The Power of Reframing Exercise as Self-Care | Mike Stanlaw | TEDxBayonne

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
  • Did you know that 95% of people do not get the recommended 30 minutes of physical activity daily? This means that this percentage of people are not only neglecting their physical health, but they are also neglecting their mental well being.
    In this TEDx Talk, Mike Stanlaw goes into the benefits of re-framing and re-thinking exercise as self-care, which is the primary way we need to view fitness. By taking care of ourselves, we will be better for ourselves and for all of those around us.
    Mike Stanlaw is the Owner of Stanlaw Fitness in Bayonne, New Jersey and has been a Personal Trainer since 2008. His motto "Get Your 30" has helped people achieve 30 minutes or more of physical activity every single day to reach their health and fitness goals.
    Mike has his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and Master's Degree in Social Work, which he combines with his Personal Training Certifications to help people get the greatest mental and physical benefits out of exercise. He loves competitive bodybuilding, and lives in Bayonne with his amazing wife Laura. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 142

  • @cornypinkuni9519
    @cornypinkuni9519 Год назад +10

    Underrated talk. Get Your Thirty. Every. Single. Day. Self care.

  • @destmichael
    @destmichael Год назад +21

    Getting my thirty is my motto now thank you. I've been almost 3months consistent next week. It's my lifestyle now, I stopped weighting myself. I feel better and that's all that matters. I'm a better wife, mother, friend, daughter and neighbor.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 Год назад +1

      SO happy to hear this ! Keep up the awesome work DeAnn !! 👊💪

    • @cornypinkuni9519
      @cornypinkuni9519 Год назад

      Love this. ♡

    • @lankbel
      @lankbel 11 месяцев назад

      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤

  • @carissalintao2232
    @carissalintao2232 2 года назад +5

    Every time I get my 30 I'll watch this talk for inspiration.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      You’re awesome Carissa. Thank you and Max so much for this life-changing opportunity. I’ll never forget it.

  • @clarily-561
    @clarily-561 2 года назад +10

    I agree with his speech self care in many ways is very important :)
    I don't know who needs to hear this though but, it's ok to feel down sometimes, it's ok if you don't feel good today. Not every day has to be an amazing motivated day- life is a bumpy ride!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +2

      Well said! It’s a bumpy ride and it’s ok to not be ok. Try to take care of yourself the best that you can every day!! 👊💪

  • @SL-qd9hu
    @SL-qd9hu 2 года назад +11

    Love this talk and the positive emotion that the speaker conveys! I would say you need a box of self care tools (and adapt to what brings you joy): listening to music, singing, dance, yoga, yoga nidra, meditation, body scans, all type of sports that you enjoy, journaling, forest bathing, hiking and so much more. Everything that brings you from your head into your body and/or connects you spiritually. At least 30 min per day.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! A box of self care tools is an awesome idea. The mind and body connection is everything and you nailed it when you said "connecting you spiritually". I appreciate the feedback !

    • @ChosMan16
      @ChosMan16 2 года назад +1

      What’s forest bathing

  • @letmerm
    @letmerm 2 года назад +2

    Mike is one of the or the only trainer, I met who walks the talk and very focused on goals of his clients. He is very meticulous and makes sure your progress is consistently monitored and keeps record of the activities to the last detail. He is very respectful and personal to the point, I make sure I never miss a session with him and want, to be around him, so that I feel motivated and be on track to achieve my personal fitness goals. Keep up the good work Mike. I really appreciate your commitment towards your clients.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Ravi thank you so much. I appreciate the kind words and always look forward to our sessions 👊💪

  • @srikantsivaraman836
    @srikantsivaraman836 2 года назад +2

    Powerful. Loved this talk, and the incredibly important message!

  • @dennisburnett7207
    @dennisburnett7207 2 года назад +2

    "Getting Your 30" is a simple but important concept we all should strive for. Great job Mike!!!

  • @cheiron
    @cheiron 2 года назад +8

    A wonderful message Mike! Thanks for reminding us about one of the most important forms of self care that we can practice each and every day.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you for your support Cheiron and for attending! I appreciate you; keep up the great work with your training! 💪

  • @quinnmarkey5074
    @quinnmarkey5074 2 года назад +15

    Mike has really helped me throughout my fitness journey and modivated me to stay with it. Awesome speech.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Means a lot bud thank you. Lots more to do !! 💪💪

  • @stacypineda1949
    @stacypineda1949 2 года назад +5

    Great inspirational video. I’m so glad we joined Stanlaw Fitness. I was definitely in a funk last year and after joining a few months ago I’m starting to feel better about myself. Thanks for everything.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Stacy thank you so much and I’m so happy to be able to help you. You and Joe are doing awesome !!! 👊💪

  • @susanabend9290
    @susanabend9290 2 года назад +1

    Thought provoking and revealing. Mike tells a story that stays with you. Truly a gem.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you Sue. Looking forward to Thursday Morning Training!!! I appreciate the kind words and you as a friend and Client since forever lol

  • @camillestanlaw48
    @camillestanlaw48 2 года назад +5

    Mike, this was great. You are so inspirational. Now that I’m feeling better I’m going to start walking, even if it’s half a block.
    Uncle Bob would be so proud of you. Love ya ❤️❤️

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +3

      Thank you so much Aunt Camille. He would be proud of me driving the boat this past weekend as well lol. Love you so much!!!

  • @barbarahingos2055
    @barbarahingos2055 2 года назад +8

    Congratulations, Mike, on your great presentation. It is very informative and inspirational. Emphasizing how important self care is makes so much sense. And, I am sure has many thinking about such after hearing your presentation. I am an extremely proud aunt. Much Love!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      I love you Aunt Barbara!!! Thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jg1996business
    @jg1996business 2 года назад +2

    Such an important message! My mood and outlook on life is always so much more positive when I’m exercising regularly.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you Saleem I appreciate you! “Good energy in the gym” LOL 👊 keep up the great work!

  • @robincastillo8217
    @robincastillo8217 2 года назад +3

    Outstanding Mike! Really made me reflect on myself, my life, and getting my 30. Thank you for always motivating me!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Robin thank you so much! Always miss our training sessions but glad I’m able to still keep ya motivated! You’re awesome. Train for life! 👊👍💪

  • @mscit210
    @mscit210 2 года назад +1

    So glad I found my way to the Stanlaw Studio. Taking care of myself is my top priority! Thanks Mike!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Mary Ann! So happy to have you and Annie at the studio !

  • @5jpineda
    @5jpineda 2 года назад +3

    Great job Mike! Get you 30 is the way to go.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Joe. Keep up the great work; you can tell the difference in your muscularity!!!

  • @joanviehmeyer5946
    @joanviehmeyer5946 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations Mike. Well done. So glad to be a member of Stanlaw.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thanks Joan!!! We are happy to have you. You always work hard with the Not So Seniors and with your favorite the TRX!!!

  • @thangtran8378
    @thangtran8378 2 года назад +2

    Excellent video. Mike runs Stanlaw Fitness the best gym in Bayonne. I love that gym have been there for almost 4 years now.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Thang! Proud to have you as a Member here. Keep up the awesome work man 👊

  • @bradleykg
    @bradleykg 2 года назад +2

    Mike this was fantastic to watch and I know that your passion is real. This was for everyone to watch and follow and then rewatch it every time they need a reminder. Ok would write more but I am going to get my 30!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Means a lot Brad thank you for watching and for the kind words! Appreciate all of your help throughout the years 💪

  • @myirishdogs
    @myirishdogs 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great presentation. Thank you.

  • @caroltorturelli423
    @caroltorturelli423 2 года назад +1

    Loved your presentation Mike Stanlaw. So personal and inspiring. We all need to be reminded about Self Care. Thank you for sharing your message.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much. I appreciate you being a part of our studio and for all of your support !!!

  • @mattbretzius1036
    @mattbretzius1036 2 года назад +2

    I was so inspired watching this video I did squats the entire time. Keep killing it Mike!

  • @michaelrusso6352
    @michaelrusso6352 2 года назад +1

    Highly agree! Very well said and well done! Have to put yourself first.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Much appreciated man….looking forward to the next session!

  • @33fotysky99
    @33fotysky99 2 года назад +1

    Mike has motivated me to get up from my coach today and do a little stretching while watching this. Thanks for this little step!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      Small victories !! Keep at it and try to stretch a little more every day. Happy to have helped you 👊💪

  • @nikkitaheri3298
    @nikkitaheri3298 2 года назад +1

    So true....Instead of constantly trying to find it, give gratitude to your body by working out and exercise. Thank You Mike!! Noted...

  • @sharmisthasingh9441
    @sharmisthasingh9441 2 года назад +3

    Valuable insight on self care, Mike. Thank you for this great presentation.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Shirley! I appreciate you and thank you for being a part of our studio !!!

  • @laurennardinibranco9512
    @laurennardinibranco9512 2 года назад +1

    Self care is so important for our body and soul. This was so inspiring and made me reflect on ways to improve my own self care through exercise and mindfulness. Great job Mike Stanlaw!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you Lauren and I appreciate your support and you being an awesome Client !

  • @denisecomenzo6155
    @denisecomenzo6155 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this reminder self-care is the core to a long and healthy life ❤
    😊

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      My pleasure to help Denise! Keep taking care of yourself so you can be great for those around you!

  • @petermonforte9216
    @petermonforte9216 2 года назад +1

    Great video Mike! The passion you have for fitness shows in the results of your clients. 💪

  • @stanlaw5
    @stanlaw5 2 года назад +4

    Very well spoken and motivational! Great job Mike!

  • @lisamilan3453
    @lisamilan3453 2 года назад +1

    Great speech - inspirational, interesting, relevant, and real. Mike truly walks the talk.

  • @kareemhassanein273
    @kareemhassanein273 2 года назад +1

    Awesome Mike! What a great motivational speech. Made me think about myself more than ever. Honored to be training with you!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Kareem; honored to be your Trainer! 👊💪 seeya bright and early tomorrow 😂

  • @ajayshekar1023
    @ajayshekar1023 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Mike, this has helped me a lot, I appreciate it!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Happy to help you Ajay! Keep getting your self-care time in! 👊💪

  • @RedandBlackS10
    @RedandBlackS10 10 месяцев назад +1

    So relevant and important! Thanks Mike!

  • @awildacruz7027
    @awildacruz7027 2 года назад +1

    Very eloquent and inspirational speech coach. Thank you for sharing this valuable information.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Much appreciated Awilda! Looking forward to our training sessions!!!

  • @bengolshan155
    @bengolshan155 2 года назад +3

    So inspiring and motivational. Simple yet so relevant, great presentation. Thank for sharing Mike.
    -Joe

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Joe thank you so much. I appreciate it and glad you watched!!

  • @danieltadros3831
    @danieltadros3831 2 года назад +2

    Mike, this is very nice! I’m going to start getting my 30, early in the day like you recommend! I’ll definitely keep you posted!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Dan! Great reconnecting with you; keep it going and keep me updated!!!

    • @cornypinkuni9519
      @cornypinkuni9519 Год назад

      Wondering how it's been going.

  • @azalypelegrin9589
    @azalypelegrin9589 Год назад +1

    Powerful!! Thank you

  • @dliedke
    @dliedke 2 года назад +2

    VAMO TIME!!!!! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️💪💪🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️

  • @annettecreedon6862
    @annettecreedon6862 2 года назад +1

    I needed to here this today! Thanks , Mike, I need to be better at my self-care.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you Annette; keep getting your 30 every day with the NSS! You’re awesome!

  • @xauxcontrairex
    @xauxcontrairex 2 года назад +1

    This is amazing!! Thank you for sharing this inspirational video :)

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you Nhi and for attending and being there to support !!! :)

  • @jennifers5778
    @jennifers5778 Месяц назад

    Thankful for being a lifetime athlete!

  • @michelleab3205
    @michelleab3205 2 года назад +1

    Love the frame that exercise helps us see the world differently!

  • @janiem6347
    @janiem6347 2 года назад +1

    Very motivating! Thank you 👍👍

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone Год назад +1

    Great speech! It was so inspiring.

  • @maximsokolov9626
    @maximsokolov9626 2 года назад +1

    Amazing job Mike!!!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      To you and Carissa as well for making this happen. Thank you!

  • @laurastanlaw5292
    @laurastanlaw5292 2 года назад +1

    Inspiring, I could not be prouder!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Could not have done this without you. I love you with all my heart!

  • @liselcox582
    @liselcox582 2 года назад +1

    Amazing Mike!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you so much Lisel I appreciate you! 💪💪

  • @DIAMOND-gj2zy
    @DIAMOND-gj2zy 2 года назад +1

    Superb message I need it in the personal level because I was always doing exercise but due depression and worry I left exercising any more.

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      I appreciate the kind words! Keep taking care of yourself and keep pushing forward. Sticking with the exercise will greatly help with your depression and worry. Stay strong.

    • @DIAMOND-gj2zy
      @DIAMOND-gj2zy 2 года назад

      @@stanlawfitness827 Thanks for that, absolutely I'll do my best to get over this dilemma.

  • @daniellemcclellan9159
    @daniellemcclellan9159 Год назад +2

    This resonated with me so much. I used to be so physically and mentally fit. Then I wasn’t either. It took a while for me to make the connection between the two. I’m getting back there. Cue the rocky montage 😂 thank you for this ♥️

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 Год назад

      My pleasure and keep up the GREAT work!!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 Год назад

      Happy to help Danielle! Keep up the great work and keep remembering your “Why?” !!!

  • @MrDemarkles
    @MrDemarkles 2 года назад +1

    Awesome video Mike!

  • @ilknureren8526
    @ilknureren8526 2 года назад +1

    Amazing talk!

  • @JsnHgl
    @JsnHgl 2 года назад +1

    Very inspiring.

  • @shianecrow4318
    @shianecrow4318 11 месяцев назад +1

    Wow this is so inspiring ❤

  • @nicosmarcou679
    @nicosmarcou679 2 года назад +1

    Amazing talk

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Thank you man!!! Was awesome working with all of you.

  • @mikenowitzki6732
    @mikenowitzki6732 2 года назад +1

    Impressive speaking skills, and a great message!

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад

      Means a lot Mike thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed it and I hope it helps you! 👊💪

  • @tylermacanka7660
    @tylermacanka7660 2 года назад +1

    Great talk, better trainer!

  • @ariadnehendricks9529
    @ariadnehendricks9529 2 месяца назад

    🔥👌🙌

  • @merokhagendrasir2474
    @merokhagendrasir2474 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wow

  • @hiyoutube8013
    @hiyoutube8013 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been biking a lot recently but I do miss weight lifting

    • @stanlawfitness827
      @stanlawfitness827 2 года назад +1

      Keep up the great work with the biking! As far as weight lifting goes, just start back up with the basics. Squats, rows, presses, curls, 3x per week. You’ll get back into the swing of things! 💪

  • @denniperez8028
    @denniperez8028 Год назад +1

    How to breathe while working out???

  • @ManojTrader-vv1is
    @ManojTrader-vv1is Год назад +1

    3 2:28

  • @lilabukvic4216
    @lilabukvic4216 3 месяца назад

    But If you as one monk he would says that spiritual care is most important then after coming body care

  • @wmp3346
    @wmp3346 Год назад +2

    I exercise daily, but bathing is optional. You don't want to be over clean.

  • @SaltBushCity
    @SaltBushCity 2 года назад +2

    What happened to TED... 😩

  • @jenskruse1475
    @jenskruse1475 Год назад +2

    🤮

  • @thomasorchard
    @thomasorchard 3 месяца назад

    What is up with constant lip smacking?!?!

  • @Jason_H23
    @Jason_H23 4 месяца назад

    Get to the point

  • @peterreed736
    @peterreed736 4 месяца назад

    He's not wrong but exercising but it's so darn boring.

  • @Shellbee22
    @Shellbee22 Год назад +1

    Self care …of course it’s self care ..is that not common sense ..do people really not know this ..wow

    • @RossDoss69
      @RossDoss69 Месяц назад

      Fair but I do think knowing and doing is different.

  • @jahnwarnermedia
    @jahnwarnermedia 10 месяцев назад

    Angela got the vaxx

  • @jahnwarnermedia
    @jahnwarnermedia 10 месяцев назад +1

    Did he really say “when I aks new gym goers..” If u speak Ebonics u lost me 12 seconds into yo tahk yo

    • @thomasorchard
      @thomasorchard 3 месяца назад

      Yup and the constant lip smacking