant with your boy toy?" Lol. But, seriously, ignore these oddball people. If they don't have something nice to say they should probably keep their mouth silent...Love your videos...
I think after the guy approached me in the store to "talk about it" I would have said you are harassing me and I will call the police if you don't walk away now
Unfortunately there are people whose egos tell them that they are right ALL THE TIME and that feeling inside that they were wrong has to be stamped down by you validating that it was YOU not them. These people stink and those around them can’t stand it any more so they get the heck away when the ego flares up
I just love you ❤ in a very non creepy way 😂 that whole deal about Robert and age- I was cracking up, you are so funny, and you are right, never comment on bodies or ages, I’m super happy for you even if you are a cradle robber 😂😂😂😂 great video as always 💗💗💗
Thank you! 💕
She probably made him go apologize and he was pretending
Maybe!
I'm 7 years older than my husband!
People are so weird, you were way nicer to both the parking space guy and the comment about your video. I am getting ready to turn 52 and something about my 50's has made my filter change lol! People just don't think before they type anymore 🤦♀️ My dogs have left the outside cushions alone so far but my crazy girl likes to drag blankets and towels outside and play tug-o-war with them. Idk how many throw blankets I've had to replace 😂
lol, I was probably way nicer explaining the situation than in real life 😂
I would have called the cops as soon as he wouldn’t move his vehicle. People are crazy and I trust no one
Maybe he didn't understand that once you roll past the spot you lose it to the next driver. Young inexperienced drivers don't seem to get the rules... I get a lot of that spot stealing and ppl who like to drive in the left turn lane and pass on the left... geez-o-petes