i was tearing up laughing on that freezeframe omg the contrast of like the boys both like independant girls vs ashleys "say good morning and goodnight to me everyday!"
When Peniel said and THIS is why I believe guys and girls can be friends I died because yes trust me the standards are astronomical for girls and your home boy definitely ain’t got them all that’s why he’s your friend lol💀😂
can say the opposite.. aint nobody got time to deal with alla that.. shit sounds borderline crazy lol most sane girls have a list like this but date guys who dont have all those traits in general
i am always soo happy when they have a female guest to accompany ashley 😂😍😍, she is so much more comfortable and confident and has support and what could be better person than her close friends 😍😍😍 soobeanie yayyyyy love her ❤️❤️❤️
ok but the girls’ list were literally sm more entertaining to listen to HAHAH and it’s so fun when you actually relate w something BECAUSE they’re so specific
My only rule for my partner is: dont be a jerk. Lol. It includes anything like respecting my personal space, not being overly attached, responses to my jokes or rants, punctual, be polite and gentle, take care of them self and their appearance (at least for their basic hygiene, because damn what so hard about it)
So soobeanie wants someone to take care of her and spend more time with her on common interests :) that's very relatable! Ashley, this girl knows what she wants! I was laughing at the no secrets and talking everyday because those are hard to keep up. But they are genuinely good rules and I'm sure plenty of guys also want transparency and to talk to their sweetie every day.
Omg this is hilarious 😂 I'm a girl but I'm with Peniel and Harry on this one... I can only think of the "prerequisites" lol Maybe I should be thinking more specifically about this haha
Okay, I’ll join in and make a list haha (btw I’m a girl) 1) Both be independent (neither too reliant on the other) 2) Trust (similar to Peniel’s reasons, don’t be too overpowering) 3) Don’t take some things in life too seriously (like not everything in life is a big deal just be chill) 4) Be motivated/ want to go places and do things not just sit in the house or do the same thing everyday 5) Be kind/ similar to Ph1’s point (don’t judge people based on looks, brands ect)
Everyone loves a nice smell, though. Back when I was in a relationship and I would get my shirts back after my ex wore em, man those were smelling great! XD
I remember my cousin and I going through our lists with each other growing up. At first it used to be pages long, but over time it has shrunk significantly. The last time it was brought up, we were fresh college grads newly into the work force, and the conversation didn't even last five minutes before we talked about something else 😄😄
lol the trust thing. I ask my husband what he's doing and who he's with-- because sometimes I'm stuck at work and bored, so I hope he's doing something fun so I can live vicariously through him. 😮💨
While I love the content dive puts out, I feel like they sometimes (although not intentionally) bring gender divide into things. It’s probably a cultural thing maybe… but it’s not always girls and boys, it’s just person to person. Me being a girl related more to Peniel than Ashley.
the girls arent high maintenance at all. ph1 and peniels list was just something thats a given in healthy relationships. this was hilarious tho watching ph1s face😂
pH-1 and I could be twins. My list is exactly the same for my friends/bfs. Good manners should be essential for everyone, then we wouldn't need to make it number one on a list of requirements for potential partners...When Ashley was reading her list, my face was like Peniel and pH-1's - I feel like I don't qualify as a girl anymore! 😂 Like...why don't you just carry your OWN portable battery or digestive pills...? The perfect quote at the end: "Wow.😐"
Omg, the girls did us dirty. So oddly specific and high expectations. I lean more towards the guy’s side. Be kind, respect me, give me some independent time and I’ll do the same for you. Like children. . . And then of course I have “It would be nice if. . . “ things, like I would really love it if they liked musicals or at least were willing to give them a try, because it’s such an important thing to me. But if they at least respect my tastes I could always go with a friend or on my own. . .
Lol I actually don’t hate the “no secrets thing”. It’s not like you can’t have any private things but it’s more like I just wanna be able to share too much and have it be Okay lol. I’m chill with TMI. I wanna know even the dumb thing or the weird things.
haha this episode made me lol haha i love how the two groups divided.. soobin needs like a personal assistant haha and ofc ashley my girl knows what she wants.. i love how ph1 and peniel made their rules, it is like me :)
1. be mature enough to communicate issues and boundaries calmly 2. Actively wants to share and appreciate little moments and experiences with me 3. independently driven (around career and interests) 4. enjoys physical contact 5. Be polite/understanding of others.
You know, I could go for the whole "hearing their voice once a day" thing. Especially if you're very independent. I'd like to hear how their day went, even if was just through how tired they were when we'd talk about nothing.
The closeup on Peniel and Ph1 while Ashley was reading her list was priceless 🤣
Snorted out loud while I was watching this… at work
Especially at 4:35
You can see the trauma in their faces hahaha
YESSS LMAO
i was tearing up laughing on that freezeframe omg the contrast of like the boys both like independant girls vs ashleys "say good morning and goodnight to me everyday!"
had me dying 🤣
When Peniel said and THIS is why I believe guys and girls can be friends I died because yes trust me the standards are astronomical for girls and your home boy definitely ain’t got them all that’s why he’s your friend lol💀😂
7:24
That was funny!
😂😂
can say the opposite.. aint nobody got time to deal with alla that.. shit sounds borderline crazy lol most sane girls have a list like this but date guys who dont have all those traits in general
Ashley's description of a good bad boy was so accurate pls😭😭🤌🤌
YES the perfect description 😭
Yesss
it’s giving ph-1 😮💨
You have fatherless issues
i'm female yet was so shocked by soobin & ashley's picks 🤣
Same- 😭
IKR 😭😂
Same lol
Me too! Hahaha! Im in line with ph’s rules 👍🏽
guys’ priorities 💯 VS girls’ priorities 🥴
Their reaction toAshley's list had me cracking up
Her list has me→ :0
ashley mom : "she has digestion problems "
😂😂
When youre a girl but your list is similar to Peniel and PH-1s list loll
BRO I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE, BUT IM GLAD WE’RE ON THE SAME BOAT LMAO
same lmao except humor, that’s a bonus not a must for me
same here aHAHAHHAHHAHHAAH
exactly hahah
same! haha!
Peniel: "this why I belive guys and girl can be just a friend"..
TRUEEEEEE
"You guys are pretty high maintenance" I laughed too hard omg i love it
7:20 harry : that's cute? *expression *
omg 🥺🥺
The slow zoom in to the guys when Soobeanie was talking had me dying on the floor. 😆
When you get SERIOUS SERIOUS about dating, switching from Ashley and Soobeanie's type of list to Harry and Peniel's is mandatory lol
i am always soo happy when they have a female guest to accompany ashley 😂😍😍, she is so much more comfortable and confident and has support and what could be better person than her close friends 😍😍😍
soobeanie yayyyyy love her ❤️❤️❤️
Totally interesting the boy/girl divide on this subject! 🤔
5:08 Peniel: “This is like past trauma. “ Word. 😁
This is so funny, the difference in the list. Guys are mentioning the stuff like it's just given while the girls being very specific 🤣
god damn Ashley didn't expect the level of detail with the list lol
Me: Furiously taking notes and nodding in agreement as Peniel reads his list.
Conclusion: Peniel I'm your perfect girl!!😉
Good luck
"This is why I believe guys and girls can be friends" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
pH-1's "I need my personal space" is such an infp thing that I can totally relate hahaha
PH1 was pretty much done by the 6:00 minute mark. LMAO. I love how Ashley's laughs flips into cute giggles when she's around her girl friends.
I mean these rules are basics like it's normal, right?!
Ashley literally wrote a Bible... Girl... WTH
4:56 okay but like at this point Mr. Harry, you seems to like everything about Ashley didn’t you? 🤣
okay but that subtle glance at 1:18 😭😭😭😭
Harry to Peniel: Are we dating the same person @_@ ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I'm with Peniel and pH-1 😂😂✊🏻
4:21 all the reactions were gold 🤣🤣✨
ok but the girls’ list were literally sm more entertaining to listen to HAHAH and it’s so fun when you actually relate w something BECAUSE they’re so specific
My only rule for my partner is: dont be a jerk. Lol.
It includes anything like respecting my personal space, not being overly attached, responses to my jokes or rants, punctual, be polite and gentle, take care of them self and their appearance (at least for their basic hygiene, because damn what so hard about it)
So soobeanie wants someone to take care of her and spend more time with her on common interests :) that's very relatable!
Ashley, this girl knows what she wants! I was laughing at the no secrets and talking everyday because those are hard to keep up. But they are genuinely good rules and I'm sure plenty of guys also want transparency and to talk to their sweetie every day.
Rules for my partner : 1] HE HAS TO BE LIKE PENIEL ! THAT' S ALL!
Omg this is hilarious 😂 I'm a girl but I'm with Peniel and Harry on this one... I can only think of the "prerequisites" lol Maybe I should be thinking more specifically about this haha
Conclusion: 7:26
Peniel: this is why i believe guys and girls can be friends
Bro Ph and Peniel faces at 4:35 got me good! hahahahaha
Danggggggg, those qualifications from Ashley and soobean 🤣 got me stunned af
4:35 they were so stunned, I thought this was a picture 🤣🤣🤣🤣
the man is too stunned to speak
Ashley’s list though HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
"are we dating the same person?"🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm still shocked over Ashley's and Soobin's lists. And I'm a freaking woman.
4:35 PENIEL AND HARRY'S FACES GOT ME LAUGHING HARD 🤣
I'm a woman but I'm deffinitely with Harry and Peniel here
Ashley with her girls is different 🤣🤣🤣😘
Okay, I’ll join in and make a list haha (btw I’m a girl)
1) Both be independent (neither too reliant on the other)
2) Trust (similar to Peniel’s reasons, don’t be too overpowering)
3) Don’t take some things in life too seriously (like not everything in life is a big deal just be chill)
4) Be motivated/ want to go places and do things not just sit in the house or do the same thing everyday
5) Be kind/ similar to Ph1’s point (don’t judge people based on looks, brands ect)
Lmao the difference in those lists 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cracked up for the girls' rules reveal 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have the same facial expression as harry and peniel when they girls started going down their list. Lol
I dare say this might have been the best highlight ever lmfaooooo
I died when Ashley started reading that lost😂😂😂😂😂
the editing had me yelling! im a girl and i would make a similiar list like the guys tho lol but smelling good would be nice too
Everyone loves a nice smell, though. Back when I was in a relationship and I would get my shirts back after my ex wore em, man those were smelling great! XD
If your guy smells bad, buy him a perfume. But if he lacks personality, you can't buy him a personality 🤪
@@geetika9998 that's true ☺
I remember my cousin and I going through our lists with each other growing up. At first it used to be pages long, but over time it has shrunk significantly. The last time it was brought up, we were fresh college grads newly into the work force, and the conversation didn't even last five minutes before we talked about something else 😄😄
Harry's and Peniel's lists are so wholesome whereas the girls are so high maintenance, I can't relate 🤣🤣
Ashley's list was fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Had the best time ever
Highlight of my day
WTF WHEN ASHLEY STARTED READING HERS I LAUGHED SO LOUD 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can totally relate with Ashley and Soobeanies list XD Especially the bad boy part and directions part lol
Didn't expect the girl's list i thought its the other way around hahahaha
Omg IM DYING. This is the best conversation ever!!!! Loved thiiis
We’d love to have another guys vs girls match like this because it’s so fun to see their reactions!
this is my new favourite video 😭😭😭😭😭😭
the boys; list is so..... seriously such a given for everyone. i love it so much when the girls got more specific.
Fucking ph1 makes it hard every episode for me not to ship him and ashley, OFC he had to compliment her and say he liked how specific hers were LOL
omg i ship them so hard at this point lol
FR I’ve been lurking AHHHH silent shipper here hahahahah
ph-1's face the whole time ahahaha priceless 🤣🤣
The hand massage thing is so legittt! 6:35 im surprised, we do that also in the Philippines. It’s an Asian thing for sure! 😂😂
lol the trust thing. I ask my husband what he's doing and who he's with-- because sometimes I'm stuck at work and bored, so I hope he's doing something fun so I can live vicariously through him. 😮💨
I'm on the guys side on this one xD
I love this podcast!
I am a girl but peniel and ph-1 is what I need. I need my space too
While I love the content dive puts out, I feel like they sometimes (although not intentionally) bring gender divide into things. It’s probably a cultural thing maybe… but it’s not always girls and boys, it’s just person to person. Me being a girl related more to Peniel than Ashley.
the girls arent high maintenance at all. ph1 and peniels list was just something thats a given in healthy relationships. this was hilarious tho watching ph1s face😂
what would be high maintenance to you then? lmao
If this ain't going viral I'm done with the netizens
pH-1 and I could be twins. My list is exactly the same for my friends/bfs. Good manners should be essential for everyone, then we wouldn't need to make it number one on a list of requirements for potential partners...When Ashley was reading her list, my face was like Peniel and pH-1's - I feel like I don't qualify as a girl anymore! 😂 Like...why don't you just carry your OWN portable battery or digestive pills...? The perfect quote at the end: "Wow.😐"
Bad boy on the outside but soft on the inside is such a mooooood lol
This is definitely going to the Hall of Fame of Get Real Moments for real
Not that it would had been possible but I HAD crushes on Ashley and Soobeenie.
Omg, the girls did us dirty. So oddly specific and high expectations. I lean more towards the guy’s side. Be kind, respect me, give me some independent time and I’ll do the same for you. Like children. . .
And then of course I have “It would be nice if. . . “ things, like I would really love it if they liked musicals or at least were willing to give them a try, because it’s such an important thing to me. But if they at least respect my tastes I could always go with a friend or on my own. . .
Guys expressions when girls saying their rules...
Now I realize I'm not girl personality when I heard soobin and Ashley list.😂😂😂 .I all agreed in Peniel and pH1 list 😂😂😂
We could absolutely tell both side of women and men which is 360° different to each other only by watching this eps😂
I mean, Ashley is right. All of these prerequisites are the bare minimum.
Lol I actually don’t hate the “no secrets thing”. It’s not like you can’t have any private things but it’s more like I just wanna be able to share too much and have it be Okay lol. I’m chill with TMI. I wanna know even the dumb thing or the weird things.
I love how the girls are laughing the whole time😂
Ashley’s list and mine are the same lol peniel is my ideal guy but I think I lack a couple of his rules
haha this episode made me lol haha i love how the two groups divided.. soobin needs like a personal assistant haha and ofc ashley my girl knows what she wants.. i love how ph1 and peniel made their rules, it is like me :)
LOL here I am taking notes ✍️✍️ 📝
So in conclusion Harry + Peniel & Ash + Soobeanie = perfect match 🥰😂
1. be mature enough to communicate issues and boundaries calmly
2. Actively wants to share and appreciate little moments and experiences with me
3. independently driven (around career and interests)
4. enjoys physical contact
5. Be polite/understanding of others.
5:39 Ph1 n Peniel’s expressions say it all😂 they look so done like thinking why are we even here?
You know, I could go for the whole "hearing their voice once a day" thing. Especially if you're very independent.
I'd like to hear how their day went, even if was just through how tired they were when we'd talk about nothing.
Gurls are Gurls afterall...enjoyed so much😂😂😂
the boys' reaction is everything
I'm on the guys side this time, the girls lists were just way too much 😂
THE WAY MY LIST WAS LIKE THAT BUT WENT TO SIMPLER LIST NOW. I WANNA REWRITE MY LIST THEN MY OLD LIST HAHAHAHAHAHAH
The girls lists are so funny Lmao My list is ore like the guys lol
Harry's reaction is priceless. He looks so shoked hahaha
I love this so much 😂 the differences in the answers are fantastic
I am so sorry but ph1's and soobeanie's lists were literal polar opposites lmaoooo I'm wheezing
This is the funniest thing ever!!!! 🤣
I relate so much to Ashley maybe that’s why I have been single for 22 years 😅
Ph-1 rules is definitely the same with my preference for partner. Damn. Those 5 are just basic thing for good relationship, for me.
pH-1 looks so done😂
Please get Joan here!😁
Omg this combo is AMAzing