@Mai Moua my aunt always reminded me that fishing and hunting are better than cheating, gambling, and lazy, so for me to be patient. Which I believe so too. It could've been worse. Lol
Tus niam tsev yus rov hlub yus tus neeg mog. Tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub yus npaum li yus tus nkeeg. Tsis paub xyov koj nyem puas tau lus mekas tabsim I don't want to say divorce is the answer because it's not for everyone. BUT being in a relationship where one does not want to do life with you is not the way a marriage should go either. I once was in your shoes. When everything falls on you it gets to tiring and exhausting. Love yourself. Listen to your heart. Life without a companion is hard and lonely, but learn to keep yourself busy. Remember that you don't need to prove anything to anyone. Xav zoo es rov hlub yus tus nkeeg. Hugs tus niam tsev!
We all walk in our own shoes, therefore we will never understand why someone puts up with certain situations and it's very easy to judge others. However, this sister is a great wife mother sister and friend. She still has hope that her husband one day will step up and help her. No hating.. I actually admire her. I hope that one day your husband does his part so he doesnt loose you...But I also hope that you find the courage to walk away. Sometimes walking away opens his eyes and sometimes it doesn't but at least you will know where he stands. Good luck.
"Tus nquag mas pw tsis tau, hos tus pluag mas pw tsis txaus." This is the husband and his big ego. LOL! He thinks he deserves a higher paying job, because he's a big Boss now, but no employer is willing to hire him. He is worth as much as the job is paying him.
Every job will have it’s own stress, just keep practicing and eventually you’ll get better. Don’t be afraid to fail and learn from others. Don’t be afraid to start a new job and don’t worry about what others have to say. You have to start somewhere and work hard for everything you have. Don’t care what other people think, at the end of the day, they don’t pay your bills but your company. Do your job and come home to your family. They’re the ones that truly matters. When we start to focus and appreciate the things we have in life, we are more happy.
A job is a job. Everyone’s got bills to pay and got mouth to feed. I don’t understand how you stayed with him so long. I’m a husband with an advanced degree and I still have to work. I don’t crave for power & recognition like him. A Pathas means nothing to me, just a figure head. If he threatens you, there’s always the authority.
Like it more when you didn't do all these advertisements Story: Your kids are selfless. They grew up with you two. They should've seen how your husband behave. Shouldn't had guilt trip you to stay. Better to see you happy than stress/dead.
Niam hluas aw kuv tus txiv zoo li ko es kuv twb muab nws cuam pov tseg rau hauv thoob khib nyiab los tau 20 lub xyoo no lawm kuv twb tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab lawm os kav tsij muab cuam rau hauv thoob khib nyiab xwb os mog
Tus niam tsev aww koj nug niam ntsuab teev ua dab tsi nas. Pog no es twb muaj lub siab phem tshaj plaws dag yuav hmoob mekas tuaj txog mam nrauj es rov mus yuav ntsuab teev es nug tej tug pog paj vav phem li no tsev yim dab tsi os
Sister, you choose to stay and support a dead beat husband and father. A job is a job. Supporting your family is a job and being a leader is another job. Let him suffer so how will learn.
Koj tus txiv tu nkeeg xwb koj yeej yeem nyob ua nws qhev ua txog tav nov lawm txhob tuaj nug peb. yog peb ces twb tso nws thaum nws tsis kam mus khwv ntawd lawm tsis tos txog tav nov os ua neej nyob hauv qab peb tej nuj nqis xwb es tsis nrog kuv khwv ces kuv tsis yug leej twg li ho
Peb uaneej nyob nawb peb Hmoob yog ib Tsavneeg muaj meejmom loj2 li mas tej nyuag haujlwm company tsum kiag nawb, us txaj muag nawb mog. Tsum zoo dua Lmao
Tau ib niag txiv Neej hmoob quav Dev li ntawd mas ceeb laj nrog nws ua neej txog hnub kawg ...nws Npas lub nyob es noj yus lub zog xwb mas dhuav neeg tshaj plaws li o hmoob e
Kuv tus pab tha no twb tseem ua hauj lwm company nas.. ris tsho xam koos los kuv muaj pliag dev lios kuv kuj coj nrog xam koos thiab khau kab pij nyug dub thiab phlos hlau dub los kuv coj hais Baum no ho koj tus kos es tub nkeeg xwb kuv mus txog twg los neeg tsa 2 txhais tes nuv kuv tib si ho xav kom haib ces nrog 3 ua company nawb Amen
Having no job is embarrassing and degrading for a man. When people know you live off your wife's earnings, people lose respect and look down on you. The job you get is based on your qualifications. To the wife, women aren't breed to take care of men financially so I'm not sure why you allowed him do this to you?
Tau txiv tub nkees ces koj lub neej yuav txom nyem mus tas tiam no. Tus txiv es twb yog tus yuav tuaj nuj nqes ntau es yog zoo li koj tus xwb ces yim nrauj ntxov yim zoo. Nws yeej yuav tsis hloov ib sim neej li os.
Me viv ncaus aw, kuv lub neej txom nyem tshaj plaws li thiab vim kuv tus qub txiv twv, twv txiaj tsis pab kuv muaj 3 tug tub 1 tug ntxhais es kuv txom nyem ntsuag nos es nraug tsis tau niag ntsej muag casino ntawd tau 23 xyoo ua rau txom nyem lwj siab lwj ntsw kawg vim niag ntsej muag casino ntawd tsjs pab khwv mas kuv lub neej poob qab Deb tshaj li kuv muab nws nraun tag kuv tau lub neej zoo tus txjv zoo pab kuv hlub kuv koj kav tsij muab nws ua lub recycle kiag xwb kon thiaj li tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab
Peb cov twb yog txiv tsev niaj ua mej koob kav xwm peb twb ua Company xwb kav tsij pab yus tus niam tsev thiaj muaj nqis dab tsi los koj tsis pab koj tu niam tsev koj tsis muaj quav dab tsi koj tsis tseem ceeb peb muaj meej mom muaj koob npe vim muaj tus poj niam kav Company xwb
Ua hauj lwm rau company tsis yog phem os yeej yog hauj lwm zoo yog yus tus kheej twb tsis muaj nyiaj ces yuav tau ua hauj lwm rau company xwb mas yog xav ua neej muaj meej mom xwb tsis xav ua hauj lwm ces luag yuav saib koj tsis tsim txhiaj dab tsi li vim koj twb tsis muaj siv rau luag li ces luag yuav saib koj tsis muaj nuj nqi li
Ua ib tus thawj coj tsis kam ua hauj lwm es yuav ua tau ib tus thawj coj li cas Hmoob aw. Niag txiv zoo li ko ces muab ua ntia tseg xwb thiaj li koj siab. Cov niag txiv zoo li ko ces ua li cas los yog tshuav ntsej muag thiab poob ntsej muag xwb.
Tsis xav ua haujlwm company ces mus kawm ntawv kom cuv ib txog haujlwm nyob office thiab ua tus saib cov neeg ua haujlwm xwb. Tabsis yog niaj hnub nyob tos lwm tus khwv rau yus noj thiab mus noj luag tug xwb ces yog tau haujlwm company ces twb yog zoo. Neeg tub nkeeg tsa meejmom siab ces txog thaum kawg nyob qab choj.
Kev peb mus ua hauj lwm rau luag yog tias ua dawb xwb tsi them nyiaj ma thiaj yog ua luag qhev yog luag them nyiaj ces yog yus ua yus lub plab thiab txoj sia qhev xwb
Tus txiv tsev zoo yog tus txiv tsev tsis xaiv hauj lwm tsuav tau nyiaj los yug yus tsev neeg xwb Muaj nyiaj thiaj muaj meej mom tub nkeeg ces meej mom poob tas
Nyob meskas teb yog tau ib tug txiv tsis xav mus khwv nyiaj ces Tsis thas yuav yog yuav cia ib tug ua hauj lwm xwb mas yuav tsum yog ib tug ua tau li ntawm ib puas tawm txhiab mas thiaj txaus nawb thiab koj ua tus loj es puas tau nyiaj hli ma neeg loj es ua cas ho tsis tau nyiaj hli noj ,
I don't get these people. Koj txaj muag mus ua haujlwm tom company tiamsis koj hos tsis txaj muag txais foodstamp noj. Koj lub hlwb khiav rov qab lawm os yawmtxiv. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Oyo tu nkeeg mas tseem zoo mloog dua.. yog xav tau ntsej muag ces kawg mus kawm ntawv qib siab thiaj tsis tau ua company xwb las as! Engineer twb ua haujlwm company ne!
Kuv ntseeg li niam ntsuab teev hais. Txawm yog company xwb los yog koj poob hauj lwm hnub twg ces koj yeej tsis tau nyiaj qhov twg los them nuj nqis li mas.
Koj tus txiv ces tub nkeeg xwb os ntxov mus ntxov zoo mog koj nyob los koj yuav txom nyem yuav ua yug nws nws cov txiv dev khav theeb zoo li koj tus ces nws yuav Cia dev xwb os
My first husband was the same way! I divorced him 11 years ago best thing I ever did because you’ll never go up just stay where you’re at! Get rid of these lazy so called man they ain’t shit
Txiv Dev Liam txawv ua cas koj tseem yuav nws thiab. Koj yuav khiab nws npav muab video coj moj mus rhuav tsis care. Ua kev ces rau phem xwb. Txiv Liam txawv li ko laib thaum ntxov ntshe koj twb muaj nyiaj lawm tsis tas yuav uv nws li
Meej mom tub nkeeg twb tub nkeeg neeg tub nkeeg ces hais tias tub nkeeg los mas meej mom tsav tsis tau koj lub neej kiag li od, thaum nyiaj tag lawm ces mus ntxuav hoob nab xwb los yuav tau mus li hos.
Koj niag txiv yog neeg tub nkeeg tsis xav work, xav nyob ua hau loj hau laib xwb. Sim neej no nej tej kev txij nkawm es yig vim li cas nej thiaj li muab record mas, ruam tshaj plaws li os cog neeg ua li no. Ua hauj company es ruam tshaj ces nws ntse2 kom nws mus apply hauj lwm office, nws twb tsis ntse txog qhov qualify mus work in the office.
Yus tsis xav ua hauj lwm co. Ces saib yus puas kawm ntawv siab xwb. Yog tsis siab thiab ces kawg co. Los yog go broke xwb las. Kuv qhuas tus neeg ua haujlwm co. dua li niag neeg tsis ua dejnum thiab broke xwb.
President lub company twb yog White House xwb ne luag yog Nom luag tseem khwv yus yog pej xeem qab xib taw daj xwb txawm siv tsav meej mom siab tshaj nom tswv lawm os
I have no sympathy for you. Especially koj tseem yuav nug cov listeners saib lawm xav li cas ua ntej. Omg. Koj txuas koj siab nyob yug ib niag txiv dev ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.
Geez, a job is a job. Company job is not bad! Both my husband & I work in the same company! Don’t matter where you work, as long as you have $$$ coming weekly to pay bills. Better than being homeless. Men like this make us ladies appreciate our husbands who hold a stable job & takes care of the bills. I don’t know how some people can go day by day without a job/paycheck. I get my hours cut short when we’re slow and I worried if I’ll have enough $$$ next paycheck to pay bills, put foods on the table. I’d divorce that loser husband long time ago if I were you!
The only way is to go get a degree if he doesn’t like company work. Regardless he will still be working for a company. He’s just a lazy excuse of a man. Nothing else. If you’re tired of it, just leave him. The only reason why he is the way he is is because you are enabling him. He knows where the money will come from.
Some people work "company" make more than others who work "office" jobs! your husband is just LAZY! Hmoob tus "patan" is not even a big enough name to act like you are a king. I would have left him long ago. I have a feeling this woman will not leave him. oh well. that's your fate you choose.
Tus me muam awv koj tus txiv g pab koj. Koj twb Nyob tau 1 yig es koj pheej yuav khwv los yug nws ua dab tsi muab nws xav rau kwv rau tij zoo dua niaj Nyob sib ceg lwj siab ua dab tsi
Tus txiv tsis tab cuab tsis tsheej haj li koj hais no ces tso tawm mus koj yuav tau kev kaj siab lug hais rau koj tias tus neeg tub nkeeg ces ua dab tsi los yeej txaj muag
you always complain about divorcing him but did not follow thru so that's why he won't change cause he knows you can never divorce him. Too late for you now cause you're getting old by the day......why complain when deep in your heart you can never divorce him.
Me viv ncaus aw, koj tus txiv txhob txwm ua rau koj xwb os. Kuv tus mas kam teb chaw los ua, ua tus coj los ua, mus pab kwv tij sawv daws sab nraum los ua tabsi nws ua hauj lwm full-time tibsi li. Nws pab thiab ua thaum nws muaj vacation lossis weekend xwb ces nws mam mus pab kwv tij sab ntsaug xwb os.
Sister only fools would stayed in situation like you. Your husband is dead beat. He's selfish and greedy but mostly he only cared about himself and no one else. He'll never change. Love yourself and wake up. Stop supporting such a loser and put you first. Your children needs you
Nothing wrong with working in a labor industry (blue collar) vs a white collar. A job is a job. Doesn’t even matter if you’re a janitor. Your husband needs to learn how to build up. A janitor can become a president or a king!
Everybody needs to bring income to support the family. You have a spouse to ease the burden of life. If he does not contribute then what good is he for.
Paj tha twb pab tsis tau yus tsev neeg es hos yuav mus pab cov sab nrauv. Xuab kawg nkaus li lawm txog thaum ob niam txiv ua hauj lwm saum txaj es muab yees duab los ua teeb meem. 😂
🤣 when you don’t get a cheating husband, you get a lazy husband. My gosh 😂😂🤦🏻♀️
Hunting fishing etc hahaha 😆
I don’t know what’s worse anymore…. 🤷🏻♀️
😂🤣
So true it's always something
@Mai Moua my aunt always reminded me that fishing and hunting are better than cheating, gambling, and lazy, so for me to be patient. Which I believe so too. It could've been worse. Lol
Tus niam tsev yus rov hlub yus tus neeg mog. Tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub yus npaum li yus tus nkeeg. Tsis paub xyov koj nyem puas tau lus mekas tabsim I don't want to say divorce is the answer because it's not for everyone. BUT being in a relationship where one does not want to do life with you is not the way a marriage should go either. I once was in your shoes. When everything falls on you it gets to tiring and exhausting. Love yourself. Listen to your heart. Life without a companion is hard and lonely, but learn to keep yourself busy. Remember that you don't need to prove anything to anyone. Xav zoo es rov hlub yus tus nkeeg. Hugs tus niam tsev!
His complaining about company work but he can't even provide for his family.
niam ntsuab teev kuv nyiam koj cov neej neeg heev li
We all walk in our own shoes, therefore we will never understand why someone puts up with certain situations and it's very easy to judge others. However, this sister is a great wife mother sister and friend. She still has hope that her husband one day will step up and help her. No hating.. I actually admire her. I hope that one day your husband does his part so he doesnt loose you...But I also hope that you find the courage to walk away. Sometimes walking away opens his eyes and sometimes it doesn't but at least you will know where he stands. Good luck.
"Tus nquag mas pw tsis tau, hos tus pluag mas pw tsis txaus." This is the husband and his big ego. LOL! He thinks he deserves a higher paying job, because he's a big Boss now, but no employer is willing to hire him. He is worth as much as the job is paying him.
Every job will have it’s own stress, just keep practicing and eventually you’ll get better. Don’t be afraid to fail and learn from others. Don’t be afraid to start a new job and don’t worry about what others have to say. You have to start somewhere and work hard for everything you have. Don’t care what other people think, at the end of the day, they don’t pay your bills but your company. Do your job and come home to your family. They’re the ones that truly matters. When we start to focus and appreciate the things we have in life, we are more happy.
Phooj ywg koj txoj hmoo zoo heev tau tus poj niam tab cuab
Thanks for sharing your story sister. You're not the only one in this situation. I'm wearing your shoe as well. Enough is enough.
A job is a job. Everyone’s got bills to pay and got mouth to feed. I don’t understand how you stayed with him so long. I’m a husband with an advanced degree and I still have to work. I don’t crave for power & recognition like him. A Pathas means nothing to me, just a figure head. If he threatens you, there’s always the authority.
Like it more when you didn't do all these advertisements
Story: Your kids are selfless. They grew up with you two. They should've seen how your husband behave. Shouldn't had guilt trip you to stay. Better to see you happy than stress/dead.
Leej twg tau txiv tub nkeeg thiaj nkag siab zaj dab neeg no lwj siab tshaj plaw tawm rooj plaw yu lub ntsiaj muag ce luaj ib nti xwb 😢
Niam hluas aw kuv tus txiv zoo li ko es kuv twb muab nws cuam pov tseg rau hauv thoob khib nyiab los tau 20 lub xyoo no lawm kuv twb tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab lawm os kav tsij muab cuam rau hauv thoob khib nyiab xwb os mog
You have proven to yourself over and over again that you can be independent without him. You don't need him. Let him go and be free
Tus niam tsev aww koj nug niam ntsuab teev ua dab tsi nas. Pog no es twb muaj lub siab phem tshaj plaws dag yuav hmoob mekas tuaj txog mam nrauj es rov mus yuav ntsuab teev es nug tej tug pog paj vav phem li no tsev yim dab tsi os
Sister, you choose to stay and support a dead beat husband and father. A job is a job. Supporting your family is a job and being a leader is another job. Let him suffer so how will learn.
Ntsaws khib nyiab es kom nws thiaj paub kev txom nyem os viv ncaus. Tus neeg xyeej hauj lwm li ko tsis tsav koj lub neej.
Koj tus txiv tu nkeeg xwb koj yeej yeem nyob ua nws qhev ua txog tav nov lawm txhob tuaj nug peb. yog peb ces twb tso nws thaum nws tsis kam mus khwv ntawd lawm tsis tos txog tav nov os ua neej nyob hauv qab peb tej nuj nqis xwb es tsis nrog kuv khwv ces kuv tsis yug leej twg li ho
Nyob zoo os me niam lau aws
Nyob zoo os.
Lazy people will find all kind of excuses to be lazy. You working two jobs just encouraging your husband to be even more lazy.
Peb uaneej nyob nawb peb Hmoob yog ib Tsavneeg muaj meejmom loj2 li mas tej nyuag haujlwm company tsum kiag nawb, us txaj muag nawb mog. Tsum zoo dua
Lmao
Yog lawm tiag, hmoob meej mom loj, loj kav tsij mus nyob xwb es mus apply sib puas tau nyiaj nom nyiaj tswv noj xwb tiag peb cov pabthas npuas tiam no.
Wow cas tej tus txiv neej zoo li no mas xiam tiam tiag2 3 lam yuav 3 cov txiv fb los twb g txawj kov tab sis nquag2 hihihi
txiv neej tag rau nws lawm lov cas koj tseem xav nyob lub neej no
yog koj ntxov nrauj ces koj twb kaj siab lawm naw.....
Kev ua ib tug laus neeg yuav coj li cas;
1. Koj yuav tsum hwm koj tus niam tsev, vim nws yuav ua daim iav tsom koj,
2. Koj yuav tsum ua ib tug qauv zoo rau kwv tij, neej tsa thiab phooj ywg,
3. Txhob coj noj thiab coj haus, luag tus txheej txheem tiav ces yus yuav tsum sawv,
4. "Rooj sam fwm txhawb plig"; Yog koj mus tsis ncav sij hawm ces txhob mus zoo dua,
5. "Rooj kev lom zem"; Yog koj tus niam tsev muaj chaw tab kaum ces txhob mus zoo dua,
6. Lub sij hawm koj tseem tab tom noj mov txhob tham pem,
7. Txhob tub kheeg los sis tsab muaj. "Nas kos yuav tsum ntsuas nas kos cev".
8. Txhob hnov tsis tau ib tug phooj ywg hu koj thiab nrov twg mus twg,
9. Thaum koj tus niam tsev cheem koj lawm yuav tsum nyob twj ywm,
10. Kev phooj kev ywg yuav tsum cog thiab tab sis txhob coj dav dhau.
Tsi muaj noj ma thiaj txaj muag os tus txiv neej li ko ces lub neej laj caum cuag luag os laj2 ua nws qhev mus txog hnub tuag
Ua haujlwm koopani tsi muaj kev nyuajsiab, ua lagluam muaj kev nyuajsiab.
Tau ib niag txiv Neej hmoob quav Dev li ntawd mas ceeb laj nrog nws ua neej txog hnub kawg ...nws Npas lub nyob es noj yus lub zog xwb mas dhuav neeg tshaj plaws li o hmoob e
mob siab thiab zoo mloog heev
Tus niam hluas tus txiv zoo li ko ces siab phem xwb muaj nws los yeej pab dabtsi li os nws tsis hlub koj li os koj hlub koj tus kheej nawb mog
I feel so sorry for this woman. She deserves better.
Kuv tus pab tha no twb tseem ua hauj lwm company nas.. ris tsho xam koos los kuv muaj pliag dev lios kuv kuj coj nrog xam koos thiab khau kab pij nyug dub thiab phlos hlau dub los kuv coj hais Baum no ho koj tus kos es tub nkeeg xwb kuv mus txog twg los neeg tsa 2 txhais tes nuv kuv tib si ho xav kom haib ces nrog 3 ua company nawb Amen
Tsis need noog noog koj lub siab seb koj lub siab xav tau dab tsi xwb
Having no job is embarrassing and degrading for a man. When people know you live off your wife's earnings, people lose respect and look down on you. The job you get is based on your qualifications. To the wife, women aren't breed to take care of men financially so I'm not sure why you allowed him do this to you?
Yog kuv ce twb nrauj ntev lawm o nyob lo g zoo tsuaj dab g lawm o
Tau txiv tub nkees ces koj lub neej yuav txom nyem mus tas tiam no. Tus txiv es twb yog tus yuav tuaj nuj nqes ntau es yog zoo li koj tus xwb ces yim nrauj ntxov yim zoo. Nws yeej yuav tsis hloov ib sim neej li os.
Sister, you know what you need to do. If you are looking for the right time. The right time is now.
Me viv ncaus aw, kuv lub neej txom nyem tshaj plaws li thiab vim kuv tus qub txiv twv, twv txiaj tsis pab kuv muaj 3 tug tub 1 tug ntxhais es kuv txom nyem ntsuag nos es nraug tsis tau niag ntsej muag casino ntawd tau 23 xyoo ua rau txom nyem lwj siab lwj ntsw kawg vim niag ntsej muag casino ntawd tsjs pab khwv mas kuv lub neej poob qab Deb tshaj li kuv muab nws nraun tag kuv tau lub neej zoo tus txjv zoo pab kuv hlub kuv koj kav tsij muab nws ua lub recycle kiag xwb kon thiaj li tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab
Txoj kev khwv ces txhua yam tsuas tau nyiaj xwb.. txawm yog ua haujlwm cov sw2 xwb los tsuas tau nyiaj xwb. Ua coj ntawm hmoob twb tsis tau nyiaj ne..
Tham tau zoo heev li
Tsuas yog company tseem txais Yus ces twb yog lucky kawg thiaj tau ua I worked with Company the last 42 yrs
2min & 30sec will be the beginning of the story if anyone is interested 😆
Yep..
Ib tug txiv zoo le ko xwb ces nrauj zoo dlua. Peb yuav ib tug txiv zoo le ko ces yuav los nkim koj lub neej xwb os.
Peb cov twb yog txiv tsev niaj ua mej koob kav xwm peb twb ua Company xwb kav tsij pab yus tus niam tsev thiaj muaj nqis dab tsi los koj tsis pab koj tu niam tsev koj tsis muaj quav dab tsi koj tsis tseem ceeb peb muaj meej mom muaj koob npe vim muaj tus poj niam kav Company xwb
Ua hauj lwm rau company tsis yog phem os yeej yog hauj lwm zoo yog yus tus kheej twb tsis muaj nyiaj ces yuav tau ua hauj lwm rau company xwb mas yog xav ua neej muaj meej mom xwb tsis xav ua hauj lwm ces luag yuav saib koj tsis tsim txhiaj dab tsi li vim koj twb tsis muaj siv rau luag li ces luag yuav saib koj tsis muaj nuj nqi li
Txiv tub nkeeg mas lwj siab tshaj lis os. Pluag tsab muaj ruam tsab ntse ces yog nws ntag lob!
Tus me niam tsev, muab nws nrauj mus kuv mam hlub koj os.
Txij nkawm nkauj nraug sib hlub npaum cas txhob thaij video txoj kev hlub saum txaj
Txhob tub nkeeg thiaj muaj nyiaj siv
Work is work as long as you get pay that’s all matters
Ua ib tus thawj coj tsis kam ua hauj lwm es yuav ua tau ib tus thawj coj li cas Hmoob aw. Niag txiv zoo li ko ces muab ua ntia tseg xwb thiaj li koj siab. Cov niag txiv zoo li ko ces ua li cas los yog tshuav ntsej muag thiab poob ntsej muag xwb.
Tsis xav ua haujlwm company ces mus kawm ntawv kom cuv ib txog haujlwm nyob office thiab ua tus saib cov neeg ua haujlwm xwb. Tabsis yog niaj hnub nyob tos lwm tus khwv rau yus noj thiab mus noj luag tug xwb ces yog tau haujlwm company ces twb yog zoo. Neeg tub nkeeg tsa meejmom siab ces txog thaum kawg nyob qab choj.
Nrauj kiag niag txiv tub nkeeg ko os mog
Khwv li qhev ces noj li nom hos khwv li nom ces noj li qhev xwb mas
Kev peb mus ua hauj lwm rau luag yog tias ua dawb xwb tsi them nyiaj ma thiaj yog ua luag qhev yog luag them nyiaj ces yog yus ua yus lub plab thiab txoj sia qhev xwb
Kuv yog ib tus txiv tsev, Kuv tsis muaj meej mom zoo. Kuv niaj hnub mus ua hauj lwm company los yus kuv tsev neeg xwb. Zoo dua qhov nyob qab choj.
Tus txiv tsev zoo yog tus txiv tsev tsis xaiv hauj lwm tsuav tau nyiaj los yug yus tsev neeg xwb
Muaj nyiaj thiaj muaj meej mom tub nkeeg ces meej mom poob tas
Nyob meskas teb yog tau ib tug txiv tsis xav mus khwv nyiaj ces Tsis thas yuav yog yuav cia ib tug ua hauj lwm xwb mas yuav tsum yog ib tug ua tau li ntawm ib puas tawm txhiab mas thiaj txaus nawb thiab koj ua tus loj es puas tau nyiaj hli ma neeg loj es ua cas ho tsis tau nyiaj hli noj ,
I don't get these people. Koj txaj muag mus ua haujlwm tom company tiamsis koj hos tsis txaj muag txais foodstamp noj. Koj lub hlwb khiav rov qab lawm os yawmtxiv. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Oyo tu nkeeg mas tseem zoo mloog dua.. yog xav tau ntsej muag ces kawg mus kawm ntawv qib siab thiaj tsis tau ua company xwb las as! Engineer twb ua haujlwm company ne!
Kuv ntseeg li niam ntsuab teev hais. Txawm yog company xwb los yog koj poob hauj lwm hnub twg ces koj yeej tsis tau nyiaj qhov twg los them nuj nqis li mas.
Txhob siv meejmom thiaj muaj nyiaj siv los tiag taw tsis muaj neeg xav yug tus neeg tsis kam ua haujlwm. Nws xav lem koj xwb muab pov tseg saib nws puas txawj xav
Cag zoo jb yab lj kuv lub thiab og nguam siab ua luaj og hmoob
Koj tus txiv ces tub nkeeg xwb os ntxov mus ntxov zoo mog koj nyob los koj yuav txom nyem yuav ua yug nws nws cov txiv dev khav theeb zoo li koj tus ces nws yuav Cia dev xwb os
Tsis muaj ib txoj hauj lwm ruam tsuas muaj neeg ruam xwb .loj tus txiv ces tub nkeeg xwb.
My first husband was the same way! I divorced him 11 years ago best thing I ever did because you’ll never go up just stay where you’re at! Get rid of these lazy so called man they ain’t shit
Mloog koj Zaaj no thag e kuv thiaj lam ua neej os tsi yog koj xwb kuv lub neej zoo ib yam Li koj os tug vivncau lam yuav tia yus muaj txiv no xwb os
Txiv Dev Liam txawv ua cas koj tseem yuav nws thiab. Koj yuav khiab nws npav muab video coj moj mus rhuav tsis care. Ua kev ces rau phem xwb. Txiv Liam txawv li ko laib thaum ntxov ntshe koj twb muaj nyiaj lawm tsis tas yuav uv nws li
Ib thug txiv tub nyee li koj tus.yog kuv ces thwb nrau Lawm ntev...
Nrauj mus tus txiv zoo li koj tus no
Sister aw tus txiv neej ko ces yuav los tsis zoo dab tsis li os tsis tag yuav li nawb
Meej mom tub nkeeg twb tub nkeeg neeg tub nkeeg ces hais tias tub nkeeg los mas meej mom tsav tsis tau koj lub neej kiag li od, thaum nyiaj tag lawm ces mus ntxuav hoob nab xwb los yuav tau mus li hos.
Koj niag txiv yog neeg tub nkeeg tsis xav work, xav nyob ua hau loj hau laib xwb. Sim neej no nej tej kev txij nkawm es yig vim li cas nej thiaj li muab record mas, ruam tshaj plaws li os cog neeg ua li no. Ua hauj company es ruam tshaj ces nws ntse2 kom nws mus apply hauj lwm office, nws twb tsis ntse txog qhov qualify mus work in the office.
Cov neeg xav li tus txiv ko, ces yog tub nkeeg xwb
Yus tsis xav ua hauj lwm co. Ces saib yus puas kawm ntawv siab xwb. Yog tsis siab thiab ces kawg co. Los yog go broke xwb las. Kuv qhuas tus neeg ua haujlwm co. dua li niag neeg tsis ua dejnum thiab broke xwb.
President lub company twb yog White House xwb ne luag yog Nom luag tseem khwv yus yog pej xeem qab xib taw daj xwb txawm siv tsav meej mom siab tshaj nom tswv lawm os
I have no sympathy for you. Especially koj tseem yuav nug cov listeners saib lawm xav li cas ua ntej. Omg. Koj txuas koj siab nyob yug ib niag txiv dev ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.
Geez, a job is a job. Company job is not bad! Both my husband & I work in the same company! Don’t matter where you work, as long as you have $$$ coming weekly to pay bills. Better than being homeless. Men like this make us ladies appreciate our husbands who hold a stable job & takes care of the bills. I don’t know how some people can go day by day without a job/paycheck. I get my hours cut short when we’re slow and I worried if I’ll have enough $$$ next paycheck to pay bills, put foods on the table. I’d divorce that loser husband long time ago if I were you!
cas xaj maim no pheej muaj ib cov niam txiv es twb nyob ua ke li 30-40 xyoo lawm los tseem pe ua ke thaij dua liab qab ua tau tej yam xeev ntuav
The only way is to go get a degree if he doesn’t like company work. Regardless he will still be working for a company. He’s just a lazy excuse of a man. Nothing else. If you’re tired of it, just leave him. The only reason why he is the way he is is because you are enabling him. He knows where the money will come from.
Hey. Sis. Even get a degree still have to work with company until you can stand up on your own.
@@choyuen968 yes that is why I said regardless he will still have to work for a company.
Some people work "company" make more than others who work "office" jobs!
your husband is just LAZY! Hmoob tus "patan" is not even a big enough name to act like you are a king.
I would have left him long ago. I have a feeling this woman will not leave him. oh well. that's your fate you choose.
Tus me muam awv koj tus txiv g pab koj. Koj twb Nyob tau 1 yig es koj pheej yuav khwv los yug nws ua dab tsi muab nws xav rau kwv rau tij zoo dua niaj Nyob sib ceg lwj siab ua dab tsi
Pab txaj muag dhau lawm
Cov pabtha ces tib co ua hauj lwm company xwb mas.
Nyob nej teb chaws tseem muaj hauj lwm ua os Tim peb no cas peb xav ua npaum twg lo twb tsi muaj rau peb ua nas
Viv ncau aw ca kj lub neej zoo li kv thiab os nyiaj hnub no ce kv lub neej zoo li kj hai ntawm ko os xyov yuav nyob los yuav mu os laj2 sib hai lios
Tus txiv tsis tab cuab tsis tsheej haj li koj hais no ces tso tawm mus koj yuav tau kev kaj siab lug hais rau koj tias tus neeg tub nkeeg ces ua dab tsi los yeej txaj muag
you always complain about divorcing him but did not follow thru so that's why he won't change cause he knows you can never divorce him. Too late for you now cause you're getting old by the day......why complain when deep in your heart you can never divorce him.
Agree with you don’t said if you can’t do it .
Thaub laus txiv dev ko tub nkeeg xwb os!
He's just lazy. Divorce him..you will be better of without him. Company is not bad..
Truth is a lazy and not applying himself!
Me viv ncaus aw, koj tus txiv txhob txwm ua rau koj xwb os. Kuv tus mas kam teb chaw los ua, ua tus coj los ua, mus pab kwv tij sawv daws sab nraum los ua tabsi nws ua hauj lwm full-time tibsi li. Nws pab thiab ua thaum nws muaj vacation lossis weekend xwb ces nws mam mus pab kwv tij sab ntsaug xwb os.
Sister only fools would stayed in situation like you. Your husband is dead beat. He's selfish and greedy but mostly he only cared about himself and no one else. He'll never change. Love yourself and wake up. Stop supporting such a loser and put you first. Your children needs you
Nothing wrong with working in a labor industry (blue collar) vs a white collar. A job is a job. Doesn’t even matter if you’re a janitor. Your husband needs to learn how to build up. A janitor can become a president or a king!
Tus muam, ib tus txiv neej zoo li koj tus thaub xwb tiav nrauj zoo dhua nyiam neeg tub qeem xwb os. Haha pab thas .
Everybody needs to bring income to support the family. You have a spouse to ease the burden of life. If he does not contribute then what good is he for.
Kj tu txiv yog neeg tub nkeeg
cov txiv dev tub nkeeg zoo li no ces cov niam tsev ruam thiaj tseem yuav xwb nawb lawv aw.......
Paj tha twb pab tsis tau yus tsev neeg es hos yuav mus pab cov sab nrauv. Xuab kawg nkaus li lawm txog thaum ob niam txiv ua hauj lwm saum txaj es muab yees duab los ua teeb meem. 😂