MBSR, The Attitude of Letting Go by Jon Kabat-Zinn
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LETTING-GO
Brain Research shows the hardest thing for the brain to do, is to let go of thoughts.
For this reason, cultivating the attitude of letting go, or non-attachment, is fundamental to the practice of mindfulness. When we start paying attention to our inner experience, we rapidly discover that there are certain thoughts and feelings and situations that the mind seems to want to hold on to. If they are pleasant, we try to prolong these thoughts or feelings or situations, stretch them out, and conjure them up again and again.
Similarly there are many thoughts and feelings and experiences that we try to get rid of or to prevent and protect ourselves from having because they are unpleasant and painful and frightening in one way or another.
In the meditation practice we intentionally put aside the tendency to elevate some aspects of our experience and to reject others. Instead we just let our experience be what it is and practice observing it from moment to moment. Letting go is a way of letting things be, of accepting things as they are. When we observe our own mind grasping and pushing away, we remind ourselves to let go of those impulses on purpose, just to see what will happen if we do. When we find ourselves judging our experience, we let go of those judging thoughts. We recognize them and we just don't pursue them any further. We let them be, and in doing so we let them go. Similarly when thoughts of the past or of the future come up, we let go of them. We just watch.
If we find it particularly difficult to let go of something because it has such a strong hold over our mind, we can direct our attention to what "holding on" feels like. Holding on is the opposite of letting go. We can become an expert on our own attachments, whatever they may be and their consequences in our lives, as well as how it feels in those moments when we finally do let go and what the consequences of that are. Being willing to look at the ways we hold on ultimately shows us a lot about the experience of its opposite. So whether we are "successful" at letting go or not, mindfulness continues to teach us if we are willing to look.
Letting go is not such a foreign experience. We do it every night when we go to sleep. We lie down on a padded surface, with the lights out, in a quiet place, and we let go of our mind and body.
If you can't let go, you can't go to sleep.
Most of us have experienced times when the mind would just not shut down when we got into bed. This is one of the first signs of elevated stress. At these times we may be unable to free ourselves from certain thoughts because our involvement in them is just too powerful. If we try to force ourselves to sleep, it just makes things worse.
So if you can go to sleep, you are already an expert in letting go. Now you just need to practice applying this skill in waking situations as well.
Source-Full Catastrophe Living, by Jon Kabat-Zinn
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The way he speaks is very soothing
Thank you. Post more please we need it. I've been looking for this my whole life or maybe I was ready. I'm learning, thank you
I feel the exact same way. I need this right now. I am aware that I can choose how I think. This is very powerful!
Dear god this guy is wonderful. I just went though a bad breakup and a friend of mine pointed me to this video. This guy actually sorta reminds me of Alan Watts when Alan Watts says if you love it let it go.
this man is an genius, thank you
Letting go means don't worry about stuff that is out of your control because you can't do anything about it anyway. Focus on those issues that are within your control to change or manage. Once you solve enough issues in this manner you'll be even better at identifying those issues within your control and those not within your control in the future. Life is a series of issues to solve and being able to identify them and categorize them quickly on a regular basis gives you the confidence to tackle anything.
I life well spent is a life where you can reflect on all the issues you solved and how they impacted you positively making you feel accomplished. No matter how much you accomplish you will always have regret at the end but don't waste time regretting stuff that wasn't within your control anyway.
buy his books on audio on audible.this guy is the real deal!
Smart words.
How do you develop the habit of letting go?
MBSR -- works wonderfully if you truly practice it. And the more you practice, the easier it gets to let go...
See the situation as it truly is and not what we want it to be. To want any situation to be different than it is as any given moment is impossible. If it were to different than it is, it already would be at any given time.