Courteney Cox asks about putting yourself first | Handsome
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- Опубликовано: 1 апр 2024
- Courteney Cox asks Handsome about when to put yourself first, as Handsome continues "chattin' with Friends"! Plus Mae and Fortune's unique disaster survival strategies, Tig flirting on TV, and more!
Handsome is hosted by Tig Notaro, Mae Martin, and Fortune Feimster
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This podcast is my happiness charging station for the whole week. Sometimes the news are too much to absorb and process. I’m thankful for this pod were I can laugh, relax, pause, think and put things in perspective.
Well put!!! They eminate joy, don’t they?!
Hey, how about asking Stuart Smalley to pose a question for the Handsome podcast?
Thank you. Same.
Me too! I like to save them up so I have an episode to listen to if I'm not feeling great.
Love the Handsome podcast... I drive about 50 min to work every morning and this is my go-to for my non-news shit!
That episode of AfterMidnight was hands down the funniest episode to date. Tig's "I'm bored" comment was priceless.
The self care/regret conversation reminded me of a saying my Grandma had:” Regret is only when you forgot the way you felt when you made a decision”.
Woooow 🤯
That is so wise ! Hats off to your Grandma...and thanks for sharing. 😊
go easy on Fortune about not knowing Pepto-Bismol. remember what her grandma would do anytime she was sick? Suppositories
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This whole podcast is just you three being surprised about what others don’t know about 😂
Hearing Tig say “Fortune!” just makes me happy 😂😂
I never knew how much I would love 💕 hearing Tig say “Fortune” and “Fortune Marie”😂🩷🩵❤️💙🧡💜
So glad you did "After Midnight." It was easily the best episode yet and I hope you do it again!
Agree
I used to have a friend who would pretend she didn’t know me if I hadn’t called within a week. I wasn’t a big phone person and so I’d have to force myself to call her, just to be met with, “who’s this?? … I don’t know a Lolly!” every time. It was so tedious. I hadn’t called for a few days at one point and knew she’d just do her shtick with me, so I decided I didn’t need to put myself through it again. It’s been about 25 years now and I still haven’t called…
Well played!
I absolutely know the knock-off meds; "Bismuth," "Tussin." 😂
I’m with Mae. I love when people cancel!
LOOOOOOOVED this episode! Boundaries have been my biggest lesson in therapy.
Handsome pod is the happy fun, giggling, thought pause space needed.
I think I am going to die from coughing and happiness at 'eat my ass'
Full of beans is definitely a saying!
I like this question. We call this, "Protecting your YES". I realised I was bad at this and it really got in the way of relationships, so when I saw my son going through the same problem, I think I listened to a psychology podcast (probably "You are not so smart") and came across this phrase. We are both good at certain things and when people learn about it, we get volunteered or constantly asked to help with said things. It was happening in the last few years of his secondary schooling. The section head, or rector was asking him to teach classes in things his vocational teachers hadn't kept up with, technology-wise. He's high functioning ASD, ADHD, and I saw the toll that the social demands were making on him. We had a big talk about "Protecting his YES" and that this sort of thing won't stop at school. In fact, certain family members were the worst with demands and expectations. Hes gotten better at saying, "I just don't have the energy for this right now. Check back with me on xday".
Ithink its so lovely that you saw this and figured out how to help. love that
@@DivyaUthup Neuro-spicy kids and adults need self-awareness skills to stay on top of things. I want him to have better tools, skills and preparation in that area than me and his father. (His father wasn't diagnosed until he was nearly 50, after we split, and ended with a total break down with him in and out of hospital on a few occasions.) I've not bothered with a diagnosis because my job, for the last 20 years, has been to just hold our lives together, but we think there is something going on there. He's really good at reaching out to local therapists and getting help when he needs that now and is able to ring direct because of his diagnosis.
OMG, Fortune, I always said Pepto Bismo my whole life until now. Ha!🤣
Same
I laughed so hard at the After Midnight episode. Love ya'll
Quit peekin' is now my new ring tone. Thanks Tig.
I think Betty White would have loved the segment about her and Tig saying "she sounds like a real mess" 😂😂😂
Couldn't agree with Fortune more! In some sort of apocalypse zombie world/plane crash situation, I'm very much a "just eat my a$s" kind of person! 😆😁🤣😂
This is my favourite podcast! You all make me giggle constantly, and giggling is fun at 57 years old, ha!
First, I have done that with my nose whistling, and I didn’t know that’s what it was.
Second, my grandma used to say, “oh for gosh sakes, BLOW YOUR NOSE! God will give you more!”
Finally, I love Handsome, right down to its pink bismuth…😏👍🏻👍🏻⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💜🌷
I thought it was Pepto Bismo too!
Preface, I am truly amazed by the person who survived in the Amazon via ejected seat……….My reaction was the same as Tig’s and now i cannot stop picturing Tig in a full airplane seat, in a tree looking around and saying well, guess i was the only one that paid attn to the fasten seatbelt sign (or something similiar) I can’t stop cry laughing
LMAO!!! You cracked me up!
You handsomes went really deep this time, and I found myself realizing that I actually didn't mind not having as much distraction from real life through your brilliant comedy - even though more often than not, laughter is the best medicine, which I regularly prescribe to myself for my sanity!
But in all seriousness *pun intended 😊* - I appreciate each of you for being vulnerable and sharing parts of yourselves and your stories - including fears and growth - some of which I really relate to (i.e. Mae, your description of guilt being a default emotion at times; also, Fortune, your insights about teaching those you set boundaries with that they will no longer be enabled by you regarding certain caregiving actions).
Tig - I especially appreciate you sharing the story about choosing not to visit your friend's dad when he was dying, and you were not in a season of your life where that was even possible.
I have at least a few stories similar to that, but the one that stands out the most is when my best friend from childhood was dying from long-term effects of being addicted to heroin. We did not have regular contact for decades, due to her drug addiction and other related factors. We had been in touch by text a few times before she passed away (Feb. 2023), but I was going through stage 3 breast cancer treatments, and was not capable of being there for her in the way I felt I needed to -- and it has haunted me at times.
Anyway, hearing your story grants me new perspective and ideas about how to continue grieving her death.
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really, Handsomes! I was walking around listening to this episode and laughing like a fool.Thank you for bringing some laughter into these times.Also the boundary discussion was great!
Great question. I think a great tie in is the show Santa Clarita Diet (later seasons) where even, unknowingly, when we choose convenience (like how we buy groceries in cities) we know now that that this convenience can have negative implications….
Hahaha There was zero flirt energy from Tig but if I had to guess Taylor definitely crushes on Tig (and don’t we all)
Agreed!
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Thank you for bring such lightness and laughter into my life. You three are just perfect together.❤️❤️❤️
Did they forget that show Tig had about Tig not knowing who anybody famous is? 😂😂
Its quite funny.
Love these 3
I have laughed so many times!
Thank you for that.
Oh and Tig playing the piano is fabulous. Watch her special it's a good one
100% 🎉🎉🎉 a glorious piano handled by maestro notaro was next level! 😮
I’ve watched that episode of after midnight at least 3 times but now I gotta go watch it again ! It was so funny 😂❤
Thank goodness!! Tig gave us a Fortune!!!😂
lol.... and maybe even a first time "May!!!"
Southern Pretty Little Lady= people pleaser w/ no boundaries. It's just the way we're raised. Bonus points for ensuing passive- aggressiveness.
Also “One Mississippi “ is my feel good show🩷🪻🩷
I've been a huge fan of you all individually but as a group , especially on @midnight .... oh brother !! Not only was Tigs "im bored" hysterical but Mae's (my middle name only spelled may 🤨) "Oh , right you buzzed in" after her admitted crush on the hokus pokus crew was GOLDEN COMEDIC TIMING, NO ONE CAN EVER WRITE ! 😂😅🤪 and Fortune's explanation of pepto, makes way too much sense and was my thought when I was like 10 😂
What a podcast! I loved Tig’s new special also.👏👏👏👏
Such a great pod!
Concerning Courtney’s question…
… You first except after me is one of my favorite sayings. You always have to take care of yourself first in order to be of any true help to others. Always make sure you are 100% and then you can consider others. Just my perspective.
The show cracked me up! I thought you guys were great. And I agree with Fortune, you compliment each other in a really great way. Thanks for the laughs!
This was a very wonderful episode. Thanks for sharing your hearts and boundaries with us 🥰.
You three are genuinely handsome people
Someone needed to take poor Fortune straight to the School Nurse. She looks miserable! 💔
I loved their episode of Aftermidnight so much! It was the perfect combo of comedy I’m obsessed with!
I watched that After Midnight episode on RUclips and it was so hilarious!!!!!😂😂😂❤❤❤
I agree!😂...it made me so happy, i watched it twice!...good thing they didnt know the saying, "eat my ass", for that episode! ...lol- just being full of beans ;)...thanks as always, handsomes! 😊
oh, thank god. I started work this morning looking for my favorite podcast like I do every Tuesday morning, and it hadn't been posted yet. So glad it just came a little later!
Tig laying down wisdom !!! This ep was really good.
Pepto bismol is a brand name. I learned while traveling abroad and looking for Pepto bismol it was not on the shelf so I asked the pharmacist who showed me a bottle of “ bismuth”- I hope that’s spelled right- that was a pink liquid. So just keep in mind when you travel outside the U.S. to look for bismuth or to ask pharmacist. Fun show ladies
Took me a day to finish this video but I loved it! I'm telling everyone I know about the handsome pod. You pretty little handsome ladies deserve 10 million subs at the very least!
the 4 survival kids in the jungle happened here in Colombia about a year ago and they were native kids and the coolest thing is that, the army the police the everybody got together to find them , but thet were only found when the native shamans colaborated with the army , only until then they were found and it was through a ayauasca (yage) , where the e shaman was told where the kids were and how they moved through out the jungle for so many days, the shaman said that thjungle protected the kids for all those days. this could work as a Mae fact!!! love u guys
Mae needs this fact!
Lol. I was waiting for y'all to load up on RUclips this morning. Thanks for the smiles.
The most selfish thing one can do is to improve the world around you. That means making those around you feel good, arranging your space in a pleasing way. Losing 4 good friends in High School made me VERY conscious of the suddenness of the end. About that time I heard 'Live each day is if it were your last.' (Gandhi?) I don't have the time to waste doing things I do not want to do, it is never a waste of my time to help out. It helps that I'm knee-jerk honest and can't keep my mouth shut.
I had the same cannibal conversation with a friend of mine a number of years ago! :-)
I told her I insist she eat my rump-roast if we are ever in a situation that necessitates such a feast. I have an ample ass, so it's just good sense. Best bang for your buck, you know?
Keep it up, queeros! We are all happy you are here and working together.
What a podcast!
I thought you'd all appreciate that there's a generic brand of Oreos called "Creme Betweens."
Aw Fortune I hope you're feeling better.
Love, love, love you 3!! ❤❤❤
O M G. I can't stop laughing! My abs hurt!
My grandfather used to say I was full of piss and vinegar😂
Lol!❤
I laugh so hard at this podcast each week! I had to go back and watch the After Midnight episode after that flirting comment was made. I do not get the vibe of sexual tension/flirting between host Taylor and Tig. Tig is highly competitive and ups her game if she feels another comedian has inserted a good line. Taylor was gleeming with child like laughter a few times as she appeared to lose control of the game show..mostly due to Tigs unpredictably. It was more of a grasshopper/master vibe to me. The handsomes were definitely full of beans chased by a Red Bull on that show! 😂😂✨✨💕💕
Omg, Stuart Smalley. SNL. MUST watch!
Loved Stuart Smalley when he had Michael Jordan on for affirmations to boost his confidence! 😂😂
Please continue! I love the Handsome Pod!!!!!
Perfect timing to accidentally watch this episode. Hills and valleys accept boundaries. I’ve been replaying a semi-recent long-time friendship breakup and listening to the unfolding of your answers was the balm to sooth my picking over the could-haves and should-haves of it all.
You guys are just wonderful together. The sharing is quite equal amongst the Handsome cast. I look forward to watching the next one.
I think Taylor enjoyed whatever Tig was doing lmao
Appreciate y’all so much! Y’all always give a good laugh
you go from 🥺 to 😂😂😂 the eat my @ss convo after the first convo
Thanks…Handsomes…smile💓💓💓
I drive about 50 min to work every morning, and the Handsome podcast is my morning coffee!
Watched it! You all were great!
Y’all…I love this podcast!! ❤❤
hilarious as always ☺️ keep on keeping it handsome
I'm taking a class on generational healing today and this is perfect
I found out about Handsome Pod by watching that show - After Midnight? - I watched it cuz I noticed Tig was on it. Delighted with y'll. Hated the show, the format didn't make me happy, the last time I watched. But, I sought Handsome out. And --- glad to be included
I've seen every episode of after midnight and your episode is by far the best so far.
Self care and boundaries are lifelong negotiation. Though seems lame, it is not. Sending love thoughts and heart energy counts and is enough when you are in another unavailable place or time.
Looooved the episode of After Midnight and love this handsome crew.
Hear me out.....not Gender Doors but "Gendoors"
I found the pod bc of After Midnight! It was a banger episode 😂
Lol Taylor will love being asked that question I'm sure. Also, Tig your new special was great. Can't wait for your next piano recital!
I want y’all to take the Enneagram test and the Meyers/Briggs test. I’m so curious to hear all of your results. Then you could discuss it and the implications of it on one of the podcasts.
The delayed reaction from “peen” is the best “Fortune!” we’ve had to date.
6:46 sooooo great. Y’all did so awesome.
I watched all episodes of After Midnight since the first one and it was amazing to see you all there. I laughed so hard that I needed to watch it again to catch all the jokes. It was by far my favorite episode. ❤😂
p.s. I loved the discussion about makeup. My "makeup kit" has almost always consisted of lip balm and a couple of other items! IMHO, all three of you do not need makeup, and not just when you are being handsome . . . but also when you are being pretty little ladies! It is refreshing to see celebrities (again, of any gender) looking so natural. You are all great role models, from the surface to the depths of your souls.
I'll stop now -- I'm getting way too sappy and remembering that it is not usually wise to make comments on videos or any social media too late at night! I will most likely wake up with my default emotion of regret . . . and maybe a little shame thrown in there. 😩
My best friend is 53, and still calls it Pepto Bizmo 😂
Buckaroo Bonsai Across the 8th Dimension, "No matter where you go, there you are." Classic. Your podcast makes my day - thank you!
Love you three! I think Full of beans is a Canadian thing! Lol! I think you’re all absolutely awesome!
Only this podcast could have me laughing at Woven Wheats and Pink Bismuth
I’d like to comfort Fortune by admitting that I am almost 30 and I was saying “Pepto Bizmo” until about a year ago when my partner corrected me and then made fun of me relentlessly. We can fight for Bizmo together, Fortune! Love.
I love the journey all over topics - jumping beans! Eat my ass merch!
Poor Fortune!! Feel better!!❤
MAE, I'm OBSESSED with the story of the kids who survived the plane crash. I would die in exactly 3 hours, they're amazing.
Phil Hartman played STuart Smiley on SNL.
I'm just going to take a moment to type up my experience with a friend that's always late - and I'm going to send it out here to the worldwide web and see what comes back.
So, I have a friend, like Tig's, that ALWAYS late. We've been pretty close friends for over a decade (and tbh our kids are moreso friends) and i kid you not when i say I've wasted the equivalent of days of my life just waiting for this person to show up. About 3 years ago this really started frustrating me (perimenopause much?!) But I started noticing a pattern - it almost seemed like she got off on being late. It was like, if I was waiting for her then it fed her feelings of importance - she was important enough for me to wait 30-45 minutes. It was like a little ego boost for her, while at the same time crushing my ego because apparently I wasn't important enough for her to show up on time. Pretty sick. Pretty twisted.
Eventually I decided that I liked the friend enough to not completely cut ties, but I started showing up in the friendship differently. I stopped initiating get-togethers. I only hang out with her when I know she HAS to be somewhere at a specific time. For example, she drops her kids off 7:30 so we can meet at 7:35 to walk together. Or we see each other at group activities where there will be other people for me to visit with while she's rolling in late. One thing that's very funny to me is, when she does make it close to on-time, she'll kinda brag about it and do a little victory lap like, "Hey, look at me, I'm actually on time!" And I always just ignore the comments because, f that - you don't get kudos for doing the bare minimum.
She gives a lot of excuses for being late all the time, but I've noticed she can be on time to the dr and to school and work, so what the f?
10/10 favorite comedy podcast ever
Someone tell Tig about “Extra Toasty” Cheez-it’s!!! They’ll change their life haha
i did catch flirty vibes, but it was definitely Taylor flirting with Tig 🖤 which was cute and mostly respectful
I love how much they discussed a year ago or no question 😂
11:59 This is hilarious. A few years ago on her podcast (the bald and the beautiful) Trixie Mattel talked about how you asked her to hold your “lipstick” at the Netflix is a joke LGBTQ stand up show. 😅
toasted triscuits are the best snack
Nobody cares that Bismuth is a chemical element BI. Your welcome. 😂
burnt edge triscuit gang for life