I absolutely LOVE Judge Toler! She is so wise and funny! It makes me so sad that she leaves Divorce Court and then lost her husband. When she brings him up on here, I always feel a ping in my heart. The greatest compliment you can give your spouse is to compliment them to other people. She doesn't ever negatively comment on him, she always complimented him!
Struggle love is not love. Chaotic love is not love. This needs to be taught and continuously shown so that we don’t think otherwise. I hate that we are so love starved and latch on to anything! Let’s do better
I needed her advice long time ago...would have made better choices....always see her as a mother hen watching over all the daughters she didn't have...much more than a court show...❤❤❤❤❤❤
Judge can’t stand when the men say “I take care of my kids to the best of my ability.” I don’t like it either. It’s an excuse to not take care of the kids the way you KNOW they SHOULD be taken care of.
Especially when he know that even if he works, he quits his job and starts a new one every time child support catches up with him and starts taking money from his check! My daughter is 31 now but remember her dad was working for the city of Milwaukee and making good money!! He quit because child support took the first $25 out of his check for my daughter. He gave up a job that he was making over $80 a day( that was in 1994) just because he was hurt that I left him (young and tired of being beat on) and thought that he was hurting me by quitting so that I wouldn’t get them few dollars a month😂. I was 17 with two kids, two baby daddies but so I dropped out of school, got a job and worked overtime to provide for my children. It was hard but my HEAVENLY FATHER kept us and made sure that we had a house and everything that we needed. I’m 48 now with four kids (32,31,12 and 10)and recently a single mother again because my two youngest dad was abusive and I took it for years because I wanted my last two to have their dad around but when he finally actually hit me, my oldest son (32) wanted to come to my house and beat his a*s and I wouldn’t allow my son to lose his job, catch a case and let his little brother see him beat his dad , so I got rid of dude and it’s been over 9 months now that I haven’t had any contact with this narcissist. Although I feel bad for my last two sons because their narcissistic dad won’t call or have a relationship with them if I won’t deal with him, I’m actually happy because even when we was together I paid for my sons clothes, shoes , birthday and Christmas presents so we’re not missing anything since I got rid of him but again it’s really sad that a man can forget that he has kids just because the mom left him. That’s a weak man!!
Case#2 - RUN Girl Run! The moment she _"GetsOn"_ he will want to become her manager and take advantage of her clout/money. He is not the prize. BOTH are equal. LoveU, Judge Toler👸🏾
The second two cases was just mind bottling at the disrespect these men are doing to these women. Once you see a man has certain characteristics leave it alone 😢
Episode 134, I don’t think he wasn’t ready to be married, I feel he wasn’t ready for the worse in the marriage. She didn’t become diabetic and sickly after I do. She was sickly while they were dating as well.
He is gay as George Takei & the way she whine about how she has a good heart & didn't know being with him was dumb just made her sound dumb enough to stay with him.
Stay on birth control honey why do these people put up with cheating on both sides? Why are you together? Stay single. Anther thing you may have all girls and no boy what will he do move on and you are left with 5 daughters?
Case 134: I know it’s divorce court, but I could never stand and watch someone I love break down without at least giving a hug or saying … can we take a break to comfort them ..:. Her husband seems cold and I dnt like him.
That man got needs that she's not fulfilling, and he has every right to get rid of her. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BRO. Don't let these feminists make you feel bad. You don't have to be empathetic towards her or make her feel empowered. Do what you feel is right for YOU and be savage about it. Women do it all the time.
"You know the part of the relationship where you try to get back at each other..." nope! I do not know about that. I have never hit that level in a relationship. At least not once I became an adult. When I was in high school maybe.
134: I feel bad for the wife honestly she needs help for her mental health and how she sees herself. Her lying about food is usually an underlying problem. You can’t just tell someone to stop eating or do more you have to manage the brain first. The husband seems uncaring.
To be honest, if you don’t get serious, she’s just gonna eat her way to 600 pound, so of course you have to stop that before you get out of control, and if he’s trying and you’re not , he’s gonna get fed up.
#134 She's probably eating because, OF HIM!!! He's wasn't ready to get married.... That's your FREE RIDE out Dasia! "AnyOne, who can not see your value; will ALwAyS DepReCiaTE your WoRTH!" You deserve better.
The plantif must be crazy. You are going to sleep in a car in the cold, etc to prove you love him. Go to your mother's or wherever you can be safe. If be wants to stay outside let him So whatever reason you were sleeping in your car.apparently you didn't have money to stay in a hotel.
The case with the diabetes chick had me livid. HE IS NOT TO BLANE FOR HER PROBLEMS! He is NOT an oops! He was simply stating the problems that concerned him all the way up to the point of no return. She didn’t even acknowledge his greatness while giving a sob story. I don’t even believe she was pregnant. 🤷🏽♀️ She changed as soon as they got married. She needs therapy and he simply needs to move on.
Hi, I see your point of view and disagree. I agree, this union should be dissolved and as the judge said, was an "oops" and the husband has decades to find a HEART and EMPATHY. I think the gentleman in episode 134 is someone I wouldn't want to be married to and frankly wouldn't want to be married to her either. They both need work...
All he does is complain about her and her weight! Are you kidding me! He had nothing nice to say about her I totally agree with the judge reading your comment had me livid smh my goodness !!
@@syndib7377she is making choices to eat those things that do not help her health, which in turn has an impact on the relationship whether it’s nice or not. Diabetes is nothing to play with, I was on that road and had to quickly MAKE THE CHOICE to not eat the things that don’t benefit me. A lot of excuses are being given to the lady. Sorry not sorry
Last case: she is a WANNABE “all that”. Judge Toler is The Real Thing. Just like REAL rich people who don’t feel the need to put on airs for the purpose of getting attention and approval from the world. ❤
#135 What's wrong with buying your man a meal? He's working, taking care of the rent and bills. Sometimes, we as women have to step up.Men if you're short ... Let us know in advance. "I will slide some money in your hands before we get where we're going.*. IDC who see me paying for our evening. Bump that. Then getting loud. He's the one that needs to move on.
The diabetic/weight case, their problem is she is in denial about her choices and consequences. She knows she has diabetes eat better and be healthy. He doesn't want to have to take care of someone in a wheelchair bc she wanted to eat every thing and not have self control. My mom had diabetes and she was big. She started eating better and walking lost weight, took less insulin. Then my "dad" came bk in her life, her health went to shit and he killed her by feeding and encouraging bad food. This woman is playing victim. She wants to say she doesn't eat all the time or eat foods diabetics should avoid. She has no self control. Maybe the husband is sick of her not trying.
I agree with the judge. This beautiful woman is lacking wholeness. Baby girl, let him go, he is not worth any female. That’s not love, love is kind, it’s not puffed up, no empathy, compassion. This woman would take if you, but go on to the next person, you will be the little boy that you are in that relationship. Miss, I pray you yield yourself to God’s direction for you, where He will keep you in all his peace. You did not loose, you dodge a wimpy bullet. Hold your head up high and take care of you, by seeing the Endocrinologist (diabetic specialist) also hopefully a Christian therapist to speak life into you and can help you back on track. You have to deal with stuff in your pass, (family issues). God bless you
Episode 131--As a women I honestly feel that no man should feel as though he is entitled for a woman to give him a child mainly a son. First of all children are blessings from God wether it's a boy or a girl. Also,,there is more involved with having a child instead of just conceiving one and the seed germinating. Children are a serious responsibility that requires commitment as well as money! I believe that before someone makes the decision to have a child,,preparations has to be made. Simply because a baby is not a toy and once a person has one, they must be ready to dedicate the next 18/20 years of their lives towards raising and caring for that child. With that being said no one should feel entitled to having a child be it a son or a daughter!
I wouldn't want to have sex with him either if he was always making fun of my weight. And he is trying to make fun of her weight, or he would take great pains to make comments about her health and not try to get people to laugh about it. He is always trying to get people to laugh at her. I really do not like him. Girl run.
She is too controlling, I dont like her for him. I dont know whats the gorgeous the judge is talking about..mock hair make up is pretty Not her. Her eyes look like she stuch them down with glue completely and then pulled it off halfway. She is completely insecure, he cant even hold a door for other women or give another woman a compliment. He needs to do like other men and block her offa social media. i like him, he has a good personality, wrong woman. i dont think the judge should be saying he is Not running around on her but in terms of evidence or how he treats her, hes good
First of all this man has everything completely backwards why does he expect her to give him a son but he won't even marry her number one there is no guarantee that she will ever be able to give him a son she could end up pushing out 21 kids and never not one of them be a boy , and then what will he do will he stay there and take care of all 21 kids or just leave her because she can't produce a son because they won't be married so he will have no obligation to stay , yeahhhh his logic is completely ridiculous!!!! He needs to grow up and be a real man
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I absolutely LOVE Judge Toler! She is so wise and funny! It makes me so sad that she leaves Divorce Court and then lost her husband. When she brings him up on here, I always feel a ping in my heart. The greatest compliment you can give your spouse is to compliment them to other people. She doesn't ever negatively comment on him, she always complimented him!
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Struggle love is not love. Chaotic love is not love. This needs to be taught and continuously shown so that we don’t think otherwise. I hate that we are so love starved and latch on to anything! Let’s do better
I needed her advice long time ago...would have made better choices....always see her as a mother hen watching over all the daughters she didn't have...much more than a court show...❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ep.133.....This guy is sending naked photos to other guys , yet, he says he's not gay. You are on the down-low my brother
I love Judge Lynn she will always be my favorite judge❤❤❤
Judge can’t stand when the men say “I take care of my kids to the best of my ability.” I don’t like it either. It’s an excuse to not take care of the kids the way you KNOW they SHOULD be taken care of.
Especially when he know that even if he works, he quits his job and starts a new one every time child support catches up with him and starts taking money from his check! My daughter is 31 now but remember her dad was working for the city of Milwaukee and making good money!! He quit because child support took the first $25 out of his check for my daughter. He gave up a job that he was making over $80 a day( that was in 1994) just because he was hurt that I left him (young and tired of being beat on) and thought that he was hurting me by quitting so that I wouldn’t get them few dollars a month😂. I was 17 with two kids, two baby daddies but so I dropped out of school, got a job and worked overtime to provide for my children. It was hard but my HEAVENLY FATHER kept us and made sure that we had a house and everything that we needed. I’m 48 now with four kids (32,31,12 and 10)and recently a single mother again because my two youngest dad was abusive and I took it for years because I wanted my last two to have their dad around but when he finally actually hit me, my oldest son (32) wanted to come to my house and beat his a*s and I wouldn’t allow my son to lose his job, catch a case and let his little brother see him beat his dad , so I got rid of dude and it’s been over 9 months now that I haven’t had any contact with this narcissist. Although I feel bad for my last two sons because their narcissistic dad won’t call or have a relationship with them if I won’t deal with him, I’m actually happy because even when we was together I paid for my sons clothes, shoes , birthday and Christmas presents so we’re not missing anything since I got rid of him but again it’s really sad that a man can forget that he has kids just because the mom left him. That’s a weak man!!
Totally disagree, it means that I intend to do My/His Best... Putting Your Best foot/efforts forward....... Judge a Man by His Actions
Not everyone’s means can match what they know. I know my kids would benefit from a better college but it don’t mean I can send them to one.
Case#2 - RUN Girl Run! The moment she _"GetsOn"_ he will want to become her manager and take advantage of her clout/money. He is not the prize. BOTH are equal. LoveU, Judge Toler👸🏾
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It’s funny he keep saying “I’m straight”😂😂
So glad she has sense enough not to get pregnant.
You can’t anger a man into your arms. Boom 💥 Great💗 word
The second two cases was just mind bottling at the disrespect these men are doing to these women. Once you see a man has certain characteristics leave it alone 😢
First episode girl breathe 😅😅😅. Ep 133. " even if it happened it doesn't matter 🤣" = HE'S GAY
I’m dying😂😂😂
I RAN to the comments when he said that 😂
Episode 134, I don’t think he wasn’t ready to be married, I feel he wasn’t ready for the worse in the marriage. She didn’t become diabetic and sickly after I do. She was sickly while they were dating as well.
She sleeping outside with a gay men instead of being at home. I wouldn't choose to do this for anyone.
He is gay as George Takei & the way she whine about how she has a good heart & didn't know being with him was dumb just made her sound dumb enough to stay with him.
Stay on birth control honey why do these people put up with cheating on both sides? Why are you together? Stay single. Anther thing you may have all girls and no boy what will he do move on and you are left with 5 daughters?
She took the red flags and made a wig of it
I’m crying 😂😂cus yesssss
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Give this man his freedom; that will make her take care of her health and wait.
Case 134: I know it’s divorce court, but I could never stand and watch someone I love break down without at least giving a hug or saying … can we take a break to comfort them ..:. Her husband seems cold and I dnt like him.
🙄um FYI.. conversating is NOT A WORD!!! 🤯🤯 the proper word to use is CONVERSING 🥴sheesh
According to Marian Webster it is in fact a word.
Apparently they made it a word in 2016 because people kept saying it 🤦🏾♀️. Now ppl are arguing that’s it’s correct
It actually makes more sense than conversing.. The root word would be conversate.
At least the guy told the truth he wasn't ready for marriage and she needs somebody who love her unconditionally
That man got needs that she's not fulfilling, and he has every right to get rid of her. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BRO. Don't let these feminists make you feel bad. You don't have to be empathetic towards her or make her feel empowered. Do what you feel is right for YOU and be savage about it. Women do it all the time.
"You know the part of the relationship where you try to get back at each other..." nope! I do not know about that. I have never hit that level in a relationship. At least not once I became an adult. When I was in high school maybe.
134: I feel bad for the wife honestly she needs help for her mental health and how she sees herself. Her lying about food is usually an underlying problem. You can’t just tell someone to stop eating or do more you have to manage the brain first. The husband seems uncaring.
The last one with the annoying boujee voice 😂😂😂😂 how can you dislike this Judge!! 😂😂
To be honest, if you don’t get serious, she’s just gonna eat her way to 600 pound, so of course you have to stop that before you get out of control, and if he’s trying and you’re not , he’s gonna get fed up.
#134 She's probably eating because, OF HIM!!! He's wasn't ready to get married.... That's your FREE RIDE out Dasia! "AnyOne, who can not see your value; will ALwAyS DepReCiaTE your WoRTH!"
You deserve better.
episode 131 the dude insisting she have a child before he marries her, tells me this is a trap!
Case 133, 134 and that last case...whew, ridiculous and sad.
The plantif must be crazy. You are going to sleep in a car in the cold, etc to prove you love him. Go to your mother's or wherever you can be safe. If be wants to stay outside let him
So whatever reason you were sleeping in your car.apparently you didn't have money to stay in a hotel.
The case with the diabetes chick had me livid. HE IS NOT TO BLANE FOR HER PROBLEMS! He is NOT an oops! He was simply stating the problems that concerned him all the way up to the point of no return. She didn’t even acknowledge his greatness while giving a sob story. I don’t even believe she was pregnant. 🤷🏽♀️ She changed as soon as they got married. She needs therapy and he simply needs to move on.
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I see your point of view and disagree. I agree, this union should be dissolved and as the judge said, was an "oops" and the husband has decades to find a HEART and EMPATHY.
I think the gentleman in episode 134 is someone I wouldn't want to be married to and frankly wouldn't want to be married to her either. They both need work...
All he does is complain about her and her weight! Are you kidding me! He had nothing nice to say about her I totally agree with the judge reading your comment had me livid smh my goodness !!
@@syndib7377she is making choices to eat those things that do not help her health, which in turn has an impact on the relationship whether it’s nice or not.
Diabetes is nothing to play with, I was on that road and had to quickly MAKE THE CHOICE to not eat the things that don’t benefit me.
A lot of excuses are being given to the lady. Sorry not sorry
Episode 133 so messy omg!! This is so Love & HipHip Hollywood Miles, Milan and Amber coded I don't even know what to do or say 🤭
Omg yes … this is so accurate
Last case: she is a WANNABE “all that”. Judge Toler is The Real Thing. Just like REAL rich people who don’t feel the need to put on airs for the purpose of getting attention and approval from the world. ❤
You weren’t ready but you blame this woman for your unreadyness.
#135 What's wrong with buying your man a meal? He's working, taking care of the rent and bills. Sometimes, we as women have to step up.Men if you're short ... Let us know in advance. "I will slide some money in your hands before we get where we're going.*. IDC who see me paying for our evening. Bump that. Then getting loud. He's the one that needs to move on.
Episode 131: Ppl just put up with anything to be in a relationship, smh… Ain’t no way!
He knows about her private account now.
The diabetic/weight case, their problem is she is in denial about her choices and consequences. She knows she has diabetes eat better and be healthy. He doesn't want to have to take care of someone in a wheelchair bc she wanted to eat every thing and not have self control. My mom had diabetes and she was big. She started eating better and walking lost weight, took less insulin. Then my "dad" came bk in her life, her health went to shit and he killed her by feeding and encouraging bad food. This woman is playing victim. She wants to say she doesn't eat all the time or eat foods diabetics should avoid. She has no self control. Maybe the husband is sick of her not trying.
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First case I hope she left him. He’s horrible. Easy to see through the bs.
The judge did her dirty on Not giving her that money. She shifted when he came back into the court room. She knows he's crazy.
I agree with the judge. This beautiful woman is lacking wholeness. Baby girl, let him go, he is not worth any female. That’s not love, love is kind, it’s not puffed up, no empathy, compassion. This woman would take if you, but go on to the next person, you will be the little boy that you are in that relationship.
Miss, I pray you yield yourself to God’s direction for you, where He will keep you in all his peace. You did not loose, you dodge a wimpy bullet. Hold your head up high and take care of you, by seeing the Endocrinologist (diabetic specialist) also hopefully a Christian therapist to speak life into you and can help you back on track. You have to deal with stuff in your pass, (family issues). God bless you
You can’t cure crazy
Episode 131--As a women I honestly feel that no man should feel as though he is entitled for a woman to give him a child mainly a son. First of all children are blessings from God wether it's a boy or a girl. Also,,there is more involved with having a child instead of just conceiving one and the seed germinating. Children are a serious responsibility that requires commitment as well as money! I believe that before someone makes the decision to have a child,,preparations has to be made. Simply because a baby is not a toy and once a person has one, they must be ready to dedicate the next 18/20 years of their lives towards raising and caring for that child. With that being said no one should feel entitled to having a child be it a son or a daughter!
Waitress assumes the male is going to pay the bill. Female is to jealous.
She said she thought the Judge was gonna help them..damn she wanted a miracle..dummy
I wouldn't want to have sex with him either if he was always making fun of my weight. And he is trying to make fun of her weight, or he would take great pains to make comments about her health and not try to get people to laugh about it. He is always trying to get people to laugh at her. I really do not like him. Girl run.
He’s got to learn about diabetes
Since when are there 2 bway junctions... somebody explain plz
Omg the girl and the weight,,, dude let her live her life wtf why do you have to cause her this much problems oh my god
He does have a mental problem
Dude in the final case was the only solid man out of 5.
They both literally disgusted me MENTALLY
so sad this man is too young to deal with her illness. i bet she will struggle with food forever.
#134 She is unhappy!
That's right😅😮
blue shirt gay as hell
She is too controlling, I dont like her for him. I dont know whats the gorgeous the judge is talking about..mock hair make up is pretty Not her. Her eyes look like she stuch them down with glue completely and then pulled it off halfway. She is completely insecure, he cant even hold a door for other women or give another woman a compliment. He needs to do like other men and block her offa social media. i like him, he has a good personality, wrong woman. i dont think the judge should be saying he is Not running around on her but in terms of evidence or how he treats her, hes good
First of all this man has everything completely backwards why does he expect her to give him a son but he won't even marry her number one there is no guarantee that she will ever be able to give him a son she could end up pushing out 21 kids and never not one of them be a boy , and then what will he do will he stay there and take care of all 21 kids or just leave her because she can't produce a son because they won't be married so he will have no obligation to stay , yeahhhh his logic is completely ridiculous!!!! He needs to grow up and be a real man
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Why come on the show like everything is a joke
Where do these no self esteem characters hail from?
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These dudes clearly love these toxic women so I don’t even see why complain.
That’s a beautiful 😍 woman
She is so ANNOYING...Seems childish also...
😂😂😂 funny
IM OUT IMMATURE
Silly grown women 😮😮
#133 These are two of the most ignorant people I have ever seen! Move on
The woman is just immature
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