My DM and I both have had various other connections. I went through mine (non-soul connections, soulmates, karmic and catalyst) before meeting my DM, and after we met he went through his. I just kept knowing (feeling, sensing) "this isn't IT" and I know (because I can sense and feel it within him) that's what my DM has been experiencing as well.
I have no doubt that, even though his sun is feminine, his masculine moon really brings that support to the relationship, and your ultra feminine moon, makes you so truly a divine feminine. Although you have a masculine sun and rising, so you come across as strong, and you know yourself as extraordinarily capable. But everybody who knows you on a personal level must know about your sensitivity and extraordinarily nurturing nature. What a combination you guys are!
Oh yes, and to answer your question, I met my twin flame when I was 15 years old and we did the hot and cold thing until we were 19 and then we moved in together. And then we broke up and moved apart and a month later he met the karmic, and they’ve been together for 20 years. But, he calls me every few years to tell me I’m the love of his life and when I see him I get waves of dizziness just like I always have. I’m actually a poet and I started using the term twin flame without knowing what it represented. And he reached out to me and said he saw himself in my poems and that he knew he was my twin flame. And to be brutally honest, I left my marriage because, when comparing the actual reality of the love that I have with him and the love my husband was showing me, I’d rather be alone.
Oh yes, I left out the part about having the kundalini awakening after a spontaneous phone call from him in 2021… and now it’s 2024, sooooo the awakening carried on, this is been the most difficult three years of my life. But I’m sane and I’m without judgment. So all is well.
Holy cow! What a story! And quite a journey. I really honor your choice of being alone rather than settling. I also had to make the same choice. I remember leaving my karmic and stepping away from James at the same time. It was the first time I chose myself over a relationship and it was certainly a power move although, at the time I likened it to leaping out of the space ship with nothing tethering me to get back home. I had no idea how I would find my way... yet here we are. Lots of love to you!
@@LifeAfterUnion I love the outer space analogy. I feel there, still floating in outer space yet I’ve reached a solar system, and there are planets and there is hope of landing. I just don’t know where yet. And if grief was deadly, I’ve died thousands of times. I truly hope I made wise choices. But because of that awakening, it’s hard to even call them choices. I will definitely keep you updated on my landing.😂😭🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️❣️ so so much love for you guys! Thank you for being a beacon of light for all who travel this, this pathway. I’m really glad I found you.
There's situations where someone's had kids with a karmic. They can't completely cut ties with that karma. So those situations are definitely different when it comes to twin flame dynamics, now other karma, contracts you can absolutely cut ties with. This journey is very tough and just speaking for label terms for the chaser perspective. It always seems like the chaser has it harder on this journey. Most chasers lose everything and have to rebuild their life physically from the ground up. Where as the runner blocks everything out. So they do who they want, what they want, distract, to not feel anything in the beginning of the journeys. So that's why they don't go through the pain like the chaser, does until the runner can't run any more. As far as communication in the 3D, you can't have that with a true runner. You can't open up to them about anything. Because all they do is run. So you're left feeling like you were doing this journey by yourself in a sense and it doesn't matter how much the chaser wants the runner to open up or come back. It simply doesn't happen once they start running. It can take a long time even when the chaser for label terms has stopped chasing. It doesn't mean the runner automatically is going to come right back and sometimes they don't come back. The roles end up reversing because the chaser gets to a point where they finally had enough. And then they start to not care at a certain point. They care, but they don't care and then they usually turn into the runner. And then the runner starts to turn into the chaser, but when the x runner now chaser wants to come back the x chaser now runner doesn't trust. The twin that's coming back because of all the damage that has been done and depending how long it has been all those fears start kicking in for the now runner because of what happened with the now chaser.
Pushing through all the Trauma is so hard. I seek Support. Really. Am at my knees purging. When Im in the middle of pain I watch twins in Union. Thank you
One day I gave up on the connection and I walked away and he met the karmic really fast, I didn’t expect that and he let me walk away, today I feel like I lost him and that she took something that is mine, I know it sounds childish but it is what I feel. I work on my self a lot and I have a good communication with him and I know he respects me and treasures our connection but he is still choosing her. ❤
I left my karmic. It was very hard to do. Has taken a long time to heal from. He was very abusive. My twin did not leave his partner (3rd party) We are no contact. 😢 I miss him everyday. I hope he is happy. 🙏🏼 🤷🏻♀️
I know I already mentioned this in the comments but when I first met my twin he was married and he almost left his partner but ended up going back. It’s been over a year and he is in and out with communication but it’s always surface level and pretty casual. I have really started growing and healing, stepping into my purpose and really loving myself. For the first time I am not interested in the casual communication with my twin and am very focused on myself. Just wondering from your side of things if you have any advice? Thank you for being so vulnerable with your story 💖💖💖
I think you are exactly in the right place! By knowing you are not interested in the surface level conversations with your twin you are getting really clear on what you want and by also continuing the self love journey you are on you will begin to believe and act on your worthiness of what you truly want. This is what makes you magnetic! You are doing really well! You will feel everything before it manifests in the physical, so if you aren't seeing physical proof of the work you are doing yet, don't worry too much! Keep doing it for the purpose of yourself and your dreams and desires! Lots of love ❤️
We are separated last year December 2023, it’s Four months during our separation and I have no idea if he is with another person or not, but my feelings are telling me he will gone be mine no matter if he is with another person or not.
You guys were just not an extremely polarized couple-depends on the past life and ancestral karma you had to resolve - which was probably much less than most. You probably had already done a lot of the work before you met each other…so balancing was quick and with ease…
Yes, I think as the newer generations incarnate they will continually have less karma and those who chose the twin flame journey will have less time in separation or potentially no separation at all. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❤️
Thx for video❤You both are wonderful❤❤ With love from Russia❤ i'm on twin flame jorney for about 18 years, ex-chaser feminine )) Seems that now we are finally coming to some balance😊
Usually in the twin flame dynamic we need more support at the beginning so oftentimes the connection seems strongirl but once you heal and become more strong within yourself you start to feel like you are losing the connection, But what is actually happening is you are being guided to trust yourself instead of leaning so much on the support of spirit or your twin flame. Let me know if this makes sense hope it helps big love
@@reema99995 definitely still that big love. I keep saying especially after the baby that I would NEVER want to do this life with anyone else... and yes, I will make a video about the stages of separation like what you are going through right now. any other questions about it?
@@LifeAfterUnionWow that is very interesting. I am just now starting to really focus on myself and purpose, but it feels like the energy is returning back to myself and I feel less interested in my twin at this time? Not that I don’t love him but he is still in a partnership and the communication is very surface level and I really just feel empty compared to the amount of love I’m feeling for myself and him since we are one lol not sure if that makes any sense at all!!!
So everything I have heard and read says go no contact and he won’t come back until you completely detach. But what you’re saying seems to be different…chaser keep contacting….?
Good question. It all comes down to intention... There are people who will go no contact, but will still give their energy away to their twin in psychic space... And There are people who will keep contact, but consciously keep their energy intact and not allow their power to be taken away. It's more about knowing yourself and acting in accord to what you know will help you best re-center your own energy. I hope this helps!
In my experience (I know you asked for more than just mine, but will share anyways) me and my twin went no contact via the universe... i.e. the cell service would go out or someone's phone broke or the power was bad or one of us was traveling and didn't have access to wifi... all things like this. And while, yes, it didn't hurt as much as being ghosted or blocked... the same fears still came up of: did they forget about me? Or are they with someone else? Or okay, is this finally the end... I always found that even though I couldn't physically contact him, the more connected I was with myself, the more connected I felt with him. Yes, it's hard not being able to speak with them. But spirit wants you to find that assurance and confidence within yourself. Keep cultivating your inner power and strength and practice sitting with yourself in silence and love. This will also help you feel closer to your twin. Hope it helps! ❤️
A good question! Maybe he isn't! Twin Flames don't have to be 100% healed to come into union. They just have to work through majority of blockages. Also, is there something in you that is being triggered by him? Maybe he is reflecting a part of yourself that is not healed in the same area? Food for thought! Anyways, big love and thank you for watching!
I love how at the end of this it says "this is now a twin flame connection though" (a typo... but I think it says it all lol). Regardless... thanks for watching!
@@LifeAfterUnion you’re doing harm by teaching that twin flame separation will only last 6 months. That’s not separation. It happens for years. The growth that happens on this journey cannot be condensed to 6 months. Never has, and you’re not the exception.
Thanks for sharing you concern. However, I am not teaching that. Just sharing the fact that that is how it was for myself. My belief is that we live in an infinite universe and as such there are limitless possibilities... the same is true for the twin flame journey. I am sorry that my journey is triggering to you, but I appreciate you taking the time to voice your opinions on my channel.
@@RBD582 it definitely takes more than 6 months because when they first meet one of them is awakened and the other is not. The awakened wakes the other up by showing up and it triggers a lot of stuff in both of them that can’t be understood or healed in 6 months! Most of them who are not awakened are still in karmic relationships that they yet have to accept is toxic, not the right one etc. and it takes a lot of time to cut ties with. I agree with you that they are labeling themselves that but they’re not twin flames.
thanks for watching! Let me know in the comments... how did the 3rd party effect your relationship??? Was it the karmic or someone else??
My DM and I both have had various other connections.
I went through mine (non-soul connections, soulmates, karmic and catalyst) before meeting my DM, and after we met he went through his.
I just kept knowing (feeling, sensing) "this isn't IT" and I know (because I can sense and feel it within him) that's what my DM has been experiencing as well.
I got very emotional as well
Your both are real and bring a lot of divinity to earth. Thanks
Thank you very much! ❤️
You can’t imagine how your are helping us in this journey thank you 🙏 ❤
Reading this comment made my day. Thank you very much! ❤️
I have no doubt that, even though his sun is feminine, his masculine moon really brings that support to the relationship, and your ultra feminine moon, makes you so truly a divine feminine. Although you have a masculine sun and rising, so you come across as strong, and you know yourself as extraordinarily capable. But everybody who knows you on a personal level must know about your sensitivity and extraordinarily nurturing nature. What a combination you guys are!
Hahaha oh my gosh! Couldn't be more spot on! Lots of love to you!
Oh yes, and to answer your question, I met my twin flame when I was 15 years old and we did the hot and cold thing until we were 19 and then we moved in together. And then we broke up and moved apart and a month later he met the karmic, and they’ve been together for 20 years. But, he calls me every few years to tell me I’m the love of his life and when I see him I get waves of dizziness just like I always have. I’m actually a poet and I started using the term twin flame without knowing what it represented. And he reached out to me and said he saw himself in my poems and that he knew he was my twin flame. And to be brutally honest, I left my marriage because, when comparing the actual reality of the love that I have with him and the love my husband was showing me, I’d rather be alone.
Oh yes, I left out the part about having the kundalini awakening after a spontaneous phone call from him in 2021… and now it’s 2024, sooooo the awakening carried on, this is been the most difficult three years of my life. But I’m sane and I’m without judgment. So all is well.
Holy cow! What a story! And quite a journey. I really honor your choice of being alone rather than settling. I also had to make the same choice. I remember leaving my karmic and stepping away from James at the same time. It was the first time I chose myself over a relationship and it was certainly a power move although, at the time I likened it to leaping out of the space ship with nothing tethering me to get back home. I had no idea how I would find my way... yet here we are.
Lots of love to you!
@@LifeAfterUnion I love the outer space analogy. I feel there, still floating in outer space yet I’ve reached a solar system, and there are planets and there is hope of landing. I just don’t know where yet. And if grief was deadly, I’ve died thousands of times. I truly hope I made wise choices. But because of that awakening, it’s hard to even call them choices. I will definitely keep you updated on my landing.😂😭🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️❣️ so so much love for you guys! Thank you for being a beacon of light for all who travel this, this pathway. I’m really glad I found you.
I recognize everything, so comforting to hear 🌤️
Thanks for watching ❤️
There's situations where someone's had kids with a karmic. They can't completely cut ties with that karma. So those situations are definitely different when it comes to twin flame dynamics, now other karma, contracts you can absolutely cut ties with. This journey is very tough and just speaking for label terms for the chaser perspective. It always seems like the chaser has it harder on this journey. Most chasers lose everything and have to rebuild their life physically from the ground up. Where as the runner blocks everything out. So they do who they want, what they want, distract, to not feel anything in the beginning of the journeys. So that's why they don't go through the pain like the chaser, does until the runner can't run any more.
As far as communication in the 3D, you can't have that with a true runner. You can't open up to them about anything. Because all they do is run. So you're left feeling like you were doing this journey by yourself in a sense and it doesn't matter how much the chaser wants the runner to open up or come back. It simply doesn't happen once they start running. It can take a long time even when the chaser for label terms has stopped chasing. It doesn't mean the runner automatically is going to come right back and sometimes they don't come back.
The roles end up reversing because the chaser gets to a point where they finally had enough. And then they start to not care at a certain point. They care, but they don't care and then they usually turn into the runner. And then the runner starts to turn into the chaser, but when the x runner now chaser wants to come back the x chaser now runner doesn't trust. The twin that's coming back because of all the damage that has been done and depending how long it has been all those fears start kicking in for the now runner because of what happened with the now chaser.
This was very well written! Thank you for sharing your perspective!
@@LifeAfterUnion your welcome 🙂
Very well written.
Pushing through all the Trauma is so hard. I seek Support. Really. Am at my knees purging. When Im in the middle of pain I watch twins in Union. Thank you
❤️❤️❤️ lots of love to you on your journey
One day I gave up on the connection and I walked away and he met the karmic really fast, I didn’t expect that and he let me walk away, today I feel like I lost him and that she took something that is mine, I know it sounds childish but it is what I feel. I work on my self a lot and I have a good communication with him and I know he respects me and treasures our connection but he is still choosing her. ❤
Yes, this is true. As you said it's perfectly natural to feel that way. Are you choosing yourself in every way possible?
I am choosing myself and learning to accept what happened more and more and working on how I feel about her. ♥️
@@MariselaAponte ooo! I love that. It reminds me of a video I have on my list to make about the karmic! Thank you! ❤️
I left my karmic. It was very hard to do. Has taken a long time to heal from. He was very abusive.
My twin did not leave his partner (3rd party)
We are no contact. 😢
I miss him everyday. I hope he is happy. 🙏🏼
🤷🏻♀️
Lots of love and support you on your journey!
Thank you for the free e-book! ❤
My pleasure! Hope it helps!
I know I already mentioned this in the comments but when I first met my twin he was married and he almost left his partner but ended up going back. It’s been over a year and he is in and out with communication but it’s always surface level and pretty casual. I have really started growing and healing, stepping into my purpose and really loving myself. For the first time I am not interested in the casual communication with my
twin and am very focused on myself. Just wondering from your side of things if you have any advice? Thank you for being so vulnerable with your story 💖💖💖
I think you are exactly in the right place! By knowing you are not interested in the surface level conversations with your twin you are getting really clear on what you want and by also continuing the self love journey you are on you will begin to believe and act on your worthiness of what you truly want. This is what makes you magnetic! You are doing really well! You will feel everything before it manifests in the physical, so if you aren't seeing physical proof of the work you are doing yet, don't worry too much! Keep doing it for the purpose of yourself and your dreams and desires! Lots of love ❤️
I'm going watch later today but I just have to say, Serena, your hair looks adorable!
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Oh thank you!
@@LifeAfterUnion
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Thanks for sharing your story.💞💞💞
Thanks for listening!!!
My DM grew up in South Africa. Another damn Reminder video, lol
Lolol sorry it had to be us!!!
@@LifeAfterUnion no lol it's all good. I'm 7 years on this journey same old stuff on the internet
We are separated last year December 2023, it’s Four months during our separation and I have no idea if he is with another person or not, but my feelings are telling me he will gone be mine no matter if he is with another person or not.
Truth!
🎯☯️ this is very necessary and reaffirming thanks for sharing....much love and congrats to you both ❣️
Thank you! Glad it resonated with you! Lots of love ❤️
You guys were just not an extremely polarized couple-depends on the past life and ancestral karma you had to resolve - which was probably much less than most. You probably had already done a lot of the work before you met each other…so balancing was quick and with ease…
Yes, I think as the newer generations incarnate they will continually have less karma and those who chose the twin flame journey will have less time in separation or potentially no separation at all. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❤️
Is James South African? I can recognise the accent. I’m South African and I’m a TF in separation. Thanks for the video! ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for watching! Yes he is! Nice to have another south african on the journey with us! Lots of love
I'm also South African. Also in seperation. And my Dm is in a third-party relationship. Much love to all❤
@@riletjansevanrensburg2129 sending you love 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Thx for video❤You both are wonderful❤❤ With love from Russia❤ i'm on twin flame jorney for about 18 years, ex-chaser feminine )) Seems that now we are finally coming to some balance😊
Lots of love to you! Thanks for watching! 💕
Привет! Можно ли с вам связаться и поговорить? Я тоже из России:)
Why after healing cant feel my twin !! Losing connection
Usually in the twin flame dynamic we need more support at the beginning so oftentimes the connection seems strongirl but once you heal and become more strong within yourself you start to feel like you are losing the connection, But what is actually happening is you are being guided to trust yourself instead of leaning so much on the support of spirit or your twin flame. Let me know if this makes sense hope it helps big love
@@LifeAfterUnion need you to talk more about this .. also after get married how is the feelings ?? Is there that big love or gone
@@reema99995 definitely still that big love. I keep saying especially after the baby that I would NEVER want to do this life with anyone else... and yes, I will make a video about the stages of separation like what you are going through right now. any other questions about it?
@@LifeAfterUnion oh big thanks 💕💕💕
@@LifeAfterUnionWow that is very interesting. I am just now starting to really focus on myself and purpose, but it feels like the energy is returning back to myself and I feel less interested in my twin at this time? Not that I don’t love him but he is still in a partnership and the communication is very surface level and I really just feel empty compared to the amount of love I’m feeling for myself and him since we are one lol not sure if that makes any sense at all!!!
So everything I have heard and read says go no contact and he won’t come back until you completely detach. But what you’re saying seems to be different…chaser keep contacting….?
Good question. It all comes down to intention...
There are people who will go no contact, but will still give their energy away to their twin in psychic space...
And
There are people who will keep contact, but consciously keep their energy intact and not allow their power to be taken away.
It's more about knowing yourself and acting in accord to what you know will help you best re-center your own energy.
I hope this helps!
@@LifeAfterUnion ahh. I’m feeling that
@@LifeAfterUnion thank you yes this is helpful
I want to know how everyone has dealt with the twin completely going no contact
That's the hardest part for me, not having that connection at all
In my experience (I know you asked for more than just mine, but will share anyways) me and my twin went no contact via the universe... i.e. the cell service would go out or someone's phone broke or the power was bad or one of us was traveling and didn't have access to wifi... all things like this. And while, yes, it didn't hurt as much as being ghosted or blocked... the same fears still came up of: did they forget about me? Or are they with someone else? Or okay, is this finally the end...
I always found that even though I couldn't physically contact him, the more connected I was with myself, the more connected I felt with him.
Yes, it's hard not being able to speak with them. But spirit wants you to find that assurance and confidence within yourself. Keep cultivating your inner power and strength and practice sitting with yourself in silence and love. This will also help you feel closer to your twin.
Hope it helps! ❤️
@@LifeAfterUnion that is very true. My guidance has been to go within. Everything I need in within me already
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Twin flames are the cutest 😢 miss mine
What happened?
@LifeAfterUnion we are in separation, and I'm still in the twin flames journey
I have his baby, and I haven't even told him yet
That's Harry Kane😂😂
Why I feel he is not healed yet
A good question!
Maybe he isn't! Twin Flames don't have to be 100% healed to come into union. They just have to work through majority of blockages.
Also, is there something in you that is being triggered by him? Maybe he is reflecting a part of yourself that is not healed in the same area?
Food for thought!
Anyways, big love and thank you for watching!
I’m so sorry to say… you guys aren’t twin flames. I think you have something magnificent to be sure. This is not a twin flame connection though.
I love how at the end of this it says "this is now a twin flame connection though" (a typo... but I think it says it all lol). Regardless... thanks for watching!
@@LifeAfterUnion you’re doing harm by teaching that twin flame separation will only last 6 months. That’s not separation. It happens for years. The growth that happens on this journey cannot be condensed to 6 months. Never has, and you’re not the exception.
Thanks for sharing you concern. However, I am not teaching that. Just sharing the fact that that is how it was for myself. My belief is that we live in an infinite universe and as such there are limitless possibilities... the same is true for the twin flame journey. I am sorry that my journey is triggering to you, but I appreciate you taking the time to voice your opinions on my channel.
@@RBD582 it definitely takes more than 6 months because when they first meet one of them is awakened and the other is not. The awakened wakes the other up by showing up and it triggers a lot of stuff in both of them that can’t be understood or healed in 6 months! Most of them who are not awakened are still in karmic relationships that they yet have to accept is toxic, not the right one etc. and it takes a lot of time to cut ties with. I agree with you that they are labeling themselves that but they’re not twin flames.