Brother you are a rockstar and a shining example that others can follow. Less than three months down the road you're steering the ship and getting things done for yourself and your family. Though you've had to endure a tidal wave of crap to get here, I could not be happier for you right now.
That Anxiety Guy thank you dude. You were one of the first people I spoke to after this all happened so you know exactly where I was at during those dark moments. All these little things have helped me on my way. You sir are a frickin rockstar too.
Ok, I've watched the entire video now, and yes, I think this could be the best thing that's ever happened to you. You and your daughter (and son!) don't need this kind of drama, stress, and anxiety inducing behaviour in your life. Your daughter is way too young to have to deal with the things she's been dealing with. A stable and happy life is what you all need. It sounds as if this relationship was actually holding you back in so many ways. Anyway, as you say ONWARDS & UPWARDS! You will be fine. :)
I really want to tell you how much this random video on youtube is helping me right now. After a breakup with my cheating ex, yes like you I went back many times he finally left me a couple weeks ago to go back with the woman he cheated with. Ive been depressed, lonely and had suicidal thoughts. Your video is helping me realize my life will be better off without his lies, cheating and manipulation that like you made me controlling, anxious and unhappy. We deserve to be happy, loved, respected and be given loyalty in relationships. I hope your life continues to blossom. Im just starting this journey of starting over thank you for giving me hope.
Hi Linnea, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this right now. You 100% deserve better. I am happy to tell you that you will get through this, I know it's cliche, but time really is a great healer. I'm 3 years down the line from this episode in my life and honestly, I wouldn't change how things are now for the world. I moved on, I eventually found someone who truly does make me feel like i'm worthy. And you will too, if you want to. Use this time to focus on yourself. Treat yourself, make plans and enjoy yourself. Learn to love yourself and your own life and the rest will fall in to place. Stay positive.
I found this post by accident tonight. I was looking for anxiety hypnosis. I listened to your story and I’m sorry about your relationship but it sounds like you have a lot of positives to look forward to. I’m dealing with a relationship that my husband has anger and blaming issues that have beat me down completely. I have major anxiety. We’ve been together for 10 years. I was married previously for 14 years and my husband passed away. We never argued except 2 times. I’m used to that type of relationship so this one has made me lose myself. I tend to try to always fix things even when I shouldn’t. Listening to you makes me feel like I really need to put an end to the relationship so I can rebuild myself and not trap my two daughters into thinking that arguing is ok. You brought me some light and I thank you! Stay strong! Thanks for posting! You are helping me as well as others learn they need to believe in themselves and be strong! ❤️
Sorry to hear you've gone through something similar. Give it time, I'm far from over the feelings of it all. I just realise that there's no other way to move on. I have to put myself and the kids first and stand up and be counted. Always here if you want to chat. Anytime at all.
sorry to hear all this. be well and remember that your channel helps a lot of people. even if it is just having someone they can relate to, it helps. much love from Florida.
Hey Billy! Glad to see you back and sorry to hear that you were put into a bad mental place by someone who betrayed you in one of the most nefarious ways. From what I can gather in your vlogs, you're a good dude who doesn't deserve to be deceived by some harlot posing as a trusted partner. Like you said, this is all for the best knowing what she had been up to. You and you kids will be much better off without her complicating your lives. Remember, you've always got our support!
Hey, thank you. It's been rough but I'm coming out the other side and moving forward. I honestly have never felt such a low point in my life and Im so glad I managed to get through those moments as quickly as I did. Life begins again, but this time im in control.
You are my rock star, you put yourself through hell and back and look at you you're still functioning and working on yourself I look up to you when I'm 70 years old dealing with anxiety since I was 15. Can you help me so much I do hope things get better and better for you as I do hope they get better and better from myself you're an awesome guy and I'm so glad I found these videos that you make they have helped me so much I feel like I have a friend around all the time and I am a widow by myself so it's hard sometimes but listening to you gives me support and confidence thank youyou take care of yourself because I need more and more of your videos thank you best of luck God bless
Gwenn Burchins thank you for your lovely comment. I'm glad you found the videos too. I'm going to try and start posting a little more often. The feedback on this video has been awesome. I appreciate every single viewer.
Hey billy. Been a watcher for over a year now. But always been silent. So odd. I just broke up with my girlfriend recently that entailed a very similar situation. I’ve been having a hard time dealing with it, but seeing and hearing this from you made it a lot better. Just knowing that I’m not the only one going through something like this. Prayers and blessings brother. Will keep you in my thoughts
Hey, sorry to hear you're going through something similar. I wouldn't wish this crap on anyone. We're not alone though my friend, many many people will be living these same experiences and even worse. Keep your head held high and keep moving forward.
I agree. This is not the worst by any means. The positive things you said really clicked with me too. I as well have reclaimed connections with old friends and realized how large my support group is. I’ve also, same as you, been able to start doing lots of things that I enjoy and that are good for me that I wasn’t before. Everyone is 100% right. This is the best thing that has ever happened to us
I haven't watched anything except the intro yet, but I'm so very sorry to hear what's happened. It was only a few weeks ago I was watching your trip to Suffolk with your wife, and you seemed so solid. Hang in there and take good care of yourself. I'll watch the rest now. x
It's hard, it's really hard, but you don't give up. You keep on going and things get better. It's about making yourself happy now, not anybody else. Love life and live it.
Cheers,Mate! my slit with long-term partner with 3 kids live with her now, adds extra anxiety..! it's like you've got a two stage rocket and the first stage is like always there baseline anxiety, but when something out of the ordinary happens it just goes sky-high!! so I could imagine what's your only feeling. but like I said at least you've have your child
You're a beautiful soul I am so happy that you've got over the hurdle it is a painful journey but she didn't deserve you and sometimes we have to go through things to make a better change well done. I can't wait to get there myself
Keep your chin up bud. Sometimes it takes a bad thing to happen for a great thing to come from it. Like you say time is a healer. Once a bit of time passes the relief you will feel from it being over will be amazing. You need to love yourself before you try and love anyone else. Take it easy. John.
I'm delighted to c ya billy was asking about ya i watch all your video's your in a better place proud of you look after yourself and your kids hope you and drew make more videos together i love ye im really happy to see ya doing well u look great to hell with anyone else go get em xxxxx
Hey Olivia, I've always been here, just wasn't in the best shape to put videos on here. I'm certainly moving forward now though and I intend to keep moving in that direction for a change. Hope you're well. x
Crap situation, but as you know and say yourself, you think that you can't get through shit like this, you can, maybe even better than before, you are getting out, making a new life for you and your kids, feeling the fear, and going with and through it..........respect.
I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve been through this I myself know that it’s so hard to see clear because of the depersonalisation u feel u need that person and can’t cope without them it’s so hard to know what’s right what’s wrong because I have been through hell and back my life has changed forever I’m still with my husband for 22 years I love him but sometimes I just don’t know who I am anymore everything is so overwhelming the truth is I can’t do anything on my own right now I’m not the person I was I’m just so scared of everyone and everything I have severe depression anxiety panic attacks and agoraphobia I don’t know how to get past it as I live 6 miles from the nearest town I can’t drive anymore I’ve done numerous referrals to steps to change they don’t give me no counselling I’m not in any medication I’m too scared to take it most days I just want to go sleep and not wake up I feel so I’ll all day every day it upsets my gerd and Ibs 😢 x
Haha thank you Laura, I've had so many people say I'm looking well in this video. You're all either being polite, or I really am looking fresher. I want to visit Brighton one day, I'll let you buy me a tea when I do. x
Hello I'm New to Your Chanel and You tube. I've been looking for anyone who goes through very Similar Anxiety and Panic attacks as myself as if only recently been diagnosed. And is Hell on Earth is only word to describe this god for asking illness.Anyway not to bore you too much lol.So sorry to.see this about your relationship.break up and the after affect it causes you .You sit and say "Why ", "Why me" but a do hope you find some sort of happiness a feel.you deserve some .I'm going to have wee nosey at your other vlogs on hear. Keep your chin up 😊.ps..sorry for yapping on lol.
That sucks, my ex left me over a month ago, we been togather for 17 years, and we have a 16 years old daughter, she told her mom "I hate him because of his anxiety" I also saw pictures of her, saying she loves someone else, and I dreamed about her leaving me last year, but anyways maybe good luck with everything.
Jonny Q sorry to hear that dude. It's not easy man, but you get through it. You do what you have to do and life moves on. Her part in your story is over now. It's time to write the next chapter. Here if you ever want to chat man, anytime.
Does anxiety ever goes away? I want to be my old self so bad! I feel bad everyday! And we can’t breakup. We know we don’t work together but why we can’t break up? I need any tips. I’m getting myself busy all day but I feel tired and suicidal
Brother you are a rockstar and a shining example that others can follow. Less than three months down the road you're steering the ship and getting things done for yourself and your family. Though you've had to endure a tidal wave of crap to get here, I could not be happier for you right now.
That Anxiety Guy thank you dude. You were one of the first people I spoke to after this all happened so you know exactly where I was at during those dark moments. All these little things have helped me on my way. You sir are a frickin rockstar too.
Ok, I've watched the entire video now, and yes, I think this could be the best thing that's ever happened to you. You and your daughter (and son!) don't need this kind of drama, stress, and anxiety inducing behaviour in your life. Your daughter is way too young to have to deal with the things she's been dealing with. A stable and happy life is what you all need. It sounds as if this relationship was actually holding you back in so many ways. Anyway, as you say ONWARDS & UPWARDS! You will be fine. :)
Thank you Natasha. You're so right, none of us needed this. As hard as it's all been trying to deal with, I'm definitely on a better path right now :)
I really want to tell you how much this random video on youtube is helping me right now. After a breakup with my cheating ex, yes like you I went back many times he finally left me a couple weeks ago to go back with the woman he cheated with. Ive been depressed, lonely and had suicidal thoughts. Your video is helping me realize my life will be better off without his lies, cheating and manipulation that like you made me controlling, anxious and unhappy. We deserve to be happy, loved, respected and be given loyalty in relationships. I hope your life continues to blossom. Im just starting this journey of starting over thank you for giving me hope.
Hi Linnea, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this right now. You 100% deserve better. I am happy to tell you that you will get through this, I know it's cliche, but time really is a great healer. I'm 3 years down the line from this episode in my life and honestly, I wouldn't change how things are now for the world. I moved on, I eventually found someone who truly does make me feel like i'm worthy. And you will too, if you want to. Use this time to focus on yourself. Treat yourself, make plans and enjoy yourself. Learn to love yourself and your own life and the rest will fall in to place. Stay positive.
I found this post by accident tonight. I was looking for anxiety hypnosis. I listened to your story and I’m sorry about your relationship but it sounds like you have a lot of positives to look forward to. I’m dealing with a relationship that my husband has anger and blaming issues that have beat me down completely. I have major anxiety. We’ve been together for 10 years. I was married previously for 14 years and my husband passed away. We never argued except 2 times. I’m used to that type of relationship so this one has made me lose myself. I tend to try to always fix things even when I shouldn’t. Listening to you makes me feel like I really need to put an end to the relationship so I can rebuild myself and not trap my two daughters into thinking that arguing is ok. You brought me some light and I thank you! Stay strong! Thanks for posting! You are helping me as well as others learn they need to believe in themselves and be strong! ❤️
I can relate to so much of that, you've bounced back better than I did/have. Stay strong dude.
Sorry to hear you've gone through something similar. Give it time, I'm far from over the feelings of it all. I just realise that there's no other way to move on. I have to put myself and the kids first and stand up and be counted. Always here if you want to chat. Anytime at all.
sorry to hear all this. be well and remember that your channel helps a lot of people. even if it is just having someone they can relate to, it helps. much love from Florida.
Thanks Sean.
This situation will make you better
100% Respect man!!! I've always loved your videos!!! You should feel incredibly proud!!!
RaginMoose100 thank you Moose 😊👊
Hey Billy! Glad to see you back and sorry to hear that you were put into a bad mental place by someone who betrayed you in one of the most nefarious ways. From what I can gather in your vlogs, you're a good dude who doesn't deserve to be deceived by some harlot posing as a trusted partner. Like you said, this is all for the best knowing what she had been up to. You and you kids will be much better off without her complicating your lives. Remember, you've always got our support!
Hey, thank you. It's been rough but I'm coming out the other side and moving forward. I honestly have never felt such a low point in my life and Im so glad I managed to get through those moments as quickly as I did. Life begins again, but this time im in control.
You are my rock star, you put yourself through hell and back and look at you you're still functioning and working on yourself I look up to you when I'm 70 years old dealing with anxiety since I was 15. Can you help me so much I do hope things get better and better for you as I do hope they get better and better from myself you're an awesome guy and I'm so glad I found these videos that you make they have helped me so much I feel like I have a friend around all the time and I am a widow by myself so it's hard sometimes but listening to you gives me support and confidence thank youyou take care of yourself because I need more and more of your videos thank you best of luck God bless
Gwenn Burchins thank you for your lovely comment. I'm glad you found the videos too. I'm going to try and start posting a little more often. The feedback on this video has been awesome. I appreciate every single viewer.
Hey billy. Been a watcher for over a year now. But always been silent. So odd. I just broke up with my girlfriend recently that entailed a very similar situation. I’ve been having a hard time dealing with it, but seeing and hearing this from you made it a lot better. Just knowing that I’m not the only one going through something like this. Prayers and blessings brother. Will keep you in my thoughts
Hey, sorry to hear you're going through something similar. I wouldn't wish this crap on anyone. We're not alone though my friend, many many people will be living these same experiences and even worse. Keep your head held high and keep moving forward.
I agree. This is not the worst by any means. The positive things you said really clicked with me too. I as well have reclaimed connections with old friends and realized how large my support group is. I’ve also, same as you, been able to start doing lots of things that I enjoy and that are good for me that I wasn’t before. Everyone is 100% right. This is the best thing that has ever happened to us
I haven't watched anything except the intro yet, but I'm so very sorry to hear what's happened. It was only a few weeks ago I was watching your trip to Suffolk with your wife, and you seemed so solid. Hang in there and take good care of yourself. I'll watch the rest now. x
Hi Natasha, thank you for the comment. Enjoy the rest of the video. I'm not in too bad shape now. x
Great video, keep strong.
You and your kids are your priority now, ive been in your situation and its awful..
Sorry to hear that mate, anxiety kills me a lot of the time I have 3 kids not living with out me! on my own, no kids just anxiety
It's hard, it's really hard, but you don't give up. You keep on going and things get better. It's about making yourself happy now, not anybody else. Love life and live it.
Cheers,Mate! my slit with long-term partner with 3 kids live with her now, adds extra anxiety..! it's like you've got a two stage rocket and the first stage is like always there baseline anxiety, but when something out of the ordinary happens it just goes sky-high!! so I could imagine what's your only feeling. but like I said at least you've have your child
I'm proud of you too, I suffer with anxiety I cannot go out shopping so I'm proud of you
Thank you Cathryn, you can do anything if you put your mind to it. I'm living proof of that right now.
Anxiety United I’m going through this now . I feel broken .the days feel long and dark . I wanna run to her , but she is the one that ended things .
So glad, you’re doing well♥️ Keep going ♥️
You're a beautiful soul I am so happy that you've got over the hurdle it is a painful journey but she didn't deserve you and sometimes we have to go through things to make a better change well done. I can't wait to get there myself
Keep your chin up bud. Sometimes it takes a bad thing to happen for a great thing to come from it. Like you say time is a healer. Once a bit of time passes the relief you will feel from it being over will be amazing. You need to love yourself before you try and love anyone else. Take it easy. John.
John Ord- Outdoor Lad. Thank you John. I'm definitely going to learn to love myself before I throw any attention towards my next relationship.
I'm delighted to c ya billy was asking about ya i watch all your video's your in a better place proud of you look after yourself and your kids hope you and drew make more videos together i love ye im really happy to see ya doing well u look great to hell with anyone else go get em xxxxx
Hey Olivia, I've always been here, just wasn't in the best shape to put videos on here. I'm certainly moving forward now though and I intend to keep moving in that direction for a change. Hope you're well. x
@@anxietyunited thats great billy i'm glad your moving forward xxx
Crap situation, but as you know and say yourself, you think that you can't get through shit like this, you can, maybe even better than before, you are getting out, making a new life for you and your kids, feeling the fear, and going with and through it..........respect.
I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve been through this I myself know that it’s so hard to see clear because of the depersonalisation u feel u need that person and can’t cope without them it’s so hard to know what’s right what’s wrong because I have been through hell and back my life has changed forever I’m still with my husband for 22 years I love him but sometimes I just don’t know who I am anymore everything is so overwhelming the truth is I can’t do anything on my own right now I’m not the person I was I’m just so scared of everyone and everything I have severe depression anxiety panic attacks and agoraphobia I don’t know how to get past it as I live 6 miles from the nearest town I can’t drive anymore I’ve done numerous referrals to steps to change they don’t give me no counselling I’m not in any medication I’m too scared to take it most days I just want to go sleep and not wake up I feel so I’ll all day every day it upsets my gerd and Ibs 😢 x
You're doing great :) and looking 10 years younger! Love from Brighton x
Haha thank you Laura, I've had so many people say I'm looking well in this video. You're all either being polite, or I really am looking fresher. I want to visit Brighton one day, I'll let you buy me a tea when I do. x
Defo x
Great message
Stephen Moss thank you Stephen
Hello I'm New to Your Chanel and You tube. I've been looking for anyone who goes through very Similar Anxiety and Panic attacks as myself as if only recently been diagnosed. And is Hell on Earth is only word to describe this god for asking illness.Anyway not to bore you too much lol.So sorry to.see this about your relationship.break up and the after affect it causes you .You sit and say "Why ", "Why me" but a do hope you find some sort of happiness a feel.you deserve some .I'm going to have wee nosey at your other vlogs on hear. Keep your chin up 😊.ps..sorry for yapping on lol.
That sucks, my ex left me over a month ago, we been togather for 17 years, and we have a 16 years old daughter, she told her mom "I hate him because of his anxiety" I also saw pictures of her, saying she loves someone else, and I dreamed about her leaving me last year, but anyways maybe good luck with everything.
Jonny Q sorry to hear that dude. It's not easy man, but you get through it. You do what you have to do and life moves on. Her part in your story is over now. It's time to write the next chapter. Here if you ever want to chat man, anytime.
Does anxiety ever goes away? I want to be my old self so bad! I feel bad everyday! And we can’t breakup. We know we don’t work together but why we can’t break up? I need any tips. I’m getting myself busy all day but I feel tired and suicidal
Also GREAT believer That Do Not go Looking for love it will find you...Stay strong.. All way from Bonnie Scotland.