"Stop wasting money, buy a house!" | Chats with Dalia - Ep. 2
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2022
- I've been getting more comments relaying the opinion that upgrading a rental with rental friendly diys is a waste of money and that I should instead be saving to buy a house. Many of the comments are just straight up rude and clearly some people feel very strongly about this.There are several reasons why someone might be renting instead of buying a house. Some people might just never want to buy, or never be in the right position to buy. There is the financial aspect, which is huge and can be super prohibitive, and there are also other reasons that may come in to play as well. I decided to make this video as a reminder that we shouldn't jump to judgements about why people are doing what they're doing, AND as a reminder that contentment in life is huge. For me, doing little upgrades to a space that may not be my ideal space brings me a lot of joy and really allows me to be contented with where I am. That of course doesn't mean that we don't have dreams and aspirations that we work towards. Love you ❤️
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Don’t listen to haters. I did many upgrades to my rentals and I enjoyed my space and it made me so happy. I do have a house now and I don’t regret anything I did. I learned a lot from those projects!! “Bloom where you are planted” 😘
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Same here. I’m a homebody and work from home so I need to feel comfortable in the place I spend the vast majority of my time. Small upgrades didn’t set me back financially any more than a nice dinner out but brought more joy to me personally. I also learned new skills I’ll take to any place I live.
Well sed Kara 👏🤗
Love your comment, Sheila!
Awh thanks so much for your comment, Kara! So good to hear that you didn't regret any of it now that you have a house. I've been so fortunate to be able to learn things while DIYing in my rental and am so looking forward to seeing how it will come in handy once we own a home! 😊
I would LOVE to buy a house but despite having a perfect rental payment record for over 5 years at my current space, no credit card debt, on time payments on my car, ect. I can't get approved for a home loan. I'm a single mom who is self employed and renting is my ONLY option. I don't come from a family with money and I don't have a large savings account for a down payment. I am incredibly frugal with my budget. People don't realize that some people really just can't buy a house despite their best efforts.
Look up FHA or USDA mortgage in your area. You would be a first time home buyer and it's doable. Takes time don't feel bad.
People are increasingly rude and detached from reality. Do not let them get under your skin doll. You are paving a road for yourself! Your skills will take you places and they are a gift to the world! We all deserve to be happy and comfortable no matter where we live be it a house, an apartment or a basement!
Thanks so much girl!!
It’s incredible how people love to comment about things they don’t know.
I enjoy your content, and the choices you make for your life is NONE of our business.
I just appreciate your content and support your channel, and that’s about as far as we should go. We cannot cross the line and get into your private life.
Incredible!
Thanks so much for your comment and for supporting my channel and content 💕
As someone who might never be able to own a home, what she shows on here will give me options to customize certain aspects of a rental to make me happy enough to live somewhere.
Honestly Dalia...I don't even know why u r making this video almost feeling the need to defend yourself. You are a better person than me as I would have told them just two words and left it at that 🤣🙃
So true!
I get told this CONSTANTLY. I don't want to buy a house. I move around a LOT and buying a place just isnt for me right now and may never be. Some seem to be downright offended that a person doesnt want to buy a house for some reason. So weird. I love your videos and they have been so helpful in making my rental more comfortable for me. Keep doing you.
I wonder 🤔 is it homeowners acting that way about people who don't want to own a home? Or perhaps people who desperately wish they had the means to own a home and become frustrated that people with the means to do so choose not to? (Assuming they truly have the means because sometimes it can just appear that way.)
Thanks so much Tammie! We're all on our own journey. I just despise the societal pressures and milestones we're all expected to hit. I wish we all just strived for contentment wherever we are in life. ❤️
@@XSemperIdem5 for me it’s my friends who are homeowners and think I should be too. We’re older I’m 50) so they really think it’s odd for someone my age to not own a home. I know they mean well but that’s just not something I’m interested in right now.
Why do people not understand that every person on this earth is NOT the same. It just blows my mind!!! I'm 45 yrs young and have never owned a home because I like to move around and experience new areas and I simply haven't fallen in love with one place enough to commit. It seems the older I get, the more unsolicited advice and/or opinions I get. It's so annoying because I'm happy and it's becoming quite obvious to me that people just don't know how to let people be happy.
Yes!!!! And it deeply bothers me to a level I can’t even describe when people choose purposely to get inside someone’s head and make them suddenly feel unhappy. What I mean is for example someone being very content in their life and doing things on a routine and it genuinely just fills their soul. Then someone comes along and hates on something they do and just pushes a button that makes that person question their happiness. Like who gave them the right to do that! I’ve seen it happen and I’ve experienced it myself- like just let people be happy with what they’re doing as long as it isn’t hurting someone. People LOVE to tell me that I should drink and get out and go to clubs and do stupid ****, I don’t know why since it does not make me happy to do those things. It only fill their own needs somehow- it’s so selfish. Like they can only hang out with me if I do what they want and go get drunk with them. It’s extremely annoying. Anyway, I’m trying to say I get you! Good for you for doing what you love and being flexible and enjoying your lifestyle.
You are completely right. Thanks for reminding me of this, I needed to hear it.
I have a family member like that, who loves to move. She actually gets bored of being in the same place so she tends to never renew a lease and moves often. It's what makes her happy.
@@XSemperIdem5 Ha! Your relative is ME! My friends from back home are always asking me...so where do you live now? Lol
@@Makeuploveculture Yessss! This!!! You totally get it!!! 👏🏾♥️ I studied mindfulness in graduate school and I'm seeing that so many people in this society just don't possess it.
After years of owning multiple homes, I had to downsize. And thanks to You, I've been able to go from 3200sq ft to 800 with ease. Thank You So Much! There needs to be less judging! Humanity is close to being non-existent and negative comments are living proof. You are right where You belong!! ❤️
Thanks Schellie!! Love your vibes 💕
I hate that you've had to make this video, but thank you so much for being an advocate for renters! Enjoying a home, and making a space to love, even if temporary, should be something everyone can do.
You handled this topic so gracefully! As a renter in a large city who can not afford to buy but my career also does not allow me to leave, your channel has taught me that nothing is impossible with command strips and always protect the surfaces when working with sticky contact paper/tiles. Sending you positive energy and hoping your dreams all come true 😄
Command strips are everything!! Thanks so much for your comment girl!
Beautifully expressed. I'm with you! Hate Toronto too and wouldn't buy anything here either.
You have a knack to present ideas for renters. Power to you! Thank you for your channel!
I 100% relate to everything you just said. My partner and I moved in to our newly bought apartment in the city, close to where we work in 2019 and a couple of months later pandemic hit and everything got shutdown and we both started working from home. I personally developed a really bad working habit where I worked 12 to 14 hrs a day. Part of this was because durig pandemic my workplace had to downsize manpower so the ones who got to stay had to pick up the slack. That situation along with being stuck in a 4-walled concrete home with only tall buildings to look at took a toll on my mental health. I then heard that a lot of my previous colleagues started to move to the countryside where its fresh and a lot more safer from the virus. That of course made me feel sad because I felt so stuck in a place that no longer serves me or what I want my life to be or where I want to be. I had a 160° change in life priorities during pandemic and that was when I realized that work and career is not everything, hence living in the city no longer made sense. I want a better quality of life. But because I have mortgage to pay now and selling is a difficult option given the recession in our country, I'm forced to stay. I'm getting by, but I can't ever say that I'm completely happy. I may sound entitled given that many may not be able to afford a home, but sometimes your priorities change and you realize that mental and physical health is more important. So, to anyone considering to buy a home in the city, think about it as many times as possible and consider every possible angles and see if it will serve you and your family for years to come.
I recently sold my home to invest in my business and am now renting a home. I have to say that the home that I am renting now feels more like a “home” than the home I actually owned. I’ve done minor upgrades thanks to your videos and I can say that I’ll be sad when I move out and buy a home once again.
Only you know what’s going on behind the scenes, you know what they say about people who assume things 😅
Wow love your comment! So glad to hear that your rental feels like home ❤️
I feel this in my core! I live in an expensive area and I’m currently renting while saving for my own house some day. Everyone deserves to feel like their space is home, even if it’s not a house.
I've rented my entire life. I lived in a rented townhouse for 17 years, brought up a daughter, lost a husband. This was MY home!! No maintenance AT ALL. I'm sorry you felt this video was necessary. As followers, we should follow. How you live your life is your business. Jeez, you made bedroom furniture! I made your pillow. I can make pocket holes. That's your content. That's YOU... Dalia.
You don’t owe us any explanation on why you do or don’t about how you choose to live. I love your content. I own my home and looking to build a custom home. Many things you have shared with us in your rental, I have done in my home. There are pros and cons for renting or owning. So you have to decide which fits you. Continue to do you my love❤️❤️❤️
I am so sorry you received such negative comments. Please know that many people rent because of convenience and the ability to rent something you may never be able to afford. Why not make your home as nice as you want to live? It's you home and your life to make your surroundings as you want to live. You have the freedom to pick up and move anytime unlike someone who owns (like I do) and don't have the worry about upkeep or if the market crashes. Owning made sense for me but that does not mean it is for everyone. Live and let live! And know so many viewers support your decision - and love your channel!! 😊☀️🥰😍☺️❤️🦩🦩
Thanks so much for your comment, Katrina! 100% agree with everything you said. Shouldn't we all strive to be happy no matter where we're living? ❤️
@@DIYDalia Definitely yes. Life is too short to not be in surroundings you enjoy and can thrive from.
Yes Amen. There is joy in creating a home. I am a realtor and also a renter. I am even glad I have not bought. I get to experience the areas and understand what I truly want in a home and what's important to me. It also eases the stress of homeownership until you are truly ready to take on that commitment. I love your channel. Thank you for always sharing.
Yes…. I want to own my own but while I wait I won’t live miserably. Make the best of what you have everyday and be the best you are everyday!
Dalia, I watch you all the time and I don't think I've ever commented. This hit home as we sold our home and moved into a apartment and I'm making it our nest while we travel and search for where we want to buy outside of California. I am not as daring as you, lol. I'm merely decorating, But your amazing and don't allow complete strangers to steal that Sparkle!
Hi Anna! Love your first comment 😊 ❤️ We should all strive to make a home wherever we're living no matter how small the changes. Wishing you all the best in your house search!
@@DIYDalia Thank you! Keep up the good work!
I’m a renter and I will do anything to make my renter place comfortable. You do you, girl!💕
Don’t let them get into your skin.
I completely understand you. I lived in California and house now is so expensive! My husband is the only person who work, while I have to stay home with our four little kids. Haters don’t know our struggles and we don’t owe anyone anything. We pay our own bills, we shouldn’t care what anyone have say. I love all your diy for friendly renter home. Keep them coming.😌👏🙌💕
Thanks so much for your comment Rose. 100% agree with everything you have to say!
Keep doing what you are doing Dalia! It is no one's business what you and your husband are or aren't doing about owning a home. It's not as easy to own a home as it once was. I study housing in Canada, and honestly I hate how much emphasis there is on having to own a home. There is nothing wrong with renting, and in many ways gives you far more freedom than being tied down to a home. Unless you know for sure that the place you live is the place you want to be for a long time, renting is the smart choice.
You guys do you; keep making awesome content; and ignore the haters! There are so many of us who love your videos no matter what you do, so keep going girl ❤️
Thanks so much for your comment Karlie! 100% agree with everything you said. ❤️
This is an example of people not having all the facts and inserting opinions that no one asked them for. Girl, do you. I know I appreciate your videos, rental or not. Thank you for all your wonderful content
How rude! These people are totally missing the value of your content. The basis of your channel is to give people ideas on how to make your home beautiful without spending a lot of money. Whether you rent or own. I know it is hard, but don’t let them get to you. I and many others enjoy your content. Keep creating!
Thanks so much Maria!
i feel like where you hear “just buy a house” comes from the older crowd who were able to buy a house a long while ago when it was actually financially possible and not detrimental; that or ignorant people like you pointed out. i know i’ve gotten into some seriously frustrating conversations with family members who thought i just “didn’t work hard or wanted it enough” because i didn’t have my first house at 21 like they did. you make a huge point that everyone is different and an apartment is home to a lot of people just as much as a house. you do you girly, i support that you want your home to feel like a home. besides, i think most of us in our mid 30’s and younger don’t want to be planted to one place for the rest of our lives without going out there to see what there is beyond our comfort zones of home towns like you also pointed out.
I hope the positive and empowering community you have built here overshadows any judgemental and rude comments. You are amazing! Everyone should do whatever makes sense for them.
You know I understand you very much. My daughter and her husband had these dreams and goals as teenagers and it all came to pass…her husband built their house with help from his dad and my daughter did the plans that vision them both and now she has two young boys yet, one is still a toddler and within their home they have a piece of greenery where they all can cherish beautiful joyful moments. I just love the communication they have with each other and this is so very important in a marriage. My sweet young Dalia, dream big dreams and may you both plant seeds the flourish into beautiful fruitful blessings of fulfillment and accomplishments within your love….just keep believing and when it feels more then good then do.
Yes ma’am 🙌. I love this message. This is exactly my way of thinking and it’s so nice to hear it articulated beautifully. I wish you all of the blessings and peace that you send out. You touch more people then you will ever know with your soft and graceful spirit. ❤️
Dalia, you are well poised.
Many would have responded to the negative comments with the same judgement that was directed towards them but you did not. Thank you for being uniquely YOU🤗.
I enjoy your content and your attention to detail. Prayers 🙏🏾 for you and your husband as you continue towards your pursuit of happiness. Keep up the good work and always follow your heart ❤️.
Theresa
Wow you dont owe us any explanation for why your renting not buying some people just aren't happy in their own lives so that have to pick on someone hiding behind a computer phone tablet
And like you said some people might never be able to buy but does that mean we should be left out when it comes to decorating our homes thank God for you and Lonefox, Xo,MaCenna, Alexander Gater and others who mainly do Rental makeovers that's one that a about the Pandemic it got me to watch all of you and get back in decorating my apartment with other things besides just furniture it helped me to think outside of the box and for that I've very grateful and appreciative. Keep doing you and what you love 💜💜💜
You don’t owe anyone an explanation…There’s nothing wrong with renting…It’s your home regardless and you have the benefits of being able to customize it how u choose!Stay amazing!
Thank you for sharing!!! I'm renting, and your channel has inspired what I'm calling my 'love the home I'm in' project where I am doing upgrades around the house that I would have considered too much work in a rental before. You're the best! My rental is so cute
You do what makes you HAPPY 😊 you do you!
Thank you for this. I bought my first place last year and it’s not at all what I thought my first house would be. Coming to this channel and seeing the little touches you do to make your place for your flavour, I love it. It’s made me start to do the same with mine and even though it’s not what I wanted, it’s becoming very personal to me and that’s something I’m really appreciative of. So thank you!
omg love your comment and that you're turning your house into your home ❤️
Everybody should enjoy their space, no matter where they live or how much money they have, I totally agree with what you have said! When I was first considering buying a house/condo, I discovered that it wasn't even cheaper in my city either, and the commute would be worse, so I decided to rent and it was a great way to build savings. Monthly rent was easily less than mortgage interest + heat + condo fees + taxes + closing costs (which are all costs which you can't recoup) so I had no hesitation to treat it like my own home as long as I was there. I still got endless crap from colleagues about it despite the fact that I was loving life and living without debt, so that always drove me crazy.
I rent and will continue to rent probably until I'm old and grey. You can move into an apartment or house, but changes are required to make it into a "home". One that reflects your own unique taste and creates a peaceful calm environment to relax in. Those things are sorely needed in this crazy world we live in. I tend to do renter friendly changes and to be honest, it's actually cheaper to do that. Hiring someone or investing in new furniture, if you're lucky enough to have a disposable income to do that, awsome, but most dont. Love what you do and you inspire many with your amazing creative ideas
You continue down your path and ignore those who feel the need to orchestrate someone else's life. Your projects increase your abilities for whatever comes next. I look at that as education and experience, not "wasting your money" You just keep on going and ignore the naysayers.
Thanks Linda! Couldn't agree more with your comment!! 💕
Love this so much!!! Very well spoken.
I really enjoy watching all the beautiful things you do and i learned a few tips and upgrades I can do to my home. But I have to say that Some people need to stop and think before they comment, especially if they don’t somebody’s story. Other than that I will say thank you for expressing your talents and you continue to do what you do because I’m a fan. 😊
You’re on the right path. May your ancestors continue to protect & guide you. ❤
I like everything you do with your apartment! I wish I found your videos back when we were living in our apartment because those differences you make really help with loving the place you live! My husband and I still talk about how we miss our apartment sometimes. And what people don’t tell you is when you own a house something always breaks and you’re responsible for it now. I can’t do any of the cosmetic changes I want to in our house right now because we’ve had so many things break and sometimes you have to put those things off and fix the boring stuff before you can get to the good stuff. So I say enjoy this time!! Your apartment looks gorgeous and you’ve helped and inspired so many people!!
Just the words I needed to hear, Leah! Thank you! I love how homey my apartment feels 😌
@@DIYDalia awe I’m so glad!!! Don’t be discouraged by those other people!! Clearly you’re doing something right or people wouldn’t watch so they can back off 🤣
Your content has inspired my creativity ever since I watched your DIY wedding video and you continue to inspire me today. Making adjustments to my rental challenges my thinking skills as well as makes me feel accomplished and feel good in my home. I have hope that if there’s something ugly, I can try to cover it up somehow instead of hating it every day that I’m there lol. This makes me happy. I am thankful for your channel and it feels good to know that I can relate to someone like yourself 😊
I'm glad that, for the most part, this community you've built is a supportive one and most genuinely enjoy your content and appreciate the part of your life you do share with us. As we should. Seems some people forget that you shouldn't feel entitled to project your own thoughts and desires onto someone else... this is your journey. While you may not own a home currently, that does not mean that you couldn't if you wanted to and context means everything.
Thank you for sharing more of your background with us and for the reminder that you can and should appreciate where you are. The future is where and what you want it to be ... no one else 💕
Right on! A little update is usually less than a dinner out!
You have a really good mindset with regards to contentment and what it means to be content with what u have as opposed to constantly chasing the next ‘thing’ …. It’s exhausting and expensive
I enjoy your videos!! You live your life as you choose and I think you’re doing a dang good job!! I admire your honesty!
Thanks so much for the kinds words, Cynthia!
Don't listen to haters Dalia, I am also a renter due to a series of circumstances. No one has the right to be judging other people when they don't know the full story. And should not have to explain yourself to anyone, you do what is best for your family. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE your channel as it gives me so much inspiration to make where I am feel like a home. Thank you and God bless ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dalia, I always look forward to your d.i.y's. You're so resourceful and have truly motivated me so much. I feel bad you're having to deal with negativity. Some people have nothing better to do. You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone, you're doing what's good for you. Keep up the great work ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm 68years old and just brought my first home. I decorated each and every one of my apartments. Please don't listen or get upset by what people say. When you are ready you will know when the right time to buy a home
Love this! We are renting as well and I agree that there are SO MANY REASONS why people rent. It's interesting to me that people think they even have a clue about the details of other people's lives. Why do humans like to think they have the answers for everybody else. :) Thank you for sharing this perspective!!
Thank you for being honest for those who will not be home owners. Apartment/rentals are home to millions and renter friendly upgrades make a bland box into an environment that is personal and peaceful.
I get this comment a lot too especially from older people. Good that you are speaking up. Rentals give a lot of flexibility. Our life goes through different seasons.
I’m sorry but I’m deeply offended by those comments and they weren’t even to me!! I’m 40 years old with a child and I’ll NEVER be able to afford a home. It’s just the way it is. These people have to remember that buying a home also comes with taxes, homeowners insurance, repair costs, etc- it just does not make sense for some to incur all those extra costs. Or for some is us we just can’t! AND I’d like to say that I absolutely come to your channel to see all of your renter friendly upgrades. I appreciate them so much! 😮
I really needed to hear this, I rent and have Struggled with even being comfortable making changes because of this mindset.
Do what makes you happy
..I love your attitude...keep it up....God Bless You💓💓
I totally agree with you. We should be content with what we have at the moment. It doesnt stop us to have Dreams but at least while achieving them, we are happy. Your video was great. Well said 😍
Thanks Lyddia!!
That video speak to me in so many level. Me and my husband are in the same situation. We just moved to Texas. I have yet to fall in love with it and buy. But for now I just find a New one we like. Just move this weekend ( last one was like the cement situation you described)
I pray that your dream comes true
I feel sorry for the people who always have the need to judge and tell others to do things their way. Maybe that’s how they were raised. I don’t know. But people shouldn’t do that. That’s a very private decision that only evolves you and your hubby. Me and my hubby bought a house then we weren’t happy in that house so we had to move and now we’re stuck with that other house cause it hard to sell. Everyone has to live with the consequences of your own decisions. So it’s not wise to but in when it’s not your place cause you don’t know how it’s going to affect their consequences… in my humble opinion. And btw, what you do in your videos helps us all, no matter if we’re renting or paying mortgage, to customize our homes to look better in an affordable way. So thank you truly for this home made happy series. Hugs
Awh thanks so much Monica. Seriously made me tear up 🥲 Wishing you all the contentment in life!
I’m sorry that you have received such comments. I have recently become a home owner and your rental friendly videos help me when I’m not sure if I want to fully commit to a look. I appreciate your videos and they are overall very relaxing. I love seeing your interaction with your husband too. I do hope that in the future you will be able to build your desired home together but until then keep doing what you’re doing ❤️
Awh thanks so much Alaskha!
Well said Dalia, it's your life, live it as you want to.
Hi! I just found your channel and I’m enjoying the content. For similar reasons, we’ve sold our home and plan to rent again for a while. We are looking forward to less lawn mowing and maintenance and more time for family and friends. 😅
I randomly came across with her channel 3 years back, she made is possible for me to do all the upgrades in my rental property. I still don’t own a house as it’s way way way too expensive to buy a property in Vancouver. But I enjoy all my diy projects I did and will do in future. Thanks so much for all the inspirations. Your doing a great work . Please do keep doing what you doing . . Where is this city .
Came here thinking I would have to defend being a homeowner but I agree with you completely. Renting does not mean you have to live in conditions you don't like! Make it as beautiful as you'd like
You keep doing you. Your amazing.
Well put girl. ❤ May the Lord richly bless you in all you do.
Awh thanks so much! God bless!
@@DIYDalia Thank you🙂
Love that you spoke on this subject. I feel the same as a renter in Los Angeles. Would love to buy, but I know I’ll never comfortably afford it. instead, I can comfortably afford to do small improvements in my apartment, like replace a sink faucet, swap a dishwasher for a undercounted wine cooler, Sun shades, paint the walls, replace cabinet knobs, whatever small improvements. I’m an architect and would love to design and build my own home, but to also practice my (non-tech) profession in an already high cost of living city, with only my single income, I’ve found it depressing to strive for happy home ownership in this city. So yay for choosing to find joy in renting! 🎉
You Glo in that apartment is correct. Take your time and stay firm and true to who you are.💛
You do what feels right for you and makes you happy.
Do YOU , make you happy .
I’ve been renting for 9 years , prior I had my own home .
I’ve always made my rentals cozy & inviting, most who visit think it’s our house until I say no we are renting .
I have to say I’m grateful that we are getting out of the rental rut we’ve been stuck in for 9 years & we are building our family home soon.
The positive of your own home is that you can do as you like , no more landlord to answer too !! Plus you pay off your own debt & not somebody else’s .
Sending love your way 🤍
Thanks so much for your comment! And congrats on your soon to be family home 🎉
@@DIYDalia 🤍🤍🤍 thank you beautiful
Just let them talk and you do you. Their don’t know what they talking about. You are doing great
I soooo agree! My family says this but I have to live here !!
Dalia, you don't owe ANY of us an explanation for your life decisions. Unless these folks are going to buy the property for you, they don't get to weigh in or make you feel like you aren't "living right." Home Made Happy is literally all about finding joy where you are. We can all see the joy you've had in your home making journey thus far. I hope there are enough of us encouraging and supporting you to drown the naysayers out. You are so loved and supported!
Thanks so much girl! All of you are def drowning out the naysayers 😊
Oh Dahlia, I love watching your videos and unfortunately that negativity from others can creep into a wonderful thing. You keep doing what you love, because I’ll keep watching it
Honestly you don't even need to explain yourself. People just need to be negative to others because that's all they know how to do. No one is perfect and before they reflect on yoh they need to reflect on themselves. Your show is a great outlet for others and yourself. Be you and be happy.
Some people have low empathy and genuinely don't understand that other people are dealing with an entirely different set of choices, opportunities and obstacles from their own. I love fixing up my apartment, I am finally happy with the area I live in and I have decided I am not leaving my rental until I am able to build my forever home, too. Do you, don't worry about others.
Hi Dalia, I'm a subscriber to your channel. Love your video's. It's no one's business if you want to buy a house or you don't. You do YOU! I Love watching all of your rental friendly improvements you have made to your home. You are one clever ingenious young lady.
Awh thanks so much for the support, Ellen! ❤️
You are so talented and beautiful. I wish it were easier to ignore critical, negative people.
Good luck on your search! People can be sooo annoying about this topic. Keep doing great work! xx
Thanks so much!!
Who the heck made those damn judgy comments?? ugh. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Enjoy your content, it makes me feel calm when I'm stressed. 🙂
I always do projects in my rentals and I love it.
Hey. I'm from India nd I'm turning 20 in a few days. I really like the whole idea of diy-ing doesn't matter if it's rental or ur own property it's fun nd it feels more like HOME. Ignore such ppl we love what u do❤️
Thanks for the kind words Isha! Happy early birthday!
I like that you do a lot of renter-friendly DIY videos because it's not common/ easily possible everywhere in the world to buy houses. In germany for example most people rent. So I like seeing renter-friendly options to change your surroundings if you can't (affort) or want to buy a place.
Dalia no explanation needed! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with making your home comfortable for you and your husband. I enjoy your content…😊
Good reasons to do "renter friendly"
1. Do it as a trial--ocnvince a partner, or do I really like it.
2. good solid and I can't justify ripping it up.
3. I really like the location but I don't like the colour.
4. I get bored easily and like to experiment --find your style.
5. Lacking resourses. i have $100 not $10000.
6 Learning to make decisions is difficult if it is only high $ amounts. Experiment with making decisions at small $ amounts and the stakes aren't high. Its fun. High $ can be terrifying.
Those type of comments are so preposterous! My husband and I had a dream to buy our own home one day and so we lived with my mother in law for a couple of years until we were finally able to find a home in CA this year which was a miracle within itself!
We almost bought one home but I blocked it going forward like you did because I didn’t think we could afford it long term. We finally found our small home and put in an offer on our home after being passed on for another home.
We as people need to do what is best for us in the moment and long term. Everyone has a different path. My best friend has always lived in apartments and she is willing to continue living in such a way because that’s what she knows. I grew up in a 2 bedroom house and knew I wanted more space than that so I pushed us to look for a home with at least 3 bedrooms. It’s just what was necessary and what worked for us
Make your space as beautiful as you like; you don’t owe anyone an explanation. I love watching you make over your apartment. If I knew these renter friendly makeovers were doable, I probably would have rented longer. Owning a home can be very expensive.
I’m totally agree with you!! ❤️👏👏👏 I love decorating my appt and taking care like if was mine the psychology says is good for you living in a place where you like it and makes you field good and confortable 🙏
Are you ok Dalia? People can be mean spirited. That's ok, "opposition in all things" only make you stronger. This time next year, you'll be closing on your dream home! We're here for that🙏
Thanks so much for the kinds words! I am ok. I love my home and am super content with where I am. 💕
Your home is your kingdom whether renting or owning. Don't listen to the noise, do what makes you comfortable and makes it feel like home. Doesn't matter how long you're in it...should always be clean and homey. After all...IT IS YOUR HOME! TY for sharing 💓
I could NEVER have a RUclips channel because as soon as anyone had the audacity to question any part of my life I would go smooth OFF! Props to you for letting ppl into your home and life even though some of them are ungrateful little haters.
Thanks so much for your kind words Lisa! It truly means a lot 💕
@@DIYDalia My name is Porche' and you're so welcome! Love your videos.
It is no one’s business !!!! I love your channel and content.
Thanks Kelly!
People making linear judgemental statements of other peoples lives fail to understand the layer cake that makes up an individuals life, the context of their current position within that life and realistically what is in their control or not. This video addresses these points using personal experience to make case and point so well.
As much as I love the idea of one day owning a home or apartment that I can say “this is mine” about. I live a very nomadic life and have a transient personality. I don’t want to be tied down. I enjoy fresh starts and learning new ways to live in new towns and surroundings. My work, circumstances and relationship allow me to do so. I’m young and not tied down with children yet. (I can settle down in the future if children enter my life, to provide stability for them). Investing in somewhere permanent now would be irresponsible when I won’t be living here for more than a few years. But just because I don’t plan to settle in my rental for long or plan to invest in property atm, doesn’t mean I should put up living somewhere that doesn’t feel homely or have my stamp on it.
I love your videos and ideas xx
People need to stop acting like ho.e ownership is the "best thing since sliced bread" many peoples lifestyles are not suitable for home ownership. When I was younger I had no problem moving accross country for a new job.. if I had owned a home back then that would have not been liable!
Enjoy the stage of life you are in! I love everything you do. Also btw.. I have done some of your diys on my walls even tho I own the home cause I have plaster walls and I am not dealing with trying to hang stuff.
Thank you so much for all you do!!
Contentment🥰…..well said!😘
Yes! I know the feeling of hating where I lived and just waiting to move... it wasn't enjoyable at all. I can't wait to rent because that's what works in my life right now and you bet I'm going to be re-watching all your videos about how to upgrade my rental!
Thanks for your comment Katya! My videos will be waiting for you!! 😊
Enjoy bloomiing where you are planted.
Hi Dalia just because you have a RUclips channel doesn’t mean you have to justify your choices to others . You do whatever makes you and your husband happy . I’m always amazed at people who think they have the right to pass judgement on others . Sending positive thoughts into the Universe for you both 😊
Sometimes people just talk because they have mouths 🙄, don’t listen to them, maybe their houses are their own but they are ugly 😂. No, really, so glad you share this cause it is REAL, there are people that NEVER will have a property and that doesn’t have to mean that they have to live in an ugly/ old fashion that doesn’t reflect who they are and specially, a place where they feel so happy to go back after a difficult day.
As Kara said, don't listen to those people.
It's no one's business but yours if you rent. Asking if you'd thought about buying a house rather than continuing to do the projects you've been doing would have been kinder. Maybe they're people who don't see why you would do anything to a space that's only temporary. It's not easy to just go out and buy a house. Lots of people don't want to take on the maintenance costs and choose to never buy. Unlike an apartment, if the roof leaks it's your responsibility to fix it. I've done a lot of little things to my apartment to make it more me and I'm very happy that I did. The things you've done are fabulous. It's a tie between your stone backsplash and your balcony as to which are my faves. Hopefully your dream of finding land to build on will happen. In the meantime I can't wait to see your next projects.
Thanks so much for your comment following my journey Lisa! It means a lot! 💕
Home ownership isn't as rosy as it's made out to be. There is something nice about only paying your rent and letting the landlord worry about upgrades or unexpected works.
I agree 100%, don't those haters rent space in your head you do you...