The fear of man DEFINITELY brings a snare!!!! Mental and spiritual snare!!! I am 1 of 7…always compared…always lumped together…thanks, Dr. Cloud…this helped tremendously! Thank you for being righteously angry FOR us and against our captivity. THAT is true LOVE!
Great, much needed message! Sometimes depression and lack of motivation is from fear of not completing tasks “properly” and from being compared/comparing ourselves to others. I had the same issue from being in a toxic narcissistic relationship and being compared to another woman by the man whom I loved. I felt like I was losing my identity trying to fit her shoe. I got tired of living under someone else’s shadow and hated who I was becoming. So depressed, no voice, no control over my emotions. I decided I needed to disconnect and get to know myself and love myself. God is still helping me with this. I now am much stronger and love myself enough that I no longer fear setting boundaries and risk losing relationships with emotionally toxic people, nor fear being single or alone. 😁 Love yourself, get to know yourself, accept yourself, receive forgiveness, set boundaries, define your likes and dislikes, make it clear what you will and will not put up with… And to the caller, if you are the “bad twin”, remember that people who make mistakes often have powerful testimonies. You might be working on yours. Embrace who you are and your flaws. Take your time, it’s not a competition. God bless you! 😇🤍💖
This is SO helpful!! I am a twin .. my name is Michelle too!! SO much of this is ringing bells, about my sister!! I Have taken ownership in so many areas.... and felt guilty for not wanting to share some of the blessings with her: In my heart I have a 110 mile wall around my castle with a mote and have thrown away the key to the drawbridge!! I sense danger if I do... I love her and her family dearly, but she needs to be her own person without me as well... It is something I have prayed about, but I know past tendencies in a very enmeshed setting.
This has been difficult when fighting an underlying autoimmune condition and having basically not knowing what it was for years. I truly believe it’s a symptom of it and the fatigue along with mental/emotional exhaustion.
God bless you 🙏Very helpful in a lot of ways. I'm going to write down all the scriptures you mentioned tonight and think and pray about them. Gods word is our tool and I appreciate what you said. I know this will help a lot of souls. Thank you 🤗
Great reminders to hear and re-tell ourselves and our children. Love your themes; know and own and defend your boundaries, know and own and defend your values.
Dr.Cloud, in this video you tuched on a issue in my life, in fact, two! number one is, my wife is a serious procastenator. even when it comes to her detrament, is Doctor appointments she never keeps,so then the dr. has tio re scedual whtch she will never keep on time,anyway.offering her bribes, showing her in a nice way she is hurting herself, making others upset, she just plane dont care.iF We had to be on time for anything, like a train, or plane, "no matter if the house is on fire, it isnt gonna happen!! how do i help her? Anetas husband. on a side note, shes 77 years old, and developing alshimers! is now crippled, and just plane dont care about clocks.
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The fear of man DEFINITELY brings a snare!!!! Mental and spiritual snare!!! I am 1 of 7…always compared…always lumped together…thanks, Dr. Cloud…this helped tremendously! Thank you for being righteously angry FOR us and against our captivity. THAT is true LOVE!
Great, much needed message! Sometimes depression and lack of motivation is from fear of not completing tasks “properly” and from being compared/comparing ourselves to others. I had the same issue from being in a toxic narcissistic relationship and being compared to another woman by the man whom I loved. I felt like I was losing my identity trying to fit her shoe. I got tired of living under someone else’s shadow and hated who I was becoming. So depressed, no voice, no control over my emotions. I decided I needed to disconnect and get to know myself and love myself. God is still helping me with this. I now am much stronger and love myself enough that I no longer fear setting boundaries and risk losing relationships with emotionally toxic people, nor fear being single or alone. 😁
Love yourself, get to know yourself, accept yourself, receive forgiveness, set boundaries, define your likes and dislikes, make it clear what you will and will not put up with…
And to the caller, if you are the “bad twin”, remember that people who make mistakes often have powerful testimonies. You might be working on yours. Embrace who you are and your flaws. Take your time, it’s not a competition.
God bless you! 😇🤍💖
Thank ❤ you so much I've needed this. I relate to Michelle, am struggling now and grew up constantly compared as less than.
This is SO helpful!! I am a twin .. my name is Michelle too!! SO much of this is ringing bells, about my sister!! I Have taken ownership in so many areas.... and felt guilty for not wanting to share some of the blessings with her: In my heart I have a 110 mile wall around my castle with a mote and have thrown away the key to the drawbridge!! I sense danger if I do... I love her and her family dearly, but she needs to be her own person without me as well... It is something I have prayed about, but I know past tendencies in a very enmeshed setting.
This has been difficult when fighting an underlying autoimmune condition and having basically not knowing what it was for years. I truly believe it’s a symptom of it and the fatigue along with mental/emotional exhaustion.
I needed this forever ago.
God bless you 🙏Very helpful in a lot of ways. I'm going to write down all the scriptures you mentioned tonight and think and pray about them. Gods word is our tool and I appreciate what you said. I know this will help a lot of souls. Thank you 🤗
Oh my goodness! The different families example made SO much sense! Thank you!
Great reminders to hear and re-tell ourselves and our children. Love your themes; know and own and defend your boundaries, know and own and defend your values.
I love this! Psychology from a biblical viewpoint. ❤
Depression it sounds to me - I’ve had those moments
This is very interesting and helpful
Thank you!
One of your better "rants" 😉
I will save this video to my "Watch Later" playlist.
Sometimes I compare without even realizing! lol I guess I have a lot of work to do.
Galatians 6:4
Matthew 20:15
John 21:21
Galatians 6:1
Great insights
I have been so complacent lately!
Different is not worse
Sounds like depression anxiety
Dr.Cloud, in this video you tuched on a issue in my life, in fact, two! number one is, my wife is a serious procastenator. even when it comes to her detrament, is Doctor appointments she never keeps,so then the dr. has tio re scedual whtch she will never keep on time,anyway.offering her bribes, showing her in a nice way she is hurting herself, making others upset, she just plane dont care.iF We had to be on time for anything, like a train, or plane, "no matter if the house is on fire, it isnt gonna happen!! how do i help her? Anetas husband. on a side note, shes 77 years old, and developing alshimers! is now crippled, and just plane dont care about clocks.
Isn’t what she describing more of avoidance in line with PTSD