Be there for your child, listen and never shout | Páll Ólafsson | TEDxReykjavik

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @wisdomcards7695
    @wisdomcards7695 3 месяца назад +1

    God this left a lump in my throat. I truly believe our kids need us more than ever. When adults act like children, it doesn't leave room for them to be. They need stability, and being able to rely on someone to love and understand them as they navigate through their mistakes. I don't like it when older generations say things like these kids are lazy, or entitled, or don't do anything....we have to do better and ask ourselves, how did they get that way. That's more helpful and comes from a place of love. I'm so grateful to have watched this video. He is brilliant and has obviously seen the healing. 🪷🙏

  • @marianamunoz6075
    @marianamunoz6075 4 года назад +94

    10% the words we speak.
    35% the tone we use.
    55% our body language! Wow! The unspoken words!

  • @edwardsfactory
    @edwardsfactory 2 года назад +45

    I’m one guilty parent. I thank God to let me stumble in this video in the middle of the night to make realize how it is a must for me to change so my children can change. I’ve known these principles all along but was stubborn to apply them and just resort to my own emotions.

    • @SofozMc
      @SofozMc 2 года назад +3

      Everyone is guilty one way or another 😉

    • @al3yoonalsood38
      @al3yoonalsood38 2 года назад +1

      I can also relate and many parents to but they are afraid of being wrong.

    • @dezavlog
      @dezavlog Год назад

      as long as you can recognized and work on not be the best but at least try to do your best to change...you will be making changes and keep moving forward fr the better version of you as a parent. Don't fight about anything else but to be a better person that you were yesterday.

    • @Jenn-ye9cx
      @Jenn-ye9cx 8 месяцев назад

      We are all guilty …the important thing is to admit be able to admit to are self’s and also to the child!

  • @filipinoamericanhomeschool5446
    @filipinoamericanhomeschool5446 6 лет назад +42

    "See mama? He has good advice," said the 6 year old. She's right. ♥️

  • @zuzanaxyz8866
    @zuzanaxyz8866 Год назад +7

    Beautifully said, thank you for helping children by helping their parents and other adults realize, that what’s “wrong” with the kids is usually a problem of the adults… And the good thing is, it’s changable…

  • @thriftyacorns3545
    @thriftyacorns3545 5 лет назад +14

    I just came across this now and it’s a great reminder!! As a single Mom of three children who are always fighting, I’m so often overwhelmed that I forget to take that time, might fight or flight kicks in too! Thank you for helping me pause and breathe and listen.

  • @sharkey6746
    @sharkey6746 2 года назад +6

    Ha! While I was watching this video my mom banged on my door and yelled at me for no reason :) She always talks about becoming a better mom (maybe it helps her conscience knowing she talked to me about it?) and she reads all these books and listens to all these podcasts but in the end she never changes. She still starts my morning off with yelling, then as soon as I see her after school she finds something to yell at me for then just before I go to sleep she most of the time finds something to yell about and/or she’s always talking to me about financial stuff or complaining about something. Then if I point out something wrong once in a while she guilt trips me

  • @droy589
    @droy589 2 года назад +2

    Awesome speech!....... thank you so much. I am a parent and I sometimes do so, I know my kid is hurt, and I promise myself not to repeat it again, but again I repeat.
    I will listen to my kid.... I will

  • @forpeace8375
    @forpeace8375 5 лет назад +19

    Don’t hit your child don’t raise your voice your child listen to your child Talk to your child build that most needed loving atmosphere Create better people and good happy stable future

    • @nanije1
      @nanije1 5 лет назад

      Please..,.,don’t make them ,on an happy life
      Birth + death =PEACE

  • @sidneyboo9704
    @sidneyboo9704 3 года назад +1

    Wow "They can't google feelings". So true. LISTEN PARENTS. This guy has good advice to raise a well rounded person. These advice is the foundation to have a child that will have a healthy relationship with everyone around them.

  • @letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo
    @letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo 3 года назад +5

    i want to add also , as loving parents, we too make mistakes we too lose our patience .
    we are human .
    so if you did screamed and shouted at your child before, seek forgiveness from them and from yourself.
    learn from our mistakes and be better next time .
    finally children too are resilient and would soon forget .

    • @Barriekidz
      @Barriekidz 2 года назад

      Children don't forget but perhaps forgive

  • @syeager2389
    @syeager2389 6 лет назад +59

    Great information n good knowledge! “Kids..they DO what WE DO.. NOT what we say.” Teach children how to solve problems, how to talk to each other. How to listen to theirs. Show them your skills! Thank you so much Pall for making this video for us to learn n put it in practice. Sylvia**. 💖👍👏👏👏👏

    • @caller145
      @caller145 5 лет назад +2

      Yeah, for example when my mom screamed at me for yelling. She wouldn't let me say anything in between, just a verbal vomit all over me. One time when she was giving me one of her 30 minute lectures I actually took notes and that way only after she said "you can go now" I calmly started to go over her points saying something like: "You said [bla bla bla.] I think it's unfair because...."
      She was speechless xD

  • @twitchetoe5826
    @twitchetoe5826 7 лет назад +26

    this made me cry. beautiful

  • @blackvikingthrone
    @blackvikingthrone 4 года назад +105

    The worst parents are those who don’t realise they have a problem with parenting. The ones who don’t think they need to change. At least if you recognise your mistakes and you care enough to fix them you are on the right path and your child will thank you for it eventually. It’s too late for me to have a decent fulfilled relationship with my parents due to too many broken promises and shattered expectations but I work every day towards being a loving, caring and patient father to my son.

  • @jbirdperez6003
    @jbirdperez6003 7 лет назад +28

    standing ovation .. clap, clap , clap clap,clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap.

  • @neelamsaklani1335
    @neelamsaklani1335 3 года назад +2

    I WISH EVERY PARENT CAN HAVE THIS LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING WHILE RAISING THEIR CHILD. MOST OF THE TIME PARENTS DO NOT HAVE TIME TO LISTEN TO THEIR CHILDREN WHICH IS SAD REALITY OF THE WORLD.

  • @irenehaleem5556
    @irenehaleem5556 5 лет назад +75

    Amazing I wanna cry, I sometimes neglect my son because of too many household chores. But this is an awakening for me. Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @shahirah4239
      @shahirah4239 3 года назад +3

      Improve everyday. 👍 All the best mama💪

    • @vvicente85
      @vvicente85 2 года назад +5

      Don't be too hard on yourself. Involve your son in one of your household chores and turn it into bonding time.

  • @thisisbob1001
    @thisisbob1001 4 года назад +52

    You will never be a perfect parent but you can try and make small improvements each day by listening to vids like these. Just keep at it 😉

    • @bakhytgul4457
      @bakhytgul4457 2 года назад

      Yeah. Let's be strong, let's be wise..

  • @diana.nikolova7383
    @diana.nikolova7383 7 лет назад +74

    Wonderful and wise speech. It deserves way more views than it has.

    • @afsahfarooq710
      @afsahfarooq710 7 лет назад +2

      Definitely

    • @christinedoherty2256
      @christinedoherty2256 6 лет назад +2

      Agreed

    • @somyan8540
      @somyan8540 6 лет назад +2

      Diana.Nikolova - children should be tought all this in School .
      It is a responsibility of the Schools .

  • @mewsickitten5127
    @mewsickitten5127 7 лет назад +18

    Wow!! It can be hard... But definitely worth it, to try to be the best we could for our children.

  • @vidyak5377
    @vidyak5377 Год назад +1

    So true...the same cycle..shouting, hitting...apologizing..and no learning at all.

  • @PlayDohMagic
    @PlayDohMagic 7 лет назад +40

    favorite talk about kids...

  • @Intrepid_Insomniac
    @Intrepid_Insomniac 6 лет назад +29

    Wonderful. This warmed my heart and it lifted me up. Being a mom of 3 spirited children is such a challenge and I needed to hear this! Thank you!

  • @marco_marvelous
    @marco_marvelous 7 лет назад +55

    Holy crap, this so freakin wonderful.

  • @huntermichael5086
    @huntermichael5086 7 лет назад +227

    I wish my mom could see this video. I don’t care how much she says she loves me if she just hurts me all the time - meaning to or not. Eventually you don’t care whether they meant what they said or not - the fact is that it was said and it hurts. The most offensive thing to me is when she apologizes for something and then acts like it never happened, getting mad when I mention it (and not to use against her). I don’t want to apologize to a guilt trip, either. I feel like there are things parents really don’t understand, considering half the time I actually talk to my mom or she talks (or yells) at me about something, when I share my point of view and opinions, they are either ridiculous or she says she just doesn’t understand (in a pretty mean way, as if she had just as well said that I was wrong). I wish people had more faith in teenagers. Maybe we don’t want to do anything because no one thinks we will or that we can even be agreeable. If I do anything around the house my parents say it’s a miracle. I assure you, God’s done a lot things for me but one of them is not shoving me down the stairs to do the dishes. That was my choice, though He gave me the desire to do the right things, and I’ve never done it again. It’s too humiliating. I understand that I am the problem, but I’m pretty sure I also understand SOME things that my parents do not. And one of them is what my mom says and what she does do not match up or make sense at all. And I don’t want to be anything like my parents. So what do you do when you don’t want to even do what they do - though that can end up being inevitable because you live with them? You shut yourself out even more and feel alone because you know that even though it is said you are welcome, what you have to say is not. She’ll tell me to tell her whats wrong - but it has to be the right answer. If that answer has to do with HER... She’s so defensive. Everything’s a war. When I talk, I’m just trying to get through the problem, so I state things plainly. No one wants to work WITH me though. Everyone else only wants to prove that they are right. But I know I’m wrong from the get-go. I thought that would help. It only doubles my guilt when she accuses me.

    • @hazelpetersen172
      @hazelpetersen172 6 лет назад +4

      am so sorry Emily

    • @ammarabatool9910
      @ammarabatool9910 6 лет назад +9

      I wish you the best and most wonderful life sweetie. May you be blessed.

    • @shelpow
      @shelpow 6 лет назад +22

      Emily, it sounds like you could do with the loving support of people who understand you and your mom... See if there are any support groups like Alateen or family communication sessions at your school or church. You are not the problem, and you don't have to be alone anymore! I used to act just like your mom, there was a total shutdown between me and my daughter, and someone invited me into a wonderful community in which I have learned so much about myself and why I would do what I did... Now things are so much better! Get up and get moving, child.

    • @lemarahman2889
      @lemarahman2889 6 лет назад +10

      Hello dear, I read your comment it is hard to go through thus much with your loved once. But i really recommend that you show This vidoe to your mom at lease 2 times. Then ask her to read your comment. It is really hard to put all to express our thoughts and feelings by verbal communication.the written version may helps her to address the issue. I have 3 kids and i know moms make us much mistkes as kids do since we are all human but non of us are perfect. 8 hope my recomandation hepls😄.

    • @demonbunnny
      @demonbunnny 6 лет назад +13

      I wish my mum had too, but some parents never learn. All I can do now is to treat my own kid right. Try and get some therapy. I totally understand. I'm 45 now and some people never change but that doesn't mean I have to carry the past forwards into my own parenting.

  • @demonbunnny
    @demonbunnny 6 лет назад +20

    I have shared this and I hope that the right person watches it. My sons kids ask in amazement why I never yell at him or punish him.

    • @kalaniprice1007
      @kalaniprice1007 6 лет назад +2

      Wild Bunny congrats! I’m glad you’re setting a good example for your grandchildren🙂

  • @glendaleduque
    @glendaleduque 7 лет назад +4

    That’s it, kids do what we do not what we tell them to do! Awesome!!❤️

  • @primescene9110
    @primescene9110 2 года назад

    I have a 5 year baby girl. I started recalling all the moments when I shouted at her, did not listen to her and wanted her to eat proper meal. Maybe the intention was never wrong but the way was for sure. Thank you for your talk. All I want that I do not forget your lesson of growing your kids.

  • @MikeyDL69
    @MikeyDL69 5 лет назад +13

    Love this guy’s accent.

  • @abdullateef5275
    @abdullateef5275 6 лет назад +6

    Meaningful + thoughtful = great advice

  • @mbuzimanyike
    @mbuzimanyike 4 года назад +3

    I remember telling my mother I love her then she simply said "okay"
    and now I'm not surprised why I don't know how love looks like

    • @bloodwolf9428
      @bloodwolf9428 3 года назад +1

      At least you had a mother to say "I love you " to. My prayer started with "thank you for my mommy and daddy" and then they were murdered and I had to change my prayer.

    • @mbuzimanyike
      @mbuzimanyike 3 года назад +2

      @@bloodwolf9428 I am praying with you. I am in a position where I feel like having both parents alive or dead wouldn't make a difference:(

  • @lizw1493
    @lizw1493 6 лет назад +6

    Standing ovation to you.

  • @gloriousgardens1257
    @gloriousgardens1257 6 лет назад +1

    This is very worthy of the time it takes to listen. Wise and heartfelt words that we need to embrace in our lives daily. Most excellent. Thank you

  • @BR-im1nl
    @BR-im1nl 6 лет назад +48

    OMG
    What a great video
    Just like veterans and police officers and firemen. Social workers are super heros....

    • @stacyhigginson170
      @stacyhigginson170 5 лет назад

      YES THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!! 💜

    • @selt3146
      @selt3146 5 лет назад +4

      you mean unlike veterans and police officers, social workers are heroes

  • @fdameron
    @fdameron 4 года назад +9

    When my children were young and approaching the "terrible twos," I decided to change my perception of it. I called it the "transitional twos," because that is what they are going through. I have to admit that I never found the twos to be terrible because of it. As a result My kids didn't really throw any temper tantrums. And when they were teens, they didn't rebel.

    • @sandyavalos3305
      @sandyavalos3305 4 месяца назад

      I would like to hear more of what you did.

    • @fdameron
      @fdameron 4 месяца назад

      @@sandyavalos3305 Mostly I didn't brace for impact if they did get angry. Since I avoided getting angry myself and by trying to see it as a positive thing, I mostly avoided power struggles.

  • @marianamunoz6075
    @marianamunoz6075 4 года назад +8

    To all out there, regardless of age, I’m sorry for the hurt and pain the adults in your life caused. I’m sorry.
    It’s hard to forgive people sometimes but I heard the other day that we should forgive, not so the other person feels better but so we don’t have to carry that hurt, anger and pain around with us anymore.
    I wish you happiness. I wish you can forgive, so you don’t carry that burden. I hope you are able to heal.
    And if you become parents, I wish that you are much better and kinder parents than we were to you.

  • @SdmAngeL
    @SdmAngeL 5 лет назад +2

    This man is brilliant, wise and funny. I wish we had skilled professionals like this ( in the UK and everywhere ) to give new parents & other family members parenting courses.

    • @Monikaummos
      @Monikaummos 5 лет назад

      Search for peaceful parenting with Kathryn jones

  • @JSlippy
    @JSlippy 4 года назад

    This is a beautiful human.

  • @lucymurage6654
    @lucymurage6654 2 года назад +6

    Very interesting and informative. I wish more parents (especially in Africa and Kenya in particular) would not only listen to you but also practice what you suggest. We have the misguided belief that we have to shout to be heard by our children. I feel affirmed as I always strive to tell parents to learn to listen to their children.

    • @ahz6907
      @ahz6907 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah also same here tz parents

  • @yogyaratnayake9467
    @yogyaratnayake9467 3 года назад +1

    He must be such a great dad :) how lucky are those kids!

  • @Whitleyauto
    @Whitleyauto 3 года назад

    Nailed it! This is exactly right! This message with implementable tools and support needs to be shared to all families. Our future depends on it. We are all in this together. Thank you for sharing!

  • @elenamarina9736
    @elenamarina9736 6 лет назад +4

    That is sooooo inspirational!!!! Thank you very much!God bless all the children,they are wonderful,vulnerable yet strong human beings!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 года назад

      Doina M. I totally agree with you!!

  • @lisa-marieshy9673
    @lisa-marieshy9673 7 лет назад +24

    This was absolutely AMAZING!!! Exactly what I needed to hear! THANKS SO MUCH

  • @diantriastuti4400
    @diantriastuti4400 5 лет назад

    I always believe that we are either inspire or be inspired by others. Good words can save lives. ❤

  • @15tintin
    @15tintin 3 года назад +1

    I enjoyed this speech from this man wish he had more speeches

  • @DebraDKT
    @DebraDKT 5 лет назад +2

    Thank You
    &
    GOD BLESS

  • @tamzeedashakira
    @tamzeedashakira 4 года назад +1

    I cried watching this.

  • @brandonirving2442
    @brandonirving2442 6 лет назад +6

    Wow! Thank you! I want to keep this in the forefront of my mind at all times.

  • @xiaolang97
    @xiaolang97 7 лет назад +127

    had my 1st baby last nite, will try to apply what is learnt in this video

    • @MuseCatherine
      @MuseCatherine 7 лет назад +6

      Parenting is hard and long job.

    • @xiaolang97
      @xiaolang97 7 лет назад +5

      C Rosser 10weeks in, and realized how much time I use to hav with my life before... lots of pressure, lots of motive, with very less time , and heaps of responsibilities

    • @ems8717
      @ems8717 5 лет назад

      狼爸爸的工作室 wait till they are toddlers . Baby time looks fun then

    • @nubeginnings9728
      @nubeginnings9728 5 лет назад +1

      How is you and your bundle of joy doing now?

    • @lila-Bey
      @lila-Bey 5 лет назад

      狼爸爸的工作室 👍

  • @jadebethj4807
    @jadebethj4807 3 года назад

    the first minute and a half was just...me. as a foster kid.
    I came here to be a better parent but look at it hitting deep already.

  • @gervinpedico
    @gervinpedico 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this! I sometimes or often times shout because I am just exhausted. I need to work more on my patience. I thought I had a lot of it, but it could be more it seems. Insipiring Talk!

  • @joseenoel8093
    @joseenoel8093 5 лет назад +1

    Been a stay at home mom for 24 yrs. No way otherwise and last thing I thought I'd be doing. College degrees, fluently bilingual.. No way, this time is fleeting, especially when my daughter comes home from University once a week! My son is 21 now and it makes a difference to come home to no one or come home to a pleasant 'How was your day?' Our carbon footprint is smaller too. The more money you make, the more you pollute!

  • @modernwomenoffaith
    @modernwomenoffaith 2 года назад +1

    One of the best, if not the best TED talk I have watched!!!👏🙏🙌

  • @emmalendt6072
    @emmalendt6072 5 лет назад +10

    With a toddler, the child is on the table :D

  • @tarajean5990
    @tarajean5990 6 лет назад +2

    Absolutely moved by this. Thank you!

  • @grivsxiaomi4661
    @grivsxiaomi4661 2 года назад

    Thank you. Awesomeness. Truthfully.

  • @alexw6582
    @alexw6582 Год назад

    One of the greatest TedxTalks of all time!❤

  • @taylorjohnson4943
    @taylorjohnson4943 4 года назад +2

    Icelandic peoples have a long tradition of parenting and community-based and interpersonal strategies of parenting that goes back almost a thousand years

  • @beuphoric6301
    @beuphoric6301 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you dear sir.

  • @cynditran2036
    @cynditran2036 5 лет назад +7

    This is wonderful. New mom this coming October and will do my best to implement this

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 года назад +1

      Cyndi Tran congratulations!! You will be a great mother!

  • @ekomikpat
    @ekomikpat 5 лет назад +2

    I wish my parents would see this, listen and actually act on it... Now I'm 24 n still dealing with teenage issues n mentality due to excessive silence

    • @lizguz2771
      @lizguz2771 5 лет назад +2

      I’m sorry for your upbringing. Maybe you can’t change your parents but you can find a way to heal from the deprivation you were dealt in your childhood. Maybe through counseling or through the relationships you build moving forward. Be choosy w who you have in your life. You owe it to yourself! Try to surround yourself with people who listen and take the time to be understanding. Just some thoughts from someone who was 24 long ago :) Best intentions-Liz

  • @dreamurr_cy
    @dreamurr_cy 3 года назад +4

    When you go to your father, telling him you are scared of something and instead of comforting me.. How I wished he would do.. I screamed, lectured me and told me he wouldn't care If I died. Haha

    • @lovelylovlina
      @lovelylovlina 3 года назад +2

      I hope you’re having a good day ❤️

  • @padmajathangavel2246
    @padmajathangavel2246 5 лет назад +2

    So glad that I came across this video!! Thank you Thank you Thank you

  • @evobeshinsky4977
    @evobeshinsky4977 4 года назад

    How very true is !

  • @lisafeck1537
    @lisafeck1537 4 года назад

    Pall Olofsson, great talk. Thank you.

  • @anitaanita7162
    @anitaanita7162 6 лет назад +11

    Love this speech and the tips given. Very helpful. Thank you!!

  • @ambilyj9792
    @ambilyj9792 6 лет назад +5

    Excellent talk ... thank you .. wish I had heard you few years earlier .. still not late 👍

  • @vishaloc8092
    @vishaloc8092 Год назад

    Children do not do what you say, they do what you do

  • @marianamunoz6075
    @marianamunoz6075 4 года назад

    I’m in tears!

  • @khagrajupadhyaya1642
    @khagrajupadhyaya1642 5 лет назад

    An eye opener.

  • @zoeletlive
    @zoeletlive 3 года назад

    This needs more views. Love this talk.

  • @juliussemei9082
    @juliussemei9082 Год назад

    God Bless you so much

  • @katrinalewis802
    @katrinalewis802 3 года назад

    This should have many, many more views!

  • @MoranGuyVideos
    @MoranGuyVideos 7 лет назад +6

    Thanks for this info.
    very wise and really can help in life if you are able to implement it in real time and not thinking about it afterwards...

    • @Actidad
      @Actidad 5 лет назад

      Being positive is such an important part of fatherhood. Definately need more dads watching this stuff!

  • @molly588
    @molly588 2 года назад +1

    Oh please, there is nothing wrong with a random shout. It creates a line, a boundary, that shouldn't be crossed. Imagine your child is about to touch a hot stove. Allowing that child to touch the hot stove is asking CPS to knock on the door. A shout once in a while is the sign of positive parenting skills. Parenting is not always positive. It's a balance of positive and negative consequences which is a mirror of what happens in real life.

  • @bunchofknowledge489
    @bunchofknowledge489 5 лет назад

    Thank you.

  • @kingsleyatuba
    @kingsleyatuba 6 лет назад +2

    Why is this not up to a million views

  • @itsrayanswed6386
    @itsrayanswed6386 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much.
    You change my mind

  • @balikabhure5140
    @balikabhure5140 2 года назад

    I play with my son every day i listen to him talk to him , give him everything he wants I don't care if he doesn't give me anything in return but I just want my son to love me and be happy that's it no expectations like my parents had from me when they never talked to me played with me

  • @lundup2023
    @lundup2023 5 лет назад

    Absolutely loved this talk. Thank u so much.

  • @delgermurunaltantsee3367
    @delgermurunaltantsee3367 3 года назад

    Very authentic and funny. I wish all the guys were like you!!!

  • @abdirazak.a8336
    @abdirazak.a8336 6 лет назад +1

    great mt favorite is about children how they get happiness

  • @non-existentperson5228
    @non-existentperson5228 4 года назад

    I wish my parents were like this

  • @reynabellaloves
    @reynabellaloves 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @iananderson2496
    @iananderson2496 5 лет назад

    This is so very insightful. I will adopt these ideas for my son. Thank you so very much, Páll!

  • @rayseprakovamonteiro755
    @rayseprakovamonteiro755 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much for your speech! It was really amazing!

  • @rehanalikhan6898
    @rehanalikhan6898 4 года назад

    I will send this video to my dad. THANK YOU.😊

  • @VivirSimple
    @VivirSimple 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @PlayDohMagic
    @PlayDohMagic 7 лет назад +3

    best talk ive ever heard this year....i cant say best ever, but i keep going back to this talk for inspiration

  • @Actidad
    @Actidad 5 лет назад +7

    Some great perspectives. Quality time and positivity are keys to raising awesome kids👍

  • @ania1607
    @ania1607 6 лет назад +1

    I am so glad to find this gem. Amazing ted talk!!!

  • @heathermoran9526
    @heathermoran9526 5 лет назад

    Thank you for this. I needed to hear this

  • @lulukannisya6662
    @lulukannisya6662 6 лет назад +1

    At least I got the answers through the internet, especially youtube. And for bonus I got my confidence and motivations back. And I pray to Allah to protect me from The people who hate me and wanting to harm and wanting to do injustice and take away my confidence.

  • @readytomovegurgaon6538
    @readytomovegurgaon6538 6 лет назад

    This guy is amazing!!!!

  • @LetsGoHelio
    @LetsGoHelio 7 лет назад +2

    Aw I loved this

  • @stephenacman3244
    @stephenacman3244 6 лет назад +2

    This is so good!! Thank You 🙏

  • @amitthakur8162
    @amitthakur8162 6 лет назад +2

    Intelligent lecture

  • @ipie1175
    @ipie1175 6 лет назад +1

    #4 teach the kid how to respect his parents

  • @vladan.Poison
    @vladan.Poison 6 лет назад

    Eye opener !!!

  • @shantak7955
    @shantak7955 3 года назад

    I know it is 100% true sr thanks 🙏