I'm Single/Life Update FT Nicolette Gray! *WTDTY*
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- Опубликовано: 4 авг 2021
- Jordyn is single!! And The Beverly Hills Brat NICOLETTE GRAY is here to talk relationships, breakups, toxic exes, dating in LA, AND MUCH MORE!!
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in my opinion jordyn is very immature not ready for a relationship
She’s going to be so hurt when her ex finds someone to settle down with… promise.
She might be young but decent people are hard to keep with a care free attitude
fs which isd why it's honarable that she decided to be true to herself and not wste Jordan's time
Women always throw away the best and date down for the rest of their lives. Most of the time. They are programmed to.
@@realamericannegro977 It's hilarious because they break up or cheat thinking there is better out there and end up dating down haha
@@RedeemedNick 😁😁 always
how can you even think about other guys already? and saying you want a toxic man? girl, that’s not normal or healthy. Seems like you may need to talk through things with people.
Hm, I am not fully agree. Why she can not think about other guys when she broke up already 2 months ago? There is not any "moral law" on this, there is no time limit for which she must suffer
Actually toxic man would be good for her. Two toxic people should get along great. 😀
i don't think she means actual toxic like abusive guys but just more badboy type. Jordan was an absolute sweetheart gentlement type of guy and it was just too much for her so maybe she needs to switch it up to find out what it is exactly that she needs. but i agree that glorifying abusive/toxic relations is not a good thing to do with her audience and her word choice was not the best in this case :)
@@lm8281 i think alot of these people commenting this are younger and dont understand what she means exactly.
This just proves how immature Jordyn still is and definitely doesn't know what she wants. There are so many people that are in toxic relationships that needs to get out but this girl wants to be in a toxic relationship!!! WTF!!!
Depends on how your view of toxic is .
@@wobbler6372 no matter what definition you put with the word toxic… obviously it ain’t gonna bring you sunshine and rainbows lol
Jordyn was the toxic one tho
SHE CHEATED ON HER BF.. the worst part.. SHE CHEATED ON HIM WITH ONE OF HER CLOSE FRIENDS BF
That‘s so fucked up :/
@@livsu5547 wait what?
She literally said she doesn't want to be in a relationship or even be intimate with anyone for at least a year.
Saying you “need a toxic relationship” is really such a grab. No one needs a toxic relationship. They’re mentally and at times physically damaging. It won’t heal you. That’s the point of the word toxic. It’s not going to do anything but destroy you. What you think you “need” is actually what you want. You want what so many films ‘glorify’ as this hot, steamy relationship but really just emotionally damages you further? No one needs that. Especially someone who is claiming to be emotionally damaged (a claim I believe. Trauma is very real and i absolutely believe yours hurt you more than words could ever explain.)
What I believe you want is just a bad boy type of energy. You don’t want a guy who is going to treat you like crap and have a toxic relationship. You just want the jaden and nessa relationship. The one where you don’t care what people think, you’re care free, hot and steamy, but healthy. Just be aware of that. You want something new and fast paced. And Jordan Beau is sweet and not ‘as exciting’ to you. That’s okay. People change and so do their desires. Not being real with him, is only going to damage him. Not being real with yourself will only damage you.
Glorifying a toxic and abusive relationship is an absolutely terrible thing to do with a fan base of young and impressionable teenagers and preteens. There is nothing good about toxic/abusive. Abuse isn’t just physical. Where you and Jordan beau were at in life no longer aligned. That is OKAY. But don’t destroy everything you have because you think being toxic and ‘f the world’ energy is what you need. Anyone who thinks they need that really needs therapy (AND THAT IS OKAY!!). I truly hope you don’t ruin yourself more and/or ruin your image because you seek attention.
Also to add on to this in case anyone actually reads my opinion.
It was very obvious she craves attention in the Taylor holder podcast. She got incredibly giddy when he was talking about how he had a crush on her and almost flirting with her. She wanted him to keep talking about it. She loved it. It’s one thing to joke about past crushes etc. it’s another to completely glow, blush, and/or get excited about it. She’s craving attention hardcore. From guys. From the public. I truly hope she gets the emotional help she needs. You do not need guys to throw themselves at you to be happy. No person should be your sole reason for loving yourself or being happy. If you can’t be happy alone, you’ll never truly be happy. The best relationships are when you’re both happy and healthy and can build on that together. What she thinks she needs, she absolutely does not. Do not learn from her choices. Learn from her mistakes. Getting help and talking to a professional is okay. Do not dig a hole so deep you can’t get out!
@@danielledownes2697 Good thoughts. But while I think Jordyn is ultimately too immature to know what she truly wants, deep down I think: a) She wants to punish herself for letting a "good guy" go. She'll never find another Jordan. Guys like him are in short supply. b) She wants the fun of a "steamy" relationship because they don't require much effort. Riding around in a rented Lambo and posing for selfies with a hot guy is easy. Relationships take *work.* c) She wants the notoriety that would presumably come with dating a "bad boy." Jordyn wants to be famous really bad, but her music/acting careers stalled out. She's chasing clout.
@@roccoz2231 100% that’s where I brought in my second comment! She’s chasing attention. Thinking that these things will make all her deep internal struggles better and in reality they’re only going to destroy her. It’s fun while it lasts but when it stops lasting you’re destroyed!
@@danielledownes2697 Yep, having such a toxic psychodrama play out on social media will eat her alive. Jordyn is a sweet girl but she needs to actually do the work and develop her talents. Posting "unlockable" pictures online and gabbing into a microphone is just lazy, wannabe "influencer" stuff. In a few years nobody will care.
Well said everyone on this topic. Nicolette uses the term toxic, and (I hate to say) I wonder how toxic? We know she can be rather dramatic, and I’m in no way saying she wasn’t in a crap shitty r’ship, but toxic is very different. Toxic generally may include different types of abuse, fear, etc everything negative that can happen, and it happens on repeat. I’m glad she’s happy and out of it. but I’m always concerned about people who crave attention like YT’ers like Jordan that she’s really got no idea, and a bad toxic ship can ruin your life.
And I think these girls forget that doing YT they have young girls and guys that idolise them, and think if it’s good for them then I should too 😬. I know they just chatting, but some things should stay private or use your experience to help others
In Nicolette case all I’ve seen past month is a desperate attempt to get attention, money etc again.
Yeah no hate but jordyn didn’t make any sense in this video. She said she broke up with Jordan because she needed to be alone but then says she has a number system of guys she’d be with but doesn’t wanna sleep around. Then she says she has her standards so high so she doesn’t want talk to them but she literally had that with Jordan. So basically she wants to have a dude in her life just not Jordan. She should have just come out and said that straight up. I really hope she at least told Jordan that privately and didn’t make it seem like what she’s saying in this video cause it makes no sense
yup. like what is she even sayin....
because she wants boys no one boy😂😅😅😂😂 maybeee
Jordyn cheated on her bf with one of her close friends bf :/ India Grace confirmed it
@@livsu5547 where??
Can we take a second to just realize her dad died very recently? I’m not saying that excuses any behavior, but it does explain some of it. She says she wants a toxic person because SHE feels like she’s a toxic person because of how her trauma has been affecting her. She deserves empathy at least, because damn losing your dad I can’t even imagine the pain she’s gone through. I know “she’s just an influencer” but she’s human and she had a real traumatic event in her life and NO ONE deserves to go through that.
Poor Jordan, he deserves so much better
Bro she didn’t do nun bad to him wym they both ended things on good terms she was dealing with the lost of her dad that sticks in your mind
? Just because two people have different life paths doesn’t mean one is right and the other is wrong
@Shane Gallagher what are u talking about 😂😂 who has said anything like that?
@Shane Gallagher where’s the tea from?
@Shane Gallagher WHAT??
I just feel like Jordyns a bit too immature. She wants to party, be young and kind of just live her life on her own. Whereas I feel like Jordan wants to settle down and start getting serious about things.
That’s not immaturity thought , that’s just two people who want two different things , depends how you perceive it or you values but neither of them are wrong ,
You literally post nothing but being with other guys… and now you’re talking about numbering guys but not wanting to date them. I get you should do what’s best for you, but I don’t think being public about some things is a very smart idea.
Ewww who drives 145! For someone who judges people who drink alcohol so negatively, I’m surprised you do something so irresponsible. Girl, please slow down. There are young women with babies and children in their cars. Also you have elderly people who are not the best drivers. It takes one second for something to go completely south. Trust me, it doesn’t look cool when you speed. Slow down.
I never comment on stuff but jordyn what you just talked about during this podcast shows you should get into therapy....so that you can be in the right mindset when you date the next person because nothing will change within if you don't get the help you need. I so understand being a relationship person but you NEED to take your time and be single for awhile, talking to other guys just for the feelings of having someone is something many of us go through but it's definitely not a good thing, we have to learn to be by ourselves and heal. You're a great girl but please take this time to heal. It'll only hurt you in the end if you don't.
I get where you’re coming from but you also need to realize that some people don’t feel the need to go spend thousands and thousands of dollars to talk to someone when they have friends a family members. Plus therapy is very very expensive. Doesn’t matter if you have millions it’s still way expensive.
@@cinnamonwayman2174 Definitely therapy is super expensive and its sad that it's so expensive but therapy is needed for everyone, IF you can. Trauma and life really can mess a person up rather they see it or not, it's a necessity. Friends and family are Great but that will never and can't take the place of a licensed therapist who has knowledge of the human brain development etc. So i say, if you can afford it, do it because it's really important especially this day in age, everyone can benefit from therapy, i wish it was accessible to everyone/:
& if you don't like therapy i say cool, give it a try at least and if it's just not for you then at least you tried.
@@cinnamonwayman2174 she makes hella good money to afford it
I SECOND THIS!!
Just my opinion but when her dad passed away she started to become a different person. Seeking a lot of attention in a bad way. Selling Pics in lingerie and now taking pics with girls. She noted she broke up with Jordan he did nothing wrong so what is that saying to any Guy that comes along? That could happen to you in a heartbeat. 3 years worth and she did him wrong she even says that. I do hope she gets help before something snaps. She has enough money if she wants to get to the bottom.
Jordyn “I don’t want to be in a relationship or settle down.”
Also Jordyn “I just don’t want Jordan.”
When did she say I don’t want Jordan?
@@teesh8646 I mean she dumped the poor kid because she’s not don’t partying and having fun🤷♀️
she wonders why people don’t perceive her over the age of 12 but it’s bc she simply doesn’t act it. she’s completely tone deaf and gives me narcissistic vibes. idk.
I’m so upset that she broke up with Jordan thinking that’ll fix everything instead of trying to get into therapy.
A lot of it is,she's just so immature. She needs to grow up alot.
@@randybunker5345 oh 100% for sure
some ppl can’t do both. sometimes even w therapy mental health really ruins relationships bye
It’s not that easy especially losing your dad … I went through that & it took YEARS to start healing from it , I pushed a lot of people I loved away .
I lost all respect when she was preaching she needed someone toxic. Girl, little girls and teen girls follow you and you’re promoting dating toxic guys like that is a good thing. You dont need a toxic relationship, you need therapy. This is embarrassing
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@@harmony3354 where did you see she cheated? I wanna see
lmaooo she keeps deleting my comment 😂😂😂😂 what’s your tictok @ so I can tag you
Can we take a second to just realize her dad died very recently? I’m not saying that excuses any behavior, but it does explain some of it. She says she wants a toxic person because SHE feels like she’s a toxic person because of how her trauma has been affecting her. She knows it’s wrong but she’d be doing it to punish herself. She deserves empathy at least, because damn losing your dad I can’t even imagine the pain she’s gone through. I know “she’s just an influencer” but she’s human and she had a real traumatic event in her life and NO ONE deserves to go through that.
Also she didn’t preach it, she just said it for herself and also in a very jokingly manner. Again, it’s because she feels toxic and wants to punish herself. And yes, honestly EVERYONE should be in therapy, but that’s besides the point, I think she deserves more empathy
I feel really bad for Jordan after watching this ☹️
Two months and she’s already going on a date??
@Shane Gallagher normally when someone gets out of a long term relationship, they stay single for awhile
no. you really don't need a toxic relationship. that would be horrible for your soul.
personally, i (as someone in a almost 3 year relationship) can’t fully wrap my head around losing someone you loved so much. whether trauma, or difference in life opinions currently caused it. i see in the future. i see it as “i’m not doing okay right now, but at the end of my pain, i want to be with this person for the rest of my life. i want a family with them”. idk, that’s just how i personally feel.
Exactly. Imagine leaving someone you deeply love cuz you are hurt. These generations just want to have a reason to ef around that is all.
This really saddened me how the talk about damaged people wanting to be in toxic relationships / with boys that will mess them around. Like that isn’t normal and it definitely shouldn’t be normalized because we all deserve a good relationship and we shouldn’t settle just because we feel damaged ? I feel like you should respect yourself to try and get help so that you can be with a guy that treats you well and actually be genuinely happy.
Especially when she knows young girls look up to her. Its gross. She needs therapy, not toxic boys
Giirl i just think that you really should go to therapy. Even tho you think that surrounding yourself with people all the time to push away your emotions will help you, it rly will not in the long run. Mby it can help you to move on from your breakup, but definitely not from the trauma that actually broke you in the past. love u and hope the best for u in the future❤️
therapy has really been helping me, i agree. we love u and want u happy bc when u bottle up stuff it comes back to bite u. might as well heal what u already have been through before life brings u more bc u know it will.
when she started talking about guys she's talking/not talking to it got real confusing haha but good for you for being single and doing what's best for you despite what the internet thinks
yeah despite the homewrecking 😩🙂
She cheated, there's no sympathy for her. She hurt Jordan and now she's acting like everything's fine.
where is the proof she cheated ?
@@Canuckgirl152 go see the tik tok of India grace
@@yasmined16 Lmfao tik tok thats ur proof hahaha grow up kid !
@@Canuckgirl152 they were close friends for a year suit yourself I'm not a kid bro i'm 23 🤣🤣
WHAT DID THWY REALLY BREAK UP CUZ IVE ALWAYS THOUGHT WHEN THEY GOT MARRIED THEY WOULD HAVE THE SAME NAME
Yeah! Check her insta. She put a post about a week back of her and Jordan talking about the breakup
Basically she didn't want to settle out of LA and take the next step in their relationship, while Jordan wanted that...
Toxic relationship aren't that fun. You have to deal with abuse and ect
I knew this breakup was coming. There was many red flags for it in a bunch of videos and past stuff that's been posted. They just had different aspirations, it's ok to break up with someone. Can't force yourself to try to be happy with someone/situation that you're not.
They did have a bunch of good times and smiles had. Good memories, etc. Not every relationship is going to work out.
Seeing this comment is a relief because this comment section is full of creeps who are living in delusion, thinking they were part of the relationship. People think Jordan is entitled to Jordyn because he's "such a great guy" and Jordyn shouldn't have a choice. It's unsettling that so many people feel like they can tell Jordyn who to be as if they own her. This is what influencers and celebrities deal with and it is creepy as fuck.
Woah when you talk about heartbreak after loosing someone and it being hard to fully love for some time and 100% fall or let go into love are the words ive been looking for for a while now. I now understand or have a better idea of what’s happening with me. I love my hubby with all my heart its just hard to be me rn and just let go of everything and be back to us. We are getting there and are not having issues where we would ever divorce we understand but jeezzz thank u.!
Jordyn takes forever to get to the point. She spent several minutes explaining her coronavirus experience when she could have just said “I got a nosebleed” but instead she kept stalling.
Your “in a year” person should be Jordan, what an amazing focused guy!
I wouldn’t put up with that behavior and what she did to him. I’d love to see him find someone else by this time next year and stick it to her
@@Thomas-se3tb agree minus the “stick it to her” crap
i really hope she told jordan all of this when ending it and didn’t feed him a lie before she came in and talked about it to millions of people.
Don’t lose sight of what’s important to you because you are damaged. Don’t forget about the people who were there for you because you’re hurt. I promise it’s not the answer..
It sounds like Jordyn is a guest and not Nicolette
She has a podcast in order to talk, not listen😂
she feels like this, who knows for how long so honestly it’s good for HIM because he wants a real relationship and the love of his life and she just wants to mess around
As someone who went through a major loss of 2 family members within months of each other and I was around her age. At some point she will have to feel those feelings in order to move forward. I had the same "keep it moving" mindset and it honestly made everything so much worse.
WHY THE F**K IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THE FACT THAT JORDYN CHEATED ON HER BF.. the worst part.. SHE CHEATED ON HIM WITH ONE OF HER CLOSE FRIENDS BF
That‘s so fucked up :/
I’ll never go on birth control.
Hopefully you want a lot of kids....😳
I love when you do podcast there just my favorite thing even to watch on your channel and your also my favorite RUclips channel person ever I watch RUclips videos every single day and when you post a new RUclips video
I like the podcast but you should let your guests talk and listen to them you interpreted Nicolette so much …
Frrr
I feel like we should respect ourself to try and get help so that we could be with a guy that treats us well and actually being genuinely happy.
You don’t look happy. You look confused, like you broke up with him to feel happy. Happiness comes in moments, the ones you had with Jordan.
Jordyn: "I'm single!"
Huge mistake she will regret from age 30 til she dies
Finally, she can give TikTokers a chance
Honestly, some of you guys took some of her words the wrong way. You guys honestly need to know people are different, they deal with emotions differently and express their feelings differently. Sometimes you don’t always say the right things when trying to explain something or comes out wrongly. @29:29 “I’m very broken.” I hope you are okay and continue to work on yourself.
I quit BC too in April…from 15 years…wow it’s such a great feeling not having outbursts all the time from the pill! Xx
🙏🙏🙏
I love this friendship!! I could watch them all day.
I love u jordyn u deserve all the best and the beautiful things😍💋💋
psa: just because you CAN do whatever you want, doesn’t mean you should.
I’m on the same page w jordyn on the birth control thing! I went off mine recently and I feel so much better and have had such a better out look on life , I literally felt the same exact way you did
why do ppl take it ? jw :)
@@couldcareless_ number of reasons
Every body is different and birth control can help with various things but also has a shit ton of side effects and doesn’t work well for lots of people as well
@@couldcareless_ I would have nearly month long periods so I don’t really have a choice. Also to not have children
She keeps contradicting herself.
let’s all remember that most of the time when a women breaks up with a man.. she was mentally already over and done with the relationship weeks, if not months prior, that’s why she’s ready to move on also, pretty sure she’s a Pisces and so am I so this all makes sense ahahha you just needa heal girl🙏🏻🙏🏻
jordyn please consider getting help. your mind set is not good nor healthy. wishing you well❤️
why do you flirt with other people boyfriends?
You need time to be alone and work on your self and your own mental health. Maybe one day if it's meant to be you'll end up back together.
I think Jordan needs to stay away from her. At least for AWHILE
@@eileenwise5877 I kind of agree.
@@eileenwise5877 I literally just finished watching it. And I agree, Jordan deserves so much more.
Your meant to stick with your person through everything. Not finish them to find a toxic person.
I feel like the people that covid didn’t bother really all had nose bleeds. So far the few people I know who had covid and it didn’t really bother them but just felt a little under the weather had nose bleed.
therapy has helped me a lot
So she wants toxic ? That’s toxic.... good thing Jordan missed a bullet cause what a mess of someone to vocalize clearly she needs bad and toxic guys. Girl do you not realize how may girls go through toxic relationships in hopes a of a good one or to just be happy with someone that is good for them but here you are giving something like that up because you want someone toxic? Eh I had to stop watching this 😒
Damn
How you doing Jordyn? 🤔
You broke up with Jordan??? Why?
BTW First comment
He wants to settle down and she wants to run around and party.
@@joncampo1627 lol
@Amelia Douglas ok
@@joncampo1627 facts
You deserve the world Mrs. Jones!!!😁🍷🍷
She is single, not married 😭
She’s with friends who don’t care as much about her as jordan did and at the end of the day she’s going to be alone
So interesting !
saying that she wants to be alone, doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to hang out w people. And also you can tell she was joking about the wanting a fboy lol she’s literally laughing about it bc she’s broken . Guys chill.
Jordyn I ❤ U
She doesn't have to be with jordan guys!! It's her life and she deserves to spend it how she wants
I thought that but a few years down the line she was the one I let go
Called it!
Not surprised
EARLY!! 💕 LOVE YOU JORDYN 🤍🤍
I know it is a taboo subject but i'm curious if Jordyn and/or the people she hangs out with the most got Vaxxed. Seeing as she didn't have many symptoms.
I had COVID literally the exact time u experienced and I had never had it.
i liked jordyn but she defo cheated watch india grace’s tiktok
Sending love! 💖
by the way she’s talking,you can tell she’s hurt and don’t know what to do . she’s gonna regret loose jordan . But wytb girl
She hearted your comment😳
@@WiseOne. i know , i didn’t know she was going to but i didn’t say in a mean way yk . I hope she does good and gets better
Take a shot every time Jordyn says “like”
she wasted his time completely did not deserve him
The comments on this aren’t great, she’s a young girl that has been through a lot if she wants to have time to be young and try new things then that’s her choice so many men choose this (Logan Paul for example) and no one cares. Good for her, if it’s what she wants ❤️
29:30
its not healthy
😍
omg i never knew my faves knew each other!
Wow I’m glad you have almost 2 mil subs and get no views judging from the 10 min of this video I stand listening to the view count is pretty accurate in my opinion absolutely no cap!
You realise time moves fast . As life moves forward. Honestly she thinks she's talking sense but honestly she's not . Hang on to the good parts of life because the fantasy is never as good as you think
Love this duo!💕
When she talks about F boys i think everyone got the wrong idea what she meant when talking about that. I think she means that she needs someone to challenge her, make her feel something, makes it feel like shes going through the motions and learning. I think its hard going through what she did in a relationship where he probably didnt know how to meet her needs or even have an emotional conversation and try and help her how she needed to be helped. I dont think by saying she needs an F boy she wants to be cheated on she just needs someone to relate to or talk to and feel understood or be with someone who makes her FEEL. And everyone saying shes immature, no i think its huge for someone to come to terms with something and say its not working for me anymore. ESPECIALLY when the person youre with is perfect, to break up with someone knowing they never cheated on you abused you etc and end it is HARD. She realized she needs herself right now, that should be celebrated. Thats important as a woman to meet your own needs even when its hard. Jordyn youre doing great and good for you being so young and being able to step up for yourself into the unknown, never stop. No one knows what you went through and no ones opinion matters when you just want to better yourself. You’re extremely mature, and brave for how you handled everything. And just know that your father is proud of you.
Shot for every time Jordyn says “like”
Ima be honest, I think she broke up with Jordan bc she realized she isn't ready to be in a serious relationship rn
y'all so young.
Hii
Everyone who is lost because of what she said she most likely super confused and really going back and forth with her emotions
Now she's dating bad Zach that's real f***** up because Jordan used to be friends with Zack, and Jordan & Jordyn were together for like 3 years or something
never clicked to damn fast
She just dnt need him thats it,she jorden not inaff for her that's the issue ,she will regret one time that's true .if a boy do like in life like she did ,he will be get how much hate .she just dumped him thats true ,like auther person said she will have a siecret relationship with outher person when she in relationship.
I think it’s important to be single so you learn how to be ok with being alone and have your own life, she just wants that growing period but she will definitely look back at that last relationship and miss it a lot in the future
She annoys me I can’t
Bruh wtf I’ve watched you and Jordan since I was little. I stop watching for a little bit and you break up honestly you were my childhood. I hope you work on your self respectfully like you want.
Everyone in the comments stop saying shit about therapy . If she wants entertainment let her have entertainment therapy ain’t needed. She’s still young no issue with what she doing
Who did you meet in Michigan, how about the flight?
Second hand embarrassment. She’s trying to show out like pls
This is the worst. I hate to be one of those ppl but sheesh
Why are you little girls so butt hurt about her life she is 21 years old if she wants to be single she can do that obviously he doesn’t do it for her anymore
Ya girl is also in shock thats why it don't hurt babes
And she’s probably numb from losing her dad so suddenly the way she did
This was a much needed duo❤
Happy for Jordyn ❤️