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  • @tokamartin2175
    @tokamartin2175 7 месяцев назад +123

    Hey doll! Yes ma’am I am watching wayyy from Texas(USA) and Iwas so shocked and happy to see I was posted on your video. I couldn’t wait to show my husband You are such a beautiful & kind person.God bless you & you will make a beautiful mother /parents🙏🏾❤️💃🏼

  • @dianandapewa7902
    @dianandapewa7902 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤ indeed, there is no guarantee in this life, but we owe ourselves to be well motivated and work on our goals and aspirations in this life we live in.
    Working towards what one wants to achieve or accomplish is very important as an individual. we have dreams. Why don't we live by doing what we love ❤️ thank you

  • @hlejune12
    @hlejune12 6 месяцев назад +1

    Kgomotso and Babalwa look alike they look like they are sisters
    I'm so happy for Mmaneo congratulations to her
    And thank you for the premium content ❤

  • @khangeziwebuthelezi
    @khangeziwebuthelezi 6 месяцев назад

    Ahh Gugu thank you for that advise about being proactive... I believe that the narrative of my life matters to me and me only. Can't be influenced by societal expectations or norm. Thank you sisi, I'm taking each and every word!!!😊😊😊

  • @officially_mrs_m
    @officially_mrs_m 6 месяцев назад +1

    I share the values you have and that was probably what contributed to me subscribing to your channel. I love what you shared towards the end.

  • @evehawa4299
    @evehawa4299 6 месяцев назад

    That's the goal gorl.Take your time and drive your life yhe way you want it❤❤.Sending love from my cahnnel🫶🫶

  • @SindiswaGebhuza
    @SindiswaGebhuza 16 дней назад

    I really loved this vlog because it inspired me to stick to my dreams of being financially stable and married with kids

  • @ntlokosipho8095
    @ntlokosipho8095 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤ thank for the advice

  • @zuziwenkuzo2328
    @zuziwenkuzo2328 7 месяцев назад

    Dramatic exit ❤😂😂❤ sana love those lights will definitely get them

  • @lethabomokobake
    @lethabomokobake 6 месяцев назад

    Congratulations on your collaboration with Shein cc❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @nompu123
    @nompu123 7 месяцев назад +278

    I agree with you Gugu . I am 42 not married I vowed to myself I will never have kids out of wedlock. I had a perfect childhood, my parents loved each other so much and loved us so much . Till this day don’t regret what I chose for myself. If no marriage then no children.

    • @wewemhlaba7593
      @wewemhlaba7593 6 месяцев назад +13

      This is so encouraging❤Thanks for sharing Nompu

    • @BoitumeloMoikangwe
      @BoitumeloMoikangwe 6 месяцев назад +13

      I am go glad you kept this promise to yourself. This is the same promise I made to myself and I am so happy I kept it. I am now married and have my first child in wedlock.

    • @wewemhlaba7593
      @wewemhlaba7593 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@BoitumeloMoikangwe Congrats sis😊❤

    • @sharonmmonatau730
      @sharonmmonatau730 6 месяцев назад +16

      This is soo encouraging. I'm 28 and vowed the same. my childhood wasn't perfect hence why I'm striving for a better one for my kids.🥰🥰🥰

    • @nontochiya7068
      @nontochiya7068 6 месяцев назад +7

      I am 41 years old and I am also on the very same boat as you my dear.

  • @aurorakarina9844
    @aurorakarina9844 7 месяцев назад +253

    I know I don't usually comment on your vlogs but I have watched most of your videos and I must say you have encouraged me to be humble, enjoy life and always depend on God for his greater bleesings and plan and I am grateful for your videos that encourages me a lot to be and do good much love of a South African living in Angola

    • @katlegoseitlhamo8065
      @katlegoseitlhamo8065 7 месяцев назад +1

    • @hileninaanda7431
      @hileninaanda7431 6 месяцев назад

      You are an amazing woman and a very beautiful wife to your husband and I think you two will be amazing parents to your future kids ❤❤❤

  • @mrs_phahlamohlaka
    @mrs_phahlamohlaka 6 месяцев назад +31

    And it’s soooo worth the wait hunny!! I got married at age 24 in 2014, my husband and I had set out our goals, the next year we bought our first property 2bedroom townhouse and after that we started travelling the world. In 2021 (7years later) we had our son and the very same year we bought our 5bedroom house in a Wildlife estate. I was just a girl from ekasi who had dreams and I made sure they come true. And I vowed not to lower my principals and values, it’s worth it! ❤ beautiful vlog

    • @nondumisopooe3229
      @nondumisopooe3229 5 месяцев назад +1

      I got married at 24 in 2015 yes I was traditionally married earlier then that but the white wedding was in 2015. I love how you explained it some of us grow up together in marriage because we met very young and set goals as a couple. It's beautiful to be hitting those milestones together.

    • @Caroline_Kat
      @Caroline_Kat 4 месяца назад +2

      Wow, you are all inspiring me. I'm 22 and have always felt a rush to get married and have kids but I'm glad more women are comfortable enough to wait, I love this

    • @mrs_phahlamohlaka
      @mrs_phahlamohlaka 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Caroline_Kat 🤗Don’t rush to avoid making irreversible mistakes. Family and marriage can be soooo beautiful when done right.

  • @Yogihlali
    @Yogihlali 7 месяцев назад +67

    I love this so much because I’m 23 and never had a boyfriend. When ever i tell my friends or cousins that I don’t date because i will never settle for the “ all men cheat” or “no men is loyal” thing, when i tell them that mna I don’t believe that and it’s fine ke I’m not gonna date just for dating, I’m gonna wait.
    They always lie or try to make me feel bad about never dating at my “big age”. Nam i have learned too keep my mouth shut.
    But i was starting to believe them and succumb to just settling for any guy but you motivated me so much sis❤❤❤❤

    • @MissLebo24
      @MissLebo24 7 месяцев назад +9

      Listen babes, keep going. There are still good men out there and God will bless you with one. Keep waiting for marriage, it will be worth it😊❤

    • @ChidoChamapiwa
      @ChidoChamapiwa 6 месяцев назад +3

      Wonderful, ask the Lord for your destiny partner. He will do it for you. Keeping your virginity for him is worth a lifetime to him. But remember to remain humble in marriage.🎉

    • @sherylneptune
      @sherylneptune 6 месяцев назад +1

      Oh my word I hate that rhetoric because I'd rather be single

    • @nomzamomasombuka1834
      @nomzamomasombuka1834 6 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I'm proud of you. Please keep that vision alive,its possible ,and pray about it ❤❤❤❤

  • @sibulelemzizi8745
    @sibulelemzizi8745 7 месяцев назад +111

    Hun do you...i am 35years and i still say i am not having a child out of wedlock and im sticking to it. It doesnt have to make sense to the next person its not a group assignment

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  7 месяцев назад +18

      It’s really not a group assignment hey!!! It’s personal!!!

    • @saneleabigail6298
      @saneleabigail6298 7 месяцев назад +3

      Me & You together my love. Soze Mtase❤

    • @valerieval-veeshiviri203
      @valerieval-veeshiviri203 7 месяцев назад +3

      I'm all for planned kids in a marriage ❤
      Loved seeing you with your friends

    • @AlexisMagolego
      @AlexisMagolego 7 месяцев назад +1

      I agree

    • @KaBoikago
      @KaBoikago 7 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely. I have a BabyGirl however, I would never encourage anyone to have a baby out of wedlock.

  • @Nonjabulo_Malinga
    @Nonjabulo_Malinga 7 месяцев назад +129

    Gugu that’s such an important topic you spoke about in the end and thank you for speaking about it. As a young girl, that was my vision also however I fell off the wagon and had a child out of wedlock at 33. I got back on the wagon, and I am waiting for marriage to have more kids because I’d love to have more. I’m just here to encourage someone who fell off the wagon like me. GOD FORGIVES AND GOD RESTORES. Don’t give up on the life you once imagined, even if you may have made some mistakes (and our kids are not the mistakes, our actions were the mistakes because it is God’s divine plan for us to have children in wedlock), God can turn any situation around if you recommit your life to Him and doing things HIS way♥️

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  7 месяцев назад +32

      Thank you Nonjabulo, you are such an inspiration!!!! Sana life happens to the best of us!!!! You are so right kids are not mistakes!!! I love how passionate you are about your life and taking ownership of whatever happens!!!! You are my type of woman 🙏🏽😘

    • @reshoketsoenobuhle8041
      @reshoketsoenobuhle8041 7 месяцев назад

      Amen Sisi ❤

    • @soultherapysoul9022
      @soultherapysoul9022 6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this beautiful message Nonjabulo ❤️

  • @lehlogonolomathitja4023
    @lehlogonolomathitja4023 7 месяцев назад +95

    I had the same vision for my life, at 27 there was still no kid, no husband and some people would even accuse me of aborting😢. Fast forward to today I am married to a great man, have two beautiful baby girls, living a life i used to pray about❤

    • @tshepisAtricia
      @tshepisAtricia 6 месяцев назад +4

      Mhmm you sound like a motivation❤ because I am currently 27 with no child or permanent job, yet I just met an amazing partner and I wish all the best for myself. Currently battling with avoiding having kids topic .

    • @nondumisomabaso4044
      @nondumisomabaso4044 6 месяцев назад +1

      Been there

    • @ReneuweSeabata
      @ReneuweSeabata 6 месяцев назад +3

      Im 42 still no children

    • @lehlogonolomathitja4023
      @lehlogonolomathitja4023 6 месяцев назад +1

      @tshepisAtricia all the best babe. In His own time God will make it happen for you ❤

    • @lehlogonolomathitja4023
      @lehlogonolomathitja4023 6 месяцев назад

      @nondumisomabaso4044 not a great place to be at. But once God restores, its as though you never went through that phase

  • @nonzwakaziprecious9507
    @nonzwakaziprecious9507 6 месяцев назад +33

    Girl I was going for Reed dance until 28 years of age, people were thinking mybe I am a lesbian. My Grandmother use to tell me that I need to pray for a man, now I'm married and waiting to have a child in my marriage,like we are growing together and it feels so good each day. I'm so really proud of my younger self ❤❤❤

  • @12Nomzamo
    @12Nomzamo 6 месяцев назад +21

    When u spoke about having children I could relate because my friends had kids in their early 20s some out of wedlock while I was waiting for marriage. And God came through 🙌 with an amazing husband and 3 beautiful kids . So take your time Gugu and you will be an amazing mom.

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  6 месяцев назад +2

      This is so inspiring Nomzamo thank you for sharing ❤️🙏🏽

  • @MokoenaV
    @MokoenaV 7 месяцев назад +52

    You know Sine the last part of your vlog touched me because I always said I don't want a kid till am married because I was born out of wedlock and I know the trauma that it did for me personally and I told myself I would want to be married before I have a kid am 32 last year was diagnosed with cervical cancer but am ohk now ppl where talking about how it would have been better if I had a kid atleast and am still sticking 2 I know my child will be born in marriage that is why God even allowed me to beat the cancer ❤ and thank for sharing ur story because I think the is many of us who thought that this principle in life we have is crazy ❤

  • @Ncebakazi_Falani
    @Ncebakazi_Falani 7 месяцев назад +22

    I am married now with 2 girls and that is what I said that I will not have kids out of wedlock. People would say so many things because I got married at 34 and then had my first child at 36 and another one at 38. Words are powerful

  • @hakhakhisibadela
    @hakhakhisibadela 6 месяцев назад +16

    Yooooo 😭😭📍 I’m can completely relate with what Gugu is saying, I completed my Honours in 2019 and haven’t gotten any permanent job I feel stuck and seeing your peers growth can be challenging.
    I’m 27 this year,have nothing to show for and but I have a vision of how i want my life to be, it’s literally the opposite 😊
    but I stand by this word when time is right I lord will make it happen Isaiah 60:22. ❤❤❤❤

  • @KhethukuthulaMncube
    @KhethukuthulaMncube 6 месяцев назад +19

    So inspirational Gugz, I love it here. As a 29 yr old man, I'm still trusting God for the life He's destined for me to live. We're almost there and this video has been so encouraging. Abantu noma bangathini, we just want better for our children, the next generation ezokhuliswa ngothando and ikhuliswe emindenini ephilayo, emakhaya afudumele.❤

  • @dimphomaponyane
    @dimphomaponyane 7 месяцев назад +29

    The topic at the end is so necessary. There is nothing that can complicate ones life like having a child with someone you are not married to (being a baby mama or baby daddy). That is something I preach to my little sister all the time. Well done to 16 year old Gugu👏.

  • @vusaninefhere3524
    @vusaninefhere3524 7 месяцев назад +92

    One thing about RUclips huns ,they support each other.no jealousy, no animosity.just support and good vibes.to think weeks ago twitter was busy trashing youtubers. And there was Sims Wright speaking so well about youtubers and advocating for youtubers.this is lovely❤❤❤❤

  • @panatsolo2432
    @panatsolo2432 7 месяцев назад +47

    I love women that are confident and supportive of each other. Having watched all of them individually it makes so much sense that they gravitated towards each other.

  • @KeleForm5
    @KeleForm5 7 месяцев назад +18

    Congratulations on the Shein Collab, MrsK🎉🎉How I wish this "16year old" talk could be taken to a local (mxd/ galz) school.
    I'm turning 50 in October, single mother to a 22 year old beautiful young man, with Learning disability and studies Sound Engineering.
    To this day marriage still scares me but as a 16 year old, I told myself to study, accomplish things, be independent and travel the world. I got a job after graduating at 20 had my son at age 27, no regrets!! I lived with my principles and values❤❤
    Kudos to you and Do you!!! ❤

  • @ToniciaLG
    @ToniciaLG 6 месяцев назад +15

    Thank you so much for the last part, I'm 31 turning 32 in an amazing relationship not married(yet) 😂, no kids and everyone is putting me under pressure that I'm getting old and I need to either get married or have kids... Thank you so much for the talk, I wish it was live so that we could engage with you, I've been responding to you say 'Right it's not about them it's about yourself!' Love you so much Big Sister ❤❤❤❤ 53:39

  • @NaturalRhythms_00
    @NaturalRhythms_00 6 месяцев назад +5

    I have the same stance Gugu! I am 35 years still waiting for a good marriage, a good husband and kids. I have been getting the same negative reaction from people since my early 20s. But because being a single mother was never in my plans...I will wait.....if I am Dululu because "life is not perfect "it's fine..... ....Love you Gugu!!

  • @kasonde21
    @kasonde21 6 месяцев назад +6

    Am a single mommy to a beautiful daughter and her daddy is a married man to say the least..I have made alot of bad choices and quite a number of mistakes in my Life..what I envisioned in when I was a young girl in my teens has never come to light..but I haven't given up..I will make it right and I'll keep pushing for a better me and a bright future..
    You always inspire me and many Sis❤❤❤I love you for this and you are so authentic.. please don't stop being You sweet sis..
    Give my love to maneo and say congratulations to her❤❤
    I wish to meet you one day in person.
    You and your hubby wer God chosen.. blessings and long life upon you🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤❤

  • @ayandamtyebi6825
    @ayandamtyebi6825 7 месяцев назад +6

    Maneo pregnancy celebration was so beautiful, y'all are thoughtful friends beautiful to watch ❤. Congratulations on working with Shein, your hardwork is definitely paying off. The family building topic was so welcomed❤

  • @lutriciaramalepe3741
    @lutriciaramalepe3741 6 месяцев назад +7

    Wow Sine I'm lost for words. That was exactly my wish since I was in my teens. I am now 36 and childless cause I promised myself I will never have kids out of wedlock. Though my family are always pressurizing me to have kids. My wish still stands and thanks again for the words of motivation. Much appreciated😊❤

  • @vuyiswamfusi9450
    @vuyiswamfusi9450 6 месяцев назад +8

    ❤❤❤ As a 20 year old that is watching this thank you for sharing such profound advice. You are inspiring 😭❤️

  • @ReeHL
    @ReeHL 7 месяцев назад +9

    I hope you are aware how your talks are so motivational ,not only that they renew our hope in our dreams. You are a treasure sisG❤️🫶🏽🥹and you are loved yeva

  • @MorongwaMahanyele-lv4ng
    @MorongwaMahanyele-lv4ng 7 месяцев назад +14

    Am gonna show my daughter the message you shared,I believe she needs to hear it over and over again from different women.❤

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  7 месяцев назад +3

      Yup young girls need to be proactive rather than reactive 🙏🏽❤️

    • @MorongwaMahanyele-lv4ng
      @MorongwaMahanyele-lv4ng 7 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you sesi Gugu on behalf of people from kwandebele,we are blessed to have you as an inspiration and our daughters/young girls are lucky to have you to look up to.(it's believable cos you come from where they come from).God bless you mama💐

  • @ziyanda6521
    @ziyanda6521 7 месяцев назад +7

    So happy that Babalwa has also found her tribe, you guys go so well together ❤. Can't wait for more content from the 4 ladies

  • @AllthingsFudy
    @AllthingsFudy 6 месяцев назад +5

    Hey Gugu,
    NEVER and I NEVER feel bad for planning your family and children. God heard your prayers. I was once told maybe I can’t bear children and that’s why I turned 28 without a child. I’m 32 now with a 1 year old which was planned and we are about to get married. Plan everything with God❤😘

  • @tshidimolema3109
    @tshidimolema3109 7 месяцев назад +5

    Mmaneo is so beautiful. Loved this surprise you put together for her. Yall are my faves❤ lovely vlog thank you

  • @TlholoheloTlopo-pf6hf
    @TlholoheloTlopo-pf6hf 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have a child out of wedlock and I’m not offended because I clearly understand what you saying and it’s actually true❤️❤️

  • @TTmawaza
    @TTmawaza 6 месяцев назад +2

    True growing up in a single parent household is not ideal. However marriage is also not a guarantee. People divorce. People pass away. Life is not certain.

  • @nontochiya7068
    @nontochiya7068 6 месяцев назад +3

    Wow Gugz...I was literally touched by your words because I am also amongst the ladies whom wish to have a child/children within the marriage, reason being I grew up in that situation and I saw how my parents kept our family warm and cared for..Tnx alot for the vlog...these are for you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    Congrats to Mmaneo

  • @yolisapoto7695
    @yolisapoto7695 6 месяцев назад +4

    GUGU❣!! Thank you for the talks after all your vlogs, you have no idea how refreshing it is to watch you and just relate!!! I too share your visions regarding a strong and God fearing family structure, so thank you for sharing to reach so many other young girls. May God continue to bless you and your platforms so that you can keep on inspiring & motivating our youth! Sana you are a gem and LOVED❣

  • @EsihleMahlombe
    @EsihleMahlombe 6 месяцев назад +3

    Sis Gugu, you have a golden heart, you are by far the most grateful person I’ve ever came across. And you have a beautiful life, one for the books. Curated by you, your desires and principles. Pay no mind to what people say or think. I love you and your content. Thank you for the hard work 💋🤎🌻.

  • @zoejeza2804
    @zoejeza2804 6 месяцев назад +4

    If people on twitter can do what South African RUclipsrs are doing they will fail so bad. I mean the level of consistency, excellence, money spent to pull out a great content for people to say twaddle about SA'can youtubers it just means that you guys are doing the best its just that we dont know how to celebrate our own.
    Thank you Gugu-bite for being you, giving us thebest content sana and thats on period. 😊❤

  • @MaMbele
    @MaMbele 6 месяцев назад +2

    I am catching up on 2024, I took a break since your last vlog in December. Of course you never disappoint ❤❤❤

  • @velly2873
    @velly2873 6 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Gugu, you are such an inspiration... I also didn't want to fall pregnant out of wedlock and I got married at the age of 26, fell pregnant the same year. You go girl and of course God will continue to bless you with everything your heart desires... Lots of love ke sana

  • @lindazenzile3819
    @lindazenzile3819 6 месяцев назад +2

    Really a sensitive topic right there and as much as I have a child out of wedlock I couldn’t agree with you more on this one. Perfectly said Gugu👌🏼. Also a person might decide to have a kid despite being single but the fact is, children needs their fathers. Thank you Gugu 🙏🏻💗

  • @karabomokobodi3139
    @karabomokobodi3139 7 месяцев назад +3

    Guys Guguz husband when he sees food by his wife am telling 😂😂 one thing i know is that he enjoys his food

  • @therealkamogelom
    @therealkamogelom 6 месяцев назад +3

    43:51 I get this aswell alot, my peers have 2 or 3 kids at age 32 and I have one and when I say, I am not having a second baby before I get a house, I am still renting a backroom and I even said this to my partner that no second kid before a house and ppl will always say " you think you better, at this day n age your peers are growing their families " Mina now, I am working on getting a home ❤so I get what you mean and things are looking good I have prayed and God is now doing the things😅

  • @Boki_Baby
    @Boki_Baby 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm only 19 but when you spoke about kids I could relate. People always tell me ukuthi "Those who say they don't want kids are the ones who'll have many kids" like they always criticize me not knowing that the reason behind me not wanting kids is because of the way my mom raised me and having to grow up with an absent and actually having to fear ukuthi what if I treat my kids the same way my mom treats me in future, what if the father of my kids decides to not be a part of my kids lives, some of my friends even cutted me off because of me not having kids like them😭❤️

  • @TinasheChodeva
    @TinasheChodeva 6 месяцев назад +4

    Yoooh the last part was very emotional for me...😢 Thank you Gugu for being you authentic and principled.. l'm glad we still have people like you...who stands with what they believe in...16 year old Gugu thank for not letting down future Gugu..wish you all the best in your motherhood journey...may God continue to guide you and give you your hearts desires ❤️❤️

  • @puseletsomakhanya6571
    @puseletsomakhanya6571 7 месяцев назад +3

    I am turning 23 this year and I’ve told myself over and over that I don’t want to be a baby mama or even get married just because I got pregnant 😂. I want to a stable life first with my future partner and my planned kids will come after. That’s my vision and principles I will live with till it all comes to life😊. So really there is nothing wrong with wanting to plan your life the way you want it to be🤞🏾. Love you sis Gugu😊❤️

  • @M4_MelissaM
    @M4_MelissaM 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Gugu, I have started watching your channel since about last year November when you were still on your quest for 100k! I enjoy watching you so much! I have always wanted to start my own channel, so today I finally created this account a few minutes ago and you were the first one I followed, so now 3 accounts are following you in my household (my original, my fiancé's an this new one lol). I have made the first commitment which is creating the account, I will let you know when I upload my first video. Just know that you inspire me so much. I have lost soooo much in my life that now I am fighting for mine with God on my side. Thank you Gugu, thank you so much!

  • @MmaMeso
    @MmaMeso 6 месяцев назад +2

    Oh man !!! That message to the 16 year old you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤…. I love it!!! Congratulations for making it!!!😊

  • @leratoncapayi
    @leratoncapayi 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤ Thank you so much for the last part. This is me and people think that I'm crazy for wanting such for myself and family (I don't have it yet but believing that I will). The pressure is too much. These are conversations we should be having. Thank you. A needed reminder of my "why". Why I chose to wait and still choosing to wait, as old as I am, 34. Thank you.

  • @luciamatsabe6989
    @luciamatsabe6989 7 месяцев назад +4

    Yes wena girl...tell that little 16 year old self that her babies are coming soon soon. May God meet you at the point of ur needs❤❤❤❤

  • @graceful19
    @graceful19 7 месяцев назад +4

    I had the same idea as U on adulthood approach when I was growing. I got married to an unconditionally loving husband & we now have two wonderful boy kids together. We love travelling to other countries with the kids to create memories, I feel that family is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I'm not as well up as U are Gugu, but our little family is well cushioned & we are taking our steps to greater success. I believe that if U are a principled lady, then you will definitely aim your goals. I also look back to my sixteen self & all I do is smile & feel so proud of myself. Thanks for your content & and I wish U all the best hun, continue shining coz the world needs people like U. ❤❤❤

  • @rebeccachaka8058
    @rebeccachaka8058 7 месяцев назад +3

    Best part about your vlogs is that last part when we get to have our heart to heart moments. Bet that's why everyone watches till the end. Keep up with the good work momma❤❤❤

  • @yolisamalo2681
    @yolisamalo2681 5 месяцев назад +1

    The message to your 16 year old self was really beautiful and inspiring, thank you for video😘❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jovisnyakato4489
    @jovisnyakato4489 6 месяцев назад +2

    That talk about kids just got me so firm in my principles. That is me, get married officially, and then get planned children. That's how I have planned it, on top of that cohabiting is not on my to do list 😂😂 A guy that was pursuing me lately didn't get it. I am now happily single....

  • @nobuhlemethembe5966
    @nobuhlemethembe5966 6 месяцев назад +3

    The last words are so motivating ❤I'm turning 22,

  • @sesimotau6640
    @sesimotau6640 6 месяцев назад +2

    It inspires yo hear someone you know personally share reality if life. Mine I was promised got pregnant then life happend but I'm content that even if things didn't turn out the way I envisaged I still manage to regain my principles. Single mother of 14yrs old and am not going back to pregnancy until O said I do, no more engagement and lobola

  • @nomshadohope2427
    @nomshadohope2427 7 месяцев назад +1

    you resemble a good ROLE MODEL for young women like myself. growing up without someone to look up to because the norm has always been IMBOKODO is a Single woman who struggles through raising kids. That is not all glam the way it is glorified. I was raised by a single parent and honestly i could attest how traumatic that was. I was a child born out of the wedlock and hardly ever felt welcomed into my paternal family to this day even decided to distance myself because it's emotionally painful. My mom is going through years of therapy because of the trauma of being a single young mom and we felt the heights of it because she would take it out on us. i dont want to subject my kids to that.

  • @kefilwebonokoane7682
    @kefilwebonokoane7682 6 месяцев назад +1

    So, mna with my 1st I had told myself that I will never have a child without a permanent job. With my second, I told myself that I will be married when she is born. And it happened exactly that way! I have friends who are not interested in having kids, either. And it is okay. People need to be okay with people's decisions about their lives.

  • @preciousmogashoa7602
    @preciousmogashoa7602 6 месяцев назад +2

    I relate with the baby topic. Recently people in my family actually compared me to my friend's who have children and no matter how much I put them in their place they don't stop. Not knowing what you're going through. You may be ready but circumstances arent allowing you. A child is no small matter. You can't say "O tla bona ko pele" not ka ngwana. Also God’s timing is really perfect I believe Anyway sorry for my rant, love and support always Gugu 😊❤️

  • @LI.-dg9qi
    @LI.-dg9qi 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi my first tm to comment. One thng that i lv about u Gugu is tht You, ar you❤ tht makes me to follow u watch yr vlogs continue cc im wth u. I will. Continue to like 😍subscribe and to watch the adds 🤍🤍🤍

  • @HerHighness160
    @HerHighness160 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love you😂😂😂❤❤❤ atleast I said something

  • @essynkoe2271
    @essynkoe2271 6 месяцев назад +2

    The video made me cry at the end 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢. This is true and i wish i watch this video when i was 16 as well. To a young girl out there, this is true and please take the advice ❤❤❤❤❤.

  • @lungile_potgieter
    @lungile_potgieter 5 месяцев назад +1

    The nuggets at the end of the video you shared give me hope that my dreams are valid. I will not settle, I will wait on God's plan.

  • @sherylneptune
    @sherylneptune 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Gugu
    Art historian here. For photographs, it's always best to use lights with a UV filter. It helps keep the photographs' colour as they age.

  • @ofentser6855
    @ofentser6855 7 месяцев назад +2

    Having a child should be up to you and your partner, all the other people in your life should not have the right to control whether or not you should fall pregnant or even when bc you're the one who is going to be experiencing all the changes (good/bad) listen going through that phase of having a whole person growing/ developing inside of you...the bonding sessions, the random kicks and conversations are priceless

  • @Pndyle_Ncebesha
    @Pndyle_Ncebesha 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love your content dear❤️❤️❤️ hotness overload 🔥🔥🔥🔥 muhle dear..

  • @nthabii_eee
    @nthabii_eee 6 месяцев назад +2

    The aspect of knowing what you want is really phenomenal
    As a young woman turning 20 this year, I want to live life to the fullest while working on stability in all parts. I want to only have children when I fully know that I can provide for them in all ways and actively do it with a loving partner

  • @nondumisomabaso4044
    @nondumisomabaso4044 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi G.U, the last segment of your video spoke to me as well. I'm 31 this year and me at 13teen / 16teen never wanted to make that mistake of falling pregnant becoz I didn't want to disappoint my dad... and I even prayed about it to God and YEYI!! Mina I believe it when God says Isaiah 60:22 (Please read it) becoz I'm living testimony. Some even say maybe I'm not fertile and I cnt have it all. I trust God whatever the outcome and I want that for you too. Beautiful vlog babes

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 6 месяцев назад +2

    You guys are so supportive for each other ah I love this 🎉🎉 congratulations to Mmaneo and her husband ❤❤❤I wish to have friends like this

  • @Lonwabo_Sweets
    @Lonwabo_Sweets 7 месяцев назад +2

    The chat/conversation I wish someone had with the 18 year old…
    People will impose the opinions on how that makes them feel kodwa nam I wish I could have a do-over…
    Never feel guilty for how far you have came with life sweetheart you are living your rewards of being patient and trusting God.
    I love that for everyone who has waited ❤

  • @vivianhobbs4908
    @vivianhobbs4908 5 месяцев назад +1

    ⚘️⚘️ Gugu you and zizi are my two favorites south African girls you both have wonderful husbands that love and care for you very deeply ❤️ you both have very good grammar when you talk to the world you have to be understood ⚘️⚘️

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you Vivian🙏🏽 I love Zizi so much as well, what a Queen 👌🏽

  • @mbalimathabela4797
    @mbalimathabela4797 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for validating my hopes and dreams, to think I'm not crazy for wanting a particular life for myself ❤️.
    I am 26 years old now turning 27, I want to accomplish great things in my life first and have stability in different areas of my life before having children. I hope God plans the same for me.

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia 6 месяцев назад +1

    I share the same sentiments hey , I graduated 2020 and yet still haven’t find a permanent job I know how that phase feels like I’m living through it everyday I recently had a breakdown because of feeling sorry for myself, I understand you I love that 16 year old Gugu because she is me 😊

    • @sine_gugulethu2124
      @sine_gugulethu2124  6 месяцев назад

      Oh Tshepi you will find a job I promise you. I had those break downs every night when I went to bed and I blamed myself uk’ba what am I doing wrong? Is something wrong with my cv? Yhooo it was but everything comes to an end eventually!!!
      You will get a job apply like crazy and pray as well ❤️

  • @ceitaMaselo
    @ceitaMaselo 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love you Gugu🥰 ,thank you for your advices especially for young girls that follows you I really appreciate them😍😍

  • @nyamarebvumillicent
    @nyamarebvumillicent 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love love your vlogs Gugu, and thank you for the advice . I ENJOYED THE VLOG 🤍🤍

  • @nomfundodladla9055
    @nomfundodladla9055 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your vlogs always bring my mood up😍🥹
    Love love your content!!!

  • @boitumelomakobosheane2928
    @boitumelomakobosheane2928 6 месяцев назад +1

    Gugu I hear you about the child out of wedlock as much as children are a blessing I still feel as though I rob myself of so much by having a child out of wedlock. Love my baby girl to bits but sometimes I still wonder how far I would be if I stuck to my promise of not having one out of wedlock

  • @ThatoMakokoe-jp5yh
    @ThatoMakokoe-jp5yh 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love those lights 😍😍😍 definitely a must get 👌🏽

  • @sherylneptune
    @sherylneptune 6 месяцев назад +1

    I just turned 25 and I have no permanent job. I genuinely don't think life is linear at all. It's hard and a bit discouraging. It's okay for you to have a vision for the life you want. There was nothing wrong with you saying that you wanted that. You're not crazy. People forget that we can have our own views about the type of life we want. It might not align with the views our friends have and that's okay

  • @sharonmmonatau730
    @sharonmmonatau730 6 месяцев назад +2

    I always love the energy petrol attendants give out. You could literally be having your worst day and they'll somehow cheer you up. God bless these precious souls. ❣❣❣

  • @delisadlamini8357
    @delisadlamini8357 7 месяцев назад +2

    "Proud of the 16 year old self" i loved that ...she's doing exceptionally well...❤

  • @ThuliMkunjana
    @ThuliMkunjana День назад

    Shout out to the gang of no children before marriage....I also waited until I was working loboled, and I got my first born at the age of 30 and she's now in varsity.... still married to her father and we also have 3 kids after my first born..... planning, planning all the way.....BIG UP let's raise responsible girls🎉🎉🎉

  • @highlyfavorednblessed_11
    @highlyfavorednblessed_11 6 месяцев назад +2

    it’s the interaction with the petrol attendants, it’s like they’re not part of humanity…they’re the realest & kindest ❤

  • @mamokhethiphakoe3338
    @mamokhethiphakoe3338 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice, thanks Gugu ❤️

  • @LeratoJuliaLeseo
    @LeratoJuliaLeseo 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my God I'm screaming, my Favourite RUclipsrs that recently bought houses being friends and loving each like this I'm so so excited, Yoh.
    Gugu,Kgomotso and Babalwa man I love you guys with everything in me❤. This was beautiful to watch♥️

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 6 месяцев назад +1

    I was raised by my single mum, I grew up well. But I told myself there is no way I'm repeating that❤️❤️❤️

  • @phililezuma8843
    @phililezuma8843 6 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations on the SHEIN collab! 🥳🥳🥳

  • @nelisiwepetronel6168
    @nelisiwepetronel6168 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow! Congratulations on your collaboration with shein🎉

  • @mrshabster
    @mrshabster 6 месяцев назад +1

    The day I meet you, I'll probably faint 🤭. Thank you for being yourself - it's such a breathe of fresh air 💛. Also, congratulations on your collab with Shein - angena ama discount 💃💃

  • @aneledlamini4078
    @aneledlamini4078 6 месяцев назад +1

    love the last part of this vlog so inspiring 😍😍

  • @missnxumalo
    @missnxumalo 6 месяцев назад +1

    The last segment 👌👌just like the previous one🥹🙂 ….continue speaking life directly from your lips or someone else’s. I sincerely appreciate the last segment of this vlog and the previous one . Words received in due season are like water to the soul, thank you ❤

  • @senzimkhize8631
    @senzimkhize8631 6 месяцев назад +1

    🥺♥️ the last part of the video was so necessary.

  • @MrsNeoZulu
    @MrsNeoZulu 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love the end of your videos Gugu. The gems you selflessly share.
    I planned and prayed my life as it is. From school, to varsity, to a career in corporate, getting married to someone who is also educated, to children and stability. Your prayer is heard & valid. From your lips to Gods ears. Even the little girlies, pray to God & be an architect of the life you want to live ❤❤❤

  • @Lerato_lu
    @Lerato_lu 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hey gugu❤ watching you on my TV and the conversation about marriage and babies forced me to comment😅😅...I am 25 years old and I totally agree with you and you show us that our dreams are valid sana, and I love you for that❤❤life is not rosey at the moment but everyday I think of you and your story and i feel that everything is gonna be alright❤😊❤