My partner called his toxic ex partner to announce our pregnancy without talking to me first.

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  • @BellaQuiz
    @BellaQuiz  Месяц назад +118

    rest of this post: He said that he didn't want them to stalk him and find out via social media, which we haven't announced on there until we are pass the 12 week scan. I was upset that he hadn't even thought to check with me if I minded him telling her, or to even discuss it with me at all beforehand. I said I wasn't happy that he had done that without even talking about it to me first. I don’t like this woman as she has caused him so much distress previously. He apologised and said that if I wanted to unblock my ex and tell him I could, wish I really don’t feel I need to do. I'm still a bit fed up about it and my partner keeps telling me to "calm down" and "to forget about it already"
    Not sure if I'm being a dickhead and need to just give myself a mental slap or approach him again and just say I actually found it a bit hurtful

  • @stdeam3615
    @stdeam3615 Месяц назад +124

    Why do i feel like he cares more about his exs thoughts more than his wives? Its almost like he married and impregnated her to prove something to his ex

    • @Rasheens-Story
      @Rasheens-Story Месяц назад +1

      I don’t think so. I think he just wanted to prove that be wrong. After all the crap she said about him when she found out they were seeing each other and they were getting married.

    • @stdeam3615
      @stdeam3615 Месяц назад +1

      @@Rasheens-Story yeah but at what cost? His ex doesnt seem mentally ok, she could harm op and baby. He should think before acting and consult his wife too

    • @CalmEditss
      @CalmEditss Месяц назад +1

      Bro why can’t yall people except that if you do one dumb am shit with your ex is immediately means your in love with them. Like cheating is horrible but this 1 time BIG screw up doesn’t mean he likes her

    • @stdeam3615
      @stdeam3615 Месяц назад

      @@CalmEditss nobody says he is cheating

  • @salemnight8564
    @salemnight8564 Месяц назад +81

    NTA. He definitely should have talked to her first especially if the ex is unhinged. He might have just put her and their unborn child in jeopardy if the ex goes crazy and decides to hurt OP or the unborn child.

  • @angiehernandez7671
    @angiehernandez7671 Месяц назад +23

    Why?..The ex has nothing to do with you both. You should be upset by that.

  • @mellenneephillipe9611
    @mellenneephillipe9611 Месяц назад +28

    One, he needs to get his priorities staright asap. And get a restraining order again his ex cause thats unacceptable seriously. Nta

  • @Lily_bookout
    @Lily_bookout Месяц назад +6

    I think that he probably can't forget her. I'm not saying he loves her but he hates her more than he loves his wife

  • @christianandjesse7370
    @christianandjesse7370 Месяц назад +8

    Ehhhh, "calm down, forget about it" sounds like he and his ex arent so different lol.
    He probably still has feelings for her. He probably is low key with a younger woman for the ego and not for genuine appreciation of his new wifes time and happiness.

  • @moxee33
    @moxee33 Месяц назад +22

    He is very immature to care what his ex thinks.

  • @MistressOP
    @MistressOP Месяц назад +5

    NTA - Go to couples now before the hormones get nuts. He's gaslighting you instead of saying sorry, and lets do this how you feel comfortable from now on blah blah blah. And if someone tells you they came from a toxic relationships ALWAYS go to couples, ALWAYS ask them to get therapy before you do major life things like marriage or even if you feel this might be a long term relationship.

  • @ladywesker5307
    @ladywesker5307 Месяц назад +7

    I wonder how much of the toxicity comes from the ex and not from him

    • @NicoleMarie.
      @NicoleMarie. Месяц назад

      Sounds like he is manipulating her and guilting her in to feel bad.

    • @ladywesker5307
      @ladywesker5307 Месяц назад

      @@NicoleMarie. Yeah it sounds like he's a POS

  • @summerfieldmartin912
    @summerfieldmartin912 Месяц назад +6

    It is unfortunate that you are having a child with a man who is still so emotionally invested in an ex-partner. He is only with you to hurt her. You yourself mean nothing to him.

  • @alasmm9416
    @alasmm9416 Месяц назад +12

    I think this is one of those moments where you insulted to the point where you are kinda insecure and him unblocking and telling her that"look she didn't left and we are pregnant" etc. cause he was previously in abusive relationship and was bit doubtful. And now all his ex's theories are wrong so, he kinda wanted to prove that bichhh wrong. But nth you have your boundaries, which he broke while taking pride but overall you will overcome this problem and lead a happy life.

  • @zerotodona1495
    @zerotodona1495 Месяц назад

    Just forgive him over this. She was torturing him for years.

  • @NicoleMarie.
    @NicoleMarie. Месяц назад

    You weren’t there when she called, yet you witnessed him calling her and doing exactly what he said she was doing? 😂😂 good luck.

  • @paperswithcode3943
    @paperswithcode3943 Месяц назад +2

    The dude is a masochist, or still in love with the ex. Why else he would pull this shit? Even if he was bragging, he could have done that after talking to his wife.

    • @CalmEditss
      @CalmEditss Месяц назад

      Bro why can’t yall people except that if you do one dumb am shit with your ex is immediately means your in love with them. Like cheating is horrible but this 1 time BIG screw up doesn’t mean he likes her

  • @moshmosh5744
    @moshmosh5744 Месяц назад +5

    my question is why is she still part of the picture? something not right....

  • @BaeBunni
    @BaeBunni Месяц назад

    NTA but I get what where he is coming from when you have a psycho ex that won't leave you alone. She bugs me about her milestones that I literally care nothing about. I change my phone number, move to a different city and left my job to avoid her and she still finds me and bugs me so hurting her would feel way more cathartic if it was possible.

  • @Frogs_can_fly1234
    @Frogs_can_fly1234 Месяц назад

    He probably just wanted to prove his ex wrong because she said he wouldnt be able to have children but even if that's the reason he should have told you but you are overreacting a bit

  • @DoughnutWithSpice
    @DoughnutWithSpice Месяц назад +1

    Guess what! In the movie, Tangled, Flynn Ryder is 26 and Rapunzel is 18! 6 year age gap, people!

    • @hihopeyouhaveaniceday6992
      @hihopeyouhaveaniceday6992 Месяц назад +3

      Go back to school.

    • @Frogs_can_fly1234
      @Frogs_can_fly1234 Месяц назад

      Lmao this is the best comment and the most random comment

    • @MaddMarine
      @MaddMarine Месяц назад

      Well, you're right about the 6 year age gap - he's 24 (under the impression he is 23) in the movie and "currently" 26 in the series, when Rupunzel is 20 (or almost 20)

  • @Dima-Dimalicious
    @Dima-Dimalicious Месяц назад

    He needs therapy. Normal people do not behave this way. He is now gaslighting you on top of still being co dependent on his ex. Run...dont walk the hell away and protect your baby.