THERAPIST REACTS to Dax - A Real Man (Official Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @Thatsdax
    @Thatsdax 8 месяцев назад +290

    MY BROTHER!! thank you!!

    • @yasuehd23
      @yasuehd23 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yooo dax

    • @adkmusic360
      @adkmusic360 8 месяцев назад

      Muzi🇿🇦💯🔥

    • @mati4604
      @mati4604 8 месяцев назад

      WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH DAX!!!🤍

    • @karlweir3198
      @karlweir3198 8 месяцев назад +1

      Love your songs dax

    • @lesliprovince7354
      @lesliprovince7354 8 месяцев назад

      My favorite artist! A true witness for God and knowing we can struggle and still live for God!❤

  • @sarahsisk7298
    @sarahsisk7298 8 месяцев назад +121

    Women need to be the voice of love and compassion in our relationships. Men don’t need anyone to remind them that they’re failing. They already tell themselves every second of every day. We need to encourage, and uplift our men. Moved to tears by this. It was just a stab in the gut to see him work so hard and hear his wife tell him to leave because of one slip up. A real woman would’ve looked at what he was going through and hugged him. A real woman would’ve said “How can I help you carry this? What can I do to help you?” BE HIS ESCAPE so that he doesn’t need to look for another one. Gosh so heartbroken by this 😭

    • @Dominic-n4r5c
      @Dominic-n4r5c 8 месяцев назад

      But there is no more woman that actually care about their men and help them in their hard times. Those woman’s doesn’t exist anymore, all I see a just woman’s that like to fuck around, this generation is doomed. ✌️

    • @romteni
      @romteni 6 месяцев назад

      Modern women only love 2 things, mirror, attention, and cats.

    • @shellz831
      @shellz831 6 месяцев назад

      Ok Ms MASCULINE PICKMEisha. MaIes claim to be leaders, motherFKer ...go lead. It is males who set the standard that they can't meet, go fight those other men.

    • @Ami-vh7sr
      @Ami-vh7sr 5 месяцев назад

      The problem these days is Women these days in the West are told they should get all the benefits with no responsibility.....they are told they can find someone better and live their best lives without any pushback.....

    • @kimbuoy1
      @kimbuoy1 5 месяцев назад +1

      God bless you with a real one, Sarah!

  • @heidilarson1366
    @heidilarson1366 8 месяцев назад +37

    When my husband is alone after a long day I take a few minutes to let him know I am here if wants to talk & I appreciate everything he does to provide for me & our daughter. Ladies you will see different ways your men act if you show them appreciation & communicate with them. Well most men it's gives them a spiritual uplift.

    • @londonrivers5230
      @londonrivers5230 8 месяцев назад +1

      I have to say you have no idea of this song cause you talked to much through it. He only went to the bottle because she left him for what she considered a real man.

    • @heidilarson1366
      @heidilarson1366 8 месяцев назад +1

      10:45 She left him after she caught him drinking! honestly that was a huge hint of the video! She wanted a Disney fairytale of a marriage & if you didn't like the therapist talking so much then go watch the original. If your talking about me why are reading a comment during a video. Common sense should dictate you watch the video and then comment like 50% if not more people have already done.

    • @nostalji93
      @nostalji93 5 месяцев назад

      goes both ways. I mean we should appreciate the effort of our partners and don't take them for granted. Its so easy to get used to things, yet a little positive affirmation and appreciation goes so far. Like a prayer before supper its good to remind yourself what you are thankful for and hopefully a supportive partner is among these things.

  • @kat3462
    @kat3462 8 месяцев назад +15

    I love your reactions to music. Yes the vibe is r&b country feel. Your experiences are valuable and now I’m a Dax fan because of this video. Ty for sharing.

  • @BathRobeSamuraiB
    @BathRobeSamuraiB 8 месяцев назад +7

    Absolutely love the breakdown and additional comments you add to the vision of Dax's song. You definitely add great commentary and your own experience, and expertise, to the topics presented here. Cheers!

  • @karlweir3198
    @karlweir3198 8 месяцев назад +13

    I hold my wife's hand and hold doors for her, my father always told me chiveray is not dead unless you don't do it. He always showed me that as an example by doing all those things to my mother. I love my wife and I would do anything for her ❤❤❤❤

  • @jordanjandles83
    @jordanjandles83 7 месяцев назад +6

    This makes me realise that "pre-marriage counciling "is essential .

  • @Violet316
    @Violet316 3 месяца назад

    Dax has a new song called Lonely Dirt Road. It got 1 million views in 3 days and 2 million in one week.

  • @Unplugged_Toaster
    @Unplugged_Toaster 8 месяцев назад +8

    I think a lot of what Dax is speaking on has been greatly magnified due to dating apps and social media. People are certain they have so much choice that their expectations become unrealistic, not realizing how much of this is fake. Maybe it'll lead to an easy one night stand, but to a strong, lasting relationship? It's a subject far too deep to cover in a comment, but I personally believe it has been incredibly unhealthy for both men and women and society as a whole. Unfortunately, I'm not even sure what we can do about it at this point. Pandora's box has been opened.

    • @korgy321
      @korgy321 8 месяцев назад

      We have to keep speaking about it in any way we can. Art is a very real influence on society. Life imitates art is a phrase for a reason. Try your best and be authentic. Keep growing and do everything from the place of love.

  • @shanedoughty6844
    @shanedoughty6844 8 месяцев назад +4

    The realest song ever!!! 💯💯💯💯

  • @christineweber5226
    @christineweber5226 8 месяцев назад +1

    He's really amazing in his lyrical genius but most of all he literally understands the subjects he sings about! And most of us just want someone to understand our pain!

  • @angelacosta5883
    @angelacosta5883 7 месяцев назад +2

    Firstly, I would like to thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable, admit your past mistakes, and show the world, not just your circle, what it takes to be a real human being. I think so many times we caught up in the meaning of a word instead of who we are as an individual. Society puts so limits on individuality and everyone is trying to fit into this society. It’s the real people killer! There’s so many other facets, opportunities, and ways we can receive guidance. To me society is the literal definition of insanity. It’s constantly throwing out the same effort it’s been doing for years now and expecting different outcomes. We need to make a shift and can only do so with a different mindset. I tell folks all the time, it don’t matter what path you choose. There will always be hurtles to jump down every one of them. However, being an individual is what gets you past those hurtles as they are only personal to you. Back to the other facets, opportunities, and such. I try to think about it in the sense of when opportunity comes knocking, go ahead and answer the door, invite it in and see what it’s about, but always remember you’re the interviewer. It should no longer be about the mindset of “whelp! It’s better than before.” It should be more about questioning is it the best. We’ve become a society where we view equal as meaning the same. That is not the case at all. Equal to will never be the same as. The reason why the “right now” is so important, it creates our past and constructs our future. You are living proof nothing is set in stone. We all have to bend from time to time, but breaking is a choice, or your actions that lead you to it are. Anyways, thank you for teaching this by sharing, as actions speak louder than words.

    • @nostalji93
      @nostalji93 5 месяцев назад

      "The reason why the “right now” is so important, it creates our past" the past is done nothing you can create there except an untrue narrative.

    • @angelacosta5883
      @angelacosta5883 4 месяца назад

      @@nostalji93 I’m not sure I quite understand what you mean? What I meant was let’s say you wake up today and decide to take a left turn, instead of right. (When you usually go right) on this day because you chose to go left because you weren’t paying attention, then you got in a wreck, the wreck smashed your leg and now they don’t even know if you can keep it. So “right now”while it looks grave and grim, you can either choose to stay down or choose to get up. “Right now” is what decides on if tomorrow you look back on yesterday and regret going left when you weren’t paying attention in the right now, or you’re proud of yourself in the future because in the right now you chose to get back up

    • @nostalji93
      @nostalji93 4 месяца назад

      @@angelacosta5883 My point was that in the present the past already happened. No matter your perspective in the present and how you view the past it already happened. I agree with most of the ideas you shared, but I simply didn't understand (and still don't) what you meant by "creating our past" in the "right now".

    • @angelacosta5883
      @angelacosta5883 4 месяца назад +1

      @@nostalji93 oh ok gotcha. What I meant by that as is in the present or “right now” will soon become your past as you work on constructing your future. The present is the only place where all three sets of time exist. So for example: today I woke up, fixed coffee, and started my day. I’ve done some business work, personal work, and are enjoying friends and family now. This is today, but when tomorrow comes not only will I have secured another day in my future, but also made healthy, positive memories for me to look back on when thinking about the past. Everything we do in the right now will be a part of our past and become a part of the construction of our future. It’s all in the right here and now. Hope this helps

    • @nostalji93
      @nostalji93 4 месяца назад

      @@angelacosta5883 it does ty!

  • @CashRPYT
    @CashRPYT 6 месяцев назад +3

    YO DAX IS THE GOAT 🐐 BRO HE IS NOT RAPPING NO MORE I WILL MISS THAT

  • @aaronhilgendorf8772
    @aaronhilgendorf8772 7 месяцев назад +3

    "I can't afford to leave." Think that's what she said.

  • @eduffy4937
    @eduffy4937 7 месяцев назад +1

    You can't solve money problems with money. Some of the most wise words I've ever heard from my elders. A vast majority of people have enough they just cant manage it or are.t disciplined enough to keep it

  • @porterunboxing1799
    @porterunboxing1799 8 месяцев назад +7

    You should listen to dear alcohol by Dax 10 min version

  • @ArianaHernandez-xv2rj
    @ArianaHernandez-xv2rj 7 месяцев назад +1

    In my family it's sadly the other way around. My mom is both mom and dad while my father is neither.

  • @shanenewton1257
    @shanenewton1257 8 месяцев назад +2

    i didnt even watch this one. its just your most recent video. im really struggling. i love your peep videos. it has helped a lot. i just want you to know that some of us rely on this content. i love seeing how a pro analyses the sad music i listen to

  • @karlweir3198
    @karlweir3198 8 месяцев назад +1

    Communication is definitely key. If you have no communication you have no relationship. Thats what went wrong in other relationships and I finally figured that out and my wife and I communicate all the time. She is there for me when im having a hard time just like im there for her when shes having bad days. I also believe that we all need therapy we all are dealing with something that we could talk to a professional about to help you though it. My wife is my best friend and visa versa. Wife and children are the most important things in life

  • @jamesbench2032
    @jamesbench2032 8 месяцев назад +6

    This song reminds me of every woman before my wife. Now we'd never look back..

  • @karlweir3198
    @karlweir3198 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love this song

  • @MarcusBumgardner-d4e
    @MarcusBumgardner-d4e 8 месяцев назад +4

    Hindsight is 20/20. My wife started having an affair after I became disabled. Raised his daughter till she was 3 then I found out. I left. We were friends for 30 years married 18 have a 15yo with her and she understands why I left. I see my daughter every month even if just a weekend she lives 4 hours away. I also see the 3yo because I love her so much too. Him and ex understands and let's me see her and he video calls me with the 3yo because he understands that she is part of me.

    • @garryclayjr3042
      @garryclayjr3042 8 месяцев назад

      Man I worked two jobs for two years while she had every job possible I kept the same job for ten years she drove my car the house was in my name. I couldn't see my son doing his sports cause I was working all the time. To keep from seeing election notices all the time . Dax is real cause he breaks it down what a relationship woman wants is someone who will be there no matter what, and no, because he got money or a great car. Those are material things, not godly things, compassion and understanding, and working together. That's what real man is and real love

  • @armandoestrada9085
    @armandoestrada9085 7 месяцев назад

    Love ur music Dax keep up the good work buddy 👍

  • @MandyWaller-xw9wj
    @MandyWaller-xw9wj 8 месяцев назад +2

    Bringin dinner home via hunting is sexy. Sorry. Gotta find a balance. Widowed for 7 yrs and won't move on. My man was gold. Noone can ever hold a match to Bonner. I was 34.

    • @MandyWaller-xw9wj
      @MandyWaller-xw9wj 8 месяцев назад

      I taught my now 19 yo electrician and my now 10 yo son how to hunt. Shoot both bows and rifles. I can handle my own. If a real fella came along, things may change. I don't need a man for anything more than love though. Money is crap. We got everything we need. Happy and healthy boys, a paid off home, a paid off vehicle, ample food, and the ability to earn $$ via skills. My kids both build gaming computers as well.

    • @MandyWaller-xw9wj
      @MandyWaller-xw9wj 8 месяцев назад

      12:32 keepin up with the Jones

  • @wildedibles819
    @wildedibles819 7 месяцев назад

    It's been a chore spending time listening to me while we do have time together and I'm trying to sort that part out
    Thanks I'm enjoying watching reactions to this video I find it helpful this song hits home and I want to change things

    • @wildedibles819
      @wildedibles819 7 месяцев назад

      Yes talks or open to be vulnerable we need to know how our man feels

    • @wildedibles819
      @wildedibles819 7 месяцев назад

      It's interesting to see how some men jump to her cheating ;)
      I understand what she was doing because I have waited all night on special occasions to fall asleep before he gets home
      Been here not this anymore and I'm working on this issue
      It's the loneliness sitting at home in your head
      Sometimes women jump to conclusions and think hubby is cheating not working late
      With me I think my hubby rather be somewhere else and really how I keep hammering away at him I don't blame him
      So I can sit with that and get mad back or change and keep my relationship of 20 years

    • @wildedibles819
      @wildedibles819 7 месяцев назад

      I think many of us women have been broken and we are confused on things
      Yes talking about it and willing to handle it together
      Me and my hubby have been through a lot ❤

  • @tylercooper9090
    @tylercooper9090 8 месяцев назад +1

    I will break myself for those I love.

  • @JohnnyLawrence-f9t
    @JohnnyLawrence-f9t 6 месяцев назад +1

    1st time watching your channel. So if your also a christian also id follow your channel.
    So I'm picking up vibes your a Christian you mentioned a good verse in the Bible.

  • @motherhoodsbeauty9279
    @motherhoodsbeauty9279 7 месяцев назад

    I open my own door so I don’t know what is up with people what other people open a door for them! If a door is heavy then, yes please help me open it lol😂

    • @noorzanayasmin7806
      @noorzanayasmin7806 5 месяцев назад

      Its sign of respect and courtesy. It is like when I go to store and if I see a person coming by I will hold the door for them. I dont have to yet I do as a sign of respect and helpfulness. It is very common in the USA.

  • @tracymuckle8512
    @tracymuckle8512 Месяц назад

    The thing is, he didn't talk to her and all she sees is him neglecting their relationship...we're not mind readers

  • @JvmezPlayz
    @JvmezPlayz 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love it Tom! You should listen to "Balloons And Beaches" by Demun Jones next!

  • @lemini4k
    @lemini4k 8 месяцев назад

    Lexnour is one the best beat makers right now. He's who produced the beat to this song.

  • @Pelgrim67
    @Pelgrim67 7 месяцев назад

    I didn't want to hurt her by saying what i thought was wrong. By remaining silent i chatted her up even more. Eventually divorced since 2005. I learned it the hard way. Keep talking if you can talk write it down and read it Loud out in front of your partner. Communication is the key. Stay safe stay healthy, greetz from the Netherlands

    • @noorzanayasmin7806
      @noorzanayasmin7806 5 месяцев назад

      I used to write things down for my partner because communication did not come easy to me. Coming from toxic family all we ever did is bottle our emotion and shove it down as far as possible so I never even knew how to communicate after a while. It is like I am crying silently inside screaming to be let out yet dont know how. Over time I figured it out but it was so hard

  • @BizzlesLife
    @BizzlesLife 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hey I miss you guys. I miss the RAMT lives. Oh yeah you should listen to niko moon - strange Times campfire sessions

  • @joekelley9168
    @joekelley9168 8 месяцев назад

    Dax is the realest dude out there......my brother 🙏🙏🙏 never related to any one like you bro ,bro spits fire 🔥🔥🔥 again never related to any artist like dax ,the realest mofo out there.much love bro 🤙

  • @cheetara32
    @cheetara32 5 месяцев назад

    I find this so sad to hear so many guys think this is what women want... I csnt think of anything worse than this level of toxic masculinity expectation.
    In my circle i don't know any women who tell men these things, but im sure they are out there.
    Guys you need to look out for each other too, make it ok to tslk about emotions snd feel safe being vulnerable, thst then also gives you knowledge snd confidence about what YOU deserve and need over what you sre told you are supposed to be to be a man....
    Honesty and authenticity are the most important for relationships. If you cant be you, you're not with the right person.
    It should be a partnership based on respect and understanding... Not pressure snd expectations

  • @pugpugarts4034
    @pugpugarts4034 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hey man! You should react to Loyle Carner,lmk if you want recommendations!

  • @lindseyniebuhr5379
    @lindseyniebuhr5379 7 месяцев назад

    You should do a video on Dax song JOKER part 1 and part 2

  • @cassidylynn7289
    @cassidylynn7289 7 месяцев назад

    You cant be the best sometimes with anyone you can try to be yourself and sometimes being yourself isnt good enough. Ive gotten the worst from someone i love that says she loves me but doesnt care for what i feel and its not hard to see or hard to explain but what are you gonna do you can try and push but shit wont be hiw you want it to be. Sorry fellas! I get your a therapist but your trained to be this way sir you're trained for this we dont get told this stuff growing up so my fellas. Who do you call when you need help?

  • @DjEtumno
    @DjEtumno 7 месяцев назад

    I'm the bad guy but I come home everyday but I'm not doing enough. Fuck how I feel. 😢😢😢

  • @Fosssaaaa
    @Fosssaaaa 8 месяцев назад +1

    React to POLO G "Angels In The Sky"

  • @steelas481
    @steelas481 7 месяцев назад

    10:47 think we missed the point here

  • @miriellourraineaque
    @miriellourraineaque 7 месяцев назад

    Can you please react to SB19's "ILAW" they're a filipino pop band. They're an international PPOP idols. There's an English subtitle for it. Hope you can react to them.. and they have a song for parents too called "MAPA" Mom(Ma)-Dad(Pa) Thanks.

  • @BEONNEON
    @BEONNEON 4 месяца назад

    What you say about her not letting you go hunting? Sounds healthy

  • @gohanrice2020
    @gohanrice2020 5 месяцев назад

    Everyone does not need a therapist, for those who do need them I'm glad they have that option, it seems very self serving to say every man needs a therapist, I was waiting for you to clarify if that might be a professional therapist, or a church group or friend group...but I didn't hear that. Apologies if you say it later in the vid but several minutes later is pretty far from the original comment if so.

  • @Zakeeballer16
    @Zakeeballer16 7 месяцев назад

    🎶💗🌏

  • @dougknight6235
    @dougknight6235 5 месяцев назад

    imagine a therapist telling you "you need a therapist ".. kinda self serving.

  • @Redwave4547
    @Redwave4547 5 месяцев назад

    I hate how the music video skips her killing his baby after celebrating the test and calling him a POS for having feelings about it.

    • @DillanWill
      @DillanWill 4 месяца назад

      Where did you get the idea that she did that?

  • @zeroexea
    @zeroexea 5 месяцев назад +1

    You suffer from the same thing that rest of the society does, women could never do wrong in your eyes even when a woman is the one who is responsible for the b******* and f***** up you blamed the man for choosing her instead of pointing out that more than likely he was positive she was perfect and she either changed or even if she didn't change he hid it away as best she could which makes her the responsible party for her actions stop blaming men for everything! You at least recognize that she was a bad woman to choose but you need to go a step further and recognize that she's responsible for her actions not the man that chose her.

  • @MrKaidalen
    @MrKaidalen 8 месяцев назад

    Listen to Ren - Hi Ren . ITS SO GOOD

  • @destorer5000
    @destorer5000 7 месяцев назад +2

    I think the man was an alcoholic because when she caught him drinking, she said: "It's been 2 years"

  • @_lady_bugz_
    @_lady_bugz_ 8 месяцев назад

    💐

  •  8 месяцев назад

    listen to yung bleu

  • @Mr.GrindTime
    @Mr.GrindTime 4 месяца назад

    This song is about the usual "modern woman" lol

  • @carmenmartinez4227
    @carmenmartinez4227 8 месяцев назад +2

    ❤🇪🇦🙏

  • @EthanJaydeAndrews-6880
    @EthanJaydeAndrews-6880 8 месяцев назад

    day 1 of asking you to react to the unreleased rod wave music.

  • @DjEtumno
    @DjEtumno 7 месяцев назад

    I can't talk to family or friends cause, everyone is trying to get with my wife. Sorry that I'm not that guy to hold you above everything. I love my wife but I'm the guy. 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @brandonmiles3025
    @brandonmiles3025 5 месяцев назад

    Judge Mathews

  • @johnkeegan7744
    @johnkeegan7744 8 месяцев назад +2

    Great song Eminem single from his new album drop tomorrow

  • @OneLoveForLife
    @OneLoveForLife 6 месяцев назад

    👍600

  • @faithtalk7052
    @faithtalk7052 8 месяцев назад

    Will you please help my boyfriend he could really use you as a therapist

  • @tomclaesen8048
    @tomclaesen8048 8 месяцев назад

    Well well he is good but

  • @DennisRice-s2l
    @DennisRice-s2l 8 месяцев назад +1

    Man you are so wrong i have been married 43 years i can no longer work and was just told she wished I died 6 years ago when I got injured but she never said anything until now

    • @korgy321
      @korgy321 8 месяцев назад +1

      user hey that woman you thought you knew is in the past now. Reflect but don't ruminate. I've been through it all and faced a similar situation. Took me 8 years before another relationship. At least she told you how she felt and now you know the truth. Find a trustworthy, honest person to work through this, such as a therapist.
      There is always someone that will help but it does take a toll and time to find them. And there is a real woman out there for you. You have to try. Be aware of any signs but know you are not alone.

  • @dereckrock5970
    @dereckrock5970 6 месяцев назад

    I think i found a women who want a real man, which i am, and i dont feel anxiety, i can be stress a bit some time but i just dont have a lot of emotion, i love my wife and ours kids i can get angry and that it life is so simple, but bear in mind i got with shitty girl, never been cheated on, (they told you after the relation) but just never happy women a lot cognitive distortion and victimhood at work, what i want to say is stay who youre but dont be a p***y, crying wont do shit, never, period, move, take action and life will be good.