This 30 Year Old Has Life Figured Out
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This guy interviews 30 yr olds like they are geriatrics on their death bed
You r missing the point.
@@jeffreygomez2634 I'm 31, don't talk to your elders that way
@@nickcropper4969 Enjoy your twilight years, Nick.
🤣💀 Yes! Man, I’m 37, and every time I watch these, I feel like the 20-something year old doing the interviews must think someone like me is ancient.
They are. They just dont know it. He is interviewing people on the dock - and the boat left yesterday
These are some of the most mature looking 31 and 32 year olds I've ever seen
Alcohol and partying
Yup, I still look like a teen at 30
Being well-dressed and well-spoken will do that.
Let people live stop being judgy about people’s looks
@@nsanenthembrane how people look communicates alot about them. If you see someone with no teeth, torn up clothes and bloodshot eyes, they're probably a drug addict.
One simple thing... Stop worrying about what people think of you. People worry too much whether they are liked or not.
We are social creatures. It's out nature.
I found the less I relied on others the more I found a deeper meaning in life, I learned this in my mid 20s and now in my early 30s I have been dabbling in alot of philosophical concepts and stumbled upon 'Nietzsche' and the idea of developing as an individual. The people I know who are heavily reliant on "the group" for knowledge, entertainment, and "happiness" so to speak, struggle the most when they're by themselves and rely on their own concepts for the above mentioned.
“Choose the good solitude, the free, high-spirited, light-hearted solitude that, in some sense, gives you the right to stay good yourself!” -Nietzsche
@@loungeroomlifting2223 Dude, "stumbling upon" and/or becoming familiar with Nietzsche is what people do when they're like 19 or early 20s, not in their 30s lmao
@@Ryan88881 you assume everyone's path to information is the same?
I was homeless at 17 after years of being in group homes... it took me a long time just to have any foundation or stability in my life before I could slow down, start a hobby, reflect, and learn things that were not survival related. 🤷🏻♂️
@@loungeroomlifting2223 Oh I thought you were trying to say it's normal to get into Nietzsche in your 30s.
I’m 33 this guy would turn to me for advice like I’m a 1000 year old Tibetan monk who yields the time stone.
😂😂😂😂 this cracked me up
💀💀💀💀 lmfao
Exactly😂
I'm also 33 but appear 16 after a clean shave. 😅
People used to commonly die at the age of 30
I’m 32, still winging it. Career just doesn’t matter to me. If I can pay the bills and enjoy life, I’m happy.
Yeah wait till you're in you're 50s-60s and nobody wants to hire you. See how that outlook works out. Don't ask for taxpayer subsidies to bail you out.
That's what really matters at the core of it!
That's the key, don't run anyone else's race.
same, 32, work part time, don’t care about anything but relaxing . my goal in life is to work as little as possible but still have money to buy the things i want . i worked through my 20s and realized i was living like a good slave. sold my car, downsized, got a used car with good gas. life is way more simple now
@@dukenukem7043 love it, you sound happy. I used to work 80 hours a week and it was not worth it. Got no debt now, little money saved. Thinking about moving. Just wanna enjoy and be free
As a 32 year old, you learn that trying to impress others with the appearance of success is less important than actually being successful.
SO TRUE.
And by 42 you’ll have probably realised that “success” is a social construct.
Time is the most valuable commodity. Enjoy the journey.
the fact that you equal success with work success tells me that ur still to young :)
@@franz009franz where did I say that?
The appearance of success is less important than actually being USEFUL.
FTFY 😊
This was calming for a 28 yo that feels late to everything, sometimes u need a little perspective
Agree
Too late!?... oh honey chill 💕
same but i m a 27 years old guy...lost my virginity quick at 16 but after hs everything went to shit lol
The older you get the quicker time goes. 8-18 seemed forever, 18-28 seemed half as long and 28-38 absolutely flew by.
It's not a race my friend, take your time 😊
I like these with younger people, would love to see more 30-40ish year olds answering these questions
I'm 34. My answer to what it feels like is
It's like 24 except with more bloating, aches and pains, financial freedom (if things have worked out for you), and less worry about what other people think.
So, physically restricting, but more freeing in the ways that count.
@SchoolboyJonze2 That's why your generation is failing so miserably, and our country is in the state it's in but keep whining victim
Ha! NOBODY would wanna see 40 yr Olds answer this lol! We'd all be canceled for being honest lol
@Talkin Bout My Life we currently live in a period of unprecedented prosperity. Right now. In 2023
40 year olds would probably roll their eyes at the question and keep walking haha.
I love that she was honest 🙌🏾
She’s an airhead that doesn’t realize her biological clock is almost dead
what other choice she has?
@@MrKrushgutz women have babies into early forties. She is only 32! You don't know her to call her such names #bekind
Word 💪🏾
@@roseyrosey123456 any pregnancy after age 35 is considered high risk , after 40 its a total gamble if you can even have kids ,she will be the type of woman that will waste her 20s and 30s on "having fun" then cry about "where are all the good men " when she realises having children is more important than sleeping around .
I'm 34, and I haven't figured out my professional life at all. I'm married, happy, and poor. Being overeducated and underemployed made me feel hopeless and frustrated in my 20's. Now I just kind of enjoy existing, and really value the depth and breadth of my knowledge.
Love your last sentance. I usually don't spend my time on the phone but just wanted to say some people in my life have great jobs that pay really well but boy do they feel stuck. Rarely know how to enjoy life apart from holidays and vacations when you are "supposed" to have fun. Have A great day tomorrow because really it is special enough just to wake up healthy and to laugh with people you love. ALL the best wishes from Croatia.
why dont you share your knowledge on youtube ? people would love to listen to you
Cringe..
After constant toil in the struggle for something greater I am still as hopeless as I did after graduating. No fun memories of my twenties to recall and continued hardship ahead it's hard to feel positive about just existing and not living.
Dude, same. I'm 35 and didn't really establish my career. It started taking off at one point, and then I became pregnant and I wanted to be a stay at home mother until child is at school. Personally, I found I'm just as happy. So, career wasn't as important as I thought it was. Obviously I'd still like a job I enjoy when I return to work, but it's not the be all and end all to life.
This guy saving lifes with these interviews
*lives
How
@@pio7763yeh exactly. Internet people are stupid.
How
@@pio7763reassurance
tip for younger ppl: nobody likes a micromanager. run from them. and dont let yourself become one.
the problem is managers now cant teach or train without micromanaging, so the cycle continues.
theres a general lack of trust in people lately.
@@jaredrosenberg4965 not true. my current boss isnt a micromanager. ive trained ppl without micromanaging.
This is pretty bad advice since in many industries if the manager doesn't micromanage, then your advice is literally 'do this to get fired'.
micromanagers are just corporate bosses living up to the minimum boss standard a company sets on them. The best thing is to start or find a company that is not large enough to be micromanaged and work for them or in the case of starting your own do that for a large portion of your work time.
@@jaredrosenberg4965 In some workplaces, sure. But if your employer attracts people through a strong job and person specification framework, those risks are lower. I'm a manager in the public sector and my leadership method is to trust my team to act like the qualified adults they are. They were hired for a reason, and they were trained properly, so I can trust they can work autonomously.
36 and love what he said. But I can also relate to what she said. I think for some people, especially dreamers like me, its ok to continue evolving into who we are in this world. It’s ok to not be like the old days with just 1 job, 1 career. Enjoy the journey.
@Sharon Did you hit the wall already?
@@kamalabdullayev4445 lol
@@kamalabdullayev4445 😂
It's not about working hard, it's about working smart.
You can get paid a lot of money but if you don't work on building a family and close connections you'll regret it later in life, and theres no going back
I think that there are too many people who start their own family out of fear rather than out of a genuine interest in raising children, and therefore you get parents who just end up forsaking their children. Another major cause is of course accidental pregnancies that aren't terminated even though at least one parent is disinterested in having children.
We're all pretty much just winging it 'till the day we die!
As humans, we're really good at overcomplicating things. That, and I really believe we give our lives more importance than actually realistic in the grand scheme of things.
Without getting too nihilistic. Be here, don't hurt others, try to enjoy a bit. We probably won't make it out alive anyway.
@R Tesaloniki Welcome to 🤡🌎 buddy!! You deserve to be fully nihilistic at this point. Humanity is doomed!!!! #EnjoyTheDecline
@R Tesaloniki Also #Trump2024
@@davidmitchell3997 Please don't hijack comments to promote your political views.
That's all bs anyway. Life is a struggle we get temporary enjoyment. R u a woman or a man because if ur a man saying this then u don't deserve anything
Such type of interviews should be taken with people in their 50s.
any age could be interesting.
He interviews adults of all ages.
I'm 31 right now and I'm realizing the more uncomfortable I make myself, the less anxiety and depression I have. I just quit my safe secure job I had for 10 years for a more risky manager job, finished my first half marathon, I go to the gym before work. When I go to bed I have to know I used every minute productively.
That's amazing man
Thanks for sharing
I'm younger than you man, but had a realization recently.
We have like a certian amount of anxiety and sadness we need to spend.
And if we don't spend it doing things that are productively uncomfortable. Like working hard, exercise, social risks etc.
Then it will still manifest in our day to day things, that really shouldn't induce those feelings.
As a 34 year old I agree 20s were fun 30s is a lil more serious still fun.
My twenties were sheer horror movie whilst being simultaneously destitute. My 30s are easy and I'm more confident with women.
We should have fun ALL the time till we die. Fun and responsibility should not exclude.
@Lee yeah no one is allowed fun, we must all be miserable like you
Omg they seem much mature and here i am at 38 still not matured enough😢
Damn, when you gonna get married?
I’m not mature either. let’s be bffs 💗😆
I’m 34, married with kids, and is a nurse but still not mature enough 🥲 oh well! Lol 🤷🏾♀️
Nah. You're where you need to be. These things happen in starts and spurts, and we all have different, fascinating stories.
That's not bad, means you still enjoy the life with full power!
I’m 26 and have spent a lot of time chasing my career, trying to level up as fast as possible. It almost cost me a lot. What I’ve learned is that you’ll get there when you get there. But there are things you can lose in the process of rushing it that you’ll never get back.
Success is in the eye of the beholder, so don’t sell everything you care about to achieve some career based goal
As 31 year old... I can confirm everything he said.
I'm 31 too and yes I agree as well. Except I didn't experiment in my 20's.
But he didn't say anything
As a 37 year old… I can confirm everything she said.
As a 38 year old, I am now getting closer to where I was at 21 again than at 31.
Same as 32yo🎉
It is so refreshing to here advice from people who actually lived stuff. I was looking for this kind of video but people of my age tend to make you feel like you are late in life. Even if they do not mean to do that.
*hear 😉
if you're the person that just goes with the flow, as it were, time shouldn't matter anyway. everything ends soon enough, is the attitude. if you're trying to hack it, then time becomes more burdensome. but if you go with the flow you naturally won't notice, and by that point you won't care.
I respect that women for being honest
@Odithyir Because he is a simp
@Odithyir bc he wasn’t
@Odithyir Where did I say I didn't respect the man?
Love that these people base their “life” around their job… couldn’t think of anything more sad in life.
My job is sick af tho
@@nightfighter7452 What do you do ?
Well if they love their job and they feel like they are fullfilling their purpose i think that's one of the best things in life you can accomplish
Yeah they should be a hobo like you, truly a picture of success, happiness and wellbeing
@@dbz9393 yes Danielle I’m such a hobo because I don’t measure life by my Job 😂 sad existence you are.
My twenties were not fun, neither were my teens, I’m 30 and only just started to be able to live MY life how I want and the way I want. Just starting my 9th business because all my others failed and I was in huge debt, never give up people, you never know when you could finally make it, enjoy the ride because tomorrow could be your last day.
I can sort of relate to this. My childhood, teens and 20s weren't fun at all. It was probably the loneliest time of my life especially my early to mid 20s. I only started to "live" in my late 20s. I'm 30 now (turning 31 in a few months) and I'm still figuring out life. I'm not where I want to be atm but that's okay.
“32”for me was a the magic age for me, absolutely no doubt about it !
U ladies were out there getting plowed huh 🎉🎉🎉
@@ronjeremy1232 cringy old man
I was your thirty second like 👍
@@ronjeremy1232 and you weren’t? Stay jealous 😂
@@ronjeremy1232 😆
You can see this with 30 yrs olds;
What is important in life?
Career career career.
Fuck it.
good luck funding your lifestyle with anything else
Pays the bills and provides a good life
Is this how you're supposed to look entering your 30s 👀
I'm 30 & the other day a lady asked me if i was in school 💀 how do I look mature?
Same here. I'm in my 30's and I've seen teenagers that look older than me!
Sense of style, dressing in actual clothes not jeans all the time. Using coats, not jackets that look like you’re taking a walk at the park. Wearing dressier shoes rather than sneakers; just over all looking put together. ( No shame on anyone who wears these items, I do too but usually on my lazy days, hence I do don’t consider these “real outfits” because I don’t look put together). -Just turned 30
don't try to look like this. these people are boring.
So you want them to look like they're in high school?
Choice of clothing helps, in my experience.
As a 30yr old. Its really not that bad. I think women freak out more (I did at 28/29). But now I feel like I got my sh*t together, barely care what people think. Found my style, my career and getting my first house. Everyone does things at a different pace, that was the most important thing I learned that life isn't a race its a marathon and you are pretty damn lucky to make it to the end so make the most of the journey not wishing every year away! ✨️
Dont u feel life is a struggle? Everyday waking up and stress.
@@mitch5222 everyone feels like this
Asking them questions like they are some wise ancients! 😆
31 I was barely scraping by as an addict so big ups to those who have it together like this at early 30s. Sometimes it takes a decade or two more to figured things out
for sure
Here I am, at 37 with a degree in architecture which I discovered thats not my real thing and putting the work to realize what Im going to do with my life and even who am I...
Almost same age. Dont known what to do and lots of anxiety? What do u think about life? Is it worth living?
@@mitch5222 Man, all I can say is that I'm trying to figure it out, I'm pushing things forward like never before, seems I'm running against time...I don't have time to doubt myself anymore, I'm just trying and if I fail I fail, I'm starting to realize (just now) that it doesn't matter if you fail, you just got to do you're best at the moment playing with the cards you got to pursue what you want. If it is worth it? I'll just find out at the end...but while I'm breathing its not the end...
I’m 31 and I look 17 next to these mature adults
But also remember: when you are older it is easy to say: 'I should have cared less what others think when I was in puberty' but caring what other think, and learning what you think of THEM is an essential part of growing up. Different stages of life teach you different things.
Right, but being só afraid of their judgement that you'll try and adjust yourself is what many tend to do and that is not a good thing.
As the subject is usually your mascarabrand and no matter what expensive brand you buy after, if they want to bully you, they'll find a way.
yet people are taught at a young age that judgement comes to us all. naturally, some people think there should be a little more judgement to go around.
Screw judgement!
Well I'm 40 and I'm still figuring out my life. Got married had 2 kids and divorced by the time I was 27. I really just didn't know what I wanted in life anymore and I'm still on my way to finding it out.
Do u find life enjoyable and how?
At clueless 15 dropped out, I was told “just follow your heart on everything you want to do in life” i misheard as “just follow your hard-on” and it got me where I am today 🎉😂 wisdom, skill sets, experience , family
Way happier at 33 than I ever was in my twenties.
Beautiful wife and two beautiful children.
I’m always tired, don’t drink much at all except for special occasions, and focus on my family.
I am now a fully grown man where I was not in my early to mid twenties.
Boring
This is the best comment. Congrats man you are like my goal❤️
Work work work. I'm 35 and the thing that is less interesting about myself is my job. Why do everybody automatically talk about it in every conversation? Do they have a passion? A hobby? Nada?
i am with the lady on the "WINGING IT" part as a soon to be 31 year old who switched careers already 3 times. invest in yourself. find somthing you enjoy, you do not even have to be good at it, just willing to grind and become better at it and do not think so much about what other people have or want or do compared to yourself. it is easy in our hyper competitive society to feel behind, but remember that almost everyone out there is also just pretending and figuring things out and basically winging it. most people I would look up to when i was yougner or I thought were "cool" tended to be incredibly immature and uncool after getting to know them better, I always thought i was a slob or pretty average in regards to be "into" things or intelligence, but the older I get and also see that supposed leaders can be incredibly bad or outright stupid while having much more success, i am more at ease that even when I do not have that success, I am my own person, have integrity in values and views and goals. Invest in yourself, in your skills, but not for other people or your job, but for yourself. whether that is coding cause you like computers or writing cause you love it but feared it will never land you a good paying job. do it anyway. I was a very angsty teenager and had a depressive/suicidal phase and obviously thought a lot about death, personally, but also general. and funnily enough, if you view all things from the endpoint (i.e. death) to weigh your choices and decisions it makes life easier in a lot of ways. you think less about what people think about your or decision x is good, you start to think more where you are, where you want to get and what you are missing, what your values are, which kind of people you like and which you do not like. ask yourself, if am gone one day, what would I have regretted, what would i have enjoyed doing, what do I want to be known for? Who did I get to know? did i have a good relationship with them? is there anyone I should have made up with? what would I have liked to do or learn at least once? sit down and write a list. this will help you figure out where you stand, what you want from life and where to adjust your course.do it NOW instead of later. Also remember: it is never too late! even if you are 60 and still dream on taking up skill x or going to country y, just do it! go out there, expose yourself, share your gift with the world that is your personality. as someone who is an introvert and has a hard time coming out of my shell, that is something i wish I discovered sooner cause I already lost a lot of opportunities and time for that "experimentation".
All garbage. I can tell ur a woman who's been sheltered throughout ur whole life
More people are in major debt and still being supported to some extent by their parents than they will admit
Yet they still put work on top of everything
Just because they like being slaves who are a little richer and "successful", they encourage others to be like them, leading by example. Them fools.
I am 34 and I am more carefull with my precious time,working and improve myself. Don't take anything for granted and appreciate what I have. I made a lot of mistakes in my 20, but i I had it to learn the hard way and also I was naive to trust the wrong people.
She is very honest. He's giving convenient answers
How are they 30? I’m 30 and still look 17.
same
Genetics lol
Didn't you answer the question for yourself? You look younger than your age.
Also I bet you don't look 17 lol
He has a nice beard and she has lots of makeup on. I was working with a 25 year old woman and first time I saw her I thought she was in her 30s but then next time without make up she looked 20.
@@wabdih your mother.
I’m 39. Invest in your health. That is get 6-8 hours kvality sleep. Eat and drink healthy. Cut out toxic people ( addicts, narcissists). Regular exercise of 20-40 minutes a day. If you can afford it get a therapist and work on trauma. Your life wont be perfect but, these steps are under our control and have huge long term benefits
Great advice. So many neglect their health for stupid reasons.
I’m 34 and I would say the thing we prioritize when younger but not older, is the idea of other peoples perceptions of us
When you’re young it’s easy to feel like oh no I don’t have a girlfriend so I’m a loser or oh no that guy said my haircut is ugly and now I’m all butt hurt or oh no whatever the case may be
The older I get the less I care what anyone thinks or might think
I’d like to hear more 50-60’s to see what they have figured out now that they have experienced life up to that point. 🇨🇦
I wrote you a long answer but an error stole it. Legacy. Break family dysfunctions, vacations, outings sabbath, pass on faith, help kids thru college and later so they have a better life than you did. Dave Ramsey, stay married cuz feelings return. 63, happily married 40 years three adults in thirties, one married with our TWO joys…get pizza and watch movie every Friday nite… as we have for four decades! Adventures not stuff.
That guy seems like he would be absolute buzz kill. The older you get, the more you realise that everyone is winging it and the things you thought so important to your happiness like a high paying job, a big house and a fancy car were just window dressing. Possessions, wealth and social status can be taken away at the drop of a hat. Stop worrying about impressing others or earning their respect through 'status symbols' and think about the kind of person you actually want to be. When was the last time you actually thought someone was a kind, interesting or cool person simply because they had a better paid job or a nicer watch or because they work 60 hour weeks and never see their family to show how dedicated they are to their 9 to 5.
Just focus on finding the things that fulfill you creatively, intellectually and emotionally and enjoy the ride. Soemtimes life will suck and sometimes you'll ride the highs. Most of the people I know who I find interesting and enjoy being with are those who march to the beat of their own drum and live in a way that is authentic to their values regardless of how much money they make or whether the things they do are considered worthwhile by others.
Yeah! It takes time for our natural self to unfold. My taste of Life, career, relationship has evolved in many ways with age and experience.
31 yo man: mature figured out his shit
32 Independent wamen: not serious, winging it, idk where am at, havin' fun
😂
That man bun says otherwise...
Everyone has a different life. Why make it into a gender war you incel?
@@SB-kg6iw happily married, I guess I"m a married incel that just respects women that don't consider themselves above everyone 😂
@@URightBut it's just a style, doesn't really say anything on the "mature/immature" bit 👀
those people with 31 and 32 look like 41 and 42 don't look their age
I like these interviews because most of the people don't do better in their lives at an early age and they give up but these people prove if you stick to what you're doing you can do better later in your life .
they re 31 and 32...thats still early in your adult life tf you on about
They still have no clue. In your thirties you’re still finding yourself.
*This 30 Year Old Has Life Figured Out*
Neither are 30
Guy’s response = BS
Lady’s response = Truth
As a 31 year old woman: now is the time to really start developing yourself as a person - working on your skillset, best qualities, becoming expert in what you're good at, but also nurturing the beutiful part of your personality. Finding value in who you are, and believing in and cheering for that person. Also, it's the time to embrace yourself and accept your flaws.
As a 31 year old woman, you should’ve had your 10th and last child 2 years ago.
@@zacklemieux8684 hahahaha psycho incel alert!!
30 is still young and ull get much more confident in 10 years
30/80, “young” he says. 30/60 if we are being practical.
@@xtdycxtfuv9353 I think there was a 30 year old he spoke to ...you can only start feeling age around 40 mark.
30 is not young. 28 is old
You've fucked up big time if work and advancing your career is the most fulfilling thing in your life.
It's so funny to hear someone as young as 31 talking about when they were younger. It's like they just barely got out of their teens
ok
He sounds like a pretty smart dude. I’m sure he will do great things with his life.
Wow 30 year olds looking like 40 year olds- Real Mature
I'm 35 , everything they said were exactly what i have been through.
Imagine them when they turn 40 they will look like 80
Remember she appeared on _his_ journey, he didn't appear on hers. Women are just floating around working dead end jobs renting overpriced apartments with their friends living lavish lifestyles beyond their budget, ALL so they can put themselves in situations with high-value men who can give her a life in the lap of luxury.
So, the idea is then to *become* one of those men.
They look mid-40s... who are they kidding?
Are you a riitard
It’s their style that dates them
Well you alright these thirtieth year olds they do look kind of mid-forties but that is because white folks and all they age a lot faste genetically so by the time a white person reaches 25 especially woman they tend to look a lot older unless they're taking very good care of themselves
They do look like 30 somethings
No lol
I like that guy.
Bro what is that death scream halfway through. Gave me chills thinking it was coming from outside my window 😅
They actually look older than thirties ! Some people surprisingly look older than their real age and some looks younger ! I a gree with everything they said
There are comments like this on every one of these videos and honestly I think they look exactly their age. People just are used to magazine cover 31-year-olds. This is real life. But I also agree with what was said
She said she has a good career but is still "figuring things out". Meaning she hasn't found a husband to have kids with yet to make her feel complete.
Exactly... It is just cr ap to be a woman. You work hard to reach something in life but you just have to rely on luck.
“don’t rush the professional part”
>>literally structures entire answer around career advice
That’s a great advice!
She looks 40 to me
Modem women age horribly.
@@Conservative_carnivorewhat’s modem women? Is it like router women?
@@Conservative_carnivore white women usually
@@Conservative_carnivore yep, all that drinking and partying catches up to you eventually.
I noticed that older people tend to talk less and more straight forward ❤
At that age you are at the control of others usually. And trying to get out of it.
Finding what your good at does take time but keep working hard everyone!
The girl looks like she have 48
Well said. Very well said by the gentleman.
Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear.
Man I hate the dude he's interviewing for this one. He's just one of those people who is immediately dislikable. Rough beat for him but he's just a void of charisma or appeal.
i'm 21 and tired already, idk how i'm going to make it at 31 fr
Me asf
relax, retirement is only 50 years away. and maybe you get to fight and die in the next World War, that's fun!
Would be nice if people 15-20yrs into adulthood would take some ownership of their choices. You’re living your life not “figuring it out”
The 30 something year old woman is still trying to figure out what she wants, because she thought her career was everything but kind of forgot about kids. Now, like all good feminists, she’s questioning her whole life. Deciding if she should chase after the kid in the 11th hour, or pursue a house full of cats.
Woman L. At 30 she still have no clue what she's doing relationship wise. At major risk of becoming a leftover woman.
bruh i'm almost 30 and these people look 10 years older than me.
same..27 here and yeah that guy looks much older than me.
I’m 29 and people often mistakes me as a mid twenties… people ages differently
Girl same. I’m 34 and right there with you.
31 and 32? Jesus they look like they're in their mid 40s
proof that as the passing of the torch from old generation to generation proves that the world is slowly crumbling around us and we deserve it to happen aqap
How are they 30? I’m 30 and still look 17.
That’s a rough looking 30/31
@@sunnykobe3210 😂
I've yet to hear an answer that convinces me someone has "life figured out"
you could see that guy had many experience and take a hard work on it, and had struggle like many of us on younger days
Im 33 now, man i always love this episodes...
So life is basically your career. They definitely have it figured out.
“Regardless of your MAJOR?” so young
I'm 39, but that guy is way more mature then I am. Maybe it's because I'm a musician 😅
I am almost same age. I dont enjoy life i am much depress and anxiety. What is your look at life and how do u handle problems like stress? I dont find life enjoyable. It is like constant stress and everyday the same struggle...
Nothing is more important than looks
Don‘t work hard. Work smart.
I feel like people are delaying growing up so much that people in their 30's dont even think about marriage or raising a family smh
She seems nice, but you can tell by the affected way she speaks that she's not comfortable in herself yet.
The day i take advice from a guy with a man bun
Notice they never said anything about family, which is the most important thing. It was all "career, self, me, me, career, self, figuring it out, blah blah blah..."
"other people dont annihilate their lives with a family like I do and it makes me insecure"
ok
That’s because he’s talking to people barely into their 30’s.
@sunkentree How is a family annihilating one's life?
@@reasonableskeptic5703 it doesnt. The comment is in qoutation marks. It a shade thrown at the OG comment that in-between the lines says that "if you dont have your own family, you are worthless" and that is another bullshit construct. Not everyone wants to have a family, not everyone can and not everyone should.
@@reasonableskeptic5703 You are either going to be a deadbeat parent and partner, meaning preserving your own life goals and desires at the expense of your partner and child, or you're going to be a good parent which means putting all of your time and energy into your partner and your children. Meaning you cease to exist. Your only existence is parent and partner. It is a death. Unless your life goals, dreams, and desires are all to be a family man. In which case congrats.
Of course, you can be a deadbeat, but if you just don't have a family you get the same rewards for none of the deadbeat-ness. Anyone who ends up as a deadbeat parent is in actuality a person who never should have had a family but were pushed to by people who think everyone needs to create a family.
This guy gives great advice