Yeah I HIGHLY doubt this marriage will end up being fruitful….. for one, she cries victim when she’s the one who’ll create the circumstances……. OMG I haaaaaaate females like her. Such a NARC
I’m not going to spoil this for you but this lady is an example of why men say women never accept responsibility for their actions. This lady painted a one sided picture like she was an angel and she had the nerves to complain about this man cheating. He should have never married her but his self esteem is so low he will stay. If he can not get over her infidelities he needs to leave, no amount of love will erase the past.
I feel like she wants a divorce so she can get the child support money from the real daddy. All she cares about is money. This man was the sole provider for her and another man’s kid from the rip and now she wants to add another man’s kid again? If she was a single mom she would be coming out of pocket anyways.
Mannnn I was ready to call him a sorry arse, deadbeat so and so. This man has been deceived and hurt. I pray they can get through this. But the daddy has a right to be in his child's life. Counseling is very much needed.
Wait a damn minute! Now she gonna come in there like she was innocent and she caused all the damn drama in her own relationship! Lady go have several damn seats! And even had a whole human being on him!!! GIRL BYE 👋🏼
Nope. He doesn't get a pass either. He cheated. I agree that he didn't have a baby. But he's staying to make her life hard. Dude get your weight up and get out. You're never gonna truly accept that she had a baby by another man. He's sitting in the court crying. Was he crying when he was cheating. Mt big bro used to say, "ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. He's not built to handle the situation. Not many men could.
@@johnnyb6151 .. He's definitely not built for this shyt. Although he did cheat, I am pretty sure he cheated largely because of the hurt and trauma he's dealing with as a result of being with her azz... I agree he should move on though.
The nerve. We always pile on the men but there are ALOT of trifling women out here. And she keeps shifting the blame for everything on him. Even the choice whether they should divorce or not
I understand why the man dont want to contribute to the home anymore. He had done what a man is suppose to do love and provide only to find out two months after the baby was born that he may not be his father. And furthermore, to come to find out during an argument. Thats hard to forget and move on from. I think he just got depressed afterwards.
@@Josie3387cuz he said he truly loved HER….. and he prolly got tied to the baby by default but the longer he stayed the worse things got and 2 wrongs never made it right
Mr Cook, it's been time to run away. You are hurt, she is hurt, the baby is not yours. Stop hurting yourself, please pull that bandaid off and keep it moving.
He had to get a storage unit for his equipment due to her anger. The judge sat there and validated it. If it were the other way around, she would have said he has anger issues
She is OUT OF ORDER! why didn't she say from the beginning that she was TRIFLING from the beginning! He needs to 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
She pretended like he was acting out from nowhere but she cheated had a baby on him and pretend like she was a complete Angel she a tired ass excuse for a wife!
Mrs. Cook pretends that she doesn’t know why her husband’s acting like that and she knew all along. It was because of her infidelity and producing a child by that cheating relationship. She’s gonna sit there looking innocent like she doesn’t know why he’s doing what he’s doing. it would be best for them to end the relationship and start a new relationship with someone else. Now that the babies biological father wants to be involved I understand why this man is backing off because for the rest of his life he’s gonna have to always have this other guy involved in his relationship in order for the real dad to see his daughter. His wife should be ashamed of herself of pretending that she didn’t know why he was acting this way .
I don’t understand why people stay with people just to make them miserable at the same time making yourself miserable smh just leave you could have met another soulmate that you can start fresh with
I have so much to say about this episode, but to keep short I agree with him they need to divorce this marriage will NEVER work. And personally I think the ONLY reason he's still in this marriage is to punish her.
What about the part where she said he was fully taking care of her and he gave her 3000 to do AZ she pleased, now it's a problem when she gotta do what he did for years..walk away my guy
She has been taking care of him for 2 yrs and he wanted to take care of her. She doesnt want to take care of a man. Why do "men" take up for men who are clearly not doing their job as a man????
Wait, she ain't dispute that he gave her $40k 😳 At first I thought he was a bumb but this man is functioning depressed. He's stuck. I think he's dumbstruck that he literally gave her all he had 😢 or he's punishing her and trying to get his money back by making her pay all the bills 🤔
Imagine getN married 2someone who already had a kid being the sole provider having a child finding out the female cheated and the baby isn't urs...and all the comments is about how the man is wrong???
I’m sorry but the only reason he not leaving is because she taking care of him. He’s using that as an excuse. She wrong thinking that man should stay after the baby stuff smh this a mess😮
He was injured on the job. And is trying to start his own construction company. He took care of a woman, with a baby that wasn't working. And the baby isn't his. He should run away, from her.
Another WEAK dude who married a single mother 304. He even scared to leave now after she had another man's baby. I'm tired of seeing these stories over and over again. Men like this have no PRIDE nor DIGNITY about themselves.
You can’t cheat on someone and have a problem with them resenting you for it. He may have said he would move on, but that doesn’t mean he would forget.
Forgiveness is I forgive you. You don’t get to say I forgive you but then hold it over their head and anytime you feel like it. she’s not innocent in this at all. Both of them are just as bad.
I think he is using the infidelity as an excuse to be a bum. And shes feeling bad for what shes done so shes dealing with it. I bet when he gets up on his feet its OVER
This was weird to me. They definitely need counseling and I’m glad that’s the verdict. She cheated, he stayed, then proceeds to “act out” two whole years later because she’s demanding more of him. Sounds like an excuse when really I think he beat himself down after he got laid off and his business isn’t doing that well. For a once successful man that’s a huge hit to the ego. He need to pick himself back up and work on the hurt she caused and he himself also caused.
He feeling less of a man for the wrong reason. He should have left after finding out that child wasn’t his. Because he’s staying with her just to punish her. Diary of a Mad Black Man. Let that father have the rights to HIS child, and STEP!!! You gotta know when to hold’em, know when to fold’em, know when to walk away….KNOW HOW TO RUN!!!! 🏃🏾
She just so conviently forgot to tell that she cheated, and had a baby. But now she's mad because he cheated. They should end the marriage. Every time he looks at the baby girl, it might remind him of her infidelity.
4:40. Did she not just say she didnt get him ANYTHING 4his birthday...its wild how females don't show they man attention then get mad when they go fall 4 someone who does
I'm very upset with this man. He has no attachment here holding him , she cheated... she started all this craziness and will not take accountability. He even accepted the baby. She is trifling and he is weak. Let's call a spade a spade
They need to split. His resentment caused by her hidden infidelity has a result of long term repercussion. He's better off starting anew with someone else. I wish he listens to reason and not reasons with hope.
The fact that she cheated and not only that had an outside baby and not saying his actions are justified he just was acting on emotion she got the nerve for real
He’s staying with her broke and creeping bc he feels she deserves it, period. He’s okay being a bum as revenge. It sucks. I hope they are able to work through it but if that bum behavior persists I hope she truly does divorce him.
There is zero excuse for any man not to pay to stay, that is the quickest way, for any woman, to lose all respect for you, HE KNOWS THAT MAN- UP DUDE - SMDH 💯
Not enough was said about the female already having a child and the man stepping up and financially providing 4that child that wasn't his again he was the SOLE provider...and now that he can't provide she dont want him
How are you not only making the decision to cheat but decide who needs protection just in case? And she has the nerve to talk about him not taking care of her?
If she doesn’t just stop complaining and let this man go away in peace and have his OWN WIFE AND KIDS. She and her kids belongs to someone else .. STOP THIS MANNING UP NONSENSE! Enough is Enough
She cheated said his daughter may not be his and she got the nerve to suggest how he should feel? SMH. He needs to get a DNA test and move accordingly.
He needs to run as fast as he can in the opposite direction! She’s a liar and manipulator who thinks she’s beyond reproach. Basically it was all good when his money was long and she could run around and be up under the next. Now that he needs her help and she doesn’t have as much free time to do nonsense it’s a problem. She is clearly the problem here.
Think a lot of you guys miss the fact they been together since 2009 it it now 2024 so 15 years. He did everything pay all the Bills until things unfortunately change. So, for past 2 years she been taking care of most things. Here Math problem 15-2=13 people. 13 years he did most of everything coming to bills so she can have his back for 2 that what marriage is about have each other back. Not complaining because for 2 short years you doing what he did for 13 years.
They both fowl! I'm not sure why he stayed unless it's to punish her. In my opinion, they are not mature enough to be married. He needs counseling. I hate that men go above and beyond for these kinds of women.
Women are their issues . This man has been providing for her and her kids . Just one year of not providing, she is dragging him to court and labeling him as a weak man
They might as well divorce. The trust is gone and he will forever resent her.
Totally agreed,because the child’s father normally comes back around and it may leads to dangerous situations. 🔥🔥🤷🏾♂️
He's just causing unnecessary stress for himself...let the dam man go!!!cause they will divorce anyways! Might as well do it now!!
Yeah I HIGHLY doubt this marriage will end up being fruitful….. for one, she cries victim when she’s the one who’ll create the circumstances……. OMG I haaaaaaate females like her. Such a NARC
@@cordeliajohnson9913he’s the one who need to let HER selfishness lying ass go….. but yeah by staying he’s only gonna stay within the TOXICITY
@@cordeliajohnson9913 He aint got sht.. no job, no home, no money lol
I’m not going to spoil this for you but this lady is an example of why men say women never accept responsibility for their actions. This lady painted a one sided picture like she was an angel and she had the nerves to complain about this man cheating. He should have never married her but his self esteem is so low he will stay. If he can not get over her infidelities he needs to leave, no amount of love will erase the past.
Where did you watch it so soon?
@@yomajesty2703Hulu
Right she had made it seemed like he acted this way from nowhere but no she deceived that man and I wish he’d leave her sorry ass excuse for a woman
Remember she gave him the opportunity to go. He stayed. You don’t get to stay n treat a person bad.
@ yea after yrs of bonding with the child!
The audacity of this woman. She is obstinate and mean spirited. I don't think she wants him.
Mr. Cooke needs to move on.
I feel like she wants a divorce so she can get the child support money from the real daddy. All she cares about is money. This man was the sole provider for her and another man’s kid from the rip and now she wants to add another man’s kid again? If she was a single mom she would be coming out of pocket anyways.
Mannnn I was ready to call him a sorry arse, deadbeat so and so. This man has been deceived and hurt. I pray they can get through this. But the daddy has a right to be in his child's life. Counseling is very much needed.
Same!
4 children??!? And none of them are his??? Sir, walk away. She said she's paying all the bills anyway. Let her be a single parent.
Exactly 💯
I agree.
I thought it was only 2 damn
she started out using him for money! took his 40 thousand dollars, cheated, and now mad because he won’t pay all the bills!!! girl ✌🏾
They have to part ways. They will tear each other apart staying together
Wait a damn minute! Now she gonna come in there like she was innocent and she caused all the damn drama in her own relationship! Lady go have several damn seats! And even had a whole human being on him!!! GIRL BYE 👋🏼
EXACTLY 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Nope. He doesn't get a pass either. He cheated. I agree that he didn't have a baby. But he's staying to make her life hard. Dude get your weight up and get out. You're never gonna truly accept that she had a baby by another man. He's sitting in the court crying. Was he crying when he was cheating. Mt big bro used to say, "ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. He's not built to handle the situation. Not many men could.
@@johnnyb6151 .. He's definitely not built for this shyt. Although he did cheat, I am pretty sure he cheated largely because of the hurt and trauma he's dealing with as a result of being with her azz... I agree he should move on though.
You cheat on me I'm gone... You cheat on me and bring a child into it I'm super duper gone.... Ain't that much love in the world
Right. I may stick around to see if the baby is mine or not but the second I found out, I’m out.
this man is simp
You're a cheater.
I think she thought she was going to BULLY him with the divorce papers. Glad he didn't show weakness when divorce was proposed.
This is one of the saddest cases
Very sad
He should leave her , this woman is not worth fighting for, her attitude is horrible,
leave her , she is not worthy.
The nerve. We always pile on the men but there are ALOT of trifling women out here. And she keeps shifting the blame for everything on him. Even the choice whether they should divorce or not
Yeah this chick got some deep NARC ass character traits WOW
I understand why the man dont want to contribute to the home anymore. He had done what a man is suppose to do love and provide only to find out two months after the baby was born that he may not be his father. And furthermore, to come to find out during an argument. Thats hard to forget and move on from. I think he just got depressed afterwards.
But why is he there 2 years later?
@@Josie3387cuz he said he truly loved HER….. and he prolly got tied to the baby by default but the longer he stayed the worse things got and 2 wrongs never made it right
That is a weak man. Just leave.
He wanted a free ride and a side chick. He married her knowing
@@Josie3387 i think he had in his mind the perfect family potrait. I think he pressured himself into an idea that wasnt factually real.
The audacity of this " wife"....
Right because she’s for the streets!
Mr Cook, it's been time to run away. You are hurt, she is hurt, the baby is not yours. Stop hurting yourself, please pull that bandaid off and keep it moving.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
man leave your wife cheat on you 4x oh is so much
she don't love you
This woman is a narcissist, my goodness she did all of that and came here complaining. I despise people like this 😒
He had to get a storage unit for his equipment due to her anger. The judge sat there and validated it. If it were the other way around, she would have said he has anger issues
She is OUT OF ORDER! why didn't she say from the beginning that she was TRIFLING from the beginning! He needs to 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
He gives her $40k and all she gave him was a paternity test of another man
She pretended like he was acting out from nowhere but she cheated had a baby on him and pretend like she was a complete Angel she a tired ass excuse for a wife!
This is so sad to watch.
@@lesley5380 it Is there needs to be a law to protect men from being deceived into fatherhood
Nah fr
@@bryantrice803It is he can get a vasectomy or wear condoms
Hes a loser and she needs to leave him since he isnt going to leave. He has it made. He doesnt want to work and she is tired of it.
Mrs. Cook pretends that she doesn’t know why her husband’s acting like that and she knew all along. It was because of her infidelity and producing a child by that cheating relationship. She’s gonna sit there looking innocent like she doesn’t know why he’s doing what he’s doing. it would be best for them to end the relationship and start a new relationship with someone else. Now that the babies biological father wants to be involved I understand why this man is backing off because for the rest of his life he’s gonna have to always have this other guy involved in his relationship in order for the real dad to see his daughter.
His wife should be ashamed of herself of pretending that she didn’t know why he was acting this way .
Both of them are stepping out. That’s not cool. Women can’t move like men because we’re always the ones left holding the bag and the baby.
Yes women can..ladies take heed use birth control dont get lumbered with kids with jerk men
Birth control
I don’t understand why people stay with people just to make them miserable at the same time making yourself miserable smh just leave you could have met another soulmate that you can start fresh with
I have so much to say about this episode, but to keep short I agree with him they need to divorce this marriage will NEVER work. And personally I think the ONLY reason he's still in this marriage is to punish her.
What about the part where she said he was fully taking care of her and he gave her 3000 to do AZ she pleased, now it's a problem when she gotta do what he did for years..walk away my guy
RIGHT!! She’s on some fake victim fuck shit when the truth is SHE’s the one with selfish ass NARC traits
Nah fr
She has been taking care of him for 2 yrs and he wanted to take care of her. She doesnt want to take care of a man. Why do "men" take up for men who are clearly not doing their job as a man????
@@tpoppy9303it’s always the men commenting and crying. Lols.
All I can say is Wow😮
Wait, she ain't dispute that he gave her $40k 😳 At first I thought he was a bumb but this man is functioning depressed. He's stuck. I think he's dumbstruck that he literally gave her all he had 😢 or he's punishing her and trying to get his money back by making her pay all the bills 🤔
That's the first thing that came to my mind
When they said she cheated two years ago I thought about her saying they had a beautiful 2 year old…
Leave her now! There’s nothing there connecting you to her, she needs therapy..
That's a bold ass side chick
It seems to me like side chicks are getting bolder and bolder! It's insane!
Imagine getN married 2someone who already had a kid being the sole provider having a child finding out the female cheated and the baby isn't urs...and all the comments is about how the man is wrong???
It’s cause she was miles away
@@kingnajiyd7282 because he should have left...and he didnt
@sharmainearroyo7113 hmmmmm so it's his fault he loved her/the kids and thought she would do him right? Yup spoken like a true female
I hope he leaves the relationship and get some help to restore his self-esteem.
and go where? lol
I’m sorry but the only reason he not leaving is because she taking care of him. He’s using that as an excuse. She wrong thinking that man should stay after the baby stuff smh this a mess😮
Yeah! Nothing to do with infidelity.
He was doing it in the beginning. Marriage is 50/50
U sound foolish shut up
But when he was doing it it was ok but now that she’s doing it it’s a problem? Do you not see how narcissistic that sounds?
He was injured on the job. And is trying to start his own construction company. He took care of a woman, with a baby that wasn't working. And the baby isn't his. He should run away, from her.
I don't like when people blame the wrong person for their actions
She's FOS. They should absolutely divorce
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Another WEAK dude who married a single mother 304. He even scared to leave now after she had another man's baby. I'm tired of seeing these stories over and over again. Men like this have no PRIDE nor DIGNITY about themselves.
You can’t cheat on someone and have a problem with them resenting you for it. He may have said he would move on, but that doesn’t mean he would forget.
Then he should leave.... but he needs her
She broke him😢
He's punishing her right now for what she did to him. What she did was super foul and having the audacity to bring him here is crazy.
I thought she was being victimized WOW she's something else hopefully he realizes he needs to leave her!
Forgiveness is I forgive you. You don’t get to say I forgive you but then hold it over their head and anytime you feel like it. she’s not innocent in this at all. Both of them are just as bad.
I think he is using the infidelity as an excuse to be a bum. And shes feeling bad for what shes done so shes dealing with it. I bet when he gets up on his feet its OVER
Good! She is not a saint. She bogus as hell too.
Since he said, 🆔 get the divorce, now, she doesn't want to
This was weird to me. They definitely need counseling and I’m glad that’s the verdict. She cheated, he stayed, then proceeds to “act out” two whole years later because she’s demanding more of him. Sounds like an excuse when really I think he beat himself down after he got laid off and his business isn’t doing that well. For a once successful man that’s a huge hit to the ego. He need to pick himself back up and work on the hurt she caused and he himself also caused.
Thank you
I love how she tried to make him look like a deadbeat. Ma'am he gave you 40k ?! Not $40 ! He gotta find him a better woman
He feeling less of a man for the wrong reason. He should have left after finding out that child wasn’t his. Because he’s staying with her just to punish her. Diary of a Mad Black Man. Let that father have the rights to HIS child, and STEP!!! You gotta know when to hold’em, know when to fold’em, know when to walk away….KNOW HOW TO RUN!!!! 🏃🏾
So sad.
In the first part, I said come on, man, but now. She is the one. He needs to leave
She just so conviently forgot to tell that she cheated, and had a baby. But now she's mad because he cheated. They should end the marriage. Every time he looks at the baby girl, it might remind him of her infidelity.
This should’ve ended differently they are dragging each other down
Wise judge and a good man.
😂
No job & cheating is CRAZY WORK
What makes a person cheat after a proposal? That’s insane!
And he gave her $40k smh. I hope he leaves her sorry self.
@ I don’t see how someone women can ruin a good man.
I was shocked. I doubt if he will stay with her especially with that baby daddy drama that’s going to happen. Sad to see how she hurt him.
In the words of Judge Lynn never have a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you. Both of them need to let go.
4:40. Did she not just say she didnt get him ANYTHING 4his birthday...its wild how females don't show they man attention then get mad when they go fall 4 someone who does
He made an argument on his birthday just to go to his side chick
Good. He deserved drama-FREE trashy 🐈 for HIS day
I'm very upset with this man. He has no attachment here holding him , she cheated... she started all this craziness and will not take accountability. He even accepted the baby. She is trifling and he is weak. Let's call a spade a spade
Sadly, this is giving divorce! Then, they can start over and find the true happiness they all deserve. (she flubbed up! )
I'm not getting married. If I have a kid, I'm definitely getting a DNA test smh
I can’t blame you in the environment that’s heavily against men
They need to split. His resentment caused by her hidden infidelity has a result of long term repercussion. He's better off starting anew with someone else. I wish he listens to reason and not reasons with hope.
She wants what she had before she cheated. 😅 Girl it will never be the same. You hurt that man with a whole baby!!!? Wow! Smh
Right! A daily reminder of what she did.
The fact that she cheated and not only that had an outside baby and not saying his actions are justified he just was acting on emotion she got the nerve for real
Soon as i found the baby wasn't mine..........no strings on me
He’s staying with her broke and creeping bc he feels she deserves it, period. He’s okay being a bum as revenge. It sucks. I hope they are able to work through it but if that bum behavior persists I hope she truly does divorce him.
There is zero excuse for any man not to pay to stay, that is the quickest way, for any woman, to lose all respect for you, HE KNOWS THAT MAN- UP DUDE - SMDH 💯
Its interesting that nobody has an issue when the man is the sole provider financially. I thought that couples were in it together.
She made a great point! If u r still in the marriage, u still 😢gotta help! He's only staying cause she is taking care of him. IMO
That’s shit ain’t gonna work so don’t waste your time brother run and don’t look back
Where are they here
Exactly 💯 get the divorce go yall separate ways
Not enough was said about the female already having a child and the man stepping up and financially providing 4that child that wasn't his again he was the SOLE provider...and now that he can't provide she dont want him
How are you not only making the decision to cheat but decide who needs protection just in case? And she has the nerve to talk about him not taking care of her?
Never let anyone or anything make you feel less of a man sir.
He high as a kite
This is so sad. You can see how crushed he is
He stepped up for a child that wasnt his.. girl bffr. Release that man fr
This woman is jealous of the damn baby! I swear men-all women are not like this! Sir just run!
The audacity of that woman! She is trifling!
He needs to run away from this woman
He's checked out! He shouldn't stay because it's been and will continue to be toxic around the child.
He ain't going no where. Cuz all he gotta do is play with the child and not pay bills. This was a smooth move by him 😂
If she doesn’t just stop complaining and let this man go away in peace and have his OWN WIFE AND KIDS. She and her kids belongs to someone else .. STOP THIS MANNING UP NONSENSE! Enough is Enough
This is too messy. They should just divorce. She brought divorce papers and he was ready to sign them. There’s not fight left here. It’s too far gone.
She cheated said his daughter may not be his and she got the nerve to suggest how he should feel? SMH. He needs to get a DNA test and move accordingly.
He said they did and it’s not his baby. The other father wants equal legal custody of the baby.
They should split. She does not love him. Period!!
Where's Robert?
Just move on.n stay single. Love yourselves.
He needs to run as fast as he can in the opposite direction! She’s a liar and manipulator who thinks she’s beyond reproach. Basically it was all good when his money was long and she could run around and be up under the next. Now that he needs her help and she doesn’t have as much free time to do nonsense it’s a problem. She is clearly the problem here.
I will not be able to stay with anyone who make a child and worse comes to worse than child's mother wants to be in her life
Think a lot of you guys miss the fact they been together since 2009 it it now 2024 so 15 years. He did everything pay all the Bills until things unfortunately change. So, for past 2 years she been taking care of most things. Here Math problem 15-2=13 people. 13 years he did most of everything coming to bills so she can have his back for 2 that what marriage is about have each other back. Not complaining because for 2 short years you doing what he did for 13 years.
This lady is wrong why go and have kids outside your relationship if he cheated leave him
This is why men don’t wanna get married no more 😒🤦♀️
Sir please run
Judge Star. Where is Mr handsome Robert Hernandez? He is miss from the court.
They both fowl! I'm not sure why he stayed unless it's to punish her. In my opinion, they are not mature enough to be married. He needs counseling. I hate that men go above and beyond for these kinds of women.
Women are their issues . This man has been providing for her and her kids . Just one year of not providing, she is dragging him to court and labeling him as a weak man
She came to court for what again!
Happy Sunday
I think he should walk away unfortunately she is toxic