What is Retroactive Jealousy? (ROCD/RA/Conscious Love)
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- Опубликовано: 5 июл 2023
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Do you get obsessive and compulsive about your partner's romantic history?
Do you fixate on if your partner thinks about other people and if they'll cheat?
Do you compulsively ask your partner for reassurance about yourself and their romantic history?
Do you look through their phone and fixate over people they could be speaking to?
Maybe you also feel controlling about who they can speak to and who you feel they cannot speak to.
THIS is not just a regular form of jealousy.
When it becomes obsessive and compulsive, it's a form of ROCD called Retroactive Jealousy and it's more common than you think!
You're not alone if you have it, and if you're the partner of someone who has retroactive jealousy, you're not alone either. Retroactive jealousy can be super hard for both partners, but know there IS HOPE.
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Im so happy you’re covering reverse forms of ROCD. I had the “traditional” form for 3 years, and then it switched the last 3 years. 6 years total of suffering. It’s so hard 💜
yana love ❤
OMG!! I just started listening but I am SO glad you’re covering this topic. I have been SUFFERING from RJ for years. Can’t wait to hear what you have to say
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Thanks you for your work it helps to understand more the way my brain works. Sometimes I am so scare when my BF talking to a girl or find a girl attractive. I can't stop compare myself with those girls....
so thankful for this video🙏 i’ve been struggling with retroactive jealousy for the first time recently and ive been going through a tough episode and in the worst moment a notification about your video popped up!😭 its like a blessing, thank you Kiyomi❤️
Yana love. ❤
Thank you so so much for this channel. You don't even know how you change my life
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Thank you! So grateful that you covered this topic. I find myself obsessively looking at my partner’s exes social media and comparing myself to them ):😬 looking forward to being more mindful of this and hearing your next talk on this.
❤ you're so welcome love and please know you are not alone.
This is tough. Thanks for uploading this
hope it helps love. and yana. ❤
Perfect timing. This is exactly what I’m struggling with right now ❤
please know that you are not alone love ❤ -AIL team
Hey Kiyomi, thanks so much for all your great videos! I’ve been in a relationship for a year and a half and have struggled a lot for the past month with obsessing over the relationship and whether we should be together. I though this was ROCD but I’ve been doing a lot of googling an YouTubing and I’m concerned that I actually just have codependency and not ROCD at all. I’m scared I’m not in love and just love my partner for what she gives me and when she makes me feel safe. I do feel quite triggered by my partner at times and I do struggle with boundaries and controlling tendencies to feel safe (not around her being with someone else, just how she communicates with me). She’s an incredible person but I’m so scared that our relationship is unhealthy and I’m so obsessed with it that it’s hugely impacting being able to be present in my day to day life. We’re currently long distance but see each other most weekends and will soon be more or less in the same location again (hopefully). She loves me whole heartedly and wants to spend the rest of her life with me but I’ve already hurt her so much by being unsure about our relationship and don’t know if I’m just clutching at straws rather than accepting that I’m codependent. I don’t know what to do and I’d really appreciate some advice 😭😭 I don’t want to lose her but I want to do the right thing
Hi love we so understand how ROCD/RA can be difficult and please know you are not alone and there is hope to healing and finding freedom from ROCD/RA. -AIL team
Good information
Thank you for this!
you're so welcome love ❤
I am someone who has ROCD , but not retroactive jealousy ! I am stuck in my present and have fixations about future rather than the past
we so understand love and please know that you are not alone and there is hope. -AIL Team
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I Feel like I now am really good with the whole what if I don't love my partner feelings. But now I'm always just worried about if they still love me or want to be with me or won't give me attention and if they want to leave. What do I do?
I feel the same way 😪 it is very hard and I also get worried that my partner has rocd about me and is thinking I’m not good enough
hi there, please know that we so understand and you are not alone with what you are feeling or experiencing. There is hope to healing from rocd. -AIL Team
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How can I consult u!
Hi there, if you wish to work with Kiyomi in a group setting, please note that Kiyomi's Inner Circle is coming back soon. If you wish to be part of the waitlist, feel free to email us at support@awakenintolove.com and we'll be happy to help you. -AIL Team