People saying that he "just" could have re-heated the food. *It's not about the food,* if it wasn't the food it would have been something else, like the way she looked at him or something she said. It could also be the other way around with the genders, but what is important is that *violence is never the answer* .
Yep. It could have been a gourmet 5 star meal. It's about the man taking his anger out on the vulnerable target in the room he can get away with socially. It's sick. I watched it happen. I hope my kids never have to see their parents fight, i will try everything in my power to make them grow up happy healthy and seeing what a real couple looks like
Stfu, violence sometimes is the answer to certain things. In regards to the occupation of my home and our humiliating defeat, violence was the answer to that, but now it’s too late, hopefully I am wrong about this tho.
When it comes to abusive partners, it is always heads I win tails you lose for the abuser. If it was not for the food being cold, he would have found another reason to get angry. My mother was like this at times. If I answered a question with an answer she did not like, she would retroactively change the question.
It’s really poetic calling this a child abuse commercial. Because even though the child isn’t the direct target of this abuse, he is still being abused by being forced to watch this and it’s doing harm to his psyche, and the harm makes him grow up and repeat his father’s abuse because that is the life he knew. Abuse doesn’t just hurt the ones who are directly hurt. It hurts those who are forced to witness it as well.
My father abuses my mother more often than he abuses me and though he’s never been physical it’s done quite a lot of harm to me since I’ve been forced to hear it
@@brokenman4668 I'm in the same boat. When I was three my father beat my mother nearly to death, and even though he never touched me, I saw all of it and it still affects me almost 14 years later. She's been in a bunch of abusive relationships since then, and again, while nobody hurt me, the yelling and screaming and breaking things have scarred me forever
I just live in such a family and I dont know how to be with man so I refuse to be with any man because the abuse is what I only know between husband and wife.
Funny how the man's very nice to his kid, but is the complete opposite to his wife, and setting a bad example to his kid also. If he's so fed up with her when why not just file for a divorce instead of beating her senseless? There's really no need for it - at all.
This really shows how history repeats itself and abuse is a horrific cycle. Notice how the kid in the flashback is different. I'm guessing that was the dad when he was just a kid witnessing his own father abusing his mother. Now he's doing the same thing in front of his son. If something doesn't change his son will end up as an abuser himself.
@Seanjohn5100 True, but a lot of people unfortunately do, and most of the time, they don’t even realize it because they grew up thinking that behavior is normal. I’ve seen this with my mom and aunts after finding out how my grandfather used treat them when they were kids.
All the Dad had to do was to stick the food in the microwave oven for a few minutes. He probably came home late from work. Why is it the Mom's fault the food was cold?
Joe Swanson: That’s enough for that! This is serious! STOP IT!!!!!!!!! Get him! Police Car and Crypt Keeper: YES CHIEF SWANSON!!!!!!! (They beat up the Australian Man)
What a beautiful soul you have to raise public awareness of this one to many aweful scenes in a child's life....it honestly does affect a child's future and self esteem....
Darkest Fairy I'm sorry for your struggles in your family!! I guess that's the reason I found this post and it reminded me of our home,growing up....!!! It's not easy climbing out of that situation,when you can't just leave..instead you're left to suffer,until you can make your getaway!! Please know I'm sincerely sad,that it's become a huge problem across the world....my thoughts go out to you all....!!!
Donald Trump cuz children are more impressionable. By showing them that its okay to hurt each other, they will either be on the recieving or delivering side
I used to witness the same thing as a child. The look on that poor kid's face brings me back to the fear, sadness, and helplessness I used to feel knowing I couldn't stop what was going on.
Same i was always taught to lock my door when my father was at work then when she wasn't there anymore and when i isolated myself he got mad saying hed remove the door which to me was my safety and id have emotional outbursts but instead if helping me understand they'd punish me putting soap in my mouth or being called disobedient because i wanted privacy sometimes i never gotten it as i got older my grandmother would pop in me having no clothes on even once said i looked good naked i told my father but he ignored me or said it wasnt what i thought it was, or saying i didn't deserve privacy because we're all girls except for my father who sa me as i was getting older before i finished school and graduated. No one believed me when i told. i was locked in my room because i apperently deserved it for telling someone my problems. That's why i feel clingy to anyone who helps or understands me but i end up pushing them out of my bubble and i upset people i care about.
My mum was abusive towards me and my brother and 2 sisters and dad even copped it sometimes but he always protected me when mum was drunk and would start on me. My dad was and always will be my hero
His mom should've said no and got outta there, and most importantly, she should've told someone she trusted, like her parents, a teacher, or a police officer.
The kid is the one shown in the second instance with a different kid, hes abusing his own wife because of how he witnesses his father treat his mother, its literally all he knows how to treat women.
My father took his anger out on me not my mother,she would hide and pretend it didnt happen. I am a product of child abuse and lead an amazing life. There is hope dont ever give up.
What we see here is a kid grown up beating his wife like he saw his father beating his mother years ago. And now his kid is witnessing this, and might continue the cycle when he grows up.
I deployed to Afghanistan and I also worked as a corrections officer after the fact And I will tell you one thing, nothing compares to what I witnessed and how I was treated before age 20. Nothing bothers me more.
I grew up around domestic violence, it sucks I wish I was never born into it but at the same time I do not know why DCF, CPS in THE BRONX never ask me the right questions or help calm down when I was a child, plus I was physically , sexually and verbally abused . I should had been place in a foster home , I wish I could have one dream I want my childhood back and have had a different outcome in the 90s. 😕
You can say that again. He's seriously willing to get triggered over something as miniscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
Very much so Chris my brother in-law is one of em. He loves my sister and his kids very much. If he did hit her my dad would be very mad he taught my sister and I to never let a man hit you.
This man is weak. He knows what happened in the past, but he does it anyway. This goes on for generations, and can destroy people’s lives. We need more of these ads on our TVs and the internet, and I don’t care if these would harm the children. They need to know about this, or they’ll find out the hard way. And by then, it’s too late.
If you women would give us men a chance that don't have an Abusive bone in our Body shit like this would never happen....but you go with these guys knowing what they are and what their capable of.....I've been single for 16 years trying to wait for the right woman to come along and now I'm starting to wonder if that even exists anymore
+Stephen LaMar FUCKING TROLLSS oh fuck you with your petty bones, you're not a 'nice' guy. Go do something instead of sitting around and claiming you're a nice guy.
Hey Derpy it wouldn't do any good their is no Good left on this Planet, and for the record I was raised to Family values, I've never cheated on or hurt a woman in my life and have the kind of heart that isn't afraid to Love a child as my own even if I'm not the dad, but sadly this world dont need people like me anymore so I gave up so cya
I'm a one woman man I dont live my life like that and sorry but i dont feel that their is any good left in the world so no point in trying to find a woman that dont exist...as for the loser part blame you women that run around saying good men dont exist and all men think of one thing that shit has made me wonder if i have to be that kind of man to get a woman even if it means being an abusive bf/husband when i really dont want to be but sometimes you have to do what must be done
Your in Peru this don't concern you bitch :) btw i really don't care what you think I am and i am learning when reading comments like yours as to why us men that would never hurt a woman are single.....we would rather be single than be with someone with an Attitude like yours :P
Are we going to get an ad campaign about the abuse by mothers and wives against their children and husbands, that no-one ever talks about, at some point?
"it's cold"
"it has no tastes"
well put it in the microwave and put some salt on it.
bada Bing bada boom.
(Tastes food AND Harnesses my gordon ramsay)
HOLY SHIT, IT'S GODDAMN COLD you DONKEY!
GFTO
thank you and reply.....
MrsLukeArnold 😂
@@flavoredtears3898 whats so funny?
lmao
Why should salad be warm in the first place?
He got triggered because of cold meat what a pathetic man
flukes777 it's for awareness
Police have got to be involved
Violet shut up ! Next time warm it up bitch !!!🖕😂
Omar Raymundo can I be the ref for your fight
My father never beat my mother. But often gets abusive and criticism for same reasons.
People saying that he "just" could have re-heated the food. *It's not about the food,* if it wasn't the food it would have been something else, like the way she looked at him or something she said. It could also be the other way around with the genders, but what is important is that *violence is never the answer* .
I feel he most likely got it from his father as child
Yep. It could have been a gourmet 5 star meal. It's about the man taking his anger out on the vulnerable target in the room he can get away with socially. It's sick. I watched it happen. I hope my kids never have to see their parents fight, i will try everything in my power to make them grow up happy healthy and seeing what a real couple looks like
moral of the story:
ur not u when ur hungry
snickers
satisfies
Stfu, violence sometimes is the answer to certain things. In regards to the occupation of my home and our humiliating defeat, violence was the answer to that, but now it’s too late, hopefully I am wrong about this tho.
When it comes to abusive partners, it is always heads I win tails you lose for the abuser. If it was not for the food being cold, he would have found another reason to get angry. My mother was like this at times. If I answered a question with an answer she did not like, she would retroactively change the question.
Wow how salty must you be to get crazy just because some cold food.
PhoenixKev PHOENIX? WELL ISN'T THIS A SUPRISE
It’s really poetic calling this a child abuse commercial. Because even though the child isn’t the direct target of this abuse, he is still being abused by being forced to watch this and it’s doing harm to his psyche, and the harm makes him grow up and repeat his father’s abuse because that is the life he knew. Abuse doesn’t just hurt the ones who are directly hurt. It hurts those who are forced to witness it as well.
My father abuses my mother more often than he abuses me and though he’s never been physical it’s done quite a lot of harm to me since I’ve been forced to hear it
@@brokenman4668 I'm in the same boat. When I was three my father beat my mother nearly to death, and even though he never touched me, I saw all of it and it still affects me almost 14 years later. She's been in a bunch of abusive relationships since then, and again, while nobody hurt me, the yelling and screaming and breaking things have scarred me forever
@@neru5839 I’m really sorry that happened
I hope things are better now
I just live in such a family and I dont know how to be with man so I refuse to be with any man because the abuse is what I only know between husband and wife.
I'd eat cold food if my wife makes it. Domestic violence is ridiculous.
my sentiments exactly
Bal Mungram he's using bad language at home in England!!!!!
Bal Mungram Hey woman this dinner taste like farther and bullshit!!!!
+Andrew Schumm Everyone and his grandmother use bad language at home. I'm unsurprised.
+Bal Mungram *uses
*serves him ice cream*
"ITS COLD"
Faraaz Iqbal hahaa
IT’S GOT NO TASTE
@Primus The Fourteenth do it urself
*"THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!"*
Is he seriously willing to get triggered over something so miniscule and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
I know how that little boy feels. My mom denies it ever happened, that I had the best childhood.😢
Wow. That's shocking. There's a pretty deep mental illness in women who allow themselves to be abused. Hope you keep healing. 🌼
@@TrueWalker88 police have to be invovled u know that
Same with my family
Lol 😂
Funny how the man's very nice to his kid, but is the complete opposite to his wife, and setting a bad example to his kid also. If he's so fed up with her when why not just file for a divorce instead of beating her senseless? There's really no need for it - at all.
The accuracy of this.......how he’s all sweet outside, and then mean as fuck inside. Very true
Please don’t swear God wouldn’t like that and there are children here I know you are trying to send a message but it’s not alright to swear
Men evil, women eternal victims....typical feminist, yawn.
@angelemeana2754 He was willing to get triggered over something as miniscule as a cold? What a pathetic excuse for a Man.
Scumbag !
This really shows how history repeats itself and abuse is a horrific cycle. Notice how the kid in the flashback is different. I'm guessing that was the dad when he was just a kid witnessing his own father abusing his mother. Now he's doing the same thing in front of his son. If something doesn't change his son will end up as an abuser himself.
Not everyone who witnesses it becomes an abuser.
@@Sean-Johnson hopefully this boy will be the one that breaks the cycle.
@Seanjohn5100 True, but a lot of people unfortunately do, and most of the time, they don’t even realize it because they grew up thinking that behavior is normal. I’ve seen this with my mom and aunts after finding out how my grandfather used treat them when they were kids.
All the Dad had to do was to stick the food in the microwave oven for a few minutes.
He probably came home late from work. Why is it the Mom's fault the food was cold?
then The Police would never have been called to this incident
I know. He's willing to get triggered over something as minuscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
Because he was late
THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!
Christoman64 dog must be eating alpo.
Christoman64 then the dad should eat the dogs food😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was originally a commercial for IAMS dog food! 🤪
I've heard stories about sons who've killed their fathers when they got older because of them being abused or their dad abusing their moms.
“It’s cold, it’s got no taste.” Microwave: Allow me to introduce myself
That’s enough 😡
Joe Swanson: That’s enough for that! This is serious! STOP IT!!!!!!!!! Get him!
Police Car and Crypt Keeper: YES CHIEF SWANSON!!!!!!! (They beat up the Australian Man)
Sad. 😞😞😞 No child should have to witness anything like that. Poor kid
What a beautiful soul you have to raise public awareness of this one to many aweful scenes in a child's life....it honestly does affect a child's future and self esteem....
unfortunately i was one of those kids
Darkest Fairy I'm sorry for your struggles in your family!! I guess that's the reason I found this post and it reminded me of our home,growing up....!!! It's not easy climbing out of that situation,when you can't just leave..instead you're left to suffer,until you can make your getaway!! Please know I'm sincerely sad,that it's become a huge problem across the world....my thoughts go out to you all....!!!
Kimberly Brock its fine cuz im back with my alive and well mom, brother, my moms boyfriend, and our two new kittens flicka and jet
Donald Trump cuz children are more impressionable. By showing them that its okay to hurt each other, they will either be on the recieving or delivering side
I grew up with parents like this and then I got diagnosed with anxiety
He has the same reaction of Gordon Ramsay
Gordon Ramsay would never beat his wife tho
I know how he feels....those Rotary club meetings drives us all crazy......
hahahahahahha
Not funny not funny at all
Just heat the damn food in the microwave, Jesus Christ
That's not child abuse. That's spouse abuse
husband:thanks for the food
then he be like the salad is cold
Wife:it should be cold
Husband:NO[O[O
morgan and Mila Don't cook him gazpacho.
morgan and Mila a
so not only is it sad for the wife it's child mental abuse because he's sitting there watching it all?
Its depressing that the boy became his father.
I used to witness the same thing as a child. The look on that poor kid's face brings me back to the fear, sadness, and helplessness I used to feel knowing I couldn't stop what was going on.
I know how you feel. I'm still traumatized today about that
Same i was always taught to lock my door when my father was at work then when she wasn't there anymore and when i isolated myself he got mad saying hed remove the door which to me was my safety and id have emotional outbursts but instead if helping me understand they'd punish me putting soap in my mouth or being called disobedient because i wanted privacy sometimes i never gotten it as i got older my grandmother would pop in me having no clothes on even once said i looked good naked i told my father but he ignored me or said it wasnt what i thought it was, or saying i didn't deserve privacy because we're all girls except for my father who sa me as i was getting older before i finished school and graduated. No one believed me when i told. i was locked in my room because i apperently deserved it for telling someone my problems. That's why i feel clingy to anyone who helps or understands me but i end up pushing them out of my bubble and i upset people i care about.
It is sad of how I also experienced the same thing as you 😢
They must not have microwaves in Australia, LOL
tvmattkc they do
I know, what I said was a joke
This bloke could be the new face of Hell's Kitchen.
decoyoctopusra IKR he's just like chef ramsey IT'S RAWWWW.
decoyoctopusra I understood that reference! ( Understand this one?)
Gordon Gecko no.
I did a comment saying you donkey
Child will become a school bully to have control in his life
This triggered my PTSD
It brings back bad memories that scar my mind
Sameeeew here
0:28 Gordon Ramsey with his Family.
I'm sure even he has his limits.
Dad:"ITS COLD"(if the mom was bigger then him)mom:""OH HELL NO MAKE YOUR OWN FOOD THIS IS MY FOOD PUT IN THE MICROWAVE
He would beat her if she were to say that
+Heather Magdee he beat her anyway
This video makes me HATE domestic abuse in the first place.
My mum was abusive towards me and my brother and 2 sisters and dad even copped it sometimes but he always protected me when mum was drunk and would start on me. My dad was and always will be my hero
I'm sorry you had to go through that you did not deserve it
Sry to hear that. I hope all is well with u. What's funny is is that women actually make up most abusive
When my step-grandmother Linda Henson would do that, my grandfather Julie Dean Hanson always came to my rescue. I miss him so bad.
Brought back some memories for me wow
If the food doesn't taste good or right, just eat something else. Don't have to get angry and start abusing like that, it doesn't help.
he needs anger management. his behavior is DESPICABLE. WHO WOULD ACT LIKE THIS IN FRONT OF CHILD? HE NEEDS TO GET HIS ASS TOGETHER.
hey, you need to tell someone about that. And I don't mean online to a bunch of strangers. That isn't a normal situation and it doesn't have to last.
00:28 who are you gordan Ramsey???
Some kids deserve parents but some parents don’t deserve kids
This man needs to be arrested! 😠
Also I felt really sad for the boy 😢
It’s just acting u imbecile
Say what u want. This guy can act!! Bet he's a big teddy bear in real life
No
Kid?!?! Call 911! Don't just stand there!
I am sorry he had to go thru this tho :(
Lightning he's just a kid. What if the father turns his anger on the boy he's like 8 or 9. No way could he protect himself from a grown man.
If a man put me in the hospital I would be calling the cops from the hospital and getting out of the situation.
They British
No child deserves to see his or her parents fight like that
His mom should've said no and got outta there, and most importantly, she should've told someone she trusted, like her parents, a teacher, or a police officer.
Fax
Even if they didn't have a kid to witness that, he shouldn't do that
"Its cold"
Then warm it tf up then
ITS COLD
It’s a fucking salad
That kid must be traumatized for life.
The kid is the one shown in the second instance with a different kid, hes abusing his own wife because of how he witnesses his father treat his mother, its literally all he knows how to treat women.
The start:😊 the end:💀
Why is it always the man playing the monster? Has no one ever heard of single fathers who take care of their kids because their mothers went crazy?
Marilynette amen
I’m so sad that kid has to see it happened
if I was that kid and saw my dad doing that I would have friggin be scared
Microwave : whats wrong? Dad: my wife cook cold food. Microwave :use me and i will make your food hot
The sad thing is this is very common
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police have got to be involved and make an arrest
when food is cold you go to the kitchen and you microwave it. No big deal man. People can eat microwaved food.
Is that the father as a lil kid in the flashback scene?
Marady Mon no, it was the father when he was a kid
+C. Willock Thought it was him.
C. Willock EYE THAT'S WHAT HE SAID
Has this guy ever heard of a thing called a microwave?
My father took his anger out on me not my mother,she would hide and pretend it didnt happen. I am a product of child abuse and lead an amazing life. There is hope dont ever give up.
What we see here is a kid grown up beating his wife like he saw his father beating his mother years ago. And now his kid is witnessing this, and might continue the cycle when he grows up.
this is more better than peta ads
His son should've just ran to the telephone and call the police immediately
I deployed to Afghanistan and I also worked as a corrections officer after the fact And I will tell you one thing, nothing compares to what I witnessed and how I was treated before age 20. Nothing bothers me more.
I grew up around domestic violence, it sucks I wish I was never born into it but at the same time I do not know why DCF, CPS in THE BRONX never ask me the right questions or help calm down when I was a child, plus I was physically , sexually and verbally abused . I should had been place in a foster home , I wish I could have one dream I want my childhood back and have had a different outcome in the 90s. 😕
The man should had reheated the food if he was complaining that it was cold not beat her up like that.
“The dog eats better than this!” Yeah, and the dog also behaves better towards women than you do.
jesus dad what’s your problem
OH MY GOD CALL THE COPS!!!!!!!!!!
What's the 2nd scene of a man abusing his wife about? Is that the kid growing up and doing the same thing?
Sickening! Just cause you see a beautiful home doesn’t always mean a happy life apparently😰
You can say that again. He's seriously willing to get triggered over something as miniscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
Great video as it makes you think on this awful issue more. I was shocked watching this, had tears in my eyes.
real men are not abusive to there family's they treat there family like gold!!!!
Very much so Chris my brother in-law is one of em. He loves my sister and his kids very much. If he did hit her my dad would be very mad he taught my sister and I to never let a man hit you.
called police
0:42
“THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!”
This advert deffo shows how history repeats itself
This is so sad.
poor mother and kid
This man is weak. He knows what happened in the past, but he does it anyway. This goes on for generations, and can destroy people’s lives. We need more of these ads on our TVs and the internet, and I don’t care if these would harm the children. They need to know about this, or they’ll find out the hard way. And by then, it’s too late.
the dog eats better than this! !!!
Australia 🇦🇺
This is why I won't ever drink a lot of beer when I'm a Father
aka goldfinger lol I commented this when I was 11. Jeez time files a lot
aka goldfinger lol “just put it in the fucking microwave you donkey” -Wife
What did he say at 0:34 before "OH/WELL, SHUT UP!!!! THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!!!!"?
Really? infront of a child?
Why do this in front of your child
Omg this is so wrong traumatizing and this gives me flashbacks
0:37 Is that supposed to be the father when he was a child?
Kids with younger siblings who are exposed to this can often end up treating him, her, or them the same way.
jonathan hill sent me here
Relatable to me, I can't even call for help, my parents always lying to me. HELP ME
You alright?
@@MelsArchive Yes.
Sad
If you women would give us men a chance that don't have an Abusive bone in our Body shit like this would never happen....but you go with these guys knowing what they are and what their capable of.....I've been single for 16 years trying to wait for the right woman to come along and now I'm starting to wonder if that even exists anymore
+Stephen LaMar FUCKING TROLLSS
oh fuck you with your petty bones, you're not a 'nice' guy. Go do something instead of sitting around and claiming you're a nice guy.
Hey Derpy it wouldn't do any good their is no Good left on this Planet, and for the record I was raised to Family values, I've never cheated on or hurt a woman in my life and have the kind of heart that isn't afraid to Love a child as my own even if I'm not the dad, but sadly this world dont need people like me anymore so I gave up so cya
I'm a one woman man I dont live my life like that and sorry but i dont feel that their is any good left in the world so no point in trying to find a woman that dont exist...as for the loser part blame you women that run around saying good men dont exist and all men think of one thing that shit has made me wonder if i have to be that kind of man to get a woman even if it means being an abusive bf/husband when i really dont want to be but sometimes you have to do what must be done
If there's no good left in the world, then you're not a good man, so quit your bitching.
Your in Peru this don't concern you bitch :) btw i really don't care what you think I am and i am learning when reading comments like yours as to why us men that would never hurt a woman are single.....we would rather be single than be with someone with an Attitude like yours :P
This is PSA Commercial don't worry don't do about Smoking, Swearing, Alcohol, Domestic Violence and Many Bad Stuff
Police should be involved
But whyyyyy was he just standing there???? Like he should have called the police or something.
Is this all done by actor and acting because there’s no way this can even be real.
Because this be something literally like in a movie.
Because if like it is he the dad would literally get aren’t arrested.
Because if it’s he would have been totally arrested for life.
Poor Boy he really obviously needs to have a even way better family then this.
All I’m saying the
Did the father was abuse to ? Because I don't about the that flashback scene.
Be careful of who u choose my moms best friend got abused. Worst news i ever got
God I thought it was bad when my parents took my ds away when I was like 9
Reminds me of that boondocks episode
Lol 😂
Are we going to get an ad campaign about the abuse by mothers and wives against their children and husbands, that no-one ever talks about, at some point?
Really good acting