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Not the " Friend's " being between quotation marks 😂😂😂😂😂 and the " which one" 😂 y'all exposing each other, let us get the popcorn. This episode was much much much needed today ❤️✨
1. Woosung is SOOO fun and articulate. Love him here - any chance he can join the team/show permanently?? 2. In Hebrew there is a term for the positive jealousy that Woosung was talking about - the type that motivates you to grow and get better at your craft: "kinat sofrim" - the jealousy of the scribes (a specific group of scholars that became smarter because of healthy competition, not hatred or pettiness).
My advice to the letter person is to talk to the cousin and see how he wishes to handle it. Does he wish for distance? Does he wish for backup or less physical touch? Where is his headspace in all of it. I have a guy friend that I've been close with for 20 years now and we both ended up dating people that were jealous of the friendship and taking some distance and silence for a year or two won't change much. The friendship or in this case family bond is forever so if they want to focus on that person for a while then it isn't too many years of their life. I doubt he would marry a person that restricts him from his family and even if he did I doubt they'd last too many years. The friction is too severe.
This was such an interesting conversation, I completely agree with Ashley's perspective on jealousy. I really like this trio! I hope Woosung will come back often!
I think we need to point out the distinction between envy and jealousy. Envy is longing or coveting someone else’s stuff (could be anything) and jealousy adds an extra element of unpleasant suspicion, apprehension, and/or rivalry to the mix. I think both are normal to feel but to Ashley’s point, it’s how to you act on those feelings that matters.
It's quite toxic. Like a relationship should be based on trust cause as soon as you are constantly being sus of them when they haven't given you a reason to, it's already a bad sign for your relationship. Like especially if the jealousy is targeted towards a family member???? Yah no. But this is my opinion obviously. People can think differently
Wow. I actually feel validated with this convo abt jealousy. But I kinda perceive it more as envy before... I really like how Ashley said it's normal and inevitable to sometimes feel a little jealousy with your friends' achievements and still congratulate them genuinely. Also, I totally agree with what Ashley said that it's how you deal with jealousy that defines who you are as a person. When jealousy sparks in me sometimes, I feel like I'm such a bad person like why would I be jealous of my friend's achievement? So the way I deal with that is ignoring the jealousy feeling tbh. There's no reason for me to be jealous-that's my friend and I should support them wholeheartedly bcs that's what they deserve.
I think jealousy stems from insecurities that's never been addressed. The feeling to be validated and be ahead of the game even though you are not fit yet to be in that game so you always end up losing but you keep trying. You feel like you are equally worthy but you fail to realize your own faults and you fail to realize the things you need to improve. So you follow someone else's path instead of creating your own. Along the way, you always feel like you need to have what they have in order to achieve what they achieved in the game that they play in the path that they created.
I say it all of the time: relationships ruin friendships. I always roll my eyes when my friends start dating people because I know that I will be ignored until the breakup happens.
Really? My sister did well hanging out with both her friends and boyfriend. She’s very extroverted and likes to keep up with people she’s close to. And for me, I’d always end up dating friends. It’s much easier to hang out with both your friends and boyfriend if they’re part of the same group.
I think if you are feeling jealous it’s important to recognize it and handle it properly. Don’t let it fester and become a constant in your life. Be honest with yourself. Find a way to release the emotion and change your thinking to a positive action or emotion. If it’s because of insecurity in a relationship whether that’s a friendship or otherwise think about why. Then either work on changing your mindset or talk to someone about your insecurities.
My cousin dated a girl like that.. and it was awkward at parties and would cry to my cousin saying us girl cousins didn't like her.. they eventually broke up and now it's just funny stories of the past
There are different levels of jelousy and it's an inevitable human trait that's bound to reveal itself in some shape or form. What is important though is to be able to recognize if your jealousy level is toxic or ok. If you being jealous is invading a person's well being, then you have a problem there~
i love that woosung said that if you get jealous then that could indicate the other person is sketchy - being territorial in a relationship is often times one's instinct telling them their partner is not as loyal as they would like them to be!
It could be another thing tho like I had a cousin whose girlfriend was supper freaking jealous over him hanging out with me and I thought that she was fucking weird for it but years later she talked to me and it turned out that she was jealous cause he only spent like an hour or two hanging out with her and for the rest of the day he spent it with us while never inviting her over to hang out as a group. it was not a matter of him cheating with his cousin but just about spending time without her
I love this trio! But in all honesty, the girlfriend being jealous of "cousins" is just crazy. usually, boyfriends/girlfriends who are jealous in that way are just SUPER Insecure in the relationship with their partner. They don't have a healthy level of trust and that results in jealousy. although being jealous of his cousins is a bit much lol
I agree, jealousy can be normal but it's how you handle it. I also think in certain cases, age makes a difference. When I was younger, I was very jealous. More emotional, less rational, always ready to start something. As I grew older, I still feel jealousy, but I've taught myself to think about it before making assumptions. Once I'm able to stop, think, and use logic rather than emotion, I realize it's not something I should be jealous about and I'm able to let it go. From experience, you learn as you grow, and eventually, you will get to the point where you don't even have those jealous feelings because you've trained your mind to quickly realize before you get to that point. 😊
9:07 i like how you pointed that out because i recently discovered that in Arabic there are two separate words for those feelings but i can't seem to find an equivalent to them in English. الحسد: which means the feeling of wanting someone else's property, achievement, power to disappear and to have it for yourself or to be satisfied with just the other person losing it. الغبطة: the feeling of wanting the same as what someone else has without wanting them to lose it. and i think that having two different words for those feelings helps you understand whether your jealousy is healthy and makes you want to work harder, or if it's a toxic kind of jealousy that could end up harming you and other people
@@LS-lr9il actually the first one is envy, but we as an Arab, especially "muslims" envy is a very bad thing. Its like when you want something that belongs to someone else. You feel envious that they have it and you don't " the feeling of wishing them to lose it". YOU can't tell someone that you envy them because it's very rude and disrespectful. The second is jealously but it can be a good thing for ourselves. Like when I'm jealous of how my friends are good at math, so I try to study hard and be good like them. " not wishing them to lose it " 🥰
@@noufAl1 Oh thank you. I always thought envy had a different definition 🤦♀️😅. But you're right. I suppose there really isn't a word for that in english. Also, I'm muslim 😊, though not Arab.
I'm literally crying! I will be more happier when woosung and BM are together in this episode and also Peniel because they are close friends and i think this episode will be more funnier. 🥺
No Entiendo lo que Hablan pero me Siento Orgullosa de mí Woosung The Rose se a Convertido en un Fenómeno Musical ellos Merecen sus Reconocimientos Plissss ❤❤❤❤
In Arabic we have a general word (Ghera) which means jealousy but we have words for what they were describing (Hasad - which means envy and Ghebta - which means feeling jealous about something and wanting to have the same thing but at the same time feel happy for that person)
so funny to hear the story sent. I had the same problem with my cousin's gf too. Idky but the girl just doesnt get it when we told her 'we're practically siblings, with different parents.' its fine to me if you feel uncomfortable, just talk it out with your bf but to come at me, as if im a problem, huuu girl you're just waging a war here and it aint pretty. just know that its okay to feel and then, talk it out, please, we're adults.
I thought I were not a jealousy person bcs I didnt get jealous easily (I can tell from my past relationships). But then, when it comes to time where I had a relationship with someone who has a _bestie girl_ danggg I got soooo JEALOUS. I cant stop thinking how my (ex) bf used to go around with his _bestie girl_ so, yeah, I think we all have jealousy in our chest, it just depend on who we were facing on to trigger it
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I AM TOTALLY TALKING ABOUT WOOSUNG’S FRIEND 😂😂😂
We know Ashley 😁😁😁
Thank you so much ash for inviting sammy. 💙
Sureeeee 👀
Hahaha. Sure thing Ashley.
mhmm mhmm
The way Woosung came back at Ashley 🤣 I love their friendship. Can't wait to watch the full episode!
i can listen to woosung's voice all day
me too.........
Me three
Omg I agree with Woosung that that’s so weird omg! You can tell Ashley and Woosung are super close friends!
When he said which one of your boyfriends🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not the " Friend's " being between quotation marks 😂😂😂😂😂 and the " which one" 😂 y'all exposing each other, let us get the popcorn. This episode was much much much needed today ❤️✨
1. Woosung is SOOO fun and articulate. Love him here - any chance he can join the team/show permanently?? 2. In Hebrew there is a term for the positive jealousy that Woosung was talking about - the type that motivates you to grow and get better at your craft: "kinat sofrim" - the jealousy of the scribes (a specific group of scholars that became smarter because of healthy competition, not hatred or pettiness).
יפה אהבתי גם חשבתי על זה כשראיתי את זה
@@adayae1999 יש עוד אוהדות ישראליות?? 🤯 איזה להקות קוריאניות את אוהבת??
@@daebakday6981 ברורר שיש מכירה כמה למרות שאין הרבה.
אצלי הרשימה ארוכה מדי כדי שאני אכתוב כאן😂
@@adayae1999 וואלה! מגניב 😊
אם את רוצה לדעת על עוד אוהדות אני בטוחה שיש הרבה קבוצות בפייסבוק ובאינסטגרם.
יש גם קבוצות ואתרים לסדרות קוריאניות עם הרבה סדרות אם את מתעניינת בזה.
My advice to the letter person is to talk to the cousin and see how he wishes to handle it. Does he wish for distance? Does he wish for backup or less physical touch? Where is his headspace in all of it. I have a guy friend that I've been close with for 20 years now and we both ended up dating people that were jealous of the friendship and taking some distance and silence for a year or two won't change much. The friendship or in this case family bond is forever so if they want to focus on that person for a while then it isn't too many years of their life. I doubt he would marry a person that restricts him from his family and even if he did I doubt they'd last too many years. The friction is too severe.
This was such an interesting conversation, I completely agree with Ashley's perspective on jealousy. I really like this trio! I hope Woosung will come back often!
woosungs voice makes me so happy!
Me too🥰
I think we need to point out the distinction between envy and jealousy. Envy is longing or coveting someone else’s stuff (could be anything) and jealousy adds an extra element of unpleasant suspicion, apprehension, and/or rivalry to the mix.
I think both are normal to feel but to Ashley’s point, it’s how to you act on those feelings that matters.
💯💯💯
I was thinking the same thing.. so true
YOU DONT UNDERSTAND HOW LONG I HAD BEEN WAITING FOR WOOSUNG TO COME IN GETREAL T^T
It's quite toxic. Like a relationship should be based on trust cause as soon as you are constantly being sus of them when they haven't given you a reason to, it's already a bad sign for your relationship. Like especially if the jealousy is targeted towards a family member???? Yah no. But this is my opinion obviously. People can think differently
Wow. I actually feel validated with this convo abt jealousy. But I kinda perceive it more as envy before... I really like how Ashley said it's normal and inevitable to sometimes feel a little jealousy with your friends' achievements and still congratulate them genuinely. Also, I totally agree with what Ashley said that it's how you deal with jealousy that defines who you are as a person. When jealousy sparks in me sometimes, I feel like I'm such a bad person like why would I be jealous of my friend's achievement? So the way I deal with that is ignoring the jealousy feeling tbh. There's no reason for me to be jealous-that's my friend and I should support them wholeheartedly bcs that's what they deserve.
Also Junny is doing great as a new host! 🎉
I totally relate to Sammy, we should turn that jealousy into inspiration not just because we wanna surpass them but also to make ourselves better
I love Junny's personality, he's doing such a great job! 👏🏼
His "friend" hshshsh sure👀
Woosung to Ashley: "Your boyfriend who?" HAHAHA
I think jealousy stems from insecurities that's never been addressed. The feeling to be validated and be ahead of the game even though you are not fit yet to be in that game so you always end up losing but you keep trying. You feel like you are equally worthy but you fail to realize your own faults and you fail to realize the things you need to improve. So you follow someone else's path instead of creating your own. Along the way, you always feel like you need to have what they have in order to achieve what they achieved in the game that they play in the path that they created.
"Friend" YEAH YEAH we all know what you are talking about
I almost forgot that woosung is a guest. It'll be amazing if he too joined as the host for get real next season!!
I say it all of the time: relationships ruin friendships. I always roll my eyes when my friends start dating people because I know that I will be ignored until the breakup happens.
@roter13 it would be best if they can maintain the friendship while in a relationship
Really? My sister did well hanging out with both her friends and boyfriend. She’s very extroverted and likes to keep up with people she’s close to. And for me, I’d always end up dating friends. It’s much easier to hang out with both your friends and boyfriend if they’re part of the same group.
never been in a relationship But after hearing this I don't think I want to be in one now or any time sooner😐
I think if you are feeling jealous it’s important to recognize it and handle it properly. Don’t let it fester and become a constant in your life. Be honest with yourself. Find a way to release the emotion and change your thinking to a positive action or emotion. If it’s because of insecurity in a relationship whether that’s a friendship or otherwise think about why. Then either work on changing your mindset or talk to someone about your insecurities.
Woosung's laugh 😍😍
Oh my god .... I was just scrolling and saw woosung here .... And my excitement is on fire ..... Love to see him .... I love you
My cousin dated a girl like that.. and it was awkward at parties and would cry to my cousin saying us girl cousins didn't like her.. they eventually broke up and now it's just funny stories of the past
I immediately went to listen to the whole episode huhu.
8:10 what Sammy said here ... yes 🥺👏🏻👏🏻
Everybody gets their time to shine .. just hang in there ! :)
This is more like a note to myself tho ..lol
Oooooooh ashley was talking about woosung’s friend, hisss frienddd 😅
Que Keri Hilson: "Jealousy's the ugliest trait (don't ever do it)"
This song always pops in my head everytime I think of Jealousy ^_^ lol
The word is called "envy"!
There are different levels of jelousy and it's an inevitable human trait that's bound to reveal itself in some shape or form. What is important though is to be able to recognize if your jealousy level is toxic or ok. If you being jealous is invading a person's well being, then you have a problem there~
I almost died of laughing when woosung say "his pokemons" XD
i love that woosung said that if you get jealous then that could indicate the other person is sketchy - being territorial in a relationship is often times one's instinct telling them their partner is not as loyal as they would like them to be!
Done listening here and Spotify podcast...
Jealous is normal feeling, how we deal with it, is what matters.... 👍❤️
Oh I love Junny as a host! His little "ooh"s and reactions make the conversation flow so naturally ❤❤
Sometimes I wish I had something to be jealous of but I have no one around
Omggggggggggg thankyouu diveeeeeeee for inviting woosung
Yaaay finally woosung! ✨💕
This has managed to make me laugh so hard, while being educating at the same time.
Petition to get Sam as the forth host🤗
It could be another thing tho like I had a cousin whose girlfriend was supper freaking jealous over him hanging out with me and I thought that she was fucking weird for it but years later she talked to me and it turned out that she was jealous cause he only spent like an hour or two hanging out with her and for the rest of the day he spent it with us while never inviting her over to hang out as a group. it was not a matter of him cheating with his cousin but just about spending time without her
Woooowww Junny and Woosung voice together ... both soothingg..
Bwing waiting for woosung to guest since season 1
Junny is too cute and has a sensitive side but shows he cares about others. The recent show with pH-1 that brought me back here. ☺️
The new set is so aesthetically pleasing it looks so relaxing
Why would a person be mad about siblings being close like damn.
to the person who said woosung sounds like chills now i can’t unhear it 😀
Woosung be like what should I be jealous about his Pokémon cards oo you got that Pikachu huh?
That's just iconic phahahah😂😂❤❤
Jealousy is a control mechanism and also a total lack of confidence!
how the word "my girlfriend" is shaking HAHAH
i think there should be a distinction between jealousy and possessiveness. Jealousy is easily misconstrued with possessiveness.
pls i love ashley and woosung interaction so muchhhh
I love this trio! But in all honesty, the girlfriend being jealous of "cousins" is just crazy. usually, boyfriends/girlfriends who are jealous in that way are just SUPER Insecure in the relationship with their partner. They don't have a healthy level of trust and that results in jealousy. although being jealous of his cousins is a bit much lol
I like the new Message thing at the bottom. I’m a visual person soo it help to be able to read it now lol thanks DIVE!!
Gosh woosung at dive studios 😍😍😍
Omg Mathew and peniel should have been here 😭😭😭😭😭
I agree, jealousy can be normal but it's how you handle it.
I also think in certain cases, age makes a difference. When I was younger, I was very jealous. More emotional, less rational, always ready to start something. As I grew older, I still feel jealousy, but I've taught myself to think about it before making assumptions. Once I'm able to stop, think, and use logic rather than emotion, I realize it's not something I should be jealous about and I'm able to let it go. From experience, you learn as you grow, and eventually, you will get to the point where you don't even have those jealous feelings because you've trained your mind to quickly realize before you get to that point. 😊
4:23
me with a jealous twin: 😬 :((
Hahaha they tried so hard but is impossible to help that person!
Kinda wish Woosung was here w/ BM & Peniel but omgg hoping Junny & Sammy become BFF’s now!! Hahahhhaa
YESSSSS their interactions are always so funn
9:07 i like how you pointed that out because i recently discovered that in Arabic there are two separate words for those feelings but i can't seem to find an equivalent to them in English.
الحسد: which means the feeling of wanting someone else's property, achievement, power to disappear and to have it for yourself or to be satisfied with just the other person losing it.
الغبطة: the feeling of wanting the same as what someone else has without wanting them to lose it.
and i think that having two different words for those feelings helps you understand whether your jealousy is healthy and makes you want to work harder, or if it's a toxic kind of jealousy that could end up harming you and other people
Isn't that jealousy vs envy? As in the 1st word is jealousy and the 2nd one is envy?
@@LS-lr9il actually the first one is envy, but we as an Arab, especially "muslims" envy is a very bad thing. Its like when you want something that belongs to someone else. You feel envious that they have it and you don't " the feeling of wishing them to lose it". YOU can't tell someone that you envy them because it's very rude and disrespectful.
The second is jealously but it can be a good thing for ourselves.
Like when I'm jealous of how my friends are good at math, so I try to study hard and be good like them. " not wishing them to lose it "
🥰
@@noufAl1 Oh thank you. I always thought envy had a different definition 🤦♀️😅.
But you're right. I suppose there really isn't a word for that in english.
Also, I'm muslim 😊, though not Arab.
Hahahhhh Woosung...you're adorable
Sam and Junny voice is a vibe
I enjoyed listening the whole episode in spotify 🥰🥰🥰
Thanks Dive, Keep Going 🌹💕
I'm literally crying! I will be more happier when woosung and BM are together in this episode and also Peniel because they are close friends and i think this episode will be more funnier. 🥺
Woosung s face at 0:38
I’m loving the flow of the conversation ❣️❣️❣️👌🏻👌🏻
Ohh total agree🥺💜💜
Love you woo song
There’s totally something. I feel it.
okay but who comes up with these titles i'm crying
Group dynamic is good!
Woosung🥺❤️
That pokemon line 😂😂😂had me cracked
Why he is so cuteee Sammyyyyy
Jealousy is an awful sickness to have
Finally sammy is hereeeee. Sammy please come more ofteeenn.
I'll watching this how many time now... Coz I love woosung and specially how he make music ❤️🎶🎧 fan's here fr. 🇸🇦🇵🇭
No Entiendo lo que Hablan pero me Siento Orgullosa de mí Woosung The Rose se a Convertido en un Fenómeno Musical ellos Merecen sus Reconocimientos Plissss ❤❤❤❤
He said which one 😂😂😂
me waiting for woosung to clarify his mbti so i can confirm my theory that he’s an infj 😂
The little sound effects and add-ons in highlights and IG reels are soo funny >.< Dive editors ^0^
I always smile and laugh listening and watching the whole podcast coz of your laughs Lmao
Omg omg omgggg!! My ult bias Woosung!
I have a friend always jealous when I just try to make some friend with others, I think its weird for me sometimes
woosung really said apna time aayega
*Que Monsta X's Jealousy playing in the background*
Friend. The other friend. Your friend. lol im confused 😂
I wish this was longer
In Arabic we have a general word (Ghera) which means jealousy but we have words for what they were describing (Hasad - which means envy and Ghebta - which means feeling jealous about something and wanting to have the same thing but at the same time feel happy for that person)
so funny to hear the story sent. I had the same problem with my cousin's gf too. Idky but the girl just doesnt get it when we told her 'we're practically siblings, with different parents.' its fine to me if you feel uncomfortable, just talk it out with your bf but to come at me, as if im a problem, huuu girl you're just waging a war here and it aint pretty. just know that its okay to feel and then, talk it out, please, we're adults.
I think that jealous girlfriend watched too much game of thrones
Wwooooww.. Finally we've got Woosung 🤩 i have been waiting for him since season 1.. And now i miss BM
Ashley is such a buttercup :)
AT LAST GET REAL IS BACK T-T
Woosung ❤️❤️❤️
Omg bout the twins u should invite qq twins! I'd love to watch get real with them
Woosung I love your song !!!!! Lazy
I thought I were not a jealousy person bcs I didnt get jealous easily (I can tell from my past relationships). But then, when it comes to time where I had a relationship with someone who has a _bestie girl_ danggg I got soooo JEALOUS. I cant stop thinking how my (ex) bf used to go around with his _bestie girl_ so, yeah, I think we all have jealousy in our chest, it just depend on who we were facing on to trigger it