An honest update on our marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @ryannetienne2839
    @ryannetienne2839 Год назад +88

    Can we just appreciate how Josh and Sav have these honest conversations with each other?! ❤🙏🏼 The growth and healing! #GodisGood

    • @Italian_LA_P.A
      @Italian_LA_P.A Год назад

      I loved this video update ❤ you guys are adorable

  • @briannadestefano2461
    @briannadestefano2461 Год назад +7

    This is such a good reminder to sit down and have this conversation with my Husband. I am loving your guys' content more and more! It is funny but also centered around your love for each other, your family, and most of all Jesus, without being too intense on religion. I need more content like this in my life!

  • @aleshadshay568
    @aleshadshay568 Год назад +129

    This was so heartwarming! I truly love how you edited this Josh. You two continue to grace yourselves and each other! "WE GOT THIS!" Rest in that truth! You guys are covered! 💜💕Sav, you're doing great being freshly postpartum and you look AMAZING!

  • @rykkikriner-vb8hh
    @rykkikriner-vb8hh Год назад +11

    Not wanting to be touched at times is soo normal for mothers, especially breastfeeding. The term is called touched out. I didn't know what was wrong with me after having my 3rd child ( 2nd child we have in our custody. We lost our 1st born 😢 due to life choices 😔) I thought I was the only one who experienced this & thought I was a bad mom & wife. But I learned it's okay to feel this way. You are doing an amazing job & you 2 are such an inspiration for what sooo many of us are MISSING in ours, check-ins. We tend to drift apart after having kids & stop WORKING on our relationship, repairing after fights & that's how resentment & bitterness creeps in & rakes over, therefore ruining a once amazing & strong unionship...

  • @kikimccray8088
    @kikimccray8088 Год назад +22

    The fact tht Josh still gets butterflies is so beautiful 🥺😩❤️🙏🏾

    • @adreannadampier9252
      @adreannadampier9252 Год назад +3

      Me and my husband still get butterflies gor eachother
      after 4 years ❤

  • @elysia..
    @elysia.. Год назад +41

    i think i speak for the whole sosh squad in its entirety when i say, that we are grateful for the courage you guys have, to share these memories with us. and it's so special that the babies can look back on the love you guys built together before God, ultimately leading up to their conception and birth 💛💙
    beautiful family. love you guys.

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Год назад +18

    Woah, those throwback videos were such a treat 🥲💗 Love y'all together! Been following y'all since way back, "dopest squad on the internet" days 🥰😭

  • @morganmojo15
    @morganmojo15 Год назад +19

    Currently 8 weeks postpartum with me and my husbands first child. It’s such a huge life change so check ins for our marriage has been so helpful. ❤ You have such a beautiful family, love this video and you guys!

  • @britturserysr9345
    @britturserysr9345 Год назад +21

    Hi! Guy’s I am a minister and I am 77 years old. I love watching both of you. The one thing I learned a long time ago, keep the feelings in your heart that you had before you got married. My wife and I were together for a total of 10 years. Married 8 1/2 years. God called her to come home in 2000.
    I love the feel of being in love. I told her I wish that I could put her in a pocket and keep her with me everywhere I go. Keeping the romance alive was important to me.just to see her face light up, and the way her eyes would take in everything, the sparkle in her eyes and sometimes tears of joy still warms my heart today. I live in Indianapolis, Indiana. Today but we moved from New Orleans. When I would speak at churches, I always started off with this, I am Rev. Britt ursery this is my wife Marla. Please understand this as you can see she is white. I am the one that was called to the ministry, NOT HER. THE OTHER THING IS I am not trying to change her, and I like her just the way she is, so don’t try to change her you might get your feelings hurt, she is Greek. Now let us pray. Your wife is a dancer that is her gift that GOD gave her, that is what got you interested in her, don’t loose that.every morning we took a shower together then we massage each other.
    This is what I loved to do. Nancy Wilson was in out city. I got tickets for us. I also went downtown and I found a dress that I loved to see her was 1,200.00 I found shoes and stockings for her. A bag, or purse as people called them. Earrings to match. I love showing off my wife. She was tall 5’11” in heels. When I got home she was shocked. The morning of the concert I took her downtown and got her hair done. We had a lunch, then went home. To say he dress looked fantastic on her was an understatement. I tried to keep the surprise coming. I see how you were in the beginning, keep it alive. Date each other. Send cards, I loved to go and get things she liked to eat. Hot donuts from Long’s bakery is one but that is a city favorite. Keep things moving, give her a big sucker, and I loved for her to sit in my lap and watch TV. Love you.

    • @courtneyfink5880
      @courtneyfink5880 Год назад +1

      Longs donuts is a staple! I was born in Beech Grove Indiana at the Saint Francis hospital that they knocked down since. I grew up on the south side of Indianapolis and greenwood. I now live in NC. (My husband is in the military)

  • @Sarah-sr8zw
    @Sarah-sr8zw Год назад +26

    l haven’t even watched yet but just wanted to say how much I appreciate y’all and respect the way you do your work on social media. You exude Christ in what you do and you are so grace-filled. ❤

  • @aaronsimmons5664
    @aaronsimmons5664 Год назад +12

    And THIS is why I keep on watching and supporting yall. I started back when you both were doing pranks on each other, I was there for them Sav thought Josh's dad didn't want them to get married, and all the rest of the funny stuff you did (still can't get over the post it notes episode). To watch where yall are at now is simply amazing and so motivating. #MuchLove

  • @JordanSophia
    @JordanSophia Год назад +2

    The throwbacks 🥹 been watching y’all for years now and I’ve loved seeing the growth. What y’all do is truly ministry! 🤍

  • @KelsShavon55
    @KelsShavon55 Год назад +8

    This was so raw and real! Y’all definitely don’t have to be this vulnerable, but y’all do. And I appreciate it! Josh I’m need you to get to your level of peace! That’s too long bruh! I think this next chapter going be it for you! Can’t wait till y’all announce what state! All the throwbacks were nice!!!!! Sav is snatched and body goals!!!! I love you guys soooo much!!!! 💚

  • @isabelleroy6606
    @isabelleroy6606 Год назад +21

    i just wanted to say i love you guys and wanted to say your guys are such good parents ❤ hope u have a great friday!!

  • @chanelle8905
    @chanelle8905 Год назад +1

    The editing on this is top tier 🔥🔥

  • @kristenclarke5113
    @kristenclarke5113 Год назад +2

    Love this🥺The way how you guys just openly communicate the issue at hand and are willing to fix and take steps to fix it.

  • @amberaguila2793
    @amberaguila2793 Год назад +2

    Thank you for your vulnerability 😭I totally understand when you said that your spiritual being has suffered in this season. And josh is correct- all we need is the realization. And isn’t that amazing how God is always right there waiting for our realization with open arms. He knows he we are human and He has already given us that grace. Hold tight to God and your marriage. These years when the babies are little are tough, but man they are worth it. Praying for you both and appreciate the authenticity. ✌️💜

  • @Nellbae
    @Nellbae Год назад

    I love how the whole video you were looking and speaking to each other, not just the camera. That made it feel so much more sincere for me. I simply love ya'lls dynamic! ❤

  • @angely9457
    @angely9457 Год назад +2

    Thank y’all for sharing this. I’m newly married and it’s so good to hear others have conversations like this. Marriage is ups and downs and growth. Too often I see the pretty on social media and never the rawness.

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 Год назад

      Scared to watch..r they ok? ✝ 🙏

  • @keciaanderson6317
    @keciaanderson6317 Год назад +2

    The wedding picture was beautiful

  • @kristac3120
    @kristac3120 Год назад +2

    The postpartum touch thing...YESSS!! I get so touched out from the toddler and 4 month old...

  • @lovethroughhim1575
    @lovethroughhim1575 Год назад +1

    The genuineness of your care and compassion for each other is beautiful. You too are really bestfriends which make a strong foundation for a good and healthy marriage. I just love the way yall love each other.
    Continued prayers for you and your family 🙏🏽❤️

  • @peteimbaha3568
    @peteimbaha3568 Год назад +2

    I love how clear this beautiful video is. I love how transparent you guys are. May God's greatest blessing continue to rest upon you guys..

  • @englarian1017
    @englarian1017 Год назад +5

    I wish I could like this multiple times! Thank you for sharing your hearts with each other and with us! 💕

  • @nontulondy9032
    @nontulondy9032 Год назад +3

    This and podcasts are so theraputic and not only for us but also for you both ...love you guys ❤❤👌🏾

  • @kaylaperdue2947
    @kaylaperdue2947 Год назад +2

    i love videos like this

  • @kimberlyalarcon9545
    @kimberlyalarcon9545 Год назад +1

    your guys vulnerability is so inspiring, yet shocking. nobody trully shows the harsh truths in communicating and you guys portrayed it in such a healthy way. i hope you continue to grow , allowing yall to show the world how to build healthy connections. so beautiful

  • @itskate2991
    @itskate2991 Год назад +1

    Awww the old clips are so cute. Its been so nice to watch you guys grow!!

  • @samayastar9318
    @samayastar9318 Год назад +7

    you guys are amazing! 💗 you are an inspiration

  • @luzarnebotha8763
    @luzarnebotha8763 Год назад

    Josh you better COME ONNNNNNNNN with the editing!🙌🏼👌🏼🔥🔥🔥

  • @wendywhite1928
    @wendywhite1928 Год назад +1

    Love you 2!
    I definitely feel your channel is a ministry! 🙏❤️🙏 thank you for all that you do for all of us!

  • @anathimobo2989
    @anathimobo2989 Год назад +2

    This is beautiful. Your marriage is beautiful ♥️

  • @Nia-bf1zi
    @Nia-bf1zi Год назад +4

    You guys make such a great family, you are doing great!!! Keep up the good work!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HeatherBDentureDiVa
    @HeatherBDentureDiVa Год назад

    When you make memories with your kids in one house. Omg I did that and moved and balled my eyes out and so did my kids lol shit was rough. You will get your grove back. After you give birth your exhausted mentally and physically and when your not use to being physical it's easy to stay in the habit. So I agree. Extra effort in date nights and cuddling before bed and love notes on posted notes all over the house to make your spouse smile ❤❤

  • @outofthegardenpod
    @outofthegardenpod Год назад

    Honest the random clips of you two really were very connective. It’s how you two are being real about your individual selfs and marriage in the now and then the clips are sincere memories in between. It just resembles how no matter what, you both love one another and that God is good, in those small yet joyous moments in between this crazy yet beautiful thing that is life. This was really beautiful.

  • @sarahstatt1242
    @sarahstatt1242 Год назад

    My husband and I are 2 years married and have a 13 month old. We didn’t get a chance to really know each other as a married couple because we didn’t really live with each other before hand and we had pregnant so fast (so thankful and blessed tho)we’ve really struggled in this season with our marriage and how we treat each other but giving it to God and being in spiritual books about marriage and how to go through these stages has been a large help. We also moved provinces when our child was 2 months old. Feeling that happiness that Josh felt is something we still haven’t really felt with how many lows have come through. Praying for your marriage to stay strong ❤️

  • @kikimccray8088
    @kikimccray8088 Год назад

    7:47 a worddddd😭🙏🏾 definitely the season I’m in

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins Год назад +3

    Love to see how you two have grown together over the years. The editing on this was elite to say the least, Josh. You two are a beautiful couple ❤

  • @tiffaneeroberts1350
    @tiffaneeroberts1350 Год назад

    I just love the video style it just makes your channel so unique!!

  • @JosianneMarcum
    @JosianneMarcum Год назад +1

    I’m a new subscriber, and I really loved this!

    • @joshandsav
      @joshandsav  Год назад +2

      We’re glad you’re here!!

  • @heatherexline7517
    @heatherexline7517 Год назад

    I freaking love y'all ❤ you should do more vlogs or day in the life ❤😊 I love watching. You guys with the babies and just doing day to day life

  • @helenandakondja4957
    @helenandakondja4957 Год назад +1

    I like that josh is honest,,,, and open about saying out his feelings and thoughts and Sav takes them well,,,, Good keep it up my people

  • @MissJTV
    @MissJTV Год назад +2

    Been waiting for this all day!!🥰

  • @hattiesimpson6941
    @hattiesimpson6941 Год назад +1

    This was really cool to watch!

  • @resilientred1699
    @resilientred1699 Год назад

    Take it from someone who will celebrate 35 years in a few weeks, hills and valleys are normal. Sometimes the hills are really high and they valleys are really low.
    Keep checking in with one another regularly like you’re doing and keep each other as the TOP priority. Wishing you well as you continue riding this beautiful wave of marriage. It’s hard, but so rewarding.❤

  • @teliciafayyeB
    @teliciafayyeB Год назад +1

    This was so sweet to watch ! & encouraging, as a young married couple also becoming parents soon , this was soo good to watch !!

  • @naomiwalker4130
    @naomiwalker4130 Год назад

    I know this isn’t really taught in mainstream Christianity but I hear you guys talking about happiness and I promise you true peace comes when you are able to feel the lows knowing that they’re for a reason and learn to see and feel the joy because both lows and highs are incredibly important in life. No good without bad. No high without low. No rich without poor. No happy without sad. No up without down. No cold without warm. It’s all important and the constant awareness of that brings peace which is a far better feeling than happiness

  • @wandarodriguez7057
    @wandarodriguez7057 Год назад +2

    God bless you both and those precious little girls 🙏💗💗💗💗

  • @earnestsingleton7596
    @earnestsingleton7596 Год назад

    Josh and Sav your honest and frank communication strengthens your relationship. Keep the lines of communication open and be there while giving each other space and grace to be yourself and spend time alone and as a couple. Keep in mind, God is always with you just reach out with your mind and invite him in. Josh, as a man, husband and father we feel pulled in so many directions at times. Stop take a deep breathe and reach out to God and talk to him, he is always listening and don't be afraid to tell him what you feel, fear, want and share your burden with him and listen with a open heart and mind and he will respond. You have a great life partner, cherish each other and share and be in the moments.

  • @christinestone9582
    @christinestone9582 Год назад

    ugh I love y’all sitting at the kid’s table (we have the same one). I love this so much! this inspires me to do one with my husband. we’ve been married for 4.5 years, two boys, expecting baby 3!

  • @FitWithBritt
    @FitWithBritt Год назад

    Love this so much!! My husband and I of 11 years just had a baby so when you talked about making time for each other that really hit me. Just an idea incase you need some inspo, we now set monthly date nights - regardless of what’s going on in life. It doesn’t have to be out and about, because let’s be real with babies that’s hard 😅 You can do a couples massage night at home, home movie night with all the schnackkks, drinks and board games, paint and sip etc etc. I’ve been a long time silent follower but I love watching your journey unfold ❤️

  • @hlygrl08
    @hlygrl08 Год назад

    its the communication for meee🥺💗💗

  • @stacey8486
    @stacey8486 Год назад +1

    I love the throwback clips. Sav looks hot on the bike ride

  • @DominiqueElyse
    @DominiqueElyse Год назад

    I admire the relationship and friendship between you both. Loved this sit down you had with each other. Love you guys 🤎

  • @Dewalsh929
    @Dewalsh929 Год назад +2

    Being a lot older than you Guy's i think you two are Absolutely Amazing & there is hope that my sons will find their forever love, keep Loving each other keep the lines of communication open, don't forget to set at least one night for Date night just for you two and always remember KEEP GOD FIRST SEEMS THAT YOU ALREADY DO WITH THIS BEING SAID KEEP BEING THE GREAT parents that you are.

  • @synthialovesSLOTHES
    @synthialovesSLOTHES Год назад +2

    Yay new vlog!! I hope yall have a great wknd excited for the podcast on Monday! Also Sav definitely won that draft! Sorry team Josh! 😮😅❤

  • @tahlia4189
    @tahlia4189 Год назад

    Keeping your precious little fam in my prayers - you're the best!!

  • @DelaneyWalker
    @DelaneyWalker Год назад

    I remember the proposal 🥺 excited for this video

  • @ncnevans
    @ncnevans Год назад

    Love you guys, thanks for letting us in on your convo! Loved the clips ❤❤

  • @HeatherBDentureDiVa
    @HeatherBDentureDiVa Год назад

    The more you get older I feel like my thirties was really even though it's horribly medical why's a guy like 5 times but mentalize maturity I feel like everything as a component was better in my thirties then my whole life. I feel like my 30s I feel in more control and everything is better

  • @mikeblock9418
    @mikeblock9418 Год назад +1

    Soooooo..... I got Oregon because of family ties, Arizona or Nevada due to the RUclipsrs new destination craze, Hawaii as the wildcard due to the Rolls we saw in the first announcement video 🤔🤷‍♂

  • @wayedenekidd-slydell8272
    @wayedenekidd-slydell8272 Год назад +1

    Very authentic video!!!!!

  • @kimmyrodgers1193
    @kimmyrodgers1193 Год назад +5

    Love your family ❤

  • @ellarose_21
    @ellarose_21 Год назад +3

    I love you guys and you guys are amazing!! ❤

  • @JessiTianna
    @JessiTianna Год назад

    You guys are great. Sav, being touched out is what comes with bringing a mama. Post partum can definitely be tough. But don’t forget the things that brought you two close in the first place.

  • @marlin6482
    @marlin6482 Год назад +1

    I love you guys so much! 🥺❤️❤️ you guys are amazing.

  • @TheBookOfJames
    @TheBookOfJames Год назад +1

    This was great!

  • @shanaalisab2691
    @shanaalisab2691 Год назад

    Loved this, it felt so nostalgic like old Josh & Sav before kids. A little flashback lol. Praise God for where He’s doing in you guys life and where He is about to take you guys!

  • @missvsunshine7756
    @missvsunshine7756 Год назад

    LOVE THE LOVE YOU ALL HAVE FOR EACH OTHER AND ALWAYS🫂 acknowledging God letting Him be first and foremost in your lives blessings Savannah keep your hair long love it🙌🙌🙌

  • @maryrain2162
    @maryrain2162 Год назад

    I love your transparency!!! You guys are such a beautiful family. Keep trusting in the Lord...He loves you more than you could ever imagine❤❤❤❤ I pray for you always🙏🙏🙏

  • @debs.213
    @debs.213 Год назад +3

    I love this so much! I want to have a relationship like this with all the fun and craziness and bicker added onto it :) ❤❤

  • @alyssadunny4644
    @alyssadunny4644 Год назад

    My favorite couple in the world
    Love how real and raw y’all are ❤

  • @LadyY2U
    @LadyY2U Год назад

    What a Nice video & reflection ❤ I hope that this touches 1soul & a marriage for inspiration 😊 God Bless you two & your union 🙏

  • @willtangwu
    @willtangwu Год назад

    The flashback clips 🥺❤

  • @doreencampbell2990
    @doreencampbell2990 Год назад

    Marriage is arduous; good to see you guys taking time to analyze the marriage and relationships. Also, acknowledging each other’s differences and perspectives of marriage. Good luck and lots of blessings

  • @nickiebledsoe6302
    @nickiebledsoe6302 Год назад +1

    I love you guys! Y'all are awesome! Amazing! Beautiful! All of the above! 🙂❤️

  • @GraceNielda
    @GraceNielda Год назад

    The throwback picture 🥲🤍

  • @jessicastewart6091
    @jessicastewart6091 Год назад

    With a God centered marriage, you two will conquer anything. Always remember, but first we kneel. Never give up on what he joined together. You two are beautiful souls.

  • @annarukijan7678
    @annarukijan7678 Год назад

    Me and my husband didn’t do “it” until I guess 5 or more months postpartum and because it was uncomfortable for me it was only possible after 1 year really when my period came back. I wasn’t into it at all at that time I was fully breastfeeding too that maybe the reason why. It was hard on my husband but we now at 19 months do really, really good and working on baby number 2 😊

  • @MambaKizioto
    @MambaKizioto Год назад

    This is one of the authentic, if not the only authentic channel on RUclips these days…1 ❤

  • @desiree5774
    @desiree5774 Год назад

    Love you guys. I can't imagine the struggle that you guys are going through having a new born and a toddler but just always remember your guys love for one another and most importantly God's love for each one of you. God comes first before anything else ❤ 🙏

  • @ChordNerd408
    @ChordNerd408 Год назад

    Love seeing the clips of the old days…

  • @roselyndiaz2744
    @roselyndiaz2744 Год назад

    A couple seconds into the video but just wanted to say that I love y’all sm. You guys are so genuine and authentic. I see a lot of couples here on RUclips but keep coming back to you guys bc of the best friend dynamic. Many blessings to you guys and the babies 🙏🏼💕

  • @SavedbyGrace461
    @SavedbyGrace461 Год назад

    You two got this ❤️❤️❤️Love y'all

  • @sammilee1232
    @sammilee1232 Год назад

    I cried. For a man to just notice and say me and u time is beautiful ❤

  • @AB-ChristianFoster
    @AB-ChristianFoster Год назад

    So amazing to hear y’all make goals for your future! Take time for each other and enjoy the next chapter God has for your family! Stay true to Him always!! He will never lead you guys astray. 🥰♥️ Abiyah.

  • @margaretmurphy2127
    @margaretmurphy2127 Год назад

    Love the honesty ! ❤

  • @waynemiller7692
    @waynemiller7692 Год назад

    Love the update stay blessed ✝️✝️💟💟

  • @aureecee3781
    @aureecee3781 Год назад

    Not the ikea table 😂 can’t wait to watch. I pray y’all are genuinely doing well.

  • @tchiquita
    @tchiquita Год назад

    Y’all literally have raised my expectations for a relationship

  • @lente14
    @lente14 Год назад +1

    Love this content ❤

  • @kenadihawkins6982
    @kenadihawkins6982 Год назад

    Weird question : what happened to the song you were writing about Riella , they sounded so gooodd🥲! Love yall

  • @here.comes.tiffany
    @here.comes.tiffany Год назад +1

    Sav you look beautiful ❤❤❤❤ wow girl 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Oluwasemiloore
    @Oluwasemiloore Год назад

    Loved this vid❤

  • @jaypaladin-havesmartswilll5508

    I and along with the subscribers want to see you guys stay in love forever but there is a long road in our life, we hope, so the world and our environment is ever changing. I wish both of you welcome that change as a loving couple.

  • @julianicholexox
    @julianicholexox Год назад

    LOVE you guys.. but so off topic & I have to ask because I’m obsessed… Sav where did you get your flannellll??😍 lmfao

  • @TunTun1229
    @TunTun1229 Год назад

    You guys "literally" are soulmates for sure!. ❤ p
    Period!😊

  • @Hrts4Suzie
    @Hrts4Suzie Год назад

    Aww I love you guys so much❤❤

  • @_tavonsister
    @_tavonsister Год назад

    love you guys.. ❤

  • @Sunflowerlvr88
    @Sunflowerlvr88 Год назад +1

    If you're coming to Florida reconsider.. it's waaaaaay to expensive