I was told to terminate my second pregnancy because something was terribly wrong with the baby. I didn't. Am very happy to see my completely healthy daughter thrive! There is absolutely nothing wrong with her. She is my favorite person in the world and will soon celebrate her 17th birthday!
My husband's nephew the same- mom told to abort due to down syndrome (even so this is no reason in my opinion), but thing is he was born totally healthy and not with down syndrome either. Let God decide how long or short our lives should be.
@@NotSoNaturalLife exactly! I'm thinking many many babies! They can't even measure babies accurately yet- I was induced due to baby's head being "very big" already according to Dr. After birth he was measured and baby's head was normal size for date and induction was completely unnecessary.
@mo-sy9ws the same thing with me, they genetic tests came back saying my daughter had down syndrome. The doctor was adamant that I should terminate, when I refused he made me sign some disclaimer document. I don't even know what was on the document. 3 years later my daughter does not have down syndrome, she's very healthy ahead of all milestones for children her age. The kindergarten teacher cannot even understand her progress. ...and to think, had I listened to the doctor.
My sister had a complicated, scary pregnancy 7 years ago, when she discovered at 20 weeks that her water had ruptured some time previously. Her baby was still alive, but her doctor at the time suggested that she have an abortion or just go about her daily life waiting for her body to spontaneously abort the child within the next few weeks. Instead, she got in touch with a pro-life OB and opted to put herself on bedrest, first at home and then, four weeks later, in the hospital. Two weeks following that, my sister gave birth to her daughter at 26 weeks 3 days. She spent 53 days in the NICU, and came home weighing just under 5 lbs. Now Veronica is an intelligent, kind 7-year-old without any complications from her early birth or complicated gestation!
Thank God! Happy to have come across this comment. My wife and I had been trying for 10 years to have a child. On a whim her Chiropractor suggested that she go gluten free because of her discomfort and YEARS of unexplained joint pain and inflammation. EVERYONE kept throwing prescriptions at her to manage the issue. Once we changed our diets and left the gluten off the menu, she started to notice the difference IMMEDIATELY! Still, doctors were trying to discredit the change and give her more medication which she declined to take. Once her body started to stabilize we had our first miscarriage. It was exciting and saddening at the same time because up until then there was no movement on us being able to have a child. We were able have our first child who came out at 30 weeks and we are pregnant again with a little girl. I like to tell people that I am a proud father of 5. 3 Heavenly children, one on the way and another that is giving me a run for my money as a parent.
That is crazy.. my friend started leaking at 28 weeks I think, and they admited her to the hospital asap, they want to hold you as long as possible at bed rest for the baby to grow because every day is crucial. She gave birth at 32 weeks. No one in my country (Lithuania) suggest abortion in such cases, they do everything it takes to save the baby. I guess its because abortions first are forbiden after week 12, secondly we have a mixed health care system, so private and public, thus we don't make "bussiness" out of abortions.
@@iammr.h82 Awww beautiful story! I have 5 also. 3 in Heaven and two beautiful girls 18 & 28 here with us. I also have 2 grandbabies in Heaven & 2 With us here ❤❤ They all count! I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia before my 18 yr old was born. Now being tested for Celiac disease (Auto immune gluten allergy) and Rhuematoid Arthritis bcuz my pain and inflammation is off the charts. Glad to hear that removing gluten helped your wife. I feel hopeful after reading of her health struggles. It's awful living in chronic pain. I never got pregnant again after my youngest & they had told me after my 1st miscarriage and birth of my first born and subsequent 2 more miscarriages that I'd likely never carry to term again and had given up hope..10 yrs later my youngest came as a surprise and held on tight. ❤ Congratulations on your new little girl arriving shortly! I absolutely love being a girl Mom. After a long string of girls in the family.. my daughter had our first little boy.. he will be 3 in December. 🥰 my youngest is now engaged and in nursing school. She wants to plan her family after she graduates. Life is beautiful and all babies are precious ❤❤ Congrats Papa Sending up prayers for your family to always be blessed with an abundance of Joy and health. ❤
My parents were told I had a high likelihood of having Down Syndrome and were advised to consider abortion. A couple decades letter, I ended up joining the Marines and serving two tours in Afghanistan, got straight A's in college with university honors, and now have a successful career in finance. Take that, medical system. Guess y'all don't know everything after all. 💪
Same thing happened to my daughter! She too chose life, her son, has a 4. In college and such a wonderful kind young man who is a force of good and a voice God uses
The test that they make show you stats, but they are not 100% sure ever. I know a case where a women was told that 70% was the chance for down syndrome, she choose not to abort, the baby was healthy. 🤷 But all in all we are just killing straight forward down syndrome children, which shouldn't we in general think of another way how to take care of them? Its eugenics.
My black doctor advised me to do an amniocentesis because my triple screen for downs came back positive. I was pregnant with twins. Although I was not happy with my pregnancy due to marital problems I was not ready to do an abortion as she advised Finally I got tired of her bashing me every time I saw her. I got so pissed off and told her whatever God wants me to have thats what I'm having. I had 2 healthy boys who are now 25 years old. My marriage fell apart 2 months after they were born. I took care of my 3 boys all by myself. Divorce my no good husband. Finished school with a degree in accounting and ended my education as a RN Bsn Cpn. God in his mercies saw me through every day and im grateful for all the mercies he had shown me. Today I serve a risen savior and looking forward to 31 years at my current job and retirement in the near future.
My son was diagnosed with Congenital Heart Defects at 21 weeks in utero. I was given three options: 1) End the pregnancy 2) Surgeries after birth 3) Do nothing (comfort care after birth) We chose the only option that gave life to my son. He's 8 years old now and thriving!
So happy your aon is healthy and happy❤❤❤ 21 weels is so early. I am wondering did anything resolve prior to birth? They do so much more developing after that. (Except sometimes they don't because these types of diagnosis encourage premature medically induced birth.)😢 In my research I have learned that ultra sound is far from precise and could even be harmful.
I’ve worked in high risk ob for going on 20 years and she is totally correct. I’ve been wanting to scream this for years. We have never had a situation, even at a trauma hospital, where an abortion was medically necessary. We would deliver the baby alive and do everything we could to save both the mother and the baby.
I worked as an ICU nurse and we did several emergency C-sections to save both mom and baby. The NICU team would be right there to work on the baby while we took care of the mother.
What about an ectopic pregnancy? This is not a sustainable pregnancy and is life threatening for the mom. I developed pre-eclampsia and HELLPS with my second and she was born premature (a healthy 19 yr old now), so yes, I absolutely agree that there is zero medical reason to abort after the first trimester. But in first trimester, with ectopic pregnancy, there is no other option and time is not on your side.
At my 20 week scan of my first pregnancy, I was told that my baby had no kidneys and was incompatible with life. I will never forget the doctor’s words when in shock I asked what that meant. She said, “your baby is not going to make it, if I were you I would abort.” Then she walked away. By the grace of God, I refused to terminate my pregnancy and give my baby the warmth, care, and life, I could best give her. I was told that my life was at risk if I decided to proceed with the pregnancy. I never thought that I would have to argue against abortion with my doctors. I was told that my baby would likely not make it to full term and if she did I would need a c section and she would either be still birth or last a couple minutes alive. My husband and I prayed the rosary everyday. I carried my daughter to full term, I held her peacefully alive for 7 beautiful days before she was lifted up to heaven. My daughter Rosalie is the best gift God could have given me. During her time here, I felt what I would best describe a little taste of heaven. My daughter gifted me what it means to Love. God gives you grace.
One of my dearest friends was pregnant with twins and one baby was given a zero percent chance of living by 9 different doctors. The ultrasound showed that the baby did not have an amniotic sac around her. My friend kept getting inspiration from God that the baby was "not dead until she's dead." She kept going until she found a doctor that was willing to try to save the baby's life. Turns out, her baby's amniotic sac was Saran wrapped around the baby and ultrasounds couldn't see it. She spent a couple months in the NICU she is a beautiful, vibrant 8 year old now with her twin sister! 😊
Beautiful! I gave birth to a 21 week 5 day infant in 2022. She breathed on her own for 7 hours and I held her as long as I could. I know she’s in heaven. I gave her all the life I could. She was baptized as well;)
Thank you, yes I believe she is and I’ve lost 3 others at earlier gestation that I wasn’t able to baptize so I appreciate this. Can you tell me what verse you’re referencing though? Thank you. It was a gift to be able to baptize my daughter. It was a right of passage and very healing for me to know she had that sacrament.
@@TN-bi9qf the Bible says you are not subject to the judgement until you are at the age of reason ( to understand why you need the gospel) since babies, young children, mentally handicapped people, don't understand yet, they get to go to heaven automatically.
Unless you are born again in water and in Spirit you cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven, In the Old testament babies were circumcised to be part of Gods Chosen People, In the new testament Baptism replaces circumcision and is necessary to be part of Gods Chosen people The promise is to You and to YOUR CHILDREN says the Apostle Peter in the book of Acts of the Apostles Cornelius was baptized and also his ENTIRE FAMILY was baptized too, that includes children Children don’t have Sin but are BORN with the original sin PSALM 51:5 Indeed, I was born guilty, a sinner since my mother conceived me. “By one man Adam death entered the world” Saint John the Baptist did not want to baptize Jesus because Jesus Had No Sin!!! Jesus said we must do this so That ALL JUSTICE IS ACCOMPLISHED Children need baptism not because they are sinners, but because they must be born in WATER AND SPIRIT TO FULFILL GODS JUSTICE
Dr R is the real deal - I saw her when I was trying to conceive my 3rd baby and she was so encouraging and offered so many insights. I got pregnant the following month and am about to deliver my baby in 2 weeks. I'm so glad more people are hearing her story and her message.
I was encouraged to abort my sixth child because the doctor told me I would die if I delivered the baby. My other five children knew we were expecting another child helped me to stand up and tell the doctor that I would find another physician if he did not want to be my doctor. Jacob is 28 years old and serving in the US Air Force. Yes, I went through a trying six weeks in a medically induced coma. I went to rehabilitation to learn how to walk and speak after that, but Jacob was FINE! Worth it? ABSOLUTELY!!! I also had a 90% abruption with my second pregnancy. She was born 4 weeks early, and is a master’s level counselor with three children of her own. GOD is able! Trust HIM!!!
This was excellent! My grandmother was diagnosed with Tuberculosis in 1932 while married with 2 small children. Her doctor advised that whatever she did, she mustn't get pregnant again because there was no real idea of how to cure Tuberculosis, but within a short time she discovered she already was pregnant. My grandfather took her to a big city at her 7th month where she delivered a 3 pound 5 ounce baby girl. Sadly, my grandmother died of Tuberculosis 10 days later. But the baby girl stayed in an incubator for 2 months till her widowed father could take her home to her siblings. He managed to get a nurse for the children, and the baby girl was healthy, smart and beautiful! She became a teacher, a wife, and my mother! She had 3 girls, we've had 5 children, and they've had 4 children so far. My mother lived to be 84, and I am so glad her mother did not abort her. Here we are, 92 years later, and so many of us would never have lived. Abortion doesn't just end one life, but generations of lives. Thank you for your message and your work, Dr Ruberu!
My mother too was advised to abort her pregnancy because she had recovered from tuberculosis in the late 1930s. Thank God my grandmother encouraged my mother to Trust God that all would go well. I am mother of five and grandmother of nine children who wouldn't be here.
Fertility is not a disease. Pregnancy is not an illness. Birth is not an emergency. Breastfeeding is not unnatural. The medicalization of women is evil. Women should be cared and respected for their beautiful design, the ability to become mothers. It’s all connected.
Pregnancy is an illness. Women should have paid leave for any sick day they need when pregnant and we need time off work to recover after giving birth. Babies are little mammals and need mummy and daddy to cuddle them when they are tiny. It is because women are not supported, empowered and compensated that they chose not to carry children. I am fully pro choice. Even more so after being deserted by my ex and living in poverty with two special needs kids. Because in my shoes I don't think many women would last. Society makes women pay a high price for having children. I am not able to watch this video anymore as it is ridiculous
@@zoeolsson5683I'm not sick I'm pregnant. I'm not ill I'm pregnant. I can do things and not coughing up a lung or need blood. I'm so sick of people acting as if pregnant women are sick and have an illness. We are not sick we are pregnant. We aren't caughing up lungs and need medication in order to get rid of an illness. Actually no illness benefits the body the way pregnancy does.
@@zoeolsson5683 I agree mothers and their children should be cared for most especially by the father/husband. Mothers should not kill their children. Fathers should not abandon their children. #protectthefamily
@@zoeolsson5683pregnancy is still not an illnesses its a natural physiological phenomenon which has its risk and can be precarious and pretty spontaneous but with the right support we can address them and mitigate them especially with modern medecine im sorry you didnt get the support you need but it doesnt justify killing innocent life you should fight for proper support services to be available
Here is a story I never told to anyone and the main reason why I'm pro life. My girlfriend at the time received a call from one of her friend who had just received an abortion. On speakerphone, I heard her describe the procedure and I felt physically sick. The fact that they give Valium or other drugs to "calm" down is even worse because there is a reason for the anguish and hesitation: you are ending your child. In the moment you don't understand what is truly happening and lose your will to stand up for yourself, you're just mellowed out, but when you come down reality catches you back. I could hear how broken she was and how she was just starting to realize the permanence of her decision (heavily influenced by the current nihilistic culture, mind you) The pain in her voice still haunts me, knowing how the medical field treats abortion as the best solution.
Thank you for sharing. It's extremely traumatic for the women that undergo that life-altering procedure. I've never, but I know women who have. Even though they willingly chose that course of action, learning to live with the aftermath is difficult.
Yes, the aftermath is so traumatic, it still haunts me, 24 years later. It especially hit home every time I gave birth to my 3 children.... When my 3 children were born later in my 20s and 30s, instead of being in the "happy baby bubble", I spent SO SO SO much time mourning my abortion and the choice made when I was 18 and scared. It hits home and to this day I regret and hate myself for the choice I made.
@@melissabrodie1484The regret is not wrong…but I want you to know you are loved. God takes what the Enemy meant for evil and uses it to His glory. There is something about the situation that God will use. And you are not hated…you are loved. You are loved. You are loved. ❤️
When i was 20 weeks pregnant they saw 2 cysts on my babys brain and suggested it could mean she had a rare horrible disease. She was born conpletely healthy. She is in preschool now.
100%. As someone who has had an ectopic pregnancy, I’m sick of that scenario, among others, being used as a means of justifying elective abortion or being equated with it as if they are the same when they are not. I find it truly astonishing that people are so misinformed and/or in denial about what pregnancy is, what abortion is, and what ethical medical care is thay they can’t see the differences between life and death, killing and allowing for the possibility of death, etc. As a Christian I know the Bible says that the heart is wicked and people deny God’s righteousness, but I still continue to be heartbroken and astounded by the disgusting and sad nature of it all. Lord, save us! Show us Your wisdom and soften hearts toward You.
I had questions and concerns about ectopic pregnancies and whether it’s viewed by God the same as willful abortion if for the life of the mother, an ectopic pregnancy is disrupted. It’s always His will above ours so I don’t ever want to stand with something he’s against. But I was stumped about the ectopic pregnancy topic because idk much about it
@@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii Actually, no. Ectopic pregnancies can be saved, though some people try to hide that information. Look up "Efforts to transfer ectopic embryos to the uterine cavity: A systematic review" by the Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology Research
Not only medical professionals but ALL of us should be asking ourselves how did we get to a society where the QUESTION if killing a baby was even AN OPTION !?!?! That’s not even a question us humans have the right to deny. even in the worst situation that the left always uses “ra**” and in that situation I say the baby doesn’t need to be raised by the victim but not KILL IT !?!?! I told my ex when she started to try dispute this with me it’s the way the question it self is said up that disgust ME ! Why are kids having unprotected eggs without parents being held responsible???? Especially men as a man I say any man that abandons child they will be jailed same with woman but they get fined so many solutions I just gave that can end this once for all but no one listens. Sorry for yapping I can’t stand to think about lifeless babies
A person coming to her with a life threatening pregnancy or an unwanted pregnancy and being told by her to remain pregnant because she won’t help them, will not call this doctor kind, consistent or compassionate. Listen to the suffering and trauma that pregnant people have experienced instead of leaning on your religious ideology, and you would know.
@@BlahblahBlop Abortion is NEVER medically necessary as “treatment”. You cannot love your neighbor while supporting or accepting systems that crush, exploit, and dehumanize them. So in order for someone to prove me wrong when I say abortion is never medically necessary as treatment (using the CDC definition of abortion), they’d have to show me a situation where we have a living child inside of the woman’s uterus, where it is NECESSARY to INTENTIONALLY kill that child in the uterus, and then deliver the child dead…rather than ultimately allowing that child to have a live birth. So keep in mind, if you have to induce pre-term delivery or induce labor early to save the life of the mother and that child comes out alive, and you’re NOT intentionally killing the child in the womb prior to the birth, then that is NOT considered an abortion. You would have to show me an instance where it’s necessary to INTENTIONALLY kill the child in the uterus and then deliver the child in order to prove me wrong. So I will stress it again…It has to be MEDICALLY NECESSARY, as in there is no other way. So if you could deliver the child prematurely and it’s just an unfortunate consequence that after that child is delivered alive that because it was a premature delivery the child can’t survive on its own outside the womb and it dies outside the womb after a live birth, that’s NOT considered an abortion. You’d have to show me an example where you have to intentionally kill the child in the uterus FIRST, and THEN deliver the child dead. Rather than just delivering that child alive. I have NOT SEEN any evidence that it is ever NECESSARY to intentionally kill a child in the uterus and then deliver them dead, rather than just deliver that child alive. CDC definition of abortion: For the purpose of surveillance, a legal induced abortion is defined as an intervention performed by a license clinician (e.g. a physician, nurse-midwife, nurse practitioner, physician assistant) within the limits of state regulations, that is intended to terminate a suspected or known ongoing intrauterine pregnancy and that does not result in a live birth. This definition excludes management of intrauterine fetal death, early pregnancy failure/loss, ectopic pregnancy, or retained products of conception. Most states and jurisdictions that collect abortion data report whether an abortion was performed by medication or surgery.
@@jakey3887 I have researched and found stories where women who were told that their baby would not live because of an irreversible defect. They wanted to end the pregnancy to prevent the strain on their bodies that this unviable pregnancy would put on it, like rendering them sterile, but their states new laws forbid it so they were forced to give birth and risk developing sterility and sepsis just to have a baby who won't live. How is that any better than termination of a pregnancy.
@@jakey3887 One woman, after roe was overturned, found out that her baby never developed lungs and her state's laws would have made her give birth anyway. She had to go to new york and when she got there she learned her baby died in utero and if she didn't have the body removed soon she would be at risk of sepsis.
Thousands of Dr.s agree that abortion is never necessary. Most won't speak publicly about it. Then u have abortionists who think a bad hair day is a medically necessary reason.
Please have Dr. Ruberu back! I’d love a whole discussion dedicated to menstruation and hormonal health, especially as it relates to fertility. This is not talked about enough!
Please do the educational session! This is a wonderful conversation that has blessed me immensely! Thank you both for your work 💕 You’re saving and changing lives!
the lack of courage with our healthcare system is one thing..the lack of care to think about things to have the courage, even more rare. The same ones who don't want think about abortion are the same ones continuing to give covaids shots
Or that abortion is health care. If the medical or insurance language was acurate and understandable then we wouldn’t have these discussions. A miscarriage is a miscarriage, an etopic pregnancy is an etopic pregnancy, and an abortion is an abortion.
Tell that to the 20-something women suing the state of Texas who had WANTED pregnancies that turned tragic. Ask them about how the Texas abortion ban made their lives hell because they couldn't get the treatment they needed and in some cases sent them to the brink of death.
@lorrilewis2178 that has nothing to do with pro-life laws and everything to do with incompetent doctors who's pro abortion agenda is more important to them than the life of the woman.
@@mivasadl644that women died because of malpractice due to her doctor not doing basic blood tests. If you knew the treatments for the things she had you would know a simple blood test would have shown at.
I worked in Labor & Delivery for over 12 years. I’ve had to work with medically necessary preterm deliveries. Never once where they called abortions. My head spins every time I hear this propaganda!
This woman is outstanding. What an intelligent, balanced doctor, and what an incredible gift to have her speaking for the pro-life movement. Abortion is never necessary, and every human being has a right to life. It’s our job to defend and uphold that reality.
and every woman/man/patient/person deserves and has the right to good, ethical, caring CARE! Who kit and caboodle. She's awesome. She is my gyn, and as a nurse, I'm hard on doctors ;) I approve of her ;)
Please Google Savita Halappavanar & tell me if you still think abortions never medically necessary. Or just answer this...if a womens bleeding internally from a ruptured placenta & that fetus is only 15 weeks the placenta has to be removed which means that fetus will not survive. That is a medically necessary abortion & they do happen. Even if you removed it via c-section it can't be saved thus its essentially still a medically necessary abortion since it's being removed with 0 chance of survival. I definitely wouldn't trust this doctor with my life.
When I was 18 and pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy, I drove by an abortion protest in front of an abortion clinic. I pulled over and stood alongside of them. They gave me a sign to hold…I watched this one woman scurrying in with her partner’s arm around her, and she was shielding her face in shame and embarrassment. It’s a visual I will never forget. I don’t know what she decided to do. Before I got pregnant, I was vehemently pro-“choice”….I remember feeling legitimately fearful at the prospect of Bush Sr becoming president, because I thought he would take away my right to have an abortion…I was sexually active and I felt genuine fear if Clinton wasn’t elected, that I might not be able to have an abortion if I needed… But when I became pregnant my senior year (even though I was on birth control!), I somehow just intuitively knew that I couldn’t have an abortion. My best friend had had one and I remember trying to tell her not to do it…I didn’t know why, just something was making me root for life. But she was terrified her father would kick her out of the house. I was an atheist. But when I began to feel my baby moving inside me, I was struck by the miracle of life. I began to research abortion…looking up abortion pictures and even found a book in my school library about abortion…which thankfully was showing the truth of it….stories and pictures of aborted babies who survived but stuffed in white bins to die by suffocation…cold and alone… I went to the Catholic Church because they were the only ones I knew who were staunchly pro-life. So much more I could say…but my friend-when her dad found out about me, he told her “I don’t know why her parents aren’t being more supportive-if this happened to you or your sister, I would do everything I could to support you.” This culture that promotes promiscuity among girls too young to know how to face the realistic outcome of s*x is a big part of the problem. At that age, we are very prone to believing everything we hear…and fearing parents, our future, etc… My child is a man now. He is an amazing person, very successful, and I’m so thankful that God gave me that instinct and wisdom to choose life!!
I have a friend who 42 years ago her body would not get rid of her dead fetus and the dead little body was causing her body to go into sepsis. This was a necessary removal of dead tissue and yet they called it an abortion. This is why her family is pro-abortion. The community must change what they call this procedure and have a clause to allow for this. I’m pro-life.
The procedure that you described is not an abortion! Abortion is the deliberate killing of a preborn baby. It is not the removal of the body of an already deceased baby! This is allowed in every state, and it has nothing to do with abortion laws. Your friend needs to get her facts straight!
I’m so so tired of the argument that it’s sometimes medically necessary to abort a baby. NO! Killing the baby directly is never going to save or cure the mom. Yes, some conditions may require a delivery prior to the baby’s viability which is so heartbreaking to think about but the intention is completely different and does not involve pulling the baby apart or poisoning it.
There are also those situations where the baby never developed primary organs like their kidneys or their lungs or have a heart defect that won't allow them to even live more than a few minutes outside the womb.
There was a woman who found out that her baby never developed lungs. She would not reach develop fully and, even if she somehow made it to delivery, wouldn't survive because she would sufficate in minutes. She met all her state requirements for an emergency termination but the state still ruled against her. She had to fly to New York to get the pregnancy terminated. Once she got to New York, the doctors said that her baby had died and that she needed to have it removed to avoid going septic.
@@freedomwriter1995 so you deliver the baby early. You don’t inject it with poison or rip it apart in utero. There are still ways to be compassionate and humane even if the baby isn’t going to survive delivery
@@carriebradon2807 some states have laws where if two doctors agree that the baby won't survive or the mothers life is at risk then the pregnancy can be terminated. However, they're too afraid to even say that because of the consequences they face due to the anti abortion laws. They think that, even if the two of them agree, some prolife doctor will find some rediculous excuse to say that the pregnancy is viable (when it isn't) just because he doesn't want any pregnancy to be terminated ever. Those doctors end up in jail, they lose their licenses, and the woman faces the agony and medical complications and even death of an unviable pregnancy.
@@freedomwriter1995 if a woman would fly to another state to have an abortion, she could also fly to another state to receive compassionate medical care in these rare yet heartbreaking situations where her baby isn’t going to survive long after delivery. You wouldn’t directly inject poison in your child or cut their body apart because their organs were failing. You’d take them to the best hospital and find specialists who would do everything that they can to help save your child or make them comfortable if there was nothing that could be done. Babies in the womb ARE children and they deserve the same dignity and compassion as children who have been born already. We need to as a culture stop treating them like parasites and only humanizing them after they’re born.
I thought I knew nearly everything there is to know about my body, but lo and behold you tell me more! I feel so educated. This is invaluable information!
I agree 💯! I thought the same thing! This should be taught to little girls entering into the period phase of their life…weaving in how beautifully unique our bodies work. Teaching that God’s creation is intentionally so complex that it can’t be recreated or altered! Most women would then see themselves differently with much value and worth!
@@jrrh63 Too late. Women teach little girls as soon they can begin to think before they even speak such ideologies. You may think I'm kidding but your kids are sponges and they listen to their mothers when their mothers are talking and saying stuff outloud or over the phone. Then when they get to the age of 8 or 9 they start giving them the talks about their body which is essential. But when they get to the age of teens they talk to mom about beliefs and ideologies because nearly all humans have a sense to want to be loved by their parents or mentors and the best way to do that is through flattery through similarity which in inherited through natural human emotion. During this time they are brainwashed into their ways.
this was an INCREDIBLE interview and brief insight of womens health and PRO LIFE!!! incredible and i love the expertise from the host and the information
So I am pregnant and I have to admit that I didn't know that much about fetal development before I got pregnant. I think the lack of education on how a baby grows in the womb is one of the MAIN reasons for why abortions are a thing. We need to have this taught in schools! Many young women don't know anything about their own anatomy, cycles, reproductive health or how babies grow. How can we expect them to grasp the reality of what is going on with them if they are not taught about it?
I met Dr and her husband at catholic family camp. She held my baby Danny and I asked her to feel his skull for me as a “second opinion”. Didn’t know she was a pro-life speaker. I was a complete stranger and she and her husband were so nice to me.
What a beautiful, lovely doctor. We need more like her OBGYN like her that really understand and treat women’s body’s. I love her story and that she is so close to God. (Plus, her blue dress is absolutely gorgeous!) ❤
What about those women whose pregnancy complications will cause her to become sterile and the baby will not live more than a few minutes once born due to never developing lungs.
Affection for children among women has gone down since 1970, and men became scapegoat in-between the crossfire of women's rights on the left and women's rights on the right.
Thank you so much for this video! It will be added to my playlist, so that when I eventually start my young women’s after school program, this will be on their curriculum
I always suspected there was something “fishy” about abortion and the “pro-choice” movement. The moment I realized this was in my sophomore year of hs Health class. I found it suspicious that they would spend all this time talking about sex and reproduction and the teacher publicly came out and said abortion was a woman’s right and that she was pro-choice yet never actually bothered to discuss WHAT AN ABORTION ACTUALLY WAS! I was too young to have the next level of curiosity which is to ask in detail what it was. But that always lingered in my mind. It wasn’t until later on that I realized what it actually was. Then I realized “Oh, well there’s a reason why they don’t actually talk about abortion in specific detail and sort of vaguely tap dance around the issue and divert attention away from the actual facts and procedure and focus on the feelings of the mother.” I love this interview…it’s great perspective and many of these points will change people’s minds when I engage them on it
Yes, they always try to keep us from showing anything graphic during such debates...no pictures, no video, no descriptions...this shows, more than anything, that they know just how vile and evil this act is.
I'm so thankful to God that Dr. Monique Ruberu wanted to give back to God, Such beautiful ladies with humble hearts. Thank you so much for this video. It was very informative. I knew a married couple who was told that their baby was going to be Down Syndrome and they advised them to terminate the pregnancy. They refused. That baby is a grown man and not Down Syndrome. I just wanted to let you know that their doctor was wrong.
What about twin molar pregnacy wirh a viable fetus. I had molar tissue spread to my lungs and liver and had blood clots the size of grapefruits, hcg levels over 600,000. I had a molar which wasnt viable alongside a healthy baby boy. I had a gut renching termination at 20 weeks, i was told i would likely die wirh my child and he would never make it to term. I had an 18 month old son and had to make an awful decision and choose between being there for my son or continuing a very dangerouse pregnancy. Afterwards i had 5 rounds of chemo. Though my situation is rare i wouldnt ever say theres no reason ever for a medical abortion.
@@taylourreed5560 I think what she is saying is that if she waited they would have both died. A 20 week old fetus cannot live outside the mothers womb, so early delivery of a live baby would be impossible. I'm not sure what type of abortion she had but if it was an induction that would be considered an early delivery and like I said wouldn't be able to survive. She did the right thing.
The hospital would not let me deliver and hold my baby, I had to have a d&e because the molar was sitting on top of the cervix and they were very afraid I would hemorrhage as I bleed the entire pregnancy. They did not offer a c-section either. They put me to sleep so my son would also be sleeping is what they told me
@@jessicariekkola3842 I'm sorry for your loss and that you had to go through that. It sounds like you got good care and they did what was medically necessary to save your life. Contrary to what a lot of people say c-sections are not the safest procedures as they are major surgery and could have put you at greater risk than a d&e or not possible at all. It was up to your surgeon to make that risk assessment.
Estrogen dominance is also very common in patients with MTHFR double copy, as it's hard to detox that. Also mold toxicity, candida, fungal, B12 deficiencies (which are not accurate on blood work since things like SIBO (small intestinal bacterial overgrowth which has many causes) which can look sufficient on Labcorp labs, but that's in the blood and being redistributed vs absorbed. Soooooo many things to look at to help a patient and functional medicine is the way. It's expensive but worth it. When we look at the crap we buy, 'smart' tech, eating out, travel, etc.....most of us can afford this. Priorities
You would have to slow down and individualize care. Money would also slow down and this has been a barrier to care. Transparency between physicians and patients. Creating again a partnership for health.
This was really helpful. I love the fact that you gave so many alternatives and the woman who did not give up on her child despite the fact. It just gave me a sense of true strength in womanhood. Just amazing she is and you all are for fighting for this cause🙏🏾
Thank you Dr. Ruberu for standing up for women and children. You are a hero in my book. I thank God that he has given you the strength to fight this spiritual battle.
Yes it is real… For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. -Ephesians 6:12
For me, it was medically necessary. My organs had already started shutting down in my 1st trimester. I was absolutely going to die. I was already in the midst of a flare of Lupus and if either of us would survive, I had to do it. I still hate everything about it. It still traumatized me for years. But it was the only option.
The fact that medical professionals are voicing a different opinion than what I've always heard, means the decision shouldn't be in the hands of politicians.
Great interview. I did napro technology and had 3 healthy babies ❤️ recommended it to a friend who could not afford ivf and she also had a healthy baby, recommended it to another friend and she is in the process of charting 🙌 praise God! One ovary, ovarian cyst, endometriosis, PCOS, all treatable with napro technology, charting, and changing your diet ❤
Trying to find a doctor like this is so hard and if you find one the wait list is so long. Wish there were more holistic doctors that were willing to figure out the why behind the symptoms.
@@mivasadl644caring for women while pregnant no matter condition is caring for women lmfao you can't get anymore caring then that. I get you don't know what that means.
Where is the hope that men who impregnate women are made responsible for those offspring? Men walk away scottfree. What do you care?? You don't have to do crap the rest of your life. When men are made responsible for their part in ejaculating sperm into a woman then come talk to women. Get off your pompous ass and protest men walking away.
No! Treatment for ectopic pregnancy is NOT an abortion. Abortion is the deliberate killing of a preborn baby who would otherwise live. In the case of an ectopic pregnancy, there are no treatment options which would allow the baby to live. None! If nothing is done, the fallopian tube will rupture and the baby will die and mother may die also. Treatment for an ectopic pregnancy involves removing the fallopian tube in order to save the life of the mother. The purpose is NOT to kill the baby. That is a tragic secondary consequence, which cannot be avoided. Don’t pretend to conflate elective abortion with treatment for an ectopic pregnancy!
I’m a man and I found this very informative and helpful. I think people in general no matter if you’re a man or a woman should know this information to better help your partner
34:28 - I like these terms. I had a miscarriage but my paperwork said "Abortion". I H-Worded (meaning very dislike but YT deletes comments using that word) that they used that word.
When I was 5 (1980) a couple who were family friends parents were pregnant with her third. They were Catholic. The doctors warned them if she went ahead with it she was more than likely to have a stroke from blotclotts and be incapacitated. They were very devout and trusted G-d with it and had the baby. Everthing the doctors warned happened. She was severly mentally and physically damaged, never knew her baby, and left 3 under 3 without a mom. She had palliative care for 15 yrs and died. So saying it doesnt happen is just not true. It was medically necessary for her but she chose the baby. And that was her choice. I resisted G-d til I was 22 bc all I remembered was He "didn't come through" for that faithful couple. I never had my own children either bc I subconciously never forgot. I am pro life but to me I've kept it at theoretical. I let others "fight" this issue.
I am thinking you meant 15 days rather than 15 years. I am curious about the type of care she received. I wonder if her doctors worked with her to keep her healthy and increase her odds or if they wrote her off because she rejected abortion.
@@debblouinit was in Canada. It wasn-t like "your" "psycho system" or ideologies. This doctor is a kook. I-m just seeing more now lol. No PMS and pain? No wonder people think we're nuts Just Wow.
I had to make a similar decision and I chose to save my life and be there for my son to watch him grow up. I appreciate your comment, I am pro life as well but I unfortunately was put into a position no one wants to make that kind of awful decision.
Something that I have considered, each time we lose a family member in death from a disease that has hunted humanity for years, then you ask God why? The answer is for years Jehovah God has sent children here through women’s wombs, these children each one of them had gifts in them. Here is my question, how many times through abortion have women been induced to kill their children? How many of these children have come with gifts to save us from these diseases and been put to death by an abortion?
This is very wrong. Maybe it’s rare but it’s not impossible. I needed to have one to save my life or risk not being here for my other children. My cervix wasn’t able to hold a full term pregnancy and the pregnancy could have risked my life. I decided not to jeopardize my life and risk my children not having a mother.
Are you sure about that? What about preterm premature rupture of membranes. This can literally lead to a fatal sepsis infection or dangerous hemorrhaging for the mother
PROM requires delivery of the baby regardless due to the waters, ya know, having broken. That doesn't mean you cause it immense agony via saline drowning or cutting it apart in the womb. Preemie care has now made it so the baby can survive as early as 21 weeks, and before then, it's a horrible, sad situation, but at least let the baby pass loved and held, not ripped apart.
@MrsSoriano5-ps9ch what is the quality of life for most of the babies born at 21 weeks? I have wondered if it's children's best interest for them to have medical interventions that artificially keep them alive. Should medical professionals be playing God? Does it really help the child or just prevent parents from having to grieve for a while longer?
Exactly. 18 years ago, I had the strongest gut feeling that I was dying. I scheduled an appointment with my Dr the very next day (I told him it was an emergency and they were kind enough to fit me in). In one heartbreaking moment I found out both that I was pregnant and that the pregnancy wasn't viable. I was told to immediately drive to the hospital, because I had already hemorrhaged. I cried through the whole surgery prep - it was my 4th pregnancy and I wanted that baby so much. The nurses were visibly irritated with me. Four months later, I was pregnant again. I recognized the signs and went to see the same ob gyn who had done the surgery. It was too early to locate the baby with ultrasound, so he recommended that I take a pill to end the pregnancy "just in case". I said no; he said it wasn't even a fetus at this point. I said, "You're right - it's a baby." My healthy 4th son was born 8 months later. I thank God for the surgery that preserved my life and allowed me to give birth to my previous son and later my daughter. (It has always disturbed me, though, that the hospital called my procedure an involuntary abortion.)
So that's actually not true. My sister has Crones and colitis, And also has this nerve disease called suicide disease. She got to 5 months pregnant Before She started bleeding Uncontrollably and hemorrhaging. She had to get one.
As a 40-year-old woman who's never been pregnant and went to the doctor for bloating and found out I have a grapefruit sized fibroid, I wish some of this information would have been taught in high school; I could have avoided years of pain
Saving this to watch/listen to later today but I AM SO GLAD TO SEE SOMEONE FINALLY SAYING THIS!!! I've been saying for a long time that IF the mothers life is truly in danger, it is going to be bc of a tubal which happens before the baby is formed; or it happens late in pregnancy because of preeclampsia and the baby can be born/delivered alive. I hope she talks about this.
I believe all of what this doctor is saying. But, what I want to know is if there are any patients of hers who have done all the right things, prevented infection, correctly levelled hormones, but have tragically died while pregnant? I also would love to know if anything she talked about addresses pre eclampsia. I'm not familiar with medical terminology, so it's entirely possible she referred to it in other words, but I don't recall hearing that term. Thank you for the work you do, Dr. Ruberu and Lila!
@@NaomiDollxoxo I think you pretty much addressed my confusion. I wasn't sure if the procedure to prevent fetal and maternal death, in the case of pre eclampsia, was early delivery, based on the video. Sounds like that was the route you took with your child, and everyone is alive, happy, and safe! Thank God you chose to deliver when you did! How many weeks along were you in your pregnancy? I have a family member who gave birth to her son (my nephew) at (I believe 22-24 weeks) because of low amniotic fluid, and because he had/has a significant birth defect. He just turned 11, and he's a wonderful, happy boy! He does have some lifelong issues that he will need to deal with for the rest of his life. But it is his life!
This is one of the best and informative videos ever on RUclips or social media. If you’re a family member/classmate:college of Dr. Rubu, you should be very proud of her intelligence and faith in God most important.
Is there a directory of doctors in every state who practice this form of natural women's health care? Can you recommend a book that provides this information?
I added spaces because yt wouldn't let me post a link last time I tried to share this information with someone. Also look into the Pope Paul VI institute in Omaha
I was told to terminate my second pregnancy because something was terribly wrong with the baby. I didn't. Am very happy to see my completely healthy daughter thrive! There is absolutely nothing wrong with her. She is my favorite person in the world and will soon celebrate her 17th birthday!
My husband's nephew the same- mom told to abort due to down syndrome (even so this is no reason in my opinion), but thing is he was born totally healthy and not with down syndrome either. Let God decide how long or short our lives should be.
That is insane. How could they be so wrong? How many babies have died this way?
@@NotSoNaturalLife exactly! I'm thinking many many babies! They can't even measure babies accurately yet- I was induced due to baby's head being "very big" already according to Dr. After birth he was measured and baby's head was normal size for date and induction was completely unnecessary.
@@NotSoNaturalLifeIn my immediate family two preborn babies were diagnosed with Downs. One is now a doctor and the other a nurse.
@mo-sy9ws the same thing with me, they genetic tests came back saying my daughter had down syndrome. The doctor was adamant that I should terminate, when I refused he made me sign some disclaimer document. I don't even know what was on the document. 3 years later my daughter does not have down syndrome, she's very healthy ahead of all milestones for children her age. The kindergarten teacher cannot even understand her progress. ...and to think, had I listened to the doctor.
My sister had a complicated, scary pregnancy 7 years ago, when she discovered at 20 weeks that her water had ruptured some time previously. Her baby was still alive, but her doctor at the time suggested that she have an abortion or just go about her daily life waiting for her body to spontaneously abort the child within the next few weeks. Instead, she got in touch with a pro-life OB and opted to put herself on bedrest, first at home and then, four weeks later, in the hospital. Two weeks following that, my sister gave birth to her daughter at 26 weeks 3 days. She spent 53 days in the NICU, and came home weighing just under 5 lbs. Now Veronica is an intelligent, kind 7-year-old without any complications from her early birth or complicated gestation!
Thank God! Happy to have come across this comment. My wife and I had been trying for 10 years to have a child. On a whim her Chiropractor suggested that she go gluten free because of her discomfort and YEARS of unexplained joint pain and inflammation. EVERYONE kept throwing prescriptions at her to manage the issue. Once we changed our diets and left the gluten off the menu, she started to notice the difference IMMEDIATELY! Still, doctors were trying to discredit the change and give her more medication which she declined to take. Once her body started to stabilize we had our first miscarriage. It was exciting and saddening at the same time because up until then there was no movement on us being able to have a child. We were able have our first child who came out at 30 weeks and we are pregnant again with a little girl. I like to tell people that I am a proud father of 5. 3 Heavenly children, one on the way and another that is giving me a run for my money as a parent.
That is crazy.. my friend started leaking at 28 weeks I think, and they admited her to the hospital asap, they want to hold you as long as possible at bed rest for the baby to grow because every day is crucial. She gave birth at 32 weeks.
No one in my country (Lithuania) suggest abortion in such cases, they do everything it takes to save the baby.
I guess its because abortions first are forbiden after week 12, secondly we have a mixed health care system, so private and public, thus we don't make "bussiness" out of abortions.
Wow!! That’s amazing! ❤❤❤ God bless you and your family!!
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@@iammr.h82 Awww beautiful story! I have 5 also. 3 in Heaven and two beautiful girls 18 & 28 here with us. I also have 2 grandbabies in Heaven & 2 With us here ❤❤ They all count! I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia before my 18 yr old was born. Now being tested for Celiac disease (Auto immune gluten allergy) and Rhuematoid Arthritis bcuz my pain and inflammation is off the charts. Glad to hear that removing gluten helped your wife. I feel hopeful after reading of her health struggles. It's awful living in chronic pain. I never got pregnant again after my youngest & they had told me after my 1st miscarriage and birth of my first born and subsequent 2 more miscarriages that I'd likely never carry to term again and had given up hope..10 yrs later my youngest came as a surprise and held on tight. ❤ Congratulations on your new little girl arriving shortly! I absolutely love being a girl Mom. After a long string of girls in the family.. my daughter had our first little boy.. he will be 3 in December. 🥰 my youngest is now engaged and in nursing school. She wants to plan her family after she graduates. Life is beautiful and all babies are precious ❤❤ Congrats Papa Sending up prayers for your family to always be blessed with an abundance of Joy and health. ❤
My parents were told I had a high likelihood of having Down Syndrome and were advised to consider abortion. A couple decades letter, I ended up joining the Marines and serving two tours in Afghanistan, got straight A's in college with university honors, and now have a successful career in finance. Take that, medical system. Guess y'all don't know everything after all. 💪
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Same thing happened to my daughter! She too chose life, her son, has a 4. In college and such a wonderful kind young man who is a force of good and a voice God uses
The test that they make show you stats, but they are not 100% sure ever.
I know a case where a women was told that 70% was the chance for down syndrome, she choose not to abort, the baby was healthy. 🤷
But all in all we are just killing straight forward down syndrome children, which shouldn't we in general think of another way how to take care of them? Its eugenics.
Thank you for your service! ❤🤍💙
Please share this , it needs to go viral!
My black doctor advised me to do an amniocentesis because my triple screen for downs came back positive. I was pregnant with twins. Although I was not happy with my pregnancy due to marital problems I was not ready to do an abortion as she advised
Finally I got tired of her bashing me every time I saw her. I got so pissed off and told her whatever God wants me to have thats what I'm having. I had 2 healthy boys who are now 25 years old. My marriage fell apart 2 months after they were born. I took care of my 3 boys all by myself. Divorce my no good husband. Finished school with a degree in accounting and ended my education as a RN Bsn Cpn. God in his mercies saw me through every day and im grateful for all the mercies he had shown me. Today I serve a risen savior and looking forward to 31 years at my current job and retirement in the near future.
Respect.
God bless you and your three beautiful boys. Agree with another commenter -- respect for your courage!!!
Awesome. I'd love to hear his side of the story
@@shamkala-kadima2929 Men always wamna hwar mens side so they can dond a way to excuse every horrible thing eachother do
God bless you 🙏
My son was diagnosed with Congenital Heart Defects at 21 weeks in utero. I was given three options:
1) End the pregnancy
2) Surgeries after birth
3) Do nothing (comfort care after birth)
We chose the only option that gave life to my son.
He's 8 years old now and thriving!
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So happy your aon is healthy and happy❤❤❤
21 weels is so early. I am wondering did anything resolve prior to birth? They do so much more developing after that. (Except sometimes they don't because these types of diagnosis encourage premature medically induced birth.)😢
In my research I have learned that ultra sound is far from precise and could even be harmful.
So wonderful you had choices available to you.
I’ve worked in high risk ob for going on 20 years and she is totally correct. I’ve been wanting to scream this for years. We have never had a situation, even at a trauma hospital, where an abortion was medically necessary. We would deliver the baby alive and do everything we could to save both the mother and the baby.
❤Thank You
I worked as an ICU nurse and we did several emergency C-sections to save both mom and baby. The NICU team would be right there to work on the baby while we took care of the mother.
Remember those days?
What about an ectopic pregnancy? This is not a sustainable pregnancy and is life threatening for the mom.
I developed pre-eclampsia and HELLPS with my second and she was born premature (a healthy 19 yr old now), so yes, I absolutely agree that there is zero medical reason to abort after the first trimester. But in first trimester, with ectopic pregnancy, there is no other option and time is not on your side.
@justylex 31:08
At my 20 week scan of my first pregnancy, I was told that my baby had no kidneys and was incompatible with life. I will never forget the doctor’s words when in shock I asked what that meant. She said, “your baby is not going to make it, if I were you I would abort.” Then she walked away. By the grace of God, I refused to terminate my pregnancy and give my baby the warmth, care, and life, I could best give her. I was told that my life was at risk if I decided to proceed with the pregnancy. I never thought that I would have to argue against abortion with my doctors. I was told that my baby would likely not make it to full term and if she did I would need a c section and she would either be still birth or last a couple minutes alive. My husband and I prayed the rosary everyday. I carried my daughter to full term, I held her peacefully alive for 7 beautiful days before she was lifted up to heaven. My daughter Rosalie is the best gift God could have given me. During her time here, I felt what I would best describe a little taste of heaven. My daughter gifted me what it means to Love. God gives you grace.
❤❤❤ God bless you and your family! You story was beautiful! 😢
Beautiful story...made me cry..you made the right decision ...All life born from a mother naturally is sacred ...
There will be a day!
Thanks for sharing. God bless you ❤️
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One of my dearest friends was pregnant with twins and one baby was given a zero percent chance of living by 9 different doctors. The ultrasound showed that the baby did not have an amniotic sac around her. My friend kept getting inspiration from God that the baby was "not dead until she's dead." She kept going until she found a doctor that was willing to try to save the baby's life. Turns out, her baby's amniotic sac was Saran wrapped around the baby and ultrasounds couldn't see it. She spent a couple months in the NICU she is a beautiful, vibrant 8 year old now with her twin sister! 😊
Beautiful! I gave birth to a 21 week 5 day infant in 2022. She breathed on her own for 7 hours and I held her as long as I could. I know she’s in heaven. I gave her all the life I could. She was baptized as well;)
The Bible says that babies automatically go to heaven. They don't need a baptism. So yes your baby is there with God.
Thank you, yes I believe she is and I’ve lost 3 others at earlier gestation that I wasn’t able to baptize so I appreciate this. Can you tell me what verse you’re referencing though? Thank you. It was a gift to be able to baptize my daughter. It was a right of passage and very healing for me to know she had that sacrament.
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@@TN-bi9qf the Bible says you are not subject to the judgement until you are at the age of reason ( to understand why you need the gospel) since babies, young children, mentally handicapped people, don't understand yet, they get to go to heaven automatically.
Unless you are born again in water and in Spirit you cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven,
In the Old testament babies were circumcised to be part of Gods Chosen People,
In the new testament Baptism replaces circumcision and is necessary to be part of Gods Chosen people
The promise is to You and to YOUR CHILDREN says the Apostle Peter in the book of Acts of the Apostles
Cornelius was baptized and also his ENTIRE FAMILY was baptized too, that includes children
Children don’t have Sin but are BORN with the original sin
PSALM 51:5
Indeed, I was born guilty,
a sinner since my mother conceived me.
“By one man Adam death entered the world”
Saint John the Baptist did not want to baptize Jesus because Jesus Had No Sin!!!
Jesus said we must do this so That ALL JUSTICE IS ACCOMPLISHED
Children need baptism not because they are sinners, but because they must be born in WATER AND SPIRIT TO FULFILL GODS JUSTICE
Dr R is the real deal - I saw her when I was trying to conceive my 3rd baby and she was so encouraging and offered so many insights. I got pregnant the following month and am about to deliver my baby in 2 weeks. I'm so glad more people are hearing her story and her message.
Congratulations!!! 🥳🥳
@sarahadams623 Congratulations, Mama!
I was encouraged to abort my sixth child because the doctor told me I would die if I delivered the baby. My other five children knew we were expecting another child helped me to stand up and tell the doctor that I would find another physician if he did not want to be my doctor. Jacob is 28 years old and serving in the US Air Force. Yes, I went through a trying six weeks in a medically induced coma. I went to rehabilitation to learn how to walk and speak after that, but Jacob was FINE! Worth it? ABSOLUTELY!!! I also had a 90% abruption with my second pregnancy. She was born 4 weeks early, and is a master’s level counselor with three children of her own. GOD is able! Trust HIM!!!
Amen! So beautiful. I have six kids too 🥰🙏
🥲SO MANY BEAUTIFUL TESTIMONIES IN THE COMMENT SECTION OF THIS VIDEO!!! YES, GOD IS TRULY ABLE!❤
To God be the glory! Thank you, mom for giving us those lives.
This was excellent! My grandmother was diagnosed with Tuberculosis in 1932 while married with 2 small children. Her doctor advised that whatever she did, she mustn't get pregnant again because there was no real idea of how to cure Tuberculosis, but within a short time she discovered she already was pregnant. My grandfather took her to a big city at her 7th month where she delivered a 3 pound 5 ounce baby girl. Sadly, my grandmother died of Tuberculosis 10 days later. But the baby girl stayed in an incubator for 2 months till her widowed father could take her home to her siblings. He managed to get a nurse for the children, and the baby girl was healthy, smart and beautiful! She became a teacher, a wife, and my mother! She had 3 girls, we've had 5 children, and they've had 4 children so far. My mother lived to be 84, and I am so glad her mother did not abort her. Here we are, 92 years later, and so many of us would never have lived. Abortion doesn't just end one life, but generations of lives. Thank you for your message and your work, Dr Ruberu!
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My mother too was advised to abort her pregnancy because she had recovered from tuberculosis in the late 1930s. Thank God my grandmother encouraged my mother to Trust God that all would go well. I am mother of five and grandmother of nine children who wouldn't be here.
That was sad, yet so beautiful. Thank you for taking the time to share ❤.
Fertility is not a disease.
Pregnancy is not an illness.
Birth is not an emergency.
Breastfeeding is not unnatural.
The medicalization of women is evil. Women should be cared and respected for their beautiful design, the ability to become mothers. It’s all connected.
Pregnancy is an illness. Women should have paid leave for any sick day they need when pregnant and we need time off work to recover after giving birth.
Babies are little mammals and need mummy and daddy to cuddle them when they are tiny.
It is because women are not supported, empowered and compensated that they chose not to carry children.
I am fully pro choice. Even more so after being deserted by my ex and living in poverty with two special needs kids. Because in my shoes I don't think many women would last.
Society makes women pay a high price for having children.
I am not able to watch this video anymore as it is ridiculous
@TheSpeedofTruthyou’re a parasite . Be thankful your mom didn’t abort you .
@@zoeolsson5683I'm not sick I'm pregnant. I'm not ill I'm pregnant. I can do things and not coughing up a lung or need blood. I'm so sick of people acting as if pregnant women are sick and have an illness. We are not sick we are pregnant. We aren't caughing up lungs and need medication in order to get rid of an illness. Actually no illness benefits the body the way pregnancy does.
@@zoeolsson5683 I agree mothers and their children should be cared for most especially by the father/husband.
Mothers should not kill their children. Fathers should not abandon their children. #protectthefamily
@@zoeolsson5683pregnancy is still not an illnesses its a natural physiological phenomenon which has its risk and can be precarious and pretty spontaneous but with the right support we can address them and mitigate them especially with modern medecine im sorry you didnt get the support you need but it doesnt justify killing innocent life you should fight for proper support services to be available
Here is a story I never told to anyone and the main reason why I'm pro life. My girlfriend at the time received a call from one of her friend who had just received an abortion.
On speakerphone, I heard her describe the procedure and I felt physically sick. The fact that they give Valium or other drugs to "calm" down is even worse because there is a reason for the anguish and hesitation: you are ending your child. In the moment you don't understand what is truly happening and lose your will to stand up for yourself, you're just mellowed out, but when you come down reality catches you back.
I could hear how broken she was and how she was just starting to realize the permanence of her decision (heavily influenced by the current nihilistic culture, mind you)
The pain in her voice still haunts me, knowing how the medical field treats abortion as the best solution.
Thank you for sharing. It's extremely traumatic for the women that undergo that life-altering procedure. I've never, but I know women who have. Even though they willingly chose that course of action, learning to live with the aftermath is difficult.
Yes, the aftermath is so traumatic, it still haunts me, 24 years later. It especially hit home every time I gave birth to my 3 children....
When my 3 children were born later in my 20s and 30s, instead of being in the "happy baby bubble", I spent SO SO SO much time mourning my abortion and the choice made when I was 18 and scared.
It hits home and to this day I regret and hate myself for the choice I made.
@@melissabrodie1484The regret is not wrong…but I want you to know you are loved.
God takes what the Enemy meant for evil and uses it to His glory. There is something about the situation that God will use.
And you are not hated…you are loved. You are loved. You are loved. ❤️
FACTSS this is so sad 😪
@@mrclean4729 I met many people who had abortions... It's so obvious they're hurting, no matter what they say ...
When i was 20 weeks pregnant they saw 2 cysts on my babys brain and suggested it could mean she had a rare horrible disease. She was born conpletely healthy. She is in preschool now.
100%. As someone who has had an ectopic pregnancy, I’m sick of that scenario, among others, being used as a means of justifying elective abortion or being equated with it as if they are the same when they are not. I find it truly astonishing that people are so misinformed and/or in denial about what pregnancy is, what abortion is, and what ethical medical care is thay they can’t see the differences between life and death, killing and allowing for the possibility of death, etc. As a Christian I know the Bible says that the heart is wicked and people deny God’s righteousness, but I still continue to be heartbroken and astounded by the disgusting and sad nature of it all. Lord, save us! Show us Your wisdom and soften hearts toward You.
I had questions and concerns about ectopic pregnancies and whether it’s viewed by God the same as willful abortion if for the life of the mother, an ectopic pregnancy is disrupted. It’s always His will above ours so I don’t ever want to stand with something he’s against. But I was stumped about the ectopic pregnancy topic because idk much about it
I’m confused on what the difference between ectopic pregnancy is. Don’t you have to terminate those ones?
Ectopic pregnancy is not the same for everyone. It can actually killed someone.
@@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii Actually, no. Ectopic pregnancies can be saved, though some people try to hide that information. Look up "Efforts to transfer ectopic embryos to the uterine cavity: A systematic review" by the Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology Research
@@Crowned921 It can kill someone if it it left untreated. Fortunately, it can be treated in a way that saves both mother and child
Imagine if all medical professionals practiced with this much kindness, consistency, and compassion. Our world would be a much more wonderful place.
Not only medical professionals but ALL of us should be asking ourselves how did we get to a society where the QUESTION if killing a baby was even AN OPTION !?!?! That’s not even a question us humans have the right to deny. even in the worst situation that the left always uses “ra**” and in that situation I say the baby doesn’t need to be raised by the victim but not KILL IT !?!?! I told my ex when she started to try dispute this with me it’s the way the question it self is said up that disgust ME ! Why are kids having unprotected eggs without parents being held responsible???? Especially men as a man I say any man that abandons child they will be jailed same with woman but they get fined so many solutions I just gave that can end this once for all but no one listens. Sorry for yapping I can’t stand to think about lifeless babies
A person coming to her with a life threatening pregnancy or an unwanted pregnancy and being told by her to remain pregnant because she won’t help them, will not call this doctor kind, consistent or compassionate. Listen to the suffering and trauma that pregnant people have experienced instead of leaning on your religious ideology, and you would know.
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Abortion is NEVER medically necessary as “treatment”.
You cannot love your neighbor while supporting or accepting systems that crush, exploit, and dehumanize them.
So in order for someone to prove me wrong when I say abortion is never medically necessary as treatment (using the CDC definition of abortion), they’d have to show me a situation where we have a living child inside of the woman’s uterus, where it is NECESSARY to INTENTIONALLY kill that child in the uterus, and then deliver the child dead…rather than ultimately allowing that child to have a live birth.
So keep in mind, if you have to induce pre-term delivery or induce labor early to save the life of the mother and that child comes out alive, and you’re NOT intentionally killing the child in the womb prior to the birth, then that is NOT considered an abortion.
You would have to show me an instance where it’s necessary to INTENTIONALLY kill the child in the uterus and then deliver the child in order to prove me wrong.
So I will stress it again…It has to be MEDICALLY NECESSARY, as in there is no other way. So if you could deliver the child prematurely and it’s just an unfortunate consequence that after that child is delivered alive that because it was a premature delivery the child can’t survive on its own outside the womb and it dies outside the womb after a live birth, that’s NOT considered an abortion.
You’d have to show me an example where you have to intentionally kill the child in the uterus FIRST, and THEN deliver the child dead. Rather than just delivering that child alive.
I have NOT SEEN any evidence that it is ever NECESSARY to intentionally kill a child in the uterus and then deliver them dead, rather than just deliver that child alive.
CDC definition of abortion:
For the purpose of surveillance, a legal induced abortion is defined as an intervention performed by a license clinician (e.g. a physician, nurse-midwife, nurse practitioner, physician assistant) within the limits of state regulations, that is intended to terminate a suspected or known ongoing intrauterine pregnancy and that does not result in a live birth. This definition excludes management of intrauterine fetal death, early pregnancy failure/loss, ectopic pregnancy, or retained products of conception. Most states and jurisdictions that collect abortion data report whether an abortion was performed by medication or surgery.
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I have researched and found stories where women who were told that their baby would not live because of an irreversible defect. They wanted to end the pregnancy to prevent the strain on their bodies that this unviable pregnancy would put on it, like rendering them sterile, but their states new laws forbid it so they were forced to give birth and risk developing sterility and sepsis just to have a baby who won't live. How is that any better than termination of a pregnancy.
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One woman, after roe was overturned, found out that her baby never developed lungs and her state's laws would have made her give birth anyway. She had to go to new york and when she got there she learned her baby died in utero and if she didn't have the body removed soon she would be at risk of sepsis.
Thousands of Dr.s agree that abortion is never necessary. Most won't speak publicly about it. Then u have abortionists who think a bad hair day is a medically necessary reason.
I saw someone comment she didn’t want to give up sushi , like girl what .. you can eat sushi .. relax don’t murder your child
@@DefendersOfWomen Name a pro life doctor that's not religious.
@@mivasadl644my own OBGYN. He's not religious but he doesn't do abortion at all. Even with women who you claim would need one.
@@liamjames5470 Sure Jan.
@@liamjames5470 Honey there are women who do need abortion not that you'll understand since you couldn't even understand your gender identity.
MY LIFE IS A TESTIMONY.....Doctors told my mom to get rid of me because she was sickly...We BOTH still here! PRAISE YAHUAH!!
Amen! Praise Yah!!!❤
Please have Dr. Ruberu back! I’d love a whole discussion dedicated to menstruation and hormonal health, especially as it relates to fertility. This is not talked about enough!
Please do the educational session! This is a wonderful conversation that has blessed me immensely! Thank you both for your work 💕 You’re saving and changing lives!
i pray more actual doctors come forward to defend this logically obvious position. May the triune God bless you Monique!
the lack of courage with our healthcare system is one thing..the lack of care to think about things to have the courage, even more rare. The same ones who don't want think about abortion are the same ones continuing to give covaids shots
I am just so tired of people claiming that limiting abortion is limiting womens health care.
Or that abortion is health care. If the medical or insurance language was acurate and understandable then we wouldn’t have these discussions. A miscarriage is a miscarriage, an etopic pregnancy is an etopic pregnancy, and an abortion is an abortion.
Tell that to the 20-something women suing the state of Texas who had WANTED pregnancies that turned tragic. Ask them about how the Texas abortion ban made their lives hell because they couldn't get the treatment they needed and in some cases sent them to the brink of death.
@lorrilewis2178 that has nothing to do with pro-life laws and everything to do with incompetent doctors who's pro abortion agenda is more important to them than the life of the woman.
@TheSpeedofTruth induced by nature, not by medication or by human intervention. Totally different.
@@lorrilewis2178I read that 10,000 babies were saved after the Texas law was put in place.
Beautiful, eloquent, compassionate, and very intelligent. I truly wish all OBGYNs were like this doctor.
She's pro life because of her religion not because she cares about women's healthcare.
@@mivasadl644did you even listen to the interview?
@@gabihuggins5042 Yeah I stopped taking her seriously when she said abortion is never medically necessary look at cases like Savita Halappanavar .
@@mivasadl644that women died because of malpractice due to her doctor not doing basic blood tests. If you knew the treatments for the things she had you would know a simple blood test would have shown at.
@mivasadl644 ... have u ever gotten an abortion?? Because if you wouldve listened, she explained alot
I worked in Labor & Delivery for over 12 years. I’ve had to work with medically necessary preterm deliveries. Never once where they called abortions.
My head spins every time I hear this propaganda!
Well, in these medically necessary preterm deliveries, was the intent to kill the baby? Or to help the baby live?
This woman is outstanding. What an intelligent, balanced doctor, and what an incredible gift to have her speaking for the pro-life movement. Abortion is never necessary, and every human being has a right to life. It’s our job to defend and uphold that reality.
and every woman/man/patient/person deserves and has the right to good, ethical, caring CARE! Who kit and caboodle. She's awesome. She is my gyn, and as a nurse, I'm hard on doctors ;) I approve of her ;)
@@Jennifer-gr7hnplease pray for a relative of mine who is a doctor. Thanks
Agreed.
Please Google Savita Halappavanar & tell me if you still think abortions never medically necessary. Or just answer this...if a womens bleeding internally from a ruptured placenta & that fetus is only 15 weeks the placenta has to be removed which means that fetus will not survive. That is a medically necessary abortion & they do happen. Even if you removed it via c-section it can't be saved thus its essentially still a medically necessary abortion since it's being removed with 0 chance of survival. I definitely wouldn't trust this doctor with my life.
When I was 18 and pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy, I drove by an abortion protest in front of an abortion clinic. I pulled over and stood alongside of them. They gave me a sign to hold…I watched this one woman scurrying in with her partner’s arm around her, and she was shielding her face in shame and embarrassment. It’s a visual I will never forget. I don’t know what she decided to do.
Before I got pregnant, I was vehemently pro-“choice”….I remember feeling legitimately fearful at the prospect of Bush Sr becoming president, because I thought he would take away my right to have an abortion…I was sexually active and I felt genuine fear if Clinton wasn’t elected, that I might not be able to have an abortion if I needed…
But when I became pregnant my senior year (even though I was on birth control!), I somehow just intuitively knew that I couldn’t have an abortion. My best friend had had one and I remember trying to tell her not to do it…I didn’t know why, just something was making me root for life.
But she was terrified her father would kick her out of the house.
I was an atheist. But when I began to feel my baby moving inside me, I was struck by the miracle of life. I began to research abortion…looking up abortion pictures and even found a book in my school library about abortion…which thankfully was showing the truth of it….stories and pictures of aborted babies who survived but stuffed in white bins to die by suffocation…cold and alone…
I went to the Catholic Church because they were the only ones I knew who were staunchly pro-life.
So much more I could say…but my friend-when her dad found out about me, he told her “I don’t know why her parents aren’t being more supportive-if this happened to you or your sister, I would do everything I could to support you.”
This culture that promotes promiscuity among girls too young to know how to face the realistic outcome of s*x is a big part of the problem. At that age, we are very prone to believing everything we hear…and fearing parents, our future, etc…
My child is a man now. He is an amazing person, very successful, and I’m so thankful that God gave me that instinct and wisdom to choose life!!
Amazing! God bless you 🙏
Stay away from the activity if you're not ready for result.
On May 31, 2024, Heartbeat International announced that over 5,000 babies have been saved by abortion pill reversal since 2012! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
So glad to hear someone sounding normal.
Me too. We’re not alone! God help us save His little children!
Thank God for every pro-life professional!!!
I’ve been waiting for this!!🥹 Thank you Jesus for Dr. Monique
❤❤❤❤❤ . Pleasure and convenience is not more important than a child’s life
and it does backfire because the survivors (mom and dad) have a lot of understandable emotional and physical issues after this choice :(
another population as "pro lifers" we need to pray for, fast over and remember/consider.
Bingo.
So women should not have a choice for rape? Little girls for rape or incest? Or if the mother's life is in jeopardy?
@@Jennifer-gr7hnNot everyone has emotional issues afterwards.
PLEASE do another episode with this woman and let her tell us everything she knows about women's health!!! This was so enlightening!
I have a friend who 42 years ago her body would not get rid of her dead fetus and the dead little body was causing her body to go into sepsis. This was a necessary removal of dead tissue and yet they called it an abortion. This is why her family is pro-abortion. The community must change what they call this procedure and have a clause to allow for this. I’m pro-life.
The procedure that you described is not an abortion! Abortion is the deliberate killing of a preborn baby. It is not the removal of the body of an already deceased baby! This is allowed in every state, and it has nothing to do with abortion laws. Your friend needs to get her facts straight!
Thank you, Doctor. A TRUE Doctor.
I’m so so tired of the argument that it’s sometimes medically necessary to abort a baby. NO! Killing the baby directly is never going to save or cure the mom. Yes, some conditions may require a delivery prior to the baby’s viability which is so heartbreaking to think about but the intention is completely different and does not involve pulling the baby apart or poisoning it.
There are also those situations where the baby never developed primary organs like their kidneys or their lungs or have a heart defect that won't allow them to even live more than a few minutes outside the womb.
There was a woman who found out that her baby never developed lungs. She would not reach develop fully and, even if she somehow made it to delivery, wouldn't survive because she would sufficate in minutes. She met all her state requirements for an emergency termination but the state still ruled against her. She had to fly to New York to get the pregnancy terminated. Once she got to New York, the doctors said that her baby had died and that she needed to have it removed to avoid going septic.
@@freedomwriter1995 so you deliver the baby early. You don’t inject it with poison or rip it apart in utero. There are still ways to be compassionate and humane even if the baby isn’t going to survive delivery
@@carriebradon2807 some states have laws where if two doctors agree that the baby won't survive or the mothers life is at risk then the pregnancy can be terminated. However, they're too afraid to even say that because of the consequences they face due to the anti abortion laws. They think that, even if the two of them agree, some prolife doctor will find some rediculous excuse to say that the pregnancy is viable (when it isn't) just because he doesn't want any pregnancy to be terminated ever. Those doctors end up in jail, they lose their licenses, and the woman faces the agony and medical complications and even death of an unviable pregnancy.
@@freedomwriter1995 if a woman would fly to another state to have an abortion, she could also fly to another state to receive compassionate medical care in these rare yet heartbreaking situations where her baby isn’t going to survive long after delivery.
You wouldn’t directly inject poison in your child or cut their body apart because their organs were failing. You’d take them to the best hospital and find specialists who would do everything that they can to help save your child or make them comfortable if there was nothing that could be done. Babies in the womb ARE children and they deserve the same dignity and compassion as children who have been born already. We need to as a culture stop treating them like parasites and only humanizing them after they’re born.
I thought I knew nearly everything there is to know about my body, but lo and behold you tell me more! I feel so educated. This is invaluable information!
I agree 💯! I thought the same thing! This should be taught to little girls entering into the period phase of their life…weaving in how beautifully unique our bodies work. Teaching that God’s creation is intentionally so complex that it can’t be recreated or altered! Most women would then see themselves differently with much value and worth!
@@jrrh63 Too late. Women teach little girls as soon they can begin to think before they even speak such ideologies. You may think I'm kidding but your kids are sponges and they listen to their mothers when their mothers are talking and saying stuff outloud or over the phone. Then when they get to the age of 8 or 9 they start giving them the talks about their body which is essential. But when they get to the age of teens they talk to mom about beliefs and ideologies because nearly all humans have a sense to want to be loved by their parents or mentors and the best way to do that is through flattery through similarity which in inherited through natural human emotion. During this time they are brainwashed into their ways.
My question is:
Why hasn’t Dr. Rubera been interviewed long before now?
Awesome interview!!
this was an INCREDIBLE interview and brief insight of womens health and PRO LIFE!!! incredible and i love the expertise from the host and the information
So I am pregnant and I have to admit that I didn't know that much about fetal development before I got pregnant. I think the lack of education on how a baby grows in the womb is one of the MAIN reasons for why abortions are a thing. We need to have this taught in schools! Many young women don't know anything about their own anatomy, cycles, reproductive health or how babies grow. How can we expect them to grasp the reality of what is going on with them if they are not taught about it?
I met Dr and her husband at catholic family camp. She held my baby Danny and I asked her to feel his skull for me as a “second opinion”. Didn’t know she was a pro-life speaker. I was a complete stranger and she and her husband were so nice to me.
What a beautiful, lovely doctor. We need more like her OBGYN like her that really understand and treat women’s body’s. I love her story and that she is so close to God. (Plus, her blue dress is absolutely gorgeous!) ❤
Keep saving babies and mothers!
and fathers and the family and humanity!
What about those women whose pregnancy complications will cause her to become sterile and the baby will not live more than a few minutes once born due to never developing lungs.
@@freedomwriter1995c section can make someone infertile so should we stop doing them?
@@freedomwriter1995 we pray for them, provide medical care, and encourage them on their journey, but we don't dismantle them.
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What about ensuring the mother doesn't end up sterile?
Affection for children among women has gone down since 1970, and men became scapegoat in-between the crossfire of women's rights on the left and women's rights on the right.
Even my little toddlers are more affectionate toward babies than most adults today. Today’s adults are *unnaturally unaffectionate toward babies.
Exactly
I absolutely love this doctor!! We need more doctors like her. May God bless her abundantly!! 🙌🏼
Listening to this brought tears to my eyes, and hope in my heart! God Bless both Lila Rose, and Dr. Monique. ❤
love this!!!! especially when she says it’s a spiritual battle at the clinics.
There would be twice the population of Blacks if Roe was not ever law. Brown/ black/ white/ oriental/ native people all matter always, every day.
Please do another session on womens fertility!!!!!
Thank you so much for this video! It will be added to my playlist, so that when I eventually start my young women’s after school program, this will be on their curriculum
I always suspected there was something “fishy” about abortion and the “pro-choice” movement. The moment I realized this was in my sophomore year of hs Health class. I found it suspicious that they would spend all this time talking about sex and reproduction and the teacher publicly came out and said abortion was a woman’s right and that she was pro-choice yet never actually bothered to discuss WHAT AN ABORTION ACTUALLY WAS! I was too young to have the next level of curiosity which is to ask in detail what it was. But that always lingered in my mind. It wasn’t until later on that I realized what it actually was. Then I realized “Oh, well there’s a reason why they don’t actually talk about abortion in specific detail and sort of vaguely tap dance around the issue and divert attention away from the actual facts and procedure and focus on the feelings of the mother.” I love this interview…it’s great perspective and many of these points will change people’s minds when I engage them on it
Yes, they always try to keep us from showing anything graphic during such debates...no pictures, no video, no descriptions...this shows, more than anything, that they know just how vile and evil this act is.
Just crying my eyes out. Thank you Lord.
I'm so thankful to God that Dr. Monique Ruberu wanted to give back to God, Such beautiful ladies with humble hearts. Thank you so much for this video. It was very informative. I knew a married couple who was told that their baby was going to be Down Syndrome and they advised them to terminate the pregnancy. They refused. That baby is a grown man and not Down Syndrome. I just wanted to let you know that their doctor was wrong.
Thank you Dr. Ruberu and Lila.
What about twin molar pregnacy wirh a viable fetus. I had molar tissue spread to my lungs and liver and had blood clots the size of grapefruits, hcg levels over 600,000. I had a molar which wasnt viable alongside a healthy baby boy. I had a gut renching termination at 20 weeks, i was told i would likely die wirh my child and he would never make it to term. I had an 18 month old son and had to make an awful decision and choose between being there for my son or continuing a very dangerouse pregnancy. Afterwards i had 5 rounds of chemo. Though my situation is rare i wouldnt ever say theres no reason ever for a medical abortion.
Thank you for sharing. Its quite a conundrum. Very sad, yet reasonable for your life to be preserved. ❤
They would deliver early vs aborting the child beforehand.
@@taylourreed5560 I think what she is saying is that if she waited they would have both died. A 20 week old fetus cannot live outside the mothers womb, so early delivery of a live baby would be impossible. I'm not sure what type of abortion she had but if it was an induction that would be considered an early delivery and like I said wouldn't be able to survive. She did the right thing.
The hospital would not let me deliver and hold my baby, I had to have a d&e because the molar was sitting on top of the cervix and they were very afraid I would hemorrhage as I bleed the entire pregnancy. They did not offer a c-section either. They put me to sleep so my son would also be sleeping is what they told me
@@jessicariekkola3842 I'm sorry for your loss and that you had to go through that. It sounds like you got good care and they did what was medically necessary to save your life. Contrary to what a lot of people say c-sections are not the safest procedures as they are major surgery and could have put you at greater risk than a d&e or not possible at all. It was up to your surgeon to make that risk assessment.
Estrogen dominance is also very common in patients with MTHFR double copy, as it's hard to detox that. Also mold toxicity, candida, fungal, B12 deficiencies (which are not accurate on blood work since things like SIBO (small intestinal bacterial overgrowth which has many causes) which can look sufficient on Labcorp labs, but that's in the blood and being redistributed vs absorbed. Soooooo many things to look at to help a patient and functional medicine is the way. It's expensive but worth it. When we look at the crap we buy, 'smart' tech, eating out, travel, etc.....most of us can afford this. Priorities
Don't forget heavy metal toxicity -- this may be a big one esp. with all the nnEMF we are now exposed to.
You would have to slow down and individualize care. Money would also slow down and this has been a barrier to care. Transparency between physicians and patients. Creating again a partnership for health.
This was really helpful. I love the fact that you gave so many alternatives and the woman who did not give up on her child despite the fact. It just gave me a sense of true strength in womanhood. Just amazing she is and you all are for fighting for this cause🙏🏾
Thank you Dr. Ruberu for standing up for women and children. You are a hero in my book. I thank God that he has given you the strength to fight this spiritual battle.
God bless this dear woman! The spiritual warfare is real. Thank you for practicing your faith with your medicine!
Yes it is real…
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. -Ephesians 6:12
For me, it was medically necessary. My organs had already started shutting down in my 1st trimester. I was absolutely going to die. I was already in the midst of a flare of Lupus and if either of us would survive, I had to do it. I still hate everything about it. It still traumatized me for years. But it was the only option.
The fact that medical professionals are voicing a different opinion than what I've always heard, means the decision shouldn't be in the hands of politicians.
Great interview. I did napro technology and had 3 healthy babies ❤️ recommended it to a friend who could not afford ivf and she also had a healthy baby, recommended it to another friend and she is in the process of charting 🙌 praise God! One ovary, ovarian cyst, endometriosis, PCOS, all treatable with napro technology, charting, and changing your diet ❤
Love these two ladies!!
Trying to find a doctor like this is so hard and if you find one the wait list is so long. Wish there were more holistic doctors that were willing to figure out the why behind the symptoms.
Agree
I wish med students were given training from someone like her!
She's pro life because she's religious not because she cares about women's health.
@@mivasadl644caring for women while pregnant no matter condition is caring for women lmfao you can't get anymore caring then that. I get you don't know what that means.
OMG... This is so educational... Mine have always been abnormal and now finally UT is making sense
One minute into this I was bowling 😭😭😭 God bless for what you do and God bless America! Let the TRUTH set the people free!!! 🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸
I ❤️ this Doctor 👩⚕️!!!
Beautiful. As a man, I must say that these two women give me hope for our world today and in the future. Thank you, God bless.
Where is the hope that men who impregnate women are made responsible for those offspring? Men walk away scottfree. What do you care?? You don't have to do crap the rest of your life. When men are made responsible for their part in ejaculating sperm into a woman then come talk to women. Get off your pompous ass and protest men walking away.
This was helpful to me on so many levels! Thank you Lyla and Dr Ruberu! May God bless you, your families and your work.
Yes it is. Terminating an ectopic pregnancy is technically an abortion and 100% necessary.
No! Treatment for ectopic pregnancy is NOT an abortion. Abortion is the deliberate killing of a preborn baby who would otherwise live. In the case of an ectopic pregnancy, there are no treatment options which would allow the baby to live. None! If nothing is done, the fallopian tube will rupture and the baby will die and mother may die also. Treatment for an ectopic pregnancy involves removing the fallopian tube in order to save the life of the mother. The purpose is NOT to kill the baby. That is a tragic secondary consequence, which cannot be avoided. Don’t pretend to conflate elective abortion with treatment for an ectopic pregnancy!
May God bless this doctor richly for her courage!
Oh my goodness so excited about this conversation
Thank you for this interview with such a wonderful human being and doctor.
I'm glad to see so many professionals finally talking about diet as a massive factor in health
She's holding the Rosary and wearing the miraculous medal of Mother Mary 😊❤ I love it!
Amazing 🙏
Amen! Life is life! A precious gift from God. I pray the mama or daddy who needs to hear this finds this video!
Excellent interview! Please have Dr. Ruberu come back for more! ❤
Amen!
I’m a man and I found this very informative and helpful. I think people in general no matter if you’re a man or a woman should know this information to better help your partner
34:28 - I like these terms. I had a miscarriage but my paperwork said "Abortion". I H-Worded (meaning very dislike but YT deletes comments using that word) that they used that word.
I suspect the paperwork said spontaneous abortion.
Sometimes delivery is medically needed to save a mother. That’s not the same and doesn’t require murdering them first.
When I was 5 (1980) a couple who were family friends parents were pregnant with her third. They were Catholic. The doctors warned them if she went ahead with it she was more than likely to have a stroke from blotclotts and be incapacitated. They were very devout and trusted G-d with it and had the baby. Everthing the doctors warned happened. She was severly mentally and physically damaged, never knew her baby, and left 3 under 3 without a mom. She had palliative care for 15 yrs and died. So saying it doesnt happen is just not true. It was medically necessary for her but she chose the baby. And that was her choice.
I resisted G-d til I was 22 bc all I remembered was He "didn't come through" for that faithful couple. I never had my own children either bc I subconciously never forgot. I am pro life but to me I've kept it at theoretical. I let others "fight" this issue.
I am thinking you meant 15 days rather than 15 years.
I am curious about the type of care she received. I wonder if her doctors worked with her to keep her healthy and increase her odds or if they wrote her off because she rejected abortion.
@@debblouinWhy would you assume I didnt know what I meant? I wrote it. 15 YEARS A "VEGETABLE"
@@debblouinit was in Canada. It wasn-t like "your" "psycho system" or ideologies. This doctor is a kook. I-m just seeing more now lol. No PMS and pain? No wonder people think we're nuts Just Wow.
I had to make a similar decision and I chose to save my life and be there for my son to watch him grow up. I appreciate your comment, I am pro life as well but I unfortunately was put into a position no one wants to make that kind of awful decision.
@@debblouin What does that matter. They are not giving good care to pregnant women now!😢
Those 29 babies did not end up in the trash. They ended up being sold to the highest bidder in the medical system for their body parts.
Something that I have considered, each time we lose a family member in death from a disease that has hunted humanity for years, then you ask God why? The answer is for years Jehovah God has sent children here through women’s wombs, these children each one of them had gifts in them. Here is my question, how many times through abortion have women been induced to kill their children? How many of these children have come with gifts to save us from these diseases and been put to death by an abortion?
This is very wrong. Maybe it’s rare but it’s not impossible. I needed to have one to save my life or risk not being here for my other children. My cervix wasn’t able to hold a full term pregnancy and the pregnancy could have risked my life. I decided not to jeopardize my life and risk my children not having a mother.
Are you sure about that?
What about preterm premature rupture of membranes. This can literally lead to a fatal sepsis infection or dangerous hemorrhaging for the mother
Sounds like they would induce labor early vs killing the baby beforehand.
PROM requires delivery of the baby regardless due to the waters, ya know, having broken. That doesn't mean you cause it immense agony via saline drowning or cutting it apart in the womb. Preemie care has now made it so the baby can survive as early as 21 weeks, and before then, it's a horrible, sad situation, but at least let the baby pass loved and held, not ripped apart.
42:23 She literally addressed this condition in the discussion.
This was addressed in the video
@MrsSoriano5-ps9ch what is the quality of life for most of the babies born at 21 weeks? I have wondered if it's children's best interest for them to have medical interventions that artificially keep them alive. Should medical professionals be playing God? Does it really help the child or just prevent parents from having to grieve for a while longer?
What about ectopic pregnancies when the child is in the fallopian tube?
Exactly. 18 years ago, I had the strongest gut feeling that I was dying. I scheduled an appointment with my Dr the very next day (I told him it was an emergency and they were kind enough to fit me in). In one heartbreaking moment I found out both that I was pregnant and that the pregnancy wasn't viable. I was told to immediately drive to the hospital, because I had already hemorrhaged. I cried through the whole surgery prep - it was my 4th pregnancy and I wanted that baby so much. The nurses were visibly irritated with me. Four months later, I was pregnant again. I recognized the signs and went to see the same ob gyn who had done the surgery. It was too early to locate the baby with ultrasound, so he recommended that I take a pill to end the pregnancy "just in case". I said no; he said it wasn't even a fetus at this point. I said, "You're right - it's a baby." My healthy 4th son was born 8 months later. I thank God for the surgery that preserved my life and allowed me to give birth to my previous son and later my daughter. (It has always disturbed me, though, that the hospital called my procedure an involuntary abortion.)
@@michellemellis this is why I can’t go with the title of this video.
So that's actually not true. My sister has Crones and colitis, And also has this nerve disease called suicide disease. She got to 5 months pregnant Before She started bleeding Uncontrollably and hemorrhaging. She had to get one.
Sometimes an early delivery may be required, but that is not abortion. Watch this video: ruclips.net/video/5TmomK2RB2A/видео.html
God is Able
As a 40-year-old woman who's never been pregnant and went to the doctor for bloating and found out I have a grapefruit sized fibroid, I wish some of this information would have been taught in high school; I could have avoided years of pain
Is Dr. Ruberu wearing a Miraculous Medal?
Yes, she is a devout Catholic.
"Pray for us who have recourse to thee." BVM.
How can people hear these kind of stories and not believe that God is real and He is alive.
Because you can't make people feel the way you want .
@@mivasadl644Say one Hail Mary prayer each day. She will bring you to her Son and Salvation. Each person is intended for Heaven.
Dr. Is such a beautiful woman. She glows
Saving this to watch/listen to later today but I AM SO GLAD TO SEE SOMEONE FINALLY SAYING THIS!!! I've been saying for a long time that IF the mothers life is truly in danger, it is going to be bc of a tubal which happens before the baby is formed; or it happens late in pregnancy because of preeclampsia and the baby can be born/delivered alive. I hope she talks about this.
I believe all of what this doctor is saying. But, what I want to know is if there are any patients of hers who have done all the right things, prevented infection, correctly levelled hormones, but have tragically died while pregnant?
I also would love to know if anything she talked about addresses pre eclampsia. I'm not familiar with medical terminology, so it's entirely possible she referred to it in other words, but I don't recall hearing that term.
Thank you for the work you do, Dr. Ruberu and Lila!
I had preeclampsia. What do you want to know? I delivered my son early bc of it but he’s alive, well, happy & healthy. He’s 14 now ❤
@@NaomiDollxoxo I think you pretty much addressed my confusion. I wasn't sure if the procedure to prevent fetal and maternal death, in the case of pre eclampsia, was early delivery, based on the video. Sounds like that was the route you took with your child, and everyone is alive, happy, and safe! Thank God you chose to deliver when you did!
How many weeks along were you in your pregnancy?
I have a family member who gave birth to her son (my nephew) at (I believe 22-24 weeks) because of low amniotic fluid, and because he had/has a significant birth defect. He just turned 11, and he's a wonderful, happy boy! He does have some lifelong issues that he will need to deal with for the rest of his life. But it is his life!
This is one of the best and informative videos ever on RUclips or social media. If you’re a family member/classmate:college of Dr. Rubu, you should be very proud of her intelligence and faith in God most important.
Is there a directory of doctors in every state who practice this form of natural women's health care? Can you recommend a book that provides this information?
I added spaces because yt wouldn't let me post a link last time I tried to share this information with someone. Also look into the Pope Paul VI institute in Omaha
What a wonderful testimony. God love her for speaking up.
Abortion is the most horrible torture you can do to a human being