5 minutes in and I agree with Madam Speaker. Colleagues are not your friends and you do not have to share anything private with them. Even if it’s something big as getting married! You do not have to share such news if you don’t want to. Also, paying someone a salary doesn’t give you some sort of entitlement to their private affairs. Regardless of what the circumstances are, it’s absolutely none of their business!!
That lady who is speaking behind is just spot on, saying it as it is, women must learn to talk to their man and leave the women alone, they are actually the ones who shela, women, stop fighting each other and fight your man. The lady does not owe you any explaining, the man does, sort your man and leave the lady alone
The issue is not lack of humanity or sisterly loyalty. It's because she's the boss hence the title keeps getting thrown into the conversation. The issue is I'm superior than you at work and I want to be superior in your personal space. It's the issue of power and belittling your subordinate.
This argument is not going anywhere! Colleagues are not obliged to invite each other to their weddings or personal spaces. Secondly, whether you and your boss share a man or not should not affect your work. But how many are capable of making the difference?
Abo Masechaba Lekalake Khumalo Ndlovu nton nton now. Marriage is strange, those who marry once can marry more times. Those who don't marry, never marry. Have you noticed?
If as the boss you are giving warnings because I married your baby daddy we need to meet at the CCMA dor unfair labour practices and you must go for emotional intelligence training.
Make the environment horrible she will leave jrrr, haibo uwine le slima se ndoda nd now she wants to cause the lady even more stress at her work place..no ways bazalwane this is wrong..le slima sakhe must find her another job.
Lets separate work and our personal lives. The lady didn't keep it a secret from her boss because she's doing something wrong, she kept it a secret because she knows how some women can get and seemingly she was right because here we are discussing how she owes her boss loyalty. Also, the boss must know that paying my salary is not doing me a favour, we work for these salaries. Work is work. If your baby daddy couldn't be loyal to you who am I
And your boss nawe both have employee numbers of that organization...she's not paying anyone....she must go for emotional intelligence training isjolo nomsebenzi azuhlangene
I agree with Madam Soeaker, it might not be healthy but the baby daddy was also someone’s ex before they met! I’m not going to stop marrying the love of my life because of you 😂😂
Haai the co-host in white is really not present & not understanding context of the matter. Just answering nje & deluting the convo. She must prepare prior next time! Whoever the employee date or whatever happens after work is none of the boss business. Deal with the cheater - not employee.
When are men being held accountable bathong? The baby daddy must bare the responsibility of communicating with the mother of his kids, not the other woman. What ties the 2 women is professional, nothing else and as long as she does her job she owes no one any explanation pertaining to her private life. The boss must face her baby daddy and leave the woman alone, she must have zero entitlement to her "loyalty".
Ladies if we say we support each other why is it difficult to tell the wife that the husband is proposing you, that's holding man responsible by not protecting them, Yoo woman you are Jezebels
But who told you as the baby mama that you are entitled to this man who YOU chose to bear kids for without marriage? So now the newly wed must suffer because wena you chose to be the sacrificial lamb and give him kids without marriage? Hai khona guys, baby mamas are beyond delulu shem😂. Newly wed doesn't owe the baby mama ANYTHING. she should take out her anger on the man who SHE chose to give kids.
lol. Even if he doesn't marry the subordinate. He will STILL not marry you, he will marry someone else. We should also KEEP relationship OUT of work premises, so telling your boss that you're dating her babydaddy is a violation of many company's code of conduct
I am with Madam Speaker here.. O boss must approve leave, what I am doing with my leave never after 5 is after 5😂😂. I dont know my boss kids or family and my boss and I are not deep like, perhaps maybe she is not aware lol. She never paid attention to who your exes are. On leave let me be🤐🥲 its unfortunate askies boss
😂😂😂😂mna I would be friendly with the person the fact that she took away the problem for me😂😂😂😂sis this thing I'm your boss it will throw you under the bus mjolo awuna title baby daddy baby daddy why are you the first😂😂😂😂
Im sorry I would let her go. There is no way the relationship can continue. This is a breakdown. Also, as the employee, why not leave the job? Would you be so cruel as to force yourself onto her?
This is simple.. in work contracts any conflict of interest has to be disclosed.this is why people who start dating at work have to disclose..this is why you have to disclose when you have a relative working at a company u are appying for. There is conflict of interest when u marry your bosses partner.
There is absolutely no conflict of interest when you date your boss' babydaddy, NONE. Conflict of interest is regarded as action that may lead you to not act in the best interest of the company or/and clients. E.G 1) Dating the boss at a competitor company. 2) Being a regulatory body, and dating someone in the reporting company.
She didn't still the man and the man is not interested in marrying her since she is being a baby mama for years,and she doesn't have right to inform the boss about his new man they are there to work and not friends,she is not causing anyone pains relationships died.long time ago and as woman we like to hope on zero ,she is going to hate someone for her relationship failer
I am asking myself the same. No logic whatsoever, since when we disclose PERSONAL information at work. Boss doesn't mean owner, it can mean line manager
In reality she has to go….. these two will never work in the same place. Either we like it or not there will always be tension and and the worst tension ever… the newly wed did her boss dirty especially that she knew that her boss had things going on with the baby daddy, she crossed the boundary she was never supposed to cross…. that’s why we have boundaries, you don’t owe me any loyalty but respect the boundaries. In this case there is never going to be a separation of work and home NEVER….. imagine the emotional trauma this boss is going through, if it was me she should have been dismissed from the moment I found out and I would be justified….
But who told you as the baby mama that you are entitled to this man who YOU chose to bear kids for without marriage? So now the newly wed must suffer because wena you chose to be the sacrificial lamb and give him kids without marriage? Hai khona guys, baby mamas are beyond delulu shem😂. Newly wed doesn't owe the baby mama ANYTHING. she should take out her anger on the man who SHE chose to give kids. I'm not speaking to you directly, just responding to this scenario.
It's not work-related no need to disclose. When u are a true leader, u learn to separate private and business life. No matter how hard it is. As a leader u don't even entertain gossip. I am not using the word "boss" intentionally. Nomzamo is showing how cruel some bosses can be using their feelings
This lady is supporting bitter baby mamanes, that baby daddy will still get married to someone else, how will you make their life hell since you using your position on the subordinate. Women hate each other, you fighting the other woman coz you paying her salary, why not fight the person betrayed you, and your defence will you still be in a relationship with bd or you just want him
@madams___speaker 😂😂😂 by their fruits you shall know them From this scripture I'm not only suppose to look at my relationship with God but everyone claiming you I be of God. Clearly from this week episode no woman should trust you around their man 😂😂😂 A Christian cant only be concerns about their OWN happiness moghel. Love your neighbour as yourself
If you wanna be married to the father of your kids, get married first and kids later.
Marry before you carry!
Profound@@MissCombs1511
5 minutes in and I agree with Madam Speaker. Colleagues are not your friends and you do not have to share anything private with them. Even if it’s something big as getting married! You do not have to share such news if you don’t want to.
Also, paying someone a salary doesn’t give you some sort of entitlement to their private affairs. Regardless of what the circumstances are, it’s absolutely none of their business!!
That lady who is speaking behind is just spot on, saying it as it is, women must learn to talk to their man and leave the women alone, they are actually the ones who shela, women, stop fighting each other and fight your man. The lady does not owe you any explaining, the man does, sort your man and leave the lady alone
Facts! the person who is causing you pain is your baby daddy
Madam speaker you got a point whatever we are doing after work is non of our boss business 😊😊as long as i deliver best service from 7 to 4
Madam Speaker I agree with you! It’s time women rallied together against the cheap cheats!
😂😂 "Find another job as the boss"
The issue is not lack of humanity or sisterly loyalty. It's because she's the boss hence the title keeps getting thrown into the conversation. The issue is I'm superior than you at work and I want to be superior in your personal space. It's the issue of power and belittling your subordinate.
😂😂😂😂😂😂Madam Speaker I love you gal
This argument is not going anywhere! Colleagues are not obliged to invite each other to their weddings or personal spaces. Secondly, whether you and your boss share a man or not should not affect your work. But how many are capable of making the difference?
My sentiments exactly 😂😂what rubbish is this guest saying, ay noh. Im so bored.
The woman who married the baby daddy doesn't owe u anything.
'Boss paying a salary' unless if you are the owner of a company 😮
"I know you from my pay slip"😂😂😂😂😂
Getting married for the 6th time 😮 I don't believe that's good luck. There's something wrong with that woman. She needs help.
Abo Masechaba Lekalake Khumalo Ndlovu nton nton now. Marriage is strange, those who marry once can marry more times. Those who don't marry, never marry. Have you noticed?
@@MissCombs1511 yeah I've noticed
If as the boss you are giving warnings because I married your baby daddy we need to meet at the CCMA dor unfair labour practices and you must go for emotional intelligence training.
Make the environment horrible she will leave jrrr, haibo uwine le slima se ndoda nd now she wants to cause the lady even more stress at her work place..no ways bazalwane this is wrong..le slima sakhe must find her another job.
Madam speaker I just love how she always give facts❤❤❤❤ ...the other lady was talking like a person who has entitlement issues 😂
Lets separate work and our personal lives. The lady didn't keep it a secret from her boss because she's doing something wrong, she kept it a secret because she knows how some women can get and seemingly she was right because here we are discussing how she owes her boss loyalty.
Also, the boss must know that paying my salary is not doing me a favour, we work for these salaries.
Work is work. If your baby daddy couldn't be loyal to you who am I
And your boss nawe both have employee numbers of that organization...she's not paying anyone....she must go for emotional intelligence training isjolo nomsebenzi azuhlangene
I agree with Madam Soeaker, it might not be healthy but the baby daddy was also someone’s ex before they met! I’m not going to stop marrying the love of my life because of you 😂😂
Haai the co-host in white is really not present & not understanding context of the matter. Just answering nje & deluting the convo. She must prepare prior next time!
Whoever the employee date or whatever happens after work is none of the boss business. Deal with the cheater - not employee.
Struu, she just bored me. No substance in her argument, just straatmeit analysis 😅
When are men being held accountable bathong? The baby daddy must bare the responsibility of communicating with the mother of his kids, not the other woman. What ties the 2 women is professional, nothing else and as long as she does her job she owes no one any explanation pertaining to her private life. The boss must face her baby daddy and leave the woman alone, she must have zero entitlement to her "loyalty".
Ladies if we say we support each other why is it difficult to tell the wife that the husband is proposing you, that's holding man responsible by not protecting them,
Yoo woman you are Jezebels
But who told you as the baby mama that you are entitled to this man who YOU chose to bear kids for without marriage? So now the newly wed must suffer because wena you chose to be the sacrificial lamb and give him kids without marriage? Hai khona guys, baby mamas are beyond delulu shem😂. Newly wed doesn't owe the baby mama ANYTHING. she should take out her anger on the man who SHE chose to give kids.
If you can find love for the 6th time you can afford to let him go or rather be prepared to quit/have an awkward work environment.
I'll pass this podcast & maybe comeback for the next episode.
are you the boss in question 😂
Are u the baby mama😅
@@tumi2610😂😂😂😂
@@tumi2610😂😂😂😂
Lmao baby mama's will learn!😂. Marry before you Cary.
This is like being buried alive. The baby mama will be depressed and the kids will be taken away from her because she's not mentally fit.
lol. Even if he doesn't marry the subordinate. He will STILL not marry you, he will marry someone else.
We should also KEEP relationship OUT of work premises, so telling your boss that you're dating her babydaddy is a violation of many company's code of conduct
Madam speaker is a very wise yoo
I am with Madam Speaker here.. O boss must approve leave, what I am doing with my leave never after 5 is after 5😂😂. I dont know my boss kids or family and my boss and I are not deep like, perhaps maybe she is not aware lol. She never paid attention to who your exes are. On leave let me be🤐🥲 its unfortunate askies boss
I didn’t know that weman feels so untitled to someone son like this. 😢
Marry before you carry.
Madam speaker u r too matured for this haaikhona, u r too Heald madam😂😂😂... girl must be Petty. Kick her out she must go work for her husband suka.
Okay I agree the problem is the NJA..
😂😂😂😂mna I would be friendly with the person the fact that she took away the problem for me😂😂😂😂sis this thing I'm your boss it will throw you under the bus mjolo awuna title baby daddy baby daddy why are you the first😂😂😂😂
Know to differentiate between family, friends and colleagues
Im sorry I would let her go. There is no way the relationship can continue. This is a breakdown. Also, as the employee, why not leave the job? Would you be so cruel as to force yourself onto her?
Even If it's not gonna be me some one out side will marry him😢
@SibongleMetsing-r2y Exactly my point 😂😂😂💁
This is simple.. in work contracts any conflict of interest has to be disclosed.this is why people who start dating at work have to disclose..this is why you have to disclose when you have a relative working at a company u are appying for.
There is conflict of interest when u marry your bosses partner.
There is absolutely no conflict of interest when you date your boss' babydaddy, NONE.
Conflict of interest is regarded as action that may lead you to not act in the best interest of the company or/and clients.
E.G
1) Dating the boss at a competitor company.
2) Being a regulatory body, and dating someone in the reporting company.
Such boss will cost the company lot of money,
Why disclose really and where does it say in the performance agreement
My boss doesnt pay my salary...we both hired there, not unless im her maid or her gardener! And who the baby daddy chosese to marry is his business
The salary is it coming from the boss or company account, boss entitlement yekani bo
She didn't still the man and the man is not interested in marrying her since she is being a baby mama for years,and she doesn't have right to inform the boss about his new man they are there to work and not friends,she is not causing anyone pains relationships died.long time ago and as woman we like to hope on zero ,she is going to hate someone for her relationship failer
The Manfriend is going to marry me the condition of service must stay intact please we are here to work not to make friendship ❗❗❗🔥🔥🔥
Ex-Box remains in the Ex place
Madam speaker,haibooooo ur guest is not making sense yooo.where did u find the Boss Boss lady?
I am asking myself the same. No logic whatsoever, since when we disclose PERSONAL information at work. Boss doesn't mean owner, it can mean line manager
In reality she has to go….. these two will never work in the same place. Either we like it or not there will always be tension and and the worst tension ever… the newly wed did her boss dirty especially that she knew that her boss had things going on with the baby daddy, she crossed the boundary she was never supposed to cross…. that’s why we have boundaries, you don’t owe me any loyalty but respect the boundaries. In this case there is never going to be a separation of work and home NEVER….. imagine the emotional trauma this boss is going through, if it was me she should have been dismissed from the moment I found out and I would be justified….
But who told you as the baby mama that you are entitled to this man who YOU chose to bear kids for without marriage? So now the newly wed must suffer because wena you chose to be the sacrificial lamb and give him kids without marriage? Hai khona guys, baby mamas are beyond delulu shem😂. Newly wed doesn't owe the baby mama ANYTHING. she should take out her anger on the man who SHE chose to give kids.
I'm not speaking to you directly, just responding to this scenario.
It's not work-related no need to disclose. When u are a true leader, u learn to separate private and business life. No matter how hard it is. As a leader u don't even entertain gossip. I am not using the word "boss" intentionally. Nomzamo is showing how cruel some bosses can be using their feelings
Your baby daddy will invite you not the wife
Ndivhu T's and Koti's argument is strong.
It's not gonna end well. Someone will die.
Mxm this lady 🤦🤦go ask your God or ancestors to bless you with marriage clearly baby daddy saw a baby machine material in you not wife material.
This lady is supporting bitter baby mamanes, that baby daddy will still get married to someone else, how will you make their life hell since you using your position on the subordinate. Women hate each other, you fighting the other woman coz you paying her salary, why not fight the person betrayed you, and your defence will you still be in a relationship with bd or you just want him
Masam speaker are you sure you are a Christian
Worry about your relationship with your God
@madams___speaker 😂😂😂 by their fruits you shall know them
From this scripture I'm not only suppose to look at my relationship with God but everyone claiming you I be of God. Clearly from this week episode no woman should trust you around their man 😂😂😂 A Christian cant only be concerns about their OWN happiness moghel. Love your neighbour as yourself
Madam speaker...hle. i will pass this episode. I will also keep quiet trusting that you rectify the wrong thinking.....