Ummm, she has ADHD and is Autistic. That comes with being sensitive and overwhelmed and anxious. It's hard. There's no cure, because it's your literal nervous system structure, so what would a doctor do? If her partner can't handle her disabilities, imagine how hard it is for her. If Dempsey can't accomodate her partner, she can leave, but it's not Statler's fault she is so anxious. Dempsey doesn't seem to understand Autism and ADHD AT ALL. Statler is leaving her country and likes stability, but she's doing it for Dempsey. Dempsey should realize her partner does have special needs and should be honest about whether she can be OK with doing more in the day to day, long term relationship than Statler.
I am the mum of three autistic boys, Statler is stemming as she is talking with Dempsey. She is over sensitized. Honestly? She is incredibly brave stepping out of her comfort zone. However, I don't think this type of situation is good for her. I'm also an autistic woman.
@roodbennett I'm Autistic too, and have an Autistic daughter, plus we both have ADHD. We live in an RV, We chose this as our lifestyle. Some of it is hard and is definitely a big learning curve. A lot of it is great for my autonomy. If I had a partner to rely on, I would have prevented the deep burnout that came with converting our life from a rented home to a home on wheels that is OURS. This is a way for us to travel or live cheaply in beautiful, expensive places and have all my and my daughters *things* with us, including our pets and hobbies, and we can be free to be wherever we feel best. It can be chaotic, but it is also very freeing, once you have all the stuff figured out. We currently are parked on a big hill on an island on BC's west coast in Canada, but we have been all the way down to Guatemala ♡ yes, I have anxiety, but also tons of curiousity... I break it into small bits so I can handle it and rest when I feel any signs of melt downs, shut downs or burn puts.
Not sure what tf Statler is thinking going to live in a van!! She didn't even like living in Dempsey's trailer house thingy, so let's make it a fraction of the size and take away all the amenties! Great Idea!! I give it a couple weeks on the road before it implodes! (the relationship, not the van)
James seems zesty and very irresponsible. I mean how many times has he does this now? twice. Also Dempsey is very very pretty, she reminds me of those books I read about the North of England. Statler seems difficult and a hot mess. Shekinah is super immature trying to make a 43 year old man jealous of a man you used to date in high school, grow up woman.
Statler reminds me of the typical fearful avoidanr who does nothing to heal their trauma . Just going through wasting peoples time and leaving a mess of destruction. She needs plant medicine.
So Shekina also stores memories from Xses and now she wants to go to Sharper and hand over her "evidence" to show why he shouldnt keep his memorbilia. no hate, just saying
Incredibly selfish not to tell your partner you don’t want kids knowing she probably does.
"we buy the banana chips from my father then go to another city and sell the banana chips"
😰
She’s homesick, and is lying about her supposed illnesses, and that’s a major lie. She doesn’t like the cold, plain and simple they should breakup!
Meltalia is an Asian Jazzmine 😂
😂 you got that right!
They even look alike (Jasmin's original face when we were first introduced to her 😅)
lol
dead weight, James should run immediately
@@EmIntheCountry-rb5ou he's no walk in the park either 🤣
Statler needs a really good doctor for her mental issues...
Definitely
Ummm, she has ADHD and is Autistic. That comes with being sensitive and overwhelmed and anxious. It's hard. There's no cure, because it's your literal nervous system structure, so what would a doctor do? If her partner can't handle her disabilities, imagine how hard it is for her. If Dempsey can't accomodate her partner, she can leave, but it's not Statler's fault she is so anxious. Dempsey doesn't seem to understand Autism and ADHD AT ALL. Statler is leaving her country and likes stability, but she's doing it for Dempsey. Dempsey should realize her partner does have special needs and should be honest about whether she can be OK with doing more in the day to day, long term relationship than Statler.
I am the mum of three autistic boys, Statler is stemming as she is talking with Dempsey. She is over sensitized. Honestly? She is incredibly brave stepping out of her comfort zone. However, I don't think this type of situation is good for her.
I'm also an autistic woman.
@@audhdcreativity5899Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️
Jesus saves, Jesus heals, Jesus grants peace ❤️
@roodbennett I'm Autistic too, and have an Autistic daughter, plus we both have ADHD. We live in an RV, We chose this as our lifestyle. Some of it is hard and is definitely a big learning curve. A lot of it is great for my autonomy. If I had a partner to rely on, I would have prevented the deep burnout that came with converting our life from a rented home to a home on wheels that is OURS. This is a way for us to travel or live cheaply in beautiful, expensive places and have all my and my daughters *things* with us, including our pets and hobbies, and we can be free to be wherever we feel best. It can be chaotic, but it is also very freeing, once you have all the stuff figured out. We currently are parked on a big hill on an island on BC's west coast in Canada, but we have been all the way down to Guatemala ♡ yes, I have anxiety, but also tons of curiousity... I break it into small bits so I can handle it and rest when I feel any signs of melt downs, shut downs or burn puts.
Totally agree i always skip that indonesia girls parts because the whole relationship doesnt make sense
Not sure what tf Statler is thinking going to live in a van!! She didn't even like living in Dempsey's trailer house thingy, so let's make it a fraction of the size and take away all the amenties! Great Idea!! I give it a couple weeks on the road before it implodes!
(the relationship, not the van)
Shekinah vs Sharper toxic
James and Meltalia make my brain hurt so bad…wtf are they doing💁🏽♂️
Statler is creepy.
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James seems zesty and very irresponsible. I mean how many times has he does this now? twice. Also Dempsey is very very pretty, she reminds me of those books I read about the North of England. Statler seems difficult and a hot mess. Shekinah is super immature trying to make a 43 year old man jealous of a man you used to date in high school, grow up woman.
Statler reminds me of the typical fearful avoidanr who does nothing to heal their trauma . Just going through wasting peoples time and leaving a mess of destruction. She needs plant medicine.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Meitalla has major issues .Its best for James to move on.
Let her go home for a vacation, and see if she decides to return.
@@joywebster2678I bet they are here now it's all just make up story so they can be in the show.
Why cant Metallica's husband Howdy-Doody just start training for elevator repair in indonesia? Im pretty sure they have elevators.😮
It’s really unfair for metalia’s family not to pay him 🤷🏻♀️
So Shekina also stores memories from Xses and now she wants to go to Sharper and hand over her "evidence" to show why he shouldnt keep his memorbilia. no hate, just saying
It's incredibly immature.
James is getting his karma lol
I really enjoyed 90 days way back then and gradually i ffw more and more, so annoying now, TLC is scraping the bottom of the barrel👎👎👎😴😴😴
James and meitalia made me cringe. Skip!!!
They are my favorite couple this season
@@xoxo9972 too bad. They lie too much.
Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️
Jesus saves, Jesus heals, Jesus grants peace ❤️
If you saved something for many years, you would know how many ijs
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