As promised I will not be making another video on this subject, but I do want to make an update. Since posting this video I’ve had 3 more women come forward, who ALSO dated this man during his time with me, and all had different but similar accounts with him. Sadly one of these women had the most awful and sinister experience with Finn in March, but alas I cannot mention anything criminal. My heart breaks for her. Thankfully she is safe now and one of the women was able to catch herself in his web of lies by watching THIS video. So that, makes making this video worth it. ❤️ I’ll continue making updates here.
Brittany, I was with somebody for FIVE years that was doing this to me and hid it SO well but was living a double life. Literally, he proposed, we have a little girl and lived together and was still doing all of this and I NEVER even had a suspicion. My heart aches for you knowing that this happened to you as well because I absolutely know the trust issues that will come with this from here on out. I’m praying for you and your baby girl. Just remember how worthy you actually are and the fact that you are able to stand up and make this video shows how STRONG you are because this takes a lot of courage. When I tell you that I even know that embarrassing feeling you have for introducing him to so many people, girl I know. I’m so proud of you for doing what you’re doing and taking a stand on something that happens to so many people.
He's at best a narcissist and at worst a sociopath. I'm glad you are safe and got away from this man. I hope these other women can heal. It's wild that he took advantage of/tried to take advantage of so many women.
Oh Brittany I also want to tell you to CHANGE YOUR LOCKS AND KEYS! He might have copied it while he had it and a liar like that totally will. And if he knew any personal information about you freeze your credit and watch for suspicious purchases on your checking account. He might have written down your card info. But I might be paranoid as someone who’s identity was stolen and it’s been a nightmare
I hate that this is your first “relationship” as a single momma… thinking of you and truly do hope this doesn’t discourage your idea of relationships from here on out. Proud of you!! Thankful for you!!
@@noname-hu7rn 100% this. I'm so skeptical bringing anyone around my daughter.. You just never truly know anymore with people and what their intentions actually are
Very well said! So unfortunate that malicious circumstances like this make you jaded to the idea of EVER finding someone and trusting again. So sad for this beautiful momma!
When you said “I know it’s hard to date someone like me” girl don’t ever invalidate your worth, In my opinion I think you only feel like that because of how others have acted towards you and their weird perspectives. Love isn’t easy but it’s also not impossible, one day someone will show you just how easy it is to love you and give you what you deserve❤️
I usually don’t like videos like this, but the way you spoke and presented everything is so tasteful! Well done and will be thinking of you as your heal from another relationship.
I am truly so sorry this happened to you as a mom myself I can't imagine having to go through this on top of everything else when it comes to raising a little human. Thank you for opening up and sharing your story as I know its going to help so many other women. This guy hustled the wrong mama! What an amazing role model for Arrow to have in her life xo
Wow. Well kudos to you for leaving immediately and not letting him gaslight after you found out everything. It sucks when you’re an honest person and have good intentions, but meeting people who have completely different plans. ☹️ thank you for sharing your story!
Exactly what I thought. I admire the strength of those who can shut that ish down instead of giving into the "can we please talk" because I was that person who fell for it time and time again. Her strength is inspiring.
So much respect to you for how this was handled 💓💕 Behaviour like that absolutely needs to be called out & you did it with such grace and maturity. Your strength will inspire many Brittany! Onwards and upwards ✨✨💁🏼♀️
Same! My ex pretended to be a fbi informant so he could get away with seeing other women. He lied in every convo we had and no one but me ever knew how horrible he was. He was a fireman and when he ODd (it was covered up) and everyone made him out to be an angel even though he was an evil person. I’m still trying to heal.
"Fin." at the end was such an absolute perfect touch to this video. Done and gone. I hope you and the other women involved fully recover, mentally and emotionally. It always hurts more at first when you uncover lies, cheating, deceit, whatever it may be. Happened to me too. But for me it got better very quickly because you know there is no going back to this person. Their lies destroyed every bit of connection you thought you had - and now you just need to get back to normal life. I hope you are getting there!
Just noticed he put his account on private within the last few minutes. I’m so proud of you for doing this video. You’re helping others by speaking out. Sending you so much love xox
Okay so I rarely if ever comment on videos, but I have been watching you for over a decade and I'm just so proud of you for the way you are handling this and your bravery for using your platform to speak up for yourself and others! Also, as a therapist I just need to say something that a lot of people don't understand due to the way we are conditioned about romance through movies and society; ALL POSITIVE IS A RED FLAG!! We all have a dark side as humans and the more someone tries to hide it the more they are likely to compulsively act on these dark thoughts. A healthy foundation in a relationship is getting to know each other fully, warts and all. Avoidance of all friction and any "negative" emotions that are a part of all our daily lives can skew to toxic positivity which are like rose-colored glasses. Think of it this way, a healthy relationship is not one where only your happy positive bubbly sides get along, your sad dark sides need to get along too!! Just to be clear this is not to blame Brittany for this or say she didn't notice these things when she should've, she clearly tried her very best to vet him and was able to catch on early in the process (thankfully!). It's more a commentary about how our current culture feeds into these situations that are further complicated by physiological responses to being in love, unconscious needs and so on.
I did NOT expect this kind of video. He couldn't really get anywhere with you, you don't put up with shit. I am so proud of you for being your strong self, not letting him get in your head and focusing on what's most important-yourself and Arrow. I'm so glad you DO have the platform to expose him, and stop him from manipulating how many other women. What human trash, I'm so sorry you dealt with this but the way you did is why we all love you. ❤️
I met my first actor/sociopath/narcissist (I call them chameleons) in college. It taught me that I wasn’t as smart as I thought I was, and the best manipulators are truly professionals. If you’ve never been exposed to or experienced one before, just remember you’re *ALWAYS* meeting someone’s representative long before you meet the real them. Thank you for making this video for the people that are too ashamed to talk about it.
yup. Nobody's safe. no intelligence will ever save anyone. they attack on the emotional side where your heart is working the hardest against your brain as it can. the amount of denial someone can be in just because someone loves them is incomprehensible. it is terrifying truly. I'm trying to get over the fear because I experienced gaslighting, the proper one where I thought I'm completely crazy and the world didn't make sense. and now I have MAJOR trust issues with men
Ending it on “Fin” sent me 😂 So glad you shared your experience, I hate that this has happened to so many women, but sharing light on the truth I think is the best way to take down manipulators and liars.
I really admire your maturity when dealing with embarrassing, emotional, hard situations. You are so confident and strong and I thank you for helping other women!
You went about this beautifully. So respectful and dignified. I’m sure this has been so hard for you. I’m so sorry you’ve had to experience this. You’re such a wonderful person.
It’s so awful that there are individuals out there who straight up take advantage of others! You handled this situation the best you could considering the circumstances. I am sorry this happened to you do not feel embarrassed you have nothing to be embarrassed about! Continue to heal and I respect you fully for making a very raw and honest video. I am sure you have helped a lot of people ❤️ xx
I have had a similar experience. You care so much about a person and are such a loving person yourself that you don't want to believe a person like this exists. It truly takes away a part of your heart and makes it very hard to love again. I'm so sorry this happened. Protect yourself and your daughter. You're inspiring to watch as a woman and a mother. Truly. ❤️
Red flags 1 too good to be true Red flags 2 feeling of a soule mate (because they are imitating you) Red flag 3 love bombing Red flag 4 moving too fast Red flag 5 a sad story Then the rest of them come out....but if you are seeing these first few, run!
You are incredibly brave and strong, mama. This is amazing that you are sharing your story to help others. Keep on keepin on. Sending prayers to you and your family always💕
just reading your messages, you can literally SEE that you are an amazing communicator and that man was STRUGGLING. fuck him. im sorry that this happened to you and im glad that youre exposing him. you are helping people feel less alone and are sharing tips on what to look for. you are incredible, dont forget that
When someone lies about who they are in a relationship afterwards you feel this deep fear of “who was I vulnerable with?” “What did I just let inside?”. That’s like the crawling feeling. This unknowable disgust. The vulnerable one is the stronger one though and their light shines it all away and comes back brighter than before.
I hate that this had to be your first relationship as a single mom, and that you’ve had to experience this anyway! Bravo Brittany for being incredibly brave sharing this story, and for being a girls girl to all those affected by the same person! During your own hardship you have still taken others under your wing and supported them/helped share their stories! What an incredible person you are 🤍
I’ve been through a similar situation. I was engaged, moved in, and from there found out about a lot lies. I’ve also had friends go through this. Going forward I run background checks. This is more common than a lot of people think. Brittany please know these types have a lot of practice & have developed their skills in deceiving innocent people. Thank god you realized what was happening before it got more serious. Thank you for speaking out & showing who he is. Hopefully this will help others.
Honestly it should be common practice. I did this after I met a guy at home Depot that was so so handsome, it turns out he had a whole wife and kids, I was able to find his Facebook. And I was able to find his second Facebook which had a whole bunch of girls and you could tell he was a sex addict.
You’re strong not just because of how composed you are while sharing this, but because you know your worth to immediately walk away. And to also help others who could be experiencing the same thing. I hope your heart heals soon and that you and your family stay safe 🧡
the way you ended it was so incredibly mature and just shows what an amazing person you are brittany. thank you for speaking up to help people. sorry you had to go through this. sending love
Just want to give you a big hug! You’re a wonderful soul who doesn’t deserve to go through something like this. 💖 Props to you for using your platform to bring awareness to this unfortunate situation to help protect someone who may go through something like this in the future and empathize with anyone who has gone through or is currently going through this now.
This is sick. Him texting while you were doing Arrow’s nighttime routine is so disgusting. Its an awful situation, but your poise speaks VOLUMES. A wonderful love will come to you in the future, when you least expect it. Someone that will always want to be there for you and your daughter. So proud of you for sharing and using your platform! 👏🏼❤️
I am so sorry you had to go through this. No one deserves to be abused In this way. I hope you and all of the victims find healing. Thank you for always being so open and honest with us. Sending lots of love to you, your family, and of course Arrow. His karma will come in time.
firstly, the editing of this video was chef's kiss-immaculate! secondly, wow. I'm so proud of you for leaving him almost immediately and being strong for both you and your daughter. you so did not deserve this as your first relationship as a single mom. sending love and hugs 💕💕
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You are so strong for ending things immediately and being brave enough to speak up. I hope you find the love you're looking for
Brittany, I hope you know that you just gave me so much strength that I didn’t even know I needed. I watch you on this video talk so confidently although I know you’re hurt, you are ok with walking away because you know you and your daughter deserve more. Thanks for giving me the courage.
You stood your ground in the kindness way! 👏🏼It is brave and very beneficial (for you and others) to share your story and experience. Men like this do not have empathy so the more we can prepare ourselves as women to be aware of them the better.
So sorry you had to experience deceit on this level! I had a similar experience with an Ex-Fiancé. The way you describe being uneasy in your own skin after a relationship like this is exactly how I felt. Being deceived to that degree rocks your reality to its core. I hope nothing but healing for you and these other women. 💜
As a single mom myself please don’t blame yourself for not seeing the red flags. Don’t be embarrassed about the man he presented to you. You are an incredible mom and I’m really sorry you went through this. I wish you all the best in your healing from this awful person.
I am blown away by how well you are managing this, how you coped with such betrayal. I think this is SO important, not just to warn others about him, but also hopefully others who would do/are doing the same as him, hesitate a bit and think twice. Hopefully it prevents many many more heartbreaks. 🙏 All love to you ❤️
I really usually NEVER comment on youtube, but I got SO sad when I saw this. I’m so sorry this happened, and so happy you found out. This world is crazy..
I have always admired your transparency but now even more I admire it because you’re choosing to share a vulnerable moment to help others you are amazing so sorry you had to go through that!!
I am so sad you went through this. It is so traumatic! It has taken me almost 6 years to hear from my own situation like this… the red flags, the abuse, the cheating, the being found on dating apps while married to me… it’s awful. However, I am so proud of you using your platform to put this out there. Unfortunately so many of us have a similar story and may we stand united! 💜
Imagine being so low of a person to literally gain the trust of someone to meet their family and CHILD and still do this. That’s how you know someone is the lowest of the low. Disgusting.
I'm so sorry this happened to you! Good for you speaking out! Also, just wanted to say you are such a light to me in my motherhood journey and you bring so much good from your platform! You deserve so much better!
You are so strong Brittany. I’m so proud of you for bringing attention to this, but I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Much love. Prayers and strength going your way. ❤️
Girl be careful! You never know what he is capable of once all this affects his life. He knows where you live, what you drive. Hopefully you have done a restraining order.
She can’t have filed a restraining order against him, he hasn’t threatened or physically harmed her. All he has done is duped her which is not a crime or worthy of a restraining order. Best thing she could have done is change her locks.
Last year I got out of an extremely toxic LTR and the comparisons to some of the behavior was eerily similar. Being used for your heart and empathy is such a terrible feeling. You're such a strong woman and I have so much respect for you for sharing your story. 💕
I hadn’t watched your videos in months! I was pregnant around the same time you were and loved your bump updates and your hospital packing bag def helped me out as a first time mom 🥹 seeing this .. is minding blowing.. my heart is with you girl! Hope you’re doing ok 🫶🏼 we love you!
This is awful. My ex-husband is a narcissist and this guy is CLASSIC. I’m am so deeply sorry that you went through this and you certainly don’t need to learn anymore lessons BUT the only upside is that you will NEVER not see the signs of narc again. If you haven’t checked her our Dr. Ramani is amazing and teaches about all things narcissism- really good resource for anyone going through this. Just know your community loves you❤️
This was me with my daughter's sperm donor. It's extremely traumatic. The way you described it was perfect. It was bone chilling. The lack of reaction/grievance from the other party is the hardest part - you have to give yourself that closure. Having a child by someone like that has had me closed off emotionally in every way possible for the past almost 2 years. I'm still not ready for a friend, a partner, I don't trust anyone. Thank you so much for using your platform and giving ppl like me a voice. I really thought it only happened to me.
I'm so sorry you went through this experience! Thank you for sharing your story as a warning to others and so other people going through something similar feel seen.
I’ve been through a situation like this unfortunately we share a child. The worst part of it to me is how they make you doubt yourself. Ultimately it’s on them for being a bad person! Stay soft beautiful lady!!!
This broke my heart. And the chills too, can't even imagine how you must have felt letting your daughter be around a fraud. Hope you've come out stronger and that it doesn't discourage you from having relationships in future. And it's great that you're using your platform for awareness. More power to you and lots of love for Arrow
You spoke about this in such a graceful and mature way. You weren't spiteful or vengeful. How you addressed Finn at the end just shows your strength- Arrow is so lucky to have you as a mom to guide her and teach her. Despite everything that happened, you didn't let him take away the part of yourself that sees the best in people and wishes them the best. You should be really proud of yourself :)
I'm so sorry you, and the other girls experienced that. It's absolutely violating and it's effects linger. I had a similar experience many years ago, as a single mom of a little one, just like you. It took me a long long time to be able to trust anyone. Probably not until my now current husband, and it took a long time for that. It even effected my non romantic relationships too. I know you do have a platform, but thank you for telling your story so others can be aware. I know it's probably embarrassing, I felt that way, after a divorce then that happening- like I must've been so dumb. I know I'm not, and you're not either, and anyone else duped. These guys get very good at molding themselves into what they need to be. I'm glad you were able to get your money back and he, hopefully, will just fade away. Thank you again for sharing.
You are so strong and so brave. Everyone is so proud of you for making this video. This wasn’t your fault and you are so open and loving that this won’t keep you down for long! 💗💗
I know that people always say that social media is not important and that we shouldn’t care so much. But at this point, it’s so much part of our everyday life. If a guy doesn’t want to be there with you, or doesn’t post you/show you off, or makes excuses, or doesn’t respect your social media boundaries in the current day, there’s always something more there, unless they are an extremely private person. I’ve learned this the hard way.
First off, I just want to say you are an incredibly strong individual and you handle difficult situations with grace. I’m sorry this happened to you and this asshole deserves the wrath he faces. I hope this never happens to another woman after you because of your strength! All the love✨
Brittany, my darling. While I watched the video, I saw that you put emphasis in the fact that the times he saw you interacting with your daughter, he was reassuring to you that you were a good mom and he was impressed. Then, towards the end, you said something like if he didn't think the dating a mom was for him, he should have said so. I get a bit of a sense that subconsciously you think that this was in any way, shape or form important to him. Let me tell you something right now... it was not. It is not about anything that has to do with you. Not about you being a mom, or a youtuber, or blonde, for that matter. This type of person could have found the perfect person for them, and yet they will still ruin it all and wander off because deep down they don't feel worthy of anything good. They overlook the blessings, and they miss out on the best things that come their ways. I can honestly tell you, with all certainty, that you can move on and never even think about it again, because it is not and it never was about you. One day, you will find someone who loves themselves in a healthy way, and therefore feel worthy of the gift that you are. They will cherish you, and the life you have created. They will know that because you are a mom, you are able to love unconditionally, and will not try to take advantage of that. Lastly, it could have been so much worse. You are smart, and this is the only thing that protected your giving heart. Don't feel bad for having been tricked. It is not luck that had you find the truth. You had a bad feeling, you looked into it, you found what you needed to know. Stay strong, and stay awesome.
I'm so sorry you went through that. But you make a very mature advocate, for such a horrible experience. You're amazing at what you create Brittany. Thank you for sharing, I hope it helps many other women💗
I’m so sorry you went through this Brittany! I personally got out of a very similar situation myself, in the end it was very verbally, emotionally and psychologically abusive. I have PTSD and I am seeking a lot of therapy myself! There is a lot of men and women out there that have gone or going through such similar situations and it is amazing to see not you only you but Johnny Depp and bigger people coming forward, bringing awareness to these situations and people and keep doing what you’re doing because this helps us feel less alone in what we are going through!
Im so sorry this happened to you. The way you handled this was amazing. Its so hard to stand up for oneself when you truly have been lied too and hurt. Sending you all the positivity 🧘🏻♀️
Oh Brittany, I am so so sorry that this happened. I wish I could hug you. Thank you for using your platform to spread awareness and giving others a voice. Please take care of yourself. Sending you all the positive virtual vibes.
You worded this so well and so maturely which only makes this situation worse as someone like that doesn’t deserve to go through this, especially after everything you have gone through over the years. I really really feel for you and all of the other victims who don’t deserve to go through this. ❤️
🐸 🍵 I'm so sorry this happened to you and I'm glad you're healing from the situation. Hopefully more women can be aware and recognize the behaviors thanks to you and others sharing their stories/signs
Wow! I am so proud of you for posting this, it was so well made and you were so articulate and truthful! I’m sorry this happened, but don’t for a SECOND doubt your heart and judgement. This kind of person makes themselves into what you wanted to see and hear. What a psychopath. I wish you so well Brittany ❤️
I’m glad you shared this experience and what happened, because I’m a single mom and before that I had been single for over 4 plus years, so dating in general and the opposite sex is daunting and terrifying for me. Because I don’t even think about stuff like this or that I’ll get through it. Thank you for your strength and courage to walk away when you felt pulled to walk away, and you were still so cautious about it because of your life and the people in it♥️ and I’m so proud of the women who have come forward and have spoken and revisited an awful experience in their lives. You all deserve the world on a gold platter and nothing less
So sorry to hear you went through this situation, but you are so brave for speaking up as many people won’t or can’t. So thank you for being the voice for many! ❤️ wishing you all the best.
You’ve handled this so graciously and with class! I’m so sorry this happened to you, it’s unfortunate that people who present with good intentions then show their true colors in the end. I’m so happy you are standing up for yourself and so many other women/men who cannot share their stories. I hope all is well, stay strong 💓✨💓
You handled this so well! I've gained a whole new level of love and respect for you, watching this. I'm sorry this has happened to you, but glad you seem to be tackling it head on, and that you have a good support network. Your daughter is so lucky to have you as her strong female role model!
Just finding this video and oh it makes me so sad that people are out there like this. I dated a guy who lied with me about so many things..would ask for money a little at a time for “insulin” since he was a diabetic, told me he left the army on discharge (was kicked out) and lived with me because without me he would be “homeless”. 2K later, finding out he was on drugs, a stolen laptop, and so much emotional abuse I’m so glad that that story of my life is over. You are so strong!!
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m one of the ones who is dealing w something similar only much worse. I’ve chosen to speak about it as well very carefully as my trial is coming up but yeah people it’s not ok to do these type of things to others. Brittney I applaud you for seeing the need to speak out bc these type of people need to be exposed so others can know. If someone had left me some kind of warning maybe what happened to me wouldn’t have and I’m making sure it doesn’t happen again. I know what I’m doing is going to save someone’s life and seeing yours is very encouraging.
I commend you so much for how you handled this entire situation! your communication was soooo on point! From start to finish! im so glad you listened to your intuition and broke it off and walked away from this person! I know your story will help so many other's that have been taken advantage! Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Same thing happened to me but different man. now I learned to ASK QUESTIONS and get to know the guy and let him EARN my trust, I don't share much, he needs to earn that info. thank you for making this video so we can all learn to protect ourselves.
Honestly, this is how women support women. This took so much courage and you did this wonderfully. Your voice and the voices of others have been heard! ❤️
keep your head up girl, you're beautiful and a shining star. he tried to fake light that wasn't there, whereas yours shines through so brightly without even trying because you are a genuinely good person.
Sorry that you had to go through this. After watching the tinder swinder on Netflix's and hearing your story, it's all very infuriating. I can't believe ppl actually do this stuff and continue with the deceit.
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’ve been through something similar just never got my money back (different person). You and your daughter deserve the world. And you will find it one day. Nothing but love. ❤️❤️
I was just recommended this & I’ve never watched your channel and let me just say I watched this entire thing and it gave me chills. I myself am going through a similar but different situation and it’s been about 4 months now and I also am a single mommy with a daughter. With my situation its a break up and being let down feeling used by a boy is so traumatic and truly what’s wrong with this world today. I see so many similarities in you and myself. I saw the pain in your face & I’m so sorry you had to deal with this but thank you for letting other women know they’re not alone when dealing with this 🙏🙏 btw your so beautiful and deserve the best for you and your little one. Keep being strong and holding out for that special someone 💞 I’m going to watch your update now and I can’t wait to see the glow up 😇
You and Arrow are so precious and deserve protection. You deserve nothing but the absolute best. So sad this has jaded you, so hard to find someone & trust. Do not let this bring you down forever!! You are an old strong soul! I wish you health and clarity on your road of recovery. Sucks someone genuine like you had to be put in this situation. Sad we have to raise our kids in such a bittersweet world. 🤍 Thank you for sharing with us, we’re all here for you momma!!!
Wow, this is so powerful to share. I am really in awe of you and your strength. I have experienced this in my own way, and it’s incredibly damaging. What a brave way to use your platform. Well done sis. I hope you find peace and healing.
As promised I will not be making another video on this subject, but I do want to make an update. Since posting this video I’ve had 3 more women come forward, who ALSO dated this man during his time with me, and all had different but similar accounts with him.
Sadly one of these women had the most awful and sinister experience with Finn in March, but alas I cannot mention anything criminal. My heart breaks for her.
Thankfully she is safe now and one of the women was able to catch herself in his web of lies by watching THIS video. So that, makes making this video worth it. ❤️ I’ll continue making updates here.
Move apartments!!! If he knows where you live, which he does, you HAVE to protect yourself and be careful however you can. He is not a good man!!
Sooo scary
Can you please notify any future daycares you place arrow in of this man?
Brittany, I was with somebody for FIVE years that was doing this to me and hid it SO well but was living a double life. Literally, he proposed, we have a little girl and lived together and was still doing all of this and I NEVER even had a suspicion. My heart aches for you knowing that this happened to you as well because I absolutely know the trust issues that will come with this from here on out. I’m praying for you and your baby girl. Just remember how worthy you actually are and the fact that you are able to stand up and make this video shows how STRONG you are because this takes a lot of courage. When I tell you that I even know that embarrassing feeling you have for introducing him to so many people, girl I know. I’m so proud of you for doing what you’re doing and taking a stand on something that happens to so many people.
He's at best a narcissist and at worst a sociopath. I'm glad you are safe and got away from this man. I hope these other women can heal. It's wild that he took advantage of/tried to take advantage of so many women.
Oh Brittany I also want to tell you to CHANGE YOUR LOCKS AND KEYS! He might have copied it while he had it and a liar like that totally will. And if he knew any personal information about you freeze your credit and watch for suspicious purchases on your checking account. He might have written down your card info. But I might be paranoid as someone who’s identity was stolen and it’s been a nightmare
I thought the exact same thing, sorry your identity got stolen
More people need to like this so she can see!!! She needs to protect herself especially after she exposed him who knows what he would do.
This!!!💯
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I hate that this is your first “relationship” as a single momma… thinking of you and truly do hope this doesn’t discourage your idea of relationships from here on out. Proud of you!! Thankful for you!!
THIS!!!!!!!!
yesss!!! 🥺 it already sucks tryna date as a single mom but wow she deserved a better men
@@noname-hu7rn 100% this. I'm so skeptical bringing anyone around my daughter.. You just never truly know anymore with people and what their intentions actually are
Yessss THIS👏👏👏
Very well said! So unfortunate that malicious circumstances like this make you jaded to the idea of EVER finding someone and trusting again. So sad for this beautiful momma!
When you said “I know it’s hard to date someone like me” girl don’t ever invalidate your worth, In my opinion I think you only feel like that because of how others have acted towards you and their weird perspectives. Love isn’t easy but it’s also not impossible, one day someone will show you just how easy it is to love you and give you what you deserve❤️
I think she meant dating an influencer, but still you’re right. He knew what he was getting from the jump. My heart hurts for her. 💔
@@SmokingOnKeisha yeah man this is is. Dating and influencer is a big deal no way it’s not for us all
@@iTranscendx I don’t understand your comment.
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I usually don’t like videos like this, but the way you spoke and presented everything is so tasteful! Well done and will be thinking of you as your heal from another relationship.
I am truly so sorry this happened to you as a mom myself I can't imagine having to go through this on top of everything else when it comes to raising a little human. Thank you for opening up and sharing your story as I know its going to help so many other women. This guy hustled the wrong mama!
What an amazing role model for Arrow to have in her life xo
Wow. Well kudos to you for leaving immediately and not letting him gaslight after you found out everything. It sucks when you’re an honest person and have good intentions, but meeting people who have completely different plans. ☹️ thank you for sharing your story!
Exactly what I thought. I admire the strength of those who can shut that ish down instead of giving into the "can we please talk" because I was that person who fell for it time and time again. Her strength is inspiring.
Agreed. i floated around with guys like for far far far too long. it's almost impossible to heal from.
So much respect to you for how this was handled 💓💕
Behaviour like that absolutely needs to be called out & you did it with such grace and maturity. Your strength will inspire many Brittany! Onwards and upwards ✨✨💁🏼♀️
Love this xx
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He’s a sociopath. I dated a guy like this. I’ve been going to therapy for 4 years because of it. I’m glad you are okay and that you got out!
youll date one again if you want love. We adapt and learn faster than you can heal. 😘😘
4 yrs of therapy??? How long did you date the guy??
Exactly. Very scary. But they're 1-2% of the population, so everyone, be wary!
Same! My ex pretended to be a fbi informant so he could get away with seeing other women. He lied in every convo we had and no one but me ever knew how horrible he was. He was a fireman and when he ODd (it was covered up) and everyone made him out to be an angel even though he was an evil person. I’m still trying to heal.
@@KimmieB. what is this comment even? Why would you question that. Every one can use therapy even if you aren’t messed up.
"Fin." at the end was such an absolute perfect touch to this video. Done and gone. I hope you and the other women involved fully recover, mentally and emotionally. It always hurts more at first when you uncover lies, cheating, deceit, whatever it may be. Happened to me too. But for me it got better very quickly because you know there is no going back to this person. Their lies destroyed every bit of connection you thought you had - and now you just need to get back to normal life. I hope you are getting there!
Just noticed he put his account on private within the last few minutes. I’m so proud of you for doing this video. You’re helping others by speaking out. Sending you so much love xox
Can’t find him on Insta
@@abriamcmillan9008 finnfslater
His TikTok is still public.
TikTok still public.. but I went to the comments and there’s nothing negative? Maybe he keeps deleting if there’s any hate comments
Okay so I rarely if ever comment on videos, but I have been watching you for over a decade and I'm just so proud of you for the way you are handling this and your bravery for using your platform to speak up for yourself and others!
Also, as a therapist I just need to say something that a lot of people don't understand due to the way we are conditioned about romance through movies and society; ALL POSITIVE IS A RED FLAG!! We all have a dark side as humans and the more someone tries to hide it the more they are likely to compulsively act on these dark thoughts. A healthy foundation in a relationship is getting to know each other fully, warts and all. Avoidance of all friction and any "negative" emotions that are a part of all our daily lives can skew to toxic positivity which are like rose-colored glasses. Think of it this way, a healthy relationship is not one where only your happy positive bubbly sides get along, your sad dark sides need to get along too!!
Just to be clear this is not to blame Brittany for this or say she didn't notice these things when she should've, she clearly tried her very best to vet him and was able to catch on early in the process (thankfully!). It's more a commentary about how our current culture feeds into these situations that are further complicated by physiological responses to being in love, unconscious needs and so on.
This comment needs more likes, a lot of people need to hear this. Thank you for taking time to share this as it's invaluable advice!!!
I wish I could like this comment more than once! So true and well-spoken.
I did NOT expect this kind of video. He couldn't really get anywhere with you, you don't put up with shit. I am so proud of you for being your strong self, not letting him get in your head and focusing on what's most important-yourself and Arrow. I'm so glad you DO have the platform to expose him, and stop him from manipulating how many other women. What human trash, I'm so sorry you dealt with this but the way you did is why we all love you. ❤️
This man gives Ted Bundy vibes
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uhmmmm .... think there are many many levels between finn and ted. 😄 that's going straight for the top!
I met my first actor/sociopath/narcissist (I call them chameleons) in college. It taught me that I wasn’t as smart as I thought I was, and the best manipulators are truly professionals. If you’ve never been exposed to or experienced one before, just remember you’re *ALWAYS* meeting someone’s representative long before you meet the real them. Thank you for making this video for the people that are too ashamed to talk about it.
yup. Nobody's safe. no intelligence will ever save anyone. they attack on the emotional side where your heart is working the hardest against your brain as it can. the amount of denial someone can be in just because someone loves them is incomprehensible. it is terrifying truly. I'm trying to get over the fear because I experienced gaslighting, the proper one where I thought I'm completely crazy and the world didn't make sense. and now I have MAJOR trust issues with men
Excellent advice for everyone. You ALWAYS meet their representative long before the REAL person.
Girl I clicked on this like my bff was spilling tea. We are here for you Brit! You are so strong and brave and a bad ass mom.
Ending it on “Fin” sent me 😂 So glad you shared your experience, I hate that this has happened to so many women, but sharing light on the truth I think is the best way to take down manipulators and liars.
I really admire your maturity when dealing with embarrassing, emotional, hard situations. You are so confident and strong and I thank you for helping other women!
I’m not trying
You went about this beautifully. So respectful and dignified. I’m sure this has been so hard for you. I’m so sorry you’ve had to experience this. You’re such a wonderful person.
It’s so awful that there are individuals out there who straight up take advantage of others! You handled this situation the best you could considering the circumstances. I am sorry this happened to you do not feel embarrassed you have nothing to be embarrassed about! Continue to heal and I respect you fully for making a very raw and honest video. I am sure you have helped a lot of people ❤️ xx
I have had a similar experience. You care so much about a person and are such a loving person yourself that you don't want to believe a person like this exists. It truly takes away a part of your heart and makes it very hard to love again. I'm so sorry this happened. Protect yourself and your daughter. You're inspiring to watch as a woman and a mother. Truly. ❤️
Red flags 1 too good to be true
Red flags 2 feeling of a soule mate (because they are imitating you)
Red flag 3 love bombing
Red flag 4 moving too fast
Red flag 5 a sad story
Then the rest of them come out....but if you are seeing these first few, run!
You are incredibly brave and strong, mama. This is amazing that you are sharing your story to help others. Keep on keepin on. Sending prayers to you and your family always💕
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just reading your messages, you can literally SEE that you are an amazing communicator and that man was STRUGGLING. fuck him. im sorry that this happened to you and im glad that youre exposing him. you are helping people feel less alone and are sharing tips on what to look for. you are incredible, dont forget that
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Yeah, he picked the wrong ONE to fuck with! 🤣🤙❤️
Arrow is so lucky to have you as a mom. I'm sorry this happened to you two, yall only deserve love and warm hugs ❤️🩹
When someone lies about who they are in a relationship afterwards you feel this deep fear of “who was I vulnerable with?” “What did I just let inside?”. That’s like the crawling feeling. This unknowable disgust. The vulnerable one is the stronger one though and their light shines it all away and comes back brighter than before.
This is absolutely heartbreaking. I’m so sorry 💔
I hate that this had to be your first relationship as a single mom, and that you’ve had to experience this anyway! Bravo Brittany for being incredibly brave sharing this story, and for being a girls girl to all those affected by the same person!
During your own hardship you have still taken others under your wing and supported them/helped share their stories!
What an incredible person you are 🤍
I’ve been through a similar situation. I was engaged, moved in, and from there found out about a lot lies. I’ve also had friends go through this. Going forward I run background checks. This is more common than a lot of people think. Brittany please know these types have a lot of practice & have developed their skills in deceiving innocent people. Thank god you realized what was happening before it got more serious. Thank you for speaking out & showing who he is. Hopefully this will help others.
Honestly it should be common practice. I did this after I met a guy at home Depot that was so so handsome, it turns out he had a whole wife and kids, I was able to find his Facebook. And I was able to find his second Facebook which had a whole bunch of girls and you could tell he was a sex addict.
I'm gonna start doing background checks!
What are some tips you have to vet these people
You’re strong not just because of how composed you are while sharing this, but because you know your worth to immediately walk away. And to also help others who could be experiencing the same thing. I hope your heart heals soon and that you and your family stay safe 🧡
the way you ended it was so incredibly mature and just shows what an amazing person you are brittany. thank you for speaking up to help people. sorry you had to go through this. sending love
Do 👏🏻 Not 👏🏻 Give 👏🏻 Any👏🏻 Man👏🏻 Money👏🏻 Ever👏🏻 Let them give YOU money.
😂😂 you can help your male family and close friendsif there trusted. just not strangers.
Just want to give you a big hug! You’re a wonderful soul who doesn’t deserve to go through something like this. 💖
Props to you for using your platform to bring awareness to this unfortunate situation to help protect someone who may go through something like this in the future and empathize with anyone who has gone through or is currently going through this now.
This is sick. Him texting while you were doing Arrow’s nighttime routine is so disgusting. Its an awful situation, but your poise speaks VOLUMES. A wonderful love will come to you in the future, when you least expect it. Someone that will always want to be there for you and your daughter. So proud of you for sharing and using your platform! 👏🏼❤️
I am so sorry you had to go through this. No one deserves to be abused In this way. I hope you and all of the victims find healing. Thank you for always being so open and honest with us. Sending lots of love to you, your family, and of course Arrow. His karma will come in time.
firstly, the editing of this video was chef's kiss-immaculate!
secondly, wow. I'm so proud of you for leaving him almost immediately and being strong for both you and your daughter. you so did not deserve this as your first relationship as a single mom. sending love and hugs 💕💕
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You are so strong for ending things immediately and being brave enough to speak up. I hope you find the love you're looking for
Brittany, I hope you know that you just gave me so much strength that I didn’t even know I needed. I watch you on this video talk so confidently although I know you’re hurt, you are ok with walking away because you know you and your daughter deserve more. Thanks for giving me the courage.
You stood your ground in the kindness way! 👏🏼It is brave and very beneficial (for you and others) to share your story and experience. Men like this do not have empathy so the more we can prepare ourselves as women to be aware of them the better.
So sorry you had to experience deceit on this level! I had a similar experience with an Ex-Fiancé. The way you describe being uneasy in your own skin after a relationship like this is exactly how I felt. Being deceived to that degree rocks your reality to its core. I hope nothing but healing for you and these other women. 💜
I used to be a single mom and went through this exact but I found the love of my life within a month later .
I send you peace and love your way !
As a single mom myself please don’t blame yourself for not seeing the red flags. Don’t be embarrassed about the man he presented to you. You are an incredible mom and I’m really sorry you went through this. I wish you all the best in your healing from this awful person.
I am blown away by how well you are managing this, how you coped with such betrayal.
I think this is SO important, not just to warn others about him, but also hopefully others who would do/are doing the same as him, hesitate a bit and think twice. Hopefully it prevents many many more heartbreaks. 🙏
All love to you ❤️
I really usually NEVER comment on youtube, but I got SO sad when I saw this. I’m so sorry this happened, and so happy you found out. This world is crazy..
I have always admired your transparency but now even more I admire it because you’re choosing to share a vulnerable moment to help others you are amazing so sorry you had to go through that!!
So much respect for you for spreading awareness, and I’m so sorry you experienced this!!
I am so sad you went through this. It is so traumatic! It has taken me almost 6 years to hear from my own situation like this… the red flags, the abuse, the cheating, the being found on dating apps while married to me… it’s awful.
However, I am so proud of you using your platform to put this out there. Unfortunately so many of us have a similar story and may we stand united! 💜
I’m so glad you found out, and you held your ground. Thank you for speaking out for not only yourself, but the silent. Love you so much.
Imagine being so low of a person to literally gain the trust of someone to meet their family and CHILD and still do this. That’s how you know someone is the lowest of the low. Disgusting.
I'm so sorry this happened to you! Good for you speaking out!
Also, just wanted to say you are such a light to me in my motherhood journey and you bring so much good from your platform! You deserve so much better!
You are so strong Brittany. I’m so proud of you for bringing attention to this, but I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Much love. Prayers and strength going your way. ❤️
Hi Brittany❤️ I’m so happy you found out in time❤️ and I’m so grateful you are opening up about it to help others❤️ thank you thank you
Girl be careful! You never know what he is capable of once all this affects his life. He knows where you live, what you drive. Hopefully you have done a restraining order.
THIS
Exactly ! This makes me concerned. He very well could have copied her key as well.
She can’t have filed a restraining order against him, he hasn’t threatened or physically harmed her. All he has done is duped her which is not a crime or worthy of a restraining order. Best thing she could have done is change her locks.
Last year I got out of an extremely toxic LTR and the comparisons to some of the behavior was eerily similar. Being used for your heart and empathy is such a terrible feeling. You're such a strong woman and I have so much respect for you for sharing your story. 💕
I hadn’t watched your videos in months! I was pregnant around the same time you were and loved your bump updates and your hospital packing bag def helped me out as a first time mom 🥹 seeing this .. is minding blowing.. my heart is with you girl! Hope you’re doing ok 🫶🏼 we love you!
This is awful. My ex-husband is a narcissist and this guy is CLASSIC. I’m am so deeply sorry that you went through this and you certainly don’t need to learn anymore lessons BUT the only upside is that you will NEVER not see the signs of narc again. If you haven’t checked her our Dr. Ramani is amazing and teaches about all things narcissism- really good resource for anyone going through this.
Just know your community loves you❤️
This was me with my daughter's sperm donor. It's extremely traumatic. The way you described it was perfect. It was bone chilling. The lack of reaction/grievance from the other party is the hardest part - you have to give yourself that closure. Having a child by someone like that has had me closed off emotionally in every way possible for the past almost 2 years. I'm still not ready for a friend, a partner, I don't trust anyone. Thank you so much for using your platform and giving ppl like me a voice. I really thought it only happened to me.
I'm so sorry you went through this experience! Thank you for sharing your story as a warning to others and so other people going through something similar feel seen.
I’ve been through a situation like this unfortunately we share a child. The worst part of it to me is how they make you doubt yourself. Ultimately it’s on them for being a bad person! Stay soft beautiful lady!!!
This broke my heart. And the chills too, can't even imagine how you must have felt letting your daughter be around a fraud. Hope you've come out stronger and that it doesn't discourage you from having relationships in future. And it's great that you're using your platform for awareness. More power to you and lots of love for Arrow
You spoke about this in such a graceful and mature way. You weren't spiteful or vengeful. How you addressed Finn at the end just shows your strength- Arrow is so lucky to have you as a mom to guide her and teach her. Despite everything that happened, you didn't let him take away the part of yourself that sees the best in people and wishes them the best. You should be really proud of yourself :)
I'm so sorry you, and the other girls experienced that. It's absolutely violating and it's effects linger. I had a similar experience many years ago, as a single mom of a little one, just like you. It took me a long long time to be able to trust anyone. Probably not until my now current husband, and it took a long time for that. It even effected my non romantic relationships too. I know you do have a platform, but thank you for telling your story so others can be aware. I know it's probably embarrassing, I felt that way, after a divorce then that happening- like I must've been so dumb. I know I'm
not, and you're not either, and anyone else duped. These guys get very good at molding themselves into what they need to be. I'm glad you were able to get your money back and he, hopefully, will just fade away. Thank you again for sharing.
I’ve been through this exact situation. Broke my heart in a million pieces. Thanks for sharing.
You are so strong and so brave. Everyone is so proud of you for making this video. This wasn’t your fault and you are so open and loving that this won’t keep you down for long! 💗💗
I know that people always say that social media is not important and that we shouldn’t care so much. But at this point, it’s so much part of our everyday life.
If a guy doesn’t want to be there with you, or doesn’t post you/show you off, or makes excuses, or doesn’t respect your social media boundaries in the current day, there’s always something more there, unless they are an extremely private person.
I’ve learned this the hard way.
First off, I just want to say you are an incredibly strong individual and you handle difficult situations with grace. I’m sorry this happened to you and this asshole deserves the wrath he faces. I hope this never happens to another woman after you because of your strength! All the love✨
I have a whole new respect for you britt , because of how you handled this , shows how damn amazing you really are!!!!
Brittany, my darling. While I watched the video, I saw that you put emphasis in the fact that the times he saw you interacting with your daughter, he was reassuring to you that you were a good mom and he was impressed. Then, towards the end, you said something like if he didn't think the dating a mom was for him, he should have said so.
I get a bit of a sense that subconsciously you think that this was in any way, shape or form important to him. Let me tell you something right now... it was not.
It is not about anything that has to do with you. Not about you being a mom, or a youtuber, or blonde, for that matter. This type of person could have found the perfect person for them, and yet they will still ruin it all and wander off because deep down they don't feel worthy of anything good. They overlook the blessings, and they miss out on the best things that come their ways.
I can honestly tell you, with all certainty, that you can move on and never even think about it again, because it is not and it never was about you.
One day, you will find someone who loves themselves in a healthy way, and therefore feel worthy of the gift that you are. They will cherish you, and the life you have created. They will know that because you are a mom, you are able to love unconditionally, and will not try to take advantage of that.
Lastly, it could have been so much worse. You are smart, and this is the only thing that protected your giving heart. Don't feel bad for having been tricked. It is not luck that had you find the truth. You had a bad feeling, you looked into it, you found what you needed to know. Stay strong, and stay awesome.
I completely agree. His actions are a reflection of himself and no one else.
What a nice and helpful comment, thank you
100%
This is so wholesome ❤️❤️ thank you
Wow what a wonderful message to Brittany 💛
I'm so sorry you went through that. But you make a very mature advocate, for such a horrible experience. You're amazing at what you create Brittany. Thank you for sharing, I hope it helps many other women💗
Wow. this is so scary and heartbreaking. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for being so strong and sharing this to bring awareness. ❤️🩹
I’m so sorry you went through this Brittany! I personally got out of a very similar situation myself, in the end it was very verbally, emotionally and psychologically abusive. I have PTSD and I am seeking a lot of therapy myself! There is a lot of men and women out there that have gone or going through such similar situations and it is amazing to see not you only you but Johnny Depp and bigger people coming forward, bringing awareness to these situations and people and keep doing what you’re doing because this helps us feel less alone in what we are going through!
I’m so sorry that you went through this and I so appreciate your bravery and your honesty. My heart is with you and your family during this time❤️
Im so sorry this happened to you. The way you handled this was amazing. Its so hard to stand up for oneself when you truly have been lied too and hurt. Sending you all the positivity 🧘🏻♀️
Oh Brittany, I am so so sorry that this happened. I wish I could hug you. Thank you for using your platform to spread awareness and giving others a voice. Please take care of yourself. Sending you all the positive virtual vibes.
he gives pyscopath. so sorry Brittany. you have angels looking out for you, know that!
You worded this so well and so maturely which only makes this situation worse as someone like that doesn’t deserve to go through this, especially after everything you have gone through over the years. I really really feel for you and all of the other victims who don’t deserve to go through this. ❤️
🐸 🍵 I'm so sorry this happened to you and I'm glad you're healing from the situation. Hopefully more women can be aware and recognize the behaviors thanks to you and others sharing their stories/signs
Wow! I am so proud of you for posting this, it was so well made and you were so articulate and truthful! I’m sorry this happened, but don’t for a SECOND doubt your heart and judgement. This kind of person makes themselves into what you wanted to see and hear. What a psychopath. I wish you so well Brittany ❤️
Thank you for having the courage to share this story
I’m so sorry you went through this!!! Thanks for sharing and being so brave 🙏🏼♥️
I’m glad you shared this experience and what happened, because I’m a single mom and before that I had been single for over 4 plus years, so dating in general and the opposite sex is daunting and terrifying for me. Because I don’t even think about stuff like this or that I’ll get through it. Thank you for your strength and courage to walk away when you felt pulled to walk away, and you were still so cautious about it because of your life and the people in it♥️ and I’m so proud of the women who have come forward and have spoken and revisited an awful experience in their lives. You all deserve the world on a gold platter and nothing less
So sorry to hear you went through this situation, but you are so brave for speaking up as many people won’t or can’t. So thank you for being the voice for many! ❤️ wishing you all the best.
You’ve handled this so graciously and with class! I’m so sorry this happened to you, it’s unfortunate that people who present with good intentions then show their true colors in the end. I’m so happy you are standing up for yourself and so many other women/men who cannot share their stories. I hope all is well, stay strong 💓✨💓
You just mopped the floor with this guy, professionally!! Like, sparkly squeaky clean! Well done girl :) Well done.
You handled this so well! I've gained a whole new level of love and respect for you, watching this. I'm sorry this has happened to you, but glad you seem to be tackling it head on, and that you have a good support network. Your daughter is so lucky to have you as her strong female role model!
Just finding this video and oh it makes me so sad that people are out there like this. I dated a guy who lied with me about so many things..would ask for money a little at a time for “insulin” since he was a diabetic, told me he left the army on discharge (was kicked out) and lived with me because without me he would be “homeless”. 2K later, finding out he was on drugs, a stolen laptop, and so much emotional abuse I’m so glad that that story of my life is over. You are so strong!!
I’m so sorry this happened. You are so strong for sharing your story all while healing from his toxicity. Hang in there mama! 💗
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m one of the ones who is dealing w something similar only much worse. I’ve chosen to speak about it as well very carefully as my trial is coming up but yeah people it’s not ok to do these type of things to others.
Brittney I applaud you for seeing the need to speak out bc these type of people need to be exposed so others can know. If someone had left me some kind of warning maybe what happened to me wouldn’t have and I’m making sure it doesn’t happen again. I know what I’m doing is going to save someone’s life and seeing yours is very encouraging.
Good for you! So sorry this happened to you and others♥️Taking advantage of a single Mom is grimy, the lowest of low. Best of luck B xo
Well worded!
I commend you so much for how you handled this entire situation! your communication was soooo on point! From start to finish! im so glad you listened to your intuition and broke it off and walked away from this person! I know your story will help so many other's that have been taken advantage! Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Same thing happened to me but different man. now I learned to ASK QUESTIONS and get to know the guy and let him EARN my trust, I don't share much, he needs to earn that info. thank you for making this video so we can all learn to protect ourselves.
Nailed it! That last part all of it; so powerful. Thank you for coming forward for us. 💓🙏
*👆👆👆Reach out you won..🎉**
your light is so bright Brittany you didn't deserve this. Men like this prey on sweet giving women, I hope you can heal and take some time for you ❤️
Honestly, this is how women support women. This took so much courage and you did this wonderfully. Your voice and the voices of others have been heard! ❤️
When u mention that how u co-parent is by meeting their new girlfriend/boyfriend etc is soooo healthy. Wow. I wish my parents did that. 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻
keep your head up girl, you're beautiful and a shining star. he tried to fake light that wasn't there, whereas yours shines through so brightly without even trying because you are a genuinely good person.
Sorry that you had to go through this. After watching the tinder swinder on Netflix's and hearing your story, it's all very infuriating. I can't believe ppl actually do this stuff and continue with the deceit.
i’m so sorry this happened to you! i’ve been through something similar just recently and watching your video has helped me to not feel alone 🥹💜
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’ve been through something similar just never got my money back (different person). You and your daughter deserve the world. And you will find it one day. Nothing but love. ❤️❤️
I was just recommended this & I’ve never watched your channel and let me just say I watched this entire thing and it gave me chills. I myself am going through a similar but different situation and it’s been about 4 months now and I also am a single mommy with a daughter. With my situation its a break up and being let down feeling used by a boy is so traumatic and truly what’s wrong with this world today. I see so many similarities in you and myself. I saw the pain in your face & I’m so sorry you had to deal with this but thank you for letting other women know they’re not alone when dealing with this 🙏🙏 btw your so beautiful and deserve the best for you and your little one. Keep being strong and holding out for that special someone 💞 I’m going to watch your update now and I can’t wait to see the glow up 😇
You and Arrow are so precious and deserve protection. You deserve nothing but the absolute best. So sad this has jaded you, so hard to find someone & trust. Do not let this bring you down forever!! You are an old strong soul! I wish you health and clarity on your road of recovery. Sucks someone genuine like you had to be put in this situation. Sad we have to raise our kids in such a bittersweet world. 🤍 Thank you for sharing with us, we’re all here for you momma!!!
Wow, this is so powerful to share. I am really in awe of you and your strength. I have experienced this in my own way, and it’s incredibly damaging. What a brave way to use your platform. Well done sis. I hope you find peace and healing.