Dressing appropriately is a spiritual growth issue. When I was a younger woman, and wasn't in the Lord, I wanted to be sexually appealing. If you go out into public, you see few men rubber necking the modestly dressed woman. I learned that I could be beautiful without showing flesh.
Amen!! My testimony is similar. Even when I came to Christ I had to reprogram myself and examine my heart about “why” I thought certain outfits were appealing and “why” I felt that I needed that attention in the first place. I’m so grateful that the Lord is faithful to complete the work that He started in my mind and heart. There is great beauty and glory in dressing modestly. That truth is freeing.
Thank young brothers you all are so right. I remember er being in a store and I had on a pair of dress pants with a blouse with a scarf the brother came up to me and complimented me. He said you look very modest and clean. He said women show everything now. I have been married 13 years. Ladies modesty is beautiful!! God will bless you. Listen to these brothers they are speaking truth and the word of God. God bless you all!
Oh of course! That’s not what I meant. I said we represent but for sure we shouldn’t be intimate before marriage. My husband and I dated for a year before we got married and THEN consummated our relationship. I know both sides, living in sin dating boyfriends and waiting as God intended. God’s way is the best way 💯%
I’ve got soooo many people I want to see this!! I appreciate what y’all do so much because you’re young, and that’s who other young people will take heed to. They’ll listen to other youth, but us old folk (61) are just that to them; old folks. Thank you for sharing the truthfulness of the Gospel on a regular basis! You will change so many lives for the Kingdom!
You gotta have the appetite to dress modestly. It's gotta be in you. Only the Holy Spirit can make that change. Men can tell a women all day what is isn't appropriate. But until a woman meets Jesus in the realist way, NOTHING, including the way she dresses, will change.
I can't believe we are still having this conversation!! A godly woman should know better and understand that you need to leave something to the imagination, and a man's perspective is very much needed. Where are the God-fearing old mothers who would check the daughters and granddaughters, etc.? Dress the way you want to be approached and if you are approached in a way that you don't like, check yourself first.
I had to ask myself what type of attention I wanted. Men give me very nice compliments these days. My body type has already been over sexualized since the age of 9. I can’t hide the curves completely but I can be modest and hide the skin and I have so way less cat calling. I only had a few moments of dressing risky but I began to feel convicted after finding Christ. I need a Godly husband(.)
I agree with her totally. I started wearing dresses, and I get more respect, I don't want to be looked at as a sex object, I want to be respectful and respected as a woman, a modest woman.
I completely agree with what she said and what was shared from the men’s point of view. As a woman, I’ve never dressed super provocative. In my younger, college years I would wear tight clothing when going out with my friends because that was what the world told women would attract men. Dressing that way will easily attract A man but not a GODLY man. Since my mid 20s (I’m 29 now) I’ve dressed modest and as I’ve grown older, my desire has gotten stronger to dress modestly. Because I now understand my identity is in Christ and my body is a temple. Covering up and allowing the beauty of the Lord within me shine through brings more confidence & makes me feel more feminine than dressing provocatively ever did. Until these women seek their identity in Christ, they will forever succumb to the identity the world forces upon them.
Godly women want a man with a new nature - not working from his old nature - so should a Godly man desire of a Godly woman - from her new nature. We must be reborn
You don’t have to fight that dude. You tell, your lady, “ignore him. Let’s keep it moving.” If he wants to keep pressing, THEN, you grab the pole. Aggression should not always be your first response to someone who’s looking for aggression, but be ready to defend with aggression when needed. If she feels unprotected because you refuse to fly off the handle, she needs to check herself. People ain’t catching “fair ones” out here no more.
It's great to discuss this topic. I do believe the men on the panel. However, she's a cute girl. I'm sure she will be encouraged by getting the attention from men that I'm sure she got at that event and everywhere else. If men didn't go after women who look like her, I bet she would change how she presents herself.
@ChocoBeauty8 honest question, what do you and your husband consider modestly sexy. I'm altering ny attire and need ideas. Like when I was looking for a gown for my 20 yr reunion, I didn't want any cut outs or high thigh slits.
Romans 12:1 NLT [1] And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. That part☝🏽
The funny thing is, she dresses the same. I saw a little bit of that show (because that's what it is) but it's nit my cup of tea. The people going to hear these conversations aren't really looking to build with someone, they just want someone to tickle their ears.
I’m so happy he said that some women have certain features that no matter what they wear it will insinuate their features. I dress down down down to avoid issues and it doesn’t work. Naturally made how I am and I don’t need to flaunt it. I’m learning to just dress modestly and love how God created me. But it took a while to not feel so self conscious or shameful. No one has ever said anything like I’m flaunting myself but that “oh you have a great body.” That’s weird to me ijs. Or ”how did you get your body like this?” “You not using your body right!!!” It’s crazy weird. I know it’s weird for someone to have an issue with this but I’m working on it. I have four brothers and just wanted to be one of the guys lol and that wasn’t what God had planned lol. God is good though all the time!! Amen
We’re accountable to Christ before anything…ask God to renew your mind if you’re struggling with dressing modestly. The Holy Spirit will check you🤣Ask God to help you see yourself the way that He sees you. Also in the church we’re missing the older, seasoned women of God teaching the younger. Too much judgment going on and not enough speaking/teaching the truth in love. Or being that example. And sadly immodest dress has trickled over into the church. I had a man come up to me in the store and compliment me on the way I was respectfully dressed. I appreciated it but it’s also sad.
You have to have a relationship with yourself. You are talking about people MEN and WOMEN who haven't started walking with the Gang(God/Jesus/HolySpirit)yet.
To be real, I do agree with what everyone’s saying, but (and this is probably obvious, but hear me out lol) I also don’t think we should make modesty like a god either. And what I mean is, I don’t think we should make ourselves (Christian, non-Christian, man or woman), think that we’re better than others because we dress modestly. When I listen/watch people on RUclips videos talk about how they were affected by toxic purity culture, and how they were shamed because they May have had sex before marriage or dressed a certain way, I can’t help but think, what makes us think that shaming people, particularly women, for how they look or what they wear would get them to change? And lemme throw this in here too: just cause u dress modestly don’t mean you’re Christian. Anyone can dress modestly, that don’t mean that u know Jesus. So I do think that dressing modestly is important, but I also think that instead of shaming people into it, we should influence them by what they’re wearing. Women and people are gonna wear what they want at the end of the day, and we can either judge them and get upset over it, or we can pray that God use us to lovingly show them a better way
Can we just be honest and have a real conversation? Men are not going after women who dress modestly. Even godly men. We can start this whole conversation over with that.
I like this talk show a lot. I love the "table talk" settings and talking about real issues. Especially the Christian issues or agendas. However, I'm confused a bit. I'm not sure of what's you all's purpose. After listening to quite a few episodes/videos, I was left empty. I just had information about how different people felt about the subject talked about but was empty about how to be a better disciple for Christ. This world is going to have major issues about all kinds of things: life, education, politics, economics, religion, relationships, etc. But if I'm going to continue to lend an ear, am I going to leave this space with knowledge on how to be a better me, a better disciple for Christ or just gaining knowledge about celebrities and others personal journeys. It's rough out here and I need to stay suited and booted. Can you help me with that?
I think both men and woman have wisdom on this, not just men bc that’s why the women are dressing that way. But anyway I agree, you are putting the guy ur dating in danger, but also I agree it shouldn’t be bc you reflect him but bc you reflect God/ you respect yourself too much to dress that way.
You have to have a relationship with yourself. You are talking about people MEN and WOMEN who haven't started walking with the Gang(God/Jesus/HolySpirit)yet.
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Dressing appropriately is a spiritual growth issue. When I was a younger woman, and wasn't in the Lord, I wanted to be sexually appealing. If you go out into public, you see few men rubber necking the modestly dressed woman. I learned that I could be beautiful without showing flesh.
Amen!! My testimony is similar. Even when I came to Christ I had to reprogram myself and examine my heart about “why” I thought certain outfits were appealing and “why” I felt that I needed that attention in the first place. I’m so grateful that the Lord is faithful to complete the work that He started in my mind and heart. There is great beauty and glory in dressing modestly. That truth is freeing.
Yes, ma'am, I love the way you said that.. Thank you. Can I borrow this?
@@Yonnie2436 Yes
Beautiful we didn't understand before now grown like born again Christian
That’s right… your body is not your own. It was designed to be a temple of the Lord. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Thank young brothers you all are so right. I remember er being in a store and I had on a pair of dress pants with a blouse with a scarf the brother came up to me and complimented me. He said you look very modest and clean. He said women show everything now.
I have been married 13 years. Ladies modesty is beautiful!! God will bless you. Listen to these brothers they are speaking truth and the word of God. God bless you all!
Yes Sean. Yea we represent our husband/boyfriend but first and foremost we are to represent Christ.
Our bodies never belong to a boyfriend. To the Lord first and then a husband only.
Oh of course! That’s not what I meant. I said we represent but for sure we shouldn’t be intimate before marriage. My husband and I dated for a year before we got married and THEN consummated our relationship. I know both sides, living in sin dating boyfriends and waiting as God intended. God’s way is the best way 💯%
I LOVE IT!!!! I am 70 and you men if God is correct
Amen, stay modest in every way, especially appearance.
1 Timothy 2:9
Facts! Class has to come back in STYLE!
Very refreshing conversation
I’ve got soooo many people I want to see this!! I appreciate what y’all do so much because you’re young, and that’s who other young people will take heed to. They’ll listen to other youth, but us old folk (61) are just that to them; old folks. Thank you for sharing the truthfulness of the Gospel on a regular basis! You will change so many lives for the Kingdom!
You gotta have the appetite to dress modestly. It's gotta be in you. Only the Holy Spirit can make that change. Men can tell a women all day what is isn't appropriate. But until a woman meets Jesus in the realist way, NOTHING, including the way she dresses, will change.
This comment RT here🤌🏽
Accurate
I have been meditating on this quote for over a week now.
"What you refuse to change, you're choosing."
Thank you for having this conversation. Class and modesty need to make a comeback. Embrace your natural beauty. Real men are looking for real women.
I love this video and new to the channel in general. Great content and I wish more men spoke up about this! 🙌🏾💯
I can't believe we are still having this conversation!! A godly woman should know better and understand that you need to leave something to the imagination, and a man's perspective is very much needed. Where are the God-fearing old mothers who would check the daughters and granddaughters, etc.? Dress the way you want to be approached and if you are approached in a way that you don't like, check yourself first.
You have to be a reflection of what you want.
I had to ask myself what type of attention I wanted. Men give me very nice compliments these days. My body type has already been over sexualized since the age of 9. I can’t hide the curves completely but I can be modest and hide the skin and I have so way less cat calling. I only had a few moments of dressing risky but I began to feel convicted after finding Christ. I need a Godly husband(.)
I’m glad she said it!!! It’s no woman empowerment. That’s just an excuse to look fast
I agree with her totally. I started wearing dresses, and I get more respect, I don't want to be looked at as a sex object, I want to be respectful and respected as a woman, a modest woman.
We've become a godless nature... having a form of godliness
I completely agree with what she said and what was shared from the men’s point of view. As a woman, I’ve never dressed super provocative. In my younger, college years I would wear tight clothing when going out with my friends because that was what the world told women would attract men. Dressing that way will easily attract A man but not a GODLY man. Since my mid 20s (I’m 29 now) I’ve dressed modest and as I’ve grown older, my desire has gotten stronger to dress modestly. Because I now understand my identity is in Christ and my body is a temple. Covering up and allowing the beauty of the Lord within me shine through brings more confidence & makes me feel more feminine than dressing provocatively ever did. Until these women seek their identity in Christ, they will forever succumb to the identity the world forces upon them.
Godly women want a man with a new nature - not working from his old nature - so should a Godly man desire of a Godly woman - from her new nature. We must be reborn
5:59 HALLELUJAH
And she would go to the school for her child like that. 🤦🏽♀️
You don’t have to fight that dude. You tell, your lady, “ignore him. Let’s keep it moving.” If he wants to keep pressing, THEN, you grab the pole. Aggression should not always be your first response to someone who’s looking for aggression, but be ready to defend with aggression when needed. If she feels unprotected because you refuse to fly off the handle, she needs to check herself. People ain’t catching “fair ones” out here no more.
It's great to discuss this topic. I do believe the men on the panel. However, she's a cute girl. I'm sure she will be encouraged by getting the attention from men that I'm sure she got at that event and everywhere else. If men didn't go after women who look like her, I bet she would change how she presents herself.
My husband prefers that I dress in a manner that is modestly sexy when we have date night.
@ChocoBeauty8 honest question, what do you and your husband consider modestly sexy. I'm altering ny attire and need ideas. Like when I was looking for a gown for my 20 yr reunion, I didn't want any cut outs or high thigh slits.
Romans 12:1 NLT
[1] And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.
That part☝🏽
The funny thing is, she dresses the same. I saw a little bit of that show (because that's what it is) but it's nit my cup of tea. The people going to hear these conversations aren't really looking to build with someone, they just want someone to tickle their ears.
I’m so happy he said that some women have certain features that no matter what they wear it will insinuate their features. I dress down down down to avoid issues and it doesn’t work. Naturally made how I am and I don’t need to flaunt it. I’m learning to just dress modestly and love how God created me. But it took a while to not feel so self conscious or shameful. No one has ever said anything like I’m flaunting myself but that “oh you have a great body.” That’s weird to me ijs. Or ”how did you get your body like this?” “You not using your body right!!!” It’s crazy weird. I know it’s weird for someone to have an issue with this but I’m working on it. I have four brothers and just wanted to be one of the guys lol and that wasn’t what God had planned lol. God is good though all the time!! Amen
Is it lust the issue… or is it covetousness?
We’re accountable to Christ before anything…ask God to renew your mind if you’re struggling with dressing modestly. The Holy Spirit will check you🤣Ask God to help you see yourself the way that He sees you.
Also in the church we’re missing the older, seasoned women of God teaching the younger. Too much judgment going on and not enough speaking/teaching the truth in love. Or being that example. And sadly immodest dress has trickled over into the church. I had a man come up to me in the store and compliment me on the way I was respectfully dressed. I appreciated it but it’s also sad.
No sound
You have to have a relationship with yourself.
You are talking about people MEN and WOMEN who haven't started walking with the Gang(God/Jesus/HolySpirit)yet.
I swear the host of this show acts like he’s not living in reality lol smh
To be real, I do agree with what everyone’s saying, but (and this is probably obvious, but hear me out lol) I also don’t think we should make modesty like a god either. And what I mean is, I don’t think we should make ourselves (Christian, non-Christian, man or woman), think that we’re better than others because we dress modestly. When I listen/watch people on RUclips videos talk about how they were affected by toxic purity culture, and how they were shamed because they May have had sex before marriage or dressed a certain way, I can’t help but think, what makes us think that shaming people, particularly women, for how they look or what they wear would get them to change? And lemme throw this in here too: just cause u dress modestly don’t mean you’re Christian. Anyone can dress modestly, that don’t mean that u know Jesus. So I do think that dressing modestly is important, but I also think that instead of shaming people into it, we should influence them by what they’re wearing. Women and people are gonna wear what they want at the end of the day, and we can either judge them and get upset over it, or we can pray that God use us to lovingly show them a better way
Can we just be honest and have a real conversation? Men are not going after women who dress modestly. Even godly men. We can start this whole conversation over with that.
I don't want ANY woman who doesn't dress modestly.
Not true. At all.
And that's a lie! A true Godly Man wants a modestly dressing woman. Period
@@noble604 yea this an L take
I like this talk show a lot. I love the "table talk" settings and talking about real issues. Especially the Christian issues or agendas.
However, I'm confused a bit. I'm not sure of what's you all's purpose. After listening to quite a few episodes/videos, I was left empty. I just had information about how different people felt about the subject talked about but was empty about how to be a better disciple for Christ.
This world is going to have major issues about all kinds of things: life, education, politics, economics, religion, relationships, etc. But if I'm going to continue to lend an ear, am I going to leave this space with knowledge on how to be a better me, a better disciple for Christ or just gaining knowledge about celebrities and others personal journeys.
It's rough out here and I need to stay suited and booted. Can you help me with that?
Please clean your feed. I’m telling you, it will cleanse your palette.
I think both men and woman have wisdom on this, not just men bc that’s why the women are dressing that way. But anyway I agree, you are putting the guy ur dating in danger, but also I agree it shouldn’t be bc you reflect him but bc you reflect God/ you respect yourself too much to dress that way.
You have to have a relationship with yourself.
You are talking about people MEN and WOMEN who haven't started walking with the Gang(God/Jesus/HolySpirit)yet.