I Was Called Joru Ka Ghulam Because I Listened To My Wife| The Man Behind ft. Varsha and Aditya Ep.5
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- From being called a "Joru ka Ghulam" to being called for doing ghar ka kaam, Aditya dealt with it all because of the love that he shares with Varsha. Varsha too had to deal with the typical stereotypes of a married woman. Her life would have been way difficult if Aditya, her husband, had not been her pillar of support. This is their story!
#themanbehind #couplegoals #hauterrfly
0:40 - How did we meet?
2:00- The problems we faced while getting married
3:52 - Patriarchy in Indian society
4:58 How Aditya supported Varsha
5:56- How society treated Aditya
6:31- Gender stereotypes
7:30 Age difference
His wife never left him when his health had deteriorated as well. They truly are a power couple ❤️
This guy has understood a husband's job so well!!!
She supported him in his worst phase and he also supported her.
This is the real fairy tale. ❤
This level of support is needed from husband and wife to run a household without being effected by outer world, proud of you both. Good role model for their kids
Truly inspiring!
Every girl deserves an Aditya in their life❤️
Truly!
And every boys deserve Varsha in their life also
@@hauterrflyit's also the opposite every boy deserves a varsha in his life
Before relationship with 39 other's 😂😂
Not all do only some do ❤
Kind of manhood everyone should aspire for!!!! I feel so content when I see men with such thought process.. God bless you.
This is true manhood!
You look young Varsha I never felt you are older than your husband. Great story..Same happened with me after I got Married..thanks for sharing
We'd love to hear your story!
Ye to devta aadmi nikle yrr🥺🥺🥺....u r so lucky ki ye husband milaa ... qki apne maa baap k samne wife ka support Krna uske liye stand lena bht km ladke kr pate hai aur wo bhi itne alg join family wale mahol Mai....
Very true men support their wives in front of parents!
You don’t know their story. She supported him when he was very badly sick from a paralysis disease. He’s as lucky to have her as much she is!! 🍀 ❤️
This is what you call a MAN ❤️ Non-toxic and Secure. Power Couple 💫💯💥
This was so relatable. I exactly felt as if I'm watching my true story here in this video. Me and my husband has also an age difference of 3 years and I also had to face these kind of comments from the known ones and relatives (from in-laws side) and still we do. But thanks to God that despite of all the bad things, I got the best gem in my life. My husband... He always stood by my side like a rock and loved me unconditionally. I'm blessed to have him in my life ❤️
Your story is inspiring, Thanks for sharing!!
Aunty?? Seriously, i got to know she is elder to him after seeing this video . Both looks great together
Exactly....even I never knew she's elder than him..till this video......they look so perfect together..just wow❤
Ladka 10 saal bada ho toh koi nahi bolenga kuch ladki ek saal bhi badi Rahi toh yehi sab hota hai chahe wo kitni bhi pretty ho
@@shafaquekhan8805ld ka 1000 bhi km kamata ho to bolenge
3 saal ki aunty hoti hai kya kabhi? Pagale
Ye to meri story hai❤...agar life partner achha mil jaaye to duniya me koi problem hoti hi ni hai 😊
Same happened with me and my husband too,our stories resembles to urs completely. My husband has always supported me no matter what...Marriage is sticking together like a team...You both are a true inspiration ❤️💕☺️
Hey ...does your husband support you front of his mom dad?
Thanks for sharing :)
Good to hear this story. I hope it inspires many other young boys, men to help and lead their women
You're right, truly inspiring their story is!
Agar Aditya ki Tarah har aadmi apni wife ke liye aise khada rahe to kya baat hai .. wishes of many !?! Subscribe your channel just for this couple ..thanks for sharing 👍
My mother is uneducated ,i have 4 sister only son, but my mom always make sure that i must clean my dish myself. Some times made me to cook...
Father was not in support with that..but my mom always want me to learn n do evrything.
She has 4 girls n knows what she had went through this patriarchy. She says keval mahila ko devi banake pujna nhi hai unhe real life me samman bhi deno sikho..thats d way she raised me..
Being uneducated but mindset shows evrything ..
Now i m married mom always make sure tht i must help in kitchen
"You're wanted" - is the most respectful and loving feeling which can make a partner feel secured and valued.....
Blessings to both of you 🌺
Agreed!
So bad, yaar varsha had tears saying the maa wala comment 😢 it shows how much one can be hurt with such comments...society should break their narrow mind
I really liked their vibes in one video where Adi helped her in household work and then there i became fan of this couple just like ours....
This was so close to reality. Thank you for sharing the ugly truth of society
Agreed! Glad you liked the episdode!
Not every men has this kind of mentality. Superb 🙏
There is nothing called Joru ka Ghulam....Both Husband and Wife should work towards like it... This is called Grihasti❤
सच कभी खूबसूरती का चोला नहीं पहन सकता, किसी भी बात को कहने के लिए जब भी अंलकारों से सजाया जाएगा, बात पूरी नहीं पहुंचेगी, आप अपने आप को तो बदल लेंगे, लेकिन समाज में छुपी बुराइयों को बदलने के लिए नंगई धारण करनी ही होगी, किसी को अच्छा लगे या बुरा, अपनी बात कहने के लिए जबतक स्वयं को किरदार में न ढालेंगे लोगों को आपकी बातें सिर्फ़ मिथ्या भाषण ही लगेंगी। आपकी बातें कड़वी जरूर है, लेकिन जिस अभिव्यक्ति की आज़ादी को हम सदियों से तलाश कर रहे थे, आज तुम दोनों ने बताने की कोशिश की है तो हम सबका पूरा सपोर्ट है तुम्हें। 🙌🙌
Wow.....a husband wife relationship should be like this....deeply mesmerized to see your story..
Varsha & Aditya, you both look made for each other. Stay in love!!
Muje to bhut bchchi si ,pyari si lagti h Varaha ❤️..
Awesome couple. Many congratulations to you both. You inspire people like us
They are truly inspiring!
You both are just sweethearts and it's really difficult to find this kind of love and bonding in today's world..
Keep supporting each other, no matter what the world says..
People are judgemental n narrow minded you just be open to yourselves...
Lots of love to the love birds..
Keep growing keep loving ❤..
I went through this myself. I was bitch in my in-law's eyes and still i am just because my husband always stands for me.
What a lovely couple! So much understanding and love for each other. Aditya seems so wonderful, way more mature in his thoughts than some of the backward relatives in his life. Varsha, you are so beautiful! I've been watching your content for a while and never in my WILDEST dreams have I thought you looked older than him. I always thought you guys were probably of similar age (which you are tbh, 3 years is not a big gap at all). Also, Vanya is a cutie pie! I hope every girl and guy gets wonderful life partners such as yourself :)
They are both made for each other. I think Aditya had GBS, she stood by him through all that, and more. I've known women to quit for far less. She's a keeper and he knows it, when a woman stays in scenarios she could easily walk out of and she chooses to stay it really says something about her. Her man will never abandon her. Ladies and gentlemen, tough situations ya toh logon ko dhalte Hain, ya Tod dete Hain.. the difference lies in only hanging in there and continuing. This is true love.. this is old-school love.
Such men very rare to find who can take stand for you and supports you 😢😢
This is true love story ❤God bless you both😊
beautiful story1 we as Indians are expected to fit into certain moulds not just by the community but by our families. It is crazy that everyone thinks they have power over us. It takes a lot of courage and love to stand up for each other !!
Me n my husband also faced criticism the same way..... N people are blind to call you buddhi Or aunty.... Seriously kuch bhii..... You both look very cute together....
The best man I have ever seen❤❤❤I don't have any words to praise you.
God will bless you
What a inspiring story ❤ you guys are my forever favourite couple 😍 God bless you both 🙏
U both r truly an ideal couple..god bless u both❤
If the story is as she told, iam waiting for such type of guy and never been in relationship till 26,i still believe in love. Not dating anyone❤
We need more people like you 😊
We definitely do :)
Superb👏👏👏glad to see that such men really exist...
They do. Keep watching out this space to know more stories
You both look great together, made for each other..... Lots of love to you ❤
Main shadi k 7din bad vapis covid me apne work k vjah se sasural se door city aa rhi thi…husband bhi sath aa rhe the…my mother in law called and said k mere bête se jhaddu niii lgvana…devta naraj hote h…blah blah…I told my husband…mne kbi daily basis pe cleaning niii ki h…he was so smart and kind and said unhone to kbi kiii hi niii hai…hm dono ko krne k jarurat niii h …we hired a help to work for us.
I love how strong you both are ❤
My name is also varsha I hope mujhe v aaditya jesa hubby mile ❤❤
Made for each other 😘😘....and yes Versha is very beautiful...
Kuch tho log kahenge, logon ka kaam hein kehna. Varsha ji, you are one of the most beautiful ladies i have seen so far! i also did not know you are elder to your husband till i watched this video. Indeed ye bolne k kich minutes pehle bhi mein mere hubby ko bol rahi thi ki, varsha kithni pretty dikthi hein na, her skin is so flawless and she looks so young for a mom. Aap ye sab logko ka baat ko value dekar unko significant mat banayiye..❤❤
I never knew your pain in shots where in u were for me Rani Mukherjee but the turmoils in life u both went through ...blessings and wishes for only happiness in your life..god bless you both n family ❤❤❤❤❤...happened to see Josh talk of Aditya vashisht and official people of india .,...didn't knew, sister
Now got huge respect for both of you
Wow kudos for being so honest 👏
Thankyou so much for speaking up on the reality of society even today ❤Kudos to you guys 🎉
Varsha mam lucky h tabhi itna payar krne wala Patter diya h God ne Varsha mam ko 🤗..in my opinion kaam kaam hota h dono ko krna chahiye work is equal are for both gender.. 🔥
beautiful, I love the content they create as a couple..this is such a great bond! Lots of love.
❤️❤️
Varsha and Aditya are an adorable couple, and God bless both of them..but just another point of view..ladke ke for sure apni biwi ki help karni chahiye..but if possible apni mummy ya sister ki bhi household chores me help karni chahiye na
..Tabhi log usse joru ka ghulam nahi...ek achi maa ka acha beta, ek achi began ka acha bhai, aur ek achi wife ha acha husband bolenge..jad se (grassroot level par) badlaav hi ek acha ped Banta hai..😇
This is why women were allowed to commit sati for husbands not in laws.
Men like him are very less, they need to be protected and cherished. Your daughter is lucky to have such a father. He made me remember the character of Sage King Janak.
Hoping for your family's protection from all evil things 🧿🧿🧿🧿
Lovely couple ❤I'm literally crying looking at you guys.....ur couple is very nice
Always remember there are good ppl too in this world so you should be happy thinking so many ppl saying good things about you.
मुझे तो कभी ऐसा नहीं लगा आप हस्बैंड, वाइफ ही लगे जबकि मैंने तो ये सोचा शादी न हुई हो तो ये दोनों शादी करलें वैरी awesome रिलेशनशिप ❤i wish ऐसे लोग ही lifepatner बने
Even if ur older so what ur his beloved. ND u both r absolutely adorable beautiful look ❤ together. Much God bless u all❤
Aap dono bahot achhe lagte ho ek dusre ke sath.. Aap hamesha happy raho.. 😊❤... Hamesha aapke reels dekhti hnu.. Tumhari chemistry amazing hai.. ❤❤❤❤
Heart touching story. God bless your family always 🥰❤❤
Thank you so much!
Aap dono hi ek dusre ko complete krte ho ❤ God bless your sweet family ,God aap dono ko bhot khushiyon se bhare .Kisi ki baaton se dhuki na hona .at the end aap dono ko sath hi rehna hai 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 aur ye hi reality hai aap dono ki life ki
Love you both and Varsha you look beautiful and before knowing your story I had no idea about your age and as a couple you both are incredibly sweet
Such a beautiful relationship and amazing family ❤❤
Stay blessed forever both of you, Stay strong together 💟 ❤️🧿
Love you brother.. You are a real Man❤
Until this moment, i never knew Varsha is 3 years older. 💓
God bless to both of u....varsha u r beautiful
एक दूसरे का साथ देना ही जीवन है......❤😊
You know that you both are at right path...Sab achha hoga....Ek dusre ka sahara banke ese hi aage badhte raho.... Equality bohot important hai...Ek dum se nahi badlegi soch logon ki...But hum hi is soch ko badal sakte hein...Khud ko badal ke...Love to both of you and vaanya 😇
Adi and varsha are made for each other.... I love this marriage... This is what a real good marriage looks like❤️
Varsha you are the dearest one ,❤ Aditya, very supportive ❤
God bless you both abundantly with happiness
Bhaiya ap ke tarah husband to movi o serial me hi dek te thi ap ko sunkar bhut bhut bhut acha laga
You both look so perfect for each other
If it's 100% true then you are really a real man❤ ....
Both of you are made for each other ❤️
You no way looked elder than your husband... both of you looked perfect togather 😊❤
Hats off to both of you.
Be strong you guys are lovely couple ...keep going ❤
God bless u guys ...may you be always happy both of you 😇✨
Some are very lucky to find such a good caring understanding partner.
Aunty toh bilkul nhi lagti ..is video se hi pata chala that Varsha is elder.. nhi toh pata hi nhi chal pata
True.
May you always stay strong as a couple and against society s wrong norms.
We wish them the same :)
You Guys Are Really Fantastic...Thats A Lot To Learn From You Guys Yaar...I Love Both Of You.....Keep Shining Guys❤❤❤❤
You are so lucky Varsha. This kind of man makes a better world
Imagine a husband not supporting his wife in front of others, be it his own parents or relatives ,..that for the wife who left her world to be with the man, it is so sick that this is the reality of our society and any husband supporting his wife and considering what she wants is a devta, bhagwan.
Every girl deserves a husband who respects her.
Bhai ap bhut ache ensan ho sach me bhut acha laga
Cute couple ever❤❤❤❤❤
You're so so beautiful inside out i adore you varsha ❤
I was never able to convince my mom for my boyfriend (7 years elder ) , but seeing your story i kind of relived all the moments and also proud and power to you guys both are amazing on their parts loved your story keep going 🌸🌸🧿🧿
We hope you found the courage to convince them!
koi difference ni h yar ap dono perfect match ho aap dono❤❤❤❤❤❤ beautiful couple 🎉
Aap bilkul bhi badi nhi dikhti ho apne husband se.. you look so young and beautiful..I really enjoy your videos..
Very mature both of you. Aditya is handsome with a gem soul and Varsha is adorable
Yaarr aap dono bahot achhe lgte ho
Aur ey kon se log h jo aa kr aap logo me age difference Bata rhe
Main Sach keh rhi ey video Maine pehli baar dekhi Warna main aaplogo k shots hi bahot dekhti hu
Aur mujhe bilkul nh lga k aap dono me 3 yrs ka gap h
Air rahi baat gap hi yaar wo to bas age me h na
Khusi to iss baat pe honi chahiye k riste me gap to nh h na
Bahot Bahot pasand ho aap log mujhe
Keep doing whatever you want to do
Varsha you are so gentle and beautiful i love your nature 💜
Bahut badhiyaa jiiiiiii bahut khushi hui aapki story sunke kash har wife ko apna husband aisa mile
Ur comedy z too gud.keep it guys.its totally different nd entertainment.no age gap r seen.u guys r rocking.comedy related to great msg to our society ❤❤
Both of them are sooooo cute and lovely. God bless both of you🙌❤❤. Stay safe and blessed🥳🥳
Best couple ever seen.varsha ure v beautiful .loosers are jealous of u so spoke negative for u.stay blessed and successful
I am facing the same situation, and i am really not able to cope with it.... We are different caste and different city..... I know he loves me a lot, but somehow i am hell insecured about everything, i really feel bad when all my frustration are burst out on him.... And i am lucky still he loves me ❤️ sometimes i get so frustrated that i don't even realise that i am hurting him, but that hurts me too. He is gonna come and meet my parents, his mom knows about me and his sister too.just one thing, he doesn't have a proper job right now, so he not ready to convince his family, that is a problem for me but still i love him and I wish everything to get better and hope one day we can be together. Bless us❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
Both of you are absolutely beautiful ❤ and for each other. Our life partner decision is only ours. So you took the right decision 👍. Best wishes for both of you ❤
Aap dono ki love story bhut hi cute h🥰 and aap dono sth me bhut ache lgte ho,plz ignore negative comments,focus on positive things...Aditya is also very understanding and supporting partner,kash aisa sare partner apni wife k liye itna soche fir kisi se fark ni pdta agr partner supporting ho...
Absolutely!