I wasn't going to keep my baby *unplanned pregnancy*
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- I've literally thought about whether or not I would make this video for months, but I wanted to be open with you all and share the true situation
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Hey everyone, thank you for clicking on the video but please watch it before commenting “keep the baby”. This is a story about me deciding to keep my baby when I found out I was pregnant with Hazel.
Mia Feldman okie
Okie!!
I love you mia
Mia one i love Halle
Hazle
I’m pregnant , watchin this video, crying because I relate so much. Thanks for sharing your story!
Ashley Hohenshelt me right now 😪♥️
Aw! Congratulations!
Congrats on the baby is it a boy or goil
Just found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant yesterday...
Mia! I understand what you're going thru! When I found out I was pregnant with my son, me and bf were thinking of aborting him and even went to the appointment to ge tit done but something strange happened. They told me that they couldn't see my baby, that I'm either way too early or already miscarrying. They scheduled me another appointment. They day came and me and my boyfriend decided not to go. We couldn't do it. I'm glad I never got it done because I love my son unconditionally. And hes a blessing in my life. 💕💕
@Nicole Courtney thats so sad and im happy hes a blessing!
Nicole Courtney dame x
I know what you are going thru
You are probably the one of the nicest person ever you are so supportive of Mia and that is the best thing someone can do💖💖💖💖
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Pregnancy is hard
Pregnancy is scary
Weather you are 30+
Or 15+
Pregnancy isn’t something everyone enjoys
Some people teeter totter back and forth between deciding to keep the baby, and that’s ok
I, as a teen mom (now 22) and mother of 3, have experienced these exact feelings
Never feel like you are not worthy because you are questioning it
You, no matter your choice, are beautiful, you are worthy, you are amazing
I am a teen Mom too I had twins when I was 17 it's hard but at The end it's worth it
@Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid thank you so much
@@jack-.-609 awww how amazing’! It definitely is hard but such an amazing experience
I had an abortion when I was 17 due to having an extremely unpleasant and toxic relationship, I felt nothing but guilt afterwards. I’m 19 now and 10 weeks pregnant and I couldn’t be happier. It’s nice to know that people can be open and talk about their experiences
Thank you for sharing Mia. It takes a strong women to allow herself to be vulnerable in front of the world. Life is precious and I’m so happy you chose to bring Hazel into this world! She’s blessed to have you as a mother!🦋♥️
I’m 26, and not a mother.. (unless my 3 cats count lol) but I just wanna say thank you for being so open and honest. I’m sure having this up is gonna help many many people or at least make them feel less alone! Being so transparent is not easy, especially on “”controversial”” topics, I applaud you!
Cat mothers unite! I love cat and human babies equally 😊
Thanks so much for sharing your story.💗This will be really helpful to other women who might be in the position you were in. Your daughter is beautiful and you seem like a great mother! Congrats 💗
As a young new mom I completely agree with your thoughts 🥰
Thank you for this. I just found out a couple hours ago and completely in the beginning stages of shock. We definitely have the same mindset and thinking and this helped. Thank you for being so open
Aw I’m so happy this video could help! You got this 💜
I just found out that I’m pregnant and I haven’t told any of my friends or family. My boyfriend supports nomatter what I decide. I have no idea what to do. I’m so lost and it doesn’t even feel real. This wasn’t my plan but having an abortion feels like I’m loosing something. But I know that financially it doesn’t make sense. I’m only 22 and I always wanted to be married first and have a good paying job.. I just have no idea and I thank you so much for telling your story.
I just found out yesterday and I’m only 20 and live with my mom still I’m so stressed out!
Hope you both were able to make the right decision 💜
@@mirandal6432 girl same
@@ansonelfrench8161 i’m now 22 weeks pregnant with a baby boy, life has never been so exciting and i’m so glad i kept my son. do what is best for you but keeping him was by far one of the best decisions i have ever made.
Be ready to be a single parent
How can people dislike this amazing video 😢
Their phones were probably upside down 😁
Haha
It most be!! 😅
Maria Rosario idk 😐
What is it about
This is so beautiful. I want to be a mom one day and this really opened my eyes about how emotional having a baby is (I'm only 12), It's life changing. You are an amazing mom and always will be. Thank you so much for sharing, I hope i can be as strong as you when I grow up!! Thank you
Hi! Im sure you are 14-16 now, but I hope all is well! Try to not get pregnant now, but build yourself up for motherhood and a relationship with the partner you will one day have a baby with. I'm not much older, but I want to be a mother as much as you do. You go girl! 😊
What a beautiful video. Love your honesty, realness and intelligence that you showed. You are adjusting to motherhood so well and your mom would be proud. I hope you share more like this.
I love that your posting this!!I've never been pregnant but I've known alot of girls who had struggle and didnt t know how to handle this at first ..hearing stories are helpful...your awesome mia!!
When i got pregnant back in December 2018 i was actually very excited but then around the 12 week mark when your in the “safe zone” my little cousin passed then it was my aunt, great grandmother and another aunt all within 4months, it really didnt allow me to enjoy my pregnancy with so much loss. But even with all that loss me and my family left, my little baby gave us also some bit of happiness, a baby can sometimes be a really amazing gift. 💗 also i think your an amazing mother, i love seeing your videos with baby hazel 💗💗
Christina Bolanos I am soooo sorry for your losses 🥺☹️😔🙁
Your relationship with your dad makes my heart happy ❤️
This is truly insane, I am 23 also… I just found out I am 6 weeks just like you did… and my mom passed away 4 years ago also…. And not only that but I’ve only been in my relationship for less than 6 months….. and I really believe you just gave me my answer…
Aww so happy that I could help, wishing you the best…you got this!
I really appreciate the honesty ! I had a very similar birth story as yours. My boyfriend and I were only dating 8 months before I got pregnant .Its relieving to see that I'm not alone! I felt guilty about the way I felt for a long time. Now I have my daughter and I couldn't imagine life without her but it was definitely not planned
So happy you posted this video. I’m pregnant right now and going through this same thing.
THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS. so many girls need to hear this story.
And guys
Thanks for sharing your story, I'm pregnant now and had a moment of considering abortion as my partner freaked out about it and wanted me to for a short period, found that devastating to consider, and happy to now be moving forwards with this pregnancy.
this was such an amazing video! You definitely can help out so many people with this video!
I really appreciate this I haven't been able to find a lot of people talking about this kind of struggle without it being a Christian anti abortion thing and hearing your perspective is really helping me sort my thoughts
Motherhood is a noble thing that requires bravery and strength. God bless you and your family Mia! I have the best of wishes for your daughter as she grows up ❤
Dude your situation is just like mine right now. My bf and I found out yesterday and cried all day and I kept saying this should be a happy occasion 😥 and I'm also on medications that are not necessarily safe for pregnancy & don't currently know exactly how far along I am. So glad I found your video thanks for posting
Good luck with everything and with whatever choice you decide to make.
Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏻🤍 I feel it can help a lot of woman to hear of the real struggles in these situations
I'm so happy you decided to keep the pregnancy. She is a miracle wonderful gift. Ps 139:13-16 describes so beautifully what is happening in a woman womb.I hope you read it 😀
Your Mum would be so so proud of you, she is watching over you and she probably sent her Into your world and make you a mummy xoxooxox
Yeah
❤️Gods always got a plan if we except it in our life’s we see how amazing it can be ❤️💯
LOVE this side of you. Love how open you are
Mai you are really open.I like that your are open because if i was ever in this position i can find this video and watch.I always wanted babies at twenty. But i never thought about the money nothing. Even though its a long way from now.I'm the person who plan early. Thanks Mia!
I love how you share with us everything you gone though.
This information could be very helpful for my future. Ty, and ilysm!
thanks for your honesty and keepin it real. i on the other hand tried for 7 years before i got pregnant
so glad you shared, and made the right decision for you. ❤️
Thanks for sharing, Mia! Tbh, I was very on the fence at the beginning too and I cried so many times after I found out and I always felt guilty about not being happy when I found out because most videos of people finding out they’re pregnant are happy and crying of happiness. So I’m glad you shared your story and knowing that you feel like you made the right decision to keep it now that she’s here. Cheeers to you, mama 💕
Thank you so much for posting this! I felt so alone going through my decision making. I had the same mindset at first, but after a heart to heart moment with my boyfriend- I found out that he really wanted this. I’m trying to decide when to tell the important people in my life- kind of want to wait until I’m huge! Opinions on that?
Mia. As a girl in her early twenties (23) I understand where you come from. I’ve had those “pregnancy scares” it is crazy what time does. Two years ago I’d definitely have an abortion but now I wouldn’t. I’m still pro choice. I am so glad you talked about this.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Your mother instincts and hormones kicked in. I just saw Hazel on the Hawaii video. And HAZEL IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SO LOVED!!!!!
You made a good choice and You are a amazing mum And you made a big Responsibility 🥺❤️
Going through this at this moment 💕 idk what to do because I don’t have as much support as you more so best friends making me feel stupid if I do have the baby and I’m 25 but thanks so much for sharing I don’t feel alone
I appreciate your honesty.
thank you so much for sharing this ❤️ your baby is so precious and i’m so glad that you had her!!
thankyou soooo much i am also very emotional in case of babies... I love babies a lot.. I think its gods gift to be mother from god... you change my mind... I am pregnent now... I am double minded..
All things happened for a reason!💖
I can literally listen to you for hours and hours. So entertaining. Love you!!
I found out I'm 1 mo pregnant yesterday. I went through the same thing. Kept having dreams, people kept saying I came off motherly, along with having a lot of symptoms. It was crazy. Although I'm 25, I don't know what to do. I live with my sister too and haven't told my family.
Thank you for being so real, raw and authentic with us, Mia! Blessings to you, Spencer and Baby Hazel!! 💛🙏🏼😚
I love this ! Thank you for sharing your story 🖤
I want to let you all know that an abortion has nothing to do with killing off a life it has everything to do with being ready for it emotionally and physically and I 100% support women who have had an abortion because you should have the right to do whatever you want with your body and nobody will understand what you are going through accept you and other women who’ve had them and I personally could never do it but I should have the right to have that choice because if I am not ready to just give birth in general I shouldn’t be forced to do something I don’t want to do. People always say well why did you have sex in the first place and I’m so sick of that dumbass phrase because I shouldn’t have to be afraid of having sex because of pregnancy and it could be many other things besides using protection or pills like what if this pregnant girl was raped does she still have to give birth to a baby she didn’t plan nor want you can’t force this girl to have a baby that was forced upon her and a toxic relationship. I’m not gonna go through all the details just know hating on someone for having an abortion is unreasonable because you don’t know that persons situation judging is not the right move and you never know if it will happen to you
I’m so glad you kept the baby! If not baby Hazel wouldn’t be here with us and we would have lost a huge blessing in all of our lives ❤️
I have always thought that people come alive again and are the person who passed away if that makes sense, and just than i was thinking what if hazel is actually your mum coming back in a new life. wow
I love u for sharing this. It really helped me. Thank u and best of luck!!
You have a beautiful family. I completely respect any choice you make. I am pro choice.
Love your video please do more !!! I love how honest you are in this video about mother hood
Y’all that think abortion is okay it’s not it’s evil and against the Bible yet god still loves you I’ll pray for you
Mia keep her she is so cute and everyone loves her but i understand what you are doing
Your going to be a great mom no matter what, and hazel is a beautiful girl and she has an amazing mom
Yo! Mia! Im Watching The stream! We Have a Few Mins! To wait!
@Jaclene Villanueva Idm! Atleast Some People Saw My Comment :D
@Jaclene Villanueva Why? Thats KInda rude..
@Jaclene Villanueva D: Rude
@Jaclene Villanueva you are super mean omg
Don't feel bad Mia, love you
you spoke so beautifully, thank you Mia for sharing your story!! I have so much respect for you and wish the best for you and your family, congratulations❤️
Wow this was so real, and inspirational!💗 Listening to your story was very interesting, and I loved it! You should upload more content like that!❤️ Thank you for sharing, I loved the story.💕
I’m so happy you kept hazel she’s adorable
I realy wished you two stayed together.
If you have something to say but don't want to say you can say it
#Keepthebaby my niece was just born she is 4days old and I love her I am only 11 but I understand what u r thinking I know not as much a a mother would but I get it . U r a bright and amazing person and keep making these vids if u can u don’t have to I understand baby’s are a lot to handle like I said I am an aunt of 2 but I do babysit sometimes not them but I still babysit ur great and idk what I would do with my life if u and Cloe weren’t on RUclips you are great and joyful so yeah and piece ✌️✌️❤️❤️
Thank u for telling ur story! I love u and ur sisters channel! How's lil Hazel been? Can u make some more videos with her if u can. 💕💕💜. Also happy Valentines Day!
Thank you for posting your story 💕
I don’t know if I want to keep my baby, I’m scared. I don’t want to go through birth to give the baby up, and I don’t know if can be a good mom. I’m 10 weeks now and I still don’t know if I want this, shouldn’t I know by now what I want? I don’t know what to do.
It’s hard to know the right thing to do! What I did was allowed myself a few days of saying okay “what if I do keep the baby” and see how I felt. I ended up feeling happy and excited so allow yourself to say yes for a few days and see how you end up feeling!
I love this honesty so much🙌🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
Keep the baby pleas I know it’s hard but you will love it in the ind and think of your baby Hazel and your boyfriend I just hope that you keep the baby in the end
I’m pro choice
Yes I understand that killing a baby does not sound like a good thing but I don’t think I have the authority to make choices for other people’s bodies and some people can’t put their baby up for adoption and what if you get raped and don’t want a memory of it ?
Why she is pretty
KEEP YOUR BABY PLZZ HAZEL IS TOO CUTE PLZZ MIA …
Mia, We miss Cloe. Can u ask her to come back? Plsss
i miss cloe
we miss you cloe
Im so glad you changed your mind
Hazel is so cute
I'm so sorry you have to break up
You should keep the baby if you really want to
I had an abortion with pill on March and now I’m pregnant again. Unplanned, and my boyfriend doesn’t want it and I’m really terrified of doing abortion again. I don’t have a job currently and it’s all so scary. What should I do?
If you want to keep it then you should regardless of what others want or having a job. It might be scary and unknown but just follow your heart and the universe will guide you with unexpected help!
Hey Mariana - its two years pass now, what happened!?
what are you and spencer's jobs?
love you mia❤️
You re doing great..... ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️.
What happend to chloe? Did she for real leave RUclips???
Kirra's Aesthetic World yea I miss her
It’s ok. I get it.❤️💕👍🏻
Please dont stop making video like cloe
Guys she’s obviously NOT pregnant again, she’s talking through her decision on keeping hazel, the baby she just had.
It's ok
cloe's not going to be a youtuber so is mia still going to be a youtuber?
Mia is continuing still being a RUclipsr! But Chloe quit! Chloe is can being a RUclipsr because she has done it most likely all of her life and she wants to explore more things besides all the trouble of making just one RUclips video to make thousands of people happy.
Cole has say good bye to RUclips I’m so sad can you call her to do RUclips again pls
Mia! I’m so proud of you, not everyone is ready for a child and I understand that, however abortion is not the ANSWER! There r other options like birth control and not having sex. Life is a sacred gift from God and should be respected you will not regret ur decision!! I wish the best for ur knew family and I hope others realize the gift they have been given! It is not a burden, A GIFT ❤️❤️🙏
Not having sex? Uh please give better advice. Some fall pregnant while on birth control.
Thanks for sharing your story
Well I understand your story Mia and I love that you told us so thank you for telling us and I’m glad that you keep her
Did you just have a baby though
Amanda Thompson yes she did
Amanda Thompson yes she did
Then why does she what to give it up?
Amanda Thompson this was her talking about when she first found out she was pregnant she didn’t know if she was ready to keep a baby or not and what made her decide to continue the pregnancy and keep her baby
O I get it now sorry I thought she was talking about having a baby again
I will never judge you for anything like this. I will never judge a women for her decision on her own body.
Please do a morning routine with your baby girl!
Keep your baby
Samantha connellan Mia can choose her path in her life you cant choose what she wants to do in her life
She already had the baby did none of you look at the title or listen to the video
You will inspire so many others!!❤️
Mia:not for another two weeks
Me:nothing white nothing white CHOCOLATE