The sad part about all this is that the mother in law doesen't even realize how they are a Dictator is breaking their sons marriage! They take it easy that the daughter in law is doing and adjusting to Everything and take it for granted untill they cross the limits of Allah and when she finally speaks up, their son who was spoiled by his parents from the beginning, takes the mothers/fathers side and has no brain to protect and stand up for his own wife, be just and a guardian. Narssistic behaviour, mental illness is a big problem in society, which can lead to divorce, because of crazy behaviour and giving no thoughts of what the result of it may be. May Allah never let this happen to any women. Ameen Ya rabbul alameen. Great Lecture Mufti Menk. MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU. AMEEN
Due to family politics and misunderstandings my marriage is over and it is not bearable at all. Every second I die with all those thoughts. Some people neva understand that they have to slightly change their behavior and routine. His parents could save our relationship but now ego is much more important than relationship. Every time , every mistake is at my side they are free of all their daughters are right. Sisters I have no feelings to live anymore
My God I am so happy there is someone to talk about the subject about the rights of women I have had lots of issues I have daughters I I really fear for them I pray they have a good life
I really needed this right now. You would think during Ramadan people would walk the straight path with precision....I am a mother that suffers greatly simply because I am American revert for over 20 years! I never make my children choice between me or their spouses, me or their father, me or their inlaws..When Mufti mentioned holidays, I started crying, I spend my alone as they celebrate together and it hurts.....I give it to Allah every prayers ...my prayer rug is wet with tears. But I trust Allah plans. Sometimes Allah takes toxic people from your life when you cant do it ourselves. Forgive me if I said something wrong but this hit me very hard! JazakAllahKheir
My ex husband never protect me😔 I pray n hope that ALLAH send me a BETTER SPOUSE in THE FUTURE ,,,,, IN SYAA ALLAH 😇 AAMIIN YAA ROBBAL'ALAMIIN where are you my FUTURE HUSBAND 🤭 I'm RIGHT HERE WAITING FOR U to come to PROPOSE n MARRYING ME in REAL LIFE😊are U lost somewhere else 🤭
Subhanallah my husband was a good man and he always guide me for everything and help me to change more and praise to allah 💑 jazzakallahu khair mufti menk 😭
Testimony. I was a cleaner in a company and my wife left me for another man and things was very tight with me financially until i met the spiritual healing spell. who turn my life around for good. he make me a manager of the company where i was working as a cleaner and bring back my ex wife within 24 hours and now I'm wealthy living with my lovely wife. contact him through. drpaulspellcaster@yahoo.com cell line +2347013291233 reach him if you have any painful problem
I agree. I have sacrificed a lot to accommodate my husbands wants and dreams and he has achieved. Now I pray he reciprocates by maybe not sacrificing but paying forward his gratitude and compromising as well as contributing back to that which I want for our lives to be better. I pray for our hearts to become one again
Subhan Allah mufti menk always surprise me by saying things dats very true about real life. even I hv gone through all such circumstances .Alhamdulillah my husband s very understanding so I am out of it n now Masha Allah Vry happy
i am 9 mnth pregnant ...i am really going through tough time bcz my mother in law hates when my husband spend time with me.iam in my home for delivery and she is not allowing my husband to come and see me exept for routine check up..so i cried the whole day .....i dont know how i find a solution ...plz pray for me....
May ALLAH bless u and all of us sister... Ur husband should balance between u and his mother... It is not permissible for him to leave u alone in such a pain
Pray for her to become good to you and Talk to your husband nicely about it, if he Loves you he will think about it if he do not love you you have other way to get rid of this problem. Insha Allah.
Make duah to allah and love your mother and father in law and watch the husband will love you and the in-laws ganna give their heart. Trust me you sacrifice a little you gain more which most girls dont realise.
I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else needs to find out about how to save your marriage try Tarbetti Marriage Improver Tutor (just google it ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my partner got amazing results with it.
That's not true for everyone. And some love goes because one or the other spouse doesn't know how to grow up or give their spouse quality time. Or maybe doesn't show enough love, or is always busy doing something other than being with their spouse...
My mother in law she always hurt me by saying wrong words and wen I say something so later on she cries that she started first...and at that moment I feel very shocked.my husband starts fighting with me.what to do???
I’m hearing an Islamic speech in life now , heard loads n loads but it’s perfect speech subhanallah 😍 I feel now I’m hearing 1st time may Allah bless u
I badly need Dua for my marriage. There is A LOT of anger in my husband and he is very verbally abusive to me and then tells me I should tolerate him because he doesn’t mean what he says when he’s angry. But my mind and heart can’t justify this. It feels like he does not love me at all or even care one bit about how his behavior makes me feel completely broken. Then he turns around and blames me for HIS words and behavior. Tells me I shouldn’t have angered him. I don’t want to lose him. Allah gave us each other for a reason. But I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m hurting so so so badly at his hands and he knew the pain I’ve experienced at the hands of other humans and promised me I would never ever feel this way with him. But honestly I feel like his abuse has been far worse than any other I’ve experienced. How can I possibly make our marriage better again? What more am I to do and tolerate to stay with this man Allah meant for me? Please help!
Use your brain? If your girlfriend did that to you,would you still be friends with her? Are some of you women that desperate to stay in marriage? Go and seek a marriage therapist,and Islamic one ,do that and see ,but if it's not working out,please use your head
May god bless you . I love to hear your preach you are so blessed by god chosen one from last two days I hear your Gods speech I sleep so late at night till 2:30 am. Thank you so much for making us understanding what we all have to do in our daily life . Amen
Salaam Alaikum Mufti Menk. True speaking. Many are speaking with a split tongue and One Eye. Many wisdom in this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Praise the Lord of the worlds every day. Alhamdolilah
My husband hassan mehtar He introduced me with a girl who he love & she rejected him and he come to me he knows that I will be hurt but he still asked me quations did she say anything did she asked anything? Seriously mufti menk how could he even I can't sleep well tonight can't eat can't stay without thinking it's not because is anger 💔 is because I love my husband he takes so naturally , but if he see am watching BTS he gets angry and before marriage I was cool & lots of friends but I don't have anyone Alhamdulillah
Brother you are so helpful to listen to. Thank Allah we will all stay strong no matter the circumstances for He knows our limits and won’t test us beyond what He knows we can handle. He is the Most High
Salam Alaykum Brothers & Sister. I am going through such a test that some days I feel like I can't take it anymore. Please make dua for me and my family. I love my wife and children don't want to lose them. The Shaytan is trying to break my life. If you reading this please make due for me & my family.
Please help me ... Pray for me I'm so sadness my marriage not happy .. I'm trying to save for my kids but why still he cheated me many times ... Please help me
Insha allah please dont leave your husband im a broken husband myself and i dont wish that on anyone pray for him forgive him show him the light mufti menk is trying to show us tell him why your forgiving him and what you expect of him wallahi if i had the chance i will do anything for my wife and kids back i cant eat or sleep walahi i cant remember the last time i had a good sleep i miss my wife and kids so so much im finding it imposible to live without them please make dua for us please
I’m making dua for you and all who are suffering in this situation. May your trials be an expiation for your sins and a means for entry into Jannatul Firdous, dear sister. Ameen🌸
I made biggest mistake marrying my husband. I married him to please my parents I thought I’d fall In love with him eventually but where married 15 years and I really respect him but I don’t love him . And I am so miserable with him . Cause I’m just not attracted to him never was . I feel so so so bad for it . I’ve tried so hard to be love him but I don’t like his personality.
I was married for 8 years and I felt same when I hit 5 years mark so I try for 3 more years, then I realized we not get anywhere I made decision to tell her my feelings. and now we divorce she is happy moved on and I moved on now I'm married and happy maybe you should tell him your feelings and see where you end up
11 things to do on Friday 1. shower ghusl 2. Cleaning teeth with miswak 3. Going to the mosque on foot 4. Applying perfume 5. Wear clean and dress good 6. Reading Surah al kahf 7. Siting close to the imam and listening proper to the khutba 8. Reaching masjid early 9. Making lots of dua 10. Min 100 Tasbeeh 11. Making 2 counts of sadaqa at the masjid or making someone to do it And if you comment this you will earn sadaqa jaraiya for who Apply’s and uses these things to do
Please make dua for my estranged wife. I pray that she sees clearly how we both let the Devil in our ears. I’m now realizing and doing the hard work to get my marriage (that I destroyed) back into the grace of Allah. I pray for the day she also breaks from the whispers of Shaytan. Everything on Allah’s time.
Why don’t you just live separately from your parents? I simply can’t imagine living with your parents under the same roof with your wife and kids and even your brothers and sisters who aren’t married... I never read the Koran, but in Holy Scriptures it is said that Genesis 2:24 Verse Concepts For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
Come on women, be Smart your mission is not to war with .......rather focus on the Deen and Love Allah know Him believe me Everything will be in your hand, insha Allah
Now a days aftr seeing others married lyfs all the girls max will decide not to get married evn for one time..bcpz that wil b the bad exp for the entire lyf which i am facing...bcoz they dont like my way of behaviour n attitude n don't like their back bitching about me....Allah should take me out of all this hell...
parents must stop meddling in marriages. Basically if your parents are unhappy with eachother they become possessive of the children, even when these are grown up and forge their own relationships.
Thank you so much Menk ji, sometimes my goose bumps can be seen - what you say is already in my heart and have experienced this too. Married and yet not married - aap samjhe?
Syurga for husband still with his mother. Syurga for wife still with her husband. Give and take, understanding, respect, and grateful is very important. Sharing, caring, loving, giving, forgiving.
E Allah ke bande jab Bhi Meri ummed tut jati hei to mein apki baton ko talash karti hu or mujhe essa ehsas lagta hei AP mere sath ho ankho se ek ansu sirf nikalti hei kyunki apki har ek bat Meri Zindagi se wakif hei jis tarha AP Bat karte ho ehsas Bhi rone lagta hei apki lafzo ke wajese Meri ankho se anso ati HEI lekin sirf Sach ke wajese
its been 1 year im suffere and keep on sabr just to protect my family,but at this moment i am tired cause mg husband pushing me away,He choose her over me and our 6 kids
Can someone please tell me why my husband is spending more time at his sisters twenty years after our wedding I kind of accepted him being close to his family now that the kids are big I thought we would do things together but that's not happening I'm only included in family gatherings or attending family weddings I feel this is just to show others we live under one roof but hardly have a conversation.what should I do
Assalamu alaikum, i m a mother of three sons alhumdulila with 3 c sections. The day we got married til now v fight with each other. My husband used to slang with his bad words to my sisters n my parents, then later on he started to beat me. My 3 pregnancies went with trauma a lot, he used to beat me in my pregnancies also but ds time he did so much dat he beated me like anything my bloody came from my mouth. M yateem now 13 years back my mother died in mecca during hajj n 7 months back my father died. My husband's mother supports him whatever he does even he has warned me dat he will kill me n burry dat nobody coms to know n will say to everyone dat i ran away with someone. Whut shud i do, shud i b in relationship with him or shud i break it. No days n nights of mine went without crying.
Assallamalekum Please can you elaborate what about the daughter inlaws who disrespects the in laws disobeys their husband do everything which is out of islam
I am married and I told my wife to be respectful to my parents and she refuses and when my parents express that she is not well mannered she tells me that my parents being evil. So now you tell me where the problem started and what caused the issues within marriage? While there are generally evil people out there most parents in law are good but the daughter law doesn't show respect and integrate in the family as a result it bring all the problems.
Mufti menk pls tell me wat shld I do...my husband s not wit from past 5 months there was problem but now my mother in law and sister n law says they r gonna do other marriage for my husband but I have 4 years old daughter. ...wat status d way for me ..i asked so many times to forgive me even after he s not responding
I would advise you that you try find him on twitter page or facebook in shaa Allah and bi idhnillah you will get guidance also from wherever you are find qadhi and you will be guided.
i am a Christ man and my wife is a Muslim we have married for 6 years with Children and we are living happily after 6 to 7 years my wife leave me without having any problems and i don't know what to do because of my Children it will be very had for my children to break up the marriage just like that. i don't know what to do
What will a husband do tell me when he respect his mother a lot and love his wife if two people can't adjust what will a husband do I am in this situation right now. What will I do I respect and love mother very much but I don't want to leave my wife I don't want to destroy her life.its a pain when you have to choose one from your beloved
Witth marriage issue it all depends on who ur with preety much...if ur with a true gentleman who loves an cares bout you then of course ur marriage with that person will last an ur love will be stronger...but obviously if ur with a wrong person then of course the marriage wont last knowing there will be no real love or care an there will be no marriage values at all...its simple as that...thanks for the video mufti may allah bless u...👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😏😏😏😏👼👼👼👼👼👼👼👼
Aslamao Alaikum...i have a issue...i have been married to a guy whom i loved the most..it was an early marrige for of us..me the girl..my parents were against of it n i took that step without them.after marrige he get so harsh n he shouts on me although we had good momnts also..but he bitten me n i calm my parents n they took me from there n now i m at my parents house..they loves me n suporting me..but also they are forcing me to get divorce..i love him still i dont want divorce..he talks to me n saying that i have chang every thing for u i m doing everything what u want plz dont leave me i cant live without u and i know he really can't. ..but now i m confuse what to do..plzz guide me tell me what to choose my husbnd who is ready to do everything for me r my family whose doing everything instead of saying me for divorce..???? What should i doo plzzz tell me i m in big trouble
Walikumassalam. May Allah ease our lives, ameen.This channel is not affiliated with Mufti Menk in any way shape or form. A group of his fans tries to disseminate his reminders to everyone. so we are not right persons to answer your question. however you can watch the video clip ruclips.net/video/MFN7Toyrlxw/видео.html
my husband divorced me because of his parents and himself. he abandoned me in another country and gave 3 talaq at once without telling me or my parents. I begged and pleaded but they didnt listen and now they still badmouth about me. I am asking Allah for justice.
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The sad part about all this is that the mother in law doesen't even realize how they are a Dictator is breaking their sons marriage! They take it easy that the daughter in law is doing and adjusting to Everything and take it for granted untill they cross the limits of Allah and when she finally speaks up, their son who was spoiled by his parents from the beginning, takes the mothers/fathers side and has no brain to protect and stand up for his own wife, be just and a guardian. Narssistic behaviour, mental illness is a big problem in society, which can lead to divorce, because of crazy behaviour and giving no thoughts of what the result of it may be. May Allah never let this happen to any women. Ameen Ya rabbul alameen. Great Lecture Mufti Menk. MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU. AMEEN
😢💔 I am suffering from all this. Pray for my marriage and that I unite with my husband. Ameen
Due to family politics and misunderstandings my marriage is over and it is not bearable at all. Every second I die with all those thoughts. Some people neva understand that they have to slightly change their behavior and routine. His parents could save our relationship but now ego is much more important than relationship. Every time , every mistake is at my side they are free of all their daughters are right. Sisters I have no feelings to live anymore
@@mariamsaeed7228 I understand, have sabr sister, I am going through a very tough time also, trying to be patient for now.
@@ummiammarachowdhury7816 jazak Allah sister....may Allah ease ur life ameen
I truly agree with you Jazakallah my sister , Alhamdulillah Allahu Akbar
My talaq just 2 days before im shattered.im yatim,i have no one at this world. Plz make duaa for me,i
I am sorry. May Allah give you Sabr Amen.
May ALLAH grant you something better than what has taken away from you
Aameen
My God I am so happy there is someone to talk about the subject about the rights of women
I have had lots of issues
I have daughters I I really fear for them
I pray they have a good life
MAN PARENT'S DESTORY THE LIFE OF HIS SPOUSE SAD RELAITY OF NOWDAYS😪😭
My father in love broke 💔 my marriage after 8 years 😢 marriage in this day some they are no care about son and daughter in low very sad
So true.
Please make Dua for me that my marriage with my husband will be saved & repaired, so we can live happily married again. Ameen
Inshallah it will ok soon
May allah make it easy for you and get you through this difficult time
InshaAllah...
Amin ya rabba alamin
Ameen
U tell it as it is, people don't take marriage seriously. Give up too easily. 👏🇦🇺
I really needed this right now. You would think during Ramadan people would walk the straight path with precision....I am a mother that suffers greatly simply because I am American revert for over 20 years! I never make my children choice between me or their spouses, me or their father, me or their inlaws..When Mufti mentioned holidays, I started crying, I spend my alone as they celebrate together and it hurts.....I give it to Allah every prayers ...my prayer rug is wet with tears. But I trust Allah plans. Sometimes Allah takes toxic people from your life when you cant do it ourselves. Forgive me if I said something wrong but this hit me very hard! JazakAllahKheir
Sometimes it's much better to be single... You don't have to deal with a lot of BS that we all face on daily basis....
This is true
Hundred percent with you on this comment
Grass is always greener on the other side
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Correct, marriage is so overrated now
May-Allah bless u Mufti Menk and grant u jannah , u r doing such a wonderful job , may-Allah reward u Ameen, i love u for the sake of Allah
ameen may Allah guide us all and take us to jannah in shaa Allah
Kursum Abubakar Amiin
Aameen!
@@kursumabubakar1927 Aameen
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Mufti Menk is a amazing motivational speaker.
He is a spiritual speaker..
My ex husband never protect me😔 I pray n hope that ALLAH send me a BETTER SPOUSE in THE FUTURE ,,,,, IN SYAA ALLAH 😇 AAMIIN YAA ROBBAL'ALAMIIN
where are you my FUTURE HUSBAND 🤭 I'm RIGHT HERE WAITING FOR U to come to PROPOSE n MARRYING ME in REAL LIFE😊are U lost somewhere else 🤭
Ha ha ha
Hhhhhhh, may Allah help you
I am glad he's your ex, someone with a brain and self respect,May Allah grant you the husband of your dreams
Subhanallah my husband was a good man and he always guide me for everything and help me to change more and praise to allah 💑 jazzakallahu khair mufti menk 😭
Testimony. I was a cleaner in a company and my wife left me for another man and things was very tight with me financially until i met the spiritual healing spell. who turn my life around for good. he make me a manager of the company where i was working as a cleaner and bring back my ex wife within 24 hours and now I'm wealthy living with my lovely wife. contact him through. drpaulspellcaster@yahoo.com cell line +2347013291233 reach him if you have any painful problem
@@nelsonramonn u mean black magic... If so then let me tell u that it is not permissible
@@nelsonramonn Fear God, you'll be questioned for guiding people to magicians. Enjoy your short stay on earth, but prepare yourself for the next life
@@nelsonramonn Allahuma najinaa
👩AISHA SAID I AM NINE. MOHAMMED👴SAID IT'S FINE😋😋
I’m bearing this from past 10 years... bt one thing for sure this has brought me closer to Allah... allhamdullillah...
maa shallah, I love dis man so much, how I wish to invite him with honour as my special guest on my wedding day inshallah, may u live long
Sacrifices should be mutual.... For a successful marriage life..
sacrifice means?... Suicide 🥺?
@@tanvirfakir5833 Not suicide.
I agree. I have sacrificed a lot to accommodate my husbands wants and dreams and he has achieved. Now I pray he reciprocates by maybe not sacrificing but paying forward his gratitude and compromising as well as contributing back to that which I want for our lives to be better. I pray for our hearts to become one again
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Oh god he is soooo genuine....very authentic speech
Yeah... He is a true muslim
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U explain sooo well with love with heart but probably people's of this days they will never understand
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Subhan Allah
mufti menk always surprise me by saying things dats very true about real life. even I hv gone through all such circumstances .Alhamdulillah my husband s very understanding so I am out of it n now Masha Allah Vry happy
Thahir Pasha tabarakaAllah sister allhamdulillah!
Thahir Pasha my husband is a piece of shit!
👩AISHA SAID I AM NINE. MOHAMMED👴SAID IT'S FINE😋😋..
i am 9 mnth pregnant ...i am really going through tough time bcz my mother in law hates when my husband spend time with me.iam in my home for delivery and she is not allowing my husband to come and see me exept for routine check up..so i cried the whole day .....i dont know how i find a solution ...plz pray for me....
May ALLAH bless u and all of us sister... Ur husband should balance between u and his mother... It is not permissible for him to leave u alone in such a pain
Pray for her to become good to you and Talk to your husband nicely about it, if he Loves you he will think about it if he do not love you you have other way to get rid of this problem. Insha Allah.
Make duah to allah and love your mother and father in law and watch the husband will love you and the in-laws ganna give their heart. Trust me you sacrifice a little you gain more which most girls dont realise.
INSHA ALLAH EVERYTHING BECOME ALRIGHT AMEEN
Bless u
Im so down and depress because of my marriage life...
I need your prayers...
If you are down,then do what's best for you and pray about it .Allah gave us a brain
Subhan Allah
Very beautiful speech
Subhan Allah
I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else needs to find out about how to save your marriage try Tarbetti Marriage Improver Tutor (just google it ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my partner got amazing results with it.
All these three reasons defines what I am going through right now.
Subhan Allah ! You bring peace in lives sheikh❣️ thankyu😢
Man's parents don't care about son's spouse nor his life.
Sadly to say, that is very true.
Tish Bish true
I dont agree. I think when we dont love God automatically we cannot love anyone. Be it our own children or even our own selves.
That's not true for everyone. And some love goes because one or the other spouse doesn't know how to grow up or give their spouse quality time. Or maybe doesn't show enough love, or is always busy doing something other than being with their spouse...
Agree
May Allah ease my difficulties n give love respect, n trust in me n my husband ameeen.
Tasmiya Nadeem YA RABB Al Amin
That wonderful my brother you are really given the souls what they need may Allah richly bless you
Ameen
My mother in law she always hurt me by saying wrong words and wen I say something so later on she cries that she started first...and at that moment I feel very shocked.my husband starts fighting with me.what to do???
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Make dua for me i think my marriage is over but im trying to save it :'(
I’m hearing an Islamic speech in life now , heard loads n loads but it’s perfect speech subhanallah 😍 I feel now I’m hearing 1st time may Allah bless u
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I badly need Dua for my marriage. There is A LOT of anger in my husband and he is very verbally abusive to me and then tells me I should tolerate him because he doesn’t mean what he says when he’s angry. But my mind and heart can’t justify this. It feels like he does not love me at all or even care one bit about how his behavior makes me feel completely broken. Then he turns around and blames me for HIS words and behavior. Tells me I shouldn’t have angered him. I don’t want to lose him. Allah gave us each other for a reason. But I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m hurting so so so badly at his hands and he knew the pain I’ve experienced at the hands of other humans and promised me I would never ever feel this way with him. But honestly I feel like his abuse has been far worse than any other I’ve experienced. How can I possibly make our marriage better again? What more am I to do and tolerate to stay with this man Allah meant for me? Please help!
Use your brain? If your girlfriend did that to you,would you still be friends with her? Are some of you women that desperate to stay in marriage? Go and seek a marriage therapist,and Islamic one ,do that and see ,but if it's not working out,please use your head
@@purplelove3666 I think this is a very rude reply when you consider what Islam says about marriage.
May Allah grant you good health and long life so that you continue to let us know about Islam
I love how hes straight to point.
May Allah Subhana Watalla grant you janna
story of my life!!!!
Zahra A It really hurts. I understand. :_( Worst, if you're being fitna.
Mufti Menk mashallah all your lectures are well absorbed by my mind and heart. Jazakallah Alkhair.
May god bless you . I love to hear your preach you are so blessed by god chosen one from last two days I hear your Gods speech I sleep so late at night till 2:30 am. Thank you so much for making us understanding what we all have to do in our daily life . Amen
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Salaam Alaikum Mufti Menk. True speaking. Many are speaking with a split tongue and One Eye. Many wisdom in this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Praise the Lord of the worlds every day. Alhamdolilah
My husband hassan mehtar
He introduced me with a girl who he love & she rejected him and he come to me he knows that I will be hurt but he still asked me quations did she say anything did she asked anything? Seriously mufti menk how could he even I can't sleep well tonight can't eat can't stay without thinking it's not because is anger 💔 is because I love my husband he takes so naturally , but if he see am watching BTS he gets angry and before marriage I was cool & lots of friends but I don't have anyone Alhamdulillah
MashAllaah beautiful speeches Mr Menk Mufti May Allaah bless us all with family's ameeeeen
Good one
Brother you are so helpful to listen to. Thank Allah we will all stay strong no matter the circumstances for He knows our limits and won’t test us beyond what He knows we can handle. He is the Most High
Wow every point u picked so correctly Masha Allah you have great understanding level Allah bless you alot dua from my heart loves u alot
May Allah add you more power as you work for him.
Salam Alaykum Brothers & Sister. I am going through such a test that some days I feel like I can't take it anymore. Please make dua for me and my family. I love my wife and children don't want to lose them. The Shaytan is trying to break my life. If you reading this please make due for me & my family.
Insha Allah all your worries disappear soon. Ameen
I wish I could see you and ask ur advise in person Mofti Menk 😥😥😥
Mashallah sheikh is fair if we only follow and act according to the diin . Everyone will have happy life.
Masha Allah nice i love mufti menk please make dua for me my wife kids all reunite and have a happy family life
Please help me ... Pray for me I'm so sadness my marriage not happy .. I'm trying to save for my kids but why still he cheated me many times ... Please help me
May Allah bring solution to your problem ameen now and forever
I feel you..
Insha allah please dont leave your husband im a broken husband myself and i dont wish that on anyone pray for him forgive him show him the light mufti menk is trying to show us tell him why your forgiving him and what you expect of him wallahi if i had the chance i will do anything for my wife and kids back i cant eat or sleep walahi i cant remember the last time i had a good sleep i miss my wife and kids so so much im finding it imposible to live without them please make dua for us please
@@sabeeliqbal6844 sorry how u now we the same situation
I’m making dua for you and all who are suffering in this situation. May your trials be an expiation for your sins and a means for entry into Jannatul Firdous, dear sister. Ameen🌸
I made biggest mistake marrying my husband. I married him to please my parents I thought I’d fall In love with him eventually but where married 15 years and I really respect him but I don’t love him . And I am so miserable with him . Cause I’m just not attracted to him never was . I feel so so so bad for it . I’ve tried so hard to be love him but I don’t like his personality.
Sister, I respect yu for your sabr
Enshallah things get better
Be close to Alllah, pray hard and Allah we solve your problem my dear ziz
I was married for 8 years and I felt same when I hit 5 years mark so I try for 3 more years, then I realized we not get anywhere I made decision to tell her my feelings. and now we divorce she is happy moved on and I moved on now I'm married and happy maybe you should tell him your feelings and see where you end up
No one should marry against his/ her will.... It may cost a life time punishment...... May ALLAH ALMIGHTY guide us all
11 things to do on Friday
1. shower ghusl
2. Cleaning teeth with miswak
3. Going to the mosque on foot
4. Applying perfume
5. Wear clean and dress good
6. Reading Surah al kahf
7. Siting close to the imam and listening proper to the khutba
8. Reaching masjid early
9. Making lots of dua
10. Min 100 Tasbeeh
11. Making 2 counts of sadaqa at the masjid or making someone to do it
And if you comment this you will earn sadaqa jaraiya for who Apply’s and uses these things to do
Mashaallah Sheekh mufti allah yaxfiduka amiin
Please make dua for my estranged wife. I pray that she sees clearly how we both let the Devil in our ears. I’m now realizing and doing the hard work to get my marriage (that I destroyed) back into the grace of Allah. I pray for the day she also breaks from the whispers of Shaytan. Everything on Allah’s time.
GOod lecture indeed,
May Allah bless yOu!!
Why don’t you just live separately from your parents? I simply can’t imagine living with your parents under the same roof with your wife and kids and even your brothers and sisters who aren’t married... I never read the Koran, but in Holy Scriptures it is said that Genesis 2:24
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For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
Mashallah Thanks for give The lesson to all muslim my allah bless u more and more and your family.. Inshaa allah ameen yah rabb..
Good advice dear Muft Menk
May ALLAH blessing you
HALALA PROSTITUTE BUSINESS
YES..OR NO..PLZ REPLY😘😘
God bless you
Come on women, be Smart your mission is not to war with .......rather focus on the Deen and Love Allah know Him believe me Everything will be in your hand, insha Allah
Mar sha Allah , you the best
the creater of you ....may bless ...
I wish I could listen this video little early
But my marriage was broken 4 months before
Al humdulilah .... 🙂
Now a days aftr seeing others married lyfs all the girls max will decide not to get married evn for one time..bcpz that wil b the bad exp for the entire lyf which i am facing...bcoz they dont like my way of behaviour n attitude n don't like their back bitching about me....Allah should take me out of all this hell...
parents must stop meddling in marriages. Basically if your parents are unhappy with eachother they become possessive of the children, even when these are grown up and forge their own relationships.
Thanks alot may Allah bless you always. Insha allah
Thank you so much Menk ji, sometimes my goose bumps can be seen - what you say is already in my heart and have experienced this too. Married and yet not married - aap samjhe?
Very well said thank you brother
Mashaallah,,tabaraqallah, I wanna ask you something about my situation with my husband?,,
May Allah Save the Love
Guide the Couples for the Reall love. .Sincerity Love. .
Guide my Allah mans and womans for Pure Love. .
Ameem Ameem Ameem
I listen to your lectures I tried to tell my husband too but there was nothing positive. I am the only child. Please pray for me.
Syurga for husband still with his mother. Syurga for wife still with her husband. Give and take, understanding, respect, and grateful is very important. Sharing, caring, loving, giving, forgiving.
It's the little things that make marriage worth it. It's also the little things that break them apart
God help me! Samething i suffered with
E Allah ke bande jab Bhi Meri ummed tut jati hei to mein apki baton ko talash karti hu or mujhe essa ehsas lagta hei AP mere sath ho ankho se ek ansu sirf nikalti hei kyunki apki har ek bat Meri Zindagi se wakif hei jis tarha AP Bat karte ho ehsas Bhi rone lagta hei apki lafzo ke wajese Meri ankho se anso ati HEI lekin sirf Sach ke wajese
Very good lecture
its been 1 year im suffere and keep on sabr just to protect my family,but at this moment i am tired cause mg husband pushing me away,He choose her over me and our 6 kids
Mashallah ur words💕
Is there written "Bangladesh" :O
He visited this country ???
This is so great Mufti Menk!
HALALA PROSTITUTE BUSINESS
YES..OR NO..PLZ REPLY😘😘
I had toxic spouse this is why i never bothered to fight back. She never made any efforts she wanted divorce .
Yess yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss yessaass.... ameeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Can someone please tell me why my husband is spending more time at his sisters twenty years after our wedding I kind of accepted him being close to his family now that the kids are big I thought we would do things together but that's not happening I'm only included in family gatherings or attending family weddings I feel this is just to show others we live under one roof but hardly have a conversation.what should I do
M Ikhlaq What do you want to do sister? Have you spoken to him regarding how he is towards you and how you feel?
M Ikhlaq I had the same situation. I gave up on the marriage but not on myself. Divorced him and now I’m so happy! Finally got relief!
Pray for him and In Sha Allah he will change for better
@@innawewe do u have kids
Assalamu alaikum, i m a mother of three sons alhumdulila with 3 c sections. The day we got married til now v fight with each other. My husband used to slang with his bad words to my sisters n my parents, then later on he started to beat me. My 3 pregnancies went with trauma a lot, he used to beat me in my pregnancies also but ds time he did so much dat he beated me like anything my bloody came from my mouth. M yateem now 13 years back my mother died in mecca during hajj n 7 months back my father died. My husband's mother supports him whatever he does even he has warned me dat he will kill me n burry dat nobody coms to know n will say to everyone dat i ran away with someone. Whut shud i do, shud i b in relationship with him or shud i break it. No days n nights of mine went without crying.
mansha Allah so beautiful
plzzzz tell these speech to my husband.....he is torcering me listning to his mother and sister....
ahsan kabir salamo alaykoum sister it's same for me :( but try to explain him
ahsan kabir Hi you can send this video to him. I always do to my husband but i doubt if he watches it.
May Allah make easy on you all and take care of your affairs in the best ways
ahsan kabir get out of this relationship. It will only get worse and the stress will eventually kill you. 😞 be strong
Subhan Allah
Sooo true
Nice said may bless us
Good advice Sheikh ,be blessed
Amina Amina
Subhan Allah
Assallamalekum
Please can you elaborate what about the daughter inlaws who disrespects the in laws disobeys their husband do everything which is out of islam
I am married and I told my wife to be respectful to my parents and she refuses and when my parents express that she is not well mannered she tells me that my parents being evil. So now you tell me where the problem started and what caused the issues within marriage?
While there are generally evil people out there most parents in law are good but the daughter law doesn't show respect and integrate in the family as a result it bring all the problems.
it is YOUR responsibility to create a balance between her and your parents
Aswkm Bhai show me the way where I can save my mar
Aswkm Bhai very nice Islam talk how to save marriages
nice lecture baarakallah lak
Mufti menk pls tell me wat shld I do...my husband s not wit from past 5 months there was problem but now my mother in law and sister n law says they r gonna do other marriage for my husband but I have 4 years old daughter. ...wat status d way for me ..i asked so many times to forgive me even after he s not responding
This channel is not affiliated with Mufti Menk in any way shape or form. A group of his fans tries to disseminate his reminders to everyone.
Allthough this channel is not affiliated to Mufti Menk we can still wish her luck and may Allah help you with your marriage.
Don't worry dear allah is with us may allah help you
I would advise you that you try find him on twitter page or facebook in shaa Allah and bi idhnillah you will get guidance also from wherever you are find qadhi and you will be guided.
Muslimmarrige
So save what you wanna so much for your life. .
i am a Christ man and my wife is a Muslim we have married for 6 years with Children and we are living happily after 6 to 7 years my wife leave me without having any problems and i don't know what to do because of my Children it will be very had for my children to break up the marriage just like that. i don't know what to do
She must have realised that the marriage was not valid
thats your problem right there. You have no idea what was happening for the 6-7 yrs.
I'm suffering from past 18 yrs. I'm tired and done now.
What happened?
Fatima Imran 25 years, right here 😞
S S what happend
plz say somethng about a husband who two faces......how can wife behave to save her relation ...
farah qureshi go away fron him 😣😣
go for commercial or islamin counselling. Get a mediator who is a professional in the field
Seek Allah's help sister and pray for the health of ur
relationship
My husband is also two faced m suffering from 10years
What will a husband do tell me when he respect his mother a lot and love his wife if two people can't adjust what will a husband do I am in this situation right now. What will I do I respect and love mother very much but I don't want to leave my wife I don't want to destroy her life.its a pain when you have to choose one from your beloved
Witth marriage issue it all depends on who ur with preety much...if ur with a true gentleman who loves an cares bout you then of course ur marriage with that person will last an ur love will be stronger...but obviously if ur with a wrong person then of course the marriage wont last knowing there will be no real love or care an there will be no marriage values at all...its simple as that...thanks for the video mufti may allah bless u...👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😏😏😏😏👼👼👼👼👼👼👼👼
MashaAllah
Aslamao Alaikum...i have a issue...i have been married to a guy whom i loved the most..it was an early marrige for of us..me the girl..my parents were against of it n i took that step without them.after marrige he get so harsh n he shouts on me although we had good momnts also..but he bitten me n i calm my parents n they took me from there n now i m at my parents house..they loves me n suporting me..but also they are forcing me to get divorce..i love him still i dont want divorce..he talks to me n saying that i have chang every thing for u i m doing everything what u want plz dont leave me i cant live without u and i know he really can't. ..but now i m confuse what to do..plzz guide me tell me what to choose my husbnd who is ready to do everything for me r my family whose doing everything instead of saying me for divorce..???? What should i doo plzzz tell me i m in big trouble
Walikumassalam.
May Allah ease our lives, ameen.This channel is not affiliated with Mufti Menk in any way shape or form. A group of his fans tries to disseminate his reminders to everyone. so we are not right persons to answer your question. however you can watch the video clip ruclips.net/video/MFN7Toyrlxw/видео.html
Aslam Hbl I'm going through the same my sis
Pray sister ask allah alhamdulilah allah will guide you through this inshallah speak to allah sister
Aslam Hbl don’t leave him
Love with an evil, wicked person is not true love but just an infatuation or attraction..... Seek ALLAH'S help sister HE will cure u
my husband divorced me because of his parents and himself. he abandoned me in another country and gave 3 talaq at once without telling me or my parents. I begged and pleaded but they didnt listen and now they still badmouth about me. I am asking Allah for justice.
In Shaa Allah, Allah will put them to shame. May Allah bless and protect you from all harms from all evils and from the evil of all HIS creatures.
May Allah give you the best now sister.