HE DOES NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE || Justice Court EP 136

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  • @oluwafemifalayi4510
    @oluwafemifalayi4510 Год назад +35

    This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.

    • @judeolochemusa7775
      @judeolochemusa7775 Год назад

      you're right

    • @adejiifeanyi5825
      @adejiifeanyi5825 Год назад +1

      Perfecly said

    • @ritaakudo9410
      @ritaakudo9410 5 месяцев назад +1

      Me too I was actually judging him when she was narrating her own hmmm let my husband come and see violent women oooo

    • @perpetuanwachukwu9151
      @perpetuanwachukwu9151 5 месяцев назад +1

      Well spoken. That lady looked innocent but has no wisdom of managing her home. She locked out the man that accepted her child as his biological father and cared for him.

    • @oluwafemifalayi4510
      @oluwafemifalayi4510 5 месяцев назад

      @@ritaakudo9410 🤣🤣🤣 please leave your man out of this biko

  • @danielohemu6119
    @danielohemu6119 Год назад +94

    The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man.
    Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings.
    Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation.
    I pray that God will give you peace of mind.
    Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.

  • @AndrewOwie
    @AndrewOwie Год назад +93

    I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive.
    Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode.
    Gracias!

    • @nduodiaka1739
      @nduodiaka1739 Год назад +4

      Paternity test for what?what was he thinking before they started bearing his name.?was he sleeping.?

    • @taracarson9466
      @taracarson9466 Год назад +9

      @@nduodiaka1739 Never too late to do test. Bearing his name doesn’t make him their father

    • @nduodiaka1739
      @nduodiaka1739 Год назад +4

      @@taracarson9466 Yes, you are right.
      But to decide now for parternity test makes no sense.If they are not his children, psychological and emotionally the lifes of those
      children will be ruined.He would have done that before the ones born to him by the woman started bearing his name .And again , their birth certificates carries his name.How will you feel if you now know that the name on your birth certificate is not of your real father when you became young adult or you know a little bit of things about life .?

    • @fridaynetel4609
      @fridaynetel4609 Год назад +10

      @@nduodiaka1739
      You're just emotional on the issue, paternity test can be done anytime if the need arise, even if its 50yrs. The husband can even do his own paternity test if there are findings that his mother once cheated on his father way back.
      So for a woman like this, paternity test is very important. Forget about birth certificate, trauma, they have been bearing his name, he didn't do it from the beginning, its now that he wants to do it, and all that.
      You can't use those excuses not to checkmate a cheating partner.
      What if the biological father is somewhere waiting, and this man is raising the kids, how will his old age look like?
      Unless you are scared for the woman and looking for a soft landing for her.

    • @nduodiaka1739
      @nduodiaka1739 Год назад +2

      @@fridaynetel4609 He has the full right to do parternity test I am only talking in the interest of those innocent children,

  • @philipogunmola9333
    @philipogunmola9333 Год назад +13

    when a good man is fed up, nothing anyone can do about it.

  • @henryfamo
    @henryfamo Год назад +67

    I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.

    • @evelyinipaja7022
      @evelyinipaja7022 Год назад +1

      I agree with you, that this woman is troublesome.

    • @herminedobson5036
      @herminedobson5036 Год назад

      She is a bad woman

    • @uchechukwuuzougbo710
      @uchechukwuuzougbo710 Год назад

      Is really good to hear stories from both sides before concluding on who is wrong. I was thinking Mr. Bello must be a devil when i was listening to Mrs Bello. But later hearing the man's side of the story and the way the woman was even reacting to it made it very obvious who the bad person is between the two of them. The man must have really had enough and decided to run to save his life.

    • @horlayiwolahorlajeedey7297
      @horlayiwolahorlajeedey7297 Год назад

      ​@@evelyinipaja7022l😊

  • @kinniemanyeh9601
    @kinniemanyeh9601 Год назад +8

    Chai!!!! We men are going through a lot. Thank God Hakimi paid back. Just 1 time but gives us a sigh of relief.

  • @annefalola9278
    @annefalola9278 Год назад +51

    Unhappy marriages are so sad! I pray they both find peace.

  • @abokkolang4218
    @abokkolang4218 Год назад +26

    She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist

  • @stephennwadere5140
    @stephennwadere5140 Год назад +59

    So happy to see Judge Funmi doing what she knows how to do best

  • @adajiojonimi3254
    @adajiojonimi3254 Год назад +18

    I can relate very well, the man should find a life again.

  • @Warrake53
    @Warrake53 Год назад +10

    Husbands even if you are not interested in the marriage please don't let it affect the welfare of the children.

  • @ayoronkekemi8215
    @ayoronkekemi8215 Год назад +8

    The most important part is the upkeep of your children

  • @oladokunowoola599
    @oladokunowoola599 Год назад +19

    Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.

  • @remikatvongrim2641
    @remikatvongrim2641 Год назад +20

    Her body language says it all, she is a piece of work

  • @giftedet5782
    @giftedet5782 Год назад +29

    may God not allow us to settle down with a wrong partner , they were not made to be together💔💔😢😢

    • @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034
      @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 Год назад +1

      Amennnnnnn!

    • @osasgodspower8042
      @osasgodspower8042 Год назад

      @@favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 AMEN

    • @chimadavid2321
      @chimadavid2321 Год назад +1

      He who fineth a wife fineth a good thing and uptaineth favor from God.theres no perfect match in marriage,is only those who are there makes it perfect.untill everyone knows there limits marriage will never stand.if you like be a real pastor.and one person can't fight for a better home, the two must put head together

  • @onyekwereiwobi1195
    @onyekwereiwobi1195 Год назад +14

    Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage

  • @dede9318
    @dede9318 Год назад +8

    Oh no. May he run far away from this woman and never look back. I even feel bad for him, he has to tolerate her until the kids are 18 years.

    • @gabrielpavel8846
      @gabrielpavel8846 Год назад

      I'm telling you, you sometimes is just like to be single for life is better, from my observation here this lady has no good intentions towards this man

    • @femidivine4323
      @femidivine4323 Год назад

      No. The man can have their custody earlier than 18yrs old

  • @patiencepatrick8608
    @patiencepatrick8608 Год назад +10

    Happy to see Justice court notification
    E dey give me joy
    And . learning alot
    Thank you ma
    God bless you
    The man is from same state as me wow

  • @adeolaajibola3419
    @adeolaajibola3419 Год назад +3

    This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it

  • @johnjennifer2387
    @johnjennifer2387 Год назад +29

    He needs a DNA please, all i can see in her is narcissistic behavior.

    • @hlengiwemasondo2858
      @hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад +2

      Lol 😆 I thought the same , I know a story like this and it turned out the woman committed paternity court.

    • @JulyMediaTV
      @JulyMediaTV 6 месяцев назад

      Exactly my view. The woman is evil. The man is very weak.

  • @deanaWnelson
    @deanaWnelson Год назад +48

    i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go

    • @deanaWnelson
      @deanaWnelson Год назад

      @Philip C Carpentier Here, Sylvia Regina White, she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex. lookher up, youll find her website

    • @julietwasih1656
      @julietwasih1656 Год назад

      Congratulations sir

    • @alextmichaelmoji5101
      @alextmichaelmoji5101 Год назад

      @@julietwasih1656ok

    • @davidamen7747
      @davidamen7747 Год назад

      @@deanaWnelson scammer 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @peacefulflourish5539
    @peacefulflourish5539 Год назад +2

    Ma'am you're the best lawyer in the whole wide world 😌♥️♥️ I love you..I wish you more wisdom, knowledge and prosperity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼❣️

  • @amorkor4
    @amorkor4 Год назад +66

    I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life

    • @SkidCudi
      @SkidCudi Год назад +8

      This is why you have to listen to both sides of the story.

    • @vincentchike9579
      @vincentchike9579 Год назад +3

      Exactly my advice to the man... Aggressive women can drain a man Financially and Physically.. talking out of experience

    • @amorkor4
      @amorkor4 Год назад

      @@SkidCudi Exactly my point.

    • @easyware
      @easyware Год назад +4

      Exactly! Before the man spoke, I was already very angry with him. Yes, we must always listen carefully to both sides of the story.

    • @yemifadipe7161
      @yemifadipe7161 Год назад

      Lol

  • @eberekoko1858
    @eberekoko1858 Год назад +9

    Mrs Bello needs to go for anger management workshop. I pray her husband forgives her because he has already had enough.

    • @okekechukwudi1475
      @okekechukwudi1475 Год назад

      Forgive who? Just dey play, he has already shoot himself in the foot by marrying a single mother and forgiving her cheating ass something he shouldn't have done. Any man that forgive a cheating woman will have himself to blame

  • @PeaceMbakwe
    @PeaceMbakwe 3 месяца назад +1

    May God have mercy on this troublesome woman

  • @queenkuty1221
    @queenkuty1221 Год назад +6

    She beat someone's child and mistreated them!!!!!??? She deserves what she gets

  • @annabellasergey9482
    @annabellasergey9482 Год назад +7

    Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...

    • @nebochukwuemeka3152
      @nebochukwuemeka3152 Год назад +1

      But women can hide there character at that stage, you can easily know a man during courtship.

  • @lolaabe2964
    @lolaabe2964 Год назад +53

    Both are eloquent and are able to express themselves clearly, no further comment till next week. God bless Judge Funmi.

    • @alinayili2199
      @alinayili2199 Год назад +1

      I love that. That's an Open Minded person there

    • @Sislloyd847
      @Sislloyd847 Год назад

      You know, these things will happen, going to church and don't have a relationship with your God. What kind of example are you setting for the children?

    • @uwisikesamuel2703
      @uwisikesamuel2703 Год назад +3

      Marriage is d MOST difficult exam to write! NOBODY IS PERFECTED OR HAVE EVER GRADUATED FROM IT, EXCEPT WEN DEAD SET IN. EVERY FAMILY'S HAS THERE CROSS CARRYING. SO NOBODY QUALIFY TO MEDIATE ON MARRIAGE EXCEPT GOD D AUTHOR OF D MARRIAGE.

    • @crypticcyril8005
      @crypticcyril8005 Год назад

      @@alinayili2199 What context of the text echoes "Open Mindedness"? This is the case of a woman that dispays an attitude that is horrifyingly reprehensible and I should expect a very objective analysis of the case at hand. Did you see the body language of the woman while the man spoke on the antecedents that led to them being in court?

    • @crypticcyril8005
      @crypticcyril8005 Год назад

      How delightfully paradoxical that the "Plaintiff" was indeed the culprit. @Lola.The double standard is so palpable and I know that many women were disappointed with the man, hoping that he was indeed the violent one.
      You had no room to vilify the plaintiff "Emma Bello" , and all you could speak on was how they were able to articulate their point(s), even though it was clear that the gentle man, with an unstintingly remarkable demeanour, was effortless in his diction and with his choice of words.
      My point is that you would have sponsored an uprising if the man was indeed the villain and "The me-too" gremlins will have all risen to the occasion, to literally scavenge on the man's soul. You are suddenly lost for words.

  • @isaackalu2512
    @isaackalu2512 Год назад +121

    It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.

    • @uwisikesamuel2703
      @uwisikesamuel2703 Год назад +1

      Marriage is a school you got a certificate b4 you start d school without exam, yet know graduations, it just endurance nd hoping one day dead will set in to put asunder

    • @mobi6341
      @mobi6341 Год назад +17

      The man is calm does not make him a saint. From his shortcoming, he lacks the duty of care to the children. Irrespective of what must have happened between them, the children welfare comes first.

    • @pekunfajemisin1238
      @pekunfajemisin1238 Год назад +1

      Bros , what else have you got in reserve

    • @happybaby4898
      @happybaby4898 Год назад +1

      @@pekunfajemisin1238 🤣🤣🤣 I wonder oo

    • @elvis4best
      @elvis4best Год назад +6

      @@mobi6341 yes, the welfare of the children come first, but when you have a wife like this, you will regret your life and don't want to have anything to do with such woman. Where he made the mistake is not bringing her first daughter to take responsibility. Open account for her and send every penny to your daughter. At least 15yrs is matured enough while he allow the woman to leave a single mother's life. She have a child before and this man took the responsibility of the child, but she have the heart and mind to lock him outside of his own house, house the she is not paying rent. Women are crying outside they don't have husband, why you that have is pushing him outside. If she is frustrated, she don't have the right to put her frustration on another person. Everybody is frustrated in the country, most people are just managing their frustration.

  • @christianndubuisi8433
    @christianndubuisi8433 Год назад +8

    The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.

    • @omanoyeedum22
      @omanoyeedum22 Год назад

      Was he force to marry her with a son?

  • @gbemisolaolojo9256
    @gbemisolaolojo9256 Год назад +8

    I laughed hard when Akin said Priscilla Ojo 😂,he must be a big fan of Priscy;Iyabo Ojo’s daughter

  • @margaretdaniel5878
    @margaretdaniel5878 Год назад +5

    Is always good to hear from both side

  • @ericgreg7681
    @ericgreg7681 Год назад +7

    If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.

    • @nwoluoluchi109
      @nwoluoluchi109 Год назад

      Your mum didn't go to court cos she had no money....

    • @ericgreg7681
      @ericgreg7681 Год назад

      @@nwoluoluchi109 those days nothing like that dear

  • @henriettaemoekabu285
    @henriettaemoekabu285 Год назад +10

    I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.

    • @PepTalkTillYouDrop
      @PepTalkTillYouDrop Год назад

      Family members probably confused him. Recall when he said a family member joked that their problems stemmed from their union not being legalized which prompted him to do a church wedding but the lady picked a fight on their way back from the wedding?

  • @kingtemitemidayo938
    @kingtemitemidayo938 Год назад +2

    Watching from U.K. much luv to the amazing judge 👩‍⚖️🇳🇬💐💐

  • @ayokunle9424
    @ayokunle9424 Год назад +46

    Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.

    • @Storessa1.
      @Storessa1. Год назад +1

      Please who is a narcissist and what are their character traits?

    • @chidinmaojigwe5825
      @chidinmaojigwe5825 Год назад +9

      I noticed that as well. And she smirked all through.

    • @LucianaJacyOzy
      @LucianaJacyOzy Год назад +1

      God Bless You

    • @BeckEddie
      @BeckEddie Год назад +5

      @@Storessa1. do your research online.

    • @Storessa1.
      @Storessa1. Год назад +1

      @@BeckEddie please let me ayokunle reply me
      I know why I asked

  • @careeyam8873
    @careeyam8873 Год назад +2

    The Lady is collected as well and seem to be calm even when the man was explaining his side of the story. Please takecare of your kids

    • @haziri5118
      @haziri5118 Год назад

      Lol it was very difficult for her. I could tell from her body language.

  • @princeemmanuel2544
    @princeemmanuel2544 Год назад +6

    i know her type...the need DNA to even confirm those children....

  • @teegoldakinsglobal4563
    @teegoldakinsglobal4563 Год назад

    My candid advise to the is that regardless...show your children love and be responsible.

  • @sheedashee3959
    @sheedashee3959 Год назад +4

    Peace of mind is important 😌

    • @olajideogunjimi2710
      @olajideogunjimi2710 Год назад

      Bello run, my brother. I fear for your love. she's not serious

  • @seeplaceswithada4282
    @seeplaceswithada4282 Год назад

    This woman is a case oo jesus 😭 see soft spoken man, caring and a provider gosh

  • @alexlouis9424
    @alexlouis9424 Год назад +19

    The way she first petitioned her case as if she was innocent.

  • @chukwukeereagoha7024
    @chukwukeereagoha7024 Месяц назад

    This guy is good husband very rare to get.

  • @judeobanor8756
    @judeobanor8756 Год назад +7

    I see a man who left all the love of his children with his wife,they are closer to her, she's turning them against him ..

  • @richieabdul8233
    @richieabdul8233 Год назад +1

    Calm couples in speech but only God knows how their tolerance cycle is. But I think judge funmi is doing a great job.

  • @rachaelogunleye4603
    @rachaelogunleye4603 Год назад +7

    As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.

    • @rachaelogunleye4603
      @rachaelogunleye4603 Год назад +1

      @@Ceedee824 You might have missed out on the part where they said the child now bears his name, if he adopted the child, that's his responsibility now. You don't have to be the father to have responsibility over a child. There's nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a child, he knew she had a child when he married her.

    • @jiddec
      @jiddec Год назад

      @@Ceedee824
      Raising an innocent child is not mumu.

    • @moujekwuemmanuel6162
      @moujekwuemmanuel6162 Год назад

      Say no to single mother men no go hear...they are bitter and narcissistic in nature u sound like one

  • @dickjustus
    @dickjustus 4 месяца назад

    This guy is a calmed guy
    I like him

  • @tolagee1497
    @tolagee1497 Год назад +3

    Alot of people here won't understand what the man is going through. Immediately you marry a wrong partner....boom your hell start here on earth

  • @ucol2068
    @ucol2068 Год назад +2

    Is always good to end this thing before kids get involved.

  • @bihngwee4069
    @bihngwee4069 Год назад +7

    Paternity test is necessary in this case before the next step

  • @fibby-enymore6601
    @fibby-enymore6601 Год назад +8

    ThIs woman is a curse upon this gentle calm man & it's his decency & calmness that this heartless woman is using against him & even taking advantage of as well... She's simply evil & doesn't deserve such a responsible man... She has no respect for her husband.. As a lady, I wish the man can divorce her to have peace of mind...

  • @Pearl916
    @Pearl916 Год назад +25

    Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24

    • @alabisundayakinlabi3897
      @alabisundayakinlabi3897 Год назад +1

      wrong verse aunty

    • @israelagbeja9348
      @israelagbeja9348 Год назад

      You're so on point! The Bible is so so complete.

    • @Pearl916
      @Pearl916 Год назад

      @@alabisundayakinlabi3897 Edited, thanks for the correction 🙏🏽

    • @abdulaikoroma1604
      @abdulaikoroma1604 Год назад +1

      I think the guy is a peaceful and humble guy she drove him away and when a man back's up they back up for real

    • @heldkanyurira8048
      @heldkanyurira8048 Год назад

      Thanks dear for preaching

  • @nnannaoketa7675
    @nnannaoketa7675 5 месяцев назад +16

    It is better to live in the desert than to live with this type of woman.

  • @ibrahimdidamson2067
    @ibrahimdidamson2067 Год назад +3

    From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔

  • @betikuvictor409
    @betikuvictor409 Год назад +4

    Justice funmi should make this more of a conversation after getting the full story behind the scene so that we the viewers can get the full story also. It feels like an incomplete story because the plaintiff didn't get to defend her story

  • @faithnkiru3607
    @faithnkiru3607 Год назад

    Oh Lord give this innocent man peace of mind, women! Women!! Women!!! Una matter dey God ✋

  • @olusegunekundayo5955
    @olusegunekundayo5955 Год назад +13

    Mere looking at her face one would know she is contentious and confrontational.they love taking advantage of a gentleman.

  • @Mimi-mo9lj
    @Mimi-mo9lj 4 месяца назад

    This man seems to be telling the truth, i even feel sorry for him

  • @ronniebalogun6440
    @ronniebalogun6440 Год назад +14

    There IS Always two sides to a story.. I started hating on the man when She gave her own verdict... NOW SEE all he said 🙄

  • @davedeluxe6196
    @davedeluxe6196 Год назад +1

    Always vet people properly before allowing them into your life!

  • @ademolaolanrewaju9732
    @ademolaolanrewaju9732 Год назад +3

    I love their command of English

    • @uchevickaye2919
      @uchevickaye2919 Год назад +1

      My Northern brother can speak good English... That's nice

    • @hlengiwemasondo2858
      @hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад

      @@uchevickaye2919 hope he excels in his language too

  • @ibehsamcynthiaifeanyi1888
    @ibehsamcynthiaifeanyi1888 7 месяцев назад

    The man is a good person I must tell you,well it's a lesson to my kind of person

  • @gisehernandez5634
    @gisehernandez5634 Год назад +8

    The plaintiff is a typical angry mother. Just how she stands, chewing gum in the court shows lack of respect. I know the defendant is frustrated. He should seek a lawyer to organize the upkeep for the kids should be done. I pray the kids make something of their lives or are able to live with their father eventually.

    • @jennyb5721
      @jennyb5721 Год назад +1

      I see no evidence of her being angry or chewing gum I think you are mistaken

  • @bakareadekunle8236
    @bakareadekunle8236 9 месяцев назад

    For every action you make, always think of the outcome eventually. This woman is a trouble on her own, it is obvious.

  • @osas3857
    @osas3857 Год назад +3

    People with hot temper should please go sort a solution. I dated a girl who had a very high one...thank God im free today

  • @chikwadoagbo2287
    @chikwadoagbo2287 Год назад +2

    Well God is the ultimate judge but I believe the man more than the woman

  • @nwachukwukenneth8262
    @nwachukwukenneth8262 Год назад

    See how she started with "🥺🥺🥺 your lordship and he did this and that" damn...obiriiiinn

  • @gladysuchenna-nwanedo
    @gladysuchenna-nwanedo Год назад +75

    This is a hard one, but the man is more believable than the lady. The worst thing is to marry a narcissist. The trauma alone is mind addling.

    • @jeremiahiro7418
      @jeremiahiro7418 Год назад +6

      Oh, you are so on point. This is that point where they say we should forget about their past. We need to know what happened in her first marriage or situationship

    • @nnamdigifted5789
      @nnamdigifted5789 Год назад +2

      The man is believable because he is a man 🙄

    • @Storessa1.
      @Storessa1. Год назад

      Please explain who a narcissist is in your own terms?

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp Год назад +2

      @@nnamdigifted5789 This is the problem with Nigeria, it's a misogynisgtic society. Men are put on a pedestal. How can you make such an ignorant statement, "men don't lie".

    • @prinasblendempire1633
      @prinasblendempire1633 Год назад +3

      @@aaa-pp madam this is the problem with us women, we see the truth and claim ignorance, how is it possible for her to move when the rent has not expired, and also said she is scared he will relocate them to his village, did you not see the lies she blows

  • @oluwaseyeige197
    @oluwaseyeige197 Год назад

    I embrace the views of the judge.

  • @8oyejideakinwale751
    @8oyejideakinwale751 5 месяцев назад

    Judge Funmi Ashaolu, wishing you more wisdom and knowledge.

  • @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034
    @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 Год назад +27

    See, I know the woman may have her own bad side. But as a man and a father too. He doesn't have to abandon his children because of the woman's bad behavior. If he doesn't want the woman fine. No one is forcing him. But, he has to stand up for his responsibility for his own children as a father. I trust ma-ma funmi she will correct him on that same in the next episode.

    • @autodesk_empire
      @autodesk_empire Год назад +6

      So he doesn't stand for his responsibility yet he accepts her other child and support her in the first place. Continue....

    • @Naijanest
      @Naijanest Год назад +3

      If the woman is taking advantage of the situation to Syphon money from the man. It's annoying

    • @temitopejulius5956
      @temitopejulius5956 Год назад +2

      Like u ar using 1 percentage to reason in this matter, or is that the way you are

    • @olagokeolayiwola8111
      @olagokeolayiwola8111 Год назад

      Ure obviously one of the problems of this world. When you can’t just say the truth.

    • @godsfavoursaint5055
      @godsfavoursaint5055 Год назад +3

      This case is different oh, see its better to stay at the corner of the roof than to stay with a contentious & trouble some woman. There's no man that will stay with you with you are troublesome

  • @УАо-ж1ш
    @УАо-ж1ш Год назад +1

    That lady with gold short hair always present In court....her facial expression tho😆

  • @femidivine4323
    @femidivine4323 Год назад +5

    Huuummnnn For the fact that Mrs Bello confirmed that her husband accepted her child from her previous marriage shows his love and compassion to her, taking responsibility of the child from another marriage shows how responsible he is.
    His current reaction must be borne out of frustration from a troublesome, insatiable and nagging wife. A woman who can go outside of her matrimonial home to collect gift from another man,travel for days with same man now runs to Court to ask for endless money from her husband that she never respect or love under the guess of children welfare.
    She ran here simply because she knew Justice Funmi will always have sympathy for children in cases like this.
    Though the children welfare is the prayer before the court, it will be nice to look into the allegation of violence and infidelity levied against her which she never refuted. The man should equally ask for the custody of all the children that are above 7 years. Chikena
    NEVER MARRY OUT OF PITY. This has always been my counsel to the upcoming young ones .

    • @morenikejiogunbona4703
      @morenikejiogunbona4703 Год назад +1

      This lady is a disloyal wife. She is not ready to stay with a husband. She wants to continue enjoying life with other men.
      How is the man even sure that the children are his.

    • @erumiwoyowevincent9356
      @erumiwoyowevincent9356 Год назад +1

      Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. God bless you with more wisdom.

    • @davidamen7747
      @davidamen7747 Год назад +2

      @@morenikejiogunbona4703 she pretended to love the man because she needed help raising her first child...

  • @obyuniquefashion455
    @obyuniquefashion455 Год назад +1

    See the way This women dey talk like better person 😂

  • @verdmannlearningcentre3295
    @verdmannlearningcentre3295 Год назад +5

    Never missed an episode, notification when de give joy.

  • @CarenSchuchardtTl
    @CarenSchuchardtTl 4 месяца назад +2

    Shes so immature.... she's still feeling fine girl and can do life. Accepting money from a man outside without the consent of your husband. Bro leave her tf alone.

  • @mwattamaeb1493
    @mwattamaeb1493 Год назад +3

    The woman is the problem , women make homes so hostile the man had no choice but to leave for his sanity . That woman is a big problem you can tell

  • @judebadaki7920
    @judebadaki7920 Год назад

    A real gentleman!

  • @EkwerikeColman
    @EkwerikeColman 9 месяцев назад

    Your lordship Fumi, Ma, I want to commend your contributions to our present society, I pray God to reward you for making good use of your talent,. permit me to say this your lordship, please Ma, a better result can be achieved if you make an open rebuke on both couples of the areas of their wrong did that brought about their breakup during your cross examinations , there after your judgement. Ma, I believe it will help to reduce the increase in divorcement, and all together earn you more reward from God Almighty . because, I am more concerned about the future of the children.Thank you Ma.

  • @alewiabayomi7114
    @alewiabayomi7114 Год назад +4

    There is nothing bad in marrying a single mother. But men should make sure they make research and know the reason why her previous marriage failed be settling down with them, regardless of she narrate her story.
    70% of those single mother and not worthy to build home 🏠 with.
    The woman is not ready for serious marriage, after 5kids she still I find it hard to be faithful with her husband. The man is calm though.

    • @ruth_adewole_o
      @ruth_adewole_o Год назад

      Your statistics is flawed!!! I hope you have statistics for single fathers too

    • @alewiabayomi7114
      @alewiabayomi7114 Год назад

      @@ruth_adewole_o comparing both gender is where you get it wrong. We are not the same and we can never be. But you need to know the reason for his failed relationship too.

  • @nwububrichard8470
    @nwububrichard8470 9 месяцев назад

    More GRACE to the judge, who is lying now

  • @ndgreat81
    @ndgreat81 Год назад +4

    this woman is a certified trouble maker manipulative and defensive lair

  • @mattheweigbadon816
    @mattheweigbadon816 Год назад +1

    He should take care of his children and let this woman go her way.she s taking advantage of the man

  • @starcashintertech
    @starcashintertech Год назад +72

    This is a disturbing case because both of them were narrating convincingly but this man is calm and humble and its clear she could be taking advantage of that. Again for a man to first take care of your first child that means he's responsible, his irresponsibility started when he doesn't want to associate with her any longer.
    Also, I don't want to believe that this man have partially moved on because of her bad attitude. Peace of mind is underrated.

    • @LucianaJacyOzy
      @LucianaJacyOzy Год назад

      God Bless You.
      Peace of mind is truly underrated my dear.
      Some women are Devil.
      Once they kill the man they quickly remarry.
      I'm a lady. But I have seen a woman who is a devil incarnate.

    • @harrietagadagba3558
      @harrietagadagba3558 Год назад +1

      Exactly my thought

    • @jenniferben2547
      @jenniferben2547 Год назад +8

      Some guys show gentleness and kindness outside bt at home their behavior is different, to the public 'this man is quiet' the woman is the problem because she is more vocal than him. You see those calm, gentle guys?? fear them! if they deal wt u, u ll be surprised and everyone will tell u that u re the cause cuz he cnt hurt a fly

    • @faithchilaka7087
      @faithchilaka7087 Год назад +4

      I hope you don’t meet a calm looking man who will deal with you n play the victim game

    • @GodreassuringLove
      @GodreassuringLove Год назад +2

      Most quite men are deadly,the can hurt you without blinking a eye

  • @VictorIfo
    @VictorIfo 3 месяца назад

    This is a spiritual problem and the solution is deliverance.

  • @mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255
    @mothersprayermeeting-mpm6255 Год назад +3

    Is it after Four good children that he can’t tolerate her temperament again, let’s be slow to judge. Marriage is sensitive.

    • @ugorjivictor5941
      @ugorjivictor5941 Год назад +1

      Yes I believe him.He may try to manage her excesses,but at a point,he may decide to take action.A rubber band has an elastic limit.When you keep stretching it,it won't break till it reaches it's elastic limit.This man has really been stretched and you can tell from his own side of the story and even from the way the both of them are talking,the man doesn't really talk abusively,but the woman's speech is showing that she has an abusive temperament

    • @femilicious
      @femilicious Год назад +1

      Why have 4 kids with a "violent" woman?

    • @knix9014
      @knix9014 Год назад +2

      @@femilicious it called having hope that things will change ,and deep love for that person ....

  • @graceoffionor5523
    @graceoffionor5523 Год назад

    😂 my brother I can relate to your case,I have a neighbor back in Lagos,the wife is always like that very troublsome

  • @obidigitalis
    @obidigitalis Месяц назад

    All bearing his name...
    The man realised something.
    Never marry a single mom especially one with a male child if you ate not ready to stand till the end.

  • @serenitypowers
    @serenitypowers Год назад +4

    From her body language she's hot red pepper. She's something not to talk about. Her body language is speaking more. She seems unbearable giving the man a lot of duress

  • @chibuikeanyadike8288
    @chibuikeanyadike8288 Год назад +2

    OMG!!
    The man is dieing of regret via the marriage, but distancing himself totally from his kids is where he aired
    For the woman, she's so lucky to have remarried, she obviously had a hand in the failing of her first marriage, the man just inherited all the negativity, too bad for him
    Finally, I support the man's decision in leaving the house for her because such bad marriages mostly causes the man to die untimely (happened to ma uncle).
    Only God knows why "Good men find themselves with bad women", and "Good women also find themselves tangled with bad men"

  • @destinyemmanuel2964
    @destinyemmanuel2964 Год назад +3

    Where's our previous narrator's voice???
    This Voice has got no much Grip. 🤔

  • @ndidiamakaubah2094
    @ndidiamakaubah2094 5 месяцев назад

    This wiman need deliverance

  • @Talentdigitalhub
    @Talentdigitalhub Год назад +24

    My suggestion is, Please the court should help this man with the DNA test for the children. This lady is something else o. We from the northern part of Nigeria people always take advantage of us because we're calm. They think they are wiser, even in offices it's the same. Please the honorable judge Fumi. Your honor Ma, help this man he had suffered in the hand of this ungrateful woman. Not because he's from the North like me, but let justice be done we all deserve justice. Thanks 🙏🙏

    • @olatejufaidatmuchloveigatf7426
      @olatejufaidatmuchloveigatf7426 Год назад +3

      I concur

    • @blessedwoman9274
      @blessedwoman9274 Год назад

      Definitely...

    • @samallyhvac3119
      @samallyhvac3119 Год назад +7

      Is like you don't know what you're talking about
      My wife of 9yrs still sleep around with her EX the nigga is frm KD
      She's from Borno state while am Yoruba by tribe
      It boil down to individual
      Pls stop the hate speech

    • @smoothietalkwithsosa
      @smoothietalkwithsosa Год назад +3

      Please don't bring tribe into this. Nobody thinks they're wiser than others just because they're from the north. What has tribalism got to do with this topic now? If I tell you how mean northern people have been to me, you wouldn't even be talking here. Doesn't still mean I'll go about saying people from the North are mean.

    • @LucianaJacyOzy
      @LucianaJacyOzy Год назад

      Lol.
      You're taking tribalism into it already.
      Evil people are everywhere just as calm people are from every tribe.

  • @susanothman7148
    @susanothman7148 Год назад

    She actually needs deliverance, such an irony. It' an excruciating pain hen you marry wrong.

  • @noveltunez6546
    @noveltunez6546 Год назад +9

    As a single man, stay away for single mothers for your own sanity, u don’t know why the baby’s father left

    • @adeyemiadeleye5428
      @adeyemiadeleye5428 Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @sundaykigbu1876
      @sundaykigbu1876 Год назад +1

      But not all , there are some better single mother's than single ladies

    • @anneomoerah
      @anneomoerah Год назад

      Some single mothers also leave abusive marriages and relationships

    • @adeolaoke4165
      @adeolaoke4165 Год назад +1

      What about single fathers?

    • @adeyemiadeleye5428
      @adeyemiadeleye5428 Год назад

      @@adeolaoke4165 it's a different ball game entirely. A single father just needs a woman who can take care of his home, kid, respect and submit to him while he goes out there to provide for the family. Nothing less, nothing more

  • @LydiaNumo
    @LydiaNumo 3 месяца назад

    Third party is the worst thing that can happen in a marriage

  • @gloriazaalman1915
    @gloriazaalman1915 4 месяца назад

    🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ òoooh 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ run man 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ ooooh!!

  • @victoriaalabi8496
    @victoriaalabi8496 Год назад

    The man knew that the only weapon the woman wants to use against him is the kids.He had to set his mind free from the kids to protect himself from this manipulative woman otherwise he would never be free from her wicked shackles.He loves his kids. But he must live first!!!!!!

  • @ambroseambrose641
    @ambroseambrose641 Год назад +1

    Dis is what happened to me many years ago.. i change to three houses 🏘 just under a year..because of the woman I married to. But will are still together now.... but dis man is very quiet i think judge fummi should take dem to canceling 😞

  • @kytchcartoonexpression
    @kytchcartoonexpression Год назад +4

    If it is not you, you can never know how they lie in court. Pretence is the other of the day.